Marriage & Divorce: Question: Should I stay with spouse that has never cheated or abused me but has allowed his ex wife and (now adult) children to ruin our relationship? |
- Question: Should I stay with spouse that has never cheated or abused me but has allowed his ex wife and (now adult) children to ruin our relationship?
- Question: My sister's husband refuses to work for a company paycheck. why?
- Question: Fiance wants me to stay at her place everyday and I am having trouble letting go of my man cave at my own apt. Advice?
- Question: Am I the abusive one now? Or was it right to hit him for the greater good?
- Question: Kicked my brother-in-law out of my house! Wife wont talk to me! Help?
- Question: Is a wife entitled to half of a montary gift given to the husband?
- Question: Why are wives so indignant over their husbands becoming upset when they withhold sex to punish him after an argument?
- Question: Should I marry this woman?
- Question: Why can't I make up my mind about marriage?
- Question: Is there still hope for me?
- Question: Is it true that cheating on your wife and/or spouse is part of Japanese culture?
- Question: Is a guy a rapist if he does this?
- Question: Are there any legal ways to not pay child support?
- Question: I m getting divorced-who is correct with the money?
- Question: My teacher who have left my university want to marry me, i also love him so deeply, problem is age difference & teacher student boundary?
- Question: Where can I find rich women to marry ?
- Question: How can I get my wife to stop being so controlling?
- Question: Cannot satisfy wife sexsual. fhow can I find somone to make love with her?
- Question: How does an affair impact a marriage? it seems like most couples don't split and they work it out?
- Question: What if you want to marry someone, but you don't like their style or their tastes in behavior, clothing, etc.?
- Question: Why are men always rude and insulting towards their woman?
- Question: Are all these Dad bod articles true? Do you women out there prefer someone with a dad bod vs the same person with a six pack? Any reason?
- Question: Does it make any logical sense to have a stay at home house wife these days if you have no kids or if kids are school aged ?
- Question: Can a husband of wife, complain on ex lover of wife, assuming they are having extra marital affair. If yes what results. If not why cant?
- Question: Need advice to help my daughter with her marriage.?
- Question: Why my wife is so mean when it comes to sex? Feminist welcomed to answer.. give me all that bull sh1t?
- Question: Marriage after 5 months?
- Question: Another packing issue with my wife?
- Question: Can t seem to forgive my husband for being abuse... How do I let it go?
- Question: Husband slapped me with a closed-hand because batch of cookies were too crunchy. Is he being abusive? How do I make chewy cookies?
- Question: Money given by husband to his wife is called?
- Question: Why do most people think marriage has to be monogomous?
- Question: My wife has been having an affair - Has anyone here been through this before?
- Question: My wife wont let me watch movies with nudity or any sexual content. She claims it goes against her religion but it seems like control.?
- Question: Do you believe that it's being irresponsible for a married couple to just keep on having children without any kind of family planning?
- Question: My soon-to-be ex-husband says he will get counseling if I go through with the divorce.?
- Question: Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship?
- Question: Divorce - How to work through the pain and hurt?
- Question: Women, do some of you not have sex with your husband often? Any reason why?
- Question: Could the institution of marriage survive the test of time?
- Question: My wife won't talk to me?
- Question: How do I make my husband compromise with me?
- Question: Survey reguarding marriage and texting?
- Question: Is my SO a functional alcoholic, a heavy drinker or something else?
- Question: Wife displaying abusive behavior?
- Question: Does my mother in law come between us?
