Friends: Question: Why the fck is it so damn hard to make friends after transferring high schools? |
- Question: Why the fck is it so damn hard to make friends after transferring high schools?
- Question: Why does my friend tell me she's so tired?
- Question: How do you make friends in community college?
- Question: Nobody takes me seriously?
- Question: How do I make more friends.?
- Question: Whyyyyyyyy?
- Question: Hanging out with friend who is still in college?
- Question: Does what your sibling wear around the house make you feel uncomfortable?
- Question: I'm in 7th grade, I got invited to a high school party?!?
- Question: My friend became popular and left me?
- Question: Would you be friends with a transgender person?
- Question: How do you create a strong bond with a friend?
- Question: Is it possible to keep things casual when you have sex with someone?
- Question: Should I drop my best friend?
- Question: People bully me and call me names for not smoking,getting laid or drink and I'm not gonna do that, I'm 23 years old and a female?
- Question: My best friend uses me and tell me what to do?
- Question: Is there a difference between wanting someone to prove their worth to you and wanting someone to prove that you can trust them?
- Question: Is she being a real friend??!?
- Question: Are ghosts real?
- Question: Friend Drama?
- Question: Who is prettier? Girl number 1: http://tinypic.com/r/rixbv4/8 Girl number 2: http://tinypic.com/r/2uejkvo/8?
- Question: How to not be a third-wheel in a friendship?
- Question: Is it stupid?
- Question: New school?
- Question: How to tell someone you don't want to be friends with them?
- Question: Should I be mad at my friend?
- Question: How to stop being jealous of what others have when I am constantly reminded of it?
- Question: Regarding one of my best friends.?
- Question: My bestfriend(?) is ignoring me??????
- Question: What should I do for my friend's birthday?
- Question: Could some one please give me any advice on this? :(?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: What Should I Do? I Think I'm Losing My Friends.?
- Question: Losing best friend. :(?
- Question: Do people hear demonic voices when their high?
- Question: Being afraid of success?
- Question: My Friend Yelled at me for no reason??
- Question: How to stop being so shy and awkward?
- Question: My friend is being bullied and I'm the only one who knows what is happening.?
- Question: I feel really for something stupid help?
- Question: I don t want to be friend with her anymore?
- Question: Girls, would you really mind dating shorter guy?
- Question: What does it feel like to befriend a girl and how did you became friends. can you also give me some tips on how i can befriend a girl?
- Question: I haven't had a single friend in 4 years, how do I make friends?
- Question: I'm an Afriacn american 16 yr old guy.Any girls wanna kik? lightskinned girls especially or any other girl. as long as you are from 15-16.?
- Question: Best friend won t let me visit her/her newborn?
- Question: I have these two friends that have been leaving me out so I dont want to be friends with them anymore but they are in my class?
- Question: Was it rude to call a friend and ask if there were any house parties going on?
- Question: Is it ok to hate my roommates?
- Question: Why'd my friend block me?
- Question: I am having Sleepover on Halloween at my house. Just me, my two best friends and our boyfriends.?
- Question: Help me find me e-penpal?
- Question: What is Fright Fest like?
- Question: For Atheist only is My Best Friend having affair ?
- Question: I have these two friends that have been leaving me out so I dont want to be friends with them anymore but they are in my class?
- Question: My b.f. is all up on my bff what do i do?
- Question: What kind of skates should I buy for my short friend?
- Question: Question about getting a friend back on track, please help!?
- Question: What are my options?
- Question: I'm very depressed, and i just need a friend...?
