I been trying to look for females to be fwbs like me that are the ages of 21-37 that live in the idaho falls and ammon ID area. And don't tell me to look on Craigslist for ads and to post an ad cause I already done that I did found some but all stop sending me emails after they say my picture. Is it because I'm black or what is it? Is there any websites that I can or need to go on to find females that are 21-37 of age? Cause I want to have fun smoke 420 and drinks a little cause it's the 4th of July weekend? Thanks

So my story like this : i m 20 years old that have no real hobby , few friends , don t like to be in places crowded with people(more than 4 people ) . People(family) call me (indifferent) , becuase of the fact that i don t have interest in the things that every guy have like driving a car , party , smoking going out etc . i feel stress in crowded places. I didnt have a girlfriend but i fell in love once , was so hard to let go . I don t know if this is relative but i am in love with computers , programming physics alittle bit in mathematics, science fiction . its interest me alot . Should i have to consider visiting physiologist ?

What did you do?

I have been talking with this guy for a fewmonths now we haven't met yet. I looked up his name online just to see if anything came up and it turns out he pleaded not guilty to two counts of sexual assault on a victim under 16 years old. This took place in a library. He was exchanging emails with her and then it moved to the bathroom. I don't want to go into details but he did put his hands down the girl's pants and had sexual contact with her. He was 20 at the time so this was a few years back. He is always talking dirty with me but i don't think much of it, what should i do?

My 4 years old only love to wear pink all the time.i have lot of clothes brand new which she didnt even touch.i have no idea how to make her wear diff coloures.

My husband recently became a restaurant manager at a very popular fast food restaurant. He's received nothing but praise from his boss, but every day he gets a day off in some way his boss shows up at his store and begins making complaints. When my husband works his store is very efficient, but he has a completely new team, is understaffed, and nobody has been showing up for interviews so he can't hire more people. We'll be at his mom's house and suddenly everything is drama central because he has to run outside to talk to his boss and listen to his complaints. This can take hours. He only gets one and sometimes two days off a week and works more than 12 hour days. So tonight is the fourth of July and we planned on hurrying down after his work (he has 8a-8pm.) His boss called him and told him he was going to show up at 8pm to look the place over, which probably means he'll have to stay until midnight. I on average get to spend 2 or maybe hours with my husband a day. I feel like his managers definitely should get their stuff together, and if there's problems when he's not around he should be handing out some kind of consequences, but this is getting ridiculous. My husband's solution is that he's going to have to stop taking days off until he can get a more stable team together. Does this seem like bullying or is this just something to be expected?

Okay, so I have a cousin who is in 10th grade (15) I'm going into 8th grade (13) her family background is a little wacky with my aunt and uncle my aunt never drives anywhere pretty much and my uncle is crazy with things and there house is falling apart. Anyways, when ever I email\text her she always makes it a point to tell me that she is like seeing her friends all the time and stuff like today she was going to the beach with people and watching fireworks. She never goes on any vacations and has never left the state. I see people a lot and go on vacations plus she always makes it a point to tell me how busy she is. Know one else I know ever does this to me and she always treats me so much younger even though its a year in half two year age difference, I am kind of pissed with her acting like this what should I do? Plus she is never scared to say something like that over email\text but in person she never talks like this. What should I do? I need advice please thank you!

When his best friend died, I saw a girl comment on his picture about her condolences. Two months ago I noticed she was his best friend on snapchat and they had been snapping back and forth for 17 days straight, so asked him how he knew her and he had told me she was a long-time family friend. I accepted it and left it alone. But today I found out she was actually just his best friend's coworker. He lied to me about how he knew her. I don't know if I should bring it up calmly to him and ask why he lied to me, or just drop it. But if I don't say anything I'll feel as though my ability to comfort him will be affected because that will be on my mind. I've always been comfortable to bring things up to him but his best friend did just die. What should I do?

I just got back from dropping my sister off at her friend's house. Since it was hot out and I did not get out of my car and was only gone for about 20 minutes I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes.

Opinions only seem to be appreciated when you agree. So, how do you handle it when someone makes a comment to you under the assumption that you feel the same way because you are the same color? I'm most interested in how you handle it on topics of religion, politics, and race related news events

So for the past few yrs I was with her son, he was abusive. I did not even know he was until I started telling people the way he treated me. When I would go to his mom about issues,she would tell me to just go take a walk (as if I was the problem) So to fast forward ex moved out May of last yr. we didn't speak to each other, then in aug. he wanted to "reconcile." He basically wanted me to move back in with him, but I would and told him if he wanted me to do this he'd have to show change. As you can guess it never happened, he dumped me finally in Jan. of this yr and got married 3 wks ago unbeknowest to me. He treats me like i don't exist and he won't even respond to basic ?s about our 4 yr old. I pretty much have to go through his mom. I have noticed however that when I text her something about my son she will ignore. Case and point my son came back from dad's house cursing and filthy. I told her she needed to speak with her son about his language, she never acknowledged she got the text. Then there was an insurance issue I had to email her about, no response. However I get up in the morning and she is texting me happy 4th. Even though her son and I are seperated she expects me to want to hang out and do lunch etc. At this point I am and have been ready to let things go. My ex is now married and trying to hold onto something that is not there, is pointless. She makes all kinds of excuses to contact me, including reaching out on FB. Her son and I were never married. She also gets to see her grandson when dad has him, so there is no lack in that dept. I know she is not any good to me and has been an enabler to her son's behavior. She cannot see it and never will and my ex, who is in his early 30's never really managed to cut the apron strings, bc mommy still does everything for him, including being his power of attorney!