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 08:41 PM PDT For the past 16 years I have stood by and supported my husband when his ex-wife gave him problems, even though he legally and morally supported his kids. His ex and his kids have disrespected me (verbally, in print, and using social media videos).Both kids are adults in their 20s. One child is now married but he has to provide financial support to the couple from time to time. The other child was kicked out by mom because of drug use and disrespect. I agreed to let the child reside with. She disrespected me, cussed me out, and even made a social video defaming my character. I demanded that she leave and as a result my spouse moved out too and they are residing in our vacation home. She is not working steady and even quit the steady job she had secured. He has since purchased her a second car (she totaled the first one smoking weed and drinking), and is paying the car insurance. He has also been apartment shopping with her which means he's going to be paying those expenses as well. They adult kids have great health insurance, dental, and vision courtesy of us. But we have a minor child and I truly believe we should be focusing on investing in his future. As I type this my non-working adult child is on her second "vacation" in 3 weeks. |
| Question: My sister's husband refuses to work for a company paycheck. why? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:57 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:55 PM PDT I am a final year phd student in chemistry and live right next to my campus so its easier for me to walk to my classes and labs. I got engaged about 6 months ago. After that my fiance moved closer to where I live (I wasnt ready to completely move in and wanted to wait till marriage). She wanted to me to stay at her place every night. On the other hand, I used to be at school all day and in the evening sometimes I would just come back to my place, have a beer and just watch tv or something (in the confinement of my man cave). So every now and then I would want to not go to her place and just spend the night at mine (cause I also get better sleep on my own bed) but this hasnt been quite ok with her. We are in the verge of breaking up our engagement as we have been fighting so much over this issue. I want to be with her no doubt. I just dont want to feel like "I can never stay at my place again". So..... help please. |
| Question: Am I the abusive one now? Or was it right to hit him for the greater good? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:51 PM PDT I slapped my boyfriend because when I tried to call the cops for my neighbor who was being beat by her husband and running down the street he tried to take my cell phone and stop me. He said we need to mind our own business,(I slapped him) I said its people like you who disgust me when you turn a blind eye. How is that morally right? I cant believe I slapped him. He left the house and said I am no better than that abuser. I dont know if I was right or wrong. He took my phone literally and was not going to help?? I dont know if I should apologize or stand my ground, I just wanted to help her. I grew up in an abusive home where my dad beat my entire family, I broke the cycle, me and my husband are not abusive people and I dont know why I slapped him, I just became so angry. |
| Question: Kicked my brother-in-law out of my house! Wife wont talk to me! Help? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:36 PM PDT It has been over three months since my brother-in-law lost his job and apartment. I let him live with us under the expectations he has to find a new job and move out within a three month time frame. The guy never applied for one job, not a single fricking job. All he would do is lay around the house,eating my food, making messes everywhere he went. I found out from my wife he started smoking pot about two weeks ago. So today I kicked him out without my wife's approval. Now everyone in her family are sitting around and talking **** about me, including my wife! It's not like he doesn't have a place to stay, his parents live a couple of blocks away from my house! My mother-in-law made a post on Facebook calling me a heartless bastard. Am I in the wrong? |
| Question: Is a wife entitled to half of a montary gift given to the husband? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:17 PM PDT |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:16 PM PDT shouldn't a husband have the right to get upset over his wife abusing him? could you imagine the outrage from a wife if her husband withheld sex to punish her when he didn't get his way? and usually it's the same wives that complain about their husbands watching porn when they refuse to satisfy his needs. |
| Question: Should I marry this woman? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:14 PM PDT There is this woman I don't like her. But her dad sell Snap On Tools and if I marry her I will get them as a wedding present. Should I ? |
| Question: Why can't I make up my mind about marriage? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:09 PM PDT I have been wishy-washy about marriage ever since I started actually dating. I wanted to get married when I was young, I'd always dream up my "perfect details" about my dream wedding. I realized the reality is, I saw marriage as that... a wedding. I can't get over seeing it like that, even though I know it's not just a wedding. The ONLY reason I want to get married, is for the wedding and honeymoon. I can't even imagine spending the rest of my life with one person. I sound like a b*tch, I know. My boyfriend really wants to get married, I've changed my mind so many times, he doesn't believe me anymore when I say I don't want marriage.... honestly I don't believe myself. I want it, but I don't. I want the romance, but I don't want the commitment. I've never been a player or a sl*t, but I know I sound like it right now. What's wrong with me? I'm 19, btw. I'm not too young to get married. My parents got married at 20. My friend got married at 18. Age doesn't mean anything, I just thought it would help with maybe understanding what I'm going though. Age has nothing to do with maturity. You people are so ignorant on here! God! Can someone please give me a GOOD answer!? I need to grow up? HA! Your a lonely-b*tch who can't accept being single and are jealous of me. Why are you anon then? I only have my question as anon because my boyfriend has an account and he's less likely to find me if I have it anon. What's your reason? Yeah, I didn't think so. Hey, I think both of you have some homework to do. Go ask your mommy for help. |
