Family: Question: My Dad Dates Gold diggers?

Question: My Dad Dates Gold diggers?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:06 PM PDT

Why? My dad is okay with it. One time he was thinking of proposing and I threated to kill her. Because I want to actually live a successful life. What do I do?

Question: Why does my dad treat me the way he does? and how do i fix it?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:01 PM PDT

My dad is always yelling at me and telling me I ripped the family apart and everything that has happened is my fault and that he has no blame for it. He used to be really fun and I enjoyed life until about the 4th grade , I remember one incidence I wore a long skirt to school. I know I had to use a slip for it and when I was going to school my dad looked at me and started screaming at me because the slip was lower that the skirt. he started saying " why are you trynna look sexy" etc stuff liked that. he spanked me with a belt and I was never so hurt of confused. from then he's just been a grouch we cant talk to him how "normal" families would and that became our "normal" recently my brother was kicked out and my dad blames me for it, he says I'm always covering up for him , when i don't , my dad thinks my brother tells me what he goes off and does but he doesn't. It seems like my dad doesn't want me here but then he'll turn it and say i don't want to be here. He just stares at me in disgust makes it seems like i am a terrible person. He thinks i just go off and get high and drink. I got home from volleyball practice and he was screaming at me saying i was off getting high. i have never smoked and drank in my life.i tried to talk to him and tell him how i feel but he just interrupts me and tells me I'm lying and says nothing is his fault its all mine, I don't know how much longer i can take this. It leaves me crying every night.

Question: How to tell my girlfriend her house keeping is bad respectfully?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:57 PM PDT

Hello out there I need some advice. Well me an my girlfriend have been dating for a few months an everything is going well but the only trouble is her house is really nasty. I don't want to hurt her feelings but it's always dishes piled up in the sink an not to be mean to her but they are so dirty an nasty they honestly need to be thrown out an replaced with new ones. She does wash them sometimes but even after she washes them I cringe when she puts food on the plate an gives me a fork an I never want to hurt her feelings but it's so dirty an nasty an literlly stained permanently it makes me feel sick looking at the plates. Its not really just the dishes either but even the sink is nasty an old an very unsanitairy. The carpet is very filthy too. When i say filthy I mean extremely filthy crumbs on floor from months ago stale cigarette smoke. She doesn't live alone she lives with her mother to. An it's not her total fault. Her mother smokes at least a pack or more a day. An I honestly want to move her in with me but I don't want to get to serious yet far as marriage an moving in. I never say anything ever about the unsanitairyness of her house as I don't want to hurt her feelings or step on toes but I dreed going to get house. I thought about buying throw away plates an forks an that way I wouldn't have to hurt her feelings but if I do that I think she would figure out I don't like her house an I love her a lot just cringe at the house keeping. Any advice is much appreciated

Question: Can you force yourself to like someone?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:53 PM PDT

I absolutely can't stand my father. He is just a dick and has no respect for me or anyone else. He's always taking his anger out on me and cursing at me when he has problems. He's actually being an *** as i type because he can't find his phone. He gets mad and leaves horrible voice mails if i just miss one of his calls. He acts like everything is the end of the world. I try to avoid him at all costs. I'm also really embarrassed because he has no manners when we go places. He ignores store employees and talks on the phone when a waitress is trying to take our order. He also has no common sense. How do I tolerate him? P.S. I can't even listen to music because he always tries to talk and then I have to take my earbuds out.

Question: My little sister talks bad about me?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:35 PM PDT

I recently found out my 16 year old sister had started drinking two years ago and still does. She lies about everywhere she goes and thinks me and my whole family are dumb. I came across her texts on her mac because she forgot to log off her account and i saw people texting her "how are you getting alcohol" and stuff and i couldn't help but read the other texts and she wrote to three of her friends (i dont even know them) and she wrote "omg my sister is so annoying she yells at me evry time i go out. i just told her and my mom that im going to a friend's house to study" that made me furious and in her other messages she shamed me of how i like to stay home and relax but in her words she said "shes in her bed all the ******* time so im never alone in my house" what the hell do i do with this *****. i don't even yell at her for going out i just ask where she's going and when she replies i just say "yeah ok i don't believe you." should i tell my mom?

Question: Is this okay for my parents to do this?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:25 PM PDT

Okay so my little sister didn't finish all her homework so my parents are punishing her by not letting her go trick or treating tonight. Does that seem like a good punishment?

Question: Dose my friend have an outie or innie belly button?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:22 PM PDT

The other day I want to a party and while we were goofing around I noticed my friend's belly button. I said "OMG what's that!" and poked it! He was very ticklish and laughed! After that I said OMG it's an outie haha! But he denied it! I could help, but poke though out the night just to see him laugh. My question dose he have outie or innie belly button? http://postimg.org/image/z9zwe5yph/

Question: I miss my 2 sons ���� What can I do?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:07 PM PDT

Im a mother of 6 kids. My x husband died in 2008 & my 4 kids I had with him were hurt. When I met a new man in my life & I remarried & gave birth to 2 twin kids. I have a 14 year old son & a 13 year old son & 2 11 year old twin daughters that I had with my ex husband. When I got remarried I gave birth to two 1 boy & 1 girl (twins). My 2 sons hate my husband & they started to show anger issues. When they lived with me they would try to fist fight him & so kicked them out for being violent. They both train in boxing & kickboxing & they are really good fighters. My 2 twin daughters are ok with my husband, but not my boys. They both speak spanish and english because they are both full hispanic like me & their twin sisters & their dad. Im from guatemala & my x husband is from el salvador. Anyways, they would sometimes be racist towards my husband because he was white. I havent seen my sons since they moved out. I have phoned them, but they never pick up. My 14 year old son turns 15 in november 4 & it makes me cry everytime I want to tell him I love him & happy birthday. Idk what to do I love my 2 boys & I miss them.

