Do you think no matter what all people will always have feelings for the person they had a child with. It seems like almost every time this topic comes up people say oh they're your child's mother/father you will always love them. But I have a 5 year old with an ex and have no feelings for him at all. He even got married less than a year after we split and I felt no jealousy, etc. But I hate hearing people say that, because my boyfriend (who I have 1 child with and another on the way) has 2 kids from a previous relationship which ended close to 4 years ago, and it took him time to get over wanting to get back with her, even though the break up was mutual because they were always fighting and she is money hungry, but I'm not sure if it was her or because he missed his kids he barely got to see after they broke up. I don't want to start thinking he still loves her.

Gregory the way you talk is very powerful can I speak to you privately?

My wife always gives our next door neighbor and his wife a wet kiss on the mouth when they come over for drinks. They seem to love it but is this appropriate behavior?

I've been "talking" to this guy off and on for a year. The only thing he ever wants to do is have me over to his place. I have asked him to go places with me and to come to my place and he never does. He refuses to take me on a date. Every time I bring up wanting to go out, he says he works out of town so much that all he wants to do is be lazy at home with a girl and I need to get used to it. He would never date me or be in a relationship because I wouldn't sleep with him, and he said he needed to see how freaky I was. I always felt like he was talking to other girls on the side and he never made me feel like I was his priority. Plus every time we got close he pushed me away. So I left him alone. Now 3 months later he tells me he wants to date me and work towards a relationship, we had sex, and he STILL doesn't know if he wants to date. I don't need a label but I want to know where I stand!! He tells me I'm so pushy and scare him, but I feel USED! I wouldn't "push" anything if we were just hanging out getting to know each other. He keeps wanting to see more sexually, like I have to prove myself. He also says he isn't sure about me because he wants a girl who never gives up and I did, I dated another guy....while he was having sex with another girl!! I can't do anything right with him and I always feel like he's looking for better and will disappear once he does, I have no security with him. He will also go distant and then try to make me jealous. I get blamed so much and made to feel like I'm in trial. I know I should walk away but I've invested all this time and i love up, but be honest, have I done something wrong? I can't seem to do anything right when it comes to him.

Without fail, my 9 year old daughter and 11 year old son always interrupt time with me and my wife. I've tried a setting boundaries with them. Nothing works. I can't have sex with my wife because they refuse to let us be alone. When we do have sex, we are quiet too, they bang and scream on our bedroom door until one of us opens it. They still try to pull the while 'I had a bad dream, can I sleep with you guys' thing. It's almost every night and I just want some dang alone time with my wife. We've tried babysitters and what not, but they act so defiant the babysitter leaves. I can't even hug my wife without them literally getting between us. They follow us around and they have to be near one of us if they think we are goung to be alone together. I'm really starting to resent them. I regret having kids. Please don't roast me, this kinda turned into a rant. Please help, I desperately need alone time with my wife.

My daughter is now 3 years old. when she was a year and a half I had to ask her father and his parents to take her in as her father had frozen our accounts on me [we were never married] and i lost my home. for the past year and a half it has been a hassle to even see her in his parents home. I want to take her to the pumpkin patch [I live in Will County, IL] and he's saying no. If I call the police, will they allow me to take her for the evening to go to the pumpkin patch with out her father? We have never went to court for visitation as i have been terrified of what kind of lawyer they can afford. I have never done anything to loose any sort of custody of her but like i said, his parents have money and that terrifies me of what they can do so I've been "playing ball" with them and I am fed up! I want to be able to take my daughter for the weekend and take her to dinner w/o him saying that he has to come with! we're not together anymore due to him laying his hands on me and cheating!

