Family: Question: Should I stop helping her? |
- Question: Should I stop helping her?
- Question: Does this mean I am gay?
- Question: What did my Dad mean?
- Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly?
- Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly?
- Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly?
- Question: Why does my sister love this ?
- Question: If my grandma did not die last year would she still be alive today?
- Question: Should I return jerk's money?
- Question: How do I convince my parents that I should have a later curfew?
- Question: My mom won t stop nagging me to get a job at 15?
- Question: I just got done breastfeeding on my couch with my boobs exposed and my dad tells me to help my brother should I pull my bra up or not?
- Question: Is this honestly a dumb plan?
- Question: Why Does My Son Always Say I'm Fake News?
- Question: Why Does My Son Always Say I'm Fake News?
- Question: How should I resolve the issue below with my niece?
- Question: What's a godfather?
- Question: Anyone else put on a 'brave' face and at times smiled even though scared/wary of your father and from near childbirth?
- Question: Mom got mad at me for the lockscreen on my iphone?
- Question: Did or does anyone have a father who provided for you,even took you places(on his terms,things he liked that is)but also belittled you?
- Question: Do all fathers yell at their kids?
- Question: Did or does anyone have a father who Never hit or slap or threw you around?
- Question: What does "baby sister" mean?
- Question: How can I help my sister feel better ?
- Question: A little biddy told me...?
- Question: Boyfriend is keeping my pregnancy a secret from all his family and friends?
- Question: Why is it called the terrible twos?
- Question: Has anyone ever felt similar?
- Question: I'm starting to resent my parents?
- Question: Help for strict parents?
- Question: Help for strict parents?
- Question: Is it wrong if I can't stand my daughter?
- Question: What would you do if this was your child?
- Question: I told my mom that I hate my new sister and then she kicked me out what should I do?
- Question: How do I get my older sister to tell me about her molestation?
- Question: What would you do if this was your child?
- Question: Why don t people want me to be an EMT?
- Question: How can I talk to my dad about cleaning more?
- Question: My mother keeps bringing stuffed animals up to my room and it's embarrassing me?
- Question: How to escape my dad?
- Question: How can i convince my parents to letting me get a hedgehog?
- Question: How to handle going on a family vacation to Disney World for a week when you are the family member who is always left out?
- Question: What would you choose: being raised by your single biological mother or by an unrelated married couple?
- Question: My sister revealed my biggest secret ever; what do I do?
- Question: How to convince my mum to let me get whatsapp?
- Question: My mom disconnected my phone..now im virtually stranded?
- Question: How do I convince my parents to let me sell my stuff I dont use anymore?
- Question: Is this weird ?
- Question: The T.V. show Intervention told lies about my mom on camera?
- Question: My parents accuse me of stealing?
- Question: How to convince your parents to let you get a skateboard?
- Question: What should I do ?
- Question: What should I do >:( ?
- Question: Are men really that disgusting?
- Question: I think my dad may have physically abused me and my brother but I can't remember?
- Question: Why do you need privacy if you have nothing to hide?
- Question: Aren't my parent being unreasonable?
Question: Should I stop helping her? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 02:09 PM PST I got a call from my ex mother in law Sally (my ex wife's mother) that she needed my help. I always liked her when I was married to her daughter so I said how can I help you. She told me her 15 year old daughter Jill got a note from her teacher that she was failing math in school and Jill needed a math tutor. Sally had priced tutors and they were all very expensive and she ask me if I would tutor Jill on credit. I told her I would tutor Jill for free as I don't charge friends for my help. Jill cam to my house 2 night a week and I helped her with her math. She raised her grade from an F to an A. Everyone was happy or so I thought. I got a call from my ex wife Sandy that I should stop tutoring Jill because Jill had a crush on me and that was just too kinky. I told Sandy I would stop tutoring Jill if her mother ask me to. The next time Sally brought Jill for tutoring I told her what Sandy had told me. She begged me to keep tutoring Jill because Jill now enjoys going to school and her grades are up in all of her classes. Sally told me she did not think Jill had a crush on me and even if she did, teenage girls get crushes all the time they usually go away very shortly. Please give me some advice on what I should do so that nobody gets hurt? THANKS |
Question: Does this mean I am gay? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 02:00 PM PST I was swimming in the pool at my home and my brother and his wife were visiting me. I was swimming in my pool and my brother's wife Jan came out of my house and ask me if she could join me in the pool. I said sure. She said I will be going skinny dipping. I said wait until I go in the house. I went in my house and told my brother Bill that his wife was outside skinny dipping in the pool. Bill said she has a great body and she likes to show it off. Did you get a good look? I told him I had NO DESIRE to see his wife nude. Bill said that sounds like you are gay to me. Does me not wanting to see my brother's wife nude mean I am gay? |
Question: What did my Dad mean? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:40 PM PST He said, "My daughter, you are 29 going on 50, if someone ever gives you a hard time, it's never going to compare." |
Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:35 PM PST So, I was at a restaurant with my mom, dad, little sister and my grandmother. We were all having a good time, until my grandmother decided to bring out some childhood pictures of me. She showed me them, and said: "Look at how cute you USED to be" Now, she probably didn't mean to insult me, but I'm someone who is really self conscious about my appearance and my weight. How do I move on from what she said? |
Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:34 PM PST So, I was at a restaurant with my mom, dad, little sister and my grandmother. We were all having a good time, until my grandmother decided to bring out some childhood pictures of me. She showed me them, and said: "Look at how cute you USED to be" Now, she probably didn't mean to insult me, but I'm someone who is really self conscious about my appearance and my weight. How do I move on from what she said? |
Question: My Grandmother indirectly called me ugly? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:33 PM PST So, I was at a restaurant with my mom, dad, little sister and my grandmother. We were all having a good time, until my grandmother decided to bring out some childhood pictures of me. She showed me them, and said: "Look at how cute you USED to be" Now, she probably didn't mean to insult me, but I'm someone who is really self conscious about my appearance and my weight. How do I move on from what she said? |
Question: Why does my sister love this ? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:03 PM PST My sister is pregnant she wants to lay in bed and cuddle all day. Why ? |
Question: If my grandma did not die last year would she still be alive today? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 12:01 PM PST |
Question: Should I return jerk's money? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:49 AM PST Hi, I am 18 years old. My Dad's dad is a complete jerk (cheated on his wife, had affairs, never had anything to do with us, gambled away his money, insults my parents, you get the idea). After 18 years of having nothing to do with us he started sending us birthday checks last year. I think my Mom sent him pictures last year and he was shocked at how old we were since he had never met us. It is a $30 check, nothing big and he tells me to spend it on something for college but he acts like he is this great gandpa now. I would like to just return it and tell him that we don't need the money and to give it to one of his other grand kids that can't afford to go to college. He is always insulting my parents but they have been able to provide everything for us including all college costs and spending money. My Mom says to just take the money and send a thank you card. I really don't want to take the stupid money and give him the satisfaction that he is doing anything for us after all these years. What do you all think? he acts like he is this great grandpa now (I actually can spell, I just can't type :-) ). |
Question: How do I convince my parents that I should have a later curfew? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:48 AM PST I'm 15 and my curfew is 8:30 pm. I'm not out there doing stupid things or doing drugs at parties and they know it. I'm a girl who just likes hanging out at parks and nature or going out in the sun. I asked once if it's because I'm autistic, and they said no and that they would enforce the same rule on a 15 year old neurotypical girl if they had one too. I never lie to them and they usually know where I am 24/7. Besides, my 13 year old brother has a later curfew than me! I'm two entire years older than him and I have more knowledge of what kind of dangers there are out in this world. His curfew is 9:30 pm and he just started high school this year. I'm not asking for that much, maybe at least the same curfew as my brother and I can go to the same events he goes to :/ I should've gotten the same curfew as he has now two years ago but it was even earlier back when I was 13 Oh I live in Asia |
Question: My mom won t stop nagging me to get a job at 15? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:40 AM PST Almost every single day my mom complains to me and nags about me getting a job. I want a job, and I ve told her I would really like to get a summer job this year. I m 15 so it s not that easy to just get a job like that, but at least 3 times a day she finds a way to nag me about it. Is this normal?? It s like she thinks I don t want one, so she s yelling at me about it. I don t know what to do and it s making me feel bad about myself kelp I have good grades and my family is okay financially. |
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Question: Is this honestly a dumb plan? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:39 AM PST So I'm 19 and I was thinking of paying a monthly note for a storage space & this is why. I'm saving up for a vehicle the flood ruined my other car (fema was no help) & once I get a vehicle I'm lookin to move out of my mom's place I hate it here but can't complain I'm grateful enough to stay here paying nothing. SO- the idea here, is to fill up my storage space with all my clothes tho I don't have much I plan to accumulate a good bit over time & more than just clothes I'm talking lamps dressers night stands, & more. The whole enchilada! & I figure this way when I move I already have a good bit of stuff not a whole lot just the basics of doing alright so my checks won't split between tryna make it & tryna buy a vehicle & tryna pay rent, this way when I move I will already have a vehicle & then my check can go straight to my car insurance, rent & well u kno the basics of moving out gotta pay ur way so then I'll be doing just that. & Until I finish school & start my career that is pretty much it If you wonder why even keep my stuff at a storage space and not at my moms •My so called room is basically a storage for my sister & her kids (who've moved out) •CIGARETTE STINK beyond your imagination I'm talking more than the norm & always inside the trailer never outside & it's constantly one after another between my mom & other sister •saws wood extremely loud INSIDE •Thermostat must stay at 79 or above NO EXAGGERATION • Windows are nailed shut |
