So today in class my friend sat with this girl I kinda I like & he asked me to come over there but then she said no don't call him over here.

My mom doesn't like me now since my bday is on the 11th and I'll be 17.

We have been dating 10 months but for the last two months things haven't really been the best, but he assures me everything is fine. He works out of state and is on his days off right now at home. A lightbulb burnt out and I can't reach it, even with a chair, I almost fell trying to change it. Well I asked him on Wednesday if when he had time he could come over. He said sure. Then yesterday I asked if he could come over, no reply, so at 10pm I texted saying ''guess today didn't work, maybe tomorrow?'' he didn't give an answer just asked which light. Should I text him later today asking if he has time to come over? I really need his help cause it's so dark without it.

A married woman makes an effort at work to see me and stick around past her time to leave work. She told me I was really attractive and makes a lot of eye contact, she also lets me make subtle touches when sitting close, like letting my leg touch and stay against hers. I'm very fit, a nice guy, and charasmatic (from what I've been told), I compliment her every time I see her and tell her I'm looking forward to seeing her through email when she's not here (she works at two separate locations). I told her we should have coffee or something but she says her husband is very jealous and she doesn't know how she could make time between her son, husband, work, and school, but she always emails me when she's coming to this job and has obvious body language that she's interested in me in some form. Is she sexually attracted (wanting excitement outside of her relationship), looking for love from a bad marriage, or does she just really like the attention? I don't plan on acting anything out, as I was cheated on after 11 years of marriage by my first, I've never dated other than my wife. I already realized something is happening and I plan to keep it proffessional from now on with her, but I'm just trying to learn from this situation how to read women as I enter the dating game and have situations like this with single women...

I was wondering what would happen if its early in the morning and you are walking to work or something and Its still dark out and a random man starts following you steps behind you no matter where you turn and instead of running away and beating it out of there you turned around when you heard them start running towards you (saying it was too dark to see your face) and ran at them full force and screamed "DINNER" and snarled and growled at them? What do you think would happen?

This is just for fun. I am not having a baby. Boys: Niles Noah Nicklas Norman Girls: Neva Nancy Nedra Nell BQ what "N" names do you like?

When I was 13, I was sexually assaulted at a party by a boy who was 16. He got drunk and led me to a room where he held me by my throat, threatening to hurt me if I struggled or screamed. He didn't penetrate me as he couldn't get an erection so he fingered me and went down on me. He ended up bragging about it to his friends and one of them turned him in and he did time for sexual assault. I'm 24 now and I've heard he's back in my area and apparently he's been trying to find me so he could apologize for what he did. I guess he's grown up and regrets what he did but I don't even want to see him and it kinda bothers me that he wants to apologize now after all this time. I don't think I can forgive him but I guess whether I forgive him or not, he just wants me to know that he's sorry. I'm not sure what to make of this. How would you feel? Could you ever come face-to-face again with someone who molested you and forgive them for it?

My boyfriends mom died a month ago and now i kno he stressed out because its alot going on with his family. Him and his sister go into a huge argument last week and this week his dad tells him that his sister said hes trying to keep everything when that isn't the case. Everything he knows about he tells his siblings. His aunt is making it even harder for him putting stuff into his siblings head about him keeping everything. And he is really stressed out and i guess feeling alone. How am i suppose to be there for him. How do i make him feel like he isnt going though this all alone and that i am there for him. I been feeling like hes been pushing me away because of the situation. He doesnt want to be around me at all. How do i show him that im there for him and hes not going through this alone.

Last night he kept pressuring me tell him what i like about him but i kept telling him that I'm not going to because its not going to change a think. He blames me for not showing up at a meeting spot we had two years ago while we were dating because i wasnt there in 20 minutes. But i was on a city bus i do not drive. He told me because of that je didnt want to date me. I get mad ge blames me for something i couldnt control (traffic) and stuff and it hurts my feelings. I tell him me telling him my true feelings isn't going to get you to go back out with me, and he says "what if it does?" But i know he's joking around with me. He wanted me to tell him last night and his phone died. I know how i feel, he says he has a right to know the thing is i dont know how to tell him and i get too nervous plus like i told him me telling him isn't changing anything. Help?