Question: My friend wants to hang out today but her parents keep saying she can't go to these certain places which is where I wanna go?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:06 PM PDT

And I told her to get dropped off at my dads house and we can drive to the place to eat instead of walk so that we won't break her parents rules but her parents doesn't want her to go to where we were gonna eat and they want to drop her off at my moms not my dads so that means that I have to walk to my moms which is a long walk that I don't want to do because she we would just be sitting at home doing nothing and I don't know if I should just say forget it or if I should just do all of that?

Question: So I have European neighbors and we 8 families share the same pool, I am very disturbed that some of my neighbors leave their 2,3,4 yrs ...?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:06 PM PDT

i am very disturbed that some of my neighbors leave their 2,3,4 yrs walk nude around the pool. Aren't we suppose to teach kids about private parts n that those parts are private? It disturbs me and my kids so much what do u think?

Question: My parents yell at me too much?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 11:46 AM PDT

They will find the tinest things to yell at me about. My mom will try to find all my flaws in everything i do, and my dad will agree with her. My sister does everything perfect, and they are always comparing me with her. This morning, I decided to rake leaves because maybe for once they wont think i dont do anything, or that im a disappointment. Once i was finished, the wind blew my leave pile back around the grass, and my mom kept yelling at me because thats what i get for being "lazy" and not doing it "fast enough". Whenever i get yelled at, my parents will call me a baby, because i cry. Im a 13 year old, i cant move out, run away, and when i try to talk to them, they ignore me.

Question: Is my dad on drugs?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 11:41 AM PDT

I'm 14 so I need help to know if he is or not. Okay so my dad yells at random stuff ALL THE TIME. He can never find anything of his and then he starts yelling and trashes his house trying to look for it. I've been in his room before (but he tells me to stay out at all times) and I saw a package of like 4 big balls of weed and there are bowels all over his room. My dad has gotten so skinny in the past year. My dad doesn't have a girlfriend or wife (my mom and him never got Married). Whenever I'm at my moms house I tell her stories about my dad and what he did and she always says "you know it's drugs, right?" And whenever I'm at his house I wake up at like 3 in the morning and he's still up and he's just like walking around the house. And one time he picked me up from my friends house at like 11pm and then he cruised around our town while looking at his phone until like 2 am. And I don't know if he's on drugs but this stuff is going to scar me for the rest of my life. I remember how my dad used to be so nice and caring and I loved going over to his house. I don't know what has happened to him. Oh and he always uses eyedrops to take away redness. And he is always sniffing his nose

Question: Spitting in someone's drink..?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 11:04 AM PDT

My dad attacked my mother and put her in hospital.. My mother didn't tell anyone what really happened.. When she came back home, my dad continued threatening her saying next time it'll be the other leg, then he told me to get his tea and I spat in it twice.. The next day he was I'll.. Was my spit the cause for it. Also he went to the hospital to check what the cause was, could they discover what really happened

Question: Taking small children to a BCT graduation.?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 11:00 AM PDT

Hi! So my husband graduations from basic in about a week and a half and we ve got a 4 year old and 9 month old. I ll be taking both to his graduation. I was wondering if you guys had any tips on how to make taking the kids a little easier. I know they ll be extremely cranky from having to wake up at almost 5 in the morning and driving and then having to sit and wait for the ceremony to start and then sitting through it. I know my 4 year old can just play on his tablet but handling a 9 month old who ll probably be over tired and cranky and won t really have a way to eat will be a little tricky to handle.

Question: Advice plz??

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 10:49 AM PDT

Im married with n wonderful husband and i have a little boy plus im 8 months pregnant. We are moving into my grandmothers house right next to my parents house. The reason i need advice is that my parents wants to raise my child for me. They were very young when they had me and they were very very strict. Now my husband and i want to raise our children but when we ask them to do something or not to do something they will show us that they wil do what they want when they want to. I always listen to my mothers advice and never just told her "No" i respect her but sometimes i dont feel the same about things. Like my mother want to give my little boy a chocolate everyday. I just said that thats too much for me he can have chocolates but not everyday. Now i am the worst mother in the world according to them. My husband and i did talk to them and nicely asked them to give us a chance to raise our children just like they had their chance. Im tired of fighting against them. And my husband wants me to stand up against them and i have. They just always starts yelling or they just dont give a sh*t. Like i said my parents are still young and still wants me to do everything they tell me to...i dont know how to explain everything because its so hard if you cant see it for yourself. My mom even phones me about 3 times everyday to check on me and to check if im still caring for my son. I mean really. How do i get my parents to understand that im on my pwn now with my own family and that we are going to raise our children our way. How do i get them to follow my rules. When its nap time or when he was naughty to not go and play with him to comfort him or something. My child doesnt even want to be with us anymore because we try to teach him and they just play and spoil him all day long. It hurt me because when he get hurt and i try to comfort him they always take him from me even if i said no wait. Now when his hurt he just goes to them.. I really need some advice.

