My mom and I used to never get along but recently we ve been better. The only problem is that whenever I ask to go somewhere, she completely flips and piles on reasons and acts like I m a horrible child. I m 16 and RARELY ask to go out. It hurts whenever I see my friends living life and I can t even go to the movies without a fight

Im 16 and my mom is 43 and we are currently living with my dad (her ex) She is recently going through a divorce and he told her 2 days ago he isnt wearing his ring anymore and shes snapped. She wont stop crying. She keeps saying she dosent want to live and she is beinging to worry me alot. She keeps saying shes hit bottem. She saying shes going crazy and keeps asking me to help and me being a teenager idk what I can do.. Im not being negalected my dads helping out too. Just I want to help her. What can I do? Can I get her into a hospital? She needs to be watched. She needs help...

I have a friend that lives with his mom (by me) and goes to his father s every other weekend. He absolutely hates going to his dad s. the day he leaves he s always really depressed and pissed, because his dad is an a**hole. (after what he s told me about him, he sounds terrible) I cant stand to see him like this and I think I ve heard that at a certain age you can choose not to go anymore. (we live in Pennsylvania.) he said he can t because the divorce contract said that he has to go until he s 18, but can t he still say no he doesn t want to go? I just wanna help him out. please let me know

I mean im only 12 but im literally the best behaved kid my mom has had! My older sisters at 12 always got into fights, got suspended, got all these detentions and she didnt do anything! My sisters always say how I never go outside but when I do everyone just yells at me to go back! Then my brother SMOKED at 12 and novody did anything, he stole stuff etc. I get good grades, ive only gotten 2 detentions, Ive never gotten into a fight, I dont curse, I behave well but when I just want to climb a tree down the street and relax everybody gets mad at me my mom doesnt even let me walk the dogs without helicoptering me what do I do? Even my dad is on her side. There isnt anybody here I just want to relax and be outside for once Im not even doing anything im just laying down on a tree branch!

I remember this one time, I believe I was like 10 or 11 years old, I once got into a massive arguement with my older sister, Jasmine. It was something about a computer. We were yelling and insulting each other and getting in each other's throats. Then Jasmine tried to ignore me by listening to her iPod. I kept insulting her in her face while she was trying to ignore me. Once I left, out of nowhere she punched me on the back of my head. Then we started fighting in the kitchen. My younger brother saw, but wss too scared to do/say anything. I kept scratching her and pulling her hair (back then I didnt know much about fighting). I can't remember the rest of it, but we both got cut on our finger. We eventually apologized cause I was crying after the fight. So was this counted as a battle between me and Jasmine?? BQ-CAN THIS BE A FIGHT SCENE??

It's my weekend; my 50 year old mother is going to a concert on a Sunday night on MY WEEKEND. She told me that I didn't have to stay all night anywhere. Now she's crying like a 13 yr old girl because she has to come get me. Wtf?!?!? No one listens to me at all. No one takes my side

Homeless shelters in my county are full, I have no other friends and family. I live close to the woods i was thinking of living out there for a while. I can't think of anything, I may just kill myself.

So my two cousins are Matt and Melanie, Matt is about five years younger than me, and Melanie is about 2 years younger than me. We share a cabin there, and some weekends in the summer we go down there to see them. Whenever we go, my dad completely ignores me and my sister, and only does things with my cousins. Recently he made these two sweatshirts for my other cousins Ben's football team, they had his last name and number on the back of them. Since there were two, we assumed they were for me and my sister, but when we asked about them, my mom said "oh he made those for himself and Melanie, he's taking her to his football game, and it's the week of your all county chorus concert, so he's going to miss that again to go to the game with Melanie" I feel so bad about this. Instead of supporting me at my concert, has going to a football game. And he hasn't even told me about it, he is probably never going to tell me and then just be a no show at the concert. HELP PLEASE! What do I do to make him like me more!

Okay, I won't get into too much personal details here, but there's a lot of bad stuff that has went on at my dads house lately, and a lot of stuff that is putting me in unsafe situations. My Boyfriend of three years and I are both 18 years old and seniors in high school, and his mom and I are very close. She said that I could come over there because she doesn't want me around what I am around at home. The only problem is she said she will have to talk to my dad about why she is letting me come live with him, since we are still in high school. I am afraid she will come in attacking him as a father which will only result in a lot of drama for me to deal with. Also, I don't want to hurt his feeling by moving out, because I am all he has left as far as family.. I feel like I need to do this for ME and my own well being, but I worry so much about other people's feelings, and I feel like this time I need to take my feeling into consideration before my dad's... Any advice?

