Me and my wife have been married for 2 months she just found out today she's pregnant. One big problem I'm only 17 she's 22. I'm still a kid she's an adult 5 years older than me. I love her very much but I'm not ready to be a dad. We've been best friends since we were kids. I told her when we were older we'd get married but we never talked about children. I'm really freaking out right now. I'm not ready for kids. What should I do ?

We recently went to dinner one night and had his daughters with us in the backseat of the car. It was freezing cold in the car and so without any thought, I reached over to turn the vents down just a bit. Before I could even touch the air control, my husband swatted my hand away and yelled and said, " don t touch the air, leave it alone " making it extremely awkward in front of his daughters. Next thing I know, we are sitting in the restaurant and he showed me a text message that his friend sent which was a video of his friend proposing to his girlfriend. I was excited for his friend and joked and said, " and this whole time your friend said he would never get married again" my husband quickly snapped and said " well why don t you remind him of what he said" in the most rude tone. Last but not least, the very next morning, he asked if I would take his dog out. I was extremely tired and woke up and took his dog out but didn t stay out to watch his dog. I got back in bed and my husband said that I needed to stay outside and watch the dog. I said no that I was tired and he could go watch the dog. Next thing I hear, my husband called me a f****** lazy *** and got out of bed. We haven t even been married a year. Are these the early signs of abuse? I am kind of concerned

My girlfriend and i have been dating for 2 years, and its going to 3 soon, i have no doubt that shes the one i want to marry, she is 25, and im 24, we both have well paying jobs and our own apartments. i was wondering if its smart to move in before asking her to marry me, i heard thats a good way to see if you like living together. i also heard its a bad idea to move in before marriage because it may ruin the relationship. i see pros and cons to both, i would think that the first few years of the marriage should be dedicated to that kind of stuff, and finding out a compromise between both partners.

My husband and I just had a daughter 6 weeks ago, he works out of town and is only home on the weekends. I am in school full-time while trying to tend to her and look forward to him being home to help so I can study. Every weekend it seems like its always something...his friend called and needed a ride ( 4 hours round trip) to tend to his sick mother for example...it is friday night...he has been gone all week... my husband asks if I am okay with this???? Shouldn't he just say no on his own to help his OWN family? This is not an extenuating circumstance, it is ALWAYS something like this... Doesn't there come a time when it is time to grow up and take care of your own business?

Me and my wife have been married for 2 months. She just found out today she's pregnant. I've been freaking out about it all day. I'm only 17 she's 22. We've been best friends since we were kids when I was younger I'd even promised I'd marry her but we never talked about kids. She probably has but I was either never around or I never payed attention. She's an adult I'm still a kid. I don't know anything about children. I have a brother but he's the oldest one I was the youngest. He's 8 years older than me. I'm seriously scared and worried about this especially since she's 5 years older. I love her very much in not leaving her I'm just worried about having kids when I'm still one I even act like one half the time. What should I do ?

It seems a reasonable compromise to me to allow these threesome marriages as the middle ground between gay marriage and those who insist on heterosexual marriage.

I had a baby 7 weeks ago and since then he seems to change his attitude towards me.we had an argument a few days ago and for the first time he hit me and tore off my dress I was wearing. I noticed on his computer history he was watching porn..i just feel he changed and is not interested in me anymore. . Im wondering if I am to blame or is he just wanting out of the relationship

Okay, so my husband and I just had our first baby 9 months ago and we love him so much, but we haven't been in touch with our sex life for at least 2-3 months.. I think we're both so tired.. It's hard to get in the mood I guess. My sister and her husband have been staying with us for a while, and I was talking to her about it (my husband and I haven't talked about it at all) anyways, my husband and my brother-in-law went out to see a game the other day and when they came home my husband made love to me and it was amazing! Full of passion. I was really surprised. I was talking to my sister about it the next morning how I was so surprised and she told me that her husband came home frisky as well, and that he's always like that after he leaves the tittie bar (strip club). Turns out after the game they hit the strip club (I was wondering why they came home so late) anyways, my husband didn't even mention that strip club. It makes me mad that he didn't even tell me and that the only reason we had a great night that night was because he got dances from naked women. Why didn't he tell me about this? We're a couple there should be no secrets.

If you could travel into the future say for example 20 years and you happen to come across your future self and your wife. 1. So you now know present time (2015) who your wife is would you wait until you found that person? 2. Lets say you met that person and they are married to someone else would you wait for them?

I want to marry two woman and have sex and make lots of babies.. I am currently in love with one woman, but she told me that it is ok for me to love another one if I chooses to. My father is married with 3 wives back in his country, and he told me the more the better, so you won t be bored in the relationship, and it makes you a MAN.. Should polygamy marriage be legal? Any thoughts from the men? Thanks.