Question: Why Does My Son Always Say I'm Fake News? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:25 AM PST Lately, every time I say something to my son, he replies by just saying I'm "fake news." Yesterday I asked him to get the mail and he replied with that. I'm concerned he has some sort of admiration for Donald Trump. What should I do?? -Concerned Mom |
Question: Why Does My Son Always Say I'm Fake News? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:25 AM PST Lately, every time I say something to my son, he replies by just saying I'm "fake news." Yesterday I asked him to get the mail and he replied with that. I'm concerned he has some sort of admiration for Donald Trump. What should I do?? -Concerned Mom |
Question: How should I resolve the issue below with my niece? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:18 AM PST I had an agreement with niece # 1 that she would give me the old vanity when the plumber installed the new one. Several months later niece number # 2 husband ended up installing instead of the plumber and took the vanity home. About a week and a half later I found out this transpired from my mother and was wondering why neither of my nieces never told me. My mother said that that the vanity they brought home was better that the one they had and was measuring to see if the "old" vanity would fit? Then I said to my mother that that would be like a stab in the back from family which I think got back to my niece. My mother and I started talking that maybe they planned of installing it because no one ever told me they picked it up. So I was suspicious of my nieces and one word led to another and niece number #2 said she would have discussed with me before installing. I was still suspicious did I have right to be because they never told me I heard it from my mother first? How do I resolve this? I was going to put a text out to them and their mothers explaining my side? |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:08 AM PST My sister wants me to be her baby's godfather. I don't know what's a godfather and what he does. I only saw the movie. |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:05 AM PST You may have been(or are) able to spend time with him but it was because of something you may have enjoyed,going to the movies for example but still,you grew up feeling like you had to be on your toes and watch your every step when around him |
Question: Mom got mad at me for the lockscreen on my iphone? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 10:02 AM PST so my mom checked my lockscreen for no reason and got mad at me for having it so she took my phone away. What should i do? http://sp9.fotolog.com/photo/9/58/80/x_staticxclub/14102064318475_f.jpg |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:56 AM PST and also liked to yell,slam doors,hit things,throw you around from time to time or worse |
Question: Do all fathers yell at their kids? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:52 AM PST I am not a father |
Question: Did or does anyone have a father who Never hit or slap or threw you around? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:51 AM PST I am not a father but I am just wondering if all fathers have done such things to their kid whether all the time or once in a while or a few times. Added question: did or does anyone have a father who did/does not yell or call you names,in other words,belittle you? |
Question: What does "baby sister" mean? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:15 AM PST Ok I have a friend whose sister is 3 years young and she calls her baby sister. How exactly is she a baby being only 3 years younger? It's not like she's another generation or sth |
Question: How can I help my sister feel better ? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:09 AM PST My sister is upset because she was watching this tv show about a young girl from the 1500 who was sailing with her family she fell in love with one of the men on the boat she had a kid with him her family wasn't happy so they sent them away to an island where they were sent for the rest of the lives. My sister is also pregnant she's not much younger than the girl on tv was she's afraid of being sent away. It's not just a tv show it really did happen. She's really tied she didn't sleep well last night she has to go in town at 2:30 it's only afternoon. She's worried if she takes a nap she'll miss her appointment she's been trying to get one for the past few weeks. She said she's gonna try to get a little bit of sleep. She feels really upset she's also tired she can't get to sleep. She keeps hugging me and asking me to never let her go. She's still crying a little. How can I help her feel better ? |
Question: A little biddy told me...? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 09:08 AM PST So just yesterday i was taking a walk on the street and i found a pigeon hurt!! i then called the pet hospital and they came and picked up the the pigeon i then said thank u but then one of the ambulance girls came and said your a disgrace to my face!! i said why? she said because of what i did to the poor pigeon i was very confused when she said this she told me how she thinks my cover is fake and she knows i beat the pigeon i then smacked her across the face and walked away cause she was being so annoying!! a few days later i kept seeing this car in front of my house i don't know why so i went into my house and found a email from the woman who i slapped and how she's taking me to court for slapping her and hurting the pigeon which i did not do!!! i then replied how did u find this email and she said she hired a private investigator to hunt you down. i called the police and they said they can't do anything about it since i hurt the pigeon but i tried to explain that i didn't hurt the pigeon!! then yesterday i came home and saw a picture of the pigeon on my door step it was the woman again! i then found my door opened and saw pictures taped to the wall of the pigeon i cried and i now started looking for a new house i started staying at my parents house but then today when i got home from work i saw more pictures and now a fake dead pigeon!! i screamed and went here someone please help what do i do I'm very scared! ANSWER |
