Family: Question: I m 13 soon to be 14 and I want to go places with out adult supervison?

Question: I m 13 soon to be 14 and I want to go places with out adult supervison?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:23 PM PDT

I am 13 soon to be 14 but my mom won t let me go anywhere without her being present. I asked to walk to the park wotn my twin sister (that is a two minute drive from my house) but she wouldn t let me. Now I want to go places like the movies and haunted houses and things like that with my friends but she says there needs to be an adult. I feel pretty lame because my friends get to go out on the streets and it s not like there won t be other people near us so if a weirdo starts to grab us or something. I have been in plenty of field trips to places like Hershey park or Disney world and she let me walk around with my friends and I m afraid she will continue to do this until I am sixteen. I love my mom to death and I know she is scard that something will go bad but she needs to let me go right? If she doesn t, I ll never know...so here is my question, before you answer consider everything, my age, current events, everything like that-- what age should I be allowed to go places without her

Question: I'm really annoyed with my parents please help?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:21 PM PDT

Okay well I guess we are moving soon and so all my parents have been talking about the last few months is things on how to spruce up our current home to sell and such. So we've had painters and all other kinds of people over at our house doing stuff and it's just super inconvient! Like right now our entire kitchen will be blocked off for a few days and it's just like wtf seriously? All this started was because my parents started watching those home improvement shows like propert brothers. I don't know, I'm just ******* fed up with all this. It seems like it's this crap non stop!!!

Question: My mom and aunts make fun of me?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:12 PM PDT

They keep comparing me to my cousin who is 100x prettier than me and they call me fat and ugly then they laugh? I feel bad idk whut to do

Question: Serious problem here my mum actually ****** hates me no joke?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:08 PM PDT

right so it all started yesterday she pregnant and everything she screams at me so much and recently its been the worst she threatens me and I actually carnt stand her much longer im gonna ******* flip well I alredy have and she I srefusing to speak to me for a week even when im at school shes texting me u should b ******* disappointed and all tht so basically shes making me sad wherever I go I said I aint coming back tomoz and she said good wtf am I gonna do. FML!!!!!!

Question: Help! My parents are too strict and I don't know what to do? Feel trapped!?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:56 PM PDT

I'm a 14 year old girl and I feel REALLY trapped! I have to write this at the school computer because my parents will know if I go on yahoo answers at home. I have no siblings btw. > I have to follow a strict schedule every day no exceptions even on weekends. My parents control what I do every minute of every day of my life. > I am forced to play the piano and play tennis even though I hate both activities. > I am only allowed to watch TV with my parents, never alone and Im only allowed to watch educational TV. I can't use the computer if I'm home alone. I'm allowed only one hour of computer time per day and they check my internet history immediately after. Video games are strictly forbidden in the house. > I'm given one hour of "free-reading" time per day but I'm not allowed to choose my own books. They pick books for me to read and they force me to write a book report for every book I finish reading and I hate it they make reading not fun! > I am allowed to visit my friends for two hours on Saturdays. It's the only time during the week I'm allowed to spend time with my friends outside of school. One time my friends parents brought me home five minutes late and my parents were furious and now Im never allowed to talk to my friend anymore :( > I'm also not allowed to choose when or what I eat. They have a specific daily meal plan and schedule and they pack my lunches. I am also not allowed junk food ever. I HATE MY LIFE AND I HATE MY PARENTS. :( Oh also I cant choose what clothes I wear. My school has us wear uniforms and I have to wear my school uniform all day long until I go to bed. Even on weekdends I have to wear a uniform. I cant have normal clothes :(

Question: Sharing bed with mom, awkward?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:22 PM PDT

I live with my mom in an apartment. I am 13, she is 39, we're both female. We had an issue with the plumbing two days ago and my bedroom flooded. My mattress was ruined, so I had to sleep in my mom's bed last night. I went to bed early as I was very tired and she came into the room about an hour later, turned off the light and went to bed. This morning, I woke up first and realized she went to bed wearing only her panties! I got up and went to shower, and then said nothing to her. Now I know why she always wears a robe in the mornings. I don't know what to do tonight, she is a large woman...what if I turn and touch her by accident? Am I overreacting? I know we are both girls, so I don't know.

Question: Rehab didn't work.?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:08 PM PDT

Rehab didn't work, what do I do now? My mom insist I do something, I guess I want to do it for my mom? I can understand why. But rehab still didn't work... for both drugs and alcohol. So any suggestions on what I should do now? I know the root causes of my problems.

