I don't know, it seems like none of my friends are virgins anymore, and I'm worried that once I get to college next year guys are going to think I'm weird because I haven't even kissed a guy yet. I'm so embarrassed but I'm wondering what you all think about this

I love getting and giving hickies to my boyfriend. I'm 17 and still a virgin, but my boyfriend and been together for 4 years now. My mom thinks I'm having sex because I always end up with hickies on my neck. I don't want to stop getting them though.

Ive been dating this guy weren't exclusive but he has told me on several occasions told me he isn't seeing anyone else and i know that im not seeing anyone either. he told me that im the first girl in 3 years that he's seen more than once and he asked me why i would do if i got pregnant and i told him id have the kid cause i can't bring myself to get and abortion, and then told me what he would like to name our kids if i get pregnant (im on birth control) he was even discussing middle names. and the other night when we were fooling around we stopped to catch our breath and he put my hand on his heart and made me feel how fast it was beating and earlier that night one of his buddies called and he told his friend, who was trying to get him to come party, that "my lady friend is over and im in for the night" so idk what his friends know about me or what he meant when he called me his "lady friend" does that mean that im a potential girlfriend or what? cause im almost positive im not a booty call cause ive been to his place the last 3 friday nights in a row and he invited me next weekend, and he texts me to make sure i get home okay. he has also offered to get me a puppy and he seems to want me around but since we haven't discussed being exclusive i don't know how serious he is or if he is just a really smooth talker.he also told me he likes our weedends and that he can't ever sleep without taking melatonin except for when im over. Any advice? Thanks in advance!

I recently started seeing a guy I used to hang out with again. We have a lot in common, always have fun together. He tells me all the time I beautiful and perfect. Recently we had sex, and now I'm blocked from his facebook. Did he really just want to have sex and that's it? I don't understand why he would do that, I'm extremely upset about it and don't know how to feel. I know I'm worth so much more and I just want some advice on this it would help. Thank you!

I have a crush on this girl who is very curvy, but she has a fat belly. Is it normal to be attracted to a fat girl? I cuddled with her last night and her soft body felt really nice lol

Lol I already know this is an odd question. And I know its legal to marry her. Im asking how can we get to know each other. She is suuuper pretty, and im not over exaggerating. For real, she's hot! I sometimes go to family partys and stuff and see her but we dont talk. She has a facebook which is pretty much the only way we can contact each other but that just seems realy awkward starting a convo with someone I never realy talk to. Any advice.

So recently my best friend told me she had feelings for my ex but didn't know what they meant..and she said that she didn't want those feelings because she never had them before and she only wants him as a close friend. (Mid you me, her, and my ex are all friends.) then she was suppose to meet me in the hallway but she never showed up..okay weird, the next day same thing except she comes right before we are late to class and she told me she was upstairs "play fighting" with him. Okay..well m ex already told me that he doesn't like her in that way and he'd never date her. (Mind you 3 weeks in a row before she admitted to having "feeling a for him, she kept telling me that she didn't like him, and that they were just friends and how she wouldn't do that to me.) then Friday she was "play fighting" with him again. Is this ***** flirting with him or no? Because I just talked to her and she doesn't think she's flirting but I do.

there is this girl i know, she's 25, very pretty and a lot of guys hit on her but she has never gone out on a single date or even had her first kiss. 1) she has no friends her entire life 2) a lot of guys asked her out but she rejects them all and just stays at home 3) she has depression, anxiety, add, ocd Is she weird? Or a unicorn? This is true btw. She's a real person.