Question: Boyfriend is keeping my pregnancy a secret from all his family and friends? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:43 AM PST My boyfriend has been keeping my pregnancy a secret from his family since we found out 7 and a half months ago. He says he's just not ready to tell and gets teary when we discuss the baby. I don't know what to do cause we don't have much time left to ignore the fact that we're having a baby! I've thought of just dropping the baby on his doorstep once he's born in an effort to force him to say but I can't bare the thought of leaving my baby. My life is so stressful i went through hell after my family found out and I see him enjoying spending time with his family they all not knowing he's got a family with me and it breaks my heart. He says i'm not a secret from his family or friends but I question it all the time and it has caused so many arguments! He says he loves me all the time and deep down I know he does but he's just really bad at it. I can't just call up his family and tell...I know he'll leave me if I betray him like that but I really don't know what to do and I want them to find out before the baby is born...Any advice? |
Question: Why is it called the terrible twos? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:40 AM PST Why is it called the terrible twos |
Question: Has anyone ever felt similar? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:38 AM PST I feel my family doesn't love me as much as they love my uncles side of the family. I'm Christian and don't really do crazy things so I'm always being pulled out when they need prayer but never for anything else. I also feel like they don't really know me and don't believe in me because I'm a little slower academically. It hurts me and at times I feel like I have to let it out of my chest but that'll only bring problems. They say they love me but I don't think so. Anyone relate and how do you handle it? |
Question: I'm starting to resent my parents? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:32 AM PST Weeks ago I was nervous about leaving home for uni, in fact I didn't want to. Now I can't wait. I can't stand my parents anymore. They overreact to everything I say then play the victim constantly. My mother always starts something ridiculous and my dad always sides with her whether she's in the right or wrong, whether he knows the circumstance or not. If he's in a disagreement with her I'll stick up for whoevers in the right but no one ever backs me up. Last time he started hitting me, but I didn't retaliate no matter how angry I am I don't want to hurt the guy who brought me up. 95 per centof the time me my mum and dad, we'll laugh and joke but the 5 percent makes me resent them both. They're good parents but they snap too often and it makes me snap and day to day life becomes stressful and monotonous. It's not like I don't have my own issues to deal with. I just want to be happy all the time. I want a cool girlfriend and to move as far away as possible. I'm sick of this BS. Any advice? |
Question: Help for strict parents? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:32 AM PST I m 14 years old with very little freedoms, I rarely go out and I have the same "bedtime" rules from when I was 10. On top of all of this, my parents helicopter over me and it s very frustrating. Alongside everything, I m constantly accused of things I don t do, when it s really theirs or nobodies fault. How do I deal with this? I ve tried everything, and it seems like there s no answer. |
Question: Help for strict parents? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:32 AM PST I m 14 years old with very little freedoms, I rarely go out and I have the same "bedtime" rules from when I was 10. On top of all of this, my parents helicopter over me and it s very frustrating. Alongside everything, I m constantly accused of things I don t do, when it s really theirs or nobodies fault. How do I deal with this? I ve tried everything, and it seems like there s no answer. |
Question: Is it wrong if I can't stand my daughter? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:27 AM PST She is the oldest she is in her 20's still living at home. She was favored and spoiled by my grandmother and now she is very disrespectful. She challenges everything I say she doesn't even say merry Christmas or happy birthday to me she is trying to turn my youngest daughter against me and it seems as though it's working. She is spiteful and greedy she buys snacks and sits in her room and eats them up by herself. She is overweight and when her siblings ask to share snacks she tells them no. She had one boyfriend who apparently seen in her what I see because according to Facebook he didn't want to be with her after he got to know her well. She talks back to me and everything I say she throws grandma in my face and she talks to me like im nothing. Daughter or not I don't have to put up with abuse and I want her out of this house. |
Question: What would you do if this was your child? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:10 AM PST Let's say you have a 16 year old son. He loves to dance and smoke weed. Your son makes A's and B's in school but the school called saying he missed 8 days of school. He used to be a gifted magnet school but was kicked out because he'd allow a few students to copy off his tests, and test questions. One night he sneaked out the house and went to to a house party. He got drunk and danced with a 35 year old woman and other adults. Including 30-40 year old men. Your son was so drunk he could barely move. The next day he came home and wet his pants, and started crying. There's blood on the toilet seat, his underwear blood on the bedsheets, and he's uncontrollably and shaking. He says he's sorry repeatedly then says she took me upstairs with him and I told them no, why would they do that? between sobs. He can barely speak straight. What would you do? Hello Hello |