Question: Why my parents are so overprotective?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 10:34 AM PDT

So I'm a 14 year old muslim girl I am tired of following my parents rules and I always obay them and listen to and I swear I'm a perfect child to them but therefore my dad most of the time disrespects me and treat me like crap they don't even allow me to be only friends with guys and they hate it when I talk to boys in my age like seriously I'm not going to lose my virginity when I hangout or talk to a guy they think that my friends(girls)(they are also muslims) that hangout with boys are bad and there parents must be more strict with them so WHY ARE THEY SOO OVERPROTICTIVE about me + I never did something bad to make a bad impression about any of my friends or act stupid Sorry I know it's kind of a long para

Question: I need help, I'm being ignored by my own family. Can someone help me, please?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 10:31 AM PDT

My sisters and brother takes all the attention away from me. When i am doing something amazing thing and my parents say "cool" or "good for you". But when it comes to my sisters and brother my parents love them more than anything. And i get that i'm the oldest and all, but i still need support from them. I feel like i'm not wanted in this family. I NEED HELP! I NEED THEIR SUPPORT! 😥

Question: Why do my parents talk about me in third person?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 10:00 AM PDT

Whenever my parents get mad at me, they start talking to me as "she". Like "she" doesnt care about anyone else or "she's" too self-centered to care. They even say "she" won't go to college shes not mature. I dont mean to complain, but this really annoys me and I was wondering if other parents do this too? It's really weird to me

Question: What can I do to stop hating my mother and sister in law?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:59 AM PDT

Question: How my phone will be protected from my Dad who always takes it and watches my messages? Please, I want this OVER!!!?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:58 AM PDT

Question: Confused as sh*t?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:55 AM PDT

I don't know what I should do like I haven't been with my dad in contact for 9 days and my sister even told my dad that I called him coward and stuff cuz he went away some family problems but he dosnt text and. Blocked on everything what shall I do or how to feel ?

Question: Asking a man to change his life?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:54 AM PDT

I need some guidance as to what to tell my sister. Her boyfriend and her had a baby out if wedlock. He does hard labor out of town 5 days a week a few hours away from his beautiful country home. My sisterling lives 4 hours away from the home and travels there some weekends, contemplating a move there. However she hates it, because she is from the city & hates the country life and he hates the city life. Lately, she has been so mean to him. Threatening him that he has to quit his job and sell his house and relocate to the city & find a new job if he wants to see his child anymore. He is devastated. She claims he is not making any sacrifices to be a good father and in the father's life, since he is away for work all of the time and she hates that. The two cannot agree on where to live and what to do and they are always fighting. If he doesn't quit his job and move away from home, he will not be in the child's life very much. They work 4 hours away from eachother. But does not changing his entire life that he made BEFORE the unplanned child mean he is a bad father??? What can I tell her? They are verbally abusing eachother.

Question: Does my brother have a mental disorder?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:49 AM PDT

I've done nothing to him. A little background As a child my dad beat him an verbally abused him. Brother was hit by a car as a child and served. Our mother died of cancer when he was 18 years old. Our dad continues to call him gay. Brother girlfriend dumped him 2 years ago. My brother am I got an apartment together to save money. But I regret it. He's often moody angry an unpredictable. He goes into screaming rages. Our lease isn't up til March. This week I asked for access code to pay online bill. He got mad said I was disturbing him at work, an I'm irresponsible an that's why I'm no where in life. I kinda want to cut him out of my life. Is he schizophrenic. My aunt who's 90 said he was born that way. As a child he was hyperactive.

Question: My 2 friends and I are planning a trip to Nantucket by ourselves. How can I convince my parents?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 09:24 AM PDT

Me and my friend are trying to get our parents to let us go on a trip to Nantucket with out them. We will all be 14 by then, and we live in CT, so it isn t even that far. They just don t seem like they want to, which is understandable I guess, we ve just been planning this for a while.

Question: My family won't forgive me?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 08:54 AM PDT

so my mom was diagnosed with Cancer, and I developed an eating disorder. Right after she died, my brother realized the severity of it, and he took me to a hospital. After I was put in inpatient he left, and I never saw him or my father or my sister again for the whole two months I was there. They never visited, they never called, and they never even responded to my texts except for my brother occasionally. I was only 12 and now I'm 13. They day that I got to leave they called my father, and he didnt even bother to show up until 12 hours after they called because he was "busy". I skipped a couple meals, and he said that he wished he could "take me back to the hospital where I belonged and leave me there for good" because I was ruining his perfect family and I was a "burden". Now he will yell at me or call me an asshole whenever he sees me, (even if I eat) and sometimes he'll hit me or push me down the stairs or try to choke me. He says I'm selfish for having an eating disorder but I REALLY REALLY REALLY don't want to have one. Whenever my sister passes me she'll whisper "fat" into my ear and walk away, and otherwise she doesn't talk to me. My older brother says that I owe him a "thank you" for taking me to the hospital because he saved my life, and I probably do, but right now I just hate him because everybody has hated me ever since I went there and I don't know how to get them to forgive me and I miss my mom

Question: Anyone want to send pictures of yourself to help me masturbate?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 08:41 AM PDT

Question: Why arent parents forced to have a license to be parents or else be fined for having kids? Some parents like my sociopath "dad" are horrible?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 08:33 AM PDT

He abandoned my family but has the audacity to shoe up at our house from time to time when he needs us to do something. If we refuse he becomes threatening and abusive. One time he demanded we ask his brothrr for money or he would kill us and his brothrr and himself

Question: How do I say no to an adult family vacation?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 08:16 AM PDT

My in-laws have been on a big family vacation kick... they invite all three of their kids & all of their grand-kids. As a 36-year old mother of three, I'd like to start having vacations with my own family, not my in-laws. How do i tell them without breaking their hearts?