I asked this girl in my class to go to a Halloween event Friday, We had it planned that we could get food before, then go to the event together. I thought she seemed really happy to go, and that I might have actually met someone I have a lot in common with and could get to know. I mean, I'm a senior In high school and I haven't had a girlfriend in over 2 years. So I kinda asked her randomly after we had talked numerous times, Well I asked in person and she actually sounded happy to go. Then when Friday came around, she said she had to work a double and wouldn't be able to. But then she said we could hangout on Saturday. So I asked AGAIN to do the same thing, and this time bought tickets since it's the last night of the event Well she texts me at like 5 when she said she'd be off at 3, saying someone's hurt and she had to cover. Like what are the odds???! I can't decide if I should take a hint possibly and stop talking to her, or keep trying to talk to her. She is slow at responding often, and sometimes just doesn't (like tonight while we talked about Halloween) I was forced to go to the event and ask several people to buy my tickets until I finally got someone who paid in cash. I just can't tell wether she actually wants to go with me or not. I've gotten cancelled on twice in two days now and I just feel really crappy now. I just wanted to do something fun this weekend.

I'm 16, I play lacrosse and cross country. I lifeguard and babysit kids in the neighborhood. I also like playing with my 2 english bulldogs and my younger nephews. my musical tastes are classical and rap, I know it's a weird combination. But if you just met me, would you say yes if I asked you out. To see what I look like go to my proxy instagram yahooami. Please be honest, I won't be offended by brutally honest comments.

He doesn t trust me not want to because he thinks I would do something to hurt him which I have never done. I ve never given him a reason to not trust me he s just scared to get hurt. He s alittle younger than me & I m 21, should I respect him and stay home bored or should I go out with my friends like he is with his? I don t know what to do anymore and need a woman to help me on this. He s stubborn and expects me to always listen to him but it s not fair if I can t enjoy a holiday while he is with his friends.

I'm 34 never had a girlfriend in my entire life hahaha. Athletic and been so my entire life. I'm just very shy around the "girls I like". For awhile, I saw this girl at my gym. I didn't stare at her like some creep. Just noticed her innocently. She was training with her friend who was pretty too but I had my eye on her. Then one day, she came up to ask me something about if some water bottle was hers or mine. Now it was obvious it was hers and she was giggling. . She left it by the machine a machine away from where I was. Not too close. She caught me off guard as she was the most beautiful girl I've ever laid eyes on. Reminds me why I love redheads most. She gotta be early 20's too. Im still into women in their prime. all I did was shake my head no and went back to my thing. She is physically perfect. The next day, she was walking past me as I was heading into the building. I got that feeling I was being looked at and in the very corner of my eye I could tell she look irritated. Why? Dudes her age talk to her do why should I? Recently, i went to walk past to a curl station and she must have seen me in the mirror walking by and looked over her should clearly in my direction during her rest set. I saw in the corner of my eye. My childhood was crap and made my adulthood underdeveloped. It's been about 2 and half years and she still glances at me. Why???

If you are positive that a shy girl likes you, would it be a good move to like a few of her posts on Facebook?

Choose A or B as your response. A. A guy who gets girls phone numbers often. Talks to you for about 5 and then asks for your number. B. A guy who gets numbers occasionally. He talks to you and gets to know you for a while before asking for your number. Thoughts and answers?

I'm 16, I play lacrosse and cross country. I love dogs and playing with my 3 young nephews. I also babysit and lifeguard. I was just wondering if you would say yes if I asked you out if I just met you. I have never approached a girl before, but others have approached me but they were not really hot. Look at my instagram I made for this question called yahooami. That is not my real instagram.

or would that be a violation of code of conduct?

So this is a very sticky situation. I recently found out that one of my boyfriends mother's good friends, was secretly trying to get with my boyfriend. She is around her late 40's and he is early 20's. She has 4 kids and, like I said, is really good friends with his mom. She told him not to ever tell anyone and that no one could ever find out or her life would be ruined....My boyfriend told me, though and definitely had not plans on doing anything with her. Now I really want revenge. He doesn't want me to do anything because of her relationship with his mom, yet I don't feel like she should be aloud to intrude on someone else's relationship (we've been together for almost a year and a half) with no repercussions. I really want to message her at the very least, but my boyfriend said to just let it go and he will never talk to her again and we should just move on. What should I do when I want revenge and he wants me to leave it alone?

