Marriage & Divorce: Question: The father of my son, has decided after 3 years of only seeing him once wants custody. What do I do? |
- Question: The father of my son, has decided after 3 years of only seeing him once wants custody. What do I do?
- Question: How do I help my mother gain her independence back so she can't move out on her own.?
- Question: My big mouth, how can i make things better?
- Question: Women: Do you regret not having children when you were youger?
- Question: Why can't kids have sexual relation ships?
- Question: My son in law wants to blame me for him wanting a divorce?
- Question: Is this emotionally abusive?
- Question: Made a big mistake and went out with someone I work with, what do I do now?
- Question: Do you ever think about your ex's and the things they did?
- Question: What should I do about my non supportive friend who doesn't approve of my marriage?
- Question: Why do men lose weight before their wedding and then gain it back after the wedding? Isn't that selfish?
- Question: Who was Poseidon s child, if he has one?
- Question: I texted this guy I've been talking to that I wasn't ready to have sex?
- Question: I have been married for 3 years almost 4. Been together on n off since 2007. We have a 3 year old son too. We fight?
- Question: Do interracial marriages fail?
- Question: My husband put on really good show to get me to marry him , turns out he couldn't hold up the show after we were married.?
- Question: I found out after I married my husband that he had sent his friend a video I had made him and he gave me his word he wouldnt show anyone.?
- Question: My parents are getting divorced but I feel mad at myself for it. Why could this be?
- Question: Do I deserve to be mistreated? I do everything a wife is suppose to do. I get accused of cheating all the time. What shud I do?
- Question: Why is that intimate relationships is too materialized in the west?
- Question: What would you do In my situation ? Controlling fiancé...?
- Question: Help me break this habit?
- Question: How to set up tv on aimko tablet?
- Question: Is my vagina loose if I can easily fit two fingers in ?
- Question: How to control a dog that attacks a puppy?
- Question: Confused by what husband wants??? Regarding my looks?
- Question: Should cheating on your spouse be illegal?
- Question: Feelings of resent?
- Question: What if you caught your new husband coming out of your 19 year old daughter's room?
- Question: My husband wants to ditch attending my best friends wedding and go to a family event in Hawaii alone without me and the kids.?
- Question: Am I weird for having many crushes even though I'm married?
- Question: Has anyone (female) gotten a divorce with 3 kids?
- Question: My husband has been punching, kicking, slapping, and poking me in his sleep. Why is this and why does he see it as complaining if I tell him?
- Question: What is the appeal of a second, or third or multiple marriages?
- Question: How do I get over the fact that my ex is seeing someone new and i feel replaced?
- Question: I know we have all heard of the saying "relationships take work to maintain", or "a marriage IS work". But does work have to FEEL like work?
- Question: Is marriage easy or hard?
- Question: My husband is so mean to me sometimes and he knows it! We are suppose to be moving out of state?
- Question: Wife isn't willing to send me pictures while I'm away?
- Question: Why didn't he just let me date someone else (sorry this is long)?
- Question: What do other couple s fight about?
- Question: I am married bu I'm interestedin having wild sex gestures. Is this normal?
- Question: My husband is very submissive , but wants to be in charge, tantrums, anger gets mad easily, cant be confronted, cant admit mistakes?
- Question: Would You Let A Person Who Filed An Order Of Protection Back Into Your life when a child is at stake?
- Question: I want to kiss him but he is a complete stranger and I'm hitched?
- Question: I am married but I'm attracted to latinos?
- Question: Do I need to reply to divorce papers in county where flied?
- Question: I was divorced in May. I was a stay home mom for last 10yrs. Not working this year. Don't I have to file due to my Child/spousal support?
- Question: What should I do if my husband is now found having live adult chat, posing as a fake (female) porn star himself?
- Question: Husband goes out every Friday evening, returns Saturday...What do you think?
- Question: How can I track my husband cell phone I no he cheating I just want to caught him?
- Question: We did NOTHING for our 10th wedding Anniversary but I'm crazy for being upset about it?
- Question: Immature to get upset when your husband doesn't hug or kiss you?
- Question: Why do some married men flirt with females online? Why don't they spend time with their wives instead?
- Question: Why do some men cheat if they say they love their wives? Can a man cheat and still be in love with his wife?
