I know a guy who is 28 years old,been on ssi all his life. He says its because he has a quick temper,he never finished high school,he said he was born pre mature and he was abused as a child. His mood goes from 0-1000 in seconds. He always seem angry and mad at the world. Says he will never be anything,and he doesnt want to live..then turn around and says he blessed and will keep living until he dies. Every woman he has been with has left him,he never had a relationship last longer than a few months. I just recently broke up with him..We would argue everyday..he would curse at me and call me all types of names,I told him i was raped as a teen and he threw that in my face saying"thats why u got raped,he shouldve killed u" i was dealing with him for 3 1/2 months..he would always say things like that when he was mad. He would say sorry but turn around and do the same thing when he gets mad again. Then try to play victim like he is the one getting done so wrong. If every female including me left him and he is 28 years old..IT IS HIS FAULT RIGHT?? I couldn t even joke around with him..A person on the street could ask him "hey,how u doing" And he would get offended and start spazzing out .He doesnt have a criminal record or anything..but I think something is really wrong with him,and he wont go get help..one time he was mad because it wasnt no hot water for him to brush his teeth..like,what?? What could be wrong with him,IS HE BIPOLAR or something..WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK???

OK OMG IM LIKE PANICING SO MUCH RN! OK, So basically I am 17 and my little sister is 10, basically my mum died in a crash and my dad is traveling the world, so i'm in charge. My sisters friend (Liam, he is 10 aswell) was coming over, I was like fine with that. I didn't think she would have SEX with him. I just left them to do their own thing. At around 5 pm, I was really bored, so I decided to call my bestfriend. At around 6pm, I thought it was time he went home now because it was getting really dark, so I knocked on the door, no reply. Knocked on the door again, no reply. Knocked on the door again, no reply. I then just opened the door, and they were having sex. I told them to get dressed and I yelled at them BOTH, told them about risks, and how they are way too young and how she is acting like a slut. She said that she was trying to act 'cool' she wasted her virginity at 10 years old to act cool. what should i do? should i call my dad?

They are staying in their car, I can t give them money, and they are an hour and a half away. Any suggestions on How I can help?

She decided to yell at us when we were running late for a meeting. I was in a hurry and I immediately complained about stuff she does. Probably not the best move. I told her that she should call the office if she has a problem with us. She said she has and she hadn t heard back. I responded by saying because we haven t done anything wrong. My husband stepped in and I walked away and got in the car. He tried to calm her down, but she wants us to not go in certain rooms at 8-9 pm. I cannot change my living habits for her. Her family does the same stuff that she complains about but we haven t said anything. That s just what comes with living in an apartment and not a home. If she wants her child to be able to nap she needs to get a house. She has left nasty notes on my car, her and her husband have fights all the time (it sounds like someone is being murdered), we have heard what sounds like gunshots from their apartment, and she cusses in front of her 3 year old. She is a nasty person, but I feel like I can t stand up for myself. I am trying to figure out what I can do because we clearly hate each other. She complained about how we walk up and down the stairs, how we close our doors, and going in our back room during her daughters sleeping hours. We have two cats and they like to chase each other around the house, but I can t lock them up or block them in anywhere. So it is the way it is. What would you do? Please I need help.

Hello! So my boyfriend and I have been together for two years in December. His birthday is also in December, however I have no idea what to do to celebrate it! He is turning 24, I m 21. I have a pretty nice spending range so I m very much open to ideas as far as hotels, restaurants, etc. We re in the New Jersey/PA area so anything around there would be ideal. He loves football, we love nice restaurants and cute and cozy hotel/resorts. Skiing/snowboarding. We also love trying new things so all ideas are welcome! Thanks in advance!(:

My boyfriend and I love cooking together and we cook some fantastic dishes. However lately his son who is 6, refuses to eat what I make. It can be anything from a Mac and cheese bake to pancakes, once I poured him cereal and he wouldn't eat it. Maybe it's him being 6 but he doesn't do this when his dad cooks. His son loved me and we get along great, I'm just not sure what his son's deal is with me cooking. It kind of hurts my feelings when he won't eat it. What can I do? His dad says it's just him being 6....I'm not sure about that.

