I've been with him for almost two years and I love him. He has serious abandonment issues and I believe he has borderline personality disorder. We had an argument tonight which resulted in him grabbing me away from my front porch and telling me he will kill me if I don't tell him "the guy who I've been texting". I was faithful to him and I didn't text any guy but him. He's the sweetest guy when he's not angry. He doesn't put me down or try to embarrass me in front of others. He calls me beautiful and tells me that I can do anything like go back to college but when he's angry it gets bad. He's currently in anger management classes but it's not helping. I love him but I'm afraid of him . I don't know what to do. My heart hurts. After our argument tonight, he went to the hospital and threatened to kill himself. I feel Sorry for him. I just wish he was normal.

They don't trust me like they used to. They think I abandoned them. This seems like the work of their witch mother. I need to make her pay.

We went to my friend's party. There while talking to my friend's hubbys, my husband mentioned someone as a5;:!@86le in frustration. seems like d conversation conti normally...but I am embaressed my friends wud think bad abt me, they wud never curse (use bad lang) bcz they all have small kids. am I rite feeln embarassed? or hope they wudn tell my frnds? or is it normal in parties?

My ex and I have been having what he calls fun and I call an affair for about 4 months. About 3 years ago, we had what I say was a short-lived emotional affair; he was engaged at the time, we revealed secrets about our past relationship (he regrets us not going to bed being among them), he requested some pictures of me in my fancy new underwear - which he got - and initially gave a risque compliment about it; then he admitted to feeling guilty about it. He's married now, to a girl he's been with for nearly 7 years; they've been married for less than a year according to the laws of the church, and within 6 months of their church wedding he resumed flirting with me and suggesting and requesting certain things: me coming over for drinks, him wanting oral sex and handjobs; he got a little drunk one night, and asked me for shower pictures or complete nudes - and told me what he'd do if I was with him at that moment. His wife was at work one day, and he kept telling me how ingredibly bored he was - and then informed me of how very relaxing sex is (he'd promised his wife he would spend the day relaxing, not doing anything too strenuous). We've made definite plans to get together for drinks within the next few weeks, but over these 4 months, I haven't heard one word about him freling guilty over any of this - he says we're "having fun," but it sure sounds like cheating to me - and everyone and everything I've consulted seems to agree with me.

My parents are caring and they sometimes argue about things that are seemingly trivial and disagree with each other on their opinions. Would it be pointless to attempt to convince them to divorce? Why or why not? Thanks.

My wife is really flat and very boring I recently met a really curvy woman with an exciting personality

Its a everyday struggle. He s always on his phone and no matter how many times I say it hurts my feelings he still ignores me for his stupid iPhone. I could be talking for 5 Minutes and he wouldn t hear a word I said. How do I get through to him? I m tried of being second to a hunk of metal. All day he s on his phone listening to videos loud af then at night the same thing. We hardly talk. He gets mad when I makes me upset but I d like to talk every once and a while. What do I do? Why is he always on his phone? I need advice or something. He makes me feel terrible.

I am married and it is my first and only marriage. On some form I am filling, it has this question: How many times have you been married? Would my answer be 1 or 0? I am little confused because it then asks if you've been married before, provide information about my prior spouse and etc. So if I say 1, then that basically says I've been married before, thus I need to provide my prior spouse info which I don't have. But then if I put 0, then that kind of says I've never been married so I am single now. Question should be more specific to include or exclude current marriage but it doesn't and it's very confusing... Should I answer 1 or 0? In addition to above, similarly, it is my spouse's 1st and only marriage. So when the form asks "how many times has your current spouse been married?", should the answer be 1 or 0?

We have been married two months so far and still have not consummated our marriage because when we come close to having sex she gets scared. She was severely abused growing up in a foster home, then even by her adoptive father. I am going to seek out a reputable counselor. I've never been in counseling; so, how do therapists help these situations? Also, in addition to counseling, what can I do to help? I am patient with her and show her love in all the other non-sexual ways I can. I ask her if she wants me to massage her instead or hold her. Now she's scared I'm going to get frustrated and rape her or leave her all together which devastated me. How can I help her associate sex with pleasure and love not pain and dominance? I'm not trolling and any rude answers will be reported. Don't say anything if you're going to be disrespectful!