Question: Why the fck is it so damn hard to make friends after transferring high schools? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 05:14 PM PDT Everyone's in their own groups and they're all talking ab personal **** and i cant join their convos so I'm just quiet for the whole school day. Its been going on for like 3 months and i ughhh i wish i never moved. I thought this would be an opportunity to make new friends but its just the opposite im miserable |
Question: Why does my friend tell me she's so tired? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 05:06 PM PDT So I ask my friend to hang out tonight. She says not tonight.... Then says I'm so tired. |
Question: How do you make friends in community college? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 05:05 PM PDT I just graduated a lot of my classmates in college are way older than me, they are either in their 20's or they are parents. Not the kind of people I have anything to connect with or be in common with. It seems like everyone already has friends and don't want any new ones. I make an acquaintance with this girl but she just wants to leave home immediately after class. It seems like no one wants to make friends the just wanna go to class and leave. |
Question: Nobody takes me seriously? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:54 PM PDT I'm a freshman in high school and I make a lot of people laugh. Even when I'm not trying to be funny people still laugh at what I say. Long story short, it's kind of depressing, I talk to people in school but it's kind of irritating because none of them open up and have actual personal interactions, and on top of that not a single person has asked for my number. I just don't know what to do |
Question: How do I make more friends.? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:52 PM PDT Hello everyone I am an 18 year old male, and I was wondering how I can get some more friends. I'm asking this question because for the most part I feel like I don't have a lot of friends. I go to a Pokemon league every Saturday and I have friends there because we all like the same thing. I also go to smash bros tournaments so I can meet people who also like the same thing. And I have some friends outside of those things because we like video games. Basically I can't really get into a conversation with anyone because I can't think of anything to talk about if it's nothing else but Video games, and if I do try to talk about something else I either end up looking like an idiot or the conversation gets dropped by the other person within seconds because of the word "Ok". And my mom is telling me to try to get a job and try to make friends there. While I am trying to make a job to get money, i'm pretty sure that talking with customers or co workers won't get me any friends. Please help me. Also i'm not going back to college until January because of a technical problem... |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:33 PM PDT My Instagram won't let me tag my friends in comments. It pops up ppl that I don't even know instead of my friends. Why?? |
Question: Hanging out with friend who is still in college? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:33 PM PDT I have a friend who is two grades lower than me (a junior) but is a year younger than me. He invited me to come with him to a bar with his friends, who I don't know. Would it be weird for me, someone who just graduated, to hang out with my friend and his friends who are still in college. |
Question: Does what your sibling wear around the house make you feel uncomfortable? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:28 PM PDT Okay, this may sound like an odd question but I am a 16 year old girl and I have a 17 year old brother who always walks around the house with the most minimal amount of clothing. I mean it's fine if he chooses to run around the house naked if no one is home. What bothers me the most is when my friends are over and he walks around the house with no shirt on and these loose basketball shorts and I'm pretty certain he's not wearing any boxers underneath because you can totally see his penis protruding through his shorts. Then my friends go "OMG! Your brother has such a small penis." I mean I don't walk around the house with just my bra and panties on so I don't think he should go walk around the house with his penis buldging in everyone's face. a basic outline 2incher child size proportion... I really can't stand it but I don't want to say anything to him because our relationship is otherwise fine and I don't want to strain it by being uptight. Is anyone else in a similar situation? How did you deal with it? |
Question: I'm in 7th grade, I got invited to a high school party?!? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:06 PM PDT This is a long story(bear with me). So my friend (let's call her Potato), Potato has a 16 year old sister that has a boyfriend that's a singer. The boyfriend is in a band and is going to have a concert party soon. The only problem is that it's for people 14 and up. And I doubt there's going to be any 14 y/o's there. The sister said that Potato could invite like 4 friends, even though we're only 12-13. Potato told me and her other friend (let's call the other friend Peanut) Peanut, that we could come to the party. Potato told us that her sister said that she could "Get us in", which is what's making me sketchy about the whole situation. Potato also said that there would be no drinking, drugs, or anything like that. But then I'm sitting here like "Well then why would the sister need to "get us in"?" Peanut told me she didn't feel ok about going, so she's not. I honestly really don't know if I should go or not. There's also the problem with my Mom. This isn't intended to be a Halloween based night, but my mom will think so because it's a day before Halloween. She hasn't let me gone trick or treating ever before or let me gone to any Halloween parties so if she thinks it is that sort of occasion she won't let me go. We're Christian which is the only reason I'm bringing up the subject. So do you guys think I should go? Advice on religion and strict parents would be great too. I forgot to mention that Potato said that only a few people are going. 100 people at most,15 at the least. |