Question: I told my mom that I hate my new sister and then she kicked me out what should I do? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 08:02 AM PST |
Question: How do I get my older sister to tell me about her molestation? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 07:46 AM PST My older sister got molested as a child and she never told anyone. Everytime she tries telling my mom, my mother says she's lying and calls everyone on the phone telling them that. How can I get my sister to trust me enough to open up to me? I believe her. |
Question: What would you do if this was your child? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 07:42 AM PST Let's say you have a 17 year old son. You get a call from the school and the school says he's failing all his classes and missed 20 days of school. Than you find weed in his backpack. He also had a 14 year old friend who's being bullied in school. He tells the girl the reason you have no friends is because your fat and ugly. You need to get some plastic surgery. The school called and told you about this. He also likes to stay after school to be with friends. What would you do? Hmm |
Question: Why don t people want me to be an EMT? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 06:43 AM PST I m 20 years old, 5ft even and 117 pounds at the moment. My main goal in life is to be a paramedic because I really want to help people and I think it is a rewarding job to have. Everytime I bring this up to my family, everyone looks at me funny and my dad who was a medic in the army continues to tell me I m too "petite" and small to be a paramedic. Also, let me just say that I understand how hard and stressful EMS can be. I m FULLY aware of this but I still want to do it anyway. They tell me I wouldn t be able to handle doing it and that I would be better off as a teacher. My mom who is a registered nurse tells me that I should get a "real job" that pays a lot of money. Even when I introduce myself to people and they ask me what I want to do with my life, they ll get quiet or give me a weird look when I tell them. Its like people think that only tall people can be in EMS and they doubt me and my abilities. Another thing I need to mention is that I have ulcerative colitis which is an autoimmune disease. My family will use that excuse to scare me out of it. Once again, it s not completely impossible to be a paramedic and have a disease like that. So I just need some opinions. Is there any reason why my size or disease should stop me from doing EMS? I know it involves a lot of lifting if anything i need to hit a gym, right? lol and why isn t EMS looked at as a real job? |
Question: How can I talk to my dad about cleaning more? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 06:34 AM PST When I was younger my parents were so busy fighting that they never told us to clean. We lived in a dirty house anD everything was filthy I didn't know any different. We could never have friends over because it was that bad. They'd even let us go months without taking a bath so I use to smell like pee a lot. Well now they're in the middle of a divorce and the house is still dirty. I've tried talking to him about how we have to clean more than once. When we'd clean in the past it would only he once every other month. I try and clean but he won't help me and I feel so ditry I don't know what to do. The bathrooms are so gross it makes me want to cry because they let us live in dirt. I just don't know what to do he won't even try and help me. |
Question: My mother keeps bringing stuffed animals up to my room and it's embarrassing me? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 06:03 AM PST I'm 16, close to turning 17. My mother keeps bringing my old stuffed animals up to my room and having them "talk" to me and trying to play with me with them. Then she just leaves them in my room. I' embarrassed to have friends over because my room is all full of stuffed animals like a little kid. Plus she wants me to be responsible for keeping them neat and all when I don't want them in my room and don't have any place for them. I'm scared to put them back away when she brings them up because she'll get mad at me because she brought them up. She thinks it's "cute" for me to have stuffed animals in my room and that lots of 16 year old girls still play with stuffed animals. How do I get her to stop? |
Question: How to escape my dad? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:51 AM PST My Dad used to beat me when I was a kid until i bled out on the floors and then he'd make me bleach it up after I was cleaned up. He'd make me drink his spit, my blood and he'd occasionally throw a glass at me when he was mad. I dreamed of escaping him. He gets away with it because he's rich, a self made millionaire. He also gets away with it because I am Austistic. When I got bigger and he got older he stopped attacking me because he's seen how I spar. He's constantly putting me down and he tells me I am useless and I can borrow his gun at any time to go in the woods to kill myself. He told me this when I attempted suicide. I still got through that mess and I still graduated with my B.A. My therapists keep me on these medications that make it hard to memorize things. Technically it's bipolar medication, though I am not bipolar. I tried to move out a few months ago and every day i was going to work, my car was mysteriously broken. My dad also continually charges me 600 dollars a month rent so I can't save up money to buy an apartment. I'm at a loss of what to do. He keeps on breaking my stuff and coming home and torturing me with random ****. Like I will be applying for jobs in my field and when I get an interview he will play loud music the night before. The biggest issue is now I'm 24, I live in michigan with it's dead economy. I have 220 a month in loan payments and I don't know how to get away. My dad says he won't stop until I am dead in a ditch. |
