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- Question: How can i comfort my mum from my baby sister passing away?
- Question: Leave my kids with a family member/babysitter that I don t trust...?
- Question: All of the housework is put onto me. I'm the Cinderella of the family!?
- Question: I need some advice for a divorce.?
- Question: My father is abusive towards my mom?
- Question: My dad forced me to eat 3 cigarettes?
- Question: My mom takes "UNFAIR" to an annoying level?
- Question: Absent dad wants to see niece?
- Question: There're porn pictures of my sister on my computer? Please help?
- Question: My mom saw my hickeys?
- Question: Should I continue working for my father and if not, how should I go about quitting?
- Question: I am so angry at my parents for restricting me from seeing family they are at odds with, how do I get over this?
- Question: My father is going to yell at me when he gets home tonight for breaking his guitar this morning. What should I do?
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- Question: How do I get my sister's to stop bugging me?
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- Question: Dog ideas help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
- Question: Why do my cousins hate my family?
- Question: My brother has revealed he wants to stay over more often. Should I let him?
- Question: What will be called for mother s sister?
- Question: What should I do? Outsiders perspective needed. Please help.?
- Question: Parents not home and my brothers and I have school, what do we do?
- Question: Do you think I have a urinary tract infection or just bacterial vaginosis?
- Question: As a parent why would you want your child to take "no" for an answer?
- Question: What to do if family is taking care of your grandma and treating her poorly?
- Question: How do I solve this....?
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Question: How can i comfort my mum from my baby sister passing away? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 01:26 PM PDT My baby sister had passed away last night at 11:23- 11:30ish last night.. My mom is and always was an emotion mess and she is at the hospital and coming home today.. What should i do to make sure i dont make things worst for her? What can i do to comfort her? Or should i just give her her space? |
Question: Leave my kids with a family member/babysitter that I don t trust...? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 01:08 PM PDT this wekend my husband is forcing me to let my kids stay at an uncles house for a party for a few hours while we go to a show. He says this is going to cause huge problems between us if I say no. I don t want to cause a fight but I don t want to put my kids in danger/hang around behavior I don t allow. His family is VERY MAD and PUSHY about our kids staying the night but we agreed they can t, I feel he is being pressured and giving into their demands...Here s some things I have seen them do... The kids are not watched at all they can run in and out the FRONT door anytime they want to play (we live in city) The older boys play violent video games all day (grand theft auto, assassin s creed) they are 10 and one is autistic & violent The young ones curse and lie and back talk the adults and teach my kids god awful behavior They are allowed to drink MASS quantities of soda (coke, Pepsi etc... all night) They allow "cartoons" to be watched by the kids... cartoons as in family guy, south park, Simpsons and king of the hill. They have an unfenced pool Only one adult will be supervising the party. I m not an overprotective parent, I m just not a careless parent. I know this place is bad for my kids to be unsupervised but since 9 other kids are allowed to go I look like a crazy protective parent. How do I say no to my husband without "causing a problem" between us.... I feel betrayed, he knows how uncomfortable I am... & he is too! Why change now and why cause a fight about it. |
Question: All of the housework is put onto me. I'm the Cinderella of the family!? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:32 PM PDT Well, just recently, my younger brother and my dad's friend (my brother's father, he's my half brother) moved into our home, so now we have 5 people in the home. 5 people to clean up after! My brother compared himself to cinderella and all, but for ***** sake! I'm the one who's cleaning while he sits on his *** and watches Pewdiepie. My sister makes messes all over our Jack and Jill bathroom, and sometimes in my room, but I always end up cleaning these rooms all by myself (I understand I should clean my own room, but if you make a mess in my room, clean it up, please). I clean the kitchen by myself. I clean up after other people's food mess. I clean the living room all the time because my brother won't, even though he makes all of the messes in it (legos everywhere, plastic animals everywhere, hot wheels and paper everywhere, dishes THREWN about the layer!). He's old enough to clean up after himself (he's 10, I am 15, my sister is 22, my dad and his friend are both in their 50s, but those two don't make many messes. My siblings are the problems). I serve them dishes all the time and do the cooking, too! And- on top of that - I have school and a job. My siblings are nice and all, but they just don't help enough with the housework to the point where it's all put on me! I can't blame my sister too much, though. She works for two companies. It's like my brother always tells me stories of how he's been mistreated, when, in reality, I'm the scullery maid of the household) |
Question: I need some advice for a divorce.? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:32 PM PDT I'm 19. I have an older sister who is 21 and a younger brother who is 12. Recently, due to some marital issues, my parents have decided to get a divorce. My brother does not know of any of this. My sister and I can handle it and cope with it, but how do we go about telling him about what is going on and what will happen without overwhelming him? Please, anything helps. |
