I m married, been married for almost 2 years but I feel lonely because my wife is basically my kid. I tell her when we can and can t afford stif which is basically it. Just found out I was diagnosed with a disease and when I told her she said so? Any help? I feel so alone.

Before marriage, my wife was a slim woman with a kind heart. Now she is a whiny overweight woman who throws temper tantrums whenever she is denied of cake. It feels like some disgusting 340 pound creature broke into my house, ate my wife, and took her place :( To me, the woman I love died years ago. Now I'm stuck feeding this blob, and forced to wipe her butt every day. She takes up a lot of toilet paper. Should I divorce her? What would you fellas do in my situation?

My girlfriend passed away 3 weeks ago at the age of 25. I'd been with her for two years. Look I'm 24 and I've been an alcoholic since 18/19, I drink an extreme amount of beer a day, usually 12 light beers a day during the weekdays but on weekends I drink around a fifth of vodka a day combined with stronger beers. When I met her she wasn't much of a drinker but she started drinking heavily a few months after we began dating, and when we moved in together she began drinking even more than me at least on the weekdays since I had to go to work and she didn't work. She didn't really like beer so she just drank gin. Look I never told her to start drinking, I did buy it for her since she asked for it because I mean what kind of hypocrite would I be if I as an alcoholic denied someone else alcohol. And besides I myself have had blood tests done and while they show that my liver is damaged, I don't have cirrhosis or anything too serious yet. She didn't die from cirrhosis, what she died from was multiple complications and organ failure from acute alcoholic hepatitis. It was horrible, in the hospital her stomach was bloated and she was yellow. I couldn't believe it, I asked the doctor how it could be possible so soon and he said that it can happen. Do you think it was my fault that she died?I mean who could have predicted that something so severe could happen so quickly? Now Im also a bit scared since after some research I might have alcoholic hepatitis too, but the chronic version

I mean, shouldn't you make yourself more successful first before bringing anyone else in? And surely wouldn't anyone who respects themselves not want to get involved with unsuccessful people and only date and marry people who are middle-class or rich, so then they can avoid becoming unsuccessful, too? And I'm not a rich guy looking down on people 'cuz I'm low on the totem pole and might never crack even low middle class. I apply this to me like I do to others.

my wife wants to divorce i love her and i love my kids ...i pay my taxes with a itin number because i dont have a social...she file for divorce because she dosent love me anymore but i wanna to see my kids she has been askling me for more the i can afford in order to se my childrens but i been paying her because i see how much my babies and i miss each other they are 6&2 years old she file for child support and never have the money to pay for my residence because i have been bussy paying all the bills for 8 years while she has ben a home now divorce is here and i have no idea what to do...

After years of emotional neglect and emotional unavailability, after the birth of our child (who is now almost two) my husband has really been trying to become a better husband and father for us. However I can t seem to get over the past. Our sex life has continued throughout, but I no longer feel the connection that was there in the beginning of the relationship. It feels like we re roommates now. How can I shake the psychological blocks in my head and meet my husband halfway?

I know my husband and I are seven years apart, but our sex life has become a problem. When we first got married we would have sex almost everyday and now I have to beg for it. We finally have sex and he rushes through it. I keep telling him to slow down, but all keeps telling me is that I turn him on so much and all he wants to do is F Me as hard as he can!! WTF... Right now I should be glowing but I'm on Yahoo Answers and about to buy a sex toy. I told myself I would never buy one but I don't want to cheat, but this has been going on for over a year. I'm so frustrated!

I have 2 boys of my own. My husband has 3 children (2 with special needs). 1 lives with us full-time and calls me mom, the other 2 come over every other weekend. I have my boys full-time (except for the weekend that my husband's children are here). I teach kindergarten full-time and I take all the children to school. My problem is during the weekends that my husband has all 3 of his kids (my boys are at their dad's) he works. He expects me to watch his children. One of his children has such serious behavior and medical needs that I have to follow him around all day. He destroys our house. I knew what I was getting into when I married him, but he slowly started putting all the responsibility on me and would start screaming at me to help him and to watch his son because he was destroying everything. I feel like I can't catch a break. I don't know what to do anymore. I have told my husband that I am on the verge of a nervous breakdown. He just doesn't care.

other enough before getting marry, love is not a price, but signing marriage contract will make it a price and for how much. i guess love is only define in paper and money, that what true love is... i guess.