Question: Can someone help me with this problem?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:01 PM PDT

So my life got flipped upside down in west Philadelphia on the playground outside where I was shooting some b-ball when a couple of guys who were up to no good started to make trouble I got in a fight and my mom got scared now I am living with my aunt. What should I do?

Question: I m 13 soon to be 14 and I want to go places with out adult supervison?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:55 AM PDT

I am 13 soon to be 14 but my mom won t let me go anywhere without her being present. I asked to walk to the park wotn my twin sister (that is a two minute drive from my house) but she wouldn t let me. Now I want to go places like the movies and haunted houses and things like that with my friends but she says there needs to be an adult. I feel pretty lame because my friends get to go out on the streets and it s not like there won t be other people near us so if a weirdo starts to grab us or something. I have been in plenty of field trips to places like Hershey park or Disney world and she let me walk around with my friends and I m afraid she will continue to do this until I am sixteen. I love my mom to death and I know she is scard that something will go bad but she needs to let me go right? If she doesn t, I ll never know...so here is my question, before you answer consider everything, my age, current events, everything like that-- what age should I be allowed to go places without her

Question: Am I being too Americanize and rude here?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:50 AM PDT

I came to the U.S. with my family (parents and older siblings) when I was 14. I worked hard to learn English and be successful academically and professionally. The thing is, i recently left a good paying job to accept another job that will open many doors in the future. My family, especially, my parents were very furious at me. They said I was "ungrateful", however, I was very overworked and unappreciated in the job I left. My family are from the "work hard no matter what as long as you are making money" school of thought. I believe in that, but also believe that one has to recognize their self worth and think of the future. I was never taught the value of building network, recognizing self worth, and standing up for yourself and taking bold moves when necessary. But I learned that in America and that's exactly what I am doing. Am I wrong for thinking this way. I have nieces and nephews which I would also like to set an example for.

Question: My son keeps telling me girly things like, "I love you dad" he's 13! how can I stop this before its too late?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:50 AM PDT

Question: Is my uncle's wife taking advantage of him?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:44 AM PDT

My uncle and his ex have both been to prison on drug charges. He is getting his life back together and has been separate from his wife for 14 years now, but he never bothered to file a divorce. He has since got a well paying job, house, nice car, and a few other nice things. He hasn't divorced his wife yet despite the separation. He said she doesn't want to divorce. I'm thinking she is just biding her time for him to build himself up so she can take more in a divorce.. does this sound correct?

Question: Fuckersss?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:21 AM PDT

why does it take so long to answer my questions

Question: Don't you think my mom is really sad for cooking dinner for my dad and putting him before her son who needs a ride?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:15 AM PDT

I ask her to drive me to my friends. And she make excuses that she can't get my sisters ready just to drive me 10 minutes down the street. And said besides shes busy making my dad dinner for when he get home from work. Now that is sad. He's been working late a lot lately. He's probly not even at work. It's even more sad, cuz shes cooking.... Drum roll.... Chicken nuggets and potato wedges... Kids food for a 36 year old man!! Shes actually stood there, dipping chicken into flour, eggs, breadcrumbs etc and putting spices on chopped potatoes. Shes using a million dishes that she will have to clean. When they sell frozen bags of nuggets and wedges!!!! She could just put them in the oven then drive me to my friends house. But nooooo. I said this all to her. And she said oh you know ur dad doesn't like store nuggets with all that crap in, he only like nuggets she made from chicken breast blah blah. Why does it matter whats in them??? He's eating a chicken corpse anyway. Ur eating a corpse but you care about salt content and chicken butthole!?! Plus this is the guy who eats kidneys and this pork thing with blood in it. They all are crazy in this house. They need professional help. A grown man making his wife cook chicken nuggets and a woman that would actually do it. Why are they so sad??? Why?????

Question: How can i convince my girlfriend to have an abortion?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:14 AM PDT

You see im madly in love with her but she is pregnant (not with my child ) how can i convinceher to have an abortion so we muy have our own child someday without raising the trechery she made with this other character

Question: How can the mom whip there kids?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 11:14 AM PDT

Question: Just caught my son making out with his friend?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 10:37 AM PDT

My son is 15 and his friend is the same age and also a guy. My son invited his friend over to play video games and I just walked into his room and caught the two of them laying on his bed making out, how should I react/handle this

Question: Omg my litle sister is older than me??

