Ok, so yesterday I stayed the night with a couple of girls in my class who my best friend doesn't like. Then my best friend R texted me saying she was mad that I hung out with them because she didn't like them. Then she said were not best friends. And I asked who she would hang out with and she said the boys. So idk what to do.. Please give me advice !!

Hello. My friends and I are all sophomores in high school, and have been friends for a few years. For some reason, they have all been bailing one by one on so many different events we plan, with very illogical and contradicting reasons. For example: last friday, we all went to our school's football game. It was cold, and rainy, yet they pitched no complaints. The next night, we had planned to visit a haunted event at a theme park. At the beginning of the day, they were all committed, and we had arranged rides and all. However, as the day went on, they began making excuses that made no sense, taking into account to what we had done prior to that. For example, some of them said that it was too rainy, although the rain had cleared up. I explained to them how they seemed fine the night before, and how it was disappointing that they were bailing out just hours before we were going to leave. Tonight, we also had plans to go somewhere else. Although everybody confirmed, later when I texted them, they all either said they were too tired, it is too dark/cold (60 degrees), or something similar. It has been ticking me off, and making myself very impatient. It is very illogical, and rude to me for them to cancel nearly everything we had in mind for reasons that are lame. Why have they been doing this to me? So far, I have patiently asked for their honesty, and have been receiving the same noncommittal answers. What should I do? Explain how ill mannered it is? Rethink things? Thanks!

About a month ago my friend didn't want to be friends anymore with me. He stated that it was because I've recently been rude to him. I tried to apologize by saying the good old "I'm sorry" but it didn't work. I Facetime him every once and a while, but he always gets mad when I do? He is currently in a different state so going to him in person won't be an option. Only face timing him. What do I tell him?

I notice I have to go through a lot of painful self discovery after I loose a really close friend. A while ago I lost my closest friend but it wasn t her fault. It was her crazy mother s fault. I didn t have the same religion so she told her to stop being my friend because I wasn t a good influence. That whole could never be replaced but I found a lot of cool new people that I love... even though it took longer than expected and it hurt to feel so lonely. Now I m having a similar problem. My friend has a crazy mom but instead now my parents want to protect me from being hurt like that again. They don t let me go to many activities with my friend because it only because his mom is so overprotective and goes to everything with him like a friend. His mom is also really mean to my mom. My family thinks that is weird and overbearing. My friend is now mad that everything they plan I won t go with them... I can t just tell him my family doesn t like his mom... Or can I? Please help I don t want to lose another close friend. Advice?

So it's Saturday and I live in a dorm at my college. It's fall break so pretty much everyone went back home so there's like no one on campus but a few people. My two best friends who live in my dorm and who I hang out with, like, 98 percent of the time are also out of town. So I have no one to talk to on campus. It's also very rainy and dark out because of the weather. I've literally just been in my room from the moment I woke up until now. I worked out for like 30 mins and got lunch at the cafeteria and cleaned up my room a bit but other than that I've been sitting on my computer all day. I just feel soooo lonely and bored and miserable today. Like I feel trapped and awful. Whenever I'm with my two best friends everything is okay but without them it's so lonely on campus. What can I do to combat my loneliness/boredom? How can I cheer myself up? Thanks for any help :)