| Question: Is there still hope for me? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:50 PM PDT I'm a 28 year old single female. I have no kids. I'm not "talking" to anyone either. I have social media accounts and I see people that I went to school with who are getting married and having kids. Some are on their second and third child. I see the pics of their ultrasounds and pregnancy pics and I'm so happy for them. But at the same time I want my own kids SO bad that when I see their pics I'm happy for them but sad for myself. I just feel like I'm getting older and I'm not in a relationship and it's going to be too late soon. Is there still hope for me? |
| Question: Is it true that cheating on your wife and/or spouse is part of Japanese culture? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:42 PM PDT |
| Question: Is a guy a rapist if he does this? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:27 PM PDT His wife only allows him himto use condoms during sex and he forcefully take the doms out and ejaculates in her...? By profession he has a dog pound |
| Question: Are there any legal ways to not pay child support? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 04:45 PM PDT Such as welfare or signing parental rights away? |
| Question: I m getting divorced-who is correct with the money? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 04:32 PM PDT I m getting an uncontested divorce. We agreed to live together and pay the bills together until November, then split everything left over. Well, my husband went and bought a $500 xbox. He said he d put the $510 back into my savings account before Monday. He then called me and asked how I wanted my $250 back. I told him, $250 isn t fair, I need to be compensated the whole $500 to pay bills and pay for our divorce. He said it was fair because if he put $500 into our joint savings account, at the end of the month he would ve gotten the $250 back anyway. But in my mind, he blew $500, recouped the money, and gave himself $250 on top of the $500 he spent. Am I correct? I feel like he just ripped me off. |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 03:53 PM PDT my past teacher and i have many common behaviors. i fall in love with him and he too. we mostly talk less to hide our feeling . but through his friend i came to know that he love me too and want to marry me .I was so excited but my parents said that there is a great age difference. he is 34 and I am 25. my problem is that can i be able to remove teacher student boundary and have normal relation or face problems because he was my teacher and age difference. i like his nature and behavior but i am worried too . can I be able to live friendly with him with this age difference. |
| Question: Where can I find rich women to marry ? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 03:44 PM PDT Please don't judge me. I'm under massive pressure. |
| Question: How can I get my wife to stop being so controlling? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 03:02 PM PDT I am a groomsman in a friend's wedding. His bachelor party is next Saturday night in town (he lives elsewhere, but 2 of the 4 groomsmen live here). My wife told me that she doesn't want me spending more than $50 for the entire night and that she wants me back by 2 AM. I told her that's ridiculously unreasonable. On the cost side: The uber ride itself will cost $50, dinner will cost $50, and I will probably spend $100 on drinks, and that she can expect me to spend up to $300, since we will be splitting the groom's cost. On the timing side: The clubs close at 3. We will then go get latenight food, and because she insisted we live in suburbia, it'll take 30 min to get back, and that it is possible that I may not be back till 6 AM. Thus, I told her not to wake me until 2 PM on Sunday unless urgent. She claims "this is not how a father acts. You should have left this behind." I told her that I am not asking to do this every week or even every year....just ONCE. I've never been a groomsman before, and the only other bach party I've been to was my own. I'm not going to end up in jail or in the hospital. Neither are the other guys. We aren't poor, $300 isn't going to bankurupt us, and she can handle our daughter for Sat night into Sunday. She has gone away for 3 weekends during the past year to go to weddings and spent over $1,000 each time. I didn't whine about it, so why can't she just get off my back about this? |
| Question: Cannot satisfy wife sexsual. fhow can I find somone to make love with her? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 02:49 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 02:47 PM PDT Imagine for instance, if you are more of a preppy and the spouse is more of a goth, would that be an incompatibility. You still like the person, but you don't like the style they have and that affects who they hang out with and how they look. |