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 10:27 AM PDT

Plees just hear me out!!! i was born in 1997 and my sitter was born in 2009 2009 is a bigger numbr than 1997 so she must be older than me

Question: Biologically most closest and resembling relation? father, mother, brothers or sisters?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 10:17 AM PDT

I believe same gender siblings are most identical and closest to each other, then each of their parents, Would like to know more in details, Thanks

Question: What would you do?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 10:02 AM PDT

So I have a restraining order on soon to be ex, he has threatens me and physically/mentally hurt me and kids. Just found out today he has been messaging/calling my mom numerous times last few weeks. Trying to look like the good guy and talking bad about me. Should I call police??

Question: My parents are freaking out over me possibly getting a job!?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:57 AM PDT

It isn't even a done deal yet! Anyways, every time I ask for something I get told money doesn't grow on trees or "If you want that you better get a job". So, I got in contact with my best friend and he got me a job. My parents (specifically my dad) flipped! He told me that if I got a job I wasn't going to spend my money and that I am going to put it all away and other things. Also, apparently now if I get the job I am most likely going to drop out of high school because my teenage brain will think minimum wage is enough to sustain myself. First off everyone, I want to be a teacher I don't want to bag groceries my whole life ( not that there is anything wrong with it, but like I said I want to be a teacher so that would bum me out). P.S. I do plan on saving money, but there is nothing wrong if I want to buy a concert ticket, or clothing every once in a while. Also, my parents treat me like I am going to work, drop out of high school and get pregnant. This was literally a convo! I am not even the type of girl that would do something like that. Like do they honestly think that little of me?

Question: Should I let my son go?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:55 AM PDT

Ok let me try to explain this , My husband and I took out a student loan for my son to go to college he went 2 years and couldn t go any longer because of funds. They wouldn t give him more loans unless someone cosigned for him and we were just maxed out on our credit, FF to present he enlisted in the Army as a reserved, and was working at the same time. one day he comes home and says he quit his job because he is going to be deployed for 9 months and he needs to get into shape. ok today he tells me that he is not getting deployed.! I knew he was bullshitting me when he told me. all this time he has been working out, but also eating everything he sees, sleeping all day and playing PlayStation all night. Today I blew up on him and told him he had to get a job and start paying $100 a week. He decided he is moving out with a friend. My dilemma is this, his father had a drug problem I took my son away from him and that state when he was 1, but have always felt very protective of him. I m afraid that if he leaves the house he will end up like his father. But I can t keep enabling him either. What if I let him go to teach him to man up! and not only does he ruin his life but I end up with a bigger problem in my hands? Trying to deal with a drug addict son? I will never turn my back on any of my children.

Question: Should I still care about my neice since my eldest sister doesn't want me to know her at all?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:53 AM PDT

My eldest sister doesn't want me to know her daughter who is almost 2 months old. I'm not welcomed in her apartment. She doesn't want me to hold her daughter who I only held once and she immediately yelled at me, "Give her to mom!" She doesn't want me to buy her daughter things like toys. Not only does she not want me to ever babysit my neice but she doesn't want my other sister who is married to and also has a daughter, to babysit too. She doesn't even want my folks to babysit. My folks barely get to see my baby neice only when my mom goes to my eldest sister's apartment and on my folks birthdays. My eldest sister thinks she is so rich. She's let her husband badmouth me for years and I wasn't invited to their wedding 8 years ago. My eldest sister's husband has told her not to talk to me.

Question: Did my college fund get stolen?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:52 AM PDT

My grandparents set up a college fund for me and my brother for when we are ready to go off to college. Well that time has come and we've just looked at letters from The Fauquier Bank and it says only $100 is left. My last letter is from 2012 which had $14,000 on 1/1/12 and on 1/13/132 (day before birthday) it says only $4,000 is left, but that was in 2012 My grandparents are both gone and my Aunt is in charge of the will and all bank accounts inside the family (accounts my grandparents set up) Did she take it?

Question: My husband's brother just knocked on my bedroom door...?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:44 AM PDT

I've been married for over 2 years and ever since my husband's OLD brother came to stay with us a couple of months, my Sex life has become nonexistent. Today I was in my bedroom m@$turbating and suddenly my husband's brother knocked on my bedroom door, which he never ever does......I think he might know NOW what I was doing possibly cuz I didn't come to door for awhile. Am I supposed to care? He is leaving soon.