I am 20 and in college. I have no friends because they all live far away. I lost pretty much all my friends in high school because I got into a fight with this one girl#1 who bullied me and had all her friends gang up against me, so I punched her and gave her a swollen jaw. Everyone was uncomfortable around me the first week or so after i got suspended, until later on this one girl#2 who was there during the incident told me that everyone's discomfort level around me was about a 3 or 2 out of 10, and everyone was chill around me. Before then this girl#3 kept butt-dialing me by accident, I was in a foul mood so i told her to bug off. She then told me along the lines of me needing to realize what i did wrong. that made me angry, but i decided i didn't want to get into another fight so i played along. She got me to agree that she'll tell me her secrets if I tell her mine. So we did, and then two days later she texts me out of nowhere telling she'd prefer not to talk to me and that she hopes I get through the obstacles i face. This made me even more angry for feeling cheated, so started cussing her out over the phone and she ended up saying this to me "your thoughts of suicide are nothing. high shcool is nothing. this high school bullshit won't matter in the long run. you won't do it because you might still have a chance." and then she'd start comparing my problems to hers and due to her logic i wouldn't do it because she wouldn't do it. (Cont. cause the story is really long.) The next few days I try talking to girl#4 on facebook, whom i've helped her get out of a toxic relationship with a creepy old pervert who happened to be a nymphomaniac and a sociopath. She ends up telling me she did not want to talk to me because what I did was unforgivable and that violence is never the answer type bullshit, and I even told her before about my struggle with suicide and the bullying. Before I tried to talk to girl#4 everyone was really quiet at the bus stop and looked uncomfortable, and she stood there rolling her eyes at me. Note that this was after I talked to girl#3. Since then, after the incident, no one talked to me anymore, since i decided to cut them all off which was hard because I knew them since middle school, and now I only talk to two people from high school. Also note that the rest of this all happened after I punched girl#1 and girl#2, who is innocent, told me everyone was okay with me. So now i'm in my second year of college and I only go to school 2 to 3 hours a day since teachers let us off early, and I've tried volunteering one a week for 4 hours since i can't get a job and it's only been three weeks. However, they let me off early at work too because there are too many workers at the shifts I work. So basically I do not get enough time to socialize with people, and I'm getting super depressed about it, and I'm also going through an existential crisis because I'm in my second year of college and I don't know what I want to do with my life. I've lost interest in pretty much everything since I take medicine to help with my extreme case of anxiety, but I'm thinking about getting off of them. I feel like every attempt I try to make at making friends and socializing is futile, and I feel like giving up. All in all, I just really despised twelfth grade and I hate college because the homework is dull and easy, and I don't get enough things to do to get my mind preoccupied. I see counselor once a week. What would you suggest I do to solve this dilemma?

Okay so basically I take French and for this Language Fair last year we had to submit something, like a poster, a poem, a drawing, etc. Me and my good friend decided to submit a video and we got 2nd place, winning a decent sized trophy. Well, I wrote out the script, provided the camera, picked the music, and got all the props completely by myself and gave myself all the long lines which were hard to memorize. She just showed up and said her part. I took it home first ( despite her literally trying to walk away with it and yelling at me in front of people in the hallway) but now she s at my house and she wants to have it. I know that if she takes it now I won t get it back for a while and it s one of my best trophies and I did almost ALL the work and I jut don t think it s completely fair. I mean she did contribute by acting her part, but I think the grade, which was a 100, was good enough for that. I don t know, am I completely wrong? Or...? I know this is kind of silly, but it just means a lot to me so please no mean comments. Thanks!

When I go to my friends list, she's one of my best friends. But when I click her name, her Snapchat score won't load and just says "Loading..." She hasn't viewed any of my stories lately, but I can still view hers. Has she deleted me or not? Her score is the only one that says "Loading..." out of my friends list

In the space of three days something happened for her to decide she didn't want to be my friend. She's blocked me on everything and I don't know what could have happened because we were good the last time we spoke and hadn't spoken since then. I really care about and value her as a friend and apparently all of my peers so know why she refuses to talk to me but no one will tell me why and I don't know what to do about it because she is the one I could trust to talk about my depression etc with and now she isn't talking to me when I need her most and I don't know how to cope

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This guy named John is REALLY REALLY Friendly. He doesn't have any real *friends* so hes been trying to make new ones but me and my group of friends are sorta the normal non-sporty video-gamish group I have no idea what type of person john is but hes the type of friend that likes to snitch on you and think you can be friends again. I drew a gun(and printed a 3d one) of course it was harmless without any bullets or firing module but he told my Principal about it and now my parents are mad. How do you get rid of him? I am in a catholic high school so 1. No violence 2. You have to be friends with everyone.

My friend is having a party and I was okay with going since another friend of ours was going , but now she s not because she got sick and I don t want to go now because we re not as close as we were before because she moved and a new friend of hers is also going so it s just going to be awkward - Also please don t say just tell her the truth on why I don t want to go

My wife and mother of 2 young children continuously put going out and seeing friends over her family. This week she has seen the kids for about 18 hours. Last weekend I came home from work at 3am to her not there. She was gone with friends and then made up a story when she got home after already telling me she was home earlier that night. (Lied twice). I've never told her not to good out some where. I've just told her why I wish she wouldn't. And every time she has gone. I don't know how to get thru to her that I'm tired of her picking fun and friends over her family. Every time I try to talk she turns it on being my fault. Like the lying was my fault because she didn't want to get in trouble for drinking to much and not being able to drive home. I've taken her out to clubs and concerts to have fun with her but she always ALWAYS complains about something I did while we were out. I don't know what to do. Any advice?

i've cut off times with most people, and got rid of all social media. I hardly talk to any guys my own close friends have backed stabbed me. I don't trust anyone anymore, but I am starting to feel alone. how should I get back in the dating seen ..

