Marriage & Divorce: Question: Can you help me how write an affidavit of abondenment,,me and my husband separated almost 8 years,thanks a lot? |
- Question: Can you help me how write an affidavit of abondenment,,me and my husband separated almost 8 years,thanks a lot?
- Question: We have No kids so can guilt keep you in a marriage still???
- Question: Why do some mothers choose to get divorced then complain about how difficult it is to be a single mom & treat their children like burdens?
- Question: What age do married couples stop having sex? Or people in generally?
- Question: He cheated on me, brought his mistress to our house but still treats me nicely. What do I do?
- Question: Why would a man lead his ex wife to believe he still wanted and loved her to then marry another woman without telling her?
- Question: Should I forgive my husband for this horrible crime he committed?
- Question: What advice would you give to newlyweds?
- Question: Should I have kids? I am 29 and so undecided. I am a guy and my wife is 28.?
- Question: Why do some people think having friends of the opposite gender after marriage is okay?
- Question: Why do i keep getting into online relationships and they never work out?
- Question: Why do you think white women with light features such as blue eyes, pale skin or blonde/red hair usually prefer other races over white men?
- Question: What s the name of the document that states that theres no chance to appeal anymore after divorce is finalized?
- Question: Would you leave a spouse that does nothing. What if that person works hard and so does you. But there is no help at home.?
- Question: The p0rn my husband watches concerns me?
- Question: Whats a difference between a friendship and a emotional affair?
- Question: So this young man is hitting on me and I'm married?
- Question: Do's and Dont's when going down on a girl?
- Question: Of the 56 students in a class, 38 are taking the class because it is a major requirement, and the other18 are taking it as an elective.?
- Question: I went down on a girl last night and she C** a lot. She was so embarrassed. I was ok with it but she said that hasn't happened to her before?
- Question: Ladies, what's the best sex advice you want men to know?
- Question: The p0rn my husband watches concerns me?
- Question: Why is my husband hiding that he smokes from me?
- Question: How do I go pass the incident with my husband that left me disillusioned and hopeless in our marriage?
- Question: Why would Husband unblock and send a Facebook Friend request to the woman he had an affair with?
- Question: Mental abuse in marriage?
- Question: What can I do to get my husband to close the cereal bag when he is done?
- Question: How to be the best wife I can be?
- Question: Dealing with wife's affair?
- Question: I am married but I'm having sexual urges toward this man?
- Question: When you and your wife get beyond the "we're young, let's have sex and party" phase, what comes next in a traditional marriage?
- Question: Why would a man remarry so quickly after a divorce?
- Question: Do you ever get sick of your spouse talking about their ex?
- Question: What is it like to be married for years, does love fade or get stronger?
- Question: I got my husband a puppy for his birthday and he's angry with me?
- Question: An acquaintance of mine's husband emailed me in the middle of the night.?
- Question: Is it true that women like to be teased and surprised in the bedroom?
- Question: Is marriage really worth it? Honestly?
- Question: Why would husband want to remain friends with ex-mistress after his affair was discovered by his wife?
- Question: Should I have sex with someone a person if me and my husband are on the outs?
- Question: Why do lower income people divorce?
- Question: How do you get your divorced spouse that is s narcissist to have sex with you?
- Question: Should i give up on my husband who constantly cheats with bar girls and lady boys?
- Question: Do you advise marriage? Whould every person get marry?
- Question: Need some real advice- Abusive Husband?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: I have to make a decision to spend Christmas with my pregnant wife and travel outside the country or spend it with my parens and siblings?
- Question: My husband is married in another Country(Guyana) 15 years and he married 3 years ago who does he have to divorce me or the first wife?
- Question: Is it important if your husband search for girl names on instagram that you have no idea about?
- Question: Why would husband send a friend request to his ex-mistress on Facebook? He had blocked her for months, now he wants to be FB friends again?
- Question: Should my girlfriend and I get married now or wait?
- Question: Should i tell my abusive husband that I am expecting? Also he does not keep secrets and i dont like my inlaws and dont want them to know.?