I am a 27 year old married mother of 3. My older two children, ages 7 and 8 are from a previous marriage and my youngest is 1. My ex husband is older than me so while we were together he would go to the bar and such without me since I wasn't old enough, and would leave me home with the kids. I've always kind of resented him for that. My current husband is currently 4 hours north of me with his cousin for a convention for their union. I will admit that when he first brought the trip up to me I was extremely jealous. I was totally able to go, but someone has to be here with the kids and we had no one to do it. Earlier this summer he went camping with our daughter, but I was not able to go because of work (I am now a sahm) and right before the kids went back to school he took them to the water park, and I was not able to go as it was too hot for our youngest to be out. My husband just told me that him and his cousin were talking about going to mackinaw island tomorrow and I kind of got really upset (right before he went on this trip I mentioned taking all the kids there next summer because they asked about going to the U.P.). I just feel like I am always the one to be left out of everything. Am I being ridiculous? I am never the one who gets to get away (with or without the kids).

I recently got a job that requires me to travel. Does this mean I gotta get a lawyer? A little history, her father abandoned her for 6 months at the age of 10 months old. Then he came back and we did a final parenting plan in which he sees her 3 timea a week. Do I have a strong case to convince the judge? No rude comments, Thank you.

The wife violates the privacy of the husband by checking his phone against his wishes. The husband violates the trust of his wife by having had cheated. Both are at fault. Which is worse? Who is more to blame?

It's been a year and 2 months that I haven't been able to conceive. I already had a check up and my doctor only did blood work. She said everything is fine and my hormones are good and I should be able to conceive and she said I'm still really young(23). I been really depress because I want a baby so bad. Every time my step kids come to our home I get in a bad mood. My husband has two kids from his ex wife. A 9 year old and a 6 year old. I know it's not the kids fault but I can't help it. He has two kids already and I have nothing. I feel so alone sometimes because I moved 40 min away from my parents so I have no friends or family close by. I work full time and go to school full time so I only have time once a week to visit them. My husband is a hard worker and he is always busy. He pretty much doesn't make any money after child support he gets 450 a week when his checks should be 1,000 a week. So he works on the side as well. He doesn't support me at all we split bills and are pretty much don't have any money since we just bought our new home. (You ask why are trying to have a kid then) well I think he has the right to move on with his life and I have the right to at least have one baby!! I think it's unfair that my husband pays so much money and has them 3-4 times a week.

A guy in his 40 ' s that you are dating, would mention to you when he finds an attractive woman in public ? Or when he sees a woman in tv he'd like to have sex with ?

Would you move out of the country or out of state for someone you love?

Been married for 13 years, we have had our ups and downs but I feel like my marriage is failimg servely and I dont know how to fix it. How dont know how to move on from the past. We have gone to marroage counceling for a few months and it worked for a little bit, I dont want to spendy life in marriage counseling nor do I want a divorce.y husband doesnt even seem to care if I say Im leaving.Help anyone!! How did you fix your marriage?

My dad is a 52 year old straight male that I would consider to be fairly unattractive. So my dad and my mom never show affections towards each other (that I know of) and constantly have mild arguments. For a long time, my dad stayed at someone else's (a guy) house because his job is far away and he would stay there during the weekdays except for on wednesdays. Now, he has been staying at our house instead of the other since that guy got a wife so he had to move out. About every weekday he has been going to the gym after work for around 4 hours. Today, I asked him about why he stays for so long since 4 hrs is sort of unreasonable(and he still has a potbelly after all this?) and he responded saying that he has to warm up and drive there. Then I said driving is only 15min and warm up does not take that long(I gave a suspicious tone hinting that I might know that somethings up). Later after like 10min, he brings up that topic again by making an excuse that it actually takes 20min to drive. The fact that he took 10min to bring that up might mean that he was thinking about it the entire time during that duration. I know this is probably very little to get suspicious of and im probably making too big of a deal out of it, but my mom and dads relationship never seemed that good. My dad isn't someone that I would see be capable of doing that. I'm really hoping that this isn't true. What do you think and how do you think I should go about to find the truth?