I'm about 8 weeks he knows u don't want to have a baby I work 6 days a week to provide for my self and I struggle I also have lupus along with some other health issues he is on disability due to an accident but he has never moved out of his parents and everything he has is thanks to his mom he is 29 I'm 33 I have been on my own since 27 have no fam since I have been prego been trying to work it out but all he does is party with his little brothers friends he's not even worried about the baby I'm so stressed out as to how I will have enough one to care for my child . We fight all the time so after seeing pictures of him having fun this weekend while I was home alone stressing I had it and broke it off with him he stresses me out but I can't do this alone so I invited his mom over to tell her what's going on and ask for her support I can't count on him . I'm sure no mom wants to hear her sons a loser but what am I supposed to do? I even sent her pictures of him parting every weekend so she can see ...was I out of line by doing that?

My relationship has been on the rocks lately. My boyfriend has been really insecure and doesn't trust anything I say, even when I have proof that what I'm saying is true, he still won't believe me. He recently somehow insinuated and asked as a very intriguing thought if I have been interested in my stepdad at any point. Obviously I said no because just NO that's absolutely disgusting. Besides the fact that I hate the guy, and my boyfriend knows that. I absolutely hate the guy, but my mom is barely at home during the day she has 2 jobs, and sometimes it's just me and him at the house but sometimes the day can go by and I don't even see him. And my boyfriend made me the question and it made me feel really bad like, what the ****? How can that even get into you head? And then he was like "well, I love you talk to you later, and be careful with him, use protection" and hanged up and I'm here sobbing because I feel really realy bad. That just shows a side of him I never thought he would have. In my point of view he's the type of guy that if a girl gets raped he would be the one to say "she asked for it" like what the ****? I feel realy bad and sad and offended right now. Every week or every now and then I have to take screenshots of my list of chats in whatsapp, my cellphones call history, and my text messages and send them to him just so he can feel 'at peace' with himself. He asks for it every week. I send it every week, and if it helped the situation I'd be fine with it but for some reason he just gets mad. I don't know if he gets mad at the fact that I'm acutally not doing anything wrong nor will I ever and he can't anything to fight me about

I'm Katie and I just had hart surgery 2 weeks ago I was a pretty serios surgery they replaced my valve But I'm home now with a 2 month recovery but my birthday is November 13 u see the problem and I'm comeing up with Theas fun ideas that I can't do and I'm so sad and deprest this is my sweet 16 we are talking about I can't do anything that has to do with cardio, I can't go any ware that has to do with elivashon, so far I've come up with a sleep over at my house but ive done that the last 2 years and I have 6 friends including me I want to do something with 1950's dress party but I don't know 😔 can anybody please help me

I was helping my ex's sister in law on a project and she brought him up. She told me to not downplay how serious he was to me because his mom had told her that my ex had my heart. She told me that he has moved on with someone else but that he isn't happy and that his life is falling apart. She claimed to know this because she said he visits her home a lot and vents. She blamed the new girlfriend for peer pressure issues and negative influences. I told her that I did hate to hear the bad news because I did use to care for him a lot and was real close to him. She told me that I should be on speaking terms with him. She said that she is sure that if he saw me he would want to see me. Now that I think back on it, i hope I didn't come across as needing her to say antying to me out of pity. What do you think of this exchange?

So long story short me & my coach (we're both girls) were friends on Facebook for a year, when I was at Walmart the other day she saw me & came over to say hi & asked how I was doing, so I decided to send her a "Thank You" message on Facebook thanking her for coaching me & for teaching me to become the best athlete I could be while I had the chance etc... ALSO I'm a high school graduate.. Along with it I explained my huge injury that caused me to be taken out of sports for good (slammed heads during a basketbal game causing me to go blind for a year needing 3 surgeries to get my vision back) FYI I GOT MY VISION BACK yay! Anyway, so I sent her the thank you message explaining everything. Well she never responded to me, she ended up blocking me? Why would she do that? We were very close & I said nothing bad??