Question: How can i convince my parents to letting me get a hedgehog? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:51 AM PST I am dyinggg for a hedgehog! I know very much about them.Also i can affordthem and everything they need etc.Mom doesnt care if i get 1.But daddy says no..any way i could change his mind or show him i responsible.Oh he did say we could get one if i sold my dog...but not gonna happen.Help! p.s follow me on twitter at -DaShayLutwiller:) |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:37 AM PST I don't know if it is because I am the middle child, or it is my personality but I am always left out when my family of five (including myself) does anything. If someone else starts talking when I'm talking that's it, whoever I'm talking to is done listening. No matter what the conversation is or how small the interruption is. My brother is rude to me whenever I try to talk to him, my dad tells me to my face to shut up which is extremely embarrassing in public so the only two people who will even talk to me in situations when we are all together is my mother and sister. However, my sister is the person who gets most attention put on her so that means she ignores me when I try to talk to her because people interrupt and my mother is typically talking to her. I am turning 21 in less than a month and this is how it has always been. And no, I do not pick fights with people, I am not "weird" or boring, I am just ignored. I tried to tell my mother something of importance this morning and she cut me off to tell me a story about someone being on a diet because I am a Nutrition and Dietetics major, then ignored my input on the situation, tried to go back to what I was trying to tell her and my dad walked in the room, she cut me off again and talked to him about cronuts for about fifteen minutes until I left and she didn't even notice, came back & waited to be told I could finish what I was saying but she never asked what I was trying to say so I just had to ask if I could finish. |
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Question: My sister revealed my biggest secret ever; what do I do? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:26 AM PST My secret is something that I do currently that is the most embarrassing thing you can imagine, and I can't "opt" out easily. She knows not to tell anyone. My parents even know. Earlier today, she told everyone in my family and my friends; the whole school knows now and is making fun of me. I just feel like the pain isn't worth it anymore. I love my sister but she's ruined my life! When she told the secret, she told it like it was nothing. She wasn't even mad at me at the time. I'm always nice to her and tell her everything, but high school has brainwashed her and turned her into a brat. She refuses to do what our parents ask her to do, she constantly rolls her eyes, screams at my them, and posts stuff about them on Twitter like it's a diary. What should I do? |
Question: How to convince my mum to let me get whatsapp? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:13 AM PST I'm 13 years old, and I'm not allowed any social things. My mum doesn't even know about yahoo because I'm using my friends email adress and this doesn't require a mobile number. I really want twitter and whatsapp, but she won't let me. I know that whatsapp is just free texting, but she still won't let me. I have a mobile phone, so I don't really see what the big deal is. She doesn't really trust me, but I'm a good schools with good grades and I've never done anything to make her lose her trust in me. How can I convince her to let me make these accounts? Thanks |
Question: My mom disconnected my phone..now im virtually stranded? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 05:10 AM PST so my mom was angry at me today for no reason like usual and disconnected my phone and now i have NO contact with anyone. i'm 19 and a full time college student and dont have any money. i have my own housing and can use public transportation sometimes but im still figuring the public system out. my mom does few things for me. the only things she does are pay for food occassionally and pay my cellphone bill. now she isn't even paying my cellphone bill. im almost completely independent at 19 and the only reason im not fully on my own is cause im too busy with school to afford to work full time and completely support myself, thus my mom pays the phone bill.since she has cut it off i feel so cut off myself. i cant communicate with ANYONE. its like im cut off from the world. are there any free ways to connect with people until i can come up with the money for a plan and a cellphone since my mom wont help me with anything, even this.? |
Question: How do I convince my parents to let me sell my stuff I dont use anymore? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:49 AM PST i want them to say "yes" but I DON'T wanna be arguing,fighting,talking back with them for like 2 hours about it. is there a way that i can convince OR ask OR tell my parents to sell my stuff that I dont use anymore? |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:37 AM PST My friend, she's a role model and a special person to me. We are both girls, we share a special connection and share similar life erxperiences. We are 37 years apart. I am 19 she is 52. She told me "You're special, with a kindred soul" What does that mean? Is it weird to get along so well with someone with such an age difference ? |