Question: My x boyfriend came over to see his kid and took her and said hes not coming back. What can i do.?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 08:14 AM PDT

Question: Parents and technology?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 07:59 AM PDT

Well i need a computer because we are doing programming in school now and my parents dont belive me that i really need one,while they have the money they dont give me to buy a computer,and said that i can work with my old computer or /and laptop but they are very old and dont work very well for this job,my school told us we need a computer and told my parents too but they dont listen,is there any way to convince them

Question: I don't like to spend time with my family..?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 07:32 AM PDT

my mom told me that she thinks that i am anti social and have no life and I am not doing anything with my life because I am usually in my room playing ps4, working, or on the web. I have good grades (A's and B's), have friends, and in sports. it got to the pt. where she came to my room saw me using my laptop and started yelling at me because she thought I was on youtube but I was typing a paper and when i showed her she gota poker face and then just came up with how i never spend time with them in the living room. The issue came up again and i argued with my dad and he throws this huge tantrum and he was red. He then yelled at me and was spitting so i just slapped him in the face with my fingertips (wasnt even hard) and then yeah, you know what the result of this is (spanking) He must have told her that i punched him in the face then she just comes to me and says that i will never be forgiven and the kind of people that hit their parents "like that" get sent to "la infierno" and i asked her what was she talking about and she yanks my ps4 off the wall. She also thinks that i like to watch killing shows (i watch walking dead but i mostly watch top gear ) and i play battlefield also but i barely do anymore because it has gotten boring.AND she knows for a fact that i like racing games most. I told her i dont like to spend time with the fam bc they always argue and also I have to much work to be dealing with that kind of stupidity. Im 15, a sophomore and a guy. Any help? h I still had a conversation with my parents and my dad said he felt like he deserved it. I still told him i was sorry and felt terrible. Conversation was 4 hours. Also, I'm not your typical douchebag that listens to drake/the weeknd all day and thinks he deserves more in life with all the cars and cash money and stupid stuff like that. Yeah I sound like a moron but yahoo answers doesn't give enough space to explain.

Question: Do I have the right to be jealous/angry?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 07:18 AM PDT

Recently my dad flew my brother and him off to Jamaica for 2 weeks leaving me and my mum home alone, I was really jealous and upset but I convinced myself that it cost too much. Later on I found out that if I had said something I could have gone... It sucked and I still feel a bit annoyed but that's not what this is about. I discovered I had a love for bearded dragons and my mum's friend was selling one, with the cage and everything for £40! I asked my dad about it, and gave alot of good argument for it... but he said no. i just can't see why he would... He sends his son off halfway across the world for £1300 but won't let his daughter keep a pet for £40? I've sunk into a pit of sadness to be honest and I'm really annoyed. I can't think why he wouldn't have it? I've said I would do everything for it, and I honestly will :( ... So is it even ok for me to be angry?

Question: Why do people say ridiculous things they know aren't true to try to win an argument?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 06:52 AM PDT

My in laws bath has a lock on it to keep it from going above 96°. I asked how to override the lock to get a hot shower and got a lecture as how that is absolutely as hot as a shower should be. I said no, that's e temperature you give a baby a bath and my father in law said, "babies like much hotter baths than adults." There is no way even he can be that clueless.

Question: Why does the world work this way? I am 17 and I need to move out this may but idk what to do.?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 06:43 AM PDT

i don't know if I am proud to have had a bad life or I'm bitter. I am 17 years old and I feel like maybe I saw how cruel the world can be too early on and I just want to vent. I've grown up with an alcoholic mother, no money, no toys, no love. my mom got 950 a month since I was 7 and that's a lot for Indiana. My question is why the **** did I have to go to school with the same clothes every day. Why did I have to wait till I saw my dad which was holidays, to get a winter jacket. My mom tried to pretend, but she mentally abused the hell out of me. I CANT even explain how horrible she was. Most people don't feel depression until they are a teen but I was depressed, insane, and anxiety ridden as a child. I never talked to her bc she would hurt me. She left me with drunk old guys she met at the bar and her meth addict neighbors. Today she is still trying to act like things are perfect. She has this big yellow house that she got out of the divorce, she is not bad, actually she is soo much ******* better then every breathing person(not). She talks **** about everyone. My sister moved away bc she treated her like ****. But now my mom preaches to anyone who will listen that my sister is being mentally abused and controlled by her husband, yeah right that's why she moved away. Should I just tell her to screw off like my sister did? Considering she's an alcoholic she has guilt tripped and manipulated me my whole life she it is hard to do to her what she does to me..