Like whenever I'm in school or public I say hi to random people and start a conversation. I'll do this almost everywhere I go. Some people look at me like I'm crazy, not a lot though, most people love it and we become friends. Honestly I've made sooo many friends this way. Do you think this is weird?

It started before we started a new school for sixth form and he kept asking me what kind of clothes I would be wearing and then he would get similar clothes, it really got on my nerves and at one point he nearly got a bag almost identical to mine but I felt weird saying anything because I didn't want to start drama or look like a narcissist. Later when people have been really rude to me and upset me to the point I actually left a lesson and cried and my other friends (the ones I've known for a month) came looking for me but not the friend I've had for 5 years. he continues to be friendly with these people talking to them even after he tells me he won't because I'm his friend and going off with them to eat lunch. Most importantly he has changed so much and instead of being a really chill funny person he's being so fake and catty and lying all the time about the most pointless things! I spoke to him once and he said that I misunderstood a lot of it or I was just being paranoid and that he feels more comfortable around the people here than at our old school but even the way he would act around his best friends is completely different to who he is now. No one here knew him before like I did so I don't feel like they understand that he's being fake and I don't know what to do about him

Is this the end of our friendship??????

So I bought my friend a season pass and I asked her last week if we could go this week and she said no but then earlier that same day one of our mutual friends (I m not close to her) asked me what perks her pass had and if there are black out dates and I said there aren t any blackout dates etc.. And today (was the day I asked if she could go) I saw on our mutual friends snapchat they were at six flags. I feel quite hurt and a little jealous and I m not sure if I should tell her something or am I overreacting [ I used to have jealously issues (about a lot of things) and I m now over them and I don t want to go back ]

I had a group of friends who did me really wrong. My "best friend" claims to not want to associate with them either & has told me she doesn't really care for them. -Me: see, this is the exact reason I don't want to be friends with the group. See look, they posted a picture of them all together on facebook. -Her: oh. Yeah, I know. I stopped by to say hello to them but could only stay 10 min. I'm spending the day with my sister down at the beach Me: why would you even go there?!? Her: because Rachel & Jess were there & I'm still friends with them. Me: I don't understand why you would associate with them when they treat US like such s-it. Makes me ill. Her: they invited me, I stopped by for 10 min on my way to my sisters Me: Hold up! They invited YOU but I didn't get an invite. WOW WTF Her: I'm Sry? Me: I'm trying to stay away from people who associate with that "group" of people. I'm really mad you'd hang out with people who treat your best friend so poorly. Her:This is between you & them not me & them. I don't have a problem with anyone. I just do me Me: don't call Was I wrong? We are grown adults 28 years old We aren't children

okay so I m a girl and I am perfectly into guys. not girls. but on my softball team there is this girl, like I long to be her friend. she goes to a different school than me and I have a lot of friends at my house, but like I want to be like her best friend and want to get close to her and tell her everything. like she doesn t talk a lot and I always find myself being curious about her and thinking about her, and like how we could be friends. like I follow her on Instagram and I m always on her pictures seeing if she posts anything new, and same for Twitter. like it makes me happy when she likes my pic on Instagram and when she talks to me. but I m not lesbian but I just really want to be close to her and I want us to be best friends. like what is wrong with me and why do I feel this way??

