Family: Question: Whats the best way to tell my mother I am in love with my sister and we had sex.... I am 15 and my sister is 16.?

Question: Whats the best way to tell my mother I am in love with my sister and we had sex.... I am 15 and my sister is 16.?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 02:41 PM PST

Question: From moms. Help me please!?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 02:18 PM PST

I have two girls but i always feel doubtful when it comes to stuff about my youngest, a boy and I wanted opinions on this situation. My son is almost three and very.. rowdy. Cutest kid, but he's a little tornado. My girls are very calm and he gets on their nerves quite a bit. They're generally pretty patient though. The youngest of the girls, not quite six, was apparently taking the worst of the annoyance this time. While I was unloading groceries, he'd managed to get himself naked and running around the house. He was pulling on his sister's hair and wouldn't stop or leave her alone. It went on for a moment, but my hands were full and I could tell it wasn't anything too serious. Then I heard the wail and then thud. I came in to find my (totally naked—boys are something) son curled up on the ground holding his privates, face beet red, crying, couldn't stand up. His sister, apparently having had enough of him, kicked him in the balls. He's fine now thank god. I can't put the blame entirely on her, because frankly she knows I would want her to kick any boy in the nuts if he didn't leave her alone and bothered her. So where in the spectrum of "My toddler deserved to get kicked in the nuts" and "My daughter needs to be punished for kicking her brother" should this punishment or discussion fall, in your opinion? Also, is it supposed to hurt boys that much to get hit there? He was completely down for the count, and my daughter isn't a big girl. Is that the same for all boys?

Question: My mom just attacked me? I'm 15 years old.?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 02:01 PM PST

When she came in from work she got mad that there was some garbage in the front of the house and she attacked me like a ferocious animal. I never got any gots really except she grabbed my shirt by the collar really quick and it kinda burned my neck a bit so it hurts kinda. I'm 15 and I am very angry and I wanted to punch her lights out, but I don't wanna go to jail. She has anger problems but denies it by the way. I think I'm a little too old for her to be hitting me too what should I do? I'm not gonna call the cops or report her to anyone. I dunno why I'm even making this post I guess I just need someone to talk to. Any advice? this isn't the first time she's hurt me physically..and she's busted my head open once...

Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 01:43 PM PST

http://imgur.com/a/eot40

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 01:08 PM PST

I just got home from picking up my daughter at school. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace I drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

Question: Is it my fault if my computer gets broken on the couch because my sister jumped on it?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:59 PM PST

Question: Is mother as important as father in creation of baby or does the baby actually come from father?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:37 PM PST

My grandmother says that you are determined to have the father you have, because the baby comes from sperm, but if your father had another wife she would be the mother.

Question: I worte this prompt but I feel like I'm missinh some stuff can so,ebody fix this for me adding more words.?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:33 PM PST

Prompt #1 - 01/10/2017 : Write about something most people think is ugly and describe it from the point of view of someone who thinks it's beautiful they've caught first sight of it and they're enraptured. Most people think that baby tarsier are ugly, but when you see it from the point of view of someone who thinks it's beautiful, such as for their moms they are a gem. It doesn't matter how ugly they look to other for tarsier mom's their kids always looks what most important thing in the world. When the tarsier mother look at her babies she sees a the most precious beautiful things in the whole world because of her motherly love. She don't care how her baby looks she love it unconditionally because she gave birth to that. It doesn't matter to her what we see her children as all it matters is to her is her babies are healthy.

Question: I'm 18 years old, a guy and want a baby?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:20 PM PST

I have a job... and everything in order, but I want a family already? I don't know, I just really want a son or a daughter, maybe it's because all my family has started early.