Okay, so I am half Asian and half american. I have been living in Taiwan since I was born. However, I cannot stand my grandpa anymore (my mum's dad: Asian) He keeps on face timing me whenever he wants, and every time he face-times, all he asks is "Are you at home?" "What are you doing" and "Did you eat yet", that's basically all he asks. And for most, he keeps on touching me (this is normal for asian grandparents to do this, it shows love but not like in a inappropriate way), which I hate it when he does that, whenever he touches me, I say "Can you not touch me" but whenever we meet again, he does it all over again, and I'm sick of saying the same thing ALL the time. And plus, whenever we go out to eat dinner, and he holds his beer to me and says happy birthday, which is not my birthday, i dont have birthday every single month wtfff. Sometimes, he also just keeps on telling me to eat this and eat that when I said i can handle myself, I can get what I want to eat, but he just randomly put all the food on the table into my bowl. Sometimes when he comes to my house, and I'm there, doing my homework, he just walks in, looks at my school work and says "You're good at math, you should become a doctor" and im just thinking "wtf how is math related to doctors?" i srsly cannot stand him anymore, why cant he just be like my grandma (mum's mum), leaves me alone, doesnt call me 3 times a week, and doesnt keep on touching me or massaging me head (which literally hurts A LOT) My grandpa even pretends hes good at English which he actually sucks at English and I dont understand him at all. He face timed me today, which I was really tired and I have told him already (when I'm tired, I have a pretty bad temper) but he seems to be just on the phone, not wanting to hang up and leave me along. And before he hangs up, he just says (in chinese) "Sometimes you need to be polite to people, okay. Don't be rude" And I'm just thinking, I'm being rude because you are annoying me. my grandpa doesnt even treat my cousins fairly, all of my cousins are asians (from my mother's side) and he doesnt call the full asian cousins AT ALL, when he only calls the "half blooded granddaughters and grandson" I'm like what the hell, for me, I know what it feels like to be treated unfairly, so for me, this is not fair at all. All he does in his life is calls me, my younger sister and my half asian, half american cousin. I dont even want to see/talk to him anymore. Hes annoying. Help

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4 days ago, I was in a potentially fatal car accident which left me, for the most part, temporarily immobile. The accident totaled my car and responders stated that it was a miracle for me to survive. I am on 2 different pain medications and have trouble getting around. After the accident, I called my significant other for them to be there. They never came to the hospital. They went home to do light cleaning for possible guests and went back to work. They worked ot and I didn t see them until 4 hours after their assigned shift. I was released to my parents for supervision and because of my significant other promising to be there and becoming uncomfortable, they left me on my significant others care. My s.o. and I live together. I begged my s.o. to try to stay from work and help me since my parents were made to leave. My s.o. stayed home on fmla,because they hate their job. Today, my s.o. decided that it was a great idea to leave me and go to dinner with their parents. I am unable to be without supervision and I am immobile. I begged for them to stay. Their excuse was that their parents were going out of town for 2 weeks and wanted to go to the dinner. I hadn t seen my parents in Mos and I would ve liked for them to stay and help me. I thought that my s.o. would ve cared to help me through. I m emotionally vulnerable from the accident. I m shaken. I m physically hurt. They still left. I am thinking about ending the relationship, period.

I was curious because I don't really know what it means. When I was 8-12 we lived with my stepdad. My mom worked so we hung out together all day every day, we got close. Him and my mom started having issues because he "didn't find her attractive anymore". She was gaining weight and I was losing it. (I was chubby and he was a retired bodybuilder, so we'd work out together). She hated me because he said he loved me but not her anymore. I just remember lots of weird things. He was always grabbing my *** (Not really sexually I think just in general). And he'd always put his hand on my thigh whenever we'd go on car rides. He was always looking for excuses to touch me. Or once we were somehow talking about nudity and he was saying how it shouldn't be sexualized. So he told me to strip down, I got butt naked and he just stared at me up and down. I told him I felt weird and he said it was fine to put my clothes back on. Or the main thing that stands out in my memory was I had made him breakfast one morning and was doing dishes, he came up behind me, kissed my shoulder, wrapped me up in a bear hug and told me "what a great wife I was gonna make one day". I'm now 16. They broke up and I don't even talk to him anymore. And I still think about that stuff. I've never felt VIOLATED, but it still kinda gives me the creeps. I guess what I'm asking is is this type of behavior normal with fathers? My mom has had so many boyfriends I don't know what's normal with men and what's not. Thanks.