Question: Rude House Guest?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:35 AM PDT

I have a friend who visited last year from Germany. Upon entering my home she found everything to be 'wrong' according to her standards (and let me know about it!) , re- arranged my kitchen ('now it's proper') and basically ran the show. I'd have a suggestion for food or a place to go, "no, no no... I don't want that. I don't want to do that." I sat back, being angry the whole time, but was trying to be a friendly, good host. I ran my frustrations by my family and they told me to tell her to get out of my house. Not easy as she just traveled across the world and would be staying for a month. I was always raised to go along with your host, since YOU are the GUEST in THEIR home. I would NEVER think of doing a fraction of the things she did. I want broader opinions.... was she rude? When she's not being overbearing, she's really fun, but I can't stand the serious, overbearing authoritarian stance she has on EVERYTHING. If she comes back, how do I politely handle it?

Question: Can my parents kick me out of the house for teaching my little bro bad words?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:34 AM PDT

Question: How do you cope with losing your son? I was about to be a father last year and my son was murdered?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 09:02 AM PDT

Question: My best friends letting her life fall apart ?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 08:59 AM PDT

ive known this girl for two years and shes been my other half ever since, shes my sister. now me and her both do smoke weed(i really dont need any preachy ****) but lately its been a problem for her. i think shes addicted. her grades are absolutely terrible shes failing five classes has D's in two others and she disrespects her father even when i tell her she cant do that. you respect your parents no matter what you think of them i know this because i hate the only one i have. she doesnt get the mail for her mom anymore or anything and her "allowence" is weed.. but her parents stopped giving her anything bc the deal was they give it to her to help with depression and anxiety(even though she doesnt have depression) and in return she kept her grades up, kept up with chores and didnt argue with them. she doesnt give a crap about anything that has to do with her future, and neither me nor her mother knows how to MAKE HER CARE. im just so worried about her when her parents arent there to give her everything she wants or needs. i grew up in the opposite situation of hers and im glad shes not in my at-home shoes, but i know where im going in life i know what im doing im a stoner and im successful in school and work but i dont know how to help her. she doesnt listen, its in one ear and out the other..

Question: I really hate my mother I wished she die and go to hell?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 08:58 AM PDT

Question: My parents are strict or not strict?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 08:44 AM PDT

They buy me what i want but wont bother listening to a thing i say and they think its made up trash.... My own father even laughs at me for walking like that and thinks im playing but im not. I dont know what part of my leg is really the problem. Should i continue to stay around the house or move out. I think im going to stay in longer till i have enough money then i move out? or what do i do? Every time i say something or talk a little they tell me to shhhh ... its rude should i do it back and forget them and let them be cause i really can't take there rules..

Question: Soooo I recently just told my mother in law her son has hit me. Now I feel guilty and worried :( should I have not told her?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 08:40 AM PDT

Question: My Mom took away my phone and lost it?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 08:31 AM PDT

She tries to force me to play the violin and when I refuse she takes my phone and when she finally dicides to give it back SHE FORGETS WHERE SHE PUTS IT?!?!?!?!?! WTF? SHE WONT TAKE NO FOR PLAYING THE VIOLIN OR LET ME QUIT I say why cant I quit I hate it, she says "because your too good at it to quit" I hate it sooo much and I want to break it but I know that I will have to pay for it and that will only get my things taken longer BTW I'm 13 ITS DEAD

Question: Will you be short if you get your period young?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 07:46 AM PDT

I got my period last month at age 9 and 4 months. I was 1.46 cm. My dad is 6,0 and my mom is 5,3. I am 77 pounds. I am very scared that I will be short. I want to bye atleast 5,3. The majority of my dad's family and moms family is short but my grandparents were tall. My sister is 5,6 and my other sister is 5,4

Question: My relationship changed after a baby. My sweet boyfriend is now mean.?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 07:31 AM PDT

Question: Denmark encourages couples to ‘do it for Mom.’ Any thoughts?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 07:31 AM PDT

A Danish ad urging couples to "Do It For Mom" has released a blush-inducing, tongue-in-cheek ad to encourage Danes to travel and get busy. (Warning: the video is NSFW.) The video starts off with gloomy music and images of an elderly woman who seems to feel empty and sad without a grandchild by her side. "But don't despair," the announcer says. "We may have found the solution." Citing statistics that suggest that couples have 51 percent more sex while on an exotic, romantic holiday, the ad then shows a young couple in a series of situations dripping with innuendo. "Send your child on an active holiday and get a grandchild within nine months," the ad cheerily suggests, before offering a booking discount of 1,000 DK (about $150) and an "activity package," but also a special deal for singles wanting to mingle. Read more: http://time.com/4057865/do-it-for-mom-denmark/