This is both in movies/tv shows and in real life I noticed.

My father in law past away 3 weeks ago and my husband has become very distant with me and acts like I'm a stranger. I've been there for him and his family throughout this hard time. He would rather spend all his time with his friend or friends then sit down with me or his mom or siblings. It's come to a point where everyone has noticed his behavior towards me.. in the past 3 weeks I've barely had a chance to talk to him for no more then 5 to 10 minutes. Its really starting to effect our marriage. Is this normal behavior for some one who has lost a parent?

Because she doesn't have sex with me anymore, so I decided to go elsewhere. She's told me countless times she wants me happy so this is what I'm doing now so I doubt she'd care if I'm having sex with another woman. What do you think about this?

I just got home from taking my husband to work. Since I did not go in anyplace I drove in my bare feet and did not bring shoes with me.

My husband and I have been married for only a year and we are so disconnected passionally and emotionally. He can care less about what I do and he has no interest in me. I put a pass code on my phone just to see how he would react, he didn't care and in fact I told him the pass code. His response was "I don't care, you can have ur privacy." I had a gut feeling something is up. He mentioned a girl named Calorie accidentally too, he said I misunderstood what he said.

Last year had been rocky with us.. I got fed up with the daily arguments and left him and totally ignored his calls.. he tried reaching out to me but I just kept pushing him away. In oct, we reconnected and both agreed to confront past hurts..both cheated but it was more like a tit for tat kind of thing/revenge he claimed. He told me he forgive me but I don't feel that he does.. he's not the person I know anymore..a lot of manipulation mind games, said a lot of nasty things to each other, beat the crap out of each other, broken dreams and a lot of hurt feelings. 2 weeks been going good but feels like everything's broken. He doesn't open to me..I know there's something weighing in his head but every time I want to talk and spend time, we argue. It's almost awkward to hold and kiss each other now. I'm trying to make effort to work things out but he doesn't meet me half way. Feels like he doesn't love me anymore but won't let me go either. One min he's all lovey dovey with me and then cold the next. It's been like this since I came back and It's frustrating. I can't take this any longer. So, yesterday I tried opening him up again but he just won't open up so told him that I was done n that I was going to leave if there's no communication. He got angry and acted like a bull in a China shop and told me that if I leave again, he's gonna kill me because I broke his heart when I left. He started pouring out his heart and told me how it was like when I wasn't around. He was lost. Been good friends for 5 years and married for 5 years. high school lovers and when we met it felt like we knew each other.. we instantly connected and it was love at first sight. He was shocked by how shockingly beautiful I was and I literally had to picked my jaw off the floor the first time I saw him, I literally dropped my phone and wanted to rip his clothes off and throw him to the wall. The attraction between us is through the roof. Never faded but the feelings have. What to do?

It's been almost 3 years together. But we have known each other for 23 years now. The 1st year... we were happy. I caught him talking to other females but I stopped that. We got engaged. Got pregnant. But lost our daughter at 8 months. We tried again 2nd year. He held sex. We started fighting very often. And things changed. We were still planning a wedding but then he kept making excuses. Getting cold feet to the point that it caused more arguments and eventually he wedding got pushed way back. Now going on 3rd year. We have a beautiful girl 9 months now. He's in love with her. Attention however is limited between me and him. Fights still every week. No sex hardly. Maybe 1x a month to 2 months. No going out. Always excuses that we have a baby so we can't. He ignores me watching sports all the time. Spends lots of time on his phone otherwise. I cry daily almost and have been experiencing chest pains and anxiety from stress. I have a heart condition on top of that. I called him out last week when I told him he was not in love with me because the way he demands me to do things and treats me. And because I do so much for everyone in the house and his kids and his parents and I receive help from them but no appreciation or love from him. That's when he admitted to loving me but not being deep in love with me because he does not know love and is still hurt from his ex wife he divorced years ago and had been separated from for 10+ years. Who left him with 2 kids to raise. I hurt.