My husband and I are getting an uncontested divorce, with no children. I filed the papers, and the guy said he needs to fill out a service waiver, then in 10 days we come back and they pull our file and the judge signs off on it. Well...my ex is now being difficult, so I'm just wondering, if after my 10 days is up, can I go to court myself and automatically get the judge to sign off on it or do we both have to be present?

My wife is very small chested. She's always been self conscious about it and has cried to me saying she wants a boob job. I assure her that she's beautiful and doesn't need to change, I love her the way she is. Recently she's read online that small chested women can rock a blouse without a bra..supposed to be sexy... Well it is! Her nipples show through and it is sooo sexy and turns me on a lot. Problem is she's been going out in public like that. Other men are seeing what only I should be seeing. I've told her I don't like it and she says she doesn't care. "It's not like I have anything to show anyway", "I don't have boobs so what's the deal?". The deal is she's showing her nipples! She's a stay at home mom so she doesn't work but she goes grocery shopping, runs errands etc without a bra. She feels confident and sexy now. I like that she feels good about herself but I really don't like this. It drives me crazy. She's never been a girl who wears tight or provocative clothes. She's always been a "goody good". Now she's dressing like this? Low cut blouses without a bra. Why does she need to be sexy for others? I want her to start wearing a bra in public again but I know it will make her unhappy. And what do women think when they see someone braless? I can only think they roll their eyes or give looks or whisper. I don't want that happening to my wife.. Any suggestions on how to get her to wear a bra again? Or should I just try to get over it? Thanks for any advice.

We were both married. He is my superior. He told me he like me, says I am important to him, invested on me, says I am his blossom friend. Yet he kept mentioning his wife, it envy me and at the same time hurts me. He keep giving me mixed signals. I will occasionally update him about my husband status as well naturally. I don't know what relationship is this? I wanted to run away but I can't. The last time he hugged me real tight I couldn't breathe. I do not know where this is going. There's no clear or answer to this.

This doesn't really happen to males but women, yes. Why does it affect a woman's self-esteem if her husband doesn't find her attractive anymore? Doesn't it matter what she thinks of herself rather than what others do? Stop diverting the question and answer it.

They got engaged after dating about nine months. He drinks most every evening if not every evening and has cheated on her since before they got engaged with someone he has been friends with for years but she has no idea that he does. He says he will stop once they get married. This would be the second marriage for both. Her family and friends love him and he puts on a good public persona, and overall her is a good person. He says this is the first time he has ever cheated on anyone. Could he really love his fiancee and do all this.

These seem to be the two most common complaints about husbands on here and they are in direct conflict with eachother. So, what is the 'right' amount ladies?

I'm considering separation from my wife, need time off of marriage and it's suffocating routine. Don't know if this will be a temporary thing or not. We have a 3 yo daughter and we're both nice to each other...no bad blood or anything. My question is: Have you went through separation? Do you know a website where I can read on similar experiences? I looked but no luck there (most websites are women testimonies). Thanks. Please do not give me "try to fix it" crap. I already tried. Just need testimonies, NOT advice.

My wife had cheated on me last year with a married soldier. He ended up hurting his wife and killing himself last month. She told to me after I discovered that he died. She is in GA right for her pre-deployment training then off to Iraq for a year. If the divorce is a contested and messy one will it keep her from deployment? Do we have to wait a year for her to get back? Does that mean that we cannot date or have relations with others for a year?

let's say he's only interested in marrying a blonde 20-30's .... because he has zero chance of marrying a beautiful woman in his country, is this considered lame and/or selfish and manipulative? ....we have zero blondes here... obese blonde, is 100 times better than women in my country :/

I recently moved into my bosses apartment, we ve been sleeping together for a few months, his wife and him are seperated, but not divorced. We all live together in a 3 bedroom apartment, we re 17 yrs apart in age, should I feel guilty we re sleeping together? They re techinically seperated and sleeping in seperate rooms. She doesn t know we re together. I rent a room in there apartment.

They got engaged after dating about nine months. He drinks most every evening if not every evening and has cheated on her since before they got engaged with someone he has been friends with for years but she has no idea that he does. He says he will stop one they get married. This would be the second marriage for both.

so we've been separated for over a year and she lives elsewhere but we see each other all the time. She won't let me get sexual at all with her...even though I'm really trying with her to get back together. I think she may want to but she's indecisive so I'm not giving up yet and divorce is out of the question at least until next year unless something changes. But I think it's her call. If I could just have sex with her one time could be a start but every time I try and touch her I get "don't" "no" blah blah. Last weekend she stayed over my house and I woke up in bed and I had a half erection and it slipped out of my boxers and I hardly got a reaction. wtf? Do I need pheromones or something. I tried to get her drunk but she doesn't get drunk like she used to. Do I need to get her really, really drunk or drug her? I just want to **** her!