Question: What do I say and do at work?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 07:21 AM PDT

I'm in my young 20s and this saturday we had a work party at a colleague's house with a pool (end of summer party). Toward the end three of my female colleagues went into a bedroom to dry off and get dressed, I joined them late. Because I joined them late they were done and left before I was. Apparently when my boss saw them leave he thought we were all out, so he came in to get changed himself. I turned to see who was coming in (thinking it was a woman) and we both froze as he got a full on frontal nude view of me. Once the shock hit, I covered myself with my arms, and he dove back out the door. From his reaction I'm convinced it truly was an accident. I left the party quickly without talking to him, and I had yesterday and today off scheduled for vacation days to finish a home reno project. But I have to go back to work tomorrow. What do I do? Say? Act? I'm so embarrased My dress is much older and slightly conservative. I'm not modest around women, but no man has ever really seen me nude (one ex boyfriend KIND of). I'm a virgin. This really embarrased me. Yes he got a full on, clear view. I work at a school. I dont know if any of this is relevant but want to give all info that might help boss not dress. sorry for the typo

Question: How can we stop getting invitation to strangers weddings?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 06:53 AM PDT

My husband's grandmother was the oldest of 7 children. At least 4-5 times a year we get invitations to 3rd and 4th cousins, bridal showers, weddings and baby showers. My husband never knew these people groaning up and has no idea who they are now. They are strangers to him and to me. We did not invite any of them to our wedding. The last 2 invites came from 3rd cousins who both live 3 miles from U.S. snd we wouldn't know who they were even if we crashed into them in the supermarket. Honestly, I think they are just looking for a gift. Without acting like a fool, how do we just stop these invites from coming.

Question: Brother possibly going through puberty; won't leave me alone?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 06:32 AM PDT

My mom and my brother (9 yrs old) were discussing his body aches yesterday, and she said they could be growth pains and that he could be starting puberty (we all started puberty early, about 9). I'm worried about this because he's the only boy in the house surrounded by a bunch of girls, two of whom are teenagers/young adults. He's also starting to cling to me a lot, which is really annoying. He'll follow me around everywhere, he wants to play with only me and not any of our other sisters, he always wants to be near me/sit by me, and he'll randomly hug me. He does all this only to me. He couldn't care less about his other sisters. The other day, he also asked me why I was wearing those weird, tight pants (leggings). I'm guessing it's because I have a bigger backside, but he's 9, and shouldn't be worrying about that stuff. He knows som sexual phrases like "to swallow" and stuff like that, too. How can I get him to stop this stuff with me? My mom jokes that he has a crush on me, but she's only encouraging this behavior which could be bad. I don't want to walk in on him one day going through my underwear or something.

Question: Is my sister in law s niece my cousin?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 06:20 AM PDT

I was just wondering if my sister-in-law s niece was my cousin

Question: Anyone else feeling alone during pregnancy? Am I feeling this way or am I?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 05:52 AM PDT

I didn t know I was pregnant until I was 5 months and 2 days after my man got a promotion & 4 days after I lost my job. So it was a lot to take in, especially for my man. Even now 3 months later, I do all the house work, he got mad at me for using too much toilet paper, & I asked him to make me a bowl of cereal but you would have thought I asked him to pull a star from the sky. I m lucky I never had morning sickness or anything and I don t crave anything at all. I m not that emotional. Even if he wants breakfast in bed I still do it. But why?!? He can t even make a bowl of cereal. I can t even use toilet paper, damn. How is a man you do everything for going to understand that I don t feel 100 percent everyday? Idk what to do, except cry. All my friends seem like they have men who want to help, who want to help them clean & get ready for baby. Not mine. Why?

Question: I there anyway my Mum could move to England from Northern Ireland with my 5 year old brother?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 05:47 AM PDT

His Dad only sees him 3 days over 2 weeks for a few hours, he took her to court for visitation rights and she offered him more days and the father actually said to his solicitor that he didn't want anymore days than that because he wanted to spend more time with his girlfriend. He's not a good person either he's always drink driving and he's drove to our house before drunk to pick up my brother and when my brother was younger his Dad would ring my Mum and say he can't have the baby tonight because he's going out drinking with his friends, nowadays he's more consistent with his 1/2 days a week but my brother hates going with him and he panics when he knows it's getting close to the weekend, although he does not abuse him, my brother just doesn't enjoy being in his company. If we were to move, he could see him on school holidays and that would work out more days over the year for seeing him, if he wanted to. But if Mum asked for permission he would say no out of spite because he hates her. What would be some good points to put forward to her solicitor to enable the move. Thanks.