I'm 11 OK and yeah only 11. Please just ignore the age right now. I've always had problems with my parents. If I have a smart mouth or back talk they'll get really mad and say "Shut your god damn smart mouth right now." They yell at me a lot but they don't hit or anything. They do a lot for me. We go on vacations, see movies, they buy me things... But when they get straight down to disipline it hurts my feelings. They just yell at me and I am NEVER going to do that to my kids. I'll tell them strictly and if they do it again I'll take something away they like. If it comes to it, I'll maybe swat them. But they just yell and it doesn't make sense to me. Please some one explain :(

My daughter never shuts up and while I do like to listen to her stories she is driving me insane. If she is not saying words she is making noises constantly. I'm serious, unless she is asleep she is making noise. And she is loud! I don't want to yell at her and tell her off, but she won't stop, and if I ask nicely the only reprieve I get is while I'm asking. Straight away she is back to talking. But if I yell and act angry she will stop for at least a few minutes. I don't want to yell at her, but how else can I get her to stop making noise all the time?

So I'm a freshman girl in high school. My friend is having a late night Halloween party at her house. Everyones talking about it. She said anyone's invited. My mom is pretty strict about stuff. I would never have sex or give into pressure. My mom trusts me (i think). I don't know if the party will be supervised, and I don't want to be the one nerdy person that has to ask that silly question. How do I convince my mom to let me go to it?

I jokingly mess around my calling her names, but i always tell her im sorry and i love you like any normal brother. But then she freaks out and starts spouting some of the most horrible things imaginable. just a few minutes ago she called me a stupid sl** piece of f****** fa**** sh**. Then she said im a stupid fatass and i should kill myself. WHY? And, my parents always jump to her defense saying she's just retaliating and i get punished.

she's 93 but she's been saying that since i can remember. that's over 50 years. i'm 66. but in our family instead of real concern all i get is criticism and a kick in the @ss. and mind u i'm retired and entirely self-sufficient, but they still find something to pick on. i never ask for help or favors either. and PS they're all females. father is dead. male cousins...no contact with them. only the women wanna start something with me. what's up with that ???

My mother was sitting in the chair I usually like to sit in and she was eating and crunching on an ice cream cone for a long period of time and i know i shouldnt have done this so please don t get mad at me people but i gave her a dirty look but it wasn t just cause of the crunching its cuz she was sitting in the chair for so long that i really wanted to sit in. i didn t think she would notice me giving the look but she did and told my sister who was sitting next to me and my sister told me cop on eva! making people feel bad for eatin! you re in the wrong here! ok i know i shouldn t have done it but the way i ve been feeling over my sister and her for so many weeks is way worse than me just giving one look that i didn t even mean to give. i feel like killing myself somehow.

My mom is catholic and my dad is Muslim. My parents are divorced so I have to live with my dad. I play tennis, he is making me stop because I can't wear the skirt. Also, it was homecoming last night he wouldn't let me show any skin. I am not allowed to wear shots or anything. I have to live with him for the rest of high school... How can I go to the high school dances? What should I wear

okay so im 14. I live with my brother, my mom , and another family member in theyre house. Its a small house. And my brother and his girlfriend and his two kids may have to come and stay with us because of money troubles. I really really hope that we can get enough money to move out, because with them living here i know its gonna cause trouble, and i dont want my friends to find out that they live here . I cry alot of the times because we arent the rivhest family, and my mom barely makes ends meet but she still does and we can afford some nice things. But she got fired from her job and that makes things alot harder. I prayed that my brother and his girlfriend wouldnt have to come live with us. They still arent here, but im hearing that they still might have to live here, and ive been hearing that for 2 months now. They fixed up a room and they said they might not have to come live here but if they do they have a room and stuff. Anyway, mom has been struggling for the past 4 years and its really hard to watch my life and all the hard things that happen in it. Alot of things have happened, and im not gonna elaborate on them, but i really just want advice on how to deal with all of this. I know people have it worse, and please dont tell me to man up and face it because i already tried that. Its really just too much for me to handle and think about. I cry alot because of how my life is and i know i cant do anything about it. Please just give me some advice on how to handle this

