I understand that every parent disciplines their teen and I am no different, however, I feel that my mom goes too far when she disciplines me. For example, she and I got into an argument, and I went to my room and locked my door. So, she got mad at me because I locked my door (that's what she told me) and she sold my car. Other times, she'll get mad at me for talking back and she won't feed me. I've been quiet my whole life (I'm 18), so what am I supposed to do? Sit there and let my mom cuss me out? Or express my feelings? When I do "talk back" aka express my feelings (I don't yell back or cuss back at my mom), she gets mad and tells me that I'm being disobedient and that God will not bless me.

Okay, so I honestly don't think my anger is that serious but its greater than normal. Im 16 and I just seriously yelled at my 9 year old brother and I was just being incredibly loud and shoutint in his face to the point where he was on the ground in a fetal position. And I feel horrible now. But he just made me so mad I couldn't control my anger. He threw my laptop on my floor because he couldnt play games (He already added a virus into my laptop by downloading 'free games'), he litterally stomped on me and called me bad things. And then my mom comes and tries to make a joke out of it which makes me more mad. I basically scream in his face telling him hes a dumbass and that no one has his phone. Hes the one who lost it. And yet, my mom takes my brothers side when she didnt even give me a chance to speak. I dont know why I'm like this I am so mad, but sad at the time. I dont know what's wrong with me?

My mom won't let me wear leggings (the normal black ones), yoga pants, or shorts(if they're above the knee). She thinks that those types of clothing are immodest and not "Christian" like. This makes me so mad because it's not like I wear "slutty" clothing, I wear what's comfortable. For example, today I wore black leggings and an oversized sweater, and my mom got mad at me because I was wearing leggings. So I told her that she can't control what I wear and she got mad at me and told me to get out and that she won't feed me any food. Then she tells me that I will pay for my sins. Anyway, she even gets mad at me when I wear shorts around the house, but why can't I be comfortable in my own house? It's just the two of us. Anyway, I'm really sick of my mom's controlling behavior, that's why my dad left. I don't know what to do. I'm graduating high school in 120 days, and she's pushing me away from her.

He flips out over the stupidest things, then says something very un called for and then never apologizes for it. I don t think he realizes how much anger I have built up ready to unleash on him. Just last night I went to wal mart around 10pm to literally buy printing paper for my printer because I had to get an essay printer for my college course. He calls me and says "where the f*ck are you going" I said "to wal mart dad I need paper for the printer" then he says "what the **** cabron why didn t you do that a different time are you ******* drinking" then I said "dad I didn t know I wasn t going to have enough paper to finish my essay and no I m not drinking" then he said "**** you". At that point he hung up. I want to choke the sh*t out of him and yell "f*ck you" straight to his face over and over and ask him what it feels like and make him answer me. I m 22 and I shouldn t feel this way towards my father but this is how I feel because he is so god damn wrong like he doesn t even admit it. We don t even have a relationship at all. Same with my brother who is a year younger than me. My dad is 60 by the way and he has done a lot for us but I swear I feel like I don t even have a dad sometimes because he doesn t act like a friend to me. He doesn t talk to me at all he just thinks he s right all the time and doesn t ever listen to us and doesn t even conversate with me. Also I want to confront him about his behavior but I don't wanna cause a fight

My sister is freaking out because she has to a do a report for school on the human body. She said her teacher told them to watch videos of bodies decomposition. She doesn't want to. Shes afraid of bones and skeletons. Shes seen enough of it when she was little. She would watch that show Skeleton Stories every weekend it sca red her to death she wishes she hadn't watched it. She would have nightmares about skeletons coming out and attacking her. She was gonna tell her teacher this fear but she was too embarrassed she thinks she's the only person with this fear. She has to have it done by Friday she has to watch videos or she'll fail. She doesnt like learning or seeing this suff. She cant even look at animal bones without being scared. Shes worried she'll have nightmares again. Shes very upset right now. How can I calm her down ?

For two days we thought she'd died.

I met him a few times and the funeral is Saturday and so it will not interfere with my work schedule. He was not real close to us or anything as him and his brother (my maternal grandfather) died not get along. My mother was furious the two times she knows of me having met him and been my nice self. She says he betrayed our grandfather and he and his family are our enemies. She refused to speak to him or any of his children as she says they are all a bad family (his children were little at the time of the dispute and are actually delightful). The great-uncle I think was slick and maybe not the most honest but his children are wonderful based on the times I have met them. Also my mother died of cancer last year so she will not be here to issue her wrath. She was strange about forbidding contact with her enemies (she had many sadly). So my Dad said it is fine and I am an adult but I am wondering would this be rude? Would it be in bad taste since my grandfather is deceased also? I really liked this fellows kids and so I thought they'd appreciate it and my Mom's siblings are not in the area so I doubt they will be there (plus they share her deep hatred for this man). My grandfather was forgiving so I don't think he would have minded. Any thoughts? I just don't want to be rude either way as it is a funeral for someone I know a little but am not close to.

