Marriage & Divorce: Question: Do you think this guy was overreacting? |
- Question: Do you think this guy was overreacting?
- Question: Am i wrong for being upset? I am just hurt and confused i don't know if i should plan to leave or stay. Advice?
- Question: My husband tells me I am trash?? help?
- Question: Is it bad to have kids before marriage ?
- Question: Is it bad to have kids before marriage ?
- Question: What is life insurance based on? salary? house? mortgage?
- Question: How do I get my wife to stop being so anal?
- Question: How to move on from a marriage when it ended so badly?
- Question: If you cheated on your spouse of 21 years..?
- Question: How can I help my husband ?
- Question: How do you know if a husband and wife are not compatible with each other, in terms of personality?
- Question: If a man keeps a separate records of womens' telephone nos. and home address? What does that mean?
- Question: In a marriage where the wife makes more money than the husband, would it be unfair for the woman to pay alimony if a divorce happened?
- Question: How do u catch a cheating husband that gets in the middle of the night to do his thing while his wife(me) is sleeping?
- Question: Is there a place that is free to look up info on marriage records.?
- Question: My husband left me a month ago and hasnt try to call me or anything it seems he forgot bout me n his children. Will he ever regret it?
- Question: Do men ever regret leaving their wives and children for another woman? Or feel guilty?
- Question: If your spouse or long term partner needed a kidney, would you give one?
- Question: How to stop an argument in marriage?
- Question: About Grown Step-Kids?
- Question: Did he marry her for love or because he doesnt want to be alone if he married abroad?
- Question: Is marriage rigged against men?
- Question: Does taking your husband's last name seem like a submissive gesture to you?
- Question: 10 years of marriage .Not able to have kid, no career .Am i a failure?..please help me?
- Question: Why is it when you ask a husband a question regarding his emails he gets defensive?
- Question: Is it normal to split with your partner once the kids have grown up?
- Question: What is the best gift to give my husband?
- Question: How to tell my husband something I'd like to change sexually?
- Question: What to do when your spouse (husband) is a binge eater?
- Question: A question about divorce / death in Massachusetts and marital assets.?
- Question: Do you think that we're being cheap, when we use coupons on our date nights?
- Question: In misunderstanding my husband told me he hate and is over.after a while he want me back what do I do.?
- Question: My husband don t have sex with me for 10 years but he wants me to gave him blow jobs I am 57 he 68 what s wrong with me?
- Question: Should I speak up and defend my wife or is she just starting something?
- Question: Why do westerner couples often move in together before marriage ?
- Question: Should we divorce or work on a split schedule?
- Question: Help!! Need advice!?
- Question: Should he just go to court?
- Question: Do you trust your GUT instinct?
- Question: Expecting some solution please help im currently having a tiffle with inlaws and husband &now living separate with my parents for 1month.?
- Question: Should I make my soon to be husband get a DNA test?
- Question: Why am I in such a rush to get married and have a family?! I'm only 17?
- Question: What should I do: husband is emotionally wearing me down.?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Porn and marriage?
- Question: Husband doesn't talk to me before inviting guests over?
- Question: My husband only tells me he loves when I say it first, isn't that strange?
- Question: My husband doesnt tell me he loves me, only if i say it first, why?
- Question: Why do I always say the wrong things to my husband? Should I seek counselling for myself?
- Question: Husband death benefit?
- Question: Wife has been cheating on me non stop with six different men?
- Question: Am I wrong for wanting my wife to stop talking to this man?
- Question: My husband and l was divorce he died can I get his social security and willow pension?
- Question: Men, what do you like to eat at work?
- Question: What are some of the things I should avoid while having an argument with my Wife?