I am a Muslim. I came to the USA as an immigrant in 1995 as a kid. Now I work in a law firm that I joined a few months ago. Marriages are arranged in my culture and dating/premarital relationships are considered a taboo. My boss is a also a Muslim. He is very nice guy. He treats me like a daughter. His son is six years older than me. He is a doctor. I have seen him a few times, but I haven't thought much about him. They are financially very well off! Anyways, a few day ago, my boss called me in and asked if I would like to marry his son? It took me by surprise! I mean, I am flattered but I don't know what to do? My boss said, that he is willing to talk to my parents and ask them for my hand in marriage for his son!

My ex husband has custody over my child and I have no guardianship of any type over him. His house is nasty, unclean, has roaches and ants, extremely dirty yard, he is unemployed, my son hates his school, barely has any clothes, calls me crying because of arguments at their house. He is in a horrible environment. We are willing to pay any costs and my son is ready to go to court if he needs to. How can I get him in my guardianship without his permission or is this possible?

Sorry this is long but this is important and drama filled. Me and my husband are happily married and i love him with all my heart. But i have expressed that i want to have children of my own or its a deal breaker for me and he has told me from the beginning that he does want children with me. He had a vasectomy with his ex wife because he didnt want to get her pregnant anymore. He has 3 kids with her all in their teens. He promises to have a reversal vasectomy when he gets his bonus. I meantioned ivf but i obviously need him for that. When i ask about it he gets mad and says "he doesnt know how to find anybody". Which is an obvious lie. So, i find a place that does ivf just to give him info on how it works and a vasectomy reversal doctors office and he avoids it at all cost. He promises to call a place and never does it at all. Im starting to feel tricked. Hes 35 so its not too late for him. He avoids it entirely. I dont want to have to leave him, but it has been my goal to have children one day and he has done absolutely nothing. Cost isnt an issue since he got his bonus and he promised hed get it done as soon as he got it, but all he does is look at cars and things for his teenaged kids. Which im not complaining, im glad hes doing things for them but he has enough to provide for both the process and his kids. Whats wrong with wanting a child between us? I feel confused and tricked. Its driven me to tears. Advice much needed. Thanks.

It's just playful fun. Nothing serious like yelling at her and dominating her in public like a child, just being playful and not acting my age. She's very strict on what is and isn't acceptable behavior.

I have been married for eight years and have been a housewife the whole time. My husband wants a divorce. I want to go back to school. I will be done in two years if i go back full time. Will i be able to recive alimony?

Befor our 2nd child was born my husband requested that I get my tubes tied. He even signed the paperwork on my behalf during a c section since I couldn't. We talked about it some before the c section but I never agreed to the surgery. He claims the reason he signed it was because our son was born with multiple ture knots in the umbilical cord and the Dr's said it was a mirical he was breathing and it also explained my high blood pressure and our son's lack of growth. I was 38 weeks pregnant when I agreed to let the Dr's do a c section. Well now Iv had nothing but health problems that are linked to the tubial ligation and my autoimmune problems that have been in remission for 8 years has shown up again which my Dr says is a side effect of the tubial. We BOTH sat down with my Dr and he says the only way to calm down and stop my health problems is to get my tubial reversed. My husband wast happy about it at all and when we got home that night he kept arguing with me about how he didn't want any more kids and the risk isn't worth it even if it would be beneficial for my health to get the surgery he even had to bring up that we can't afford the surgery because it's not covered by insurance but yet I'm the one who does the finances and know we can afford it if we put the extra money aside instead of spending it all on his dirt track race car. How can I get through his thick skull that the surgery is for my health and not for having kids? Iv had multiple talks but he won't listen.

Sorry in advance if this become a longer rant than it should be. I currently work for my father in law at a business that he owns. I got this job because my wife s brother who is constantly in trouble for drug related activities got arrested and he is the only other employee at this place. So therefore I said yes to helping out for four months until he was free. My friends it is now a year and half going on two years later. The guy has gotten out and rearrested several times with no sign of his next release. The job is ok but unfortunately and I hate to sound so cliche but my father in law is an absolute terror. He talks down to me, gets angry daily at stupid things, always preaching his hateful racist ways to me and insults my intelligence. Yet if I miss work he acts like the world ended cuz it s so hard without help. Not to mention I m still getting paid under the table with no sign of that changing. My wife I can tell secretly wants me to stay there and help him. She never is interested when I talk of other jobs or my situation with her dad. This job weather she admits or not or atleast on my end is taking a toll on our marriage. Nobody seems to care and I m just beaten down and more depressed than I ve ever been. I can barely wake up in the mornings and I just assume get in a wreck on the way than have to pull into that hell hole. Idk what to do and any advice helps.