Question: My father is abusive towards my mom? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:30 PM PDT I don't even know where to begin... when I was 12 my dad kicked my mom down the stairs and blood gushed out of her head. My dad continued to yell at her even though there was blood all over the carpet and wall. That traumatized me till this day (I'm 17 now). My dad always thinks he's right, he literally tells my mom, "I always win, I'm right." He has no friends, never speaks to his brothers and sisters (he has about 7), and nobody likes him. He never jokes around and he takes everything seriously. He's very possessive of my mom. He gets jealous whenever he sees her near another man. My mom recently got a job and my dad drives to her workplace periodically to check that she's not cheating on him. My dad threatens my mom saying, "I'm going to kill you", "I'm going to slice your f****** throat", "Shut up or I'll hit you", etc. He calls her a b****, piece of s***, dumb***, etc. Yesterday, my mom came into my room because they were having a fight and my psycho dad came in and hit her really hard right in front of me so I yelled the loudest I've ever yelled, "Get the f*** out of my room or I'm going to kill you." He got out really quick. I think he was taken aback because I have never, ever yelled at him before especially not in that language. I think I'm turning into my father and it's scaring me s***less... I don't know what to do, my mother is in so much pain and it kills me to see her hurting. It's not her fault my dad is a psycho. What should I do? |
Question: My dad forced me to eat 3 cigarettes? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:13 PM PDT This is not a troll. My dad found my cigarettes and basically went crazy, and made me eat 3. Can i die from this? |
Question: My mom takes "UNFAIR" to an annoying level? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:07 PM PDT Okay... I am seventeen. I have had previous fast food jobs that I hated, so I decided babysitting/petsitting were my best option. It's harder to find a job for those, but it's something I enjoy a great deal more. But, every time I find a good babysitting job, my sisters (eleven and thirteen) moan about how "It's so unfair that she gets the job. How about I go do it? Why can't I do the job? I am mature for my age!" (The fact that they even complain about this tells you they are NOT mature.) So, then my mom deems it "Unfair" that I do the job when they can't. They are going to be seventeen one day, too! Holy hell it's so annoying! They just don't get that you are more capable of doing certain things the older you get... Another example is that I had to wait until I was fourteen to get my first phone, and one of my sisters got hers at eleven, and the other at TEN! It infuriates me. My mother gives into their childish fits. I patiently waited until fourteen to get a phone. And, the ones who complain like two year olds are the ones who get theirs younger... They ruin everything for me. Plus, we get hand-me-downs from our cousins sometimes (they are wealthy and we aren't- so getting their high-end stuff is great) usually the stuff only fits me, but my sisters say It's not right for me to get more than them! And that I already have more clothes! (which is because I BUY MY OWN CLOTHES AND ASK FOR CLOTHES FOR CHRISTMAS/BIRTHDAYS when they spend their money on useless junk) And so, they end up getting more than half of the clothes that were rightfully intended for me. I hate them for it. And my hatred for them makes my mom hate me, which only causes a terrible cycle. I can't take it anymore. I am not even allowed to buy some of the things I want WITH MY MONEY if my sisters can't have it too. Sometimes I think it really is because my whole family hates me. |
Question: Absent dad wants to see niece? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:05 PM PDT So my niece has had her dad absent from her life for 8 years. My sister, her mom, recieved a call from the dad saying she wants to see her, my niece. Niece knows and is one the fence on what to tell her mom because mom let her choose. Any suggestions? This a serious matter so please answer seriously. Any non serious answers will be reported!!! |
Question: There're porn pictures of my sister on my computer? Please help? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:02 PM PDT I just got a computer from my sister. They tried to delete all files, but I accidentally found porn pictures of her with her boyfriend. This is so gross! What should I do? I'd be too embarrassed to tell her, and should I? |
Question: My mom saw my hickeys? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:58 AM PDT My bf and i have been dating for almost 2 months now and my mom and i just had that awkward talk about where i am in the relationship and i assured her that she had nothing to worry about and we were just kissing and stuff like that, but he gave me some hickeys the next day. My mom saw them and said it was embarrassing and felt like she couldnt trust me now. How do i get her to see that we were only kissing and he gave me some hickeys, she seems to think something else happened. Im 16 and hes 17 |
Question: Should I continue working for my father and if not, how should I go about quitting? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:57 AM PDT After the military I always planned to work for my dad and at first it was too bad. I already knew he had a bad temper. He would periodically yell at me and my brother, didn't matter if other employees were around or not. And he never yells at other employees. My mom would get on him for this and he'd straighten up for a week or so and then he'd be back to his old self yelling or making snide comments on the side about how he can't leave me or my brother alone and can't trust is. I'd consider myself a hard worker. I'd come in on weekends and stay late when my dad asked me to...often when I had plans with my wife. Lately, I've begun to get very annoyed and at one point I even yelled at my dad. I told him he needed to change his attitude toward me and stop with his snide comments in short. It was slightly more heated than that and all while I was yelling at him it just looked like he had a little smirk on his face. I haven't talked to him much since. Just general things when I see him at work or family functions. It's almost like he isn't my dad anymore. It's all been straining me and my wife and she tells has been telling me to just quit and that it's the only way my dad will ever learn. Money is tight though and my wife is in school to move up in her current career, so I don't know when the right time to move would be if I even decided I needed to. I'm afraid I wouldn't be able to find a job and she would have to change schools/jobs as well. I don't know what to do... |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:36 AM PDT My mother and her sister are at odds and I am a kid so I am not allowed to go see my cousins due to the friction. It has been two years now. How can I get over this? I miss out on my uncle's family to because of this. |