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 09:31 PM PDT |
| Question: We have No kids so can guilt keep you in a marriage still??? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 09:08 PM PDT My husband and I have been together 5 years we don't have kids together but he has 3 w his ex wife. I just found out he had an affair last month with his ex his kids mother. She broke up with her boyfriend 10 months ago. ever since then he has been hanging out at her house with their kids on Sunday nights and Friday night, his ex goes out w her friends. I confronted him when I found out she's been home during his visits w the kids. Now he has told me he felt to guilty to break up because I'v been a good wife to him he also said he doesn't want to be with her either. Do men really feel to guilty to leave their wife but not to guilt to cheat with an ex?? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 09:03 PM PDT Did they not think about what it would be like to be a single mom before they decided to get divorced? Why did they get divorced if they can't handle it? |
| Question: What age do married couples stop having sex? Or people in generally? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 08:55 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 08:22 PM PDT My job involves a lot of travelling and one coming back from a trip once, I found another woman in our home. I had known before that he was cheating on him but I didn't mention it because I was trying to give him a chance to see and repair his mistake. We have two children but they think his mistress is their babysitter. After I came home, he acted like nothing was happening and every time I asked him about her, he just gives me a hurt look and says he still loves me. What really bothers me is that he doesn't even acknowledge her presence. He still sleeps in our bed just about every night and really doesn't talk to her or act like she's even there. Her birthday falls a week before mine and he bought her some jewelry while on my birthday, he took the day off work, arranged flowers all around the house, got me a designer outfit(clothes, shoes, bag, jewelry, the whole package) took me to dinner and arranged a show for me which is really romantic and I appreciated. However, another week later, his mistress announced that she's pregnant and that she wants me to get out of the house but he made me sole owner of the house, cars and transferred all our savings to my account. He then went on to tell his mistress that he won't let me move out but he refuses to kick her out when I ask. How romantic he is being doesn't really bother me but the fact that he refuses to choose between either of us is really questionable. What is happening? What do I do? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 08:19 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I forgive my husband for this horrible crime he committed? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:54 PM PDT Me and my husband just got married. We dated for 2 years. A year before we got married we got into a huge argument he accused me of cheating on him. I was so mad I made it to cheating on him even though I really didn t he went out that same night and had sex with another girl I forgave him, a year later we got married. My husband has his own business and a close friend of mine informed me that the girl he cheated on me with a year ago is his personal secretary. He came home and I confronted him on it and we got into a huge fight I got so mad I slapped my husband in the face and I have never hit him before I m so mad I can t even look him in the face. What should I do? |
| Question: What advice would you give to newlyweds? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:44 PM PDT Personal experiences, how to handle arguments sex |
| Question: Should I have kids? I am 29 and so undecided. I am a guy and my wife is 28.? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:30 PM PDT Everybody keeps saying there is an age for having kids and after that your body is not really good for healthy child bearing. Additionally, I get concerns like age difference between parents and children. I have been married for two years. First year, I thought we need enough time to know each other more. Second year, I thought lets work little bit. Now my mom is getting mad at me for being like that. I make $20/hr. My wife has to finish her bachelors and she is making minimum wage per hour. We live in Los Angeles. I think it's pointless to bring a child in this world when you are struggling yourself to make both ends meet. What is the maximum healthy age for a lady of an average health to bear a child? |
| Question: Why do some people think having friends of the opposite gender after marriage is okay? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:23 PM PDT I think it's very disrespectful for a married person to have any sort of friendship with someone of the opposite gender unless they are family members.I don't think there's one reason for a married person to have any sort of non business contact with a non family member of the opposite gender.I mean it's very wrong for a married person to have any friends that are the opposite gender unless they are relatives.Before me and my wife separated I trusted my wife to not have non business like conversations with other men unless they are family members.It's wrong for a married person to email someone of the opposite gender unless they are family members and I would never be okay with my wife emailing another man unless they are family members.What's the point of having opposite gender friends after marriage.I see absolutely no point in having any kind of non business contact with people of the opposite gender unless they are family members.I think someone who are friends with a married person of the opposite gender is a homewrecker and I take that they don't care about that person's marriage otherwise they won't talk to someone else wife/husband about non business stuff.Do you think married person having friends of the opposite gender is okay or is emotional cheating? |