First of all I spend 500$ a month to help my parents out with their rent. So I have this choice to make. If I moved out to where my brother lives I d be spending about 200$ less then I am now. If I stay with my parents I d be able to get myself my own vehicle and see my gf more often. Perks of staying with my parents are: Getting my own car and room Getting to see my gf more due to having a car and having her live down the street Disadvantages of living with them are: They charge me 500$ for rent plus i pay a bit More for other things. Advantages of living with my brother are: Live closer to work Spending less for rent Disadvatages are: No car to myself meaning I ll see my gf less

Recently, I've been nominated to go to China for a leaderships conference for 12 days. I've been with the group before; when I was 13 my parents let me out to Washington with the group for one week. I'm 16 now but by the time I go on the trip I'll be 3 months past 17. I really want to be involved in this once in a lifetime experience. This would look best on my college resumes compared to all the other things as well. Because of the fact that I'm and only child my parents are a little stricter; which I understand, but I'm very responsible and I'll be with a small group, and advisor, and I believe they have security with us. My mom says that its too much money, however they offer a fundraising programs where students in the past manage to pay the full cost from it. She also thinks it's to dangerous and uses the excuse "refugees are coming to America right now because their home countries are at war". To me her statement seems like one of those American is superior statements. The trip is in China and not many people are leaving there because their at war. If you're willing to look up the program yourself as proof that it's a legit and safe program is called the global leaders conference. What would you do if you were my parents?

I prefer one of my sisters over the other one, and this makes me really sad. I don't think any of them know this, but my mom can PROBABLY (probably is the key word here) sence this coz of my behaivor with them. The one I prefer is so much better, and i hate it. I want to love them equally, but i just cant. The other one has a piercing and she basically made my childhood a little (a LITTLE, only a LITTLE) worse by always coming to my mom with some fake news about some cartoon like the one time she told mom that Pokemon is bad for you and kids got seisures (sorry for bad spelling, not english) and she KNEW that the episode was only broadcast in Japan (we didnt live in Japan) for a short time and she lied to mom about it and mom would always not let me watch a cartoon/game because of this. I dont know what to do, pls help! The one i like is coming here in about 14 days (they live in London, they study in college, me and my mom and dad live in Turkey) and every time she flies here alone I have a much better time against the time she comes with my other sis. I hate this feeling, I dont know what to do. HELP!!

She knew there were things on my phone about marjuna also. So i feel like she got really angry and wanted me to get in trouble. I just really want to know if my mom was lying about that she had to give my phone to the school or not My other question is can i be detain or arrested from my text messages about that stuff even though the timeline for those text messages were hours after school and/or on the weekends. Thank you by the way to everyone that has answer this or will every little bit helps.

i woke up yesterday at 11 and she was already gone, she never left a note or texted me. she has never been gone this long without telling me and i dont know what to do. the only thing i can think of is she went to her friends house, that is the only place she sleeps overnight and i also assume that her phone died. she has work tomorrow and i need the car for school so how much longer should i wait and what should i do? i dont really want to call the police cause then its like she is going to show up right away and they will think it was a joke or something

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First off, I know that they are other houses with worse problems, but I think I reached the point where I can't mine. My dad is controlling and has anger issues, really bad anger issues. For example, I was helping a friend across the street because her mom told her to stay out the house while she was gone and my dad found out then proceeded to beat me until I was limping for the next week. He alway yells at me for stuff I can't control such as medical issues (I had to have surgery two times, a spinal fusion and knee surgery and I am currently am in physical therapy for back pains) and fuses me out ocassionally. My mom is no better to her I'm too much of everything, I'm too "fat" and "smart". Whenever my dad has one of his episodes all she says is that I can't play victim and I will always be in the wrong. Sorry for my ranting but how do I ensure that I don't have to rely on them when I turn 18. I'm 14 right now.