Question: Emotional Abuse?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:18 PM PST

So my mom, she yells at me ALOT, for things i didnt do, for things my sister did, and for things i cant control. So she loves my sister more than me (dont tell me wrong because if you lived with my family, you would know) and she blames me for things that she does? She also doesnt believe a word i say, cause she thinks i lie all the time (i dont). When my teachers do cliche things like forget to give homework or forget to give report cards, she never believes me. When i talk, she doesnt believe me, when i shut up, she thinks im ignorant. I have insecurity and anxiety problems, and i think it came from her. She tries to scare me with all these stupid things, and says im not good enough, and calls me ugly and selfish, and told me i would never get married. She does this everyday, and i feel scared to go home from school because im afraid she might try to talk to me. She calls me stupid, rude, a liar, lazy at LEAST 5 times a day. Idont know what to do

Question: Why am I still being treated like a child?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:16 PM PST

I have three months left in high school, so yes I love with my parents. They regulate every little thing I do. They punish me the same way they did when I was a kid, set a bed time, take my phone, yell at me for the most trivial reasons, etc. In school, my teachers talk to me like I'm 5 years old. They don't let me drive by myself past 7 pm. Even though I'm allowed to drive whenever I want and do what I want. They still call my house to tell my parents if I'm late more than three times. In school, I got yelled at today because I had my backpack on my lap. Like what even.. my parents regulate everything I do. They're not allowing me to make my own decisions and I'm just so tired of being treated like a kid.. some 18 year old I am.

Question: How do you deal with your mother in law being biased towards her other grandchildren?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 11:21 AM PST

So my mother-in-law is very biased towards her first grandchild, who is born from her daughter. I understand that because they live close by, it's easier for them to make more memories. Obviously I love her too, she's a sweet girl and I don't want to be petty. But it is also apparent in gifts that she receives. It's difficult to explain to my kids why their cousin will get nearly twice or three times as many gifts as they do. They're starting to harbor resentments, and it's very difficult for me because I don't want them to think that way merely on presents.

Question: Why are dead family members treated as Godly and perfect?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 10:47 AM PST

My brother died when I was 7. He was 17 and from my mom's first marriage. I have heard stories about him that describe how he never had to be yelled at, how he was an expert at everything, how he had the kindest mannerisms, how holy he was, and my mother has a drawing of the angels welcoming him into heaven with Jesus above them smiling with his arms out. I agree he was a good person but perfect in everyday? My mother never yells so of course he was never yelled at. However I just learned 12 years after his death that he died going 50 miles an hour down a 25 mile an hour windy road. He had alcohol in the car though wasn't drunk. I also learned how he would easily fall for doing what the crowd was doing good or bad. He also hated being told when to do his homework and acted silly in class though due to ADHD so maybe not his fault. So he was good but not Godly. Why then do almost everyone enlarge him in death beyond what he was in life? Why is he considered divine instead of just good?

Question: My uncle and his son are alone all day everyday. Is this healthy as they do get along just fine?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 10:31 AM PST

Absent five or six family events a year and church on Sunday they apparently stay home by themselves all day. The son is tutored for school by the father and neither socializes outside family. The son is eleven. The son has learning disabilities and anxiety but is not low functioning or anything. The father is very similar and they both are real close (the son is an easy kid). So is this healthy or is my mother right to critique it? The uncle's wife died 3 years ago.

Question: Is this rude to my mother?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 10:00 AM PST

At 16, If I decide to get a job and buy and pay for my own phone bill since my mom doesn't want me to have a smart phone, is that seen as disrespectful or disobedient?

Question: Brothers girlfriends child always makes comments. (its embaressing )?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 09:16 AM PST

My brother lives with my fiance ,and I and our children. His girlfriend as the a kid, and our kids are around the same age so they always play together. Here is the thing.. I always dread when she come over because her 4 year old always says thing like Why is the house to messy! Then she goes up my bother and said you need to clean. It really bothers me! According to my bother her house gets messy too, but its a lot neater then ours.

Question: My father and mother is half?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 09:13 AM PST

My father and mother is half chinese and indonesian. So I'm half too or 1/4 or what?