She's 16, and her dad destroys her paintings, yells at her for hours, insults her, and monitors ALL communication. He reads her emails and checks her websites so she can't communicate with people he disapproves of. She doesn't have a cell phone, so her friend gave her his and used his ipod until her dad found it. I am the only person whose house she can even visit, but she has forbidden me from telling my parents. I have yet to break her trust, but I've been thinking about it. She has talked to a guidance counselor and a trusted teacher but there is very little they can do without taking it to court, where she wouldn't testify because she doesn't want to tear her family apart. If she gets out, she worries her 4 younger siblings (ages 12, 8, 4, and 2) would be targeted. If her dad leaves, her home mother mom would need to provide for 2 grandparents and 5 kids. So, yeah. I'm the only outside life, no safe/private communication, she's too loyal to her family to try to stand up to him, and it's really hard for her. I will always be there for her to come to, but she keeps things locked in to avoid being a burden. I don't know of anything else to do. Any ideas would be appreciated. Thanks.

I'm hoping u have a wife, girlfriend or someone that's nearest & dearest to ur heart cause I need u to visualize that it's them that ur listening too. Okay if you was listening to a recording from the past of ur love one whom had been hurt deeply & in shock crying in pain trying to tell u something. Lets say u listened to it for 5 minutes. What would ur reaction be. As your listening to it. Would it move u?,(1) Would it start to bring a tear to ur eye from hearing her hurting like that? (2) Would it make u sad? (3)Would it bother you? OR (4)Would you just get pissed off? please answer the question for what it's asking of u. Please don't try to read between the lines & tell me what u think ur version of the story is or isn't. Or try to analyze me or pick me apart! I'm asking an honest direct question if u can't pick one of the answers or give me ur feelings to the question then don't bother showing me that u can't follow directions. And Thanks To All Of You That Do Answer This From Ur Heart.

And you found out after you got back together?....

My step-dad died in Feburary of this year and my mom has been devastated since then. Recently, she got a new boyfriend. He has come to our house a few times and he's really nice and kind to me and my mom. Anyway, my bedroom is in a hallway that is *Guest bedroom* *bathroom* *my bedroom*. So they are very close together and the bathroom is in the middle. So I had to use the bathroom so I got up and did. When I came out, I heard a noise from the guest bedroom. A squeaky bed noise. I didn't want to believe what I had heard...but I heard soft whispery moans and it kept going. I ran to my room. I know my mother is a free woman and has needs, but I can hear! I guess they thought I was asleep but still. I don't know what to do. My emotions are really mixed up right now. (Also, I'm 13 and yes I know what all of that is I'm not stupid.) I just need help on what I should do

I think I might be in an abusive relationship. Not physical, but emotional and verbal. My boyfriend and I have been together for 12 years, living together for 11. He has complete control over the money. I am not allowed to work. He calls me dumb ***. He accidentally hit me in the head with a ladder the other day and when I cried out he said "well get the f*ck out of the way". He does whatever he wants but I barely do anything. I don't know why I can't leave. I feel stuck. Don't judge me please.

Why is my bf like this? I've been with my new bf for 6 months now, and our sex life isn't what it should be. I barely ever want to have sex with him considering the way he acts. He wants sex all the time, guranteed he will mention sex or sex related things everyday, and says stuff like 'let's have a quicky' or 'quick *******?' I've told him I hate the way he speaks to me about it but he doesn't listen. He doesn't understand that I don't always want sex. He also masturbates right next to me if I reject him, it's so horrible and award for me. Even if we are arguing about serious stuff he will masturbate and try touch my boob in the middle of an arguement? Is that normal? If I'm honest I don't like our sex... He's into talking dirty and says stuff like he wants to spank me for being naughty, I'm not really into all that, I find it quite weird haha, but he never gets the hint. If he tries anything and I don't feel in the mood I'll tell him I don't want too, but he never takes no for an answer, it's really annoying and horrible I looked on his phone and I on his history was lots of porn, and on his photo gallery were pictures of me in the bath naked, he came into the bathroom whilst I was having a bath, and he looked like he was aiming his camera at me but he denied it!! Sometimes I feel he only ever wants sex off me, Why is he like this????