We have been in the divorce process for over two years. She didn't show up to court, and now she is sentenced to give the car back (financed on my name) and pay me for using the car while I was paying the financed monthly payments (up to 6k). The sentence of final divorce has been given up to 2 months ago. But she disappeared, she made no effort to give the car back. I hired a private investigator, and she failed, I can not report stolen because she is my ex-wife (cops regulations). Her address that she used for court papers she hasn't lived there for over a year, she hasn't show up at her job for over two months. She deleted her Facebook. I'm even considering to post an ad on craigslist! Please help. I will make comments on answers, thanks a lot for the help. Whoever presents me with a next step I will give the best answer. Bay area, California

I was in a homeless shelter with my husband and daughter. Before me and my husband were living separate. He started to get feelings for this other homeless girl while wee were there. But it wasn't just that I feel put me down , it was when people would see me going threw this large black bag getting my clothes from the storage shelter. Or random people offering me food. The feeling of having nowhere to go and having a daughter . And sometimes when they had chapel I would have to wait outside in the corner where there was trash everywhere. Housing found us an apartment but I don't feel the same no matter what I do

My wife and I have been separated for 2 months now. We don't have any children. I bought a new place for myself while she's staying at our house. We both own the house. Anyways, that's not the issue. She's solely paying the house bills since she's the one who's currently living there. The issue is why has she started dating right now. We're not divorced yet. When we were together I paid $3700 for her breast augmentation. So, I believe that rightfully gives me some authority over her. But, she doesn't get it. I told her she shouldn't date anyone when our divorce hasn't yet been finalized. I told her I had the right to tell her to stop but she didn't get the picture.

I ask this because I suspect a married man, in order to not raise suspicion from his wife (i.e. hiding calls as they come in from other women) takes calls and/or texts from other women in front of her (and/or while he's at home with his wife) and by keeping the conversations non-romantic, he thinks he can pull the wool over his wife's eyes by making his wife think he's just talking to friends that aren't other women.

I was talking to a guy on omegle who told me he was in his mid 30's I'm 21. He was asking if he was too old to be on omegle, and it he was cheating. I asked him if he was flirting with any of the users he said no. Gradually this guy started to the flirt with me as we continued to talk. He noted that I was much skinnier than his 345 pound wife. He also noted that I was much prettier than his wife, And he preceded to tell me that his wife isn't as attractive as me. and that I'm more stylish than his wife. He continued to talk about how his wife has no style. I suggested to him that maybe his wife wears unflattering clothes on her body because she's insecure about her weight. So I suggested him to have her join a gym, or at least suggest alternative clothes for her. After I said that he goes, you would never wear what my wife wears would you? Besides that, he ignores his wife texts when we talk, he lies to his wife about what he's doing, and calls me pretty. Besides calling me pretty he made a few attempts to to send me money which I obviously declined since he's a stranger on the internet. He preceded to ask me if his wife would be mad if he sent me money to which I replied yes. His wife even noticed he was happier than usual after he got off talking to me, and he lied to his wife and said his football game won. His other comments about him missing me and other stuff concerns me too. I really feel that what this guy is doing is cheating. I sometime use omegle when I'm bored and every time I run into him with mutual tags on bands he says I missed you, you're so pretty etc. I feel like when this guy asks repeatedly if he's cheating, on being unfaithful to his wife I think that's a sign you're cheating or being unfaithful I even tried to say stuff like you married your wife for a reason right, I mean you do love her right, to try and get him to appreciate his wife @OwenE I told him that since I can tell he doesn't love his wife, he needs to divorce her. That's being disrespectful to wife by constantly lying to her, all while flirting with me

I am the women.

And is it too young to marry? Sorry aboth that picture didn't mean to put that one up

For some married men turning to porn and masturbation or even cheating on their spouse. Is it true that when he is emotionally neglected by the wife (and she doesn't want to do anything to strengthen the love in marriage), he is likely to do all this to her? (regardless of character, and stress, house chores is not an excuse) @Rebecca, that's not what I asked. Emotional neglect seems to be the biggest reason; I doubt its selfishness. If your spouse isn't neglected, there wouldn't be any cheating. Lets assume in this scenario that he has communicated with her already; and this is not part of the question. Some people consider porn and masturbation cheating, which is strange.