It's been like this ever since I was 6. Whenever my mom comes in, she never knocks on my door. She just barges in. I'm not allowed to lock my door because every time I do that, they ground me for about a month. She'll even barge in on me whenever I'm changing, and that has happened too many times for me to count. It's gotten to the point where I'll change in my closet just so she won't see my changing since it makes me very uncomfortable. We argue about this constantly, and it gets to the point where she'll be yelling at me and messing up my room (ie; knocking everything to the floor on my desk, kicking my books across the floor, etc.) because she's angry. I tried talking to her about this calmly, and while I was doing that, I asked her if she could knock on my door. She started yelling and saying that she does knock and I just don't hear. I ended up getting grounded again. This happens constantly. (A bunch of times every month.) Although, she finally decided to knock, but whenever she knocks, it'll be two knocks and she'll immediately go in. She won't wait for me to answer. I've been getting irritable on this subject, and it's caused me to snap at her sometimes (which is completely my fault, and I'll get in trouble for it). I feel like my privacy is being invaded, but at the same time, I feel like since she's my mom, she has the right to. I get very uncomfortable whenever she just barges in. I'm not doing anything bad. What should I do? Any answers are appreciated.

Last night, I was telling my husband's 85 yr old step grandpa about this story. My grandma is 92, still drives a turbo charged SUV all over her area (5 mile radius or so) to attend church, restaurants, etc. Each week, she demands that I drive her up the road to the grocery store. She can walk perfectly fine with a cane and often runs off in the store when I take her there, so she is more than capable of shopping alone. She never pays me gas $ or anything, and I drive a large SUV which does eat gas going to short trips like this. She drove miles away yesterday to a fast food joint and I believe its laziness or selective driving. My husband's step grandpa sided with her and said it is my responsibility to take her and he would demand his grandkids do the same. I work 2 jobs, have 2 kids and 1 on the way, and live 10 miles from her. That is my point, should she be giving me a little gas money to run her errands? She is NOT poor, not even close. My grandma bullies my husband daily and myself, demands we help her with anything at her house, makes fun of everyone, calls my husband a bum and a loser and tells me to divorce him every day in case you were wondering. She isn't all ice cream and pie let me tell you... in fact, she's FAR from it.

As a young man I have taken on the responsibility of raising my daughter on my own. I might be missing some things and wanted to know if there are some important things a father HAS to do when raising a daughter and does not have a mother to teach her? She's 4 years old and is doing great in Pre-K but are there certain adjustments I make because the mother is not in her life?

So my parents have been divorced since I was a toddler, and my biological mother is not a nice person at all. She is narcissistic and emotionally abusive, and also bipolar. My sister left when she was 18 because legally she could, and a few months ago I got into a huge fight with my biological mother (I refuse to call her mom) and its not just this one incident but MANY that built up to this. My stepbrother and stepdad have sexually abused me (touching, slapping, hugging me weird and inappropriately) and bottom line: I NEVER WANT TO SEE ANY OF THEM AGAIN. I have been staying at my dads house since our big argument and am looking into ways I can legally not have to see them again. If it went to court i feel I have a lot of evidence because when I did see my mom I was suffering from anorexia, depression, anxiety, sleep probs, and self harm, but since I've been at my dads I've been almost completely recovered. I'm 15 years old and in the state of Michigan. Can I emancipate from her or something? She only has visitation rights, my dad has full custody because he went to court a few years ago. Could they terminate her visitation rights?

I got in a fight with my mom today and she got so mad and told me I should just kill myself she said she doesn't care what I do ,I'm 15 I have nowhere to go she hates me soo much she doesn't want me and my parents are divorced and I don't even talk to my dad what do I do I'm crying :'(((((

These days I have become really tired of both my parents. For years I've realized that I really don't like this whole family that I'm in. My mum has become a really annoying ***** over the last couple of days and my dad is kind of a dick. I don't spend too much time with either of my parents. My family has a way of really of really getting to you and making you feel like the bad guy. It's only a matter of time before I end up comitting suicide. My dad talks ****. He's been talking **** all my life. Everything is always someone else's fault in the house. I'm sick of my parents. I'm sick of always being in imperfect health. I want to die. There are these certain thoughts that I've been through time and time again over the last couple of years. I've always followed my patterns of thinking carefully and tried to figure out how to turn a negative into a positive. So every time one or both of my parents pissess me off, I try to think about having alternate ones. It really is just a minor fantasy thing and they don't even have to be my parents, just a different set of two people. Why am I typing this in right now? Because my dad has just gone and pissed me off again, and my mum pissed me off twice yesterday. My health is never particularly great. So every time I try and use the law of attraction for these things, it does not last for long.

I'm 18, my sister is 13. Even as I type this, they are fighting. My sister walks all over my mom, and eventually my mom loses it and explodes at her. She accuses my mom of being a child abuser then and hell breaks loose. This really upsets me and makes me sad. I've tried to talk to my sister to stop but she just screams at me about how I'm the "favourite child" and don't understand. My dad doesn't live with us, and he's not good at "getting it" when I tell him what happens. He just says "it's the pair of them". Help someone? What do I do?