Question: Lazy ADULTS refuse to get a job by walking 30 miles a day. I have been trying to make them move out for 7 years?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 08:48 AM PST

They are 17 and 18. I took them out of school in 8th grade, I was going to homeschool them but never did. They have never done any high school grades. They refuse to get a job because we live in the south and the closest jobs are 15 miles away in the city they refuse to walk 15 miles to a job and 15 miles back home. They have no money or bikes. I have never gotten them a learners permit, a license or a car. I have not gotten them driving lessons or taught them how to drive. We do not have public transportation where we live in the south. I am 53 my parents got me driving lessons at 17 and 18 but I refuse to do the same for my kids. I also refuse and do not want to drive them to get a job. Why are they so messed up?

Question: My brother physically abuses me! HELP!?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 08:30 AM PST

My 7 year old brother abuses me. Yes i know, your already writing stupid comments, just let me explain. he does this alot, but today we got into a fight. he was playing music very loud and told him to turn it lower. My mom was at work and i was in charge btw. he told me "Shut up" so i tried grabbing it. he started kicking me, scratching me, punching me, biting me, calling me a '*****' and '********'. he does this often....and i dont know what to do. he hurts me so much that i want to kill myself. yes, i do have a therapist. please dont comment down funny/unhelpful things. just..help

Question: I have been trying to get family members to leave my house for 13 years. They refuse to?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 08:13 AM PST

I have been beating them for 13 years. Why do some family members and parents still consider someone that is 18, their kid? I am in my 50s. I do not consider myself a parent anymore since my kids are 17 and 18. They still live with me and their mother as I have not helped them before they turned 17 and 18. Tried home schooling them, but it was too hard I had to stop as work was more important and I had to go. Never taught them how to cook never taught them how to drive. That is not my responsibility anymore. Do you agree?

Question: My mom's cousin left his wife and caused a messy divorce. His son recently overdosed and died. Did he cause this?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 07:59 AM PST

I know he caused the divorce in 2001 but with the domino effect of events that this cause the sun to become a drug attic and I at age 28 last weekend?

Question: My sister is a cruel person. How can I make sure other see this also so they won't be around her?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 07:58 AM PST

I don't want to be caught gossiping but I want others to see how bad she has so they won't be around her and she'll be left alone.

Question: Mom has been going in my room and selling my things, and now she stole my tax refund?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 07:33 AM PST

Alright so here s the backstory first: My mom and I had gotten in a big fight a month ago so i decided to move in with my boyfriend s parent s and live there with him. I recently had a meeting due to my excessive absences at school (I m 17 and a senior in high school) and I signed a contract saying I will live at my mom s house, be to school on time, stay at school, etc. But ever since I moved back in (4 days ago) my mom has sold my ps4 (in which my dad bought and doesnt wish to make a theft report over), thrown away things in my room, and now I found out this morning that she has stolen my tax refund and is playing dumb as to where it is! Can i report her or am I helpless since I m only 17 and living in her house?

Question: I am not going to see my mother she is cheating on me because she's not the mother of me?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 07:09 AM PST

Is this the normal reaction to her cheating?

Question: How do I get family to like me as I am nice but not perfect?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 07:05 AM PST

Question: When is it ok for a young adult to live at home?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 06:44 AM PST

Question: My mom is giving me details of her brother's sex life. How do I avoid him finding out that I know?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 06:41 AM PST

My mom is mad at her brother and she is a dirty gossip which is mad at someone

Question: Did you know that Trump has a sister ,who is older than him? By the way, he does not have a brother.?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 06:02 AM PST

TRUMP DOES NOT HAVE OR HAD A BROTHER. HE DOES ,HOWEVER HAS A SISTER! WHAT IS THE PROBLEM.