My boyfriend and I (both in our 20's) have been together for four months and have known each other for a while before that. We're extremely comfortable with each other and there's nothing either of us don't know about each other. I have had really strong feelings for him for the last month and I want to say "I love you" but I'm petrified. I can't tell if he wants to say it back though? He always texts me "goodnight love" with little kissy faces before we go to sleep, so I guess he's not afraid of using the word? And he also talks about the future constantly, and always tells me about how he never wants to be without me (implying he's thinking about us being married at some point?) I know everyone's situation is different, but should I wait a bit longer before saying anything? When I was a teenager, I never had a boyfriend, so I'm pretty much clueless about this crap and I don't know what to do at all. Second question: his sister is getting married soon and I was thinking: is the party after the wedding a good place to tell him? Like, after the dinner and everyone's up and dancing and doing their own thing, maybe I take him somewhere like out to the garden for a romantic, quiet spot? Or is a wedding just not a good idea? Help!

Seems like this is exactly the time when they're supposed to exhibit that great love for the people in their lives they give so much lip service to. Instead. though, they watch you dying alone while they start to build the narrative of how devastating your death was. Pathetic.

21 year old female. People just do not like me. Females constantly call me ugly every where I go and laugh when I try to socialize and guys basically ignore me unless it's to call me hideous. High school was like this so I've grown use to being alone and actually enjoy it now. Being in crowds makes me angry because I know there all thinking negative things when they look at me.

Ever since I was 30 weeks pregnant my boyfriend has left me to go out for the weekend to drink and hang out with friends. The second weekend after my baby was born my boyfriend started going out again (he actually took a weekend off of drinking to see our baby be born). He usually spends the night Saturday night somewhere and then comes back Sunday hungover so he sleeps all day. This has happened EVERY weekend since my little guy was born 4 months ago! I ve asked him repeatedly to stay home to help me out. I ve threatened our relationship and he still goes out. I m left alone to take care of our little boy, scared at night being alone, and just confused on what to do. Please help! Any advice? Thanks!

So I m 13 girl and I just started to masturbate and I feel horrible about it. (I grew up in a Christian home) and so, I was sitting in the bathroom with my dog. (Boy, small dog) and when he licks me for some reason, (I feel bad for saying this) he makes me really horny. So I let him lick my vag. It felt so good I couldn t make him stop. He was actually like sticking his tounge all the way in and licking up. And when he stopped. I felt this wave of grief and regret. What I just let my dog do was horrible and gross. I couldnt tell anyone what I possibly did. Step in my shoes for a moment and think, I ve been raised in a HUGE Christian home where people who masturbate is very shamed and looked down on. If I even dared to tell my mom what I did, she would probably send me away. And I just feel awful for what I did. I can t get over it. Please I need advise and help. Thanks.

She's 16, and her dad destroys her paintings, yells at her for hours, insults her, and monitors ALL communication. He reads her emails and checks her websites so she can't communicate with people he disapproves of. She doesn't have a cell phone, so her friend gave her his and used his ipod until her dad found it. I am the only person whose house she can even visit, but she has forbidden me from telling my parents. I have yet to break her trust, but I've been thinking about it. She has talked to a guidance counselor and a trusted teacher but there is very little they can do without taking it to court, where she wouldn't testify because she doesn't want to tear her family apart. If she gets out, she worries her 4 younger siblings (ages 12, 8, 4, and 2) would be targeted. If her dad leaves, her home mother mom would need to provide for 2 grandparents and 5 kids. So, yeah. I'm the only outside life, no safe/private communication, she's too loyal to her family to try to stand up to him, and it's really hard for her. I will always be there for her to come to, but she keeps things locked in to avoid being a burden. I don't know of anything else to do. Any ideas would be appreciated. Thanks.

My crush stalks me all the time, likes whatever I like..is obsessed with me and wants to be a serious relationship..but I'm worried because his ex girlfriend still likes him he got rid of her but she still likes him.and when they were together he still would chase Me, try to talk to me but I would ignore him because of his situation but now he doesn't have one...what does this mean?

So on Twitter, and I m sure other sites, there is pictures circulating of a GORGEOUS tan guy with his Golden Retriever and the Golden Retriever has human teeth photoshopped on. He s on the account called "whiteboysheaven". This guy also made a video of himself lip synching to that cheerleader song. I was just wondering if anybody knows his name or if he s a Viner or something. Thanks!

So...Im just a 18yo guy from greece (no money jokes!!!) and i need your guidance. It's my first time asking a question here. So my aunt( mom's sister) lives in the us and came for vacation with my cousin (she's 20yo) and they're staying for one month here. Till the 11th of july. I never actually got to meet her before. But now that i got to know her, i fell in love. I've met tons of girls and i hang out with lots of them but I've never felt like this before. Oh god she's beautiful. Natural blonde, blue eyes, tall (180-185cm)... But i know she is the wrong girl to go for. Why is she my cousin?!? Why am i so unlucky?!? Also she has a boyfriend. I need you guys to tell me what to do this last week with her. We go out for drinks every night, and i act 100% normal there. I need to keep contact with her when she gets back cause i want to go to the US myself next year to her. We also chat sometimes a little bit on Facebook. She told me that we should chat when she's back. What should i do to make this relationship last? I really REALLY like this girl. And if i cannot have her as a girlfriend, I'll have her as a cousin-friend. Help me