| Question: Why are men always rude and insulting towards their woman? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 02:19 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 11:56 AM PDT Well there are still quite a lot of women who prefer a traditional life with traditional role as a house wife but does that make sense anymore with all the technological advances we have for a woman to stay at home People don't clean every day maybe like once a week at most When I do clean like vacuum sweep, mop , bathrooms etc takes like less than 2 hours Same thing with laundry people don't wash sheets and clothes every day you throw it in a washer and dryer like once a week takes only a few hours and you don't have to be there People only go grocery shopping once a week too and then store it all in the freezer and fridge Ironing and folding clothes don't take that long either Cooking dinner takes like 30 minutes and another 30 minutes to wash dishes and clean up tops same thing with breakfast And lunch Which you usually cook at same time then pack to go If you have a dishwasher which most That time is cut in half If kids are school age like 5 they are at school for most of the day for like 6 hours So what does your typical traditional house wife do for the rest of the day ? In no way can what a stay at home mom and house wife does is equivalent to what a 9 to 5 working husband does Unless she's not using technology like vacuums washing drying machines dish washers and does it all by hand Because Im a bachelor who lives by myself and can do all the things a housewife does within a few hours -_- |
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| Question: Need advice to help my daughter with her marriage.? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 10:07 AM PDT So my daughter has been married less than a year and already wants to separate from her husband. A little background: He has never had a lot of motivation, and a very close relative told her she should not marry him for this reason.... From what she has told me, it sounds like he wants to just stay at home and she wants to be with her friends, out and about. Their work schedules weren't helping the situation either. They were working opposite hours, and didn't see much of each other. But he apparently would come home, and not even greet her. The work situation has recently improved, but I'm guessing communication has just not been there. How can I get her to try to work this out with him? I am afraid she has already made her mind up, But if there is a chance for them to figure things out, I want them to. I simply want advice as how to get through to her that a marriage is NOT disposable, and at least deserves a chance. I am in NO way a doting mother.. I know it is her life. But is just so sad if it doesn't work out after such a short period of time. |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 10:05 AM PDT Ok who like to have sex after eating ? who like to fu8ck just after dinner or when u go to bed super tired. How would u feel when u r trying to sleep n ur wife jumps on u expecting u to f7ck her!!! We have been going through economic crisis and I dont have a job. We both go to school and it's hectic. I understand body need sex but sometimes u just dont want it. I used to be a horny person but now I dont like humping like rabbits. I feel if its rude to turn down a woman in heat, its equally rude to push a poor guy for sex when he is not into it at all. I love to have sex in romantic situation but not when u had a heavy dinner and ur mom visiting u is sleeping right in next room.. oh god.. this makes me even more turned off... I am loosing my attraction towards my wife and other woman look more desirable who display a better understanding. I am in 20's BTW n so is my mean ass909 wife |
| Question: Marriage after 5 months? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 08:36 AM PDT |
| Question: Another packing issue with my wife? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:57 AM PDT Several weeks ago I posted a question about my wife packing so many clothes for a weekend getaway with my family. Well, she's at it again. We're going on an overnight, mind you I said OVERNIGHT, trip to visit my daughter at college for their homecoming weekend. We're leaving tomorrow morning and coming back Sunday afternoon. My wife has pulled out the largest piece of luggage we have and this is what she's packed. 5 jackets (coats, pullovers, hoodies), 3 bras, 4 pair of panties, 3 pair of shoes, and 4 outfits. Not to mention the separate smaller bag she's taking just for her personal stuff (hair care, deodorant, makeup, etc). Me, I'm packing everything in one of our smaller bags. What I'm taking are the clothes on my back, a change of clothes for later that night when we take my daughter out to eat and then a change of clothes for the return trip. Ladies, help me out here. Is she a little excessive for a 30 hour trip? I've told her that I'm not carrying her bag and she has an attitude about it. How do I get my wife to pack lite just for an overnight trip? |
| Question: Can t seem to forgive my husband for being abuse... How do I let it go? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:53 AM PDT My husband and I have been together for a year and 10 months (relationship and marriage combined). After about 3 months of being together he became slightly abusive (ex. name calling, grabbing, chocking, throwing around/manhandling, etc.). He said he would change and said he would seek counseling and never did. It s like he would change and then when something triggered his anger he would go right back. After about 8 months in he had threatened my life multiple times, still the same as before and had even reached the point of slapping me and dared me to try and leave him. So now here we are a year later and it s still the same thing. He s good for a few months then he pops. He s become slightly controlling and really negative. I ve found myself not being happy and just kind of going through the motions. Last month he got so upset at me that he slapped me multiple times and left a bruise and pushed me into the closet when he thought I was attempting to hit him back. He s apologized and sworn to change but at this point I m not mentally in the marriage. Am I overreacting? Should I give him another chance? I m only 24 so I m young and never wanted this to end in divorce but he keeps crying "change" and won t get it. What should I do? How do I let go? |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 07:39 AM PDT He slapped me in my private parts. I just want to avoid conflict. He is so sweet on everything else 100% of the time. It is ONLY these cookies that make him cross. That's why I'm asking for help with that, because I know if they were chewy he would stay sweet. I can't go to the police because there was no crime. It was only a slap. |