Question: What to do when someone with mental health issues is putting massive strain on your family?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:51 AM PDT

My uncle has had problems with what his parents describe as him being an 'alchoholic'.. Realistically, seeing as he wouldn't dream of drinking in the morning and doesn't drink every day, just when he does he gets so bad he doesn't know where he is etc.. He has lost 3 houses from losing his job every time, 2 times had nothing to do with alchohol, the most recent being he threw a scissors at someone. If you speak to him he isn't conversational he just wants to talk about himself and says random stuff a lot. He had cancer and depression following this. He is now living with my grandparents who are very old and he is causing them a lot of grief and is abusive sometimes after drinking. I can't let him go on doing this to them as I fear they may die, they already lost their other son to a problem with his heart from alchohol related problems. No one will accept that he is mentally unstable except for me and my mum, until my grand parents accept that too he will continue to give them grief that they don't need at the age of 78. What can I do?

Question: I caught mom s boyfriend touching my butt?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 01:40 AM PDT

Well I m up late playing (and yes this happend today before I am writing this) and I hear the lights turn on and the door slowly open so I assumed it was my mom and quickly pretended to be asleep. I peek open my eyes a little and see its mya boyfriend and not my mom but continue to pretend to sleep. I moved in with my mom when I was in 5th grade I believe after my parents divorced. He also lived there with my mom so, but he NEVER checks up on my brother and I at 12 in the morning. My brother and I share a to but we are kinda in a fight right now. So anyways I found it weird he was there but brushed it off when he closed the door(its a sliding door) and continue to play my game when I hear the door again and I think its absolutely my mom. But it s not its him again. I pretend to sleep again but peek a little. Then he walks over and picks up my blanket which wasn t really wrapped around me well. He drops it on my covering my face and I m getting really freaked out. He covers me but he doesn t cover my back part and butt.

Question: Do you believe that 18 is the true beginning of your life?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:56 AM PDT

The age you become an independent "adult",You have more freedom, You can make it what you want it to be but that comes with more responsibilities which could lead to more stress. As young children we don't have to worry about those things.

Question: What do you think of people who merry within their relative ancestry?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:50 AM PDT

I'm talking about marrying people with the same last name! lol Yes. lol Technically, these people are not related. But they merry people's cousin's cousin's. A brother marries a woman. And the sister of the brother marries the woman's brother. lol

Question: How to move out from my parents house?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:18 AM PDT

I don t feel like my parents respect me and they don t trust me with anything. I don t have any money saved up seeing as how I barely started working in my new job. I ve always known my parents were control live but it seems like it s spiraling out of control and I can t take it anymore, I have an older sister who is 25 years and I feel like they give her everything i.e. Buying her a new car at age 19, paying for a euro trip. I understand that we aren t a rich family and I was never expecting my parents to give me either of those things but I feel like my entire family sees me as a little fifteen year old girl who can t fend for herself. For the past two years all I ve wanted was to at least get my drivers license so that I can at least use the car to hang out with my friends (the two days that I m "allowed" to hang out with them, although I disobey this rule constantly) everytime I set up an appointment for my behind the wheel test neither my parents nor my sister want to take me. I am 21 years old now and everyone sees me as a "funny" girl, and I m tired of getting slapped every time I answer back. I ve never done anything to make them distrust me, I ve been able to maintain good grades in high school, I rarely drink, I ve never had a boyfriend or any sexual relationship. I don t understand why I m seen as a joke in my family. Thank you to anyone who actually read this really long post and who can give me tips on how I can leave my house as soon as possible. :)

Question: Questions about a mother not letting father see their child in California!!?

Posted: 06 Oct 2015 12:07 AM PDT

The father has not seen his child in almost 3 years. He doesn't even know where he is, because the child's mother does not tell him. She blocks all communication from the father and so does her family. The father has tried multiple times to contact the family/child's mother and nobody tells him about the child's whereabouts or wellbeing. What can the father do to find the child? He wants to file for custody or at least visitation rights, but he needs an address for that!