- Question: Why a men is bored with her wife after 15 years of married life ?
- Question: There is marriage and there is something called divorce. Why do they insist on staying in unhappy marriages?
- Question: Is this fair?
- Question: Should I just leave my ex husband alone about his kids?
- Question: Wife shows no intimacy anymore I feel depressed and unloved?
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 09:03 PM PDT What's his chances of gaining custody of our son? Our son will be 3 in December and he only saw him once since birth! I have tried to push him to see our son, but it never worked and I don't think it's my responsibility to keep on pushing our son on him. He's never paid child support and I've never asked for it. He wanted me to get an abortion but I would not and now he's trying to make my life a living hell. He's a cop so he thinks he can get custody and I'm not really sure as I have never been in this situation. Please Help!! |
| Question: How do I help my mother gain her independence back so she can't move out on her own.? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:59 PM PDT My mom has been living with me for over a year and a half and does not seem to have any desire to move out. She has used me as her crutch since my husband and I got good jobs in a new city. We live in a two bedroom apartment and she currently lives in my two daughters bedroom. This place is tiny and my children share a king bed with my husband and I! I hate these living arrangements and I desperately need my space back because my husband is uncomfortable having her live off us. She has a poor paying temp job because she refuses to find a better one and because of this we have to provide groceries for her and we pay her to babysit every other weekend. She also feels that she is supposed to be included in all of our family activities and when she is not invited she acts hurt or disappointed. I don't want to have the "you need to leave conversation" because she is a very angry and negative woman and will tell all our other family member my husband and I mistreated her. When the truth is she's been using us for quite some time. I miss having a space for my husband and I as well as a room for my children. If anyone can help please tell me how I can give her the boot but by showing her a way to leave on her own! PLEASE! My husband is almost to his breaking point and I've past mine! |
| Question: My big mouth, how can i make things better? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:49 PM PDT . Lately he's been going out every weekend. And coming home after 3 am. Well today he came home at 5 am. He went to work and returned home at 8pm. He grabbed some belongings and went right back out. My daughter just got out the shower, got dressed and ran after him. I went after her. She was begging and pleading with him. He was not having it. Me and my BIG mouth said let him go he probably likes getting f up the a better. Because the driver of the car is a openly gay and flamboyant guy that was once a close friend of my daughter"s in high school. She introduced him and they ate always going places together without his wife. He got fired from his job and my son in law got him a job with him. How do you like those apples? Well he became explosive and said he now wants a divorce. Now my daughter is blaming me. It's been a rough 2 years. His mother has called her far worse and threatened to lay hands on her. She moved the mother of his other child into her home and now that she has left, threatens to flight for full custody. So that the baby can be with the family. But where does this leave my daughter and her child? I've been quiet up until now. I'm Tired.I'm a single mom.He gives his 300 each month toward rent. I pat 1000. It's hard to sit back and watch your child hurt. Oh and did I mention? He doesn't get service in the house, so ALL of his telephone coversations are oout if the home. He refuse to switch. |
| Question: Women: Do you regret not having children when you were youger? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:32 PM PDT |
| Question: Why can't kids have sexual relation ships? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:21 PM PDT I was just wondering that why can't 5~17 years old can't have baby. Why is it against the law when kids under 18 do those stuffs? |
| Question: My son in law wants to blame me for him wanting a divorce? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:20 PM PDT |
| Question: Is this emotionally abusive? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:17 PM PDT One of my parents, I won't name genders or roles for the sake of ambiguity, has been borderline hysteric all week. They are now on the phone with the other one (who is away on business) and is threatening divorce, hating Thanksgiving (a yearly thing), and has not been happy, despite a rather worry free life. They have a good job, have been saving up, and have in the last few years, been a miserable little s*** at holidays. We respected the vegetarian thing, worked around the snobbery of not wanting to travel on holidays, but now they are changing all the rules again. I've tried to stay close by, but lets face it, it's getting harder to stay close to someone who acts like this and threatens to leave when the tiniest things go wrong. This morning it was a late appointment with a weekend lawn person for aeration that set it off. Wreaked the mood for the whole day. So what do you think? I've tried talking, but it only seems to boil down to bs. Things most people would be more than happy to have at all. A good, full time job with relative necessity (and no replacement always around the corner), a wealthy spouse who earns more but doesn't spend it, and all the children working full time jobs in their field. Not to mention a paid off mortgage, cars, and living in a nice neighborhood with no health concerns looming. |