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Question: What should I tell my mother when she tells me that my father chose his alcohol over me? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:33 AM PDT My father died of cirrhosis last month and my mother has always said "your Dad loves his alcohol over you" which hurts me. She has kept saying it though. Is it true, do alcoholics love the alcohol the most, or is it a disease like Al-Anon and the doctors say? Also, what do I tell her next time she says it? She is kind of on a high horse now that he died about it as she divorced him 23 years ago and kept me from him until I was 18. She resents that after high school I got close to him again. |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:21 AM PDT well, my parents are always fighting and screaming every SECOND , and i assume that its my dad's fault, he's not responsible enought to have a family , he act like an unmarried man, even in his routine.... however, after 18 years of suffering,my mom talked to my sister and i , and she asked as to decide where we wanna stay with him or her, and if we want to stay with her, we should support the situation , cause we'll start from over , no fournitures in the new mini appartment, no internet, no shopping, no eating outside, no going out with my friends ,etc, she wanna quit the house, i actually cannot live without these things, but i understand her a lot, i can feel her pain, i trully want her to start a new life and being happy, she always says to us that she doesn't want to destroy this family, and how much she have left to start a new life, she 50 yo, i think she has no choice even if she have no financial support..my dad has a strong caracter, hes offensive,violent,he dont hit us, but he threaten us all the time, me when i walk in the stree, he always look at me so that i can't talk or stare at boys.. he got angry quickly, maybe hes so stressed due to his epilepsy but trully i remarked that he wanted to live a different style of life,just dating hot girls maybe,ect i remarked also that he married mom and loved mom just because she have financial management skills and problem solving, so he decided to build a family to make people value him,,,, i feel he doesn't love mom |
Question: Secretly married for two years, want to tell our parents? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 11:00 AM PDT Long story short my husband and I have been married for about two years now. We never told our parents about the marriage because at the time he was visiting me on the east coast while I was at my mos school and it was really a spur of the moment decision to get married. Not to mention at time of our marriage we were 18 and 20. We planned to have a ceremony once I got back to the west coast but have been too busy with work and are now expecting our first child and just don't want to deal with the hassle of organizing a wedding while I'm pregnant. But, we have both agreed to tell our families that we have been married all along. But just aren't sure how to go about telling them in a way thatll go over smoothly, because honestly, whose parents wouldn't be upset to learn something like this? Any advice would be appreciated. No hate please, negative comments will be deleted. |
Question: How do I get my sister's to stop bugging me? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:50 AM PDT A little while ago something happened between me and my dad that makes me really uncomfortable to be around him. I told my mom. She wanted to report him to the police but I didn't want her to do that so I begged her not to. She ended up telling my sister's and neither of them believe me that it happened. They've always taken his side for everything. So now when he comes here to visit sometimes, I don't like hanging out with him but my sister's get so irritated and they tell and scream at me to stop being a ***** because "dad is only here for a week stop being a ***** a hang out with him". I always try and make up excuses to not hang out with him, like I don't feel good or like last night when I got out of work, I was pretty smelly and gross and I didn't feel like going anywhere so I told them that and they all got so annoyed with me. Idk how many more excuses I can give out anymore. I just want them to believe me that it actually happened and feel the same way I do about him. I don't understand why they wouldn't be a little worried for their own safety. I'm 16 by the way. So it's not like I'm an aldult that can just do whatever I want. I'm just so tired of being told that what I told my mom is a lie. I'm tired of being called a lier. I haven't lied about anything. But he denied all of it so they all believe him. |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:49 AM PDT Me and my dad have always had a rocky relationship but we ve had some mutual respect for each other. He recently remarried to a lady I am not too fond of and they barely know each other as well as the fact that they practically hate each other even after marrying. I would hate to see his wealth be passed down to this complete stranger. Me and my sister are curious when my dad passes would she inherent his home due to legal rights or is there a way for us to inherit his house if he specifically lists us as the inherited on his will? I would ask my dad personally but it just seems to weird to ask him that and I d rather have some facts before I approach him on such a sensitive topic . |