The reason they don't like me is that a much higher standard is put on me since they don't like my Mom for understandable reasons. Thus if I am exceptional they will like me but my flaws will not be forgiven like they would be if I was someone else's kid (minor flaws with mine being how my etiquette was 15 years ago when manic). My mother is the same way. Her mother had two sibling she was on cold terms with and thus years later my mother wants nothing to do with those uncles' children. So how do I get family to like me? I have no Dad so my mother's family is important to me. Many don't like me because I am my mother's offspring when otherwise my etiquette quirks from 15 years ago would long be forgotten (I don't do the stuff now). I have anxiety problems so when college age I got manic for a period of time (maybe some Bipolar). I am anxious still but not manic or intrusive anymore.

She is really awful all around because of her divorce so how can I divorce her? She divorced my Dad since they did not be able to find a way to get along and I can't find a way to get along with my Mom so I want to divorce her forever. How do I?

I feel like I didn't help him enough

They are in a trial seperation.

I'm 23 and living at home still. I never had a rebellious phase growing up. My parents were always proud of me and I felt like I was a light in their life by my academic accomplishments and talents. I got accepted to medical school and commute from home. They don't support my relationship with my boyfriend of three years, they are suffocating me, and they treat me like I'm eight years old. My younger sister by three years, on the other hand, went away to college. She gets her spring break paid for, her study abroad to Australia paid for, and obviously parties with her friends way more than I ever have (which I'm not condemning at all). While I'm happy for her, I alternately, am constantly interrogated about my whereabouts, shamed when I leave the house to go out with friends or especially my boyfriend, and was torn apart by them when I said that I'd like to go for ONE night (with my own money) to chicago with my boyfriend. I'm also not allowed to sleep over at his house ever. After that rift over traveling to chicago, and their massive overreaction, I feel like I'm done putting in the effort to maintain a good relationship with them. They act like everything is okay but I hate talking to them, hate when they come to my room, I hate listening to them, and I can't look them in the eyes anymore. I hate knowing that I will never live up to their expectations of me because I can't do so many things right in their eyes. I don't know what to do. I can't work since I'm in school and have no source of income aside from the money I saved up before starting medical school. I was referring more to what should I do about/concerning my parents.

I seriously don't now what to do. I recently moved back in with my mom and I have noticed she is sleeping a lot during the day and also, like everyone else, at night. The house became so dirty that I, a lazy 14-year-old teenager who wants nothing to do but stay in his room all day and play video games, decided to tidy up the house. I didn't just pick up things and hoover, oh no, I mopped the floors, polished the furniture and, yes even I am shocked to say this, cleaned the bathroom! Only today did I complete tidying and cleaning the kitchen whilst my mom sleeps. The only time my mom is awake is when she works, and most days she doesn't even go to work so she can stay at home and sleep. My mom is severally depressed and has a few other mental health issues. I have mental health issues myself and I am really struggling at the moment. Another thing my mom does is cancel appointments, but still tell her work that she is still going, so she can just go home and sleep instead. My mother is a wonderful mother when she is happy and always is polite, understanding and puts herself before others. But sometimes she changes for short periods, and those periods have extended to large lengths of time, stretching to months in a row without being herself. I have tried my best to speak to her, even asking about her medication, which I fear she may have stopped taking! I am getting having to cook for my brothers, any suggestions? My mother can be aggressive at times and shout very loud insults. In the past, she has threatened to 'knock me out' and 'punch me in the face'. I know it's not her and I want my mom to come back. My mom's mental health issues are; depression, social anxiety and bipolar disorder. (Possible a few others I am unaware about) She has medication, but at times stop taking it. Once she stops taking it, it's very hard to get her to take it again.