| Question: Do you think this guy was overreacting? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 09:04 PM PDT I met him online and we've been talking/texting for months now and we can't seem to stop arguing over stupid things and for that i told him that we aren't meant to be together. After i told him that, he sent me text messages back to back that said.... Him: I don't want to stop talking to you, I really like you,, please don't go Him: Can we talk about this? Don't you like me? Him: Don't do me like this. :(.. I like you, please. Do you think that's kind of weird to say to someone when you haven't known them for that long. We've only been talking a couple months.. Isn't this overreacting a bit? And he also told me that he was crying. |
| Posted: 09 Jul 2015 08:36 PM PDT A little history, we have been off and on for 7 years, me supporting him the first 4 with him not paying any bills. I moved away for a year, we split up, he got a solid job and was working hard. We agreed to get back together and to get a place together, he promised he'd take care of all the bills, etc. Shortly after we moved in together his boss moved his business out of state, then he started working for another guy who he called in "sick" all the time, and ended up being fired. He decided he would go and do business on his own at the beginning of may. He hasn't advertised and has only done 1 job in a 8 week period. He never did try to get a different job at all, any advertising i have done for him. He has one other small job lined up then nothing else. A few months before he got fired i found out i was pregnant. He has saved nothing for the baby and any extra money there ever is is spent on things like his fish tank or something unimportant. I also have another child that isn't his whose 8. i am worried he is going back into his old ways. I had all my maternity money saved up for when our child is born so i could make my car payments etc and had to spend it to cover rent and his vacation. We went on vacation back and he didn't save a dime for it. I paid for his whole vacation etc. Other than the last few months he has been taking care of the bills most the year, although they are aways late and he still blows money. |
| Question: My husband tells me I am trash?? help? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 08:19 PM PDT I have very long legs.. my husband will make comments if my dresses go above my knee. He will tell me men stare at my legs and that I like the attention. He will tell me I dress to impress the world and get attention from it and that I do not care about his attention. He will do that if I wear makeup or any shirt that shows even a tad bit of cleavage.. we have been married a year and I have changed my wardrobe many times to accommodate and every time I do it still is never ever good enough and as soon as someone looks it is war at home... my husband is a gorgeous man who gets hit on in front of me shamelessly... why does he do this to me? HOW DO I STOP IT? |
| Question: Is it bad to have kids before marriage ? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 08:10 PM PDT My sister is only 16 she said she's ready to have a baby. She watches those shows 16 And Pregnant and Teen Mom which is probably why she's wanting a kid so bad. I think those shows are so dumb. I was smart enough to wait until I graduated from high school and had a job to get married and then have a kid. I'm 27 my husband is 25. My sister is dating my husbands brother who is 17. Me an my husband are having our first child in December. My sister thinks everyone around her is having kids. I think it can be bad to have kids before marriage because half my friends got pregnant in high school got married after or at graduation then 3 or 4 years later they're at home by themselves with 2 or 3 kids under 5. I really hate 16 and pregnant and Teen Mom I don't watch them. It seems like the reason those girls wanted guys is so they could have kids. That's what it's like to me. I don't know why my sister is wanting a kid so bad. I don't think it's a good idea I don't want her to be left alone 2 or 3 years from now with young children. Especially since both of our parents are gone and her not having anyone else to go to except me. I know if our parents were still alive they wouldn't want her to do it either. Is it really that bad to have kids before marriage ? Why does she want a kid so bad ? |
| Question: Is it bad to have kids before marriage ? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 07:45 PM PDT My girlfriend is only 16 I'm 17 she's already talking about wanting to have kids. I don't think it's a good idea. She watches those shows 16 And Pregnant and Teen Mom. I think it's stupid. All those girls do is have kids and fight and break up with they're husband or boyfriend it seem like they just want the guys just to have kids with. I've seen stuff like this happen. My girlfriend's sisters friends got pregnant in high school got married after graduation now 3 or 4 years later they're at home with 2 or 3 kids under age 5. I think it should be illegal for any girl under 19 to have children because bad things can happen. I can't stand all the yelling and **** they do on those shows but I have to watch them because I'm in the bedroom with her most of the day and when she's watching them. I think those are some of the dumbest shows I ever seen. I don't want that to happen to us which is why I don't think she's ready for kids especially at 16. Is it really that bad to have kids before marriage ? Why does my girlfriend want a kid at 16 ? |
| Question: What is life insurance based on? salary? house? mortgage? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 07:36 PM PDT Let's say someone's husband gets $1,000,000 after wife's death from life insurance, what's it based off of?? |