My wife and I enrolled in an aerobic class together to help relieve stress and get in shape. The instructor, asked for my cell number after one of the classes so she could text me workout instructions and nutritional information. She's been texting me a lot about class and workout, sometimes very late at night. My wife found out I was texting her in bed, and she got mad at me, telling me I was cheating on her. I explained that our instructor is just texting me about core workouts, but she doesn't believe me. I won't let my wife look at my phone either, because she has to trust me. Is texting someone really considered cheating? I'm afraid my wife is gonna make a scene at our next workout class over a non-issue.

I am currently underemployed. I make about half of what I used to and maybe a third of what I could. When I think of whole heartedly looking for a better job though, i just think of where the money will go. My husband will want to begin supporting his neice again. She's recovering from heroine addiction, my step daughter is in college, won't work even though her class schedule is ridiculously light, spends a hundred bucks a month on cosmetics, eats only organic etc., my unemployed/disabled brother in law wants $80 shorts and thinks I should buy them (I've never spent 80 bucks on shorts for myself) and I'm pretty sure we're still paying my husband's ex wife's cell phone bill even though there's no legal reason too. This morning my husband told me we really need to work out a budget if I don't find a better job soon. I need to figure out how to control his insane generosity or wer're really going to have a problem. I'm really not spending any more than I'm contributing and I don't want to work in order to enable laziness, addiction and extravagance in the people who use us like a bank. Any advice?

I got married at the end of August this year. I was so excited for the future with my husband during the planning, the big day and the honeymoon, but once we were home and all the excitement died down, I stared getting extremely anxious what what we had done. I have never seen a true it happy and successful marriage between my friends/family. My anxiety has triggered my depression and I ask myself everyday if I did the right thing marrying my husband. (I know I did, but I ask myself anyway and I'm not sure why). I googled what this might possibly be, and I found several articles on "post wedding blues" and apparently, it's a thing. I'm ashamed and embarrassed about it and I don't know how to bring it up to my husband. I also had this idea in my head that nothing would change between my husband and I after we got married. We were together for two years befor we tied the knot, and all my friends told me once that certificate was signed, I signed away my sex life. I didn't believe them at first, but now, the were completely right. I've tried to initiate things more times than I can count, and he's always too tired from work or not in the mood, but when he's ready to go, I never turn him down. It's eating at my self confidence and I've nevbeen r had that kind of an issue before. I don't know how to bring any of this up to him without making him feel as though it's all his fault. Help?

My wife is bipolar not taking med. Always yelling and screaming around our 1 half year old. I want a devorce but afraid of losing my son to her. She gives everyone attitude everything is her way and her own friends can't stand her for more then a day. Anything?

We've been married for 3 months and he keeps introducing me to people as his girl. I'm not just your girl I'm your WIFE. Am I Making this a big deal when it's not one?

My husband and i have an extremely secure marriage normally. He plays on a vary competitive travel softball team. This weekend was "worlds" in vegas (we are from northern cali). I could not go because i am only 2 months postpartum with a preemie and have a three year old. I had a problem with the trip from the beginning and i dont know why. The entire team stayed in a house and brought all the girl friends (and im not going to lie they are less than modest to put it nicely, mostly in early 20's) I was worried the girls might walk around in bras or panties and my husband might look and think they have nice bodies (crazy i know). I also felt super out of control not knowing exactly what they were doing or how much my husband was drinking. To the point where i had a stomach ach and kept causing fights with my husband. Is this normal? IS it a part of depression?