I am an adult but my father controls his adult children with an iron fist. For example we cannot leave the town we all live in 10 minutes from each other and we must get together once or twice a week. Some of it is fine but like at Christmas I was in deep sh.. for trying to see my cousins whose father my Dad refuses to speak to and bans us from speaking to (my mother's brother). This is due to a financial fight 10 years ago and also personality conflicts. I don't think the children should be punished and I have no problem with this uncle and certainly not his 5 kids (my cousins). So Christmas I tried to leave for a few hours, not saying where I was going, and my father saw through to it and blocked my car in. I started to object and he began to get mad as did my Mom and I just backed off and submitted like a small child. How do I get my Dad to see I AM 30 and not 6? He gives us lots of money but I think this might be a control thing. My brother wanted to move when he got married and got hell for it so he backed off. I also can't travel in the summer unless it is with my family (parents and siblings) without being shouted at. How do I get past this? I don't want to cut ties with the family and my father and mother cut ties with people over little things. Like my Mom's brother they hate is because he did not explicitly follow every detail of the letter to his father's will so they saw it as him being a traitor. Otherwise he is fine. How do i get past this without losing the whole family?

She hates her son because he is close to his father (her ex-husband) whereas she loves her two daughters because they share her hatred for their Dad. My aunt cuts her son down constantly (he is 23) and wouldn't even let him at Christmas. So when I see her with my Mom (her sister) and she begins to tell me how awful her son has become how can I divert the topic? I love her but think she is being cruel to her son. Her rule is my enemy must be your enemy if you want to be on my good side. My mother says she is a narcissist.

So my dad brought me into this business venture he and my brother are working on, basically to provide technical expertise and support for video work. It's a pretty sweet job and I'm really excited about the things we're doing, but my dad and I have two very different communication styles. I am very to-the-point when I talk with people. I state my point, and then I provide details that provide relevant information to the person. My dad likes to paint a picture for the person he's talking to. He includes a ton of details painting the picture and then he'll say what he needs from the person. Here's an example of what I mean: Me: I'm looking for 20 ft of stereo speaker wire that I could run through my basement walls for a home theater that I'm building. I have a Samsung Amp and Bose speakers, in case that makes any difference. My dad: I'm working on this home theater in my basement. It's gotta be done in a few days because my nephew is gonna staying with us for a few weeks and I want to watch movies with him. I'm looking for stereo speaker wire, such that I can cut a 20 ft length between a Samsung Amplifier and Bose speakers for my surround sound system. Today on a phone call I was kind of rude and I cut my dad off mid-sentence and just told the woman what we were looking for. He was kind of miffed that I did that. I'm sorry that I was rude and cut him off, but there was just something about the way the woman was saying "yeah, uh huh..." that just made me feel uneasy. So my question is simply this; what are some ways that I can work with my dad on this? These stories that he likes to tell can go on for a really really really long time because he likes to put all theses little flourishes, and there have been many instances where the person he's talking to simply has no clue what he is asking for. TLDR: my dad doesn't communicate clearly, but I do. I overstepped my bounds and was rude to him this morning. How can I find an efficient solution to the problem?

I have a female family member who is very deceitful..she has a sexually transmitted disease that cannot be cured. Its not hiv it is something else still bad though she gave it to her kids dad and they broke up. Now she lost weight and she's all over social media getting attention from men she is lying about everything on her profiles from what i read but she also has a disease she cannot get rid of. Would i be wrong to message some of the men who are on her social media pages and let them know or just let her continue to spread her disease? What would you do?

This is the first time I met him, IDK how old he is. Maybe he is in 40s, 30s, or 20s, IDK. He was overweight. When he saw me, he strolled toward me and stared at me close. His face was red. I asked him what are you doing and he started to bully me and put me down. He was yelling. He started to insult me, and he gave me this angry/contempt look. His pupils were dilated. I didn't insult him, he was aggressive with me up close. He had this aggressive/aroused? Look. This never happened to me before, what was his goal? Why didn't he say hi how r u? You look good? Why this abnormal behavior? I was a teen, 17. IDK his age. He stalked me too. I went to a different place and he followed me and cont to ogle me in a weird way

Hey everyone, I wanna know if this is weird cause I don't like it. I'm a 15 year old-African-American girl and I live with my adopted parents who are both Caucasian. They've been great parents but my Dad still treats me like a little girl. Every so often his buddies come over for a night of card games gambling and I'm usually on waitress duty bringing them food and beer. However it's when he asks me to 'keep them company' that things start being really awkward. He'll ask me to sit with one of his friends (who are all White men in their late 40's/early 50's) and that usually involves being pressured into sitting on one of their laps throughout the night. When I was a little girl it might have been cute, but now I'm 15 and I should be too old for this now. The men are quite friendly and joke around with me but it still feels weird. They don't touch me or anything but they hold me really close and I can tell they are getting aroused from me sitting with them. My Dad seems to be happy his friends enjoy having me around. So is this appropriate for a girl my age? My Dad loves these gaming nights so how do I tell him I don't want to do this any more without offending or embarrassing him?