We work out together but it just feels awkward to talk to him. He knows I exist, okay. We've been working out in the same gym for several years now. I don't have problems initiating conversation with other people because there's 0 attraction there. Go for it or not? Keep in mind that I'm married and I don't plan on cheating. D'oh!

After 10 years of marriage and almost three years of open honesty, my husband has finally accepted that I am, indeed, poly and has allowed me to start seeing another man. It has been going very well. We are all very happy, but my OSO (other significant other) is a very private person and has pains and hurts he only wants to be shared with me. When he texts me these very personal things I delete them. When my husband saw that I was deleting text messages he said he felt excluded and wants me not to delete anything between us. This bothers both me and my OSO because he feels like he can't tell me things in confidence. I'm not sure what kind of privacy I can expect between the two of them. I would never dream of telling my husband's personal problems to my OSO. Is it fair that my husband asks me to share those things about my OSO? What a close-minded group of small people.

There's a side to my story that I've never really told. For those who are answering this question and it's your first one, none of this detail may make sense so please don't try to devil's advocate this okay? I grew up a very happy and optimistic boy. Even though the kids at school disliked me and bullied me regularly, I still did my part in trying to be their friend and part of the community. But for reasons I still don't understand, no one wanted to be MY friend back. This hurt my self confidence. Instead of making friends, I dated girls (started when I was 9). Girlfriends swore an oath to be good to you in exchange for you being good to them; I loved that I had a place to belong since I had a girlfriend! Well, until I didn't any more; then I got sad again. My wife grew up a very shy and reserved girl. She didn't trust anyone since her parents made her cynical of anyone's good deeds. When she met me online, she must have been acting, because I saw none of this in her behavior. Then and again, we were 19/20 years old back then (2001).... But from what I know, her "friendships" were all men who wanted in her pants, and remnants of the groups she was forced to join to make her parents happy (like girl scouts). And the few "real" friends she actually had were just people who enjoyed drinking with her and doing drugs. She abandoned them to live 2 hours away from home with me. Today, neither of us have friends. Do you think our lack of proper socialization hurts our marriage? Maybe my question is a little vague (curse you character limits!) -- my question is this: Can a person with no experience on how to properly be a friend, because all your friendships were either (a) not existent or (b) not real, learn how to be a good marital partner? The more I talk to all of you, the more I get a sense that friendship comes first; but what if it didn't come first and sex came first, then children, and then romance? How do you have romance when you don't know how to be friends? My wife is my best and only friend at this point. Prior to this I had a few male friends, but for various reasons I've chosen to stop being their friend (mostly due to their lack of morals and they misogyny). I've had female friends too, but my wife gets too jealous so I can't keep those friendships for very long until she picks fights with me over the attention I give them. Also, women have a tendency to pry into my relationship and show me what's wrong with it, then offer unsolicited advice... By the way, by drugs I just mean weed. She had one group of boys who did acid but they weren't very close to her; she just hung out with them because it was something to do (or so I think anyways). I think she babysat them when they were tripping and she was laughing the whole time; but that's about all there was. She lived in the country and there really wasn't much to do without Cable or a proper downtown with businesses and festivals. There was a horse show, but that only happened once a year

I have been a housewife for eight years. Im returning to school and my husband will cosign. Now he wants a divorce. What will happen with the loan?