Question: The T.V. show Intervention told lies about my mom on camera? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:36 AM PST So my sister was picked for the T.V. show Intervention. Her name is Dallas. If you don't believe me then just wait for her episode. I wouldn't lie about this. Anyway on our second to last day filming they had us come in for a 'family training' session. Like to tell us what to say when Dallas walks into the Intervention room. But the interventionist started accusing my mom of something she never did ON CAMERA. She started saying that my sister and her did heroin together and was like screaming at my mom. My mom NEVER did heroin with my sister. And the lady had no proof. I was so mad! And the producer had us repeat short words. And now I think that they were using the words to make fake sentences for the T.V. show. My sister said yes to treatment and is now in care of like a Texas treatment center but I feel really tricked! I believe that they made my mom repeat words and formed it into a simple sentence about them doing heroin. Because they told the 'interventionist' about the whole situation. So they could of EASILY recorded a fake sentence! I feel like confronting the show after it airs! Because it was so wrong that they purposely created drama when the whole damn thing was about my sister. I would never trust these people again. They scammed us emotionally. All they wanted was drama. Aggghhh. |
Question: My parents accuse me of stealing? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:28 AM PST I used to have somewhat of a bad history. When I was 12-13 I was addicted to game called Runescape (Online Game). I would play it all day, every day. It was my life. (Filler) In Runescape you level up your character and make money in the game. It came to a point where I wanted my character to have tons of money and be the highest level. So I found some websites where you could buy Runescape money and other things for Runescape. But I needed money. Long story short I stole my grandmother's credit card and stole up to $1,000 worth of stuff for Runescape. My parents then found out I had bought things for Runescape using my Grandmothers credit card seeing her credit card bill and I got in serious trouble. They all told are about how disappointed they were with me and how I did something nobody should ever do. Now I'm 15 and haven't played that game in 2 yrs . My parents have recently accused me of stealing and don't want to listen to a thing I say. You see I was selling chocolate for a fundraiser in one of my classes. I had already sold my first box (50 Bars, $1 per bar) and now I was on to my second box. I had 6 bars left of my second box when I brought it home Thursday. Now usually I would bring the chocolate to school to try to sell the chocolate, but Friday we had a field trip for JROTC, so I didn't bring the box to school that day. (Means the box was home all Friday). Now the weekend went by and its was just like any other weekend. Then came Sunday. It was just a normal afternoon when as soon as I come out of the Bathroom my mom's asks "Is this all your chocolate money?", of course I said "Yea why?". One thing leads to another and there seems to $14 dollars missing from the box. (Btw I play poker every Friday night at a friend's house; buy-in is $10). Of course she directly accuses me of stealing the money to play another game of poker, (We played one game that night and I bought in with my $10). Of course I knew in my mind, I didn't steal it so I was like "Who the **** took me money?". But my dad agreed with my mom and they were stuck on the fact that I took it. I forgot to tell you have I have a sister but she's 12 and Idk if she'd steal it. The thing I told my mom to make her really pissed was "Well I'm not going to rule out the possibility of somebody from this house stealing the money". That was her breaking point. "How dare you think somebody of this family would ever steal your money?". Let's skip to the point of just say there very persistent in the fact that I stole it. I thought I might add this in just because, (My parents of very short on money and my mom was very pissed when a friend of mine won $80 from my dad in poker one night, also the fact that she just randomly goes through my chocolate box to see if I have all my money is a little weird). Btw my mom counted the money in my chocolate box and told me I had $14 dollars missing. Monday Night: My parents ask me to count the money right in front of them. I said "Ok". When I counted it it seemed like $24 dollars were missing. Now I'm not sure if my mom counted wrong the first time or what but it seemed weird. Now as you know, they immediately ask me where the other $10 is. I of course have no clue once so ever. For the next 30 minutes or so they continue to argue with me to try and get me to say I took it or confess, but I had no idea where it was. Straight to the point, they were even more pissed now and had pay $24 to make up for the stolen money. (Btw my dad decided to hide the money until i finished selling the last couple bars).One week later: It's Friday night and I'm going to go play poker. Now by a coincidence I finished selling the other chocolate bars that day. Before I went over to a friend's house to play poker I ask my mom if she knew where the rest of the chocolate money was. She said she didn't know because my dad hid it. Before she even gives me the chance to speak to says, "I wouldn't give it to you anyway I don't want your second personality to take it for poker". That's when I got super ******* pissed off. She still had her theory that I had to of taken it. I turned around and said exactly this, "What did you say?" in a mean tone of course. I told her that I only wanted it because I was going to turn the money in next week. But she didn't listen to me. Straight to the point, there still accusing me of stealing when I know for a fact it wasn't me. I go to play poker that night, I lose. I stay the night at my friend's house and come back in the morning. As soon as breakfast is over my mom tells my dad about how I asked for the money Friday night and how she wouldn't give it to me because I would have used it for poker. I then argue to the point where I'm sent to my room for the rest of day, approximately at 12pm on Saturday March 10th. I will take in anything anybody h |