How does receiving a Christmas present from him or me? He's an alcoholic so I'm not allowed to see him. She says it's protect me but actually at harms me not to see him. My grandparents have always said they will supervise if I can see him. I was getting a present for Christmas a threat to my safety? My mother refuses as it made her mean. So how was getting a present from an alcoholic a threat to my safety? I'm 14.

My dad to me looks like he lost weight not drastically but he looks like he isn't as chunky as before. My moms friend noticed it too. To make things worse she's like "he could be hiding something.." He drinks soda all day every day for the last 7 years... diabetes does run in our family I mentioned it to my mom in private and she promised me my father is fine and that If something was wrong or felt off he'd tell us all especially her. He was going to the bathroom a lot but not as much now he does like a avenge person would.. he doesn't eat as much as I remember him doing through out my life. He was an alcoholic for 30 years but 7 years ago he became sober. He goes to the doctors every six months and each time they do a physical and blood work. I keep googling and google comes up with the worst. I psych myself out. I love my dad so much.

My dad the last few months looks like he's lost weight. He was going to the bathroom a lot but it's not as much He promises my mom he's fine and he told me he's fine that he's stressed. His eyes are normal color and he eats just not as much as before. My dad stopped drinking 9 years ago after being an alcoholic for 30 years. Doctors said he's fine. He's just on medication for sleeping and for his high blood pressure. My moms friend mentioned tonight that my dad lost a lot of weight especially since he went through the transformation from being an alcoholic to being sober. Should I stop worrying? I can't help it. I love my dad and I'd like to think he wouldn't hide anything but my moms friend makes me think otherwise MY MOM KEEPS ASSURING ME HES OKAY NOT TO WORRY BECAUSE HE'D SAY SOMETHING IF HE FELT SOMETHING WAS WRONG OR THOUGHT SOMETHING WAS WRONG... I feel terrible for not believing my own parents

All my life I never ever thought of think to ever kill someone, not even a enemy. I was feeling so from the end of summer till beginning of December for a girl that was murder while jogging my heart hurted, I cry, and fell into a depression but I was myself happy and claim then I ever been, I had a silly fight with my mom and sisters and felt bad afterwards and was nice after and as I was helping my sister with something I had such horrible negative that something didn't like I was being nice to her, then I got a horrible premonition I believe before or after the nap that I didn't have my mom anymore like I could see and taste it, then I either went to sleep or back and then I felt like something woke me outta my sleep and the second I open my eyes it just came to be to harm my sister, I said please god out loud because then I was like getting images in my head, after I told my mom because it became so bad and after it left the negative thoughts for my sister and then it started for my mom, I got so scared, it's been a month and now something in my head is like what if you had a sleepover with friends would you harm them? Like stab, I had have neighbors do voodoo on my years ago and also a very jealous aunt I believe has done stuff and is still, I have all the symptoms of black magic or whatever being done on me. My aunt gave me lots of problems and a man from church prayed to show my family who's doing harm on us and my aunt that didn't call for years pops up on the phone

I just want to say first and foremost, I love my mother very dearly so everything negative I say about her in this is just facts. She is not smart at all and she is WEAK. She came to the USA when she was 17 years old from Cuba and haven't been to school since. She is in her early 50's with back problems so any lifting is out of the question. She absolutely refuses to work a cash register because she (for some reason) gets nervous with dealing with customer's money. I assume it's because she's too dumb to count fast or work the machine even though it's easy so she folds under pressure. She has absolutely zero clerical skills. She does not know how to use a computer and can barley use her cellphone.She speaks English and Spanish but she cannot type, write and I doubt she can read well either. She is dumb, but I know she isn't as dumb as she thinks. I blame poor parenting by her mother and father for her weak mindset. She really is a sweet woman and everyone loves her but she cannot seem to keep a job. She had a job at Publix for years as a bagger but she quit due to her back problems. She was unemployed for three years until she finally got a job at Subway recently. Then she was let go because she moved too slow due to her back problems. I need help, with all her flaws and weaknesses, what could she possibly due for employment? I've run out of ideas and she has too many years left to just sit around the house all day. Please what are some job ideas she could apply for? Thanks. Yes, I know... *hasn't *do Yes, I know... *hasn't *do She has a car and driver's license.