my boyfriends mom spreaded a rumor about my mom and my friends and it's been causing me stress and depression bc my boyfriends mom is saying to the people in my neighborhood that i said this stuff about an untrue situation that involves my mother and my 5 friends.the situation she said is personal but the stuff she said was really SERIOUS but she said my friends were bad bc of their appearence.i've been crying for the last week bc of it and i feel like i'm gonna commit suicide or get addicted to drugs to cope with this situation.it feels like my mom and my friends r mad at me and i've been laying in bed all day today sobbing bc it's been bothering me alot.my boyfriends mom actually USES me for gossip (i don't even talk to her anyways and she evn talks crap about me about how i dress and my music taste which includes rap,grunge,and metal music)and she sent some girl i know to our house to spy what's going on.i never even said anything she said to neighbors and people and i feel like getting aggressive at my boyfriends mom for talking crap.my friends and my mom says it's alright but to me it's not.it just makes me mad that my boyfriends mom ACTUALLY cares about who my friends are and what they're doing and she talks crap about them and she barely knows them! it's bothering the crap out of me! i can't even go outside or see my boyfriend anymore.my boyfriends mom is also judgemental too and some ppl ik even say that she's trouble.can anyone help me to cope with gossip? thanks :)

I am from Miami. I went up to college in Tampa because I spoke to a professor down there and he told me Tampa is ranked 13th in the nation for the largest media market. So I left behind my friends and family, my house, my girlfriend, and my dog and traveled to a city where hardly anyone knows my name. Now that I'm here I realize how hard it is being on your own after 23 years of living at home. New schedule, new class load, new mindset, new EVERYTHING. I'm not trying to be angsty I'm too old for that. I just am confused. I miss everyone and often i feel drained and un-motivated. I get even more un motivated when i tell people what i'm majoring in Journalism and they say something like " I don't know many people that are doing that, or your the first person I've met with that major." I'm getting a's and b's which is OK I supposed but at the same time it sucks because I miss everyone back home. To top it all off my parents are selling the house and moving to Gainesville. So sooner or later I won't even have a home to go back to. I know I'll still be able to visit friends and stuff but its gonna be different. I don't know why i'm writing this. I don't know why after more than 5 weeks of being here I still feel only slightly better the day I got here. Is this normal? I making it more of a big deal than it needs to be? Please, tell me.

Why is it whenever I notice my friends' change in mood, I always ask if they are okay. If anything is going wrong. Yet they never ask me how I'm doing. Now, I don't have a big group of friends. I'm talking about 2 specific friends. They never ask me how my day is going. Or what I've been up to. I feel like they take me for granted a little. They always come to me when they have problems. And I am fine with that! I love making people happy. But when I'm sad. I feel like they don't take time to help me?¿ I send this big paragraphs. To this one friend. I send her paragraphs at 4 am. The sort of just. Brush my off when I need help. I don't know. Am I being greedy? Am I just being an idiot?

I went to visit a friend and drove three hours to get there. She's going through some rough financial times and I hadn't seen her in over a year. I consider her a pretty good friend, so I didn't have a problem going to see her. I already had a feeling I was going to pay for everything though because she was alway having money issues. I ended up doing just that, pretty much paying for everything. When I left I had realized I left my $180 sonicare toothbrush with her on accident. I was in a rush to get back home since I was recalled for work. I had asked her if she could mail it back to me and continued with the "I don't have money until payday" story. It's been almost 3 months. She has ignored me the last month. I also tried getting in touch with her boyfriend who has also ignored me. Should I just forget about it and send her one last message calling it done? I feel like she has spoiled a friendship. It's the principle. What are your thoughts? I'm thinking maybe she got so desperate for money that had sold it and doesn't want to talk to me cause she doesn't have it anymore? It's a weird purchase but totally possible, the heads are interchangeable.

My friend has two kids, 1 girl that's 2 and 1 boy that's 14 and she has a BF that has two kids, 1 boy thats 3 and 1 girl thats 8. So they were planning to move in together but the guy and his kids mother are deciding whether that's possible because the kids mom says that the 14 year old (my friends kid) may molest or try to have sex with the 8 year old. I thought that was really weird of the both of them (friends man and ex) to question. Okay so he's a teen but a 14 year old is looking at Miley Cirus, Niki Minaj, etcetera and so I'm wondering why my friend is even considering being with him anymore. I mean, of course parents want to protect their children but I was literally shocked to hear the creation of the perversion of that odd thinking. I think my friend should be with more of man that thinks logically. What do you think?