Even if only to be father because he realized you can't have a soul if you pretend your child doesn't exist. He moved nearly 3 hours away and in with some girl. =( I am trying to accept he's erased us...but I can't. Me? Yeah. Our son? No. :'( No ignorance please. I work full time, I am in college full time, and I keep an immaculate home. The reasons he left are simple - I found out he was cheating, kicked him out, a week later we agreed to save our marriage, the next day he was cheating again. I filed for divorce. He hasn't had a thing to do with me since. He never had anything to do with our son since I kicked him out (was stay at home father). No, I'm not sorry for kicking him out. No, it doesn't justify lying or abandoning your son. DUH.

I ve been married to my wife for a year now and been dating her 2 years prior. We now have a 3 month old girl that we both love dearly. I love my wife so much but I feel that she doesn t appreciate me, doesn t recognize my efforts to do my best and make this relationship stay afloat. A issue for her that I see is that Im immature time to time and cant talk to her in a mannerable way. Like I play to much, joke to much, and when I say comments to her she says I m rude on how I said it even though my intent isn t meant to be that way. I understand what she means and I try to work on it. My issues with her is that when she gets mad she calls me out my name, slaps me, and or throws something at me. And I ve been dealing with this ever since I ve known her. At first I thought it was because she was stressed out because we wasn t married due to religious requirements. But it continued after we got married. I constantly have to defend my character, she calls me a bi!&h, coward, pathetic weak, stupid, dumb ignorant, childish... I mean you name it I heard it. And the last thing is that she doesn t give me any affection. 2 three month sex droughts no cuddles no hugs and no kisses and I m a man that thrives off love and affection. I understand that I have stuff to work out and this isn t a one way blame game but I m just wondering if this is common in other relationships. I don t want to break up my family but I also don t want to waist my life feeling like boo boo every other day

I found out my now ex-wife had sex with another guy. I immediately left and divorced her. Would I be considered a cuckhold since I ended a 21 year marriage as soon as I found out?

I want to marry two woman, so I can have sex and make lots of babies.. Currently, I m in love with one woman right now. She and I both agreed that I can love me another woman if I chooses to. My father is married to 3 woman back in his country. He told having more than one woman is better in a relationship, so you won t get bored easily, and it makes you a man.. Anyways, do you think polygamy marriage should be legal? I prefer answers from men... Thanks.

I'm asking because I want to marry more than one woman and have lots of babies... Currently, I'm in love with someone right now. She and I both said that it's OK for me to love someone else if I chooses too. My dad has 5 wives back in his country, and he told me the more woman the better and it makes you a REAL MAN.. He also told me with more woman, there's variety, and you won't get bored easily... Anyways, what do you think of polygamy marriage? Should it be legalize or no? I Prefer answers from men.. Thanks.

I am 28 years old.my husband 29 years old.relative.love marriage.i dont know how to handle him.he always scolding me.he can live without me.i need him back

We got two small dogs together, but in separating, she wants me to pay for half the dog expenses. I already gave her everything (except my IRA) from our savings account. I don't wanna abandon these dogs, but I need to re-buffer my savings. She also left me with some small debts to pay off.

My husband thinks I need attention all the time and try to control him, yes sometimes I really do. How can I stop it? Is there a reason for being needy , need attention and reassurance most of the time?

I'm 27 years old, my husband is 35. We have been married for 2 years. We have lovely baby girls that are 13 months old, I'm currently 9 weeks pregnant :) I try to be the best person I can be. I'm a nurse, high up in the hierarchy of nurses (I would go into detail, but that's not important). I don't wear anything sexual, and I met her son at a church charity. I love my husband and our babies very much, and we have a great relationship. I've never cheated on him, I've never even though of cheating on him. But his mom hates me, and I have no idea why. Every time I cook something, she makes a snide comment about it. Most people tell me I make great food. When I was pregnant with the twins, she kept bugging my husband about getting a paternity test. He kept telling her to back off, I finally just got one myself, to prove her wrong. She kept trying to paint this picture that I was a huge whore, when he's the only boyfriend I've ever had (I'm shy). When we got married she STRONGLY encouraged me to do a pre-nup, and I signed it, I don't see the harm, we're not getting divorced any time soon.When we first started dating she hired someone to investigate my past. Our relationship was only a few months old. I was raised in a household with all kinds of abuse, and there was never an appropriate time to talk about it. I didn't "lie." That made her angry. When my husband was 19 he was in a very bad car wreck, and his legs were amputated. He was in a bad place for a very long time, so I understand that she's protective of him, and his money, because before we met, he started a business, and it took off. But when I met him, I had no idea who he was, or how much money he had. I signed the prenup. I'm obviously not after money. What does she want from me?