Question: My friend became popular and left me? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 04:01 PM PDT Last year i became bestfriends w/ this girl at another school cause she was moving to my school the next year. we would always hang out, we were there for each other. She would say how i am the best friend shes ever had and we made a promise to stay friends all through high school. it was a meaningful friendship & we were extremely close. She was just this real person who didnt care at all about popularity or what others thought of her. She did things her own way (did skateboarding, had a full on dyed mohawk etc). she came to my school this year & i was worried that she would meet better people but i thought i was just being silly/insecure. but as the month went on, i noticed her not talking to me and she would always make excuses not to hang out. in class she pretends im not even there and i noticed that she COMPLETELY changed. she wears preppy stuff, grew out her hair, signed up for cheerleading etc. She doesnt even act the same. On fb. i found tons of pictures of her & the popular crowd. shes ALWAYS with them now. She doesnt say hi anymore. in school she wont even look at me. shes constantly drinking, partying and having sex now. I wouldnt mind it if she atleast stayed friends w/ me too. i miss the old her so much. Last time i texted her she was rude and responded "idgaf". Her & her group looks down at me & it just makes me sad that she could just leave and throw that all away for them. it makes me feel not good enough, like i was nothing. How do i deal with this?? :( also yes i have other friends but i still miss her |
Question: Would you be friends with a transgender person? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 03:56 PM PDT |
Question: How do you create a strong bond with a friend? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 03:47 PM PDT I have two friends male and female and they are best friends, they always spend time together, I asked the why they not dating, she said because they don't want ruin there friendship, she also said said they grew a bond together and they love and care for each other, but I still don't understand how they develop a bond for each other. |
Question: Is it possible to keep things casual when you have sex with someone? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 03:46 PM PDT I'm in my late 20's and I met up with this older guy he's 13 years older than me. We had sex but we aren't in a relationship. He and I live in different states recently he told me to come back and get some more. I don't want to be in a relationship with him. I did enjoy being intimate with him and I told him I did. I told him how much I enjoyed being intimate with him and how he had me in bed. So I noticed where he listened to a song where a female was singing about how much she enjoyed being intimate with a man. I'm not saying that he likes me I just don't know if I should go back and see him again as I don't want to be in a romantic relationship with him. This is the song I saw he had listened to - http://www.metrolyrics.com/can-i-stay-with-you-lyrics-karyn-white.html |
Question: Should I drop my best friend? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 03:35 PM PDT I've known my bff for 4 years. Everything was great until a year ago when she had to live with her mom in a shithole of a town that literally consists of white trash people with drug addictions. Not even exaggerating. I believed that she would make good choices, but I was horribly wrong. At first, she was smoking weed 24/7. I'm okay with that. I do it too. But she was OBSESSIVELY doing it, stealing it from others, lying to get money for it, etc. But at that point I was barely expressing my concerns. Not until things got worse. She started doing pills (suboxone, adderall, etc), then cocaine, then hallucinogens (which she now does EVERY day!). Basically just escalating drug use, even when she kept promising me "I wont do anything else!" each time. It's changed her. Not completely, but mostly. She isn't excited to see me or talk to me. She lost alot of her sense of humor. When we're in the same room she barely speaks to me. She just acts like she never cares! All she thinks about is drugs! It's ALL she talks about! Same with her new friends she made. I hate her boy toy. He's even more of a drug addict, I NEVER get alone time with her, we're always with him at his house. And when it's just us, she barely talks, or acts uninterested. We got in an argument yesterday because I wouldn't let her smoke the rest of my weed! I'm tired of this. She hasn't even graduated yet! Or gotten a job! We've been through SO much together, but this is not the girl I knew 3 or 4 years ago. |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 03:01 PM PDT It hurts me that get called a ***** |
Question: My best friend uses me and tell me what to do? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:51 PM PDT Me and him was not talking and he just grab my pencilcase and took crayons out or it, and I said wait why I you using my stuff when you can get your own stuff, he replied with why should I get my own when I can use your, I try to grab my pencilcase back from him but he wouldn't let it go and I got upset. And he text me lmma slap ya 👋 because I said SSh to something he text me before and when confronted him I said what doses that mean and he said oh I give you a slap and I said go on then slap me, he got up and I got scared and said don't slap me it will hurt and I pointed at him a he grabbed my hand a put on my leg and stared at me. And when we was in town I went off somewhere and I didn't wait for him and he got angry and he phone me up and said that I am a silly little boy and that I should off waited, he ran across the road to get to me, he also said that you will listen to him, he said he was going to knock me out but he smiled 😃 about it so it must of been and jock. Also when we wasn't talking he put his hand down his trousers near his **** and glance at me |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:45 PM PDT I was reading this caption of a girls photo and she was like the minute someone wants you to prove your worth to them is the minute you walk away. Does the same go for if you want someone to prove that ou can trust them or? |