| Question: Money given by husband to his wife is called? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:52 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do most people think marriage has to be monogomous? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:51 AM PDT If my husband and I get pleasure from bringing others into our bed, why do most people immediately assume our marriage is doomed? We love each other and our love is strong. The extra bodies are just tools. Bringing in extra tools has made our sexlife INCREDIBLE. Most mammals are not monogomous, the dove and beavers are the only two i can find that are. Many Humans try but fail to remain monogomous, but monogomy is monotonous. So many marriages fail because one spouse cheats on the other. Just because you get married or are in a committed relationship doesn't mean you are no longer going be attractive or attracted to others, why fight it? Why does my marriage have to be a textbook definition for marriage in order for it to be successful? Why are people so adamantly against polyamorous marriages? |
| Question: My wife has been having an affair - Has anyone here been through this before? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:51 AM PDT My brains are a bit scrambled since I found out. We ve been married 3 years and I really love her in a way I ve never felt for anyone. However I work offshore for 6 months of the year and while I ve been away she s met someone else. I feel like I really want to kill her but I can t bring myself to lay a hand on her - She still means too much to me. As if this affair wasn t ad enough she has confessed that she also has a strong emotional bond with this man. Last week I put him in the hospital which was a stupid thing to do (And I kind of regret it), but fortunately he at least choose not to make a statement against me. I feel like my worlds upside down - Fortunately we have no children. She s barren and I supported her through that as well. I love her but doubt I ll ever be able to touch her again after this. Has anyone been through this before? If so what might be some progressive steps to take for someone like me. (Besides a lawyer). |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:36 AM PDT We have been married for 7 years. I struggled with porn addiction our first year of marriage and told her about it which I'm sure is the biggest contributing factor. |
| Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:15 AM PDT I know a number Catholics who identify themselves as "traditional Catholics". They go by the ways of the Catholic Church before the modern reforms of the Second Vatican Council (1962-1965). All of them follow the Catholic teaching that the primary purpose of marriage is procreation. Therefore, a lot of them end up having a lot of children (10 kids or more). Many of them are against Natural Family Planning (NFP), which is a method to avoid pregnancy naturally by following the woman's cycle. Some of them believe that NFP is only permissible in grave matters (example: if a woman might die from pregnancy) and believe that they must get permission from a priest to do NFP. They do not see finances as a grave matter because they believe that God will always provide. I know one particular married couple who are traditional Catholics. The husband doesn't make much. They ended up having two kids within the four years they've been married and the husband wasn't able to financially support his family with his income. So they ended up moving in with the wife's parents. I know other traditional Catholic couples who have many kids that are on food stamps and living in really crappy homes and poor/ghetto neighborhoods. Many of them buy clothes from Goodwill. Again, they believe that to do anything to prevent pregnancy is a mortal sin. So therefore they end up having LOTS of children. Would you say that the above is irresponsible and irrational behavior? |
| Question: My soon-to-be ex-husband says he will get counseling if I go through with the divorce.? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 06:13 AM PDT My husband decided four months ago that he wanted a divorce. I have been trying my best to make our marriage work and win back his love. Yesterday, I asked him if he would go to counseling with me, he said "If you follow through with the divorce, I will go to counseling with you." Why would he say this? |
| Question: Am I in an emotionally abusive relationship? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 05:54 AM PDT I m trying to figure out if I m in an emotionally abusive relationship with my husband. I am very much in live with him and at times it s passionate but if something snaps in him he treats me like an enemy and completely ignores only and not our kids. Sometimes for days. If something very small doesn t go his way for example: he goes to a busy department store to buy something, gets in line to pay and realizes there s no price tag on the item. So he decides to forget it and comes home. He s very upset about it and begins to shut down and ignore me. I ll try to engage in conversation with him but he ll just act bothered and start ignoring me. He ll even kiss everyone goodbye in the morning except for me. If I ever try to address it and tell him how I feel he ll only ignore me for longer. |