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Question: Should I stop talking to him? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:41 AM PDT I like talking to my uncle because he is a good listener. He seems to be interested in the same things that I do: current issues, politics, etc. He likes watching the news just I like do. He usually calls me and we spend at least an hour or more talking. Many times he has told me that he likes talking to me. However, the other day I overheard him complain about how we talk for a long time. Yesterday, he asked me a question and we conversed and he was just short in his talking. Why does he call me and then doesn't like it when I talk a lot? I feel sorry for him because his life completely changed after diabetes. He lost part of his vision, he lost his job, and he can't drive. His family (wife and daughter) don't care about him and barely talk to him. He doesn't have any friends. |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:15 AM PDT |
Question: Dog ideas help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 10:09 AM PDT hi my dog died may 29 2015 im sad still but im ready for another one what are some ideas to convince my dad he said no but I need ieads my mum said yes :) |
Question: Why do my cousins hate my family? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:40 AM PDT My mom's sister's kids were always like 8 years older and they used to do stuff with my and my sister when we were little. But then they just stopped talking to us and didn't want anything to do with us anymore. My mom was always nice to them and used to do things with them all the time when they were little and they said they wanted her to be their mother instead. But later they just always acted annoyed or rushed when she tries to talk to them. She sent them birthday presents before and they never said thank you. They would actively avoid being home if we were over my aunts house. They like my mom's brother's family though. Now they each have kids and we've never even met them. So we gave up trying to connect with them, but I wonder why they hate us. My aunt is mean and always gossiping so did she turned them against us? |
Question: My brother has revealed he wants to stay over more often. Should I let him? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:33 AM PDT I have been living in my own apartment for over a year now and I enjoy my own space and allowing friends and others to stay over. There are some things that are more stressful but overall I couldn't be happier with my situation. However my 17 year old brother (I'm 22) enjoys spending time at my place and wants to stay more permanently. We have always been very close. However I enjoy my own space and it can get a bit awkward at times. He often brings some girls round to stay and he can be a little inconsiderate at times. |
Question: What will be called for mother s sister? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 09:20 AM PDT |
Question: What should I do? Outsiders perspective needed. Please help.? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:48 AM PDT Hello, I am in a situation where I just need some input from an outsiders perspective. I currently live in Michigan with my fiance of 5 years. We live with my mother, dad, and grandfather. My fiance and I have been offered the option to move back to New York (where we are both from) because her mom recently passed away. So we have the option to take over her mother's house, which I have been very much on board with thus far. We currently live with my parents because I was in school. I have finished school and have gotten a good job in my field of work and have a great reputation in the area that I am currently in (michigan). My grandfather's health has recently taken a turn for the worse, with his health and mental state rapidly deteroriating. My mother is his sole caregiver and the rest of us in the home help when we are not working. You can tell this is taking a tole on my mother. Now please don't just say put him in a home because we are the type of family that wants to keep my grandfather at home. He is also a very independent man, even tho he is having trouble with this now, and wants to do things on his own. He can no longer get around as well as he used to, he is unable to drive now he is falling alot and it is a chore to get him to eat or take his medications. I am beginning to question whether the move to new York is a good idea for me or if I should stay here to help my mother as much as I can. I am fearful that I may lose my relationship if I choose not to move |
Question: Parents not home and my brothers and I have school, what do we do? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:43 AM PDT My brothers and I have school and our parents went out last night and they're still not here. I tracked my Mother down and it says she is at a house 21 minutes away and I looked her up on my computer and the house is pretty big. Let me mention the "parents" that went out last night are girls and they're roomates, not lesbians. What do you think we should do? We tried calling both of them but they won't answer. We don't know anyone that they go out with so we're confused. My brother is 13 and I'm 12, and my little brother is 5. Please help ASAP? |
Question: Do you think I have a urinary tract infection or just bacterial vaginosis? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:39 AM PDT I just recently went to the doctor last Thursday since I have been burning and irratited down there in my vaginal area. Two weeks ago I went to the emergency room with the same symptoms. Well the emergency room door said I had vaginitis but he didn't give me no medicine. He just looked down there and said I'm red. He told me there were some over the counter stuff for vaginitis but didn't tell me what it was but he did tell me to take Epsom salt baths every other day. Well the wait went on weeks after I left the emergency room and I still have the same symptoms. So last Thursday I went to this new Christian doctor in town which was a nurse practitner that saw me and she said told me i had bacterial vaginosis so she prescribe me some antibiotics (Flagyl to take one twice a day). I did pee in a cup to see if I did have urinary tract infection which I didn't quarter to the nurse. Well today I have been peeing back to back. Every time I pee. I have to sit again and pee again. I did drink water last night before I went to bed but I just hope I don't have a infection. Before my two surgeries I had in June and September which was ( Leep and Myomectomy) and i was having urinary tract infections back to back before my surgeries. I really don't know what all the symptoms to bacterial vaginosis but I am almost done with my antibiotics. I did have a catheter at my last surgery and they did give me antibiotics which the doctor thinks that's what cause my bacterial infection. |