To start with, we haven't had a lot of sex lately because I'm pregnant, in the third trimester. It's nearly impossible for me to have sex with him. I've had many fears before about him cheating on me, and I even have FREQUENT nightmares about it. Today I found porn on his computer and I'm not okay with the idea of him looking at other girl's p*ssies. It disturbs me and it's not like my "needs" are being fulfilled either but I'm not looking other places for it. I discussed this with a close friend earlier and she advised me that I should resolve it before it turns into cheating. Now I'm wondering if he already has cheated or is just considering it. How do I resolve this?

He is accusing me of hiding something from him. I work from home.. so its not like I go anywhere to lose something. I probably removed the trinket while cleaning out my pocketbook and failed to return it. I asked him while I was driving to get out some change that we needed for a drink at the gas station. He noticed it was gone and its been hell since. Am I missing something here? Its not like he spent lots of $$ to get it for me and its not like he doesn t have 100 s more. We are both in our 50 s and quite frankly I forget a lot of things.. so its not uncommon for me to have misplaced this. He says its not the issue of the misplaced item.. he will give me another. Its the principal that I "hid" this from him. Anyone understand something I am missing here? If so, please explain. I am lost.

she was always late and has had thousands of dollars on car tickets that ive paid.. she now wants the car back. what can I legally do to take the title from her I've been paying the car insurance and car payments for the past 7 months

My wife is a pretty lousy wife. She's a terrific mother, but she just sucks at this whole relationship thing. She's not difficult to live with though so I stick around waiting for that spark to reignite; but it isn't reigniting no matter what I try. As many of you on here have put it - we are "roommates". We raise our children together and we make SOME decisions together, but we didn't have to get married to do either of those things. No, I was vowed/promised a romantic, unconditional life with occasional sex; to have and to hold, 'til death do us 'part. My wife told me stories that the only thing that motivated her in school was the fear of her parents' discipline since they made her older brother's life hell. She did her classwork and got straight A's because if she didn't then she would become the center of negative attention and have a bad reputation. She grew up only wanting positive attention and to maintain a positive reputation (Her parents constantly put her in things and it made protecting her reputation very hard since she refused to practice things she wasn't good at). But this is the only motivation story she gave me. I don't have any clue on how to motivate my wife to be a better wife though. It appears that the only thing that works is domineering her since treating her to a good time outside the home only leads to us talking about the kids over dinner (oh, how romantic)... I'm seriously bored of this relationship; most guys would cheat/divorce in my shoes... By the way, not trying to change or control my wife. I'm just trying to motivate her to be better towards me. She doesn't have to enjoy doing it, and she doesn't have to change her natural instincts of clearly hating men, she just needs to be motivated to participate in this marriage more than just asking me to do things for her and the kids. There has to be something more in it for me. If she can't love me, then at least she can make my stay feel more welcome or pleasurable.

So I only work part time and I m a new mom to a 7 month old. My husband works full time and I m working because I have credit card debt I need to pay off. But I hate my job and it s only minimum wage to bring in extra cash per month. Should I quit? I hate it and I know there s a lot of single moms out there who don t get a lot of time with their kids and power to them because they are strong. Idk what s wrong with me I miss my child all day and I hate my job idk if I need a different one because I balance my hours around my husband s hours because day care is so expensive. So either I m watching her or my husband is. Idk what to do. Advice?

What I'm about to describe is a really typical: I went out this morning at 7am to work (it was actually for a paid clinical trial because we're so broke, I also run a business and work part time as catering staff). When I got back, my husband was watching "Family Guy". He then decided to get some "work done" which involved him looking on Facebook to catch up on his political opinions because he's crazy about Israel and Palestine. He then had a sleep at about 2pm. I then told him that a cheque that had been paid to me for some work I'd done had bounced which meant that the rent wasn't going to get paid, at which point he decided to go and borrow some cash from his 80year old mum (he's 50). I said I was going to get some work done, but he begged me to come. I came, but on the way back he said he didn't have time to drop me home because he wanted to go to a Israel/Palestine protest (even though I have work this evening) and he dumped me about a mile away from home and he told me to walk home in the cold. He hasn't even picked up groceries/ done laundry/ done any house work. I'm SO ashamed of him. If I say anything things get nasty and we have a child, so I just keep my mouth shut and rely on myself, but I'm so ashamed. He's a lot older than me (I'm 30 and he's 50) and he's useless. He's a busker and he earns F.A, it's all about his ego/ his right to sit around the house doing nothing. I'm so angry at him!!! Is this normal?