I was in a good mood for the night -- I really was. It s just that after I came back to my shed did I find that one of my parents piled up all my stuff that I had in our balcony and haphazardly left it in the shed. Normally I m ok with it. For the past few months, that was the rhythm, I leave things on the balcony, and if the sight displeases one of my parents, they take it down to my shed. I ve said time and time again that at least don t mix up the different chemical/stuff, coz they re not trash. Then here I find my mix of PCB Etchant (a very corrosive concentrated batch) that was inside a container that was very, very obviously not leakproof, simply piled on top of the things taken down and it dripped on all of it. I ve had to thrown away the now contaminated mixes along with the aluminum sheet I was using as a hot plate. Anybody would know that the container containing the etchant was leaky, coz the stuff would get into your ******* hands. FCK, my dad's retarded.

Does anyone else only find humans to be cute and not animals. When people awww and gaww over animals I just don't see it/get it but I can look at a girl and find her cute. Anyone else like this?

This guy I met in one of my college classes last year saw me walking today. I was walking home and he texted me saying that he called me and honked but I didn't see because there was so much traffic. I told him my hair was messed up also because it was windy and I was fixing it and was distracted. He then texted me and said I actually looked good with a wink face. He then joked and said when he wanted to see me again he didn't mean passing by me in his vehicle. He then texted that he is always around if I ever wanted to get coffee sometime. This is the third time he has asked me because at first when he asked me out I was working and didn't feel ready for a relationship and he asked me out for coffee or food. The second time he asked me was when the semester was over and he said if I ever wanted to get together to contact him and he said I was really sweet. My mom said he seemed weird because he jokes a lot and sometimes says really goofy things. I think he is nice though. He got a music degree from a different country but he told me it wasn't good for here so he is in school again and my mom didn't really believe this. She said that the degree from another country would be worth more than a degree here. She has been talking to me more about him though and warming up to the idea of me dating him I think. Now, I feel like I can't say no but I don't know my schedule and I haven't asked him his. He said he wanted to meet for coffee or something. What should I do?

Just started a new job as a manager and all my coworkers are much older than me. Almost every day I get asked how old I am (also petite and short with a baby face) doesn't really help. One coworker even stated "the baby is here" when I arrived. How do I get people to get over my age and respect me despite my young age and young looks? Just seems degrading. Even with customers, I get called a child, and asked if I am in high school. The topic seems to be daily and getting old much too quickly for me.

So I became a student teaching assistant for a college course. I'm already quite nervous because it's my first time teaching, but there this student that keeps messing with me? The first few days of class, he kept introducing himself to me and "forgetting" my name. He then kept asking questions almost as if he was testing me. When I didn't know the answer, he says, "you are the teaching assistant right?" One day, class was over and I usually had to straighten things out and lock up the room, he comes back and told me he forgot to wipe down his desk (its a lab class) and he takes his time knowing that I can't leave until he leaves. Then a few classes later, he asks for help and calls me Cindy! Which is not my name or even close to my name at all. I told him this was like the 5th time I had to tell him my name and I asked him if he was messing with me and that this is the last time I'd correct him. He tells me that he's sorry and that he's extremely hungover. Later that day, he apologizes that he didn't mean to come off as a douchebag and that he just spazzy. I told him that it's ok and that I just want him to be more respectful. I hope he does stop, but honestly, why was he like that? Was he trying to be funny?