Question: How can I help my sister?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 05:55 AM PDT

My little sister is ALWAYS on her kindle, from 6:00 in the morning to the time she goes to bed. I try to ask her to get off and play outside, or draw, or play with me, or just do something else besides staring at a screen all day, but she doesn't listen at all. I don't know what to do, please help.

Question: Should I move back home to Oregon?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 05:30 AM PDT

I moved to Vegas from Eugene Oregon. I landed a job with the va hospital out here. My situation is that I met a girl back in my hometown. I fly back to Eugene once a month. I was just looking at jobs at the hospital I use to work at and they had a position open. It was a 36 hour full evening position. So I went and I applied for it and now I have a interview over the phone in 2 days. Right now I work 40 hours a week with the va. I'm actually thinking about moving back home to go back to school. When I moved to Vegas all I did was partied for the first year. Then all I would do is drink and party and go to work. Right now I work 12 hour night shifts. But now since I met my girl I have calmed down a whole lot. Im actually thinking about my future. I make good money but I want to be with my family and my girl and I want to go back to school to get my nursing degree. My dad works at the college so my tution would be paid for. If I move back I would be living with my parents. I would making less but I would be doing good for my future and be happy. Should I just bite the bullet and take back my old job and work and go back to school? Or just stay out here in Vegas and just work eat and sleep? The reason why I ask is that I made all this effort to move out to Vegas And made it my home for the last 2 years. If I move back I would of done all that for nothing. But if I move back I would be sane and be happy. I know it's my decision but I would like some input from you guys. Thanks!!

Question: Am I a bad parent / roll model ?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 04:27 AM PDT

Son brought new girl friend to meet me while he was painting for me. I do smoke. This said, within 20 min of meeting Trisha, I sat down to have a cigarette. She sat down with me & pulled out a pack of new port,proceeded to smoke with me. She asked me what brand I enjoyed cause my cigarettes were in my case on table. I said virgina slim 120s. She visited again, she pulled out her cigarettes once again, but now she had a fancy leather case like mine & now was smoking a virgina slim menthol full flavor. How do you like em. She said that actually loves them.I said your new case is cute & I like it. I even helped her personalize it with sewing a broach on it for her. she asked me to meether step mom & go shopping. I wanted a cigarette so I did. I asked Trisha if I could get one of hers becouse I was out & mention if her mom seen her broach on her case. Oh, boy . Mom came unglued. Guess she had no idea Trisha smoked. I found out she was only 18. I thought she was 24 or 25. I had no idea. I feel terrible! !! How could I have missed the age thing by so much. Trisha was just trying to appear much older & mature for my exceptance. Am I a bad mom ? What should I do now ? I cannot allow this bonding moment after finding out above. How do I stop it ? How can I deny her something that brings me so much pleasure ? I know I can t stop her. She smokes a really strong cigarette. I am certain she really enjoys it. I am a mom though.. she is so young. Help, I am troubled.

Question: My female cousin just admitted to me she's like sexually attracted to my sister. I have no idea what to do, honestly. Please help me.?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 04:26 AM PDT

So, like half an hour ago, my cousin admitted to me she's like into my sister (I'd rather not go into detail) and now I'm just sitting my room, shocked, having no idea what the hell to do. It's not the fact that she's gay, everyone already knows that, but since we're cousins, doesn't the fact that she's into my sister, who is also her cousin, make it incest? It is just so wrong and disturbing, and I haven't got the slightest clue how to handle this. Should I tell my sister? She'll probably freak out. But still, I can't just let this slide can I? Oh my Goodness I never though I would be in this position, EVER. And what's worse, my sister is always so touchy feely with her, like, whenever my cousin stays over, they always share a bed and like change in front of each other an stuff, which would be perfectly fine if she didn't have some sort if perverted incest crush on her. I feel so grossed out right now. HELP ME SOMEBODY, I don't think I can get out of my room until I sort this out. Seriously, ew.

Question: I hate my twin brother!? Help?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 04:18 AM PDT

(First of all I'm a girl) anyways my identical twin brother used to get along really well but since we started high school he wants nothing to do with me ! I have always been the quiet and shy but and I found it hard to talk to people and Dylan was always the 1 who talked and he used to boss me around a bit but since starting high school I made friends with a really good group of people and I've become a lot more comfortable with myself and a lot more confident!:) Dylan's being the biggest prick ever omg! He made the soccer team and is hanging out with the 'popular' guys and he's after getting really cocky and sees me and my friends as 'less' he's also dating the 'popular' girl in our grade who hates me (i know this story sounds so unbelievably cliche) he always snaps and me and laughs at what I have to say and he other day in school I asked if he had and lunch money, and he gave me the worst look and told me to **** off!! I almost cried as it was in front of my crush (who is a part of Dyls group) he later apologised as home, but I just ignored him, please help! There r other things I could say but I'm running out of room!