Question: How can I tell my mom that I will be admitted to the hospital? scared please help?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 05:26 AM PST

long story short I have pneumonia on top my asthma which is not good. I was already on 2 antibiotics and steroids an cough meds for it and nothing was helping, so yesterday was follow up with my doc and all he id was give me more antibiotics and new cough meds as I still have pneumonia, well cough med is not covered and I will not pay another one and last night I got worse was throwing up from coughing, so I messaged my doc to say all of that and to ask if I should be in the hospital. so if I get put into the hospital that poses a problem as my mom will have to take me there 2night as my friends are busy. but main problem is my mom 1 has no idea I am sick at all(she does not sense it and even if she did she would not care) 2 when I need to go to the ER for my cough and asthma she will refuse to take me telling me I do not need to go at all, so I have to fight her to take me then she wants to take me to hospital of her choice and not the one I want to go to. 3. if she knows I am sick she will think I am better in a day or 2 and will always say that I am not as sick as I say I am- 4. I told her once that my docs office said go to urgent care on weekend for earache and she said ok but never took me so it is hard for me to tell her that I will be admitted to the hospital. so if I do get admitted to the hospital how can I tell my mom so that she will take me to the hospital that my doc wants me to be in? if I tell her that my doc wants me admitted to his hospital she will get pissed as it is 10-15 minutes farther then the hospital she likes to take me to and she will be pissed that she has to drive the extra distance.

Question: Please help. I'm frustrated...what should I do?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 04:53 AM PST

I'm 22 years old who is trying my best to leave from my mother. I have a job but school isn't work out at the moment. I'm trying my best to look for another job. The huge problem is that my mother's partner is always trying to help when I NEVER ask for help. I don't even want her help. If I want help, I would want from my own mother(they're not even married). Smh I don't even like her personality. My siblings WILL agree too but my mother's partner is way too controlling and she is very manipulative. We don't understand why our mother is still with her but her partner isn't right in the head. People who have met her like my friends would agree also. What should I do or say to get my mother's partner to not interfere with me and my life. It really sucks. It is hell. No I'm not being over dramatic :( please advice.

Question: My own father thinks I'm a spoiled brat!?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 04:44 AM PST

My dad owns a company, so it's needless to say that I'm not wanting for money. However, I think I'm far from a spoiled brat. I also have a lot more problems than normal people: if I don't get into Darmouth (the college he went to), my dad will disown me. He literally told that to my face. He expects me to be a mini-him: go to Dartmouth, take over the business, marry, and procreate. Then the cycle would start all over again. However, I've always to do something bigger, something which includes mutlipe fields, not just business administration. I've already started it, and here's how: I look for all the big contests in our state, mostly stuff like robotics, coding, et cetera. I offer to find the winner's next project or help them pay for college or something as long as they give me a prototype of whatever they're working on and keep me updated on whatever's going on on their field. So far, I've gotten a robotics, writing, and a programming guy. I know that if they continue the way they are now, they will eventually make enough money that they won't need my funding anymore, but I can get a lot of good stuff out of them first,some of which I've already sold. I can make a lot of money from this. However, to bribe them, I first need my dad's money. He seems to think I'm actually using this money on digs,even though I explain to him every time. Hejust doesn't listen. How can I make him believe me?

Question: What should I do about my family?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 04:08 AM PST

I help my mom who is handicap. She had both legs amputated and is now on dialysis. Sadly, she has a very negative attitude about life, because of her health. There are moments of happiness, but she can change on a dime. She likes to see people feud/argue, like soap opera. She was that way before she lost her legs. Summed up, she isn't a nice person, especially when she things it benefits her. I am concerned. I think she tells people that me and my dad are mean to her. Other members of her family act the same way she does. They are gossipers and God knows what they have said. What would you do if you were in my situation?

Question: I took a crap on my child?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 03:39 AM PST

My child was being a little a*shole to my mother so I took her up to my room and I threw her on the bed and I chained her up and I s*** on her face and this time my s*** was slimy green and string of hair was in it I do not know why but I made my daughter Maxine slurp and slobber and gargle the poop liquid..was I right for doing this she was crying?

Question: Am I wrong for keeping my baby away from his father?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 03:20 AM PST

My child's father will not help me out with the baby. We are separated and he is not on child's support. He told me will not help me out with anything because we are not together and he feels when the baby is with me i should do what I have to do to provide for him (which I do) and when the baby is with him he will get him what he needs but not share anything. He also told me that he doesn't have to have zero respect for me and never has to speak to me again because he hates me. Everytime i call about his son he calls me out my name, he tells me how much he hates me and etc. He never calls and asks how the baby is doing etc but constantly tells me not to call him, so when I don't call him he says I'm keeping the baby away? He's mentally abusive and I do not want to keep my child away but the disrespect is horrible and I try to ignore what he says but it seems like he's taking the hatred he has on me on his child. Idk, what do you guys think?