He's a junior and I'm a sophomore, and next trimester I'm hoping we have classes together bc we never have. We always make eye contact in the hall and he turned to look at me twice when he walked by me. He doesn't know i exsist. He's super quirky and out going and I'm more shy but really loud and quirky once u get to know me. How do i approach him if we do have a class together? I rarely talk to boys and I dont know what they like in girls. He's also pretty popular, but I heard he's really nice and funny. We both play soccer, into politics, he's a french jew and I'm a yemenite jew... so we do have a few stuff in common.. but idk how to get to know him or what to do once I meet him. Help!

There is this girl I have been friends with for three years now, I met her my freshman year of high school. Freshman year they changed the school zoning and I had to go to a new high school with new people in a new town, and I had to leave all of my other friends. She was also new to the school because she moved from another town. So we were both new, and she got a ton of friends instantly (she is hot). I knew some of the kids beause we got moved to the same school, I made some new friends too (not nearly as much). We talked a lot in class, but most of the time I couldn't because everyone was trying to talk to her. But she gave me this really funny nickname (she still calls me it to this day) and made everybody I know call me that as well. We would talk a lot on twitter too, sometimes with my friends. I remember one time I was at this teen club and I almost hooked up with another girl. My friends were talking about it on twitter, and she was asking: Did he really? Who was it? Really? She sounded a little jealous. She also used to hug me in class sometimes. Sophomore year, my friends kept posting on twitter that we were the class couple. And rumors that I hooked up with her (which I never said). We talked on twitter in the beginning of the year and then she stopped after awhile. Soon She stopped talking to me (we talked on occasion), and she got a boyfriend. Then towards the end of the year she talked to me again (They broke up).Junior year she talked to me again whenever she would see me in the hallway she would say wats up (my name) my *****? and we would fist bump or something. The second semester she was in one of my classes and she sat next to another one of her friends ( a guy). He was the funny kid in class and always made her laugh. She did sit next to me instead of him on a couple occasions. She gave me her phone number, I never had it cause we just talked on twitter. I think its funny that everytime I texted her, she only replied once or twice then stopped. I see her texting a lot so I know that she has full text convos with other people, she just did it to me. I still don't understand why. I feel like I have done something wrong. At the end of the year she told me to come over to her house later, I said sure whats the address. Then she started laughing for some reason, I said whatever than the bell rang. I never went to her house. So this year (Senior year) she is being weird too. Whenver I see her in the hall she says hey wats up my ***** __ ? But whenever I try to fist bump her she is like "DONT TOUCH ME! NO PHYSICAL CONTACT!" My friends are still teasing us too! At homecoming she sat next to me with her best friend and she kept talking to my friends and not me! I thought she sat next to me to talk! I bought her and her BFF food and she was really happy and said "AW". She said she would come to my house the next day and pay me back? I said no.

Okay so i have a best friend i have developed really strong feelings for him. We hang out occassionally. Usually its just to do homework but we have hung out a few times just to hang out and watch movies. This past week he came over at like 11 and we just layed on my bed and watched youtube videos till 1 AM. He showed me some sad videos and then we moved on to funny videos then he started playing romantic songs and singing them to me. Then during one particular song he was holding my hand and at the end of the song he just kissed me hand. But before he was holding my hand during all the other videos he had his hand on my lower thing and he was just somewhat rubbing his fingers side to side.He had never done anything like that before. This all happened on Thursday and we haven't talked since. He's a college athlete and there's always girls talking to him, how do i know if he likes me or not. What should I do? He's my best friend and i really like him but i don't want to put myself out there and then get hurt. Please help im desperate!