| Question: Made a big mistake and went out with someone I work with, what do I do now? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:06 PM PDT I made a big mistake. I accepted a date invitation with someone from my work. I honestly thought it would be just a casual friendship but he thinks of it as much more than it is. We made out on a date, I didn't let it go any further than that though. He has told tons of people in his department, he has been sending me emotional text messages..I see him all the time. it was only one date and some talking with a touch of flirting at work in the few weeks beforehand. he and I are too different. I don't see this going anywhere but I don't know what to do now. such a sticky situation, how can I make things better? |
| Question: Do you ever think about your ex's and the things they did? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 07:33 PM PDT One used to straddle me and ask me if i was ok in a really sarcastic, evil tone, im not sure if she was hating me of trying to tuen me on.... |
| Question: What should I do about my non supportive friend who doesn't approve of my marriage? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 07:31 PM PDT So I have a friend named Hank and he is not supportive of me marrying this girl. My fiancee is a girl in vietnam and she was introduced to me by family. I couldn't find anyone in america to date or marry me so I got my family to help me out. My aunt from vietnam setted me up with this girl who is a family friend's daughter. My friend Hank can't make up his mind between being supportive of me or being against me. He would be supportive one minute and then the next minute he would be against it. He already blocked one of my friends named matt just because matt is going abroad to find someone too. He thinks that anyone who can't find a woman in america is a loser. What should I do ? Should I stop talking to him ? |
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| Question: Who was Poseidon s child, if he has one? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 07:22 PM PDT |
| Question: I texted this guy I've been talking to that I wasn't ready to have sex? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 07:16 PM PDT He had been trying to rush things and I know I'm worth more than that. He said: "it's all good, I hear you" Is it basically over or does that mean he's ok with waiting? I haven't heard from him in 7 hours... |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 06:58 PM PDT We argue about almost everything I have left him while married because it s gotten that bad. He changes becomes the man I always wanted n I take him back. 3 months later we are back to the same s***. Constantly fighting I gave up kicking him out cuz what s the point I m just going to take him back. I love my son n I don t want to feel like if I leave my husband he s not going to grow up the way God intended with father n mother by his side. I mean we fight ALOT but there are times we do get along. But then the fights start again. We all the yelling n arguing have driving me nuts. N sometimes it s about money I mean I make a plan for us to save money to buy a house n he don t do it. N the he suddenly come up with the same plan n I can t touch his money cuz it s his n he want to save it. N wen I need to put gas in my car he get mad. I m a full time student. A full time mom. And I work full time now because he don t want to give me n e thing. Sometimes I have to beg him for it. N I hate that. He should trust me with "his" money we are married. I just feel like this is getting me tiered n I just rather do my own thing get my own place n take care of my child my self it s what I do n e ways. He don t cook clean or do n e thing for that matter just cuz he work 5 am to 430 pm he thinks he don t need to help me out cuz he is sooooooo tiered. N frankly I m tiered too. |
| Question: Do interracial marriages fail? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 06:55 PM PDT I don't know if it true, but my mom was hoping I don't end up in an interracial relationship (with current person who we are both interested in). Said she wasn't trying to tell me what to do or who to go out with, but said she got concerned because I'm white and he Indian, and culture & values are different from how we are used to living here in the US, especially since he lived most of his life in India, so most of his family is still there (including parents) and are still there (even though his sister and her husband & kids are here but in a different state). This isn't part of question, but going to be used as a side note question - My mom also got concerned that most of his family is in India and he is here by himself (even though he has a sister, she is in another state, so kinda sorta like she not really here since she too far away to see him), and thinks that may be a problem. Would that ever be a problem though in real life - where you're in a different country than your parents? I don't get how that could be a problem or get concerned that they may be hiding anything? |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 06:43 PM PDT sucks i thought i had really found the man i would spend my life with, i looked up to him and respected him. he is just a fake and a liar. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 06:41 PM PDT well, I just saw in his phone that he had sent it to one of his good friends, before we got married, yes. But still how embarrassing. Just another thing his has tried to hide from me. It makes me sick he is that type of guy that would do that in the first place. we kinda far from each other and barely saw each other so I sent him a video. Im at my end wits along with the other things that i just want to leave him. |