It has been over 20 years but I feel it is partly my fault as my mother says they divorced to protect us kids (myself, brother, and sister) from the fighting and financial tension. Thus, I feel it is my fault as all my cousins have married parents.

In short, I'm 15 and my brother is 21. Our dad passed away 5 years ago, so its just the three of us now. So my mom works very hard (God bless her) to get us everything we need and almost everything we want, things like phones and we've never been to public school. In return my mom excepts good behavior and amazing grades- I do get outstanding grades and i gets distinctions in almost all subjects and I am well behaved. Whereas my brother does almost the opposite, he's in college and doesn't put that much effort. We found out earlier this year that he's been smoking behind our backs for years. I KNOW SOME WILL SAY WEED IS NOT BAD AND THOSE TYPA STUFF but my mom doesn't give him pocket money to buy drugs. After my mom told him to stop we found out that he's been smoking again and he smokes in our house while we are watching tv or sleeping. He's out of line and he has this thing that he has money (from my dad's estate) and he has a share of our 5 bedroom house. Last year my mom bought a new BMW 320i and he scratched it twice and didn't really care about it. My mom is stressed and fed up and I'm ******* pissed so how do we deal with him? Thanks

Me and my wife are asylum seekers in Sri Lanka since past month, which means that we cannot work, study or do pretty much anything here besides just living our life on a day to day basis. My wife being 1.5 months pregnant doesn't know what to do with our time here while we are living in this village in a very limited lifestyle (a small apartment with a kitchen fitted with a gas cooker... that's all). I don't know if it is the mood swings or something else, but I'd love to help her find some activity/hobby that could keep her busy. Just so you guys know, we cannot step out much, we just have one laptop (that I'm usually working on most of the day), a couple of smartphones (and she doesn't like to play games), we do not have TV, no oven (or else I'd have suggested her how to bake etc)... and above all... limited on the cash. Let's say I can spend about 300 dollars in 15 to 20 days to afford something for this issue. Ideas please? By working on a laptop I meant communicating back home with people trying to arrange paperwork etc to support our case. It wouldn't be of much use in a week or so after I have all the paperwork put together. Might be useful later for doing some online work if I can find some.

Look. I'm a 13 year old girl. I sleep in the room with my mom because i had a phobia of the dark. But her bed completely faces my computer. She looks at every single thing i do leaving me just scrolling on yahoo and facebook for hours. I can be free only when she goes to other rooms and that doesn't happen often because she stays in my room. I also can't do anything. I literlaly even stopped doing my photoshop project because of it. I don't feel comfortable doing anything when she is in the room, and she always is. I asked her to put my pc on another side of the room, but she says she won't. I really need some privacy. What do ido?

so about a year ago my mom died in October. so about 2 days ago i started thinking about her, and lately i just have been crying my eyes off. im crying right now. im crying so hard to the point i cant breath. i always think i could've done so much better as a son. she was a alcoholic so everytime i talked to her she was drunk. when she was sober she was such a great person. i never got to spend alot of time with her cause she was always drunk and i didnt like hanging around drunk people. i miss her so much. i have never been this sad. what do i do

My son's biological father beat me and left when I was 6 weeks pregnant. I never heard from. Him again. I recently found out he had a wife and child about 6 years before he met me. I got curious and started snooping and I found her on facebook. Weird part is, she reminds me of myself. But my question is, should I message her? Her profile is on lock down, but she has a website for making items that I could access. If it were me I'd want to know if my child had a sibling. Should I message her or let her be?