Question: As a parent why would you want your child to take "no" for an answer? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:38 AM PDT For example: Say your 10 year old is going through a really tough time. His buddy who is supposed to be there for him has been bullying him. He recently lost a family member in a car accident (maybe the other parent) and his older sister is off at college... she used to be his rock but now logistically that's changed. Now your 10 year old is invited to a party but because of whatever circumstance you say no. Isn't it good to have your child learn to negotiate. Personally I don't want my child to be a mindless robot who just accepts "no" off the bat. Wouldn't you want your child to say something like "Mike said his parents are going to be there. I already have a ride with Tommy and I promise to call for a ride home if things get uncomfortable" rather than just "okay" Is it always bad to try to get what you want (as a child) or should you just accept what mom/dad/teacher say |
Question: What to do if family is taking care of your grandma and treating her poorly? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:14 AM PDT My grandmother is becoming very senile, she doesn't remember who people are, or what to do with toilet paper after she is done going to the bathroom. She stays with my Aunt who has a son that mistreats her. This just happened the other day. She was standing by the stove. He kept yelling at her to move. He had a pizza cutter in his hand and yelled at her, "I am going to cut you". She looked confused when he was telling her to move. And looked scared when he said he was going to cut her. He played it off as he was joking. Joking or not, that is not how you talk to your grandmother. Especially when she is starting to have mental problems that get worse everyday. All the family knows it is wrong, but for some odd reason his parents and two sisters think it's funny to talk to grandma like that. One thing I have noticed is that family goes on a lot of vacations. Nobody brings it up, but how can they go on vacations 6 to 12 times out of the year. It seems like once a month they are going somewhere. They do not take grandma. How can they afford this? My mom said they make a lot of money. I am like she works at Walmart, and he works in a factory. They might make a lot of money, but how can they if they are always taking off work to drive across country. My question is since my family won't do anything about it. What kind of legal action can I take. Or does my grandma have to live the rest of her life in hell? |
Question: How do I solve this....? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 08:04 AM PDT My son is 15 years old and he is pretty much a delinquent, what I mean is he smokes pot with his friends and also drinks alcohol and sells the stuff as well. He was not always this way, he used to be always smiling and tell you stories about his friends and his adventures(yes these are the same friends he smokes and drinks with now) but around 8th grade I started noticing changes and I even let him get a tattoo because he wanted it but I didn't know he was smoking until I caught him a few months ago. We have tried sending him to rehab and he was even to jail for a few months but he just won't change. I would force seperate him from his friends but he has a boyfriend that he likes to hang out with and I caught him having sex with him at one point but allowed him to do it. I have even tried cutting off his allowance but he just sold everything including his tv. I tried moving him to a new school but he just made friends with a similar group at that school. I'm wondering is there any other options for him |
Question: My parents found out I smoke pot? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:59 AM PDT I m 16 and I ve been smoking pot Almost every day since the end of the summer, so about 2 months now. Well my mom found out a while ago and flipped out, and so did my step dad. They think I m going to end up doing heroin or cocaine. So they said I m not to go anywhere without their permission and that I m not allowed to smoke, but I did cause it doesn t affect me in a negative way. I have all A s and 1 B in school. With all the legalization going on in the country I though she wouldn t be as unreasonable as she is but she still flips out. She found out last night that I ve been smoking and she told my siblings and my younger sister started crying, she s in 7th grade and just stopped D.A.R.E. So that makes sense, but I think it s absolutely insane that my mom phrased it as "Kids, these are drugs. Your brothers been doing drugs for the past couple months, is that someone you want to look up to?" Honestly that s not what is really happening, she makes it sound much worse than it really is. I have anxiety and it hasn t been much of an issue lately, even when I don t smoke. She thinks I do it just to solve all my problems, but I just enjoy it and I think it can really help people. My grandmother started crying saying don t get into drugs. Honestly Anyone who does heroin, crack, or any hard drug is a moron. I know it becomes a sickness and they can t help it, but I don t even wanna see anything other than the herb. So honestly, what do I do? No rude comments please. Thanks! |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:54 AM PDT |
Question: My mom is crushing me? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:52 AM PDT My mum is ruining my dreams. She has never been there for me. She never talks to me like its been years since iv had a conversation with her. I always try to speak to her like everyday but she is blunt with me and doesn't want to talk to me. My dream was to get into this really good school and today she told me it was never going to happen and I think im better then what I really am. The things is I got the highest grades in year 10 and now im year 11 she is crushing me. Im getting really depressed every time I think of her. I tell her this but she doesn't care she just spends time with my sister which I hate. Please help? |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:41 AM PDT Im really sad and feel really bad, my father just lost his parents.. I'm crying.. what should i do! i never experience dead before.. |