Question: Is she being a real friend??!? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:43 PM PDT My gf n I been friends over 5-6 yrs n we never had a argument disagreement etc. But this last year has been crazy. It all started last yr around her bday we went out for drinks but she invited her male friend n she sits him in between us at the bar which was very weird cause I don't lno him. She leaves with another guy at the end of the night. Her make friend leaves to go home n so do I. We usually hung out quiet often she even used to come over stay the night or vice versa. But since her bday last yr I only seen her once n that's cause she left something at my house. She would say imma try to come see u but never come. Every since her bday our friendship change. She didn't even call or text me on my bday this yr all she did was write on my FB wall n that did t even make sense ... U can tell she just write whatever thinking it'll make up for the bad friend she been. I went on vacation for my bday is even invited her she declined the offer. Idk maybe it's me but I feel like the friendship ain't there anymore |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:43 PM PDT My friend said they are and that we were being chased by one, one day. The people who worked on our house stared at me and my friend like we were crazy. We also ran around like crazy. |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:42 PM PDT My friend Amara really hats my friend Kit. Amara says that I have to choose who I want to be friends with and leave the other. Amara and I have more things in common but the thought that she's making me choose is kinda weird...Who should I choose/What do I do. Thanks!! I meant hate. |
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Question: How to not be a third-wheel in a friendship? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:31 PM PDT I want to make friends but everyone already has friends. There s this girl that s the nicest in class but her friend is always with her but j feel I really want to be friends with her. What to do? |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:29 PM PDT This is not as much question as it is just having someone to tell it all to. So today at school I was leaning over the desk trying to show my friend a picture on my phone when I feel this hard smack on my butt. I turn around and it's one of the guys in my class and immediately one of my guy friends started telling how could he be such an idiot to smack me so hard. I felt so disrespected and embarassed so I just turn around and my guy friend is trying to talk to me but I just don't pay any attention. And I start crying. It was discreetly at first. Don't get me wrong I have been smacked and groped by guys before (even without my permission) but it was the fact that it was done with such force that got to me. I felt humiliated and I felt like this person has no respect for me as a human being. So my girlfriends start noticing that I'm upset and start asking whether I'm okay and that just makes me cry more so my guy friends start noticing and everyone is trying to console me and ask why I'm crying. And I just felt so ridiculous for crying. I just feel like people are going to think that I was crying for a stupid reason. I mean it's not like it's something unusual to smack a girl's *** and I don't want people to think that I made it a big deal and that I was crying for something stupid. I just feel so bad right now about what my friends will think of me. |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:16 PM PDT How can i reach out and get more friends, like and how can i get ppl to open up to me many have but like if i talk to this 1 girl its so awkward like when shes with her other friends shes so different 1 time tho we had a jome and we were all laughing but that was it how do i get other friends like some ppl i see them and i feel like i could see myself being their friend so how do i do that we have been in scholl for about 1 month btw |
Question: How to tell someone you don't want to be friends with them? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:15 PM PDT I don't want to be mean, rude or even come across as a jerk. But my mom introduced me to her friend's daughter awhile ago, and we have hung out on numerous occasions(because she invites me), but I'm not interested with a friendship with her. She texts me often to hang out with her, but we have nothing in common, and often when we interact, it's awkward. I've tried to give her hints by telling her I am really busy with schoolwork or not making my self available, but she's not getting it. Any advice? |
Question: Should I be mad at my friend? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 02:05 PM PDT She tells me I'm just trying to start drama but I'm not I just feel left out because she chooses her one friend over me when we have been best friends since we were 4 and we are 13 now... Cause I asked her to spend the night with me over fall break she said she would but goes to her other friends house.... Then I asked her to come to the haunted forest with me and she said that she was already going with her other friend and she didn't want to spend that much money on going twice... Then I asked her to go to the movies with me and she says she's going to a church thing with her other friend! |
Question: How to stop being jealous of what others have when I am constantly reminded of it? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:59 PM PDT People always say "be grateful for what you have", but I just cant when so many around me have so much more. We live in a pretty affluent area, but we are anything but. We only manage to live here because my grandma bought the house like 30 years ago when it was just citrus groves. My friends all have so much more than me. Last Christmas, I had to roll what everyone gives me into one so it could be enough for an xbox one. Then I went out with a friend and he got a labtop, plus over 1000 dollars cash, plus a 500 dollars gas gift card, plus clothes. All of that is all chump change compared to the Chevy he got from his parents. Speaking of cars, I just turned 16 and I got a crap bright green 2002 Kia Rio worth only like 800$. One of my friends has a really nice Chevy like I mentioned, another has a 2013 Mustang, another has a Challanger, and a kid down a couple houses down just got a brand new Honda Civic SI . I do not really enjoy hanging out with anyone, except one guy who is like me because that is the only time I do not feel bad about my poverty. It is just not fair. Why couldn't I be born to parents who are responsible and know how to handle money? Why do some get to live such extravagant lives while the rest wallow in mediocrity? My mom says study and get a good job so I can live like them. It is not the same, I would be constantly working and hardly able to enjoy my money like my friends enjoy theirs. I do not want to be rich, I want to have rich parents. |