| Question: My parents are getting divorced but I feel mad at myself for it. Why could this be? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 06:18 PM PDT I don't want to be mad at them but they both have messed up. I just am mad at myself that I'm different then my friends families that have married parents. How can I get over being so mad? |
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| Question: Why is that intimate relationships is too materialized in the west? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 05:51 PM PDT In the west, people get into relationships "which they can afford", then they get out of relationships to get into better or worse partners; depending on how much they can afford. And if the man goes broke, his/her partner divorces him/her the next day. In eastern nations things are different. You marry someone and you stick with them no matter what happens then, no matter how rich or poor, successful or successful your partner becomes. What do you think about that? This applies to majority, it's a reasonable generalization, i think. but it's much more materialized in the west, hence the question. |
| Question: What would you do In my situation ? Controlling fiancé...? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 05:51 PM PDT This morning I was asked by my sister to come and do her hair and makeup because she was going to a birthday party and needed my help . I said yes of course I'll come and I asked my fiancé and he said yea but make sure you go now before her husband comes home ... I'm like what does her husband have anything to do with me ? He knows that I'm coming to help my sister . I leave and 2 hours later I come back he's all mad , I ask why what's wrong all he said was you'll learn from your mistakes and said **** you and them ... I'm like I don't get what kind of mistake am I making by helping my own sister ? He won't let me work always makes up a excuse as to why he says I have to stay home and have babies ... We already have one . He complains when I go to my parents house ... He won't let me have a friend and says that I don't need anyone and that people only bring drama . He's always right about everything and doesn't care to hear my opinions . A lot of controlling things and I don't know what to do :( . I'm not happy like this at all. Any advice ? Thanks ! |
| Question: Help me break this habit? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 05:13 PM PDT My wife has a bad habit of putting her nose in people's damn business! We passed at a McDonald's and the lady couldn't understand what I said so she repeated the order to the employee. Last week I took her to get a new cell phone for her birthday and I tried to explain to the man what exactly I was looking for in a cell phone. He couldn't understand so she explained it. I am pissed because it happens when we are at the store also. She needs to keep her damn mouth to herself. How can I break her habit? Any help? |
| Question: How to set up tv on aimko tablet? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 04:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Is my vagina loose if I can easily fit two fingers in ? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 04:32 PM PDT I am 16 and I never had sex before. I never used any sex toys or anything else other than my fingers when masturbating. I can pleasure myself with one finger. But recently I have been using two. At first when I used two fingers it would hurt a lot but now I can use two fingers easily. |
| Question: How to control a dog that attacks a puppy? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 04:21 PM PDT My 2 year old female shihtzu mix (named Daisy) is attacking my 6 month old male shihtzu mix (named Roger). They both have the same parents so they're basically siblings. I had Daisy the longest. She was my only dog for about a year until i added three other dogs (combination of male and female) and she seems fine. Another year passed when i added Roger. Daisy had a look/attitude/posture (or whatever) in her that she look at Roger as a prey. She would bite him on the neck so tight that Roger is screaming good thing i was able to make her release him. I tried to give Daisy corrections, everytime i see that she's about to bite Roger again, i'll immediately touch him (Ceasar Milan style, LOL). After a while, she seem to get the message and backs off in a distance and sit whenever Roger approached her. But she still have this look/attitude/aura on her that she looks at him as if he is a prey. Even though Daisy bites him, Roger still follow her sometimes and plays with her. I keep my guard on whenever their close with each other because Daisy can launch her attack faster at that distance. The solution that i'm doing right now is isolating them from each other. I have a dog cage and i put them in there on rotation so that there won't be harm done to Roger. I made a rotation so that both of them can roam my yard freely at a time. BTW, the cage is in the yard where the other are at (if this matter). What seems to be the problem with Daisy and how can i correct it? We have two house. The parents of all our dogs is in our first house. The mother is really intelligent and has a very behave attitude and listens to our command. Daisy grew up at our second house but she did spent a year with her mother in our first house. When Roger came and Daisy kept on attacking him, I decided to put him back at our first house with her mother so that the mother could dominate Daisy and make her behave but it didin't work. Daisy dominated her mother instead. She doesn't seem to be jealous because she didn't act weird when i added three other dogs. It was only when i added Roger that she acted like that. |