A list things I'm not allowed to do: 1. Go out without planning with my parents 1 week in advance. 2. Visit my white friends house because their dad rape me or they'll murder me. 3. Go anywhere without my parents knowledge or permission ( I understand this one) 4. Wear dresses that go two inches above my knees. 5. Talk to boys. 6. Have crushes. 7. Keep secrets (I do anyways). 8. Date until I'm done my Phd. 9. Join after school clubs. 10. Stay out past my curfew ( 5:30pm. One time I was late home because the bus was late and my mum had called the police -.-") 11. Wear makeup. 12. Wear high heels in front of a boy. 13. When I was 10 I wasn't allowed watch Nickelodeon or Disney channel because my mum thought it would influence me to want a boyfriend or "act like a teenager". 14. I have to stay in my school at lunch time because my mum doesn't want me to get involved with the boys that go to the boys school behind my school. (Btw, did I mention I go to a girls school? Go figure!) I have social anxiety disorder and BDD. I hate going outside because I'm so self conscious. My friends have told me that I'm so innocent and naive. I stammer a lot too and I keep so much secrets from my parents because I'm afraid they'll be hate me.I'm also incredibly terrified of boys and men. Up until recently I never knew sex could be good and I always associated it with negativity. I never want to have children or get married because I'm afraid my husband will abuse me or leave me or cheat on me.

My mother has become an embarrassment for me and my brother. I m 19 years year, just recently graduated from high school back in May. While my brother is a freshman. Every time we have family relatives (mostly on my dad s side) come over to stay at our place. My mother ALWAYS yells and cusses out my dad. Sometimes even in front of my dad s father and his brother. It s so embarrassing and whenever my brother and I try to tell her to be quiet all she says is "I don t give a f***k". It s so rude and disrespectful I feel like my dad s side of the family feel unwelcome whenever my mom acts like this. Ever since I could remember my mom has always been like this constantly causing drama when we have guest over. I am at a point where I want to move out but the thing is I m worried about my little brother. I don t want to leave him here with my parents and have him go through these times by himself. Any advice?

i wanna say my big sister and i are best friends and are very close but this is my secret and i want to know if i am wrong/pervert or even normal okay i am a 15 year old male and my sister is 17 and in collage meaning she doesn't have school uniform and the last few months i have started to use my Sister's pair of T-Bar school shoes because i have a foot fetish and she hasn't used the shoes in about 10 months to fap my d*** by simulating a Foot job or sniffing the shoes, and sometimes even worship the shoe by sniffing and licking the top area where the toes are, and i got aroused because the shoe's smell would of gotten the smell of my sister's feet. the last few weeks i have been dreaming about her wearing the shoes and waking up fantasizing about her feet and being turned on and i wake up with wood and turned on by the dream... i have also started to take the shoes with me to school which they are hidden in my pencil case 24/7 WITH A LOCK and take them so school in my bag. and in the night i kinda like to wear them when i am alone in my room :/

About 6 years ago my parents got divorced. My mother lives in Washington as of right now and my father lives in Colorado (he had to move there due to his job). My dad asked me before if I was alright with him moving away and I said only if I could live with him. He said he would do his best and so far no luck. Every attorney he has spoke to has told him that due to his situation, the court would never allow me to go live with him because my dad can t prove a case that my mom is an unfit parent. My mother is extremely verbally abusive and has swung at me a few times as well. We ve told the attorneys that as well but there is no evidence. This past summer I decided to stay at my dad s house and not go back. My mom has primary custody by the way, so she did have the ability to put my dad in contempt of court, and ultimately throw him in jail. She threatened my dad with that and we eventually gave in. Now I m back at my moms and I HATE IT. It is terrible. I have no friends and I am a complete loser at school. At night I cry myself to sleep a lot because I don t know what else to do. I ve tried to explain to my mom that I want to live with my dad but she is completely unreasonable. She always replies saying that I don t know what I want or some other bull. I m 16 years old!! There has to be a way out of this situation. Whenever I think of an idea there always is no chance it could ever work. Please someone help me.

My nephew is only 3 years old. Let me say this first, my sister was a abused from his father and is no longer with him but I think her past lingers with her mentally even if she doesn't know it. I also feel my mom is enabling her always watching him like my sister should be. So here are some examples: the other day it was 9am and my nephew was complaining his leg hurt she told him "I don't care go to bed" "if your leg hurts why aren't you in bed" repeatly even when he started crying./ she leaves him the bath and shower for hours in attended./ yesterday I came out of my room cause she was knocking on my window to open the door, as I walked to the door, he was laying in the bed in our living room alone and I didn't know she left so he was unattended again and she wasn't coming in to check on him I'm sure./ never takes him to the store with her or to get food real quick she leaves him with my mom and ends up being gone for a couple hours./ she tells him almost every night " if your not going to sleep then go to grandma" whilst sage has the tv on the lights on and her phone on/ she smacks him for crying or doing something bad (while he's be unsupervised of course) and it's not a spank it's a smack that I can hear from my room./ oh yeah and she calls him ugly and says I don't want you anymore your ugly when he's crying. I tell my mom to put her foot down but its like she feels guilty to do so. My sister won't listen to anyone except maybe my mom.