| Question: How do I get my wife to stop being so anal? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 06:42 PM PDT A close friend from college is getting married on Labor Day Sunday, and the bachelor party is the 2nd weekend in August. I am not in the wedding, but have been invited to the bach party. I am married with a 16 month old daughter. My wife will be coming to the wedding, but our daughter will be staying with my in-laws. My wife is starting to be anal about the weekend... The wedding is at a resort My wife wants to stay at a Days Inn 10 miles away. I'm like "ummm, are you f***ing kidding me?? Everyone else is staying at the resort. That's where all the activities are. It is WAY too much coordination, not to mention we will have to stay sober to drive back, and that the resort is nicer. My wife is not giving me slack about going to the bach party, which is 1,000 miles away. She's saying "You have a wife and a baby, you can't be running off to bachelor parties!" Ummm, so because I'm married with a daughter, I can't see my f***ing friends I so rarely get to see??? I can't have any fun?? Are you f***ing sh*tting me??? This makes me SO ANGRY. I work HARD to feed the family, and I know I am the sole breadwinner....but I have not had much time for fun lately, and I am getting burned out. My wife seriously can't give me ONE WEEKEND away??? She has gone away to visit relatives and left me alone with the baby, and I never whined about it. These events are meant to be FUN, and my wife is making them STRESSFUL. How can I get her to stop being such a b*tch about it? |
| Question: How to move on from a marriage when it ended so badly? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 06:39 PM PDT My husband became more and nore abusive over time. I took it. Fought back with words generally. But I finally called the police. One incident I was left bruised. His family kept him hidden for a week and I tippsd of police to go get him. He got arrested today. His family would not let me speak to him before, and since they were hiding him, it was prolonging the suffering. We were supposed to be in our honeymoon right now, and my heart breaks that this had to happen. How do I get past this? I miss having him here. And I'm not allowed any contact with him by law now, so i can't even find out what he wants to do with out house. Do you think hell come back home? I emailed him pouring my heart out (before the arrest and no contact order) but he never responded. |
| Question: If you cheated on your spouse of 21 years..? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 06:36 PM PDT but they are gay and never shown any interest in anything sexual, is it more easily forgivable to the public eye? Also they didn't tell you they were gay and you found out many years into the marriage of course. Also they are ok with the fact they found out. What if the cheating spouse just wanted to have sex for once? |
| Question: How can I help my husband ? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 06:20 PM PDT Me and my husband and my sister and his brother also her boyfriend went to the movies tonight my sister and his brother went to see Minions me and him went to see Jurassic World. He said it was the scariest **** he ever seen in his whole life. We wouldn't let them go see Jurassic because they're too young and I hate Dispicable Me so I wouldn't go see the Minions so we just went to see our own movies. Even my husband couldn't handle it. He was too scared. I had to hold his hand. He drank all his water he had to go to the bathroom but he was scared to go by himself because he was afraid of a dinosaur coming after him. So he waited till after the movie until I went. He was even trying to put his legs on his chair and trying to curl up into a ball. He was screaming and crying through the whole movie. He still can't believe he sat and watched the whole thing. He wanted to get up and walk out but he was afraid to be alone. Even when we were driving home he kept looking behind to make sure no dinosaurs were chasing us. We go outside about every night to hang out with our brother and sister but he's scared of going outside because of dinosaurs. He said there ain't no way he's sleeping tonight. That movie really scared him to death. How can I comfort him ? He's 25 by the way. |
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| Posted: 09 Jul 2015 02:52 PM PDT If a married man does not Keep the other womens' telephone nos. in his cellphone phonebook but rather write it somewhere in his iPad, what is he up to? Why is he doing so? He behaves more or less as usual at home except being careful with his cell (this is how his wife feels in this area), why is he behaving so and what does he want? |
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| Question: Is there a place that is free to look up info on marriage records.? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 12:52 PM PDT |
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| Question: Do men ever regret leaving their wives and children for another woman? Or feel guilty? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 12:06 PM PDT |
| Question: If your spouse or long term partner needed a kidney, would you give one? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 11:58 AM PDT This is purely a what if for fun question. You're married or otherwise in a long term serious relationship. You love your partner madly. They are very sick and need a kidney. You're the only none waiting list match. They probably won't survive a waiting list. Do you give them a kidney? |