I don't think it's wrong but I think it's not worth risking your marriage to email someone of the opposite gender unless it's about work.I think don't a married person should be putting their marriage at risk by emailing someone by talking about music,food,hobbies,TV shows or anything with someone of the opposite gender.It's up to the spouse of course if it's okay for their significant other if they can keep in contact with someone by email for non business reasons but personally,I don't think a married person should email a person unless it's for strictly business reasons.Sometimes talking to someone of the opposite gender that are not family members after marriage on email can be dangerous because attraction can come up.First it's a innocent friendship,then it becomes good friends,then it becomes close friends,then it becomes best friends and after that there's attraction and they start flirting and they end up talking about sex .Not all man and woman emails becomes something inappropriate but I don't think it's worth risking a marriage to email someone of the opposite gender unless they have to.I don't think it's worth risking a marriage to have opposite gender friends,even if by only emailing friends of the opposite gender but even by only emailing a friend of the opposite gender,because it can lead to something more than a friendship.Do you think it's dangerous to email anyone of the opposite gender who are not family members?

my husband passed January 2015 and I still can't get a hold of myself. We were together for 11yrs married 7yrs. All in all it was a dysfunctional relationship cause he was 42yrs older then me with chronic health issues. Besides the craziness I miss that man so damn much it hurts. Can anyone tell me how long this pain will go on for

We don't have any kids. He works a lot. Like too much, hell take jobs on the side and be home late sometimes. Yesterday he came home at 1. He is working though, his pay check shows it. I stay home a lot and i told him i feel so alone and he says we need kids so that i can take care of him while he works and hell want to stay home more. This makes me feel like if i have a kid I'm trapping him. Am reading too much into it?

OK we have been together for ten years, married for three. I'm very shy sexually and have insecurities. My husband has been with me through it all, even when I was a terrible person to him. I was really bad and he didn't cheat on me once, even though I did flirt around and thought about sleeping with other men, even giving them my virginity. He found out about those and I almost lost him, but I cut them off and decided to fix myself. Anyway things were fine but I have always been a sexual prude. He pleasures me a lot more than I do to him, not because I don't want to but because I think I'm bad at it. He's very very good in bed, but I feel as though I'm not satisfying him enough. There are many things he wants to do, but I won't do them out of fear of sucking or that I will disappoint him. Recently I found out about some online activity between him and another woman. It is very graphic. All they do is talk about sex and their lives. They described each others body parts so I know they skped naked and performed for each other. I'm very hurt by this, but I think it's because I haven't been giving him what he wants so he's finding it else where. She wants to meet up and have sex in a motel, but he said he doesn't want to cheat. That he never did that before. I read he loves me very much and that he doesn't want to hurt me, but she still wants to have sex with him. The last thing I read from her was please think about it. You deserve better. What do I do?

My family and my fiance plan to go to Virginia Beach in August is there a way to fill out a marriage license online or some way before we go there so we could get married while on vacation I live in NY and Virginia is a good 10 hour drive?

Two years ago, while separated from my husband, a short term relationship, ended with me getting pregnant. He stopped communicating with me and disappeared before I even found out I was pregnant. I found out, called and texted him, left a letter on his door, etc. He refused to communicate and left town. I never pursued it further, as he obviously doesn't give a care. He did this to one other girl, I came to find out. I went back with my husband, made it clear I had been with someone else and we decided to do a DNA test when the baby was born. Fast forward, baby is born, husband says he doesn't care, he considers the child his. We have one other child together from before. Never did the test. Husband files divorce out of the blue after the baby is a month old, reports me to dhs as a bad mother, my kids are taken from me while it's investigated. Nothing was found wrong, still battling to get joint custody though. I am now planning to test the baby. If he isn't my husband's, does he still have a right to custody? If he isn't my husband's, can the bio dad demand custody rights, visitation? I pay my ex child support for the child. I have never pursued the other potential father, nor do I plan to, nor do I plan to try to get support from him in the future.

My wife is pregnant she wants to lay on my all day. Why is she doing this ?

Looking at other men I feel I fail my wife. Other guys are hardcore whereas I'm not as aggressive. I'd rather avoid conflict and reason through things rather than get all pissed and throw a fist. Plus I don't party hard, drink, watch sports, or go to strip clubs. I am more of a geek, reserved, and brutally honest. So I told my wife I'm not deserving of her, that she should find someone else more engaging. She reacted with disbelief that I would say that. To her I'm the light of her life and she loves me for being a sweet guy. Mostly because I never hurt her. She said she would never abandon me for some jerk. True I'm kind and loyal to my wife, but doesn't that make me a boring pushover.

My husband is 12 years older than me. We met and started dating when I was 20, he was 32. Neither of us was married before. We got married one year later. My brother married his wife when he was 22 and she was 32. Both of our marriages are going well. My brother has 2 kids... What is your opinion on ages differences like this?

I've been cheating with this same guy off and on for the whole five years we have been married and now he wants me to be his women!! I'm not sure about it because he is so wishy washy at times and often confuses me!! On the other hand my husband takes care of me and our children everyday working 11-12 hour shifts to pay the bills and get what we need!! I don't lack attention or affection from him but our sex life is terrible I tried talking to him about it counseling and spicing things up with toys but nothing seems to work!! He's just not doing it for me anymore!!! I have asked for a divorce or a separation but he says he won't give me one!! I have three kids and I'm not taking them out there home he should be the one to leave! I also told him I was in love with another man but he thinks that I will come around and want to make us work again!! But I don't want him!! What can I do!!