I know this is weird and lame, not really, but I'm a junior in high school and my mom still walks me to school and back. I live like 5 minutes away. I haven't been able to tell her that I want to walk home from school. I really love her walking me to school, but I'd like to be able to walk home from school alone because then she can trust me more than she already does, and I can be more responsible. I'm okay by her waking me to school since it is kinda dark when the time hanges, and other wise I wouldn't get to see her or talk to her as much as I already do.

My real dad and mom divorce when i was 6, im use to seeing them fight. I saw my dad hitting my mom when i was 7. Now my dad is remarried. They fought multiple times, Those times I was alway crying and trying to to listen to it. Idk what happened but one time after they fought the next day I cried a lot. Lock myself in a room and cry, I felt disgusted and disapointed in the dad i have. That was 2 months ago. After that i distanced myself away from them a lot. They havent fought until today. My stepmom was yelling and i saw the same hatred in eye like i had that day. I found it interesting, how her eye fire up and her mind going insane and how mad she was. She was yelling at me but I wasnt afraid, instead I look at her in the eye without any feeling. Idk whats wrong with me. I just stare into her eye for a long time without saying anything while listening to her. I found it quite entertaining. Why is that?

My grandma passed away 6 years ago. Ever since I was born, my grandma took a lot of care of me and my brother. I love her and my mom so much. I spent half my childhood at my grandparents . When I was in 3rd grade, one night my mom told me that my grandparents passed away in Serbia since we are from there. My mom was crying a lot for the next year. Almost every day Id come home from school my mom would be crying and I sat with her and I did my best to help her. Gradually, my mom relaxed, except she d cry on birthdays of my grandparents and other holidays. Recently though, earlier this year I looked up my grandma s name because I was thinking of them and I was also curious as to what caused them to pass away so suddenly since I could never have the heart to ask my mom. The following is a little messed up but here goes: So I looked them up and it showed an image of a noose and i clicked on it and the police article said that they hung themselves in our family home. I was crying a lot tonight remembering my grandmother and I don t understand why they would do that. My grandma fought breast cancer and came out alive. Only to hang herself with her husband. Can anyone give me some insight and also how to deal with their death? Thank you so much :) Im sorry to bog you all down with this

So, I'd like to order two books from Amazon that are about Lucid Dreaming. I don't really want my parents to know because it's personal for me. I have my own debit card so I could buy them, but I was wondering if an alert gets sent to my dad or something if I use my card? Also, how can I keep them from opening the packages when they deliver? Should I say it could be their Christmas present or something?

So I am engaged, and he is the father of my child. When our child was almost one he slapped her across the face,because she wouldn t stop crying. He lied about doing this when I asked why her face was red. I only found out because of the hand print he left. I told his family and they sat down with him to talk to him. He promised he wouldn t do it again. Years has past and just recently he punched me on my arm for something I said. It hurt pretty bad. I feel like if I stay in this relationship its only going to get worse, he called me a ***** in front of everyone at a restaurant....it makes me so upset. but he doesn t do this all the time, these were the only times with the hitting..I finally told him I don t want to deal with him anymore. I found a house for my child and I. Am I making the right decision

i am 18guy,i have a 19yr sis,and a 16yr gay brother, we have been raised as nudism is normal between family members,and that nth wrong with having sex and fun as long as it is safe! and because we are raised together like that we have no sexual feelings to each others so pls no insect stuff said!!the thing is that in addition that we are nude,they are very open to other things,two year ago when i used to heavily masturbate, my dad caught me and i tried to hide it,after a day he told me it is normal and why i had to hide??he told me this is who i am and this is my sex life but he told that having sex is more pleasurable,so he told me just to have sex and have fun!! so that whats me and my bro and sis did with our bf's,gf's(seperetly)in our rooms, but not secretly my gay bro have sex in the house like twice a month and i do it once a weak and my sis do it like twice ot three per weak and my parents know that,now only a fool would not like his parents to let him freely masturbate and have sex as he wants and i am happy with that and i don't care about family nudism but is that normal?? note:we don't have sex at front of each other!! my parents talked about sex and they told us that they preferred us to have sex in the house so they can know who are doing it with as more protection,we have nver had sex at front of each other or masturbated at front of each other!!