I have a husband that I knows lie constantly. We have kids together but he lies so much that I no longer want to talk to him. Don't want to break up the family and he doesn't want counseling. I don't want divorce/ What are my options?

Trick question. I filed a order of protection against my husband. The problem is he has a child that I have no rights to. Will the courts still enforce my order of protection event though I have no rights to the child. I'm just a occupant in the home while my husband is head of household.

Being a good mother to your children is only ONE facet of a good wife, but I'm having a hard time articulating what a "good wife" would be to my wife so she can know the difference between meeting the minimums and being my everything. And for those who want to argue the opposite (husband/father), answer both sides of the fence or don't answer at all. I'm not in the mood today for your "Devil's Advocate" ways of teaching lessons. Sometimes women misbehave, and we have to make them see the error in their ways or else they will feel entitled to things they didn't earn.

I tried to ask this question earlier but for some reason it got reported and deleted. I honestly can't tell the difference between a woman who's in it for the marriage and a woman who's in it for raising the kids; how do you tell if a woman wants a relationship with her spouse or just wants to use him since he agreed to raise/parent their children? Since my wife is reading my questions again (and paranoid that someone is going to Google her real name and find all of this information some how), I figure I might as well start taking advantage of her attention so she can see how her behavior could be seen as unloving, uncaring, and not wanting a husband.

Do people cheat out of guilt My husband recently admitted (because I begged to know why he was acting so different) he has been cheating w his ex He said after the first time he didn't want to again but she maid him feel guilty, he only stayed in contact because they have a child together. We have been together for 7 years and their affair started about 11months ago. I don't think it's an emotional affair, I check our cell phone records and there aren't many calls or text between them and Im pretty sure he only sees her when visiting his daughter which is only 1 or 2 days a week. We work and live together so most the time I know what he's up too. What are the chances he really does only feel bad for her so he gives in once in a while to her????? Can he care for her and stay in such small contact with her??? Can he love me and still cheat on me?

Every time my wife goes to her parents house she is changed when back home. She starts fighting,arguing and end up in crying on minor issues. Its been 3 years since engaged and last year we got married. Her parents are always against me from the beginning. I am fed up with these arguments. I some times feel that we are not going to last anymore. I don't want to lose her, i love her a lot. I feel helpless, I cant even stop her from going to her parents house because it is her right.. Please Suggest me something to get out of this situations

I'm a 40 year old mother of three boys. And I've been married for 15 years. After my third child, it was hard getting back into shape. But I'm proud to say I have achieved it. In fact, I've gotten back to being a size 4! I currently work as a cocktail waitress. Anyway, about three years ago, I met this girl, in a coffee shop. She was 20 at the time. She told me that she use to be a model, but gave it up because she hated the people she worked with. We hit it off real well, and quickly became friends. But after a time, we became more than friends. The first time we slept together, was after having seen a movie. The second time, was at her 21st birthday. Anyway we've been a couple for the last three years. Every time we sleep together, I feel more in love with her than ever before. But I find myself thinking about my husband. How do I tell him I'm not in love with him, not in that way, anymore? I know I'm doing my husband wrong, which is why I honestly want to tell him, even though I'm not sure how. But I wonder, is it wrong for me to be in love with a girl young enough to be my daughter?

Any and every comment would be great! In/out of bed, in public, on dates. The more exciting and thrilling the better! Ideas for either me or her to do to keep the fire lit! Thank you!