Question: How do I get my parent back together? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:32 AM PDT My parents have been divorced since I was five years old. I cry on a normal basis and pray for them to get back together. |
Question: Should I call CPS(Child Protective Services)?? Help ASAP!? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:30 AM PDT My brother, who lives with my Grandpa down the road from my mom, her fiancé, my little brother and I, had used the outlet piece to my mom's phone charger and I guess didn't put it back. Well, when I got up this morning my mom yelled at me for 'taking her charger out of her room and not putting it back" and her fiancé got up in my face screaming and yelling at me for being "careless and disrespectful to them and being a bad child" even though I never gave my brother permission to use the charger piece or got it out myself! I simply told him I didn't have a piece myself but he can go ask our mom if she can get one out of the box we have that has outlet pieces and such. They always do this. They talk badly about me on the phone with family and friends, isolate me from everyone, threaten to take everything from me all the time, and just treat me poorly. I'm currently at my Grandpas and he thinks that calling CPS and him going ahead to get custody of me is okay but I'm scared at what my mom and her fiancé will do. What do I do? |
Question: Issues with hygiene? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:26 AM PDT My little sister has started to go through puberty and she just isn't taking to it like I did. I shower every day while she showers every 3+ days. Not only does her hair look greasy but she smells too! I love her to death but I can't take it. We used to be able to share clothes but I am finding myself hesitant to say yes anymore because of how bad she stinks. I know, clothes can be washed but I am picky when it comes to stuff like that. She also doesn't brush her teeth every day which I'm sure you all know is a big no-no. Whenever I ask her about it her excuse is that she "forgets". My mom has told her that now that she is older she needs to take care of her body more often but she doesn't listen. So I was thinking that maybe she would listen to me but I just don't know what to say. I feel gross when I don't shower everyday but she obviously doesn't feel the same... I don't want her to get bullied and be the stinky girl at school, but how do I say that in the nice way? What tips should I give her to stay clean and remember to brush her teeth twice everyday? I really appreciate the help thanks. |
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Question: Is there anyway to retrieve my whatsapp messages without my phone? VERY URGENT!!!!? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:05 AM PDT So my school took away my phone (cuz they are pieces of ****) and gave only my sim card back and kept my memory card with them. Is there anyway i can access my whatsapp with it through my computer? I have an imac with the yosemite update or whatever. It's really important because i need to keep in touch with my cult members and my literary club along with my band plus my grandad is really sick and my mom stays busy with him and my dad's out of town so i have no way to keep in touch with them. It's extremely urgent, please help |
Question: My Dad has anger management issues and always yells and shouts at my Mother.? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:05 AM PDT He always think he is right and does not like it when people point out what he should change about himself. :( |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:04 AM PDT My parents hold me back from family members and I am hurting because it means I don't get to see them and I like them. One is an aunt I was close to who left her husband and my parents are on her husband (ex-husband) side. As a result I am not allowed to see her and my two cousins I can only see on occasion if they are with their father. How can I get them to change this? |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:03 AM PDT I don't want people gossiping about his alcoholism so I am covering it up by just saying he had stomach cancer. Is this okay or is there a problem with what I am doing? My mother says I am covering up and enabling (she divorced him 19 years ago). |
Question: My Aunt seems to favour my brother over me. Why is this and what should I do about it? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 07:01 AM PDT Every so often me and my older brother spend time with our Aunt and her daughters and for the most part it's great. She's often really nice, loves shopping and is really girly but often she is doing everything to ensure my brother is happy. Me and the girls usually go out and do our own thing while she is being all nice to my brother. She's given him a job and often takes him on business trips to a different country for a few days. She always showers me and her daughters with gifts but much of her attention goes towards him. I never receive too much cuddles but she's always a lot closer to my brother and it annoys me. She rarely kisses me on the lips or is as warm with me. I'm always being told how beautiful I am but she treats my brother like a king. Should I talk to her about this? |
Question: Are my parents over controlling ? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 06:48 AM PDT I'm a 17 year old guy, and I feel like my parents are too controlling over me. they choose when and how I get my haircut, what clothes I buy and how I wear them, they make me change if they don't like what I'm wearing. At 17 years old I feel like I should have freedom over what I wear and how I have my hair, what do you think? |