I have been beating them for 13 years. Why do some family members and parents still consider someone that is 18, their kid? I am in my 50s. I do not consider myself a parent anymore since my kids are 17 and 18. They still live with me and their mother as I have not helped them before they turned 17 and 18. Tried home schooling them, but it was too hard I had to stop as work was more important and I had to go. Never taught them how to cook never taught them how to drive. That is not my responsibility anymore. Do you agree?

My brother says he hates me. I've never hated him, but I've dislike him. Anyways I feel sad for him. He sees a therapist and who knows what he talks about, but one thing he says is that he doesn't like me, and It hurts me that he feels that way. I don't want to force someone to like me, that's the last thing I want to do. It's just a shame that I have to feel that way about someone who I literally changed dipers to, and saw grow. When we were younger and he was a baby, i always babied him, hugged him, and always believed he'd love me for being his older sister. If love fails elsewhere, i always thought of family being the exception.i still believe this, but in his case, i just don't know. It makes me wonder what I can do to win his love and respect, but if I have to go through hoops and hills for that I'd rather not even care what he thinks just what I think of myself.

But i have had a problem i had been to many foster houses but when they find out i'm gay they always freak out and call the cops saying i touched the youngest child. i have had a issue with my step mom recently me and my step brother where having sex we are both 16 hes 13 we recently tried a fetish we heard of called mentos blast where issac put a mentos in my *** and tipped soda down my *** and it blasts out but yesterday my mom was cleaning my room and found a mentos lolly with a bit of poop on it i told my mom that it was moldy and must of been left under the pillow for a while because we re use them daily when i told my mom that issac kind of giggled and im so scared i dont know what to doo omgggg

I have a aunt that has done stuff on me, and she went into a rehab place she wasn't making sense, she wanted to kill her sister etc., she was on drugs as well. Now that she's out and living near me I think she's doing stuff once again on me because I couldn't hurt a single fly, but now after taking a nap one night something woke me outta my sleep and right away a strong ugly feeling came to stab my sister (me myself was in shock I was getting this), it became bad and I told my mom so after telling her then it stop and it started for my mom for awhile, but the thing is I don't want to harm. Now something in my head was like what if you had a boyfriend or had a sleepover with friends? Would that cross you mind would you do it? To harm.I feel that whatever happen to my aunt she did something to make me get such negativity thoughts because never in my whole life did I ever once get anything like this, and I'm a person that has deal with pts and anxiety for many many years and never got this and I was in such a happy place in my life kinda and felt claim and outta no where I take a nap and wake up like this? She's evil, she is be on jealous of me, she love paranormal activities like once my dad told her i saw a orb and she became so happy like it was a party and that's all she wanted to talk about where I didn't, my uncle was told my aunts son did stuff on my uncle and was wishing or throwing bad to him, I was told not to long after that, that my aunt was doing the same to me

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Recently, on a video account I share with my family, I noticed that my dad (the only person who could have been on that account) had been trying to find pornographic videos. I want to let him know about other web sites (where he doesn t leave evidence behind for me (his daughter) to find) that are safe and.....better..... but I don t know how to do this without it being extremely awkward for both me and him. I have brothers, but I m afraid they d just use it as ammo against him. We are all adults and I want to let him know it s fine, but I need help!!

i'm 25. Been living in my parents basement free (completely remodeled, looks nice) could rent for 800 easily but my mom hates renters so i just moved in naturally. Anyways pops is a union guy got me in the laborers union right out of high school. Last year with killer overtime made over 100k.. My expenses are about 15-20k a year. I'm worth about 300k in savings and investments.. At this point i feel like i'm taking advantage of them. Then again i could save a shitload of more money that can help my net worth grow even more.. My basement is huge gf lives with me. Their is no tension in my family they seem to not care at all. at least my mom does She thinks i'm her baby.

so a little back story but i'm 13 turning 14 in a month ish and i just recently moved to another state away from family and things and my parents are separated and have been for a few years but i only see my dad like twice a year usually the most 5 times :/ it's me,my mum and my brother in my house but my brother is in a wheelchair and has a disability so yeah but now to the point my mum is quite rude like i have 2 dogs one which is a 2 month old puppy and she isn't toilet trained and does occasionally do her business inside and my mum always yells at me when she does and like if i do the dishes and don't do them 'right' she will call me useless and things and in public she will call me a ***** in front of people cause i don't want to do something ( go into a shop cause she spends like 3 hours in one shop and i get rly bad neck problems and back and can't stand for too long otherwise i go into severe pain ) and she just screams at me if i watch tv or play my phone it's so annoying someone help :/

I'm 14 and my younger brother is 8. For some reason, I like touching his nose. And he let's me do it. I do it just to be playful. I just love him so much that's why I do it. Do you guys find this weird or crazy?