I had a nasty fallout with one of my best friend's 3 months ago and I am still not over it. we have a lot of mutual friends and one of them told me the other day that when I was brought up she said "she cannot stand me". I'll always have love for her because we were close and had a bond and she helped me thru so much but I need help moving on. I feel really sad about it everyday it is horrible.

there is really no way to fix what happened between me and her. she left me in a parking lot alone at 2 am because I called my dad to pick me up when me after me and her smoked because she fell asleep and would not drive me home on time so I had no choice but to call him at that point. anyways, when I told her she kicked me out of the car. and now I have to sit right next to her in class. we are in 12th grade. but she is **** talking me and she's always aggressive and I'm scared she will probably say something to me and I'm super sensitive and I cannot take that.

I've always been jealous and i will still be no matter what , jealousy is tough and i know it but i can't really help it , i'm posting this question because you guys might help me ease my jealousy. Here's how it goes : I'm just chilling with a friend having a good time , laughing , just pretty much having a pretty good time untill another friend of his just appears out of nowhere and they start talking pretty much just ignoring me . From that point i become a third wheel very easy and i can't talk because if i start a subject , they just ignore me and move on to their things . It really annoys me because it's gotten to the point where it became legitimately annoying . Everytime i'm having a good time with a friend someone just pops out of nowhere and makes me a third wheel . I get ultra jealous . Don't call me selifsh but i always think i should be the one getting more attention because i spend a crapload of time talking to my friend and someone just breaks our conversation making me pretty much useless . So yeah , what do i do?

This is at my NEW job. I am a very sweet person and I do my best to make conversation & socialize with my coworkers. I'm just a normal person who doesn't speak too much or too little. However, I recently noticed that after I speak with my coworkers, I noticed them secretly smiling at each other... If you were ever in this situation, why do you think this is? Maybe they think I'm cute? Weird? Try too hard? Awkward? Funny? Why won't they just tell me what's up?

This is actually happening, for all the smart @sses who call it trolling. I live next door to this awful person.

What should i do if i walk in on my best friend when she has her nine-year-old daughter over her knee, giving a spanking? Edit

So my friend and I aren't arguing or anything but I feel like I'm not good of a friend. I'm going to explain how I act and how she acts. Who do you think needs to become a better friend? I'm not saying which one is me btw. Friend A: protective, motherly. Funny. Thinks everything she does is amazing. Likes to tease other friend(annoy). Likes staying out late. Likes to get food. Likes to use people. Bossy. Can be caring. Possessive though, only have one friend at a time. Patient. Friend B: really kind. Funny. Respectful. Moody. Snaps but doesn't like when people snap back. Cries easy. Prefers to not be out for a long time. Loves mall and movie theaters. Can be distant. Doesn't allow people to toy with emotions(will retreat when people try). Doesn't start drama. Loyal but logical.

my best friend says they trust me with their life, and that our trust has tacken years to build. I believe trust is more than just "keeping a secret", but im not entirely sure what they mean when they say they trust me with their life? what do you class as trust in a friendship? we have been best friends for around 6,7 years.

I've been going to the same high school since freshman year and the second semester of my junior year I will be moving schools. I am very socially awkward. My face gets extremely noticeably red talking to anyone outside of my very small friend group ( which is like 3 people I've known since 6th grade). I am moving to a school with 2000 something students attending and I'm super scared. I don't have any siblings, I'm just going alone.How do people socialize and make friends? I've never been to a party or club. I'm absolutely clueless abouthow most people do this stuff

So, one of my childhood friend and I drifted apart since 8 years ago... and suddenly we met again several days ago in a weird situation and not a pretty one at that... and up until now, both of us don't know what to do... any suggestions?

A year ago, there was a debate during my English lecture where we discussed gay rights. I was, unfortunately, against them, at the time. Now, my opinions, beliefs and views have changed on many subjects including this one; I am actually a proponent of gay rights, now. During that English lectures there was a disagreement between me and one of the other students attending. I don t know anything about him and I rarely encounter him at the university. My question is, is it appropriate to go up to that person the next time I see him and tell him that I was wrong and that he was right, even though that debate and disagreement happened about a year ago?

I am friend with this girl for a long time, she and i dont have that much in common but were supposedly best friend. We go everywhere together, at lunch, nutrition and breaks. We are not like those best friend who talks forever without running out of things to say.Its hard to find things that we both like and stuffs. She doesnt have that many people to hang out with beside me. Lately my other friend been telling me to hang out with them but she doesnt wanna come with me and I dont wanna leave her cuz then she has no one (she tried to commit suicide before) Idk what to do, sometime we go on the whole lunch without saying anything. Shes bi so sometime she look at me in a way that make me really uncomfortable but i can ignore that. How do i tell her i wanna hang out with other people too and still talk to her like nothing happen? Cuz this happened to me b4 and i left that girl and she just stop talking to me and i don want that.