Question: My Mom is feeling old as her mother died last year and my Mom is turning 50 Sunday. Should I cheer her up by getting her a burial plot?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 01:46 AM PST

Question: When my brother is mean to me I want to call the police but can they do anything to someone for being mean?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 01:40 AM PST

He is not violent. I am 13 and he is 16. Our mother won't do anything about it and our Dad stopped loving us long ago and left. He is a bully just because I am a girl.

Question: How do I get my mother to stop insulting my Dad to me (they divorced two years ago)?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:53 AM PST

It makes me feel shame. Asking her not to hasn't worked. She says I need to know the truth,

Question: Sister caught me wacking off?

Posted: 16 Feb 2017 12:43 AM PST

She was 17 and I was 16. So I was in my room masturbating and then my sister walked in to give me the phone. When she saw me. And looked happy and curious. I want to ask her about it?

Question: Am i ovr exaggerating or no? (teen moms only)?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 11:07 PM PST

Please no negative comments! So im 17 currently pregnant from my 18 year okd bf been together for 3 years now. His parents live in tijuana and we kive in san diego with my parents we go visit his family every weekend since thats the only time he sees them this weekend i wanna go over to tecate another part in baja california the thing is he wants to go see his parents nothing weong with that i just think its unfair how he thinks i should go and he should go with his parents i just feel like he hasent really understood that now that im pregnant he needs to understand we habe to make decisions together. also his mom kindu banys him ALOT and hes not an only child or the youngest. help please

Question: Need advice? I think im getting abused idk :'(?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 10:54 PM PST

My mom recently had an episode where she was out of kept repeating herself etc. And they said she was depressed and living in a hostile environment. And i live with her. And she finally got out. But my dad keeps yelling at me worse. And telling me what to do. I went to work and the ppl there are treating me badly too. I'm either going to transfer or quit. But anyway I started crying at work and they yelled at me cause i was unloading too much work for them even tho i was going to help. they wouldn't stop yelling. anyways they wouldnt let me take my lunch at the time i wanted to i had to depend on them. and i hadn't taken my first break either. but someone let me take it to be nice. but i called my mom up told her how they were treating me she said you might be feeling this way cause dads treating you badly went back in all i heard when they were yelling at me was my dad yelling at me. and i cried in front of four or five ppl and i just don't know what to do. Can't go into too much detail about work but to keep it short i need to stand up for myself but cant and i tried several times and they are not treating me right in there so im transferin or quitin. but today i am at home and i asked my dad to get me a drink he told me to get it mydamn self and iwasnt feeling well so i asked my mom and he told my mom not to do a damn thing for her lazy *** make her get it herself and then he started yelling at me ten minutes straight.he has high blood pressurei cant sleep anymore

Question: I feel bad and scared, please read and answer?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:11 PM PST

I'm a 17 year old girl, when I was like 9 I used to make believe I was breastfeeding my little sister because I would see my mom do it and I always play make believe mommy, then when I was like 11/12 or even 14 I remember rubbing my little sister over her diaper really fast, there was another time but I really can't remember, if I change her diaper and while I was wiping her if I rub with the wipe to see what happens, or whatever its all ver blurry to me.Plus I remember a few times touching myself under the covers near her. I'm completely different now I really do make sure she stays outta trouble and I try to be the best sister but when I think back I feel like throwing up I feel horrible, could I go to jail for something like this? I do believe she doesn't remember at all and I do not know where my mind was at, I was molested when younger so maybe at the time I thought it wasn't such a bad thing

Question: Brother chooses friends over family?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 08:53 PM PST