What s his name? The one *******? http://twitter.com/SexualGif/status/576534080025686017/photo/1

one of my close friends has 4 college degrees. She has a PHD too. However, whenever we go out and interact with others she never talks about her degrees. Some of her peers boast about their college educations and she doesn't. Why do some people not talk about it and others talk about it a lot? -she is ivy league education

We have been ten months. This isn't the first time he hasn't replied back to me etc. but I really need him. He works in another state and has his days off. I texted him yesterday asking me if he could help me fix a light bulb (I can't reach it even with a chair) he said he would help sometime. So I texted him asking if he could help today, no reply. Would it be wrong to ask if he could tomorrow? It's dark without that light.

I have been married for 3 years..We are christians but not perfect. When me and my husband get in an argument or a bad argument he sometimes insults me by calling me "Idiot" "Stupid" "b****" just bad names or can tell me to shut the **** up. I sometimes do tell him something back but just "stupid" or telling him his dumb. But never anything else like he does to me. When we clear things up he tells me that he was mad at the moment so he didnt mean anything he said and he always tells me not to listen to him. But it still gets to me. I get hurt every time he calls me names and direspects me.w can i get him to stop? Its like hes temper wont ever let him manage whats coming out of his mouth. I tell him i get really mad sometimes but i never insult him with really ugly words like he does to me. So why cant he do the same? The b word or using cuss words sounds really ugly. I get too hurt that i wont talk to him first about the situation, i feel like he has to come to me and apologize for the ugly words he said. He tends to get mad really fast for the little things also. Things i see no meaning to. Should i just go talk to him first if he dosent do it? Christians advice please. I always forgive my husband for his insults.

Okay so my best friend is gay and we've been friends for a long time. We stopped being friends because he got expelled and used to be kind of a pervert. But this year we became best friends again (he's completely changed, plus he's gay so he wouldn't do anything like flirt with me or be pervy) and so yeah. Today we were Skyping and he gave his phone to his dad without warning me or anything. His dad has always creeped me out. He asked me a bunch of questions and then started **** talking my mom subtly (example: "Did you know one time I went to your house and asked your mom to let you two be friends and she said no?!!!!" like if my mom doesn't have a right to say no *plus i told her to say no because my friend's dad creeps me out*) After an awkward 20 minutes of him talking and being creepy, he told me I was "welcome at his house any time I wanted to come over". Now to anyone else this would seem polite or kind, but since he had the camera on he could see me and I could see him. When he said this he made this creepy kind of face and smiled almost suggestively. I really love being friend's with my best friend and we just crack up all the time that we're together but now I am scared because even though my mom is okay with us being friends she is still on thin ice and she absolutely hates my friend's dad cause he's creepy. One time last year I went to my friend's house to work on a science project. We were making this video and we checked his computer and it was full of downloaded porn of Latina women. I am Mexican, btw. His dad didn't even say anything and after a creepy pause he slowly exited out, like he was wanting me to see it. I got really creeped out but I didn't want to hurt my friend's feelings so I didn't say anything. My friend's dad is also really really rude like he yelled at my mom once and got up in her face like he was trying to be dominant over her. He was yelling at her because my mom said that I didn't want to be friends with my friend anymore (this was a year ago) My friend's mom died a long time ago so I guess his dad has been lonely for a while and my friend also told me that his dad hits him when he's "bad". I want to stay friends with my friend..but his dad really creeps me out. What should I do?

Hace poco me encontré a mi ex en una fiesta y le pregunte que si ya tenia novio y me dijo que no, Después de dos semnas la invite a salir y me dijo que fuéramos ha un evento cuando llegue a ese lugar donde nos habíamos quedado de ver ella ya había llegado, cuando la salude me dijo que entráramos y que solo tenia muy poco tiempo y yo bromeé diciendo porque después iras a ver a tu novio y me dijo que si (y obvio me sentí triste) entramos y cuando salimos de ese lugar al que fuimos me dijo que ya tenia que ir que nos despidiéramos le dije como crees yo te llevo me dijo no porque tengo que ir a ver a mi novio le dije no importa te dejo una cuadra antes y total accedió y la lleve a ese lugar y era un telcel estando ahí fuimos al área donde reparan celulares y como era el software de su celular nos pidieron que regresáramos dentro de dos horas y aprovechamos para platicar de nuestras anécdotas de cuando eramos novios reímos, reflexionamos y nos dio nostalgia algunas cosas en fin, posteriormente fuimos a recoger su cel que ya no funciono :(, después la lleve a su casa y estando afuera la bese y ella me tomo de la mano y fue todo muy padre :) antes de bajar me dijo que pensaría lo que paso y después me diría. ustedes que opinan, que debo hacer? otra pregunta he estado pensando comprar un cel y regalárselo es buena idea?