Question: Regarding one of my best friends.? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:57 PM PDT So my best friend heard rumors I was talking behind his back. I wasn't though but he can't decide whether to believe me or not. So he's starting over. I'm apparently just an aqquantince. He doesn't want me talking to him at school and won't unblock me until the rumors stop apparently. My only communication to him is Steam. So apparently we are only semi friends and I want it to be like it was a long time ago. Keep in mind this guy isn't easy to convince. So what do I do i want my old best friend back! :( |
Question: My bestfriend(?) is ignoring me?????? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:43 PM PDT So during the summer, my best friend and I used to talk 24/7. He then went away to millitary camp for 2 weeks and when he got back he just gave me the cold shoulder. I'm sitting in class and he's a couple seats infront of me. I texted him but he ignored it....?????? |
Question: What should I do for my friend's birthday? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:40 PM PDT My best friend has been through hell and back these past couple years. She attempted suicide this summer and spent 2 weeks in a psychiatric hospital. She's in school now and doing better but she still fights every day. She's so strong on the outside and no one knows about it except me. She's turning 18 in 2 weeks and I wanna do something special for her. Last year she threw me a surprise party and this year she made cupcakes for the whole class to celebrate my birthday. I wanna do something special for her birthday. What should I do? |
Question: Could some one please give me any advice on this? :(? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:35 PM PDT We were really great friends until it was over due to an argument so now we're not friends anymore. Now it's been like a year since we last hung out properly, she speaks to me sometimes and greets me often giving me compliments, however when ever she see's me and Cassie (her ex bff) she starts ignoring me. However I never say anything nor do I ignore her (although she betrayed me for my bullies without realizing it) So why does she even care? if she's having such a great time with my bullies. (posting pictures everywhere etc..) she even got one of the bullies to ask if Cassie is my best friend now.. (Btw Cassie bullied my ex best friend) So I just don't get this whole thing..I never ignore her although she's always with my bullies..it's true Cassie reached out to me when she left me for my bullies. My ex friend also keeps watching me which is always putting me on edge.. My question is what's her problem..? I mean she's having such a great time with my bullies.. so why does she still care about me?? :/ I don't get her.. |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:22 PM PDT College is organising a trip for students to France and the european parliament in january..it's with money of course. The thing is I want to go but I don't want to at the same time. Firstly, I don't want to leave my parents and family :(. Second, I need to study more and be dedicated(trying to get into medicine) and also my dad is going to do an operation in january..he's 60 so Idon't really wanna be apart..also I did go to some trips with school a couple of years ago..to prague & UK..to be honest I want to go but I don't want to because I don't want to be far from my parents and boyfriend so it's like I'm trying to find excuses not to go, but this excuses are still true/what I feel! What should I do? |
Question: What Should I Do? I Think I'm Losing My Friends.? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:06 PM PDT Not to long ago I graduated from High School and started my first semester in Community College. That itself was a large leap for me, though I wasn't ready for all my friends to start disappearing. My two closest friends I have aren't going to school, but one is moving to another state (far away) and the other is as well. We use to keep in touch, but it's closing in on the days that they're leaving and they have just.... stopped talking to me. For both I have to make conversation, I have to plan to hang with them, and on some of the occasions that falls through the cracks. Sometimes I don't even feel I'm there friends anymore, honestly I've overheard them talking smack behind my back. Always treating me like I'm stupid, I try and be nice as much as I can, but still treated like ****. I've never been in a relationship or had a girlfriend, so after seeing my closet friends get girlfriends themselves they kinda just drifted away. Like before, I had to plan to try and hang out with them. I feel that I can't hang with them physically anymore, where the only way I can is over the internet while playing games. I still wanna be friends with them, but of course the facts speak differ. Having class and trying to hang with friends is honestly the hardest thing, going from High School to College is something I'm not use to. Preferably, what would you think I should try and do? |
Question: Losing best friend. :(? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 01:04 PM PDT My best friend is in a Exchange year student programm in Norway and in the last month she hasnt talk to me. When i try to talk to her she doesnt say much and im begging to think that she hates me. I feel like she is annoyed by me, like she finally understands how stupit i am and she has found new best friend in Norway. The though of losing her makes my chest hurt and i wanna sob. I know a lot of people are like: Oh, i have had and lost many best friends and thats okay. But to me it hasnt been like that, she has been my best friend my whole life (shes the only best friend i ever had) and she knows me more than anyone else. What should i do? |
Question: Do people hear demonic voices when their high? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:52 PM PDT Let's say, THEORETICALLY, me and my friend were smoking weed and we were in an empty school parking lot at 2am. Then I heard a voice and I ignored it at first because I just thought, I'm high, it was probably nothing. But then my friend said "did you hear that?" Which means both of us heard something. I checked and the radio wasn't on. We both couldn't make out what it said but it was a man and we both agreed it sounded like someone whispered in our ear. I drove off, and I know no one was there because I didn't hit anyone and I didn't see anyone run. My friend said it sounded like backwards Latin but I was so high that I couldn't understand what it said. |