| Question: Confused by what husband wants??? Regarding my looks? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 03:08 PM PDT Confused by what my husband really wants??? Okay so 3.5 months ago I was skinny fat. I was too skinny though about 85lbs (always have been) and like 25% body fat. I then changed that, signed up for a fitness competition which forced me to get into shape. I cut down to 16% through strict diet and exercise (high protein) and got up to 105lbs. I have gotten so many compliments on my new physque. I'm really ripped. All from boxing and heavy weight training. But now my husband says I'm too big..wtf? What does he want? I honestly love my new look, but It hurt my feelings because I've put so much work into this body. Before he would tell me how I was too skinny. Honestly at the end of the day, how i feel about me is what matter which is great but I'm just confused..I have changed my life by getting into this shape and I don't think I could ever not be in shape now. I just feel awesome all the time now. I like how fitness has also gotten me away from the bullshit and the unnecessary things people do like drink, party etc. I live healthy, do fun activiites like kayaking etc now. Idk men are confusing. I just feel like i can't win, I'm either too skinny or too big..funny thing is I am heavier but still fit into my clothes . |
| Question: Should cheating on your spouse be illegal? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 02:58 PM PDT |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 02:42 PM PDT So, I am 20 years old. I am married with two boys. I've been with my husband since I was 14 and I got pregnant when I was 16. We got married and he joined the Marines when I was 18. We now have a 3 year old and 6 month old. Lately, I've been feeling resentful and I'm really struggling with it. I absolutely love my husband and my boys but sometimes they can do the littlest things and it makes me madder than ever. Why am I like this and how can I stop it? |
| Question: What if you caught your new husband coming out of your 19 year old daughter's room? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 01:15 PM PDT Let's say your 19 year old daughter spends the night over your house. In the middle of the night, your new/second husband comes out of her room, pulling his pants up with sweat on his face. Would you hand wave it as nothing? My husband cheated in the past, and my daughter doesn't like me much. She only visits me if she wants money or a place to stay, so it's hard to know if something happened or not. He told me the button in his pants popped out. |
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| Question: Am I weird for having many crushes even though I'm married? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 12:30 PM PDT I love the male form in all its beauty and glory. I can slot masculine features from any guy. Thus, I have a handful of crushes. Some even contribute to sexy moments in my head... And sometimes when I'm making love to my husband. I'm in a good relationship but I consider this as my flaw. It feels like I'm not normal to find so many men attractive especially I'm a female. What do you think? |
| Question: Has anyone (female) gotten a divorce with 3 kids? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 11:56 AM PDT How did you survive it? Manage bills? Just looking for insight? |
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| Question: What is the appeal of a second, or third or multiple marriages? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 11:22 AM PDT If you got it wrong the first time why go through it again? |
| Question: How do I get over the fact that my ex is seeing someone new and i feel replaced? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 11:17 AM PDT And I should be grown up about this, but it's my first real relationship gone down the drain, so I'm struggling. Broke up last day of June, he started seeing a new girl a few months ago. do you think it's a rebound or is it completely possible that he f ound someone he really likes? we dated almost 2 years I've tried everything - sex with someone else, gym, vacation, reading, but now that i see her met a new girl, I'm back to square one. i need help. 24 years old. started seeing her a new weeks ago, not months. fb official, he felt the need to message me and tell me too...she has the same features as me, it's odd, and i'm hurt. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 10:46 AM PDT Think of that career or job that you really enjoy, so much so that you would not mind doing it for free occasionally, because you just love your line of work so damn much. But for most people who have a paying job, this is not the case, is it? If 5 days out of the week, one or both people in a marriage consistently regard their marriage as nothing but work, mind-numbing work, that they are obligated or feel forced to do because they want the relationship to last, is that not an obvious sign that the two people in question are SIMPLY NOT A GOOD MATCH? People usually want their marriages to last, but not all couples can say I want the relationship to last because I still love my partner. Rather, their TRUE reasons span a variety of shapes and flavors: the fear of loneliness, comparing self to other couples, peer pressure/afraid of being the one who failed a relationship, inferiority complex, conforming to cultural or societal expectations, wanting the fairy tale to last, want to keep enjoying the marriage for its tax break and other practical perks such as having someone to cook and clean for you, already too old to look for someone new, too lazy or afraid to look for someone new, or how about the classic excuse: "stay together for the kids' sake"? That one's always a winner. Of course these reasons WILL make a marriage feel like WORK. Absolutely! But are we all supposed to grin and say "well I see nothing wrong with it, because this is as good as it gets"? Sounds typical! |
| Question: Is marriage easy or hard? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 10:43 AM PDT I know some guys who don't even have sex with their wives only after like a few years and so on. I don't understand why some guys are willing to be patient after marriage to even have sex with their wife while the whole point of marriage is to just have all the sex you want. It really makes no sense to me at all. |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 10:34 AM PDT Away from any of my emotional and physical support. He just doesn't know how to be nice. We are in the process of selling our home and he's hounding me to get off my *** and help. Im doing a lot of organizing, so that when we box our stuff, we know how to find it. Not to mention in the midst of it I'm caring for our children who still have to eat, nap and make messes while this is all happening. It's like he doesn't see what all I am doing, he just keeps pointing out what I'm "not" doing and is literally griping at me every minute. He bought me personal training as a gift and keeps getting mad when I go to a session. "We have stuff to do and all you want to do is go the gym!", but really, I signed up for a program that he bought and he's mad that I am going? He was painting this morning & I took the kids with me to make it easier, but he's still mad. He kept griping at me the second I got home because I wanted to sit down for a few minutes. I am 3 months pregnant and I don't have the stamina to just keep going 24-7. I feel like he's pushing me into a divorce because he really treats me like this most of the time. I never gripe at him for anything. I bring home $3000 a month after taxes. I don't get why he does this. It's like he wants me to leave. I just don't like being a nice person and supportive wife and by get it back. I have no one I can even talk to right now, my mom is in the hospital and I just feel alone. I was in an abusive home as a child and I don't like when he acts like my step father did. I stand up for myself- I don't gripe at home meaning "nag". I literally tell him "I'm not a doormat" "don't doeak to me like that" even the occasional "you're being an *** hole" and many more. |
| Question: Wife isn't willing to send me pictures while I'm away? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 10:13 AM PDT Ok me and my wife have a great marriage, she's 38 and I'm 34, married for 6 years. Recently I got this great opportunity in my job, but the only thing is I'm away from home all week. I leave on Sunday and I don't come back until Friday night. I really like the set up, I mean I get out of the house for a whole week and my company pays for my apartment. But I miss my wife and she REALLY misses me. She was angry at me for taking the position when it was offered and now she's even more angry at me. She's nice while I'm at home but I know she's angry that I took a job where I'm away all week. Anyways like I said she's nice while I'm home, we make love, go out to eat and just spend time together. But while I'm away, I've started asking her for nude pictures and she refused. I bought her these sexy outfits, and I said I wanted her to give me strip shows on skype and she also refused. When I asked her why she said that if I want to see her I should be at home. Its absolutely ridiculous, I'm making a lot more money working this way and it obviously benefits her with the money to. All I'm asking is to get some sexy pictures and videos to hold me till the weekends and she won't. She won't do anything to make this job easier on us. It's the weekend now and we're fighting about it I don't know what to do, I can't stop the job it's too good of an opportunity but she's pissed at me and she won't budge on this, she absolutely refuses to send me anything. Is it wrong to ask for these things? We've been married for 6 years for crying out loud and we love each other like crazy, im not going to leave her, and I'm certainly not going to share the pictures if I were to get any. So this whole fear of revenge porn is ridiculous and I hope that's not her reason for refusing because that's just stupid. |