Question: What would you say to a cousin who is dissing/shunning you on social media when confronting them?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 03:57 AM PDT

Person X said: "here's your random cousin, how r you?" Person Y didn't reply. Person X was sincere in asking but felt ostracized and insulted. The next day Person X posted https://scontent-lax3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xta1/v/t1.09/12143331_850860581696481_4007749023944857204_n.jpg?oh=91d19452df5c457a5a7337bfeae36298&oe=56CF00CD and said "Man I swear I get tired of pulling teeth from deceitful, brains down, asinine up individuals. I ain't the fxckin dentist!" Prior to this Person Y has been putting up family bashing posts while complaining about others doing the same. And said some hours later "Its funny how people can disrespect they family o social media as if they care and then let MF talk wreckless to them and then they kiss they *** and explain themselves to sumbdy who cud careless. Just thinking out loud" Person Y This person is judgmental in most of their posts.Person X wants to bring up being ignored to Person Y but doesn't want there to be bad blood. What would you SAY to Person Y if you were person X?

Question: Why does everything I say get used against me?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 03:55 AM PDT

I am having serious trust issues at the moment. I cant literally trust no one. My parents, my grandmother, my friends etc. They all let me down at the end of the day. Everything I say to them (both good and bad) get used against me. Also, If I tell them my dreams, and aspirations in life, they use it against me and say "Nah, you can never became a lawyer, just become a nurse or something" What can I do??

Question: I don't feel or look my age?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 03:53 AM PDT

It's really weird, I'm 13 (almost 14) which sounds so young to me, and I guess it is but I look about 15/16 and feel a lot older than I am! Which is probably due to the fact that I'm a lot more responsible and determined that most people my age (which are immature and really annoying) I also prefer talking to people a lot older then me as in my grandparents and my parents friends, but don't get my wrong I sound really boring but I chill with my brother and sister (who are older) and their friends before they go clubbing and I honestly would definitely go with them without out a doubt. I dress older than most people my age and my parents treat me and my siblings like we're adults (because we all act older than we are) I also want more piercings, but than reality hits and I remember I'm only 13!! It feels so weird to think that?? Is this weird??

Question: Do your family members see your morning wood?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 03:41 AM PDT

Do you sleep with or without an underwear? Do your family members see your morning wood in the morning? (My mother, brother and I sleep in the same room... yeah, it's like that in my country). What do you do about this? They have definitely seen my morning wood! Some days when I wake up my brother is in the room, and my morning wood is just there... quite visible..

Question: Im 17 and IM ANGRY!!!!?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 02:00 AM PDT

I have a good family, and I have good grades, and I'm pretty, no health issues, and I have practically no reason to complain about my life at all. It is pretty great. No war, no sexual abuse, no lack of food. I have it so easy. The fact is I'm 17, going on 18, and there are times that I wish I was dead than to grow up. Why cant I say to myself :Focus on being a good person, getting near GOD, be thankful for my blessing, and have fun. I'm terrified about growing up. My mom,43, asked me what "janitor' means and I started to cry and scream (Literally I bawled) and said"Your 43, you should know! I want to kill myself!!! Becuz my parents are not that wise..." My dad was physically abused by his father as a kid and he has some mental issues. Now what, Im a junior. Some people have no legs, arms, are in Syria, but Im in USA. WHy cant I think: THANK GOD IM IN USA, still a Virgin, i have a house.... How do I get over the fact about being an adult... WHat does being an adult mean....

Question: I think my family hate me?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:37 AM PDT

My mom always is proud of my brother and says that to him in front of me but when she sees me she's always so negative ... Whenever I do something wrong they make a big deal out of it but to my brother they say oh it's okay and my mom is mean to me even though I don't even curse her out or do bad things she said she wished she could dump me in the middle of the desert because I'm worthless to them she also kicked me out of the house when I was 6 because I argued with my brother and I didn't even fight with him .. My dad even said in front of me he prefers my brother better than me ... Even my brother hates me he always says i am arrogrant and annoying then both my mom and dad always say hurtful things like if you were to be adopted by someone they would just return you back once they find out who you are my mom has also called me trash and ugly then my whole family always talks about my brother being fit and that I need to lose weight because I am fat . i feel like I don't belong to this family and want to run away from home because if my family obviously hates me then why should they care if I run away or kills myself

Question: My sister didn t come to visit me at the hospital?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:33 AM PDT

I was layed at the hospital for 2 nights as I was really sick. Everyone came to visit me me except my siblings. My older brother went out with his girlfriend and my older sister went out for breakfast and gathering once with her friends and once with her kids and didn t bother to visit. They just called me and that s it. I was always nice to them and acted as a good sister so I was shocked. Should I be at mad them

Question: I want to kill myself because of my mom ?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:28 AM PDT

I am 18 years old and live with my mother,stepfather.She loves him more than me.I just know it.She never shows any affection to me and she has never kissed or hugged me.If we have some drama at house i am always ending up with being called worst daughter ever,b*tch and etc.She even hits me.I am crying every night because I really want to be loved by her and not neglected((For example,my mom and me wake up at 6am and it was the only time when we managed to have at least 10 mins talk.Now my stepfather wakes up at the same time and I am being ignored.I became really aggressive and annoying just to get my mom's attention.Now i am only being yelled at.She always says that I am lazy brat without future,that i am ugly and no one is going to love me and etc.Today we had other argument.Our TV didn't turn on and I knew what is wrong.While I was repairing it,she kept touching it.I asked her to stop about 15 times and finally I kinda yelled at her because she pissed me off with her stupidity.Now she keeps yelling at me with words that I am b*tch and she hopes that I die alone.I don't deserve to have a future and so on.Now she said that she doesn't give a single f*ck if I kill myself.What the point of living ?No one wants me :( My dad has a new family and new kids.He doesn't even bother to call me.I haven't seen him in a 10 years :( All this makes me to hate myself.what do i do ?I don't see the point of living if my whole family hates me :(