Question: Being afraid of success? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:48 PM PDT When it comes to my future/career...im as clueless and confused as anyone can be. I currently work in a warehouse for an appliance company and I want out of here so bad. Its so stressful. I hate the job, the people that work here, the atmosphere, EVERYTHING. Management is very intimidating and arrogant. I feel like im STUCK here with no chance to get out. I just want to take civil service exams/learn a trade and somehow work for the state or government somewhere in a stress free environment. But i dont have the time or motivation to start looking/researching for a new career. I heard rumors that im next in line to get promoted as a supervisor. This scared the hell out of me because im not a talkative person and as a supervisor im supposed to communicate with everyone including management. If they do promote me i think im REALLY stuck here for life because i wont have the time or be in the mood to search for another job. And I dont want that. My parents tell me im afraid of success..that sounds true, but I dont want to succeed in this company. I want to succeed for another company. Why is life so difficult for me? Anybody have any advice? |
Question: My Friend Yelled at me for no reason?? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:45 PM PDT we joke around all the time and usually we have no problems but today she just lashed out on me in front of tons of people. and one thing I hate is to be yelled at which she knows so for her to do that it just makes me not want to want to be her friend anymore. Is that far or should I suck it up and move on and still be her friend? |
Question: How to stop being so shy and awkward? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:44 PM PDT I'm a 16 year old guy and I swear I'm one of the most shy,awkward,and boring people on earth and it's ruining my high school years haven't gone to one dance,haven't had a single girlfriend(or a girl that I'm actual friends with),I don't even hang out with people outside of school I'm a total loser with all that said how do I fix this I hate it so much |
Question: My friend is being bullied and I'm the only one who knows what is happening.? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:36 PM PDT I'm not a violent man. Nor am I one to stand by and watch those I love suffer. I have suffered plenty in my 16 years. So I shrug off bullies, they can't hurt me. But this girl is small and harmless. No defense mechanisms, no experience. She has never dealt with this kind of adversity. I have dealt with it on multiple occasions. Every day I check in with her to make sure she's okay. I never know if she is lying or not. Buckle up, I'm taking it from the top. Thursday, October 15, 2015. I was in class and I saw her slink into class and slump over in her chair. Someone sitting next to her gave her tissues. I tried to go over and help but her friends waved me off. See, I'm the one in the back of the class, short, fat, ugly, and doesn't act like he feels emotion because he has thick skin. So naturally they don't think I'm there to help. School ends, I text her and ask what happened. She said she was being bullied. I can handle this alone if I want to. But I want some advice from an outside source. What should I do to go about finding out who is hurting my friend? |
Question: I feel really for something stupid help? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:27 PM PDT A little girl said shes not my friend cause she doesnt like my face and i feel sad because i have self esteem issues and s little 5 year old made it worse . Help me !!! |
Question: I don t want to be friend with her anymore? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:11 PM PDT so i just started school and i met a girl like 2 days after and instantly we became friends.not because of anything but because we were both alone and had no other friends.on that day she told me she would have no other friend but me[that was a big red flag] i told her i would make atleast one friend in each class. it s not like i hate her but sincerely when we are alone together we have NOTHING to talk about. so some new students just resumed and they are very friendly,most times when we meet people they talk to me more and her less she gets upset anytime i talk to other people who are not her own friends(people she met in her biology class),she stops talking and keeps quiet then later accuses me of ditching her.but when she s the only one talking to them and all the attention is on her she doesn t mind.that means she wants me to keep quiet and just stand there not talking and i can t do that.she also only allows her own friends to walk with us when its my own friends she becomes very mean and aggressive toward them.what I m trying to say is that she is very controlling and whats to control me 2.she begs me for everything from my lipstick to food.she wants me to give her my lipstick and she tries on my lipstick and i just HATE that.like i DO NOT SHARE MAKEUP.its so unhygienic.she even ones tried to go through my bag.but at that point i drew the line.she steals my stationary also.and she wants us to wear matching clothes I m like ewwwwwww HELL NO and keep in mind we have only known each other for 2 weeks!!!!back to the food.everything time we go to buy food she wants me to pay for her and I WILL NEVER DO SUCH.so what she does is that she doesn t buy hers but eats out of my food.im like don t touch my food but then she grabs the chicken and after that I m so grossed out like "***** just touched my food".so i end up buying another so each day i buy food for two people her and myself.and I m wasting money *tears* I just realized she s almost like a parasite.I m not trying to mean but its soooo annoying and the last reason like lets say i see a rat and scream she laughs at me with her other friends and says I m too weak.yes I m scared of rats and all yes i scream like a girl,so what.its so annoying we are so different now the reason why I haven t cut ties with her is because i don t want to be alone,I m scared of being alone without friends. but after writing all this i just realized theres no point till being friends with her.i think i would be better alone. so now the question is how to stop being friends with her |