| Question: Why do i keep getting into online relationships and they never work out? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:17 PM PDT the latest guy seems really shallow and focused on getting my picture but i like people based on personality so i dont get it |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 06:41 PM PDT Usually=most of the time, not all the time and not all cases. I rarely see white women with fair light feautures such as blue eyes or pale skin or red hair with white men. Most of the time they either go for black and brown men and I wonder, why? Are they usually not attracted to white men? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 06:08 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 05:52 PM PDT You become responsible for all household duties, repairs, kids, and even lawn work. Emotionally your alone. |
| Question: The p0rn my husband watches concerns me? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 04:44 PM PDT Hi. This might be a little awkward. First of all, I want to mention that my husband's and my relationship has been a bit weird in the bedroom. He isn't interested in doing anything with me, despite myself wanting to, and whenever we get down to it, he never can finish. He has to go to the bathroom He swears to me that he doesn't watch porn, which I don't know why he lies because I've explained to him that I don't mind if he does. But he lies and says I'm the only one he thinks about. On the browser history, there are countless videos of porn, some are innocent enough, but others... others concern me. He looks up weird videos like teen girls doing OOTD (outfits of the day) with their cleavage out... And girls barely on the cusp of adulthood doing anything but sexual things (voyeurism, I think, but they were like teenagers...) when I say teen, I mean like 14-18 years old. I've seen some as young as 12 on his history. He's got videos like "teen girl yoga" or "teen nipples" and videos portraying young girls (not children, early teens/late teens). Honestly, I felt sick to my stomach seeing some of the videos he had been watching... I'll give an example of video searches: If it needs to be said, I am 9 years younger than my husband. We met at 19/28. Why is he, first of all, lying to me that he watches it, especially when I say I don't mind? And is this weird, his video preferences? If you saw these kinds of videos on the history of your 30 year old husband, what would you think? |
| Question: Whats a difference between a friendship and a emotional affair? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 04:26 PM PDT If married,then I think both are the same exact thing because it's a sin to have friends of the opposite gender after marriage.Around a few months after me and my wife have been dating(which we have separated now)I dropped all contact from other females unless they are family members and I told my wife to drop all contact from all of her male friends.It's great wisdom to have no friends of the opposite gender after marriage. I actually think a married person having friends of the opposite gender is very wrong because the person's spouse should be their best and only friend of the opposite gender after married.I think it's unfaithful for a married woman/man to have any friends of the opposite gender and if me and my wife was still living together now,I wouldn't all my wife to text another man unless they are family members and I would not allow my wife to email another male person unless they are family members.I find very disrespectful for any married man or any married woman to have friends of the opposite gender or to keep in contact with people of the opposite gender unless it's for strictly business because it wouldn't be fair to the husband/wife and it's a form of cheating.I don't see not even one reason for any married person to keep in any sort non business contact with someone with someone of the opposite gender unless they are family members.Do you see something wrong with a married person having friends or keeping in contact with people of the opposite gender? |
| Question: So this young man is hitting on me and I'm married? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 03:57 PM PDT I joined the local gym a couple of months ago and became friends with a younger man who could be my son. He taught me how to work out properly and I consider his as a good friend. He even met my husband and my kids. We invited him for lunch like he is family. After one of our workout sessions, he told me that he is falling for me hard. I laughed it off thinking he was joking but he left a love note on my car. I really enjoy his company because he is like a son. But he blindsided me and I don't know how to explain this to my husband. He has been helping us out around the house. I'm about to tell this young man that the extra help is no longer needed. I also met his mom and it seems she has tons of kind words to me. What gives and what should I do? |
| Question: Do's and Dont's when going down on a girl? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 03:51 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 03:30 PM PDT If two students are selected at random from this class, what is the probability that the first student is taking the class as an elective and the second is taking it because it is a major requirement? What is the probability that the first student is taking the class because it is a major requirement and the second student is taking the class as an elective? P (the first student is taking the class as an elective and the second is taking it because it is a major requirement)= P (first student is taking the class because it is a major requirement and the second student is taking the class as an elective)= How do the two probabilities compare? Please assist me with this statistic problem |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 02:29 PM PDT Is that normal. Was my first time with her. |