| Question: How to stop an argument in marriage? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 11:53 AM PDT Obviously married couples are going to argue. It could be big or small or stupid or serious. But sometimes the simplest argument can turn into something way off topic and end bad. I have a hard time just saying ok and dropping the whole thing. I just want to be able to say ok, whatever you say and end the argument no matter how mad I am. What do you do or tell yourself to just stop the argument before it gets bad/serious? (Married almost 3 years now). |
| Question: About Grown Step-Kids? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 11:46 AM PDT Well, I'll try to make this as short as possible, and I'm ready for the judgment so go ahead- So my husband's children are grown. They've never liked me and from what I understand it has more to do with the fact he wasn't there the way they felt he should've been in their life. People Do change and he's an awesome dad to our child. Ok, so I pay all the bills @ the house as he is a stay @ home dad and watches our young daughter.- his salary wasn't worth the day care bill month - month, anyway, recently. the kids (basically 3 of his daughters) contacted me on social media, and said a ton of hateful things. Keep in mind it's MY car he was using to go see them and the $ I was earning to take them out 2eat, this is the 1st time they've showed their true feelings toward me, and my dear husband just ignored it,. Didn't reply saying don't disrespect my wife or anything of the sort. And I think I want a divorce..... I really liked those kids but I guess that was a fairy tale. Thanks so much, I guess I might as well own up 2the fact it's over if he will not take up for me. Their mom told my husband I was crazy and cheating on him and all of that, so I'm sure she has a small portion in this. They divorced about 18 years ago though, so I'm confused as to why she hates me too??? I used to talk to her and go over and let my daughter play with her and the kids @ one point they were really close so all of this is a shock to me.... |
| Question: Did he marry her for love or because he doesnt want to be alone if he married abroad? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 11:26 AM PDT if someone wants their ex back and knows how much damage they did to that person and if the ex didnt want that guy back- and if he was in his late 30s and married someone within 3 months abroad..someone they never saw in real life before. why would that person marry so quickly |
| Question: Is marriage rigged against men? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 11:13 AM PDT As it is discussed at the link below? http://shrink4men.com/2011/09/28/marriage-and-divorce-a-rigged-game-for-men-but-also-ultimately-bad-for-women-and-children/ By the way...I believe the article is written by a WOMAN!!! |
| Question: Does taking your husband's last name seem like a submissive gesture to you? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 10:52 AM PDT This isn't meant as a value judgment on whether or not you take your husband's last name, but I've always seen it as a more submissive thing to do. Incidentally, I think I will take my fiance's last name when we get married, but I was just wondering if other people see it as a gesture of submission, or not. |
| Question: 10 years of marriage .Not able to have kid, no career .Am i a failure?..please help me? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 10:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Why is it when you ask a husband a question regarding his emails he gets defensive? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 10:26 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it normal to split with your partner once the kids have grown up? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 10:25 AM PDT |
| Question: What is the best gift to give my husband? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 09:23 AM PDT Hi,i'm newly married. Actually after some time it's Eid and i don't know what to give him. Can you suggest me best uncommon gift or surprise that i can give him for Eid. |
| Question: How to tell my husband something I'd like to change sexually? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 08:42 AM PDT I know you're supposed to tread lightly when telling a man you're not satisfied. Early on in our relationship he used to tease me- a ton, and it was so much of a turn on. Now sex has become almost mechanical with no more flirting/teasing So how can I tell him I want more teasing and flirting like the good old days, without bruising his ego? |
| Question: What to do when your spouse (husband) is a binge eater? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 07:43 AM PDT My husband is a 6'2" man who weighs about 245 now. When I met him, he was a little under that weight. In the course of dating, he worked very hard and got very healthy. He was running many miles per week, eating great and was looking and feeling great. Tons of energy. He has a demanding construction job (where they regularly bring in donuts, ribs, you name it to keep the guys going for long hours) and an extremely long commute of about 3-4 hours per day. He has no time or energy to exercise. He is also working 6 days per week--there is not the option to work less or closer. He has now gained back the 50 pounds he lost. Beyond the difficulties of attaction/activities, he feels bad about himself, is constantly exhausted and is a binge eater. He cannot control his eating, as he is starving for energy (and just plain loves food). I am a good, healthy cook and do my best to provide meals (which he will consume every last amount if he loves, leaving no leftovers). I work, take care of the house, etc. etc. I can't control what he eats and have to listen to his low body image and how fat he is, while simultaneously watching him binge eat and hear about his cravings. Nagging makes it worse, as does offering healthy options. If he can't get what he wants at home, he goes for ice cream, pizza, etc. on the way home from work. Does anybody have any advice? I am so torn and just basically try and keep my mouth shut. He wants to change but the demands of his job make it impossible. |