Question: Girls, would you really mind dating shorter guy? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 12:01 PM PDT My friends say there is no way girls would date guys shorter (especially from 10-15 cm shorter or 1 to 1,25 inches) Some girls feel awkward and never want to. What do girls really want? |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:59 AM PDT ever since i was young i always belonged to a group of guy friends i never had a friend that is a girl. i feel like me and she wont really get along too well because i have no idea what girls think or what they actually like to talk about. because i was born with 3 brothers i can only get along well with dudes. i never experienced having a girl friend. and now that college is almost starting i feel like i want to have some girl friends and maybe even best girl friends so any tips on how i can befriend them? what should we talk about? and what do girls like to talk about too? fashion? crushes? kpop? thanks in advance |
Question: I haven't had a single friend in 4 years, how do I make friends? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:51 AM PDT I'm 17 and we moved to a new town when I was 13 and I haven't had any friends since. This town is very small, I tried public schools but the other people my age are horribly obnoxious and rude. They said some of the rudest jokes I've ever heard and just sat on top of the desks laughing and talking right over the teachers and e teachers didn't care! It was the worst. So I became homeschooled even though I'd rather not be. Now, I never see anyone my age. I don' know how to meet other kids my age outside of a school. Help me please with what to do, I've gotten so depressed in the past 4 years I thought of killing myself. You're supposed to have a lot of fun in your teen years and I feel like mine are wasted being on the computer all day. Also, we can't move again, financial issues. So I'm stuck in this hell hole of a town Edit: We can drive to other towns nearby, but I don't go to schools there. How on earth do I make friends? Also, it's almost too late. Lots of people my age will be going off to college soon. I won't, financial issues. So if I do make friends will they have to be much younger than me?? |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:47 AM PDT comment with you kik. And by the way I'm not being racist just because I said African American girls especially. it's just that they are the types of girls i'm into mostly. but all other girls are welcome. |
Question: Best friend won t let me visit her/her newborn? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:43 AM PDT I met my friend when we were 12. We started to become better friends when we were 15, had a falling out but came back together when we were 17. I started dating her brother and I would come over to their house to hang out with the both of them I thought it was awesome being with my boyfriend and my best friend. Last year around this time my friend became pregnant and I was so happy for her! I immediately started to plan her baby shower and bought her so many clothes for her baby. I ve spent hundreds of dollars of presents for her baby and we were super close her whole pregnancy. The day she gave birth she started acting differently towards me. I tried to come over to her house so her brother could meet her baby; I sent her a text asking what a good time is to come and she never responded. I ve tried multiple times to come to her house/have her come to mine to see her baby. She always had an excuse but I ll see pictures of her other friends with her and her baby on Facebook and it really hurts my feelings. I also see her making plans with people to come over to her house. Why is she treating me this way I don t understand. I truly love her and her baby but I feel like she sees me more as her brothers girlfriend rather than her best friend. |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:39 AM PDT I have these two friends lets call the Gabby and Valentina, They have been getting really close lately,leaving me out and saying mean things about me behind my back and even to my face! They are in my class till the end of 2016 but I don t want to be friends with them anymore! How do I get away from them without hurting their feelings? |
Question: Was it rude to call a friend and ask if there were any house parties going on? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:37 AM PDT Hi! I called this one girl, she is a friend of mine but I dont associate with her too much. She turned me down a couple of times. Anyways, I am a bit board and ask if there were any house parties anywhere in town tonight. She told me she didn't know and she was not going out Was I being rude? |
Question: Is it ok to hate my roommates? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:36 AM PDT My two roommates have complained about my snoring, so I'm trying my best to stop, but one of them keeps yelling at me in the middle of the night to stop, and the other one keeps defending her because they're close friends. Is it ok to hate them both? |
Question: Why'd my friend block me? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:23 AM PDT This will be a long story, so bare with me please. I met this guy back in July online and after spending almost 2 months talking to him, I felt that we became really close. He called me a "great friend" so I was feeling really great about finally finding another friend, as I only have 1-3 others. He started to become distant after 2 months, so I tried my best to not annoy him with constant contact. I changed my routinely conversing with him to a weekly one. I even told him if I ever start to annoy him that he should just tell me so. He pretty much just told me otherwise so I thought we were all good. Now he is never on Skype as he literally always was and I fear he has blocked me. It just hurts so much that someone I thought I was good friends with just dumped me with no apparent reason. Any advice? |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:20 AM PDT What kind of snacks, sodas and movies is good for a sleepover? We will sleep at my room. Bunk Beds and King Size Bed. I am shopping tomorrow |