Question: I'm 14 and worried my dad is sexually attracted to me?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:22 AM PDT

Whenever I bend down he always stares at my butt and rolls his tongue ... One time my dad fixed the bathtub for me but he said he wanted me and him to both shower in there then j kept saying it's wrong but he kept oushing it... Everytime im on my period he always looks what's in my pad even if I put it in the trash can nd I asked why he did that and he said it's okay your my daughter ... One time I had a fever and I was half asleep he came into my room slowly lifted the blanket then started to pull my shirt and I asked what he was doing then he said nothing and left my room he always touches me in the wrong way and when I whisper to him he's always too close and licks his lips and his mouth is just too close to me please help me I don't know if I should tell my mom because I'm waiting for something else to happen so I could rush to my mom I really don't know if this is good for a dad to do this to me

Question: Did I make my daughter like this?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:21 AM PDT

Since my daughter was young I had put her in multiple extracurricular activities. It started when she was four up until she was about 12 or 13. Between that time I had put her in Swim, Cheerleading (twice), Dance, Karate, art classes, and tennis. For every single one she had quit because she didn't have fun or she didn't like it. The only reason I put her in art classes was because she already liked to draw. She said that she didn't like the art class because "it took the fun out of it" In high school, she joined a school drill team and she enjoyed it to the fullest. However, I made her quit because she neglected her studies a bit and told me that the one thing she finally enjoyed I had taken away from her. Now my daughter is 18 and she is completely refuses to try anything new. She becomes extremely embarrassed when she attempt to do something new because she feels like she is going to fail at it. By having my daughter do all these activities, Did I make her feel like a failure.

Question: My in laws are assholes. They have complete disregard for my feelings and disregard me in their family decisions. MIL thinks she is my owner?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:19 AM PDT

Including my husband who is an asshole even after doing everything for him. He is still supporting the douche bag brother of his who is jobless and useless. My MIL stops my husband on supporting me. He does not give me any money. I have to spend for my baby as well as food for my husband instead my husband gives all his salary to his mother. I don't know wat to do i am just so grieved. i want to take revenge on them? any ideas how to revenge all of them except for divorce?

Question: I'm 14 and idk what to do if my dad is sexually attracted to me ...?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:02 AM PDT

I remembered flashbacks of when I was half asleep one night then my dad came into my room and lifted the blanket up and he started lifting my shirt I thought he was confused so I did nothing then he started to reach over and touch my upper boobs then I asked him what are you doing then he said nothing and ran out of my room ...he also always stares at my butt and boobs and one time he kept rubbing my leg and whenever he would come into my bedroom at night he would always jump on top of me ...when we were on vacation one time just me my dad brother I was scared so I slept with them and my dad kept flipping me over at night and I woke up with different clothes amd I could've sworn I Didn't have those clothes on at night... That same day I went to take a shower but for some reason it was broken every time I would take one so whenever he would fix he he'd purposely drop something and tell me to pick it up while looking at my butt even though I was just wrapped in the towel and he kept wanting to see me enter the bathtub when he was still there and when while I was washing myself he peeked through the door to see me and he kept saying it was alright that he's my dad and said he could shower with me He also I used to think accidentally touched the outside of my butt and touch my nipple I haven't told my mom this because I'm so scared what would happen I don't even know if this is okay please help me I'm so worried I don't know what to do

Question: Can I get instantly promoted in the Army since its it my DNA?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 01:00 AM PDT

I am going to join the Army as a MP , my dad was in the Army when he was in high school and he got promoted to sergeant at one point in his career but was never deployed, I heard that personality is genetic and since my dad was a awesome in the Army I wonder if promotion regulations would allow me to get rank earlier since its in my DNA. thanks.

Question: Wow be dead honest?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:32 AM PDT

Does this guy in the pic look gay? i already know the answer to this myself but i just want to know your personal answers!. Thank you. http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a201/crazyg23/1F219312-D8D4-42D0-B99A-46AD3F904251_zpsqxxvyfz4.png http://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a201/crazyg23/91F13EB0-C983-4DA9-BB65-A05563FC86A5_zpspjj87sfr.png

Question: My mom found out I m sexually active?

Posted: 31 Oct 2015 12:28 AM PDT

I m a 17 year old male, I ve been sexually active at a very young age since 15 to be exact. My mother just recently found an old stash of empty condom boxes while cleaning out an old back pack along with some unwrapped ones (I feel utterly embarrassed and afraid, swore I cleaned that bag out). It is currently 3am, moms asleep and pretty sure everyone in the house knows it. Don t know what to expect tomorrow when I wake up. What do I tell her? Should I make an excuse if she asks? What do I expect from her? Will she act differently towards me? My mom is somewhat strict I mean I m 17, I m pretty much almost on my own now. I feel horrible she found them. I ve heard other stories where my friends moms found out and they were fine with it. I feel like she s gonna act different with me now. Everyone in my house will. I feel embarrassed and ashamed but I mean... Everyone comes to a time in their lives where they have sex right? My mom looks down upon my older sister already since she found out she had sex. So I guess I m #2 on the list now? I m so confused and afraid. Just please someone help me out

Question: Being excluded from husband's family? Upcoming holidays?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 11:32 PM PDT

I'm being excluded from my husband's family especially on the upcoming holidays due to my mother-in-law's childish antics. Can I tell my husband he can't go over to his mother's? My husband just goes along with what his family decides. He puts his mother before his wife. He thinks it's disrespectful not to visit family on the holidays.