| Question: A question about divorce / death in Massachusetts and marital assets.? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 07:30 AM PDT So my wife and I got married and bought a home. In order to qualify for the type of loan we wanted they only wanted my wife to apply for the loan. Well we got it and only her name is on the lease. She pays the mortgage every month and I pay for everything else (and give her some cash to make up some of the difference). My question is...if she dies...will I be able to sell the house and keep the profits? If we get a divorce, will I be entitled to any of the profits from the sale of the home? We live in Massachusetts by the way. Sorry...only her name is on the deed...not the lease |
| Question: Do you think that we're being cheap, when we use coupons on our date nights? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 07:28 AM PDT My husband and I have been very happily married for 14 years, and we have 6 kids. About 4 years ago, we started using coupons on our bi-weekly date nights. Where we went, also depended on what coupons were available. We now have some favorite places to eat, and those establishments sometimes sends us coupons. Someone that we used to be close to, told us that we're a couple of " low class cheapskates" for using coupons on our date nights. She said this in a very nasty way, and it really hurt my feelings. I didn't think that we we're being cheap. I thought that we were being wise and thrifty with our money. Besides I see nothing wrong with using a coupon. It saves us a bit of money, and we really do enjoy our time together. |
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| Question: Should I speak up and defend my wife or is she just starting something? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 05:52 AM PDT Last night I was in the kitchen cooking and my wife walks into the room and asks me this question. "If someone was saying something negative to me would I come to her defense?" My response was that it depended on the situation. Well, her ex husband said some things to her via text that she didn't like. I guess he must have cursed at her and called her out of her name. The situation is this. They have two sons, one 20 and one 19. Grown kids at this point. The oldest has been a failure for the past few years. Already a convicted felon and can't find or hold a job and would rather walk the streets and mooch of anyone he can. Dad is not much better. Well, son asked dad for some money to get a hotel room so him and some girl could go live it up for a few days. Dad apparently said he would if he could share the girl. Son didn't like that so son called mom. This was about a week ago. Well last night mom decided to text dad and confront him on it and that's when the argument started. When she told me that I said, "well, it was days ago and you brought it back up by texting him first." I told her to just let it go and she determines what she lets people say to her. If someone is saying something to me via text I don't like I simply stop texting them. It's not like they were face to face or we were out somewhere and some guy started going off on my wife. She expected me to go confront the ex even saying, "I have his address." I looked at her and laughed. Should I have stepped up and went to her defense or should I have done what I did by telling her that her sons are grown and if that want to live their lives like that then she needs to let them. She texted the ex first. Her sons are not babies and it's time she let them handle their own messes. |
| Question: Why do westerner couples often move in together before marriage ? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 05:45 AM PDT why not get married first then move in ? what if you break up .... the situation will be difficult to handle .... |
| Question: Should we divorce or work on a split schedule? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 05:15 AM PDT My husband and I have been fighting for years now. Everything is reaching a breaking point, and we're not happy together anymore. The problem is I don't want to disrupt our 3 children's lives by having a divorce. So, I was considering trying to find a night shift job while my husband works the day shift. He's more than happy to have this schedule, because our feelings towards each other are mutual. And we'll both get to spend more time with the kids on our off time...Especially since we have a 3 year old, I could pull her out of daycare and watch her during the mornings and afternoons... A good idea or not? |
| Question: Help!! Need advice!? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 04:24 AM PDT Me and my husband have agreed for a divorce I sent the papers off and it's been 6 weeks and he still hasn't received any papers how long will it take for him to get them!? |
| Question: Should he just go to court? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 04:07 AM PDT My husband wants to be in his 3 yr old sons life. He hasn't seen the son in 2 yrs and the mother wants to have a couple "supervised visits" at a park until his son gets used to him. In my opinion he's an adult and should be able to pick up his son. Some background info: she stopped him from picking up his son as a baby since he got back together with me. We had 3 yrs history prior and a son. They dated 10 months. We are married now I told him the law is now on his side and has every right to be with his child and she can't dictate him. She requests that I nor our two kids be around when he shows up. This is not fair in my eyes he's married with kids. Supervised visits are pointless to me. Also it wasn't an issue for her when my son was at her house as they dated. However now the tables are turned and she's upset. |