My brother is 21 and is doing nothing with his life. Our father passed away when I was still in high school (Im 27) and he was the one who did most of the discipline growing up. My mom on the other hand is too much of a sweetheart.. My brother has always been a bit odd/ awkward growing up but it got worse after my father passed because my mom spoils/shelters him up to this day and he turned into an entitled little snob. Like I stated he's 21 years old, and has nothing going for him. When he graduated high school me, my mother, and my aunt put money together to pay for community college due to my mother making minimum wage and my my brother would rarely show up and ended up failing out. Since then my brother gets a job usually twice a year that only lasts about a week because he will get fired for being a moron. I even tried getting him a job where I work for a position that usually requires a degree but I put a good word in. He showed up for 2 days and the 3rd day he didn't come in due to being tired so they fired him because he didn't even attempt to call, he just din't show up. He is convinced that the company is in the wrong for him. He even refused to at least try to lie because he quote "puts himself first because of his pride" and tried to justify it. It just pisses me off that my mother doesn't make much money at all and he always is mooching off of her. Me and my uncles are usually hard on him about it but according to him we are just jerks picking on him.update!! Last week though we went down and tried talking to him like an adult. We were polite and tried to have an adult talk with him. He ended up snapping out and spit in my face. One of my uncles blocked me from getting at him and another one shoved him against the wall and that was it. My brother ended up calling the cops trying to press charges for assault. Luckily nothing happened. The thing is, even though he is my blood I feel like really kicking the living dogshit out of him. I really feel like he might have some sort of mental disorder, When he was in school he would get his *** kicked a bunch of times. Id be ready to kick someones *** only to find out he said or did something completely DISRESPECTFUL like SPITTING ON SOMEONE, or calling someone's gf a slut but would play the victim after. The thing is he will act like a stuck up snot and then feel sorry for himself for having no friends or why nobody likes him

My brother is 21 and is doing nothing with his life. Our father passed away when I was still in high school (Im 27) and he was the one who did most of the discipline growing up. My mom on the other hand is too much of a sweetheart.. My brother has always been a bit odd/ awkward growing up but it got worse after my father passed because my mom spoils/shelters him up to this day and he turned into an entitled little snob. Like I stated he's 21 years old, and has nothing going for him. When he graduated high school me, my mother, and my aunt put money together to pay for community college due to my mother making minimum wage and my my brother would rarely show up and ended up failing out. Since then my brother gets a job usually twice a year that only lasts about a week because he will get fired for being a moron. I even tried getting him a job where I work for a position that usually requires a degree but I put a good word in. He showed up for 2 days and the 3rd day he didn't come in due to being tired so they fired him because he didn't even attempt to call, he just din't show up. He is convinced that the company is in the wrong for him. He even refused to at least try to lie because he quote "puts himself first because of his pride" and tried to justify it. It just pisses me off that my mother doesn't make much money at all and he always is mooching off of her. Me and my uncles are usually hard on him about it but according to him we are just jerks picking on him.update!!

I'm afraid he will start hitting strangers or his classmates at his school. My little brother is 3 years old and will turn 4 in July 2017, but I'm scared for him punching and hitting people in his class as he punches, hits, and curses at his own family members including me, too. I know, my parents need to teach him manners and to control himself. I promise, he has no medical illness, he is just an aggressive child who is extremely violent when something doesn't go his way. I honestly don't know where I stand in this. My mom hits him back on the arms and hands, plus, she kind of yells at him or she highers her voice. She tried almost everything. I even tried to teach him manners, but the only thing I can think of is put him in his room for about 10 minutes for timeout for hitting people. And another one is to watch carefully on what he is watching on YouTube, yes he knows how YT works and knows how to navigate the videos. He uses his iPad to do so. I want to be the older sister to guide him through children and educational videos and limit the videos he watches. I'm thinking of restricting the YT. Can I? I need to ask permission of course. He watches Annoying Orange and such violent transformer games/videos. I want him to have a better future, but he is just so hard to deal with. Please help? Thank you so much!❤️ And yes, I noticed Annoying Orange does say a few bad words in their videos. My little brother knows like three out of all the bad words. He knows the F word, the S word, and the B word. He has said all three before, and I think he knows a few others but just won't say it. I'm glad he doesn't but so far, that is all he knows. Please read description on the top to understand this updated info. Thank u!