Question: My dad found a video of me masturbating. Should I own up and say it's me or should I say that it's porn from the internet?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 11:54 PM PDT

Question: My son is sick and we don t know with what. The family is fighting like crazy.?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 11:49 PM PDT

My 1 year old son is in the hospital, and we still don t know what s causing his illness. He was staying with my mom for the weekend, and on Sunday my wife s sister picked him up. He was very tired and after not being able to stay alert, we rushed him to the hospital. The first thing my wife s mother does when she sees my mom is yell at her and ask her what she did to my son. My mother responded by telling her she is a very ugly woman. Now my sisters-in-law are arguing with my mother, asking what pills, drugs, or poison she carries in her house, my wife s mother refuses to be in the same room with her, and one sister even told my wife that we should have been here and not out of town, as if we knew something was going to happen. The topping is, everyone is very religious, but for very different religions. So my son has amulets and rosaries hanging from his hospital bed, which my mom hates and wants to get rid of, and my father-in-law sacrificed a goat today, not joking. Why don t any of these people understand that they re only making this difficult situation so much worse? I mean, am I over reacting, or all these people complete lunatics. I think once my son is better, I ll pack up my family and say goodbye to these individuals forever.

Question: Iám treated like the baby of the family even though I have a younger brother, because I´m the youngest daughter. Anyone else? Why is that so?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 11:39 PM PDT

My younger brother was usually ignored. He´s the only son. I´m my mom´s firstborn and my father´s youngest daughter. I´m treated as the baby by my father and older sister (20 years older than me) and like the oldest by mom and my brother (he´s not nearly as close to our half-sister as he is to me, he´s only 2 years younger than me and we grew up in the same household whereas we never lived with our sister). People only complain about being the middle child but I have the best position in my family (best of oldest and youngest child treatment) Has anyone a similar experience?

Question: I need some non-judgmental advice: how to handle this family reunion dilemma?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 11:31 PM PDT

so my father's side of the family lives two states away from me, and they are people that I've never been close to really. My grandma and aunt and cousin all live in the same town very far from my home. And for years they've asked if I would come there. the problem is, this is my fathers side of the family and I never met him until I was 20 years old. And even now that we've met, we have a pretty rocky, on-and-off relationship and nothing at all in common. this makes it very awkward and uncomfortable for me to talk to/be heavily involved with his family. They are perfectly nice to me and I care for them but to me they feel sort of like wealthy acquaintances, not close family. so a couple weeks ago, I get a letter from my aunt saying she will pay for my plane ticket and let me stay at her house if I can come to my grandma's birthday. This was a very sweet and kind offer and I immediately felt so incredibly guilty because I knew there was no way I would be going, and here is why.... on top of all the awkwardness I've mentioned, I also have never really travelled well, travelling stresses me out beyond belief and I usually dont enjoy my trips that much because of the plane ride or the riving involved. its just not my thing ...this still is not the main issue. This year I went through a very traumatic move, VERY far away from my home (and home town, where I have lived all my life), and I have JUST gotten back and just feel like I am healing........ CONTINUED: so now I am healing from that ordeal and I tried to go on a trip like a month after I moved back home, and I had panic attacks the entire time. This made me realize that I will not be travelling again for a WHILE, its not healthy or enjoyable or relaxing for me at all. And my QUESTION is: what should I say to my aunt/gramma? because I feel super bad thatI havent responded yet, and I dont want them to think I'm just blowing them off, but I also dont want them to judge me like im nuts

Question: My step-dad wants to sell a home him and my mom owns but she recently passed away. Would he get all the money from the sell?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 10:40 PM PDT

Question: How can I goto college with impossible parent forcing me to take local college only.?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 10:27 PM PDT

My mother is single and honestly dumb to a fault and also manipulative. She tells me I can t go to an away college because I m not "ready". We live with other family members and they all drive me insane. I can t even get my current college s work done on time because of their crazy ever-changing mood swings. I Know of if I go away I would be able to focus more on college and I would do phenomenally better at everything in my life period. The thing is my parent is forcing me to stay and isn t going to pay for any college if I leave. What can I do other than work for an entire year while putting off college? This house is small cramped full of kids that aren t my mother s yet she spends every dime she has on her brothers children and rent. She constantly give "loans" to her family members which she knows will never repay her, they don t even say thank you to her when she does. How can I leave asap!!? I m 17 about to be 18 in December 2015 in an area that only accepts 19yer olds as minimum age requirement to begin working

Question: Can you find out if someone is your father by having a paternal family member take a DNA test?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 10:26 PM PDT