Question: Is my mom abusive or am I overreacting?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 11:21 PM PDT

I know my mom loves me and has good intentions but sometime goes overboard. My mom often gets mad about the stupidest things such as me not being excited to Skype my dad or accidentally knocking something over. Its not like I act angry about talking to my dad I just say ok. When she gets angry she usually yells at my about what she's angry about and the consequences which are always something like this is why no one likes you or your going to end up in the ghetto with some worthless n**ger etc. She also insults me with flat out insult like your stupid or a pig or a fool etc. She never lets me say anything in my defense and if I do or even look like I'm about to say anything she slaps me. Normally ill back against a wall and she'll get in my face to the point where I can smell her breath. Occasionally she spits on me and when she thinks I might run away she'll hold me by my hair and drag me around the house. She often tells me how I ruined her life and how I'm the reason we are living off her retirement. I'm am in a charter school so I do all my work at home, but I do take classes at the local community college. She often says she doesn't think I'm mature enough to be around other people and that she is going to pull me out of those classes. I do dance tho which is a sacrifice for her and she constantly reminds me of that, I am grateful but it annoys me that she has to present it like that. Sometimes she will get angry before I wake up and will slap me in the face to wake me : I often feel alone and isolated as the only friends I have are from church and dance and they have their friends from school so they aren't really interested in making real friendships with me. When I do have the chance to go hang out with a friend my mom will yell at me about the chores I haven't done even tho I didn't know I was supposed to do them. She'll give me a list and ill finish it and she'll keep adding additional things until its too late to go. Ive talked to her about how I feel many times and usually it just gets a slap in the face hair pulling and a screaming insulting lecture about how I am nothing and worthless compared to her

Question: I really want to know more about my family history?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 10:37 PM PDT

I've always been curious about my family history, but unfortunately I cannot ask my parents. My dad's father left before he was born and his mother is deceased. no one he knows in his family is alive any longer, so family is a very sensitive subject he does not like to talk about. My mother's side of the family speaks a different language than me and my mom doesn't want to go through the trouble of being translator. Is there any way I can contact the government for files on my family or something? My dad is half french half chinese and my mother is full chinese if that helps.

Question: Why does it seem like no one cares?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 10:34 PM PDT

My parents are always focused on my older brother and older sister they look at them like they worship them while im left aside. Idk what to do anymore i feel so alone

Question: My parents are STILL fighting after all I ve done.?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 10:01 PM PDT

I made a similar question a while back, but nothing seems to help. Every time they keep yelling at each other. Every other weekend. This is the most they ve argued this year. I m sick at tired of it. I just want everything like it used to be. My brother thinks its best to ignore the situation, but I dont think it is. Like, without knowing what s going on, how are you going the help each other? I am once again depressed. Im so done. I don t even know what to do anymore. I don t have any confidence in myself anymore because I know theyre just going to shoot me down again. And they re even disturbing the neighbors. I want to tell them to stop acting like children; I just don t have anymore confidence.

Question: Cousin and I STILL not talking, even after we both apologized (UPDATED)?

Posted: 30 Oct 2015 10:00 PM PDT

This happened a week ago. We are both males; I'm in college and he's a senior in high school but is 18. Basically a couple months ago before he turned 18, he told me whenever he comes late from school for whatever reason, he would "of course" let me know, out of courtesy and because he knows I worry about his well-being and safety. His parents and himself live with me and my mom, but they come home pretty late from work. The last couple times, he didn't answer my calls or texts when I asked where he is. My intention is never to be his "check-in police" but I am the only other person home. So a week ago, I asked, "how come you never told me you were coming home late? YOU'RE the one who said you would tell me." He claimed he "forgot" and that he "doesn't need" to tell me these things anymore. Then I reminded him that I'm not trying to "boss" him around but I just care about him. Admittedly, my tone did sound "demanding." Please read my "update" for more information about us apologizing to each other today. I texted him today when he was having lunch in school saying "Just to let you know, I love you and you're like a little brother to me." He said he knows and that "he" was wrong (about the incident). I further reminded him I made a "mistake" and that he's not a little kid anymore and can take care of himself and about not wanting to be his "boss" but just showing concern. Tonight when I came home from work, he opened the door for me, then shortly went to his room. I knocked on his door and he opened it but didn't invite me in, so I had to stay outside his room to ask him if he understood my texts earlier today and reminded him the meaning of the texts, and he said "yes, I understand." What's odd is ever since our argument eight days ago, he stays in his room now. Normally, he stays in the living room until almost midnight. So are we "cool" yet? He seemed understanding after talking to him, but is our relationship ruined now? What do you think is in his mind right now, since he essentially still won't even come to the living room to do stuff like he used to? I really hope things work out, but I feel I did my part already.