He claims that he is doing research so that he can become a relationship dating coach to help men who are awkward get women. He says that if he could get the number of strippers then he could teach other men to do the same. He originally denied even going to the strip club because I wouldn't understand but then I presented him with what I found and he got very upset and said that I was invading his privacy etc... I don't have solid proof because he has destroyed or hid the notebook. Thank you everyone for your input, I know that he is lying about his motivations, the thing is that I can;t prove that any sexual activity took place, I was tempted to call one of the strippers to see if they did indeed did business, however I don't think i will get a straight answer. I have offered to leave and let him do what he wants to do but he swears he wants to be committed and stay together. We have children and I am not financially stable enough to leave. He did stop going to the strip clubs and I checked the call history and he has ceased calling them, however he could be calling from another phone now that he knows I am onto him.

He also is saying he won't talk to anyone about it counselor, friends, family, etc. He says he wants to work it out but won't do anything with me. Keeps saying he doesn't want to hurt me but doesn't want to leave. Claims I changed and that's why he is leaving. The only thing that has changed is we bought a house and I got a job promotion.

Hi, I'm 24 guy & at my point in my life I've decided to stay single. I'm so tried of being used & laughed at by women. I've been used by women who turned out to be lesbians (which I didn't know). Anyway, my question is, how do u have trust with your spouse when they can really hurt u at any time??? I know a women who was married to a man but over time she started to have feelings for other women & had affairs with other women & left him & left him broken hearted. I know women (and men) who have gotten married & cheated on their spouses or got bored & left their spouses. And Now I think why be with a woman, with fear of her hurting me or using me? I don't think I could get married, I mean with the high divorce rate & problems that couples have. Is it worth losing your freedom over??? So, how do u trust your spouse? What gives u assurance that your spouse won't cheat or leave u or hurt u? Thanks for answering

He has tried the "snore solutions" thingie that you put over your mouth but it didn't work. He's not overweight!

hjvhjkk we were never legally married. Neither of us felt that we should have to ask permission from a government to do this. We are both aristocrats living primarily in switzerland. A bishop married us. I have stopped supporting her financially and she has left my home. She is no longer welcome in any of my homes, and I have kept anything of value which she had, but was purchased with my money ( all of it being in my name). A large portion of her personal wealth was put in my control to offset the should i keep those assets, or turn them to her control.. they make up about 10% of my net worth I and most of my family believe those assets (the dowry her family provided before we married) are rightfully mine, and legally nobody can take them away from me. but some people have told me that the right thing for me to do is to return them to her control. what do you think I should also add that I slept with other women, but it was agreed that that would be alright as long as it was discreet, and only done with women far removed from our social circle. I honored that commitment when she cheated on me I was in Jail in NYC for a fight i got into 5 years before in a bar. I was denied bail because I am a U.S. resident and not a citizen, and spent three months there. The moral issue and question I have is "what should I do about these assets I acquired by marrying her". Not whether I was wrong or whether she was wrong in cheating or whatever. I am already resolved about that, and both of us agree that she was in the wrong. Marriage has been annulled and it is over. i could never be in a relationship with someone who betrayed my trust. she knows that and agrees. whether you agree with our decision regarding me sleeping with other women is of no consequence. I am asking what your opinion is regarding these assets which produce income, and used to hers and get families, but now are mine.

Is this normal? I get that some guys really like receiving oral, but is it really better than actual intercourse?? Nooo...I never said that's ALL he wants nor that he just lays there, but it is his preference. He gives just as much as he receives.

Enen tho I really don't want it?

for years shes expressed she doesent want me to watch porn because i shouldnt need eny thing else to turn me on i only need her and first we argued about it than i said ok ill stop and come to find out she watches it regularly and when i asked her about it she denied it and lied till i showed evidence than she say it was just that one time because she was curious. but she still watches them. and side knot she barley wants to have sex maybey once or twice a month. o and one more thing i said why we cant just watch it together and her response was she dont want me to get off on watching the women on the porn witch is very contradicting

So my wife of 12 years has been cheating on me and needless to say we are divorcing. She gave me back the wedding ring which I spent a lot of time arranging and hunting down. It has over 2.8 ct of clear diamonds and it's valued at 18,500. This is not a Zales ring, it an A jaffe. So my question is: Would it be okay if I gave this ring to my next wife? or is that just wrong. Thanks..

I was reading an interesting answer and this poster suggests to simply move on, what do you say? (link): https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20150118172320AAqJOrm

A guy that truly likes you doesnt continue on a match site Shawn: you really helped me. I just picked the first person because they also helped, and they helped first, an hour ago. Both anonymous and Shawn thank you. John, thanks also

Been married 5 years...sex was incredible while dating/engaged and has slowly died out. It's practically awkward. If expressed my feelings, but they fall on deaf ears. THX!