| Question: Divorce - How to work through the pain and hurt? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 05:39 AM PDT Hi, Im going through a divorce after 2 years of being separated. We have always remained amicable towards each other. Long story short I had to move to the South and live with family as I lost my job up here in June and had nowhere to go. My ex and I would communicate at least once a week. However, now that I'm back Im all of a sudden forbidden to go to the house and pick up my mail and see my beloved pets. He even, to my surprise, threatened me with an order of protection. Ive never seen nor expected this. It was an amicable divorce through a mediator in which I walked away with very little and he got the house and security of somewhere to live. At the moment a friend of mine allowed me to come back up here and stay in the extra bedroom as I literally have nothing as I had to donate all my furniture, clothes, shoes, etc and move down south with whatever could fit in my small SUV. My problem is that I haven't been able to stop crying and having meltdowns due to this, don't know how to pick myself up and move on. I've never been so down and out and depressed like this before. Does anyone have any advice? |
| Question: Women, do some of you not have sex with your husband often? Any reason why? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 04:54 AM PDT |
| Question: Could the institution of marriage survive the test of time? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 02:55 AM PDT In the past it did. But could it repeat it in future? In the past marriage was seen as something religions and divine, but now it has nothing to do with divinity. In the past marriage was a social norm. Today I don't see it's still a norm, at least in the western world. Live in relationship and even fwd are becoming common. Govts. across the globe are doing things they prevent people from getting married, like in India a man can't join the Army as a soldier(lower level) if he's married. He can marry only after few years of service. Also rising minimum age of marriage etc. In the past love marriages replaced arranged marriages. I fear the same could happen to love marriages. Also if live in relationships replace love marriages, what would replace live in relationships? |
| Question: My wife won't talk to me? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 12:23 AM PDT My wife was mad at me because I came home at 12:30am from drinking with my friends after work. She was yelling at me and out of frustration I threw her urn with her father's ashes on the ground then she started crying and ran out of the house. I texted her sorry but she won't answer me calls or texts and it's been 2 hours. Is she just trying to get attention? |
| Question: How do I make my husband compromise with me? Posted: 02 Oct 2015 12:07 AM PDT My husband and I got married young so we are still in the process of going to school and saving money. I have become extremely depressed due to living in the same house as his parents. His mother and I don't get along and I don't want to live with his parents anymore. I have done my part in compromising and agreed to live there until we had better jobs. It's been almost two years and we both have good jobs but he won't move out. I need help in getting him to realize we need to live on our own. Every time the topic of moving out comes out he says we need to stay there for a couple more years. I can't stay in his parents house anymore for my well being. |
| Question: Survey reguarding marriage and texting? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 11:42 PM PDT Is it OK for a married spouse to send text message to someone of opposite text approximately 70 times a day...consistently every day for over a month to the point that there is over 2000+ text during that month |
| Question: Is my SO a functional alcoholic, a heavy drinker or something else? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 10:47 PM PDT My SO steadily drinks wine, beer and/or tequila almost every Saturday and Sunday from mid morning till bedtime and Fridays after work. The drinking never gets out of hand but it is a solitary event (I'm present but don't join in the drinking.) The quantity of drinks per day is anywhere from 4-8 respectively. There have been a few times I've noticed measures taken to cover up the quantity consumed (ie. staying up late and drinking more once I've gone to bed then cleaning and putting away any glasses.) Does this seem in the realm of normal? Is this someone that just likes to drink? |
| Question: Wife displaying abusive behavior? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 09:41 PM PDT My wife has been under a lot of stress at work lately, and I think it's beginning to affect her behavior. She has always been an incredibly sweet, quiet, and well-behaved woman. But recently, after working late, she comes home in horrible moods. She has thrown dishes on the floor, yells at me for not cleaning the house. One time even grabbed my testicles so hard I threw up because I didn't do any laundry. I'm thinking this is just a phase, and when her work load dies down, she will be back to normal. But are mood behavior changes like this common? Can they happen this suddenly? I don't think my wife is this kind of person, so I'm hoping it's just temporary? |
| Question: Does my mother in law come between us? Posted: 01 Oct 2015 05:43 PM PDT I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now. He grew up In a single parent house hold and he his mom And brother all moved to the United States, so his mom is very attached to her sons and treats them Both like babies, my boyfriend is 24 years old! And I'm 20. I always feel like I'm in completion with her, one time she disrespected me and he still took her side as if I was the bad guy. Whenever we're all around, it's not the same. Like he's scared to show her he loves me in front of her. One day I was over his house to take him to work and she still got up and took him to work. Like.. I could have taken him? It's like she doesn't want him to go anywhere but it hurts my feelings because I do as much as she do and I don't want to be in a competition with his mom. Yes, I would consider him as a mommas boy. But he never takes my side, I know he's loves me but when it comes to her it's like I don't exist and whenever I bring it up he gets mad at me for being hurt. I cry over it, it's big. Because what if we get married one day? He's still going to put her before his wife? Idk? I just don't know what to do? What should I do? |
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