Please answer this respectfully. My dad was a very devout catholic. When I was 15 I was caught sexting a boy (I am 22 now). For my punishment, my dad made me beat him with a belt to make me see how much pain it caused him and Jesus. I am having a really hard time forgetting this memory. My father died 2 months ago. My father was a fantastic father. He loved my mom and their daughters. My mom and dad gave me everything I needed in life and more. I had a very blessed childhood, don't get me wrong. But I really can't get over this. I don't even know what I am asking… I just need help dealing with this. Do I tell someone? I would say my mom knows but I am not sure and I really do not want to tell her because she is having a hard time dealing with the loss of my dad. What was the point of this? I do not think it helped me learn a lesson. I still imagine this horrifying experience vividly.

Im so ****** done with life.. I want to live with my mom but she cant afford court and my dad wont vive in. I have all passing grades higher than 80s one c wich is math which he knows i struggle i ****** hate him so bad. I hate hin to the point i never wanna ****** see him again im 14 my ***** stepmom and my dad are racist always calling black peopke nggers fick him why would god want me through this **** if its already hell where im at? :( i want to run away and never come backt o this ****** house ever again.

I have 4 brothers and 1 sister. Us older 4 (including myself) where all raised together. My parents decided to have 2 more kids that are 10 and 13 years younger than me. Now these too get treated WAY differently from how us older 4 were treated. I mean, these kids get whatever they want, they have their own ipads, and get bought games that they only play for a bit but beg for. They are so spoilt, and everytime I try to tell my parents they get upset and say I'm over reacting or that I have a 'short memory' implying we were treated like that, but that was certainly not the case. The worst ting is how they treat me in particular, my brothers treat me like garbage, they won't listen to me, they won't do what I say until my parents say it or even my other siblings! My parents even laughed when one of my brother told me he'd never listen to me. What do I do?? I hate them! I wish they were never born, they treat me so bad.

I hate my dad so much, i hope he dies. He is a smartass who always thinks he's right when he's not, which gets on my nerves. Lately he's gotten more bitchy and im getting tired of it. In a few more years ill finally be able to leave this ****** up place i live in, but i dont think i can continue living with such a retarded human being. How do i cut my dad out of my life?

I'm in high school, and I have commitments and a lot of work to do. My helicopter parents make me have 8 hours of sleep a night, and sometimes I just can't afford it. I have a lot of homework and extra curriculars (I'm not willing to give anything up) and I find myself sneaking late at night trying to get everything done. Last night, my dad caught me on my laptop around midnight, and revoked my privilege of having electronics in my room. I don't know what I'm going to do, because I can't afford the time. I work hard and focus, but after getting home late, and having loads more of schoolwork to do, my parents don't understand that just about everyone in my grade gets at most 6 hours of sleep a night.

There is this woman who used to work with my mom, but got fired because she was caught stealing, but anyway, she has also been caught before doing drugs, and I don't know her, but I'm worried because she has two young daughters, both under the age of 10, and I was actually gonna babysit for her youngest, but my mom didn't want me to, because she has a very abusive boyfriend, and I'm worried he's gonna start hitting the kids. I'm not trying to be nosy, I'm just worried about those kids, because I've seen what can happen to parents who do drugs, the kids are either taken away, or hurt. It happened to my cousin, he was and still is addicted to drugs, but he had a baby and she was taken from him when she was a year old, because he was a drug addict, and she's now 6 years old and lives with my aunt. I'm not sure what to do, do I call CPS and let them handle it, or do I just butt out?

I m a 13yr old girl and I live with my dad in CA. I moved here about 9 months ago from Maui where I lived with my mom for 6 years. I love both of my parents but it s so hard to choose between them and be happy wherever I am. When im in CA i miss my mom, dog and friends when im on maui i miss my dad and siblings. I go to my sisters (25) every weekend and we are really close. Everytime i leave her house and get home to my dad (who is just unnappreciative and doesent listen to me or even talk to me) I cry for about a day and go to the counselor for lunch and break at school the next day. My mom just keeps making bad decisions over and over again and that s why I left (they both have money problems). I have nightmares everyday about leaving her and my friends on Maui (who I m really close with) and I want it to stop. My dad doesent undrstand me probably because im a girl, and hes just so stubborn and difficult to live. Each parent says the other has mental issues and my mom says my dad has a gambling problem (I think he might but I don t really know) and I know my dad has anger issues bc I live with him. My mom warned me it would be hard to live with him because she did for 8 years (they are divorced now). I don t wanna leave my dad and my sisters and brother (the other two siblings are always off doing something and don t come hang with me and the oldest, which also makes me really sad) but I don t wanna be so far from my mom. Please help me.