| Question: Ladies, what's the best sex advice you want men to know? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 02:09 PM PDT |
| Question: The p0rn my husband watches concerns me? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 12:17 PM PDT Hi. This might be a little awkward. First of all, I want to mention that my husband's and my relationship has been a bit weird in the bedroom. He isn't interested in doing anything with me, despite myself wanting to, and whenever we get down to it, he never can finish. He has to go to the bathroom He swears to me that he doesn't watch porn, which I don't know why he lies because I've explained to him that I don't mind if he does. But he lies and says I'm the only one he thinks about. On the browser history, there are countless videos of porn, some are innocent enough, but others... others concern me. He looks up weird videos like teen girls doing OOTD (outfits of the day) with their cleavage out... And girls barely on the cusp of adulthood doing anything but sexual things (voyeurism, I think, but they were like teenagers...) when I say teen, I mean like 14-18 years old. I've seen some as young as 12 on his history. He's got videos like "teen girl yoga" or "teen nipples" and videos portraying young girls (not children, early teens/late teens). Honestly, I felt sick to my stomach seeing some of the videos he had been watching... I'll give an example of video searches: If it needs to be said, I am 9 years younger than my husband. We met at 19/28. Why is he, first of all, lying to me that he watches it, especially when I say I don't mind? And is this weird, his video preferences? If you saw these kinds of videos on the history of your 30 year old husband, what would you think? to the person who said they're 18-19, no. It's not real porn. He goes on youtube and these girls are CLEARLY below 18 Jay; they're still young kids doing 'sexual things' whether it is considered porn or not. |
| Question: Why is my husband hiding that he smokes from me? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 12:02 PM PDT My husband is not terrible when ti comes to smoking; he doesn't do a pack a day or anything like that (at least that I know of)... but I've found cigarette packets, his clothes smell like smoke, and his friends have lightly referenced it... I've asked him about it and he completely denies it each time. I feel like his freaking mom because I'm sitting here smelling his clothes watching my money get spent (I make more than him; and I make a lot of cash from my business that I let him hold onto and he spends). Why is he lying to me about it? I can't admit to him that I know he's doing it because I want HIM to ADMIT it to me. I've tried handing him a shirt and asking him what it smells like. When he says smoke, I ask him why. He comes up with excuses EVERY time. "my friends smoke around me", "they smoke in my car" and all that. I would never yell at my husband |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 10:51 AM PDT My husband and I have differences especially when it comes to raising our kids, different interests, not always in the same page basically. The one thing we are consistently the same, is in our temperament which is a short fuse or quick temper. We misread each other's opinion to the other as an attack. Things could be smooth and jovial one minute and the next can be hostile. One incident in particular was when we were driving to a restaurant and I had said something offensive out of frustration because things just never seem to get finished (house maintenance) despite our constant agreements about it. Procrastination. When we got to the restaurant seated with our 6 year old son. He started attacking me with his aggressive body language, fierce expression and angry voice, asking why I said those things, etc. My son & I just watched him and intensely aware and shocked he could do this to us in public.Everyone was aware of the tense exchange in our table. I responded quietly and told him to keep it down but he continued for a bit until he got everything out of his system. I was upset for our son. This happened a month ago but I am still hurting from this incident. Our relationship has been fragile before this but now I feel numbed about it and just wished I never married him. He has tried to make amends but just knowing how his temper and words can bring me down, I don't want to. We've tried so many times but it always comes back to this. We are in our 21 years of marriage. |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 10:50 AM PDT He blocked her when he was caught having the affair and hasn't spoken to or seen her in almost a year. |
| Question: Mental abuse in marriage? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 10:38 AM PDT Can someone please describe to me some examples of mental abuse in a marriage? For instance I have a friend that has been confiding in me for some time about how her husband treats her and it makes her feel just awful. I think it is mentally abusive and this is really breaking her down. She doesn't seem to see it this way and sees things as being her fault. Can someone give me some examples to help her understand. Thank you. |
| Question: What can I do to get my husband to close the cereal bag when he is done? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 10:24 AM PDT |