It's understandable right? If I decide to leave in time, I refuse to deal with these things for the rest of my life. I lost my trust on my husband when he started to lose respect for me. He never listens to what I say, when I talk he never lets me finish, sex is bad, he checks out women in front of me often and one time forced to convinced me that it's ok to have a female student IN HIS ROOM and DOORS CLOSED. He has temper issues, often raising voice at me, struggling with jobs, lying about many things. We can't afford to move in to a new place, I just moved from the other side of the world to be with him and still studying the language so I can apply for a job and help him. I live in house with his family who constantly screams, fights, make noises, angry and complaining at small things (even if I'm helping with cleaning or so) But they all can be nice too so it's confusing. He can be a loving husband but something in me felt broken and I feel that damage can't be undone with how he made me feel with our fights and the things he did that hurt me deeply. I don't want to live like this.

I dont know I do it, but evidently at 3am after our new 2 month old won t fall asleep, i get frustrated and have a "tone" to my voice. This is what my wife tells me. I do not know that my voice has changed, to me it seems like it would be raspy as I have old talked in hushed tones to the baby. Apparently I have a condescending tone, or an accusatory feel. How can I correct this as it is effecting my marriage? I want to make this happen.

This happens every morning. I can wake him up a gently as possible and he always gasps and jumps up a little with his eyes wide open as if he's expecting me to be standing over him with a knife. He has a lot of baggage from years ago when he spent time in prison for a little over a decade and when his different family members would abuse him in every way possible as a child, and he has been diagnosed with ptsd. Is that what it is, over is something else wrong?

I'm back to work after being down from surgery. I'm working a full & part time job and I work 6 days a week. He had a 3 day weekend, I had Saturday off which was spent cleaning with the kids & doing errands. He spent it drinking with his brother and his wife. I've spent years being treated like garbage by those 2 so I finally put my foot down and told them off. He knows I hate having them over but he invited them over 3 days in a row. Because he was home yesterday I asked him to please do a quick cleanup - pick up the kitchen and run a fast vacuum. I got home from work after putting in an extra hour and I had to go back for a staff meeting later on, nothing was done. He claimed he did it but it was clearly obvious that he hadn't. He went off about doing chores and taking out the a/c's - he took out 1, the other 2 are still in. I could tell by the bed he had taken a nap as well. Now he's going off about not appreciating him and his hard work and slept on the couch. Am I wrong to be angry that he didn't help out? Am I wrong to be mad that the people who treat me like crap have been invited over for the past 3 days? 2 days I come home from work to find them there. I'm so done with him

She got kicked out by her now ex-boyfriend. She has nowhere to go. Problem is that for the first time in 15 years I feel insecure and jealous. All of a sudden we have this very attractive girl in our home and I suspect my husband likes her very much. I thought I trusted my husband but now I am not that sure anymore. I don't know if it is jealousy or my gut feeling but I am very anxious at this moment. Do you have any advice? She is a friend of my husband from when they were at school. My husband is constantly with her when we are home. He can't talk about anything else but her. It is been two weeks. Can't say that she does anything wrong. Her ex-boyfriend has beaten her so she slept on the streets for two nights. I don't see that she will be able to go anywhere else for now

My husband never initiates sex, it's always me, most times begging for it. I detest it, when we do have sex (once a month) it's boring. Me on top and him usually reading the news on his laptop-asking if I am done. (How rude!) He dislikes pleasing me, says going down on me is not his thing and he's never liked it with any other woman either, (Yes I am clean & very hygienic) I am very beautiful, wear perfume, light natural makeup, and wear lingerie. He is very emotional & short fuse, he says he is tired or stressed at work, that he has to be in a good mood to initiate sex, and that having angry sex is nasty because sex should be a form of love. I have deep urges of lustful passion, I am adventurous & Sex to me is a form of Art, it is an expression of hunger, validation, and communication and yes of course connection. I am purely Latin (French & Spanish) 26, He Moroccan & 39 Constant rejection is affecting my self-esteem; being approached for sex makes me feel young, alive & powerful. I am starting to feel worthless & resentful towards him, although I think about it, cheating is not an option for me. People be nice and send me your advice and encouraging words xoxoxoxo! Much love ☺

Any and every comment would be great! In/out of bed, in public, the more exciting and thrilling the better!