I like to do cute little stuff like jerking people's chairs out form under them before they sit down an stuff, an I use words that I make up or hear for different stuff, like in Mr. Costigan's class I was like "I need to go sit down an take me a hobnob real good" an I went to go to the bathroom to sit down an take a crap an Mr. Costigan yelled an me an gave me detention even though I SAID I had to go sit down an take a poop! Today Mrs. Messenger gave me detention cause I said "I have to toot, my horn, that is" an it was hilarious cause I had to fart an toot is for horns to cause is was music class but I got detention! Then I throwed up! An at lunch we had french fries an I almost ate all my usual almost ate all of them an I wanted one of them things that looks like it has a hook on the end of it, like that things having ovar my desk, but I got diearea! I even got detention just cause I tore a few farts off in the elevator when we went on that field trip! I just want to have a little fun at skool but I am constently in trouble when I didn't do nothing an I am sick of it! I told the principle today that stuff better change or I WILL blow up the skool an now my parents has to go in for a confrence but I am thinking about taking a crap in his desk drawer an then I'll go in like a badass an make him eat it! He's a ******* fagit!

Ok I used to have people come to me about their problems a lot but not as much anymore since they are never there for me but my brother was talking to me about his he said I wouldn't understand he doesn't realize it's not that but I just don't care that's why I don't listen as much I didn't say that though because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. I wasn't sure how else to ask the question lol.

The word fùck is so fùcking disgusting that I can't figure out why the fùck my brother uses it. How do I fùcking get him to stop? He is such a fùcking loser because he says fùck. How the fùck can I get him to shut his fùcking mouth instead of using bad words like fùck which I would never use?

I am a 13 year old boy and my sister is 11 years old. My mom completely favors her, but denies it all. In 5th grade, I got an iPod and an email address so I could talk to my friends without using her phone. In 6th grade, I got a phone that was about $30 because I was walking a couple miles home every day. She got my iPod (as a 3rd grader). Then, when she was a 4th grader, my mom let her get Instagram, Snapchat, and Musical.ly. She never would have let me even have an email in 4th grade. So, this year (8th grade), I am using Google Classroom for almost every class and Remind so I constantly need a computer, and my mom knows. Well, out of the blue, she bought a laptop for my sister!!! SHE BARELY NEEDS A COMPUTER FOR HER WORK, WHEREAS I NEED ONE EVERY DAY!!! My sister is constantly in her room watching Youtube, and my mom doesn't give a crap. However, if I am on the computer just checking email (for homework), she screams at me. Any advice?

Hi I am 12 yrs old and my dad is I don t know how to describe it when I was around 9 or younger he was as nice as can be but now... I don t know what happened to him he is bossy, annoying, and mean. Sometimes he is nice but not the dad I remember... It hurts my feelings every time I think about it. Is there a reason? Or did I do something wrong? Help!

I haven't faced any significant loss really other than pets. How should I prep myself emotionally?

What are things I can do to help my mother cope with her mother's (my grandmothers) death? She's real sad and the funeral is in the morning and I know tomorrow is going to be a real sad day.

Let's start with my sister, from the farthest back I can remember she's been rude. Telling me to kill myself, I'm why our parents are unhappy, if I died everyone would be happy, etc. Lately, she's been calling my mom fat and insulting anyone whenever she has a chance. I know I'm only 13 but I talked with my mom about her parenting telling her there's still time left to fix her (she's 15). My mom totally blew up at me and told her there's nothing we can do. My mom is completely done with me and my sister for our actions and my dad doesn't understand anything so he walks on eggshells and cracks all of them. The stress in our house is madly huge. I personally hate everything about my life from school-home. I hate school so much I cry every night about it. I've talked with my parents about online school and now they think whenever I talk about school I'm gonna talk about online, so they get mad. I can't fix it, I hate eveything so much. I sometimes wish something could go seriously wrong with my health just to get out of this mess.

The whole house is burned to the ground as I put back up a Christmas Tree for a late holiday party and forgot to unplug it when leaving to go somewhere. I haven't told them as I am waiting for someone else to. They are gone until President's Day. I got out safe as did my brother but both dogs died. How do I cheer them up when they get home and see it is all gone? I am hoping they find out before we go get them at the airport.