My best friend leaned on my arm and he said "you smell nice." The next day he said I was soft and warm like a teddy bear. We're both male.? He didn't sound like he was joking. I made a face at him and he said that he liked the face that I made because I looked confused which I was.

hey, so im 14, female, freshman. i have a lot of problems at home. i have a friend at school, and i told her whats been happening. the thing is my father left and my mother is always with her bf, she gets mad at me 4 no reason, and cuts me off when im trying 2 express my feelings. my mom comes home at midnight 4 times out of the week and doesnt even come the other 3. and i specifically told her not 2 tell anyone, especially councilors cause they'll just tell my mother and i feel uncomfortable. so, before i know it, my mom gets a call from the school, and the councilor is like, "i think ur daughter needs 2 talk 2 someone. she seems really upset about her stepfather." im just so mad at my friend! how can she do something like that! i trusted her!...and the worst thing is, now, i have no one to talk 2. my mother is still never around, same with my father. and now, i have no friends. and my teachers will just tell the councilors like they did last year in 8th grade (for another problem) and ill get in trouble...they ruined my life! theres a lot going on in my life. like im unloved, why cant i just have sex and do drugs? no one cares about me anyways! but seriously, who am i so post 2 ask when i really need help? and no councilors, cause there advice doesnt come from the heart, and i dont need some fake textbook advice. there's no one! have u ever felt lonely and no one cares? who do u talk 2 when ur upset? thanks 4 all replies i need help! @susan i understand what ur saying, but i specifically told her not to tell the councilor. now, its cause of her that i cant trust anyone and i have to lie 2 everyone at school and tell them im fine when im not

I'm in last year of school (in my country), I'm 15 and I don't have any friends but I was friends with this guy and we were going to start riding dirt bikes once he got his driver's license, which is on monday but ever since he started hanging out with two other people in my class he doesn't talk to me anymore and he's probably not going to want to ride with me once he gets his driver's license either. I don't know if I've done something to him that made him angry or just make him lose interest in me but something has happened and I hate him because he ignores me and I don't have any friends but I'm not saying it's his fault. I do have some acquaintances in my class but I don't refer to them as "friends". A lot of the time I feel lonely but my grades are good according to my class-teacher but I'm afraid that it'll be to hard to feel this sadness and emptiness all the time and that it will result in bad grades and then I won't make it into college. People compliment me on my guitar-playing a lot, and I used to play with this other guy in my school during this summer but he never takes the initiative to invite me and he never asks me to play with him either, it's like he's not interested in it anymore for no reason at all. I don't know what I did wrong to them but they are making me feel lonely and empty inside and I've decided that they're toxic for my happiness and I don't know how to find new friends since I know how many douchebags there are in my school.

I'm 16 and a guy and 10th grader at school. I am somewhat popular but not really popular. Anyways im always willing to make new friends. There's a kid that's a grade ahead. I don't know this kid but I see him everyday whether its at a locker or just walking around. Last year I also saw him just about everyday. We have never talked or anything. He seems pretty cool and I followed him on Instagram and twitter. He accepted my follow request on instagram but didn't follow me back. He's a popular kid that's on the high school football team. I want to get to know him. I found his phone number on instagram buy if I text him, he will probably think I'm a stalker. What should I do, leave a comment on Instagram saying he's cool or what?