I meet this guy on march, we had a class together and we started talking, but what I noticed is that he liked to talk to me via fb. During summer we stopped talking and chatting. Then this semester I didnt get a class with him,however, he talked to me via fb and we started chatting a lot. We flirted and I think I started to feel something bc our conversations were really good and intimate, however, he is sometimes weird because he only asks what are you doing and gets mad if i dont reply soon, also he only speaks to me on fb in real person he ignores me and I have asked him out and he says he is always busy, then rumors started to come and somebody told me that this guy was flirting with two more girls, one of those girls hates me and she is saying that this guy told her that he liked her. Then I heard from two people who do not know each other that this guy told everybody that I was after him and that I was the one who spoke to him. I stopped talking to him on fb, then I confronted him and I asked him on fb that if he is saying that I am after him. He said that he has not told anybody that we chat and that he wanted to know who was the one who told, I did not told him because the person who told me is my friend and is so strange that two people who doesnt know each other know about that rumor, he then told me with bad word that he does not like to be asked about rumors and that I can make my own conclusion he then posted that a ppl are stupid if they dont say all things. I lefted him on seen and then I deactivated my fb page, all my friends told me that he is not worth but I dont feel good about this situation

I'll make this short. I've known this guy for almost two years. I really like him, but I've been lying to him and a bunch of other online friends for far too long. It wasn't meant to escalate like this and I should have just told the truth, I've told the truth to everyone but him and his friends (who are also my friends). He's already heartbroken when I rejected him, so I don't want to destroy him anymore. I tried to stop talking to him but he keeps pestering me to talk to him. Even if I ignored him, I'm scared he'll be heartbroken for much longer. I haven't used any fake pictures or anything, I just lied about my age. I told him I'm 19 (20 now) but actually I'm 14.. I know, it sounds bad. It is. He's 19. Should I just block him and hope for the best or shall I just tell him the truth, even though it could destroy him? He lives in Eastern Europe, I live in the UK. I'm fully aware I'm underage which is why I rejected him.

I was thinking back of whenever my friend and I got to know each other about 3 years ago. She's a year older than me, but when I look back on us getting to know each other, I think she may have been flirting with me. At the time she just turned 16 and I turned 15, her dad lived round the corner so we would've hung out quite often. We would sit and have normal conversations and one time she mentioned how one of our friends having a girlfriend and asked me either if I ever dated anyone or was currently dating anyone and had randomly asked me about a month or two later how my love life was. Bare in mind at the time she began dating someone. She would randomly ask me for hugs saying she's "a hugger" as well. Then there was the time she was going to dye her hair and asked me which colour she should go for and I said blonde - she said it was blonde before but a week later her hair was blonde. We also exchanged numbers and would text quite often, with her starting the conversation most times and she'd often randomly text me asking me to walk home with her after school (her old school is 2 minutes away from mine). There was also one time when her friend (a girl) was over and and we were all hanging out at her house house. Whenever they went upstairs, she didn't want me to go up with them (saying she didn't want a guy in her room) and they stayed up there talking and she kept seeming to try and show off in front of her friend. Also, there was one night where her and I were talking and another girl came along and started talking to her in private for roughly 30-45 minutes. After this amount of time the other girl came up to me and whispered "Do you like *her name*?" and I was kinda confused. Shen then whispered "*her name* likes you. Do you like her?" My friend said "If my name was mentioned then whatever she said is a lie" and seemed to both have an idea of what she asked and also be confused

I have Asperger's and I am very good at making up stories (mostly allegories and fairytales that demonstrate my life, basically falling under the Disney category, as I imagine it being so). But I have a whole story thought out in my head, and I can imagine it, but it's very hard for me to put it on paper and concentrate long enough to do so. I would like to be a writer or screenwriter, or executive producer. But I don't have the patience through all the steps. Yeah but I heard people with Asperger's are more creative with Art and music not writing.

I once asked 40-50 females this. In the end only 1 said yes. I am very grateful for it though. Can you guys give me some tips to get free pics like this? Paying them and being friends with them first are not an option. I am sorry to say. Any and all tips are welcome, thanks.