| Question: Why didn't he just let me date someone else (sorry this is long)? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 10:04 AM PDT Before my husband became my husband, we had been dating for 8 years. Tired of the lack of commitment and romance, I took a break from him and started hanging out with this guy who badly wanted to date me and seemed to genuinely care about me. It was too soon for me to jump into another relationship, so I remained friends with him for months. My now husband found out about who I was hanging out with and how happy my new friend made me, and suddenly my husband was being romantic, telling me he wanted me back, that we would get married and I could finally start a family that I've always wanted. I was stupid and started dating my now husband again, and as you see - we did get married. He did also impregnate me (which took a LOT less time than I ever expected). For a while, I was happy. Now my husband is verbally abusive and back to being everything that drove me away in the first place. He sees that I have no guy friends anymore (because none of them wants to be friends with a girl who is pregnant and married) and feels he can treat me however he wants. So my question is - if he doesn't truly respect and love me, why didn't he just let me go and date the guy who genuinely cared about me? |
| Question: What do other couple s fight about? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 09:46 AM PDT I want to know what other couple s have fought about in their past. Like what s the biggest fight you ve had? |
| Question: I am married bu I'm interestedin having wild sex gestures. Is this normal? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 09:23 AM PDT I want to try it in a group, threesome, bondage, and a surprise visit from a hot friend who will also be part of the act. Am I in for midlife crisis? I didn't care much about all ofthese when I was younger. Why now?. |
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| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 09:17 AM PDT My other half filed an order of protection against me on a Domestic incident in which was found out to be a lie. Me and my partner have a child together. The place where we stay is mine and I have custody of my child. Should I kick my partner out because I feel it's unsafe to be with someone who would uproot the family for their own selfish reasons or should I still fight for the family and try to make it work? The allegations were ongoing but I fear my child will be damaged by this in the long run. |
| Question: I want to kiss him but he is a complete stranger and I'm hitched? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 09:05 AM PDT I just have this impulse to make a move on this man. He removed his shoes while working out and ever since then, I found him so darn adorable. I just wanted to remove his shoes again and make a move on him while he is in a vulnerable position. My husband is okay with it. Would kissing a stranger land me in jail? He is soooo cute. I want to steal his socks! |
| Question: I am married but I'm attracted to latinos? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:42 AM PDT I just don't understand that I have a weak spot for them and It seems my admirers are always of latin decent. But I'm married and it makes me wonder if I'm wrong for being attracted to them. A few of my admirers I became acquainted with. No line is crossed because I just don't want to. |
| Question: Do I need to reply to divorce papers in county where flied? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 08:19 AM PDT |
| Posted: 10 Oct 2015 07:49 AM PDT I was divorced in May. I was a stay home mom for last 10yrs. Not working this year. Don't I have to file taxes due to my Child/spousal support? **Note was looking for work before divorce was finalized when mother took ill and needed assistance. I receive $3500/kids $300/spousal assistance. I live in her home but have lease &pay rent. I was divorced in May. I was a stay home mom for last 10yrs. Not working this year. Don't I have to file due to my Child/spousal support? No further answers needed this posted to marriage and divorce where I had placed it in the tax forum. And thank you for all the hateful answers and messages. I did not take my ex for a ride. He earns over 10k a month, and I took the minimum I could under my states laws. The amount is high because of his income, line of work, our child's health care monthly cost and his absence in daily life. We are amicable, it's sad some of you couldn't be. |
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| Question: Husband goes out every Friday evening, returns Saturday...What do you think? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 04:45 AM PDT It has become a habit for my husband to go out Friday night and return on Saturday. We have been married almost four years with no kids, and have had several rough patches. He gets emotional when I confront him, as if it is his right, and tells me that he is staying with a friend doing xyz (fill in the blank with a lame excuse). I'm getting tired of it. What do you think, and what would you do? Note: I do not go out and party (and I wouldn't and couldn't do it in retaliation), I'm a Master's student working full-time. I do not know his friends that well, they do not come to our house (and I don't have their phone numbers). He always meets them somewhere, or goes to their house. I do not nag my husband, I'm too busy. I used to nag him about being irresponsible, but I do not bother anymore. He's very stubborn and selfish. He has a personal and work cell phone. He makes most of his calls from his work phone (can't check history). Just got a hold of him on his work phone, and he is not sorry. I would not ask my friends to follow him, and he would likely notice them anyway. I am trying to understand