Question: Help me find me e-penpal? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:18 AM PDT I had an e-pen pal that went by the name Dai. The last time we were messaging I left a question and she just disappeared. Here skype was just abandoned. And this was after about a month and a half. She did send me some pics so please help. I want to know if she is ok. She is the blond one. I'm just trying to get this out on the internet to see if there is someone that knows her and can tell me if she's ok. |
Question: What is Fright Fest like? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 11:13 AM PDT I tried posting this a few hours ago but the only answer I got was 'you naked' so hopefully I'll get some more mature people this time. Anyway... Tonight I'm going to Magic Mountain Fright Fest with a friend of mine. I love going on the coasters there, but I don't really like zombies and all that creepy stuff, especially when it's dark, but I didn't tell her I was scared because I've only known her for a month and she's really popular, and somehow (I don't know how) she think's I'M cool XD. Anyway, can someone just tell me what it's like so I'm not as scared? Do they do it during the day time too? Are the rides any different? Do they do it all over the park, or just in certain areas? I just want to know what it's like so that I'm not super scared tonight. And don't be that annoying person that's like ''it's funner if you don't know you have to experience it'' like SERIOUSLY. I'm thirteen. I don't care about my experiences, I just want to survive and have this popular girl still be friends with me. |
Question: For Atheist only is My Best Friend having affair ? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 10:38 AM PDT One of My Christian Friend said saw My Best Friend hugging with her husband and there is a photo I confront My Best Friend do you have affair She said I didn't I have no feelings for him ! She said that for work he is working as PI if he alone bringing a camera people will be suspicious and My Best Friend said ask your Christian Friend stop following me , if not consequence she handle it herself and she tore the picture off too Sorry for my Bad Grammar I ask Atheist seen atheist than to be logical |
Posted: 16 Oct 2015 10:29 AM PDT I have these two friends lets call the Gabby and Valentina, They have been getting really close lately,leaving me out and saying mean things about me behind my back and even to my face! They are in my class till the end of 2016 but I don t want to be friends with them anymore! How do I get away from them without hurting their feelings? |
Question: My b.f. is all up on my bff what do i do? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 10:11 AM PDT |
Question: What kind of skates should I buy for my short friend? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 10:00 AM PDT Let me elaborate. My friend is 5'2 while I'm 5'4, not much of a difference but I walk at a faster pace than her. So much so that there is a noticeable gap between us. She's 15 and wears a woman's size 7. I don't care what the design is, although anything that screams 'meme-ish', or just plain ironic is perfect. Thanks! alright m8's I meant roller skates |
Question: Question about getting a friend back on track, please help!? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 09:38 AM PDT I have this friend, we've been friends since we were ten years old but we've drifted apart significantly. She's gone with the wrong crowd, she's heading to a very destructive path, I don't want her to throw it all away. We're both in college at the moment, she's a very gifted girl, she's very smart, she was at the top of the class and once memorised a 4 page essay with tiny writing in 30 mins!!! and she's just genuinely smart, her potential is so obvious but now she's flunking classes and drinking excessively. I don't want to see her like this. I want to help her because this course was what she always dreamed of doing ever since we were 10-11 years old and I don't want her to wake up one day and realise she threw it all away. I don't want her to be betrayed by those new "friends" she has. She won't listen to me. I know it's not my life to live and it's hers but I want her to be happy and from what I can see she's been nothing but unhappy from all the drama. Any advice on how to snap her out of it? Thanks for you help :) |
Question: What are my options? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 09:36 AM PDT Throughout the past year and a half, I had lent some clothing to a previous friend of mine. Approximately 6 days ago, we had a fallout and decided to no longer continue associating with one another. I politely asked her for my clothing back and she rudely replied that she had already gotten rid of them. If she did get rid of them, is there anything can I do about her discarding of my personal belongings without my knowledge or consent? And if she does still have them, but is simply being a b-word lol, can I contact the authorities to assist me in retrieving my items? I don't know if there's laws that pertain to my situation. Thank you :) |
Question: I'm very depressed, and i just need a friend...? Posted: 16 Oct 2015 09:29 AM PDT Life seems so pointless right now. If people knew how close i was to killing myself, they'd care. Or, well, my friends would just laugh at me as always. I've been bullied all my life. I moved 4 years ago, hoping for a new life where i wouldn't be bullied. But i was wrong; everyone here bullies me. They push me and call me names. I've tried everything to stop it; even kicked their pathetic asses. My friends all laugh at me, and yeah, i guess i don't even have friends then... They always leave me, and ignore me. I've spent about 100$ to fit in with them. (and my family's really poor too... so that's all the money i have had for 4 years) Lended cash, bought video games to play with them, but they never return the favor, and if i buy a game to play with them, they just stop playing the game. I always just live a second life in video games and movies. And rap music... At least that cheers me up usually. I had a group of friends i used to play games with online, but now whenever i ask those people to play with me, or do something, they either go offline or never responds. Just like real life people, they can't stand me so they ignore me. I don't see any reason but my family to go on living. I just need a friend... |
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