| Question: Do you trust your GUT instinct? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 01:46 AM PDT I've had a few times where I had a "gut instinct" and I was right.. But then sometimes I have this so called "instinct" and my husband makes me feel like a crazy person.. I trust my husband and I love him to death almost to much at times but I feel like he's been hiding something from the past? I probably won't ever know.. But just curious if anyone's ever had that feeling and been right???? |
| Posted: 09 Jul 2015 01:12 AM PDT I was living with a joint family but found my inlaws dominating. Hence, I moved out to get some fresh air. my husband drops me home, spends time with me during week end etc but is not willing to comeout of joint family. Let me know if i will be able to live separtely with husband or if it is a permanent break between us. My husband details: 10-1-1985 place of birth: trichur, kerala Time of birth: 9.45 p.m. My details: date of birth:19.12.1984 place of birth: chennai, Tamil nadu Time of birth: 10.15 a.m |
| Question: Should I make my soon to be husband get a DNA test? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 01:09 AM PDT My fiancé has a two year old which he has joint custody over and that I also love to death. However, before we get married I just want to make sure he's the father because he has expressed doubts but hasn't got around to paternity testing. Before I legally become a step mom I want clarity. Is this wrong ? |
| Question: Why am I in such a rush to get married and have a family?! I'm only 17? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 12:11 AM PDT I think it's because ever since I was little my mom was never really there for me I want a baby girl and give her the world and do things my mom doesn't wanna do with me like shopping, getting our hair&nails done etc. I wanna be that perfect wife who cooks and cleans after there husband because I enjoy doing that and pleasing my man is there something wrong with me? |
| Question: What should I do: husband is emotionally wearing me down.? Posted: 09 Jul 2015 12:05 AM PDT been married for 6 years -have a 4 year old -another one on the way in 2 weeks -husband has adhd -refuses therapy -already did marriage counseling 3 years ago -husband punches holes in the wall -shuts down and makes smart comments -hates having to go to work or keep a job -has said he doesn't need anyone telling him what to do -said that he needs to find a new job but has only been at this job for 5 months -already written up 3 times -was unemployed for 2 years after getting out of the military -believes the military sucks and regrets going in -is upset that I don't make enough at my job for him to stay at home but wants to send the kids to daycare during the day -feels that all he does is pay bills -doesn't mind being a father and having money for his kids but says that he doesn't need to provide for me -we sleep in separate rooms -is in school but I have to do all of his homework bc he is busy with his video games -says he would like to quit his job and make YouTube videos -says he cannot stand favoritism at work and after explaining that every job will be some and every job someone is going to tell you what to do he shuts down and makes smart comments toward me about bills like its solely my fault that we have bills -says he won't leave bc he is better than his dad who left him -has already punched 4 holes in the wall and says that's ok to do bc at least he is not hitting me -does not want to go back to counseling bc it didn't work I feel like I'm raising a big kid |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:49 PM PDT My husband lobes video games. I have 4 kids for him, I work out. Keep myself healthy and fit. I stop working for him, to be a stay at home. I done everything I can to make him happy.. but he hasn't change. I'm Christian. I'm raised to be with him my whole life. But what if I'm giving him 100% and at night ...crying.? He thinks he's trying but he's not. He gives me 1 to 2 hours and he thinks, he did the whole world for me.. I feel like giving up. I feel like a bad mother if I give up. He loves my kids. Should tgat be enough? What should I do? Am I selfish? |
| Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:44 PM PDT Hi guys and gals, I'm married 2yrs and with each other 9ys, there last yr I found porn sites on my husbands phone, I waited a long time (months) before I said anything ad he knew something was up with my too, I told him it's a breaker for me, as you can tell he's not very technical savvy and thought by clearing history tht would be ok but he's working in a very male environment and i noticed months ago he was putting on private browsing and confronted him the same time about it, he said he simply did it out of boredom to Kill his lunch break and bla bla but it seriously is a sole wrecker for me, he was fine for about 4 months and now iv seen twice with his permission to look something up that he has the phone on private browsing. Anyone advice,? I no this is everyday life some women accept it ad other learn to Live with it ad guys say it doesn't reflect you etc etc but it's too much for me my life is stressful enough, I just don't have the proof now or do I need it really |