I've never been close to my brother, I barely know him. He's 30 yrs old so we're 11 yrs apart and been absent from my life for a long time. He smokes pot, parties 24/7, was almost homeless living in Oahu getting a new job every month, moving from a friend's house to another and in college for 12 yrs without a degree. He never wanted to leave due to his friends being there til we recently got him to come back home to get back on his feet. He lives with my mom w/out a job, doesn't pay or clean anything taking her car at night to go out. Last night our uncle was dying and he was out with friends, my mom was home alone and I was in school an hour away. Everyone was trying to contact him through calls and text to see where he was which he texted back saying he was with friends and texted him that our uncle was dying and to go home to comfort my mom which he never responded after that text nor answered the calls basically ignored everyone. I wasn't told what happened but rushed home after being told to immediately go home and as soon as I arrived my mom was alone crying. She told me the situation of my uncle dying from a heart attack and I gave her comfort. My brother didn't come home till 3am the next morning. Never asked if my mom was okay and ignored the situation. I confronted him about it today he shrugged and gave an "I don't care" attitude about my mom crying and not being around. He even told me, "what? Am I supposed to drop everything and make her stop crying about it?"

Question: My dad is scaring me. What should I do?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 08:46 PM PST

I m a 17 year old girl and I live with my mom and dad. My dad has always had a temper problem but I never really paid attention to it until now. A few days ago, I was sleeping and I woke up to hear my parents arguing. I didn t get up until I heard papers being thrown so me and my younger sister who is 14 got out of bed (we share rooms) and ran in their room. When we ran in, I saw my dad with his fist balled up as if he was going to hit my mom, so me and my sister both intervened and stood between them begging them to stop but of course they kept on yelling. They kept on trying to push us out of the way but we wouldn t budge. My mom eventually left and went to work and my dad left about 30 minutes after her. Once I got home from school and I saw my mom, and I asked her what happened and she said that my dad tried to take some files put of my mom s hands so she pushed him and he pushed her and my mom started kicking him and that s when we ran in to see his fists balled up. When my dad got home, he acted as if nothing happened so we did the same. Then another day that same week, my dad told me to clean some poop up from my dog so I said okay. Then before I was going to clean it up, I decided to make my smoothie so I would already have it made before. He basically got really mad and when I was trying to blend my smoothie, he took the blender and snatched it from me and threw it on the ground. This made me furious so I yelled at him and called him crazy.

Question: Should I seek out biological father?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 08:33 PM PST

My mother raised me thinking the hot tempered alcoholic man she was married to when I was born was my and my brother's dad. Years later she confessed he was not his. I never felt close to him or his side of the family. I looked nothing like them. A few years ago at a funeral a family member asked me about my real father and if he was there. After investigating I found out someone else was my father. He is a successful lawyer and I asked him if he was my dad. He said he believed so but the conversation was short as I needed to know and if there were any medical issues I should know of & that is all I could think to ask. I felt somewhat in shock at all this. My mother confessed he was then refused to discuss it. I was raised by her and my grandfather (now passed) and it feels like I am dishonoring him by seeking out a dad when he filled that role for me. My husband thinks it would be good for me to have a relationship and our kids too but since my other "dad" would be devastated both his kids aren't his we haven't told him & afraid if the kids know their bio grandpa then the other will find out and the rest of the family too the situation and create tons of drama since only we, my mom, him, and a distance relative know the truth. Worried about opening this can of worms and what if the kids want to know him and we never get close and how that might hurt them too. What would you do? The parentage of this other man is not in question because both he and my mom said he is my bio dad. He said she disappeared when he asked to be a part of my life & she admitted that because she was married to a man hardly home with big pay and he had just finished law school. The question is whether or not to open this can of worms by starting a relationship with himself and my family after 39 years. I don't want drama or to hurt the man that thinks he is my dad.

Question: I am 12 year old furry but I dont know how to explain it to my mum?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 07:27 PM PST

That question is kind of self-explanatory. My mum knows what a furry is and she finds them kind of weird. My stepmum already knows about me being a furry and she is fine with it but... My family is already weird and I don t know what she ll say. I am exteremely worried and do not know what to do. Please help

Question: Since my Dad is an alcoholic what do I say when my relatives on my Mom's side of the family ask about it?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 07:22 PM PST

Should I be honest or should I just say "oh he is fine" or "that is just something little"?