I m 22, boyfriend is 27. Together for the past 2.5 years. He was a seasonal reserve officer 3 hours away - and had been doing that for 3 years. I thought it d be a fling, because he d go to work, and leave me behind. 2 months in, however, he was not rehired. According to them, something on his polygraph, had come to light, and he was a liability. Understandably, because when he was 21, out of curiosity, he put an unloaded gun, with the safety on, to his head, just to know what it would feel like. Not suicidal. Just being stupid. Since, he s been rejected from 45 departments. He exceeds all requirements, yet no department will hire him. Even though he sees a therapist, and has a written statement that he is not a danger or risk. Because of all this, he has been very depressed. Getting worse by the day. I understand how frustrating this is. Still not suicidal, but all of this negativity certainly brings me down. He s amazed that I ve stuck with him. It s certainly not easy. He s working a 9-5 desk sales job, that he cannot stand, making next to nil. We currently live together. He has a ring for me...He says that as soon as he has his dream job, and something to bring to the table, he will ask me to be his bride.

grandfather on moms side = bald at 50, my dad = bald at 40

im 17 but im going to be turning 18 in 25 days and the guy im with is 19 and he turns 20 in march but my parents are flipping out about it ... i mean before when they found out i liked him they gave me crap but then said that they were just kidding but when i hung out with him and my friend and her boyfriend .. he kissed me and now my parents are saying statutory and a restraining order ... is there anything i can do ???

I'm currently talking with someone that I'm considering to possibly date in the future. I'm not sure where it's going, but I've done my homework. I've found some interesting information that could affect the relationship and the rest of my life, if I decide to pursue a romantic relationship. Should I tell this person that I know their "deep dark secret?" Should I let them tell me themselves? I think I should let them tell me on their own terms. BUT, it leads into my real question.... WHEN this person tells me, should I let them know that I already knew?

So long story short me & my coach (we're both girls) were friends on Facebook for a year, when I was at Walmart the other day she saw me & came over to say hi & asked how I was doing, so I decided to send her a "Thank You" message on Facebook thanking her for coaching me & for teaching me to become the best athlete I could be while I had the chance etc... Along with it I explained my huge injury that caused me to be taken out of sports for good (slammed heads during a basketbal game causing me to go blind for a year needing 3 surgeries to get my vision back) FYI I GOT MY VISION BACK yay! Anyway, so I sent her the thank you message explaining everything. Well she never responded to me, she ended up blocking me? Why would she do that? We were very close & I said nothing bad??

I am a 19 year old girl currently living in England. At 16 I had a relationship that lasted 6 months. Everything was fine, until I noticed changes in his personality.He became controlling and obsessive. He checked every social media site, my phone to see who and what i'd been talking about. He controlled which family and friends I spoke to right down to what I could wear. If I disagreed with him he'd break items of mine. After a heated argument over me spending too much time revising for my GSCES he attacked me leaving me with two broken teeth and needing stitches on my head, I ended the relationship immediately. I filed a police report, however, no further action was taken as a court case would of coincided with my GSCES, an already stressful period. I am now 19 and studying at University. However, I am still plagued by abuse despite cutting off all contact as possible. The abuse ranges from social media attacks, posting indecent images of me on the internet, abusing anyone who has any connection with me, the abuse has gone so far I no longer have any social media, or even a phone. I leave for University at 5am when I don't start at 9 just so I am not followed by him. I have gone through college and University struggling to make friends as after a while I lose them due to him The police have gave him hundreds of cautions, PINS, harassment orders and yet he will not stop. Is there any form of legal advice or groups that could help me with this issue? I am at my wits end.

For being caring, kind, standing up for me when someone was being a BS to me and sort of looked out for me by offering their help If I needed. Made me feel included around others, interacted with me, teased me playfully. I must say this is the first time someone made feel I was apart of something They were being kind even when I first them until I went through a bad personal experience this year...which then they paid extra attention to me by asking If I was okay, how I was doing, etc. Because I felt I could trust them and told them whatever was bothering me only briefly. I didn't want to bother them or inconvenience them with the issue I was dealing and which is why I told them shortly because it bothered me so much. I also declined their invitation of comforting me by having me sitting next to them while they worked. I didn't want to seem someone who has issues, which I normally don't have any. So, I want to thank them very well until the chance I get to see them again. Help me out here, what should I say to make them understand how appreciative, thankful I am and how they are a good friend to me ?