Question: Sibling Rivalry and dealing with it? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 06:41 AM PDT I'm the oldest sibling in my family and my younger sister has always copied me. Which is fine, I guess. The only thing is, she doesn't just copy me and the things I do and love, she takes them and twists them into dark and perverse things. For example, when I got into anime, she got into yaoi. When I got into metal and such, she got into explicit music and inappropriate music. Why is she doing this? I know I'm strange and out there, so I don't mind her being strange and out there. But why does she have to take everything I like and pervert it? I'm unique and eccentric, so I wear a tail sometimes. Well now she has a tail, and I'm honestly really wary. I enjoy anthro art (appropriate anthro art, because I think it's cool), so what happens when she gets ahold of that? I don't like where this could very well be going. Any middle children who can explain this? Or just tell me how to stop it? |
Question: Racist slurs in school? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 05:14 AM PDT Okay so i recently moved back to NY, just got out of the marine corps and have been staying with my parents for a little bit until i find an apartment. Yesterday I was playing Xbox with my 11 year old sister and she tells me she's not friends with this girl Brooke anymore because she now randomly starts calling her the "N" word everyday on the bus or in school when they see each other. She doesn't tell our mother because she never does anything. I really don't tolerate that sh**. What can I do? Can I call the school and have them do something about it? |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 04:39 AM PDT I messed up my life because I played video games over the summer and didn't do anything to get me into college. I made the worst decision of my life. I'm living at this apartment away from family and not even going to college. My dad is paying every month while I just sit in my room all day. Everyday I feel bad, I have two younger brothers. One still a baby and the other a child. And a mom that doesn't work and prolly need help around the house. What I'm trying to ask is for a life decision. Should I stay and go to college next semester while my family struggles at home? Or should I cancel my lease and go home so they don't have to suffer anymore? One thing is I have my car here and I'm scared to drive it back down. I just got my license in August and my friend has been driving us home every weekend. My dad works on a shrimp boat and they don't work during the winter. So I'm panicking. During the summer I decided I wasn't gonna go to college until next year. I was gonna get a job and save up money. But my parents didn't want that and told me to go. If I didn't I would be kicked out of the house. I didn't know what to do. So I had to make a quick decision. I was scared. If only I would have chose a college near home. Things would have worked out. Everytime I come home I cry in my room. Everytime at my apartment I cry. There are thoughts of suicide but I just can't do it. I know I ****** my life up |
Question: Should I talk to my cousin ever again? Posted: 13 Oct 2015 02:42 AM PDT he is 22 years old he thinks he is a big shot but tbh he is scum he thinks its okay to hit woman and he has hit woman before he was ready for hitting his sister he's always stealing off of people even his own family he oos me £16 I am never going to get that back but that is not the point he thinks he is better than me and all he does is smoke weed all the time he talks to himself and I have a nephew he is 3 years old his name is carl and he's a brat and he is my sisters son and me and my cousin hate his dad his fathers a woman better and junkie he is not a nice man anyway me and my cousin were watching carl and I gave him boxing gloves and I was letting carl punch me and I told him he could be a champion and after my sister came back and took carl home my cousin said that carl is never going to be a boxer he said carl is going to become a smack head junkie just like his dad I told my cousin that he was a sick twisted b***tard and my cousin said jay the kids that's your weakness. I cant stand my cousin he eyes up school girls says he would bang them I talking about girls from 10 to 15 he sickens me he has had girlfriends the same age as him but what if he rapes a school girl I don't think he would do that but what type of man does that. my cousin has been phoning me all day he wants money he is only interested in his self I am sick of him all he does is look down his nose at me and tell me all these made up story he a liar I don't even like him |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:57 AM PDT So, I'm in high school, a senior, and been having a lot of problems. It's boring, frustrating, and pointless. I won't be alive much longer after I graduate so I really don't see the point in finishing school if it's making my last year alive so stressful. My family wants me to so I have something to be proud of. I don't want to disappoint them so I need some advice that will encourage me to graduate. I apologize if I sound bitter, but the truth is, I am not very happy about the situation. |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:44 AM PDT The stories are not pornographic or violentat at all. They are goofy and comical because the pedophile is only attracted to kids belly buttons! So all the stories are him hilariously scheming and tryingto find ways to poke and play with their belly buttons! |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:30 AM PDT |
Posted: 13 Oct 2015 12:23 AM PDT I know i shouldn't have done this but... i went through my moms phone and shes been texting all these men and she texts them non stop and is always talking about something negative and for instance she said something negative and this guy got annoyed with it and said why you always gotta talk about that and she said "im sorry hows your grandmother". And she said to one of them "If you ever need a hug or back massage im here for you" like that sounds weird , but if i ask my mom can she paint my nails "WHY CANT YOU PAINT YOUR OWN NAILS?!?!". Shes been doing like 5 men. Oh and i found that she used my sister to get free money, she asked her ex boyfrinend for money so she can pay somebody else and she paid them and asked my sister for money and kept it to herself. Do you think she is a whore? Do you think she is a bad mom? And do you think shell put her men befor. Her children? |