Question: Working Mom and Family?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:59 PM PST

My son is now 10 months and 2 weeks. I work full time in inside sales and my mom agreed to watch my son, with a small compensation for her time. Recently mom and dad have been having marital issues, my mom found out my dad was cheating after over 35 years of marriage. Obviously, that has affected her tremendously. The problem I'm having is my dad travels for work and now in light of what happened, every time he leaves my mom just ups and goes. The first time she told me oh your neices will be there, but they're teens and should not be left alone with a baby. This time my mom said oh ask for the days off. I've tried to communicate with her and even asked her very straightforward if she needed time I'd find a babysitter. She blew up at me told me I was selfish and didn't understand stand her. To do what I wanted. I'm torn I need some advice... Why would you do... I'm afraid this is going to keep happening and I can't just drop everything every time my mom leaves. I've asked I just don't know. And this frustrates me soooo much!

Question: My mom is ruining my life and i don't know how to get away from her?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:55 PM PST

I really don't know what to do anymore. My mom controls me everywhere. Im in my first year of college and she wants to know everything, she says i should call her when i get to school. I have to get home by the time she says, if i come 15 minutes late she starts asking who i was with, where i was what i was doing. She says i have to find my own job because she can't pay for me and yet she wants me to not go anywhere. She says i have to do everything she asks me to because i live in her house. I've been looking for a job but i haven't found anything. She's a f*cking psycho, i don't even smoke or drink or go out and yet she accuses me for being a w*ore. All i do is cry when i get home, i just want to get away from her.

Question: Is there some good about having an annoying little sister?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:28 PM PST

I have a younger sister who is very immature and annoying. She always trys to make fun of me and bring me down in anyway possible. She will do things such as blame me for stuff I didnt do, call me names, and claim she has better grades than me and says im dumb because I have worse grades than her but im in 10th grd. Not 8th grd. She expects me and my family to kiss her butt after all this and not react to her rude acts. I see all the bad in this. But in the long run could this help me? Because if you think about I could be used to this so in places like work I dont have a bad temper. Or all of this could go negative and I could just become too stressed and turn to drugs and alc. What do you say?

Question: Mom keeps making me late for school and I'm getting in trouble?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:27 PM PST

Mom insists I ride with her to school - she says she's taking me in so I don't need to ride the bus. The trouble is she's never ready in time. I'll be ready and she'll be just starting to get dressed and do her hair. I've tried to remind her earlier but she just yells at me and tells me she's the mom and she doesn't need me checking up on her. I'm getting detention at school for being late but it's not my fault - I'll get in trouble at home if I try to take the bus or push mom to get ready earlier, and I'll get in trouble at school if I keep being late. What do I do? The trouble is if I take the bus without her permission I'm going to get grounded at home for "sneaking out" and "going behind her back." If I even hint that she's making me late she gets mad at me and tells me that she's doing me a favor taking me to school and I'm so ungrateful and she's the mother, not me, so I don't get to tell her what to do. She's completely in denial too - to listen to her talk she's only a few minutes late once in a while, so it's no big deal.

Question: My sister's attitude!?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 05:55 PM PST

My sister (17) hit me in the hallway and so I hit her back (I'm 14). She cursed at me calling me an ***, so I called her a son of a *****. My mom's angry at ME because I'm a male and my sister's a FEMALE. My sister left and took her car. What am I supposed to do? She could be going to the Police Department for all I know!

Question: What will happen if a 17 year old runs away from home in South Carolina?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 05:10 PM PST

Do the cops have the right to pick the 17 year old and take them home even if the 17 year old says they do not want to go home?

Question: My aunt tells me my Dad (her brother-in-law) is an arrogant person. Is this rude to tell the person's child (adult child)?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:31 PM PST

I find it rude she is telling me this, He is arrogant but I feel bad listening to insults about a parent of mine. So am I right this is rude or am I being too sensitive since she is not lying? Another aunt (her sister) does the same thing about my Mom but not as often and not recently. These are my Mom's sisters.