When I get drunk,I usually become friendlier & more affectionate. But once in a while I'll feel really reflective & emotional, I start thinking about all the problems in my life & feel like crap

ok so last year there was this cute guy at my school who alyways stared at me,he didn t know me and had never saw me in person we used to text,he asked this girl at school if I had a boyfriend then i saw him at parent pick up asked him who I was he said yea but he kept staring at me and he said he didn t know who that was I told him it was me so then I asked him why he is alyways staring at me i said is it because I m pretty he was like not really then i got sad and he started dating this other girl he still stares at me and whispers to his friends about me because I got mad at him he tries to get my attention he knows my vehicle and we are in middle school so tonight I went trick or treating and we went to his house we didn t know it was his house he walked in front of the car and talked to his friend he shook my sister and dads hand I didn t get out at his house and trick or treat I stayed in the car but he still tried to get my attention what s his deal do you think he is just intimated by me most guys are because I m tall I am 5 8 did he ever like me?does he like me now?help

I'm 28 and he's 41 he and I live in different states and we aren't in a relationship. We met in person for the first time in June. Recently I tried paying him for some graphic designs he made for me. Yet he refused to take the money and said this to me. I'll give you anything you need you don't ever have to worry about paying me for anything just let me know and I'll assist you in whatever way I can.

And don't put stupid responces

Ok so I'm a sophomore and there is a freshmen I like. We have no classes together and have never talked. She is shy. Only hangs out with 3 other girls from what I've seen. Idk if she likes me. She sits a table away at lunch. Ik her friend likes me because she always stares at me and stuff. But I ain't into her friend. Anyways back to my crush. She has began to stare at me a lot at lunch over the past couple of weeks. Especially the days her friend is absent. She really stares then. But still stares a good bit when her friend is there. What's the best way to approach her and get her number after talking a few times?

Choose guy A or guy B as your response. Guy A: a guy who gets girls phone numbers often, strikes up a conversation with you for about 5 minutes and then asks for your number. Guy B. A guy that gets numbers occasionally. Talks to you for a while and let's you guys get to know each other for a while before asking. Answers? Explain?

just when i thought i had self-control saw the prettiest girl in a store go there shopping occasionally now im mad over latina wanted to ask her why she isn't working in miss universe as opposed to the store she likes babies and is also the sweetest girl around what should i say next time i come across such a woman so i don't pass up an opportunity? I have 0 dating skills , because i have never asked a woman on a date before ... but I know I have the potential in me... she even said hi to me when i entered the store ... but i dont know how to close with women or ask them out on a date without coming across as creepy or being reprimanded for flirting with someone during work hours .. I think she is no longer working there or is on leave .I want to be ready next time in case an opportunity presents . What lines can I use ? i studied in an only-boys school which explain my lack of dating skills

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My boyfriend complains we never go out and do stuff I'm suppose to stay nite with him tonite it's like my last free day he knows this then he calls me mentioning a party I don't want to I rather be alone with him he said he wants to party and hang with me told him basically to chose I'm waiting for his answer if he loves me wouldn't he wanna spend time alone with me? Not like we see each other often

We have been dating for over 3 years..He is a good guy overall. The issues are,most the time I feel we are just friends. I ahve told him this and he says no,thats not how he feels at all. He even gets mad sometimes when I try to discuss this with him. We rarely have sex..probably have about 5 times since April. He is not an affectionate person. Like we can go all week and not see each other and he never greets me with a hug or kiss...even after being together a coupld hours he will not think to kiss me until I say something. He avoids talking about the future of our relationship,but says he does see himself with me in the future. he seems to have lost interest in doing things and going places togther (he wasnt working for awhile and used finances as the excuse for this). He will text me all day,but only calls maybe once (he doesnt have inlimited minutes) But even on weekends when its free,he doesnt call me. He never tells me he loves me or misses me. If I ask do you miss me? He says yes he does. He is nice to me and he brings me lunch to work and he never foregets a holiday.Text me every morning when he wakes up. I just feel I am begining to miss alot of other things and have started to think about dating other people. Advice please?