| Question: How to be the best wife I can be? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 09:13 AM PDT I've recently gotten married to my partner of 3 years. I try to be the best wife I can but am always looking for ways to improve. My husband and I are happy together but I want to be the best I can be. Any tips, lessons or ideas would be appreciated! Thank you! :) |
| Question: Dealing with wife's affair? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 09:10 AM PDT So, here is my story. Wife had sexual affair with coworker for past year. Most sex occurred in office over lunch hour. They were only caught because I placed a recorder in her car. For past 6 months when I question my wife on here relationship with this man she tried to convince me that I was paranoid and had not moved past her mostly emotional affair 5 year prior with the same man. I bought into it, started changing my attitude towards the past and started counseling for that. After about 8 months of me asking for marriage concealing again she agreed to go. little did I know she was still banging the other man at the time. Crushed because I still love her, I think I want it to work, and don't want to hurt our 3 small kids, but she is a real piece of work IMO to have two separate affairs with same person. She blames the second affair on depression caused because I would not get over her prior EA. For the most part we had a good relationship, but yes I would blow my top a couple times a year had and say some hurtful things about here EA. I would always apologize, but for her the words could never be taken back. She states that she tried to express how she was feeling towards me, and I would not listen. Can, should I even try to get over this. Im not sure if it is even possible. She has made a lot of changes in her work schedule to get away from the OM, but to me I think the damage done is really deep, and I don't know if it is even possible to get over this. |
| Question: I am married but I'm having sexual urges toward this man? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 08:19 AM PDT It started as a silly crush. But the more I see him, the more I'm attracted to him. My husband knows about it but brushed it off as something innocent. However, he consumes my thoughts and my fantasies. I also have a strong feeling that he know. What should I do? I want to be a loyal wife but I masturbate with another man in my head? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:38 AM PDT |
| Question: Why would a man remarry so quickly after a divorce? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 07:30 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you ever get sick of your spouse talking about their ex? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 06:40 AM PDT my girlfriend talks about her ex husband a lot because they have kids together. she always believes everything he says and stands up for him and talks about him when its unnecessary. whats even weirder is he's not even a good father to her kids, he's medicare at best. he seems the twice a week for fifteen minutes and is not consistent about paying child support. he also has legal issues. honestly i get tired of hearing about him and this has turned me off from her and i don't feel good about the relationship.what should i do |
| Question: What is it like to be married for years, does love fade or get stronger? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 06:31 AM PDT |
| Question: I got my husband a puppy for his birthday and he's angry with me? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 05:41 AM PDT My husband has been talking about getting a Rottweiler for some time now, so I decided to get one for his birthday. Now he's saying it was the wrong time to get a puppy and hasn't talked to me for two days because he's mad at me. I would never have gotten a puppy if I knew it'd make him angry! I feel horrible he's upset, and I love the puppy to pieces! What is the right thing to do in this situation? |
| Question: An acquaintance of mine's husband emailed me in the middle of the night.? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 05:36 AM PDT I'm happily married and with a child. Last night I went to bed early b/c I'm sick and this morning, I had a message from the husband of someone that I know sent to me at 1AM on Facebook chat saying, "You're up late, huh?". Perhaps I appeared as online even though I wasn't. I immediately texted my husband and told him and did not write the guy back. I have only met him a couple of times and its been years since I saw him last. Was that inappropriate and should I tell his wife? |
| Question: Is it true that women like to be teased and surprised in the bedroom? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 04:41 AM PDT An article mentioned when inserting, go half way several times and deep once to throw them off. Is this true? |
| Question: Is marriage really worth it? Honestly? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 02:17 AM PDT I'm still struggling with the idea after my last gf. On one hand being old and alone and childless would be terrible. On the other hand that might be happier overall. At least alone you're not having to walk on eggshells just to keep her happy. There is no constant fighting about stupid **** like politics or whatever else she keeps bringing up nor anyone to scream and cry and force you to restrain her whenever you disagree with her. Life is just simpler when you're single. It's lonely but it's not a constant emotional roller coaster neither of you can get off. Not having to worry about the possibility of her dropping any bombs about already being engaged and talking to her actual guy in between booty calls with you halfway through it is nice too. It's like, do you want to be lonely but content or keep trying to trust someone who hurts you pretty much constantly until you finally die about fifty years later? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2015 01:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Should I have sex with someone a person if me and my husband are on the outs? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 01:44 AM PDT Me and my husband are getting divorced. We are finalizing it now. A man I know wants to have sex with me. Should I seize the moment and opportunity? Should I wait until the divorce is over? |