I filed for divorce from my husband in May and am now having second thoughts. The main reason I filed is because my husband is financially irresponsible. Two months after we got married, we went on our honeymoon, and my husband gambled all of his money on poker. Not only did he spend all of his cash, but he overdrew his accounts to be able to continue gambling. When we got back home, he asked me for a loan in the amount of $1,500 to pay back his overdrawn accounts. He also complained about owing money on several credit cards which, he was not able to pay because he had spent all of his money on poker. I not only gave him the $1,500 but also agreed to consolidate his debts onto my 0 balance credit cards. I know it was dumb to do, but I thought maybe this was a one-time issue, and as his wife I wanted to help him. Less than two months after this situation, he received a letter in the mail from the DMV: his license and registration were going to be suspended because he had failed to maintain insurance on his vehicle for 55 days!n I refused to help him with this, and he ended up having to pay over $1,000 in fines and reinstatement fees. Two months later, the engine on his van blew after he failed to get an oil change. A $38 became a $3,800 problem, which he did not have the money to pay for. Since he owns his own business and uses his vehicle for work, I broke down and gave him the money to get the van fixed. I am tired of bailing him out? Am I overreacting? Prior to filing for divorce, I continuously suggested that we go to marriage and financial counseling, and he opposed both. Now that the divorce is underway, he has come to me recently and agreed to go to counseling. He said that he does not feel I need to go since he is the problem; and yet, he has made no effort to find out about a counselor, which means I will be left to do it, and why should I? I am tired of doing everything. I want to be able to share the load not bear it all on my own. Thank you to everyone who responded. We've been together five years and married a year this coming Saturday. We've definitely been through a lot together, and I thought that we would be able to work together in marriage, but as someone pointed out it's best to cut my loses now and move on. We do not have any children, thank God, and all of this is a lesson learned for the next time. Thank you all for reconfirming this for me.

If a person was thought to be dead and their spouse remarries, what happens when the first (thought to be dead) spouse is located alive & goes home unaware of their spouse being remarried? Would the 1st marriage (to the thought to be dead spouse) still be legal or is the NEW marriage the legal one? (A soldier who was MIA, a POW, or simply presumed dead is a good example, not a deadbeat who abandoned their spouse, etc.

I was married before and my ex wife didn't mind if I slapped her on the bum a little hard as a joke. My new wife hates it. She has told me multiple times she doesn't like it and it really hurts. She said I'm heavy handed. Anyway this morning she asked for a hug and I hugged her and did it to her lower back. She pushed me away and yelled at me saying I hurt her and she's told me a hundred times not to do it..... She threw a bunch of her stuff in a suitcase and left? Am I really hurting her? I think she gets angry because her mum used to hit her a lot when she was a kid. I just forget sometimes. She's probably told me 30 times not to play rough with her. How can I tell her I'm sorry?

*Wife was way more experienced before we got married. *I suffer with PE *I've tried to get her to do different things, but she's very traditional *She doesn't enjoy giving head, but loves receieving it *Early on I did neglect her due to work/sports *Throughout I have been verbally abusive at times. *The PE has become a major problem and its crazy cause it's worst than ever, but yet wifey feels loose (we did just have our fourth child a year ago, so IDK, maybe that has something to do with it *I made the HUGE mistake of expressing that to her recently and mentioning about creams/gel/sprays, etc for tightening her and enhancing my stamina. *Since, she's completely cut the sex off because I hurt her so bad I know theres a lot going on here, but me and my wife really love one another, WE just clash at times on different issues. I really want to fulfill her in every area, esp sexually, but I just wish she would be more engaging and more open to different things. (lights on, variety of positions, oils, better foreplay, different locations! etc. Lastly, we are both born again believers, and we've been married going on 6 years! ANY ADVICE OR RECOMMENDATIONS WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED FROM THIS 28 YR OLD MAN IN DIRE NEED!!! LOL PE is Premature Ejaculation...

He knew this other girl whom he started the affair with a while back and he had a crush on her even before his marriage. He got married to his cousin a back home in Pakistan who was 21 years old at the time. He was 25. Did he like the other girl? He wanted to have sex with her but they never had sex. She wanted a relationship but he to her he couldn't promise her anything. He told her he respects her and that she is a good girl and that she should find someone else. That is how their affair ended. It was mostly an emotional one I would say. But they have seen each time other naked and kissed once

In some cultures, some parents don't let their married son move out. If a married man insists on doing that, his parents probably will be mad at him and call him ungrateful.

Hi, I ve been married to my husband almost 3 years but we ve been together 9 years...he cheated on me while I was pregnant and I m having the hardest time getting over it. We have 5 daughters and as much as I want this to work the trust is totally gone...I m scared for him to walk out the house and on top of the cheating he s a huge flirt!! I m exhausted trying to make this work and he doesn t make it any better. It s been a year since the cheating but the flirting is a lot more often. I have the gut feeling to walk away but he won t let me, he won t go away.

Was doing some cleaning. Found a shoe box under our bed. It had a vibrator in it. It was huge. I know it's not mine. Do I approach my wife? One thing is certain. I have been wanting to open up to her about some kinky thoughts I have been having. Is this the opportunity?