We were making out and laying on our side. I feel like he's above average but I just want to know.

I have developed a crush on my professor. Hes just so charming & mysterious. Im 20 he's 47. I like him so much, it is odd because I would've never thought I'd like somebody his age. He is a kid at heart and he is so handsome. He doesn't have a wedding ring and I heard him say he's single. It just seems impossible trying to get at him because I don't know if he would be interested. It's just that he's so my type.

I'm a fifteen year old girl. I cannot hold a conversation for my life. I'm very opinionated, and I am also very observational. I. Can't. Hold. A. Conversation. If I don't know what someone is talking about, I don't pretend to be interested or know what it is. I just literally say "I don't know what that is" or nothing at all. Tips? Thoughts?

But if she cries or throws a fit I still do what she wants. I love her.

My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago, and my best friend was there for me, I truly believed she cared. My boyfriend was the one who broke up with me, because I was too clingy, and I always corrected everything he said, paranoid about everything, and had weird fetishes with his feet, and claimed we were too young and that the relationship wasn't serious, and that we'll eventually find people who we will both live with forever and low (we've had been dating for a year and a half, and he wouldn't have sex with me...). I was really insulted and was hurt for a while, but my best friend cheered me up and I got over him. Little did I know she only cheered me up because she wanted to be with him. It wasn't until yesterday, that I looked over her shoulder and I saw her texting him. A week ago, she told me that she started talking to a old friend who she stopped talking to, and I told her I was so happy that she could become friends again, but I then found out that 'old friend' was my ex. I can't believe she lied to me and would do that. I thought there was a girl code or something between us. I'm very hurt, and don't know what to do... She says that, she has only started liking him recently, but I doubt that. Do you think my boyfriend broke up with me for her? She was a really kind person, and smart, I didn't know that she would do this at all. But then I thought the same with my boyfriend and he broke up with me and broke my heart. In the first paragraph I meant love, not low.

I'm a gay girl who has fantasies about raping, molesting, and torturing other girls. So just today, I was sitting in class, and I had finished all my work. Then, I started closing my eyes and I formed this fantasy. The fantasy was that there was an unconscious girl, with a very good physique I must add, lying on my bed. I came closer to her and started taking her jacket off and smelling it. I stripped her and lie down next to her, stroking her breasts. Suddenly, my heart started to beat faster and I feel an adrenaline rush, not really, but it felt very good. I was sitting behind this girl in class the other day, and she was really, really attractive. She had nice hair, nice body, long, feminine fingers, and I started having sexual thoughts about her right then and there. I fantasized about what it would be like to just hug her from behind. Then, I would reach under her shirt, tore her bra off, and grab her breasts HARD. I thought of what it would be like to just have her as my sex slave, a submissive, subservient slave of mine. Like I just said, I was sitting directly behind her, and she was literally only 3 inches away from me. I became very excited thinking about it and started wondering what it would be like to just choke her to death and had sex with her. I felt as if I was disconnected from reality in that very moment, like I was trapped in my own fantasy world where I can have what I want, power and control. I have started training myself to view girls as sexual objects I just want someone who I can hold and never leave me. I feel very lonely at times. I want lust, control, power, and dominance. Those are all the things that I get to have in my fantasy world.

Hi guys, So there´s a guy in my college class who seems to hate me for no reason. The 1st time he saw me he stopped walking and stared at me and I pretended I didn´t notice. He never says "hi"and he seems snobbish and I´m really nice so now I ignore him. The other day he was making a presentation and then he asked a question to the class and I answered (I´m in the front row so he looked at me for some time and just ignored me and then asked other girl, and my answer was correct). The worst thing is that it wasn´t the 1st time. Because of that I ignore his presentations and sometimes when I look up I see him looking at me (there were times when he locked eyes with me for a long time). The other day I made a group presentation and I notice that he was looking at me and I looked at him, and then everybody said how great I was and when I was talking to a female friend (who made the presentation w/ me) he said to her "you were amazing in the presentation.." and smiled at her and ignored me complemently. And then he said some bad things about my group presentation to other people (not about me directly) ...the worst thing he´s that I catch him looking at me when I´m distracted, I ignore it. Once I was coming into a room and he was behind me w/ a friend and I looked back and he was staring at me, I just looked away. he always compliments other girls(specially a girl who is really pretty). Does he hate me?