his behavior, I do not give him cause to treat me this way. When I dated my now husband, he was not such a jerk. As soon as we got married, he turned into a jerk. I was mentally and physically abused for two years, and I found out he was having an affair. I confronted him about the affair, and he choked me. I was awarded a restraining order, and filed for divorce. He apologized, and I took him back. He was mea culpa for awhile, but then started to disappear overnight several months ago. I like the idea of hiring a PI to know for sure what is going on. Connor, thanks for your answer. I think that it is best to remove myself from the situation and really evaluate how I am going to move forward. It's really hard to admit that someone (especially your husband) does not love you, and I am a very loving and loyal person that tends to cling on to any shred of hope. Contemplating a divorce is life altering, and I know how hard it is because I have been down that road. I think you are right, I need to accept that he is not right for me. |
| Question: How can I track my husband cell phone I no he cheating I just want to caught him? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 03:51 AM PDT |
| Question: We did NOTHING for our 10th wedding Anniversary but I'm crazy for being upset about it? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 02:23 AM PDT I'm a stay at home mom so my husband makes the decisions about how his money is spent and I don't get to plan things for us to do. I have never expected (or gotten) much for our anniversaries (the first year we went to the MALL because he wanted a watch from Fossil but I at least got one, too) Anyway, this year was our 10th and I told him that I have never expected much but that this was an important anniversary and I will he would like for him to pick something romantic or fun for us to do. Well he literally came up with nothing and even got annoyed with me when I wanted to go to hard rock café. he thinks I'm ridiculous for caring about anniversaries, that when we were dating he thought it was cute, I guess he was just pretending. So our anniversaries important or am I making a big deal out of nothing? Bye, it's not bc we don't have the money, I don't spend anything besides getting a new outfit or makeup/toiletries (only basics) when I need them or a book or cd here and there. We have the money to do things but he would rather buy guns or fishing stuff and tell me that if I want something I better get a job. |
| Question: Immature to get upset when your husband doesn't hug or kiss you? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 02:14 AM PDT My husband works third shift all week so Friday and Saturday are the only nights we get to go to bed at the same time. He always goes to bed and lays on his phone for at least an hour and ignores me, last night I asked him to put it away and simply give me a hug and a kiss good night and he said I was being immature. When I got upset he called me a baby. Was I being a baby? |
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| Question: Why a men is bored with her wife after 15 years of married life ? Posted: 10 Oct 2015 01:08 AM PDT |
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| Posted: 09 Oct 2015 11:58 PM PDT My wife and I took in this 19 year old girl who was homeless. I agreed to let her stay til she got on her feet...I agreed cuz my wife wanted to help her. Needless to say I don't like this girl. Now, my wife says she doesn't want to have kids with me cuz I'm mean. I don't think it's fair to base our future life as parents on a 19 year old girl that isn't ours. I keep telling her that it would be different with our own but she don't think so. Instead she thinks I need to nurture and guide this 19 year old cuz she's had a hard life and needs someone. I refuse to do it cuz she's an adult and needs to figure it out. Am I being too harsh? |
| Question: Should I just leave my ex husband alone about his kids? Posted: 09 Oct 2015 11:56 PM PDT My ex husband has been in jail for awhile now. Not once has he called or wrote his kids. Not even to check on them. I even wrote him a letter to encourage him to at least check on them. But I found out that he calls his gf and talk to her kids . I'm to the point where I feel bad for my kids and I feel Horrible for choosing this man to have kids by. Its just so much I can do. Even when he wasn't in jail he would go months and months without even checking on them . I decided to just leave him alone about it. Obviously he doesn't care to much about his kids. Am I doing the right thing by just letting it go? |
| Question: Wife shows no intimacy anymore I feel depressed and unloved? Posted: 09 Oct 2015 11:52 PM PDT So me and my wife never have sex anymore it s driving me crazy I have sexual desires that need to be fulfilled and they aren t getting fulfilled I m getting tired of beating off that gets old after awhile so I don t even resort to that anymore. I m also so board of porn it does the opposite for me anymore these days, it makes my penis turtle inwards cause of the lack of legitimate intamacy it shows, we also never share kisses anymore, she claims she loves me just as much as I love her but she really dosnt show much intimacy anymore these days we get along just fine like 2 peas in a pod like best friends but that sexy spark just isn t their anymore, like tonight I tried real hard to get her into the mood and she just says stop it please babe i dont want that tonight. ... idk what to do anymore |
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