I'm not looking for sympathy or judgment, just advice. While married, I had flings and got pregnant from a one night stand. I really loved the guy and wanted a relationship with him but he reconciled with his wife and now has another child by her. He cares for his family and wants nothing to do with me and has never seen our child. In fact not even his family want anything to do with their grandchild. How can they be so cold and heartless? I'm now out in the rain, with two kids and none of their fathers around. My soon to be ex husband doesn't also show interest in our child because of what I did. How can I get the guy to leave his wife and care about his child and come back to me? I'm still madly in love with him. His wife doesn't deserve him and kept throwing him out, that's how we met . How could he go back to her and play perfect family and be a father to those kids and not acknowledge his blood that is just the same? What should I do? He will have to pay child support but that isn't enough for me. I need him.

It's like that exchange of looks again. But I don't want anything to happen because he's married but he flirts sooooo much! Then the other married dude came and so good looking and looks and flirting were involved but as soon as his wife is around he acts different. What's up with them???

so this might sound silly idk. i am 19 and still live with my parents for the time being. i am a responsible girl who is a straight a college student and i also work part time as well and pay for much of my own bills , food, etc. all that to say... i don't know why my parents don't trust me. my favorite band is playing in a town about 3 hours away. my friend lives there so i wanted to drive there and meet up with her and see the show. i told my mom about the show and she and my dad said no that it is too dangerous for me to drive by myself there and stuff. i tried to get another friend to ride with me but she can't. i wanna go to this concert more than anything though!!! AND i already bought the ticket because i thought for sure id be able to go... so what can i do if they persist? i mean obviously i am 19 i don't need their permission but i tried to be courteous enough to ask for it. should i just go to the concert anyway? i honestly don't care if they get mad at this point. i am just tired of them trying to control my life (this isn't a one time thing).. thanks and any advice is appreciated would like to add.... my mom holds every mistake i make against me.... like this one time my freshmen year of college when i stayed out all night and she literally brings it up 2 years later whenever she gets mad... she is truly insane

Since we were kids, my younger brother has been attracted to different types of animals. When he was 13 years old, we shared a bedroom at my mom and dad's old house. We had a pet Burmese Python in our living room. I remember going upstairs into my room only to find him staring at the snake messing with himself. after the snake died, he got all emotional and was upset that 'his love' had passed away (we even had a neighbor perform a free funeral on him). He told me that he was going to marry the snake and my parents got him a psychologist. He was later diagnosed with zoophilia, a very rare condition that causes humans to be sexually attracted to animals. Fast forward ten years later, his roommates (and apartment complex) allowed him to have a pet kitten which he named ginger. He has been seen taking her out on romantic evenings at various lavish restaurants having a cocktail while making out with the cat. Recently, he proposed to her asking if she wanted to marry her. According to him, the cat's response was a a simple kiss and nose bite. In my humble opinion, I think that it is very sickening, cruel and sad to see people like him who try to 'fall in love' with cats (or other animals for that manner). I love him and I don't want a damaged relationship with him (we've become a lot closer since we were teenagers). Should I support his decision in marrying the cat or not?

my family never stay close each other is really hard i never understand why family don;t stay in touch never has any those real connection with any family

Whenever I get to know a guy they always act kinda weird. And I'm not talking about awkward guys, I mean guys who are pretty popular and friendly. Like, I've noticed that sometimes when I do something awkward they just say my name and shake their heads as if it was amusing. And its not in a bullying way, because the thing that theyre reacting to isnt very awkward at all (and my school doesnt do that at all no joke we're very sheltered haha)? For ex, one time in class I said "Oh look, now Nakul has a friend!" (cause we had assigned seats and this one guy had always been alone, i think the girl was just always absent or something) and the guy sitting next to me who i was friendly with said "She's always been there." and I was just like "Oh..." and he did the thing. (Really I only noticed it because the day before some other guy did it.) Something else, whenever I see them in the hallways/something else they always seem like theyre about to say hi or something, but arent sure whether to or not. Or if they do(this applies to other popular people too) its in a quiet way?? So a lot of the time I dont respond cause I could barely understand what they were saying and it took me a second. Maybe they think I'm ignoring them? And I act pretty normal around them I guess, but me and the guys arent good friends or whatever... maybe we are but I just dont think so?

can be a stressful experience? Our families can often be our greatest detractors..they're definitely mine. And the thought of making small talk with family members that don't really care..Or is this just my experience?