The man that I always thought was my father looks nothing like me, but as any child, I believed that he was still my Dad and maybe I just didn t take any of his physical characteristics. Recently I did an ancestry DNA test to find out my genealogy, and the background of my father is not in me, and he is a large percentage of these other 2 ethnicities. I am 90 percent one race. Anyway, my mother finally tells me that I may be some other mans who is deceased. I found a picture of him through alot of investigation and I do look alot like this man and his family members. My supposed father claimed that he would take a paternity test with no questions asked..he didn t even want to hear a full explanation as in to why I wanted one..but now he hasn t answered his phone in weeks. So I wanted to know is there a way that a test can be done on one of the deceased mans living relatives to proof relation with me?

Question: Help! I have problems at home!?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 10:22 PM PDT

I'm 18 this month. I can't get a job til I'm 18. I live In a one bedroom house with my mom and dad even tho they are separated sometimes they get along and sometimes they bicker and it bothers me a lot. It's no healthy to live in a home like that. I can't start at my fashion college til I save for registration since my parents didn't qualify for the loans. I need my own place and to be on my own and to have my own money and car but I'm stuck and don't know what I should do first

Question: Help me convince my parents for a nose ring?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 09:57 PM PDT

I'm 11 and soon turning 12. I want it for my birthday/before that. I already cleaned my room. I already got good grades on test. So what do I do? (They say i'm too young) Do you have any arguments I could use to convince them? (I also have money to pay off half of the cost) I specifically want a hoop. So help me convince that too? Mostly convincing my dad. My mom said she'd consider it for my birthday and for me to leave her alone or else she'd say no lol. I have my grades up. My room is clean. I have a good life laid out for me. I joined a club that will help me for the job I want to pursue. Plus what does this have to do with a hole in my nose with a jewel in it. I have the money to do it and heck it's legal in this state. Might as well get it done. I'll just ignore this and get it done my birthday. I never asked for your opinion on it. I asked for help to create a counter argument for there's. If you aren't going to answer the question don't comment. :|

Question: Can someone help me?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 09:55 PM PDT

when I came to United States me and my disgusted got deported back to Colombia, I came back and she stayed because she was really scared. Now after 10 years we are meeting again, she's been telling me about this iPhone 6s that just came out and I wanted to surprise her and get her one, it's a lot of money I don't think I can pay....Can someone help me? or any ideas of how I can get it cheaper than what it is without any contract

Question: Is my father overreacting when he saw me kiss a boy?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 09:51 PM PDT

I'm 14, a freshmen in high school. My father doesn't let me take the bus anymore, and he doesn't let me go to school early anymore. He lost all his trust in me as well. He drops me off to school late, and expects me to come to the car RIGHT when school ends. All because he saw me kiss my boyfriend on the sidewalk. He yelled at me for half an hour about how my boyfriend had no respect for me, about how he was taking advantage of me, how I should focus on school (I already earn straight As), and how he (my father) owned me and I was not free (as in freedom, not the value/price). My father was being such a hypocrite there. He doesn't even show respect to my mom. He didn't show respect to me and he took advantage of me when he molested me when I was younger. And what kind of parent makes their child fear them and make them feel like a prisoner? He already doesn't let me hang out with friends. He doesn't let me go out at all. And now he's so surprised when I come home late (4-5 pm). He even knows that I'm at the park right down our street. He said he's okay with me having a boyfriend, yet he says he doesn't want me talking to him (my bf) anymore. I understand he cares about me, but I think he's overreacting when all he saw was a peck on the lips. What's your opinion on this situation? I have a lot more to add, but there are limited characters,

Question: I treated my dad bad when I was younger?

Posted: 05 Oct 2015 09:50 PM PDT

When I was born, my dad was in his late 40s so there was a huge generational gap. We've always been very close and he means the world to me, but I would often get very short tempered with him for many years while I was growing up and even into my late teens to early 20s. I always felt bad and apologized but it kept happening. For example, one time I told him I was going to send his phone a text, and he said "Does my phone need to be on?" and I said "Dad your phone is already one! OMG! GEEZE!" Stuff like that, which looking back, probably made him feel dumb and I feel really badly about all those stupid short tempered things I'd say to him if he didn't know something or whatever else. Or yelling at him. I don't know how to stop feeling guilty about this. Because he's really old now and in poor heath. I've apologized to him a lot, but I don't want to go through my life feeling guilty like this after he's gone.