Question: How do I make a good relationship with someone I currently don't have a good relationship with?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:23 PM PST

My mother I have a bad relationship with because when I was growing up she used me as a sounding board about her divorce. She would tell me things like that my Dad left "us" when she was the one to file for divorce. Also had he left her it would be her and not me. She expected me to be 100 percent on her side and unite with her against my Dad. As a teen I got close to my Dad and now feel guilt that I let my Mom damage the relationship for 7 years. My mother still tried to use me as a sounding board and it triggers the shame that I participated in it as a kid. However, my mother is not an evil person. I would like to be close to her and I am not though I see her once a month. I don't trust her and have anger towards her. So how do we get close to someone we are not close to? I am also am not close to my sister. She is from my mother's 2nd marriage and a lot younger. She is bratty and immature (age 20). My other siblings I get along fine with. ANY THOUGHTS?

Question: Which is better Little Brother and Big Sister or Little Sister and Big Brother?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:22 PM PST

Question: How can I get my mom to let me travel to see my family?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:15 PM PST

Hi, I'm 15 have a Spanish background. Mom is from the latin America. She has 3 sisters and 1 brother who currently live in Spain. The summer of 2016, my cousin came to visit u in the States (I live in New York fyi) to learn English. (She failed her English course and my aunt sent her to get help.) I speak fluent Spanish so I always communicated with my cuz through Spanish. She's really funny and cool. We had an amazing summer together and I miss her a lot. We talk everyday through whats app and skype but I still wish to c her again. I told my mom "if I was to save enough money, would u let me go to Spain to visit my family?" and she said no. I've met my other cousins and Aunts and Uncle through my cousin as she's close to them. (Ovi since they live in the same country and are only a car ride away from each other. Anyways I always say I want to meet everyone and my cousins and I love each other. I'm not so close to my Aunts and Uncle but I;d love to (if I could meet them.) My mom talks to my grandpa (who everyone hates) and she's renovating the family home which my entire family got triggered about. My mom keeps saying "no" b/c everyone is mean to her about this drama and she doesn't think I'd b okay with them. Trust me, my cousins love me, we're all friends. My aunts and uncles have no attention towards me but I'd love to b on the good side. I talked with them on skype and they like me but I'd want to meet them in person. Any advice on my mom to let me go?

Question: My step dad left my mom and she doesn't know, what do I do? How do I tell her?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:12 PM PST

My step dad and mom have been together for 9 years, we have maintained a strong relationship throughout all these years and the last few months my mom has been ignoring my step dad and even changed her Facebook name back to her ex husbands last name, (they aren't actually married I call my step dad my step dad even though it's my mom's boyfriend) my mom says it's nothing to worry about they are just having their adult arguments and today I came home and his area near the computer is completely clean and it might look like he cleaned but everything of his is gone, all his clothes in his room is gone, everything is gone and my mom doesn't know. What do I do? Do I tell my mother do? How do I comfort myself mentally and emotionally?

Question: I burned my parents house down by accident and they come back from Hawaii Sunday, should I tell them before they come home?

Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:09 PM PST

I am adopted and had hoped to meet my birthparents but they declined a meeting. My birthfather did not respond to repeated letters and my birthmother sent a letter stating she wished not to be contacted and wishes me the best. So I am 20 and I decided to burn their photos. I did so but the fire I started spread. I panicked and ran to get my sister alerted there was a fire which I now regret doing because if she had died then my parents would be too upset to be mad at me. The house is gutted, everything gone, and all three dogs died as well as a firefighter died. My parents know nothing since we left it off our facebook and they haven't called. They are out of town so didn't watch it on the news. So should I tell them before they come home or just wait until my sister picks them up and have her tell them? It was an accident so I am not charged with anything so I guess it is no big deal but my parents tend to overreact so I assume they will. My Mom is still over-reacting about my brother's death last year so if that upset her so much then this likely will (my brother was annoying and autistic).