Hace tres meses conoci a una chava con novio , con el lleva hasta la fecha 8 meses desde el principio nos gustamos , y hasta la fecha eh echo muchisimas cosas por ella (las cuales su novio no las hace) Ella me lo a dicho Ya nos emos besado , pasa mas tiempo con migo que con su novio , le e dado flores cuando su novio no ! Ella me dice que me quiere mucho y que aveces se pone a pensar si habra un nosotros ... Pero el problema es ... que no lo deja por mi ! Le digo que mejor me alejo de ella ... pero no quiere (Ni yo tampoco) ¿Que hago ? Sigo luchando por ella ?, los dejo empaz ? o me muero ?

So I ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We have a nine month old daughter together. He does a lot for us by working all the time and paying bills, providing me a vehicle to drive. He wanted me to quit my job and let him take care of me as a stay at home mom. I go to school 3 days a week, 11 hours a day and I clean a friends house once a week. I clean our house as much as I can and it stays pretty clean, I do all the laundry and I cook and take care of the baby when I m not in school. The problem is that he constantly tells me I don t clean enough and my job is not that hard. He tells me if I can t keep it clean every single day, that I can go down the road. Every day that he texts me, he asks if I m cleaning and its sooo annoying. I try to explain to him that I do a lot and he says I don t do as much as him and I need to do my part better:/.... every time we argue he takes all his things and locks them away as though I m a bad person to take them. He takes my truck and title and says he paid for it and I m not leaving with it. Everytime I try to talk to him about the issues, he points his finger at me and starts getting rude. I don t know what to do and I wish there was a way for things to work. It s like he runs over me cause I m still here?

When I was as young as 7 years old I had a habit with masturbation. my mother at the time (who later on I find out at 22 years old is my aunt) she would take me into her bedroom make me strip law down on her bed and "spread eagle." she would pour rubbing alcohol and a cotton ball all over my genitals and then later would rub lotion on my genitals. I was screaming and utterly humiliated. his was to punish me for masturbation and it happened a number of times. I have had therapist my husband and a variety of other people say it wasn t rape and I agree but it seems like people don t think it s sexual abuse either. want honest answers please on your opinion of this.

( names changed for privacy ) I like a guy called "Alex" I told my friend "Tina" and "Alex s" best friend "Michael". By the way I did not want Michael to know he only knows cause Tina and him found out when we were playing Marry, F***, Kill. So, Alex walked up to me at musical rehearsal yesterday and said "Hey Emma, Tina said you wanted to tell me something" So I just said I didnt wanna tell him anything and tht I have no clue what tina is talking about. So pissed at Tina I text her. he swears that she didnt tell Him I wanted to tell him something. I mean she had no clue what I was talking about. She said Alex made that up to mess with me, but he doesnt know I Like him so why would he randomly say that? Did Tina lye? Did Michael say that and tell him to tell me it way Tina? Or did Alex really just make this up? please don't give me answers like just tell him you like him. That doesnt answer my question plus I have social anxiety so that is out of the quesion

I love a girl but she says no to me and want to be my good friend and i have a best friend whom i use to say everything somehow i doubt that my friend is having a contact with the girl i love i have never introduced him with her but from some past behavior is seems to and i am unable to remove this doubt nor get the girl to love me please help

If you've never heard of Badoo it's like a dating/social networking site, supposedly. I saw my friends husband on there. He put he's just there to chat as a selection in his profile, he also put he's in an open relationship which is BS. Maybe he's just looking to talk? I don't want to jump to conclusions.