| Question: Why do lower income people divorce? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 01:08 AM PDT Since divorcing can be so expensive? With all the lawyer, attorney, and court costs...Since the average person has a horrific time trying to afford all of that, why would someone living @ poverty level decide to divroce? |
| Question: How do you get your divorced spouse that is s narcissist to have sex with you? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 12:19 AM PDT |
| Question: Should i give up on my husband who constantly cheats with bar girls and lady boys? Posted: 15 Oct 2015 12:11 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you advise marriage? Whould every person get marry? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 11:37 PM PDT Should every person....? |
| Question: Need some real advice- Abusive Husband? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:52 PM PDT So, I need to know if I'm overreacting, how serious this is, and what course of action to take. I moved in with a man, ended up legally marrying him for financial reasons, and now am in a bit of a predicament. Every other day or so he gets in these bad moods, really bad, calls me names, chews me out, etc. example; Two days ago I didn't want to go into a sex shop with him, I'm way too insecure to do things like that. I ended up going in, spent about 10 minutes, then walked out. We get in the car, he calls me some names, hops in the back, and doesn't talk to me for the rest of the two hour drive. It gets to be night, I ask him to take over driving. He rages, cusses at me, and drives like a maniac. Hardly talks to me for the rest of the night. Tonight he comes home from work, the house is a bit messy, he rages, cusses at me, storms out, and still isn't talking to me. I have not said a word to him today. He hits our 5 month old puppy. Cusses at me calling me a slut, *****, you name it. He threatens to leave me, and it has gotten close to physical a few times. Here's the issue. My car is in his name, and my job does not pay enough for my own apartment. Is this relationship past the point of fixing? Any ideas on how to go about this? I could really use any sort of advice. I'm only 19 and I really don't want to start my life off like this... |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:46 PM PDT so i knew my wife throughout growing up and before we got married i knew she was bi so we made an agreement that we would have an open relationship as long as it was with our same sex now im not bi so its not a problem for me but anyway we were talking the other day and she says i need to be more open about sex and stuff and that i needed to try gay sex and at first i was against it then she kinda talked me into it, so she had her friend whos gay come over and he said he would totally be up for that so i did him and i thought well ok were done and guess not cause he forced me to blow him and then he f***ed me in the azz and i lived every second of it and im not really into girls anymore honestly i mean i love my wife but not so much on a sexual level but more of a brother sister type love what should i do get a divorce or what? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:32 PM PDT I seen my wife in September and haven't seen my parents and siblings in two years, after December I probably won't be able to take vacation until June because of training and stuff .I just submitted the spousal visa for my wife and don't know when that is gonna come.so if I visit my parents I probably won't be able to see my wife until June and that's a while from now or who knows if vida comes by that time thank you |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:25 PM PDT |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:14 PM PDT I noticed that my husband had searched some girls on instagram, some I just knew that they were like colleagues and some I had no idea about. However he's not following any of them. Is this strange? Would you confront your husband if you were in my shoes? |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 10:00 PM PDT |
| Question: Should my girlfriend and I get married now or wait? Posted: 14 Oct 2015 08:45 PM PDT Alright so here s a little background on our situation. We are both in our 20s I m 20 she s 21 and we both joined the military. I m still in training she hasn t started yet. I have my duty station already and I will be there for a couple years, our options on marriage (which we both want to do) are either get married after her basic which will most likely consist of just signing a paper or waiting 2-3 years and not being able to see each other but once or twice a year and have a proper wedding with a proper ceremony and all that stuff that goes along with it after our first duty stations are up and get married after all that happens. We aren t sure what we want to do both have their drawbacks but I want to be with her and she want to be with me now but she and I both deserve a wedding as well and I feel like long term if we don t get married with a wedding then we will regret it when we are at or friends weddings and such when we see everything that we could ve had. I feel like this is really taking a toll on her too and it s pretty much my fault so if you guys could answer seriously that d be really great it will help with our decision. I know it s our final decision but this will help us make that. |
| Posted: 14 Oct 2015 05:31 PM PDT |
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