| Question: Husband doesn't talk to me before inviting guests over? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:36 PM PDT Most of the time, he first invites friends or families and then tell me they're coming. I talked to him about this millions of times. I tried to convince him that it is not about asking for permission, it's just checking with each other if we are both ready to accept guests. sometimes you just want to stay home alone and relax, or your home is messy and you really don't want to have anyone over or whatever the reason is, I just expect him t tell me before he plans anything that we're both included. Eventhough he accepts that it still continues to happen! what should I do? I tried talking, fighting, explaining....but seems it's not really workin... |
| Question: My husband only tells me he loves when I say it first, isn't that strange? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:33 PM PDT |
| Question: My husband doesnt tell me he loves me, only if i say it first, why? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:30 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do I always say the wrong things to my husband? Should I seek counselling for myself? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:23 PM PDT I am 19 years old, I ve been married to my husband (27) for a month. We are very much in love. Our marriage was perfect until about 2 weeks ago. Our dating life wasn t a fairytale, we had our ups and downs, but we were always happy. Now, at least once a week at minimum, I cause a major argument and it effects our happiness and his feelings towards me greatly. I don t know if it s because I m young and he is my first everything or because this is my first time moving out. I seem to always say something wrong. I have good intentions but he interprets me the wrong way. He makes a lot of sacrifices for us. He moved to my hometown and commutes over an hour to work and does much more just for us to be together. I try to put myself in his shoes. Whenever we argue he tells me it s usually because I don t think before I speak and I don t put myself in his position. How can I be a better wife, and learn to put my husband first and be more sensitive towards his situation? I don t have to make the sacrifices he does and I have to admit I am spoiled. I think that s why it is harder for me to understand the way he feels. Is there any type of counselling I could seek to help me put an end to my mistakes. He said he wouldn t put up with this forever. And if he leaves I won t exist. Our love is deep and strong. But I need to be better in order to fix this. Please help someone as soon as possible. I don t want to see our marriage come to an end. Any advice is welcome. I need help please. |
| Question: Husband death benefit? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:13 PM PDT My estranged husband was on social security full disability and was 41 when he died...I have a child which is his legal step child...what I want to know are me and my son able to draw off his social security disability benefits with me having a minor child that was born outside the marriage. |
| Question: Wife has been cheating on me non stop with six different men? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 11:05 PM PDT So i met my current wife thru an affair when i was married to my kids mom. My current wife stepped into my last marriage and threatened my ex wife, and forced me to divorce her. I divorced her and married the lady I'm with now. I've been a father to her kids, paid rent and bills and car notes and have not cheated on her. Well since last year, my current wife has had sex with six different men and one of them was in our home. She told me she does not love me no more & to go back to me ex wife. My ex wife does not want to be with me and she hates me. My current wife is on all kinds of explicit websites and asking for group sex with different men at the same time. It hurts because i love her so much and she won't stop it. I don't know what else to do. She hasn't been home in three days and she won't work or clean or cook. All she does is party. I think filing for a divorce would be good. But what's the odds my ex wife will take me back? |
| Question: Am I wrong for wanting my wife to stop talking to this man? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:46 PM PDT I ll try and make this as short as possible. 3 years ago (and again 2 years ago) I found my wife inappropriately texting an old "friend". I told her both times that I sdidnt like it and I wish she would stop. I just recently found out they were texting again. Tonight I brought it up that I don t like them texting each other and she s furious with me. She says it s because we were finally going to be able to have sex again tomorrow after our baby was born and now it ruined because she s mad at me. I did some snooping recently and found that her and this man have texted 432 times in 3 weeks including many picture texts. I know my wife would never physically cheat on me, but I can t help but feel like this is cheating too. Please give me some perspective, women especially. Am I wrong for feeling like I do? Is it so horrible that I brought it up now? |
| Question: My husband and l was divorce he died can I get his social security and willow pension? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 10:30 PM PDT My husband is dead and we was divorce when he died |
| Question: Men, what do you like to eat at work? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:50 PM PDT Husband works 2nd so his is dinner. I pack left overs from lunch if we have any (so he ends up eating the same thing twice a day) And snacks which is usually junk. Cookies, chips, something little debbie etc And soda. he'd never complain but I'm unhappy with what I pack. What do you like? |
| Question: What are some of the things I should avoid while having an argument with my Wife? Posted: 08 Jul 2015 09:50 PM PDT |
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