And please, no disrespectful bashful comments about my song. That really hurts, I have a dream and it is only right to give respectful corrective criticism. If you are going to just be rude, don't even answer. Here it is... https://youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=t4SK8nmFpWw

When I'm with other people, I just don't know how to break the ice. I can't come up with anything to say, unless I have questions about anything, but I never come up with anything fun to say. Really, how do I become a more fun person and talk more? Even to people I don't know that well? When I'm with people at school, I usually don't know what they're talking about because I haven't done what they have, like things I don't have in common. Sometimes they talk about stuff like that, where there's literally nothing I can say, because I don't know what they are talking about. Also when I'm with many people, I'm afraid to talk in front of everyone, because I'm afraid to get all the attention. I might be a little shy, but if I know what to say than that won't be a problem! So how do become a more fun and talkative person, and more confident in my words? And do you think this can be affected by my low self esteem? (Because I know mine is very low)

I have to admit to you I hate it because I don't have any friends. What would be the point of me having it to not have the long list of friends it seems everyone has? Maybe I would like it if I had loads of friends, but it is what is. It does seem by looking at some people's pages like a braggart's paradise of where people have been & how happy they are. Is everyone really that happy with that many friends? Looks like I missed the boat. I'm pretty old now, so most of the friends I did have died. It's not easy now to make friends. I don't work & am pretty much a shut in.

This girl that I have been dating is ready for sex her words not mine. She is a friend of my friends sister and we cant have sex at our homes as we both live with our parents I do because its cheaper then rez and she is in final year of high school so when ever I go over to my friends house and she's there I want to have sex but I don't know if i should at his place and how not to get caught

Do you think it is ok to lie for a friend even if that lie hurts someone you don't know? Do you resent it when you have to lie for a friend all the time since it brings you down as a person.

It's not like I hate people, but I just dont care what happeens to anyone. Even my own family. I am a very lonely person and I tend to keep it that way. My father wanted me to atleast get a master in college. In middle school I had a bunch of friends, and I realized I was failing. Im in high school 10th grade right now, but I was quiet the whole year in 9th and then I get honor rolls. I easily get distracted by something like friends or family. I dont like talking to girls unless they ask me for something (I swear Im not gay). Therefore, my best bet is to keep quiet until I get my masters. So I didnt have much of a choice. My family always wanted me to go get friends and make me start convos, but they all failed. I usually see people in high school always talkin to a friend, me, I go to my locker and straight to class. I am still being quiet as of right now with no friends. I think having friends makes ur life worse and dramatic. Having a girlfriend is meaningless to me. You know you are gunna break up at some point. Im not even close to thinkin of marriage and kids. I am considered dead in this world. So tell me, Whats the point of having friends if its gonna lead to more drama and regret? I barely have any emotions and I dont know how love feels like or joy. I would hardly ever talk to my parents and they always complain I dont call or text them. They havent realized that they wasted a child. My brother is the absolute opposite of me so hes good in a way.

How to find someone?

Me and my bff and almost all class doesn't like these girls who are bossy and they think that they are on top of the world.I had a little argue with my bff about how she is forgetting about me,and how she wants to be with them,but they are using her just because of her phone ,etc.But i said that she is now hanging with these bitches,so she went down on fair with other friends and they took her phone,so they read it and sent me how i was lame and if i call them b on more time i'm going to regret it etc...I said i apologize and i want all of us to talk on monday in school but they said i said what i ment and it is not going to happen,.. I'm now super anxious and i don't know what is going to happen.Some advices on how to calm down and what to do now!! THANK YOU FOR ALL COMMENTS!! I know i shouldn't apologize, i don't care so much of them even if i am truly sorry,not because they found out but really,but i fell so anxious,and nervous even if i don't care about them.I'm soft hearted and i easily cry even if it is just a little fly not biggy. I'm a little calmed AND THANK YOU WONDERFUL PEOPLE ABOUT YOU'RE ADVICES AND SUPPORT!!

I've had this idea the I should gather a group of friends and give speeches at schools about bullying because my best friend is depressed from being bullied and possibly if we set up a stand (not in the schools) at somewhere like a church carnival and bought merchandise, what organization should the profits go to? BTW, I need the organization to be for kids being bullied, and keep in mind this is not actually happening, it is just an idea for now.

So my mom is going out of town next week just for that single week and she is making me stay with a family friend that I don't really feel comfortable with. I would rather just stay home all week myself. I've done it before many weekends in the past. I told her this that I could just stay by myself but she refuses however my younger sister will have to go with the family friend regardless. I asked my dad who lives slightly far to come and stay with me but he cannot. Thinking about lying and saying that he's coming when he's actually not. How should I go about faking this? Or give me any strong arguments as to that I am capable of staying home myself. If I go to the family friend they live farther away from my school but within the same area but it ruins my carpool schedule and i feel weird having to stay there. I feel much more comfy at home.