Question: Why does my sister act like this?!? Posted: 12 Oct 2015 11:46 PM PDT She's my older sister. And she used to often bash on me on Facebook when I would post my opinion of something, call me stupid etc. She also tends to say lots of negative things about people when we're watching TV such as "Her acting sucks", "why does she look like that?" etc etc. Also sometimes when I dress up a little more she'll nitpick at me saying why are you wearing that? Anytime I bring up something I want to do, such as for example... Saying I want to go to the store to get myself a game. She'll come with so many reasons as to why I shouldn't get the game. She'll start trying to nose into my business and then sometimes if I say my head hurts she accuses me of being pregnant...! I'm SINGLE lol. We got into an argument once and I got really angry, I usually dont get so mad but she was calling our mother telling her to put me on medication because she thinks I'm "bipolar"...........-_- And then when I confront her about it and get angry with her, she acts all butt hurt and plays the victim card! Overall she just make lots of negative comments and just questions **** all the time and just gives me a bad vibe. Why exactly do you feel she acts so negative? Thanks. |
Question: Am i just over thinking or is it that my mom hates me? Posted: 12 Oct 2015 10:44 PM PDT I'm Hmong, for most of you know Hmong girls are suppose to do things around the house. I do everything, i cook, clean, watch kids, and make sure i have dinner.But my mom still seem to think im lazy, she will compare me to my older sister who is now marry with one kid and on on its way. My sister is 24 and i'm 15, i remember as a kid me and mom was always fighting and she will say im not pretty and i bring the family bad luck. I seem to believe it also, my sister is really pretty. She had guys falling for her and she would lead them on then later cut them off. She didn't do much as i can recall, she would be on her school laptop or phone. I'm a chubby girl (or fat is you can say), my mom would tell me she's embarrass to go out in public. As you know in Hmong culture when a daughter get marry her mom give her something to start a life. My given my sister everything i can think of. As i was help cleaning her Hmong things i ask her wheres my things and she said a daughter like me should never expect anything from her and i felt sad and start to cry slowly with out her knowing till my brother came in and ask why i was crying. I'm going to be 16 soon and i don't remember the last time me and my mom and me had a good convo. I love my parents and sister and brothers i'll do anything for them. Am i over thinking or is she really don't love me? i |
Posted: 12 Oct 2015 10:39 PM PDT certain deals. I then later in my life never had went all 4 years of my high school years on campus. No I'm not smart. Never had any friends in high school. My family treats me like **** at times, My mom and dad always want to hold my hand. I did not go to high school because of my severe OCD and High depression. I fell apart and could not handle. On the other hand because of my severe OCD I almost got admitted into a mental home if it wasn't for my mom and dad I would have been mishandled into a home I did not deserve to be in. I am different from others in a different way. I feel alone and my parents and everyone look at me like I'm some thug and don't deserve to be in college nor work. I'm did have friends in middle school though but was not the popular kid in middle school because I tried to choose the non trouble kids wisely and I think I did. Second when in the 4 years not attended highschool I felt like I argued with my parents with alot of things parenting issues and although I'm right it sucks living with a addictive gambler and parents who had bad financial management. I owe it to my mom and my dad acts like he helps me and he does but hes pissing away his future by being a gambler and part of that is the reason why we as a family is ****** up. On the contrary my sister is my step and I do get mostly what I deserve and earn I think as others feel like I can handle it and others think I'm spoiled. And most of my family members are either thugs,no college or immigran parents are right too at times with parenting issues and feel like they lock me up in the house and don't take me anywhere. |
Posted: 12 Oct 2015 10:37 PM PDT I was arrested and ticketed for fighting an employee at work after she bullied me for about a week. Long story short she hit me with a bag on purpose that was in front of my register so when she came back from her break I just snapped and started hitting her. They watched the tape and couldn't see where she hit me at only where I started to hit her and that made her the victim in their eyes. I also lost my job as well. How do I deal with all of this? Its not fair to me because she had started it all. |
Question: My mom wants me to tell her everything? Posted: 12 Oct 2015 10:32 PM PDT I m a 16 year old girl and my mom always expects me to tell her everything. She always says "why don t you ever tell me your secrets?" or "why don t you ever tell me things?" and stuff like that. She expects me to tell her every little thing that s going on in my life. But she doesn t get that I m a teenager and I really don t want to tell her my secrets. It s not like I tell her NOTHING, like I do tell her stuff, but she wants me to talk about very personal things with her. Like my deepest darkest secrets. She wants me to be super close with her, like she wants to be my "best friend", and whenever I tell her that I don t wanna tell her my secrets, she gets so upset. She also always compares me to my cousins and says "i bet your cousin tells everything to her mom. why can't you be the same way?" and stuff like that |
Question: My boyfriend of 4 years hates my family? Posted: 12 Oct 2015 10:05 PM PDT I always invite him to family functions and he always says he'll go FOR me but the whole time he's cranky and one big brat. I always say he can stay home and he doesn't have to go but he always goes. On the way home he is silent and grumpy and just plain hateful towards me. He yells at me " I'm just tired!!!" I feel so much hate and anger towards me. He won't tell me what's wrong. I feel like I just want to run away, sleep on the couch just escape. I just want to cry myself to sleep |
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