My stupid ex and I have been done for like 5 months now cuz he left me for another girl and I just noticed that his bestfriend is following me on social media and a few of his other friends... Why??? Are they just trying to be nosy from what I post or what??

There's this guy I work with. He's really sweet to me and everything. A few days ago we were at work and comes in sat down on another bench then me. He said hi to me and asked me how I was doing and about school. He was talking quieter and I don't know maybe I was too. But I replied and said it was going good then asked the same to him and he said good but it was awkward because I kind of messed up my words and was like what? I couldn't understand him. It was a little awkward but I was still looking at him smiling a little. He was looking at me talk then kind of looked away and smirked (you could see his teeth) and then he looked down. So I don't know if he thought that was somehow cute or totally weird and awkward or if he was cringing inside.. My gut tells me he likes me but I don't know.. He does smile around me a lot, tends to be around me, helps me, sometimes hugs me, says my name a lot etc. So what do y'all think he was thinking? Thanks so much

My ex-bf left me 9 months ago when he was overseas on uni exchange, after a long, strong, happy and solid relationship that we both knew was going to last. Long story short, he didn t even end things with me, he just never replied one day and blocked me & my family on everything. He lives about 20 mins away from me, same university etc. but I haven t seen him since. It s been 9 months, and he hasn t said anything to me, my family and I are still blocked on everything. It was extremely sudden & unexpected as we were stable and he made it clear to me leaving me was never something he d ever want to do. Basically, it s been just over 9 months and I m not over it at all. For the past 2 weeks particularly I ve been dreaming about him / us every night, I still cry myself to sleep some nights & I think about it all the time. I ve done everything from new hobbies (I started martial arts & swimming) to making new friends, concentrating on studies, got a new job etc. but 9 months later and I m still really, really upset. Do you have any idea on how I can get over this? Usually I d think that this is because to me it s unfinished and I got no closure, but I can t contact him as I m blocked on everything and he wouldn t reply anyway. I ve even thought of going to see him at home just to get closure but it s a bit extreme & he probably would not answer the door anyway if he s blocked me on everything. Do you have any advice or help for me or thoughts on my situation? Thanks so much xx

My Fiancé as of Sept, been together almost 3 years, love em w/all my heart:) But its occurrd 2 me, i nvr worrid bout meetin HIS frends cause One he met on a cruise &livs in another State, beside tht he never stays frends w/sum1 more than a few months befor he starts pullin away. Except me. We strtd datin& he was alwys availabl but would get hurt feelins if I went somwher w/o him. 3yrs later, I'm extatic to marry Eric! I wantd to go dress shoppin today& realized I didnt hve any1 to call& enjoy tht with. I no longer hve any1 I can call a friend or talk to abt personal life except Eric. Hes my best friend I don't regret him, but who do I call to Vent whn I need a girls night? I shut everyone out& I didnt notice...I get deprssd&feel alone whn Im not w/him. I was ALWAYS a Social butterfly, now I'm lucky to get a txt. I should add, hes SUCH a sweetie, loves his family. But has sum issus His Mother nvr wntd him, left him to be raised by his fathers parents &never fails 2 remind Eric wat a PoS she thinks he is& tht he ruind HER life the day he was born Erics very close to his father, but He watchd the police cuff&take him to prison whn he was 4, as a kid i imagine that is traumatic enough. His best friend growing up was his cousin, she died in an accident 4 years ago. Hes damaged&rightfully so. Do You think he's afraid to make new relationships cause of the past? If so, how can I help him and how can I get OUR social lives up again?