my aunt wants me to live in Virginia and depend on section 8 or other types of government\state living assistance. Q1 why and how can I be happy about this typ of lifestyle Q2 how am I supposed to feel like a adult. Q3 how can I expect people to see me as a independent woman if I can't even pay my own rent my life has never been like the average adult because of my dyslexia and ADHD at this point I just want to live life like a normal everyday human being work pay my bills and contribute to society without being on some type of government assistance for example section 8 and food stamps Why do she make it seem like there's something wrong with me moving out of state to do better for myself

I had a nightmare last night. I dreamed that me and boyfriend were heading to a place. Some men on motorbikes were chasing us and trying to hack my boyfriend , when I tried to protect my boyfriend , they slashed my arm . I feel so sick . My boyfriend got worried and weeping at me . He said he would send me to another place that is safer to save me . He did not want me to be hurt by them . He also said that let him face the daunting atmosphere alone. He would rather let himself get hurt than see them hurt me . One of the men said that there were people waiting to kill my boyfriend and he will certainly die . I was very scared and worried . I do not want anything bad to happen to him . What does this nightmare mean?

This is a dumb question and may not be able to be answered but whatever. So today on the bus, some of my guys were messing with me so I kept screaming and I screamed F*** YOU very loud. When I got off the bus, the bus driver asked for my name and she said she was going to talk to the principle. Why she doesn t know, is my grade is only going to be at school for home room (30 mins) and first hour (1 hour). So does anyone think I will get in trouble or anything? Thanks for the help!

Recently, in school, my friend has been harassed by these two boys (sometimes more) the same grade as us. During physics, they'd always try to annoy her by asking her perverted and sexist questions. At lunch, the group gossips about her and when it comes to recess, they isolate the poor latter from her friends, corner her and talk dirty to her. When she ignore them, they chase her around the blacktop to exhaustion. Hell, they've even tried to back her into the boys bathroom and hug her like they're predenting to have an 'intercourse' with her. We have reported them, but it's not that useful and they'll just 'tattle-tale' on us by making up fake stories. This is sexual harassment. What can I do to help?

Look, this is gonna sound as stupid as it possibly can, and were someone to ask me such a thing I'd LAUGH HARD at such nonsense, however, I'm that position right now, and I don't know how to feel about it. I have this friend who's really into astrology and all of that crap ( yes, this is probably going where you think it is ) and she told me about this name numerology sort of thing in which your name your name influences not only who you are but who you are "meant to be". When she told me that, I laughed, of course, because in my mind you would have to be really dumb to believe that that could possibly be true. I decided to give it a try, though, just for the sake of it, just to have a good laugh, but turns out it's worried me a lot more than it made me laugh. I "tested" ( or whatever do they call it ) my names on a website called "Kalabarians", ( the name might be wrong but it's something along those lines ) and well, it plainly told me that I would never be as successful as I wish to be. Put in this way: "You will not....", at first I shrugged it off, of course. But the thought of it has been haunting me for the past couple of days. Worst: they say the one thing that'll change my "fate" is changing my name. That's absurd and I am never going that, but the thought of being destined to failure is not the nicest to have so yeah, if you could please give me some helpful advice about it, I would really appreciate it. Thank you in advance.