Question: How to convince your parents to let you get a skateboard? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:19 AM PST I'm a 14 year old girl and my parent's wont let me get one, even if I was paying for it with my money i earned. I told then it would be a great way for transportation to school, since they always drive me every morning. My parent's are really over protective and they think that it would be dangerous, because they saw on the news that someone died from a skateboarding accident, they said that they rather get me a new bike (which i don't really want). I'm also Asian, so my parent's think that skateboarding is more of a guy's thing, and girls aren't suppose to do it. How can I convince my parents to let me get a skateboard? P.S. I have been getting good grades, and doing chores/cleaning to convince them too. |
Posted: 24 Feb 2017 04:03 AM PST My daughter is in highschool a junior the end of her sophomore year she started skipping everyday we tried everything we could to stop her even had teachers to escort her to class she would leave the building before school started , me and my husband had spoken with the counselor and principal they insisted a homeschooling program she took a test got in did her work for about a week didn t know anything about the subject and gave up stopped doing the school work all together we took her phone grounded her , then signed her into a school for a couple hours a day and she still didn t do her worked stopped going and says she doesn t care about anything anymore or isn t worried about how her life turns out and always says "I ll figure it out later" or "whatever happens happens" she s given up what should we do ? What are the best types of schools ? What is the best solution she s not a bad child she stays home doesn t go and see friends doesn t do anything wrong just refuses school all we ask is to graduate but we re lost what should we do |
Question: What should I do >:( ? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 03:37 AM PST I hate going places but today my mom told me we were going to take the boat to Sweden tomorrow and we would stay there the whole day and then take the boat back. I told her I didn't want to go but she told me I had to and has even booked the tickets. My mom, my little sister, my older sister and her friend are going and I can already tell I will hate it. I told her I could stay home but she just said no. I am really mad and sad at her because she knew I didn't want to go. There is no way out of it now but what should I do to make her feel guilty for not letting me stay home and how should I be on the way there so she feels bad for me because she dragged me with her. Thanks in advance. |
Question: Are men really that disgusting? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 02:22 AM PST My bro pees all over the seat and haven't used shampoo for months and his room is messy and smells like **** and he doesn't even wear clothes only his underwear and he has acne and hair all over his body yet he wears no clothes and brags about everything and spoiled. And my dad also pees all over the seat and think that me and my mom are his slaves...when I tell them about cleaning the seat they beat me up I mean shiit it's your pee you don't expect me to clean it it's gotten into a point that I pee in the bathtub and **** in the bag |
Question: I think my dad may have physically abused me and my brother but I can't remember? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:44 AM PST I know that he has always been mentally abusive. That's clear to everyone. But I have a feeling that he used to hit me and my brother when we were small children but I can't remember anything clearly. We spent a lot of time as children walking on eggshells and being afraid of him, and I remember being afraid that he would hit us. I also remember a time when he grounded us and he gave us the option to either stay grounded, or apologise and let him hit us with his belt. I remember him actually getting out the belt, but I know that we just chose to stay grounded. I can't help but feel that it wouldn't be out of place for him o have hit us, and that our fear of our father couldn't have come from nowhere. Something had to have caused it. Only I can't remember. I can remember a few select bad times such as the one above, and lots of good times, but I can't remember any time when he actually hit us (if he did). I don't really know what to do. I still live with the family and all but nowadays it's just mental abuse like criticising, assuming that I know nothing (he once told me that i couldn't possibly know who Alfred Hitchcock is even though yes, I do. He probably doesn't even realise that The Birds actually was a book by Daphne Du Maurier and not just a film). Anyway I'm rambling, but I can't help but wonder. The subject of my dad during childhood seems to be some kind of unspeakable topic. It's like everyone knows something, but nobody wants to say it |
Question: Why do you need privacy if you have nothing to hide? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 01:21 AM PST Mother dearest usually demands my phone at random times with some random excuse which revolves about checking for something small or normal (Example: "I just want to see graduation pics etc..). When I say that I'll send them or something like that, she immediately responds with no I want to see them from your phone. Thing is I can't say no cause #1) I can't say no to mum, if I do I get punished and #2) Mum immediately assumes that I'm hiding something by asking for privacy saying "If you've got nothing to hide then why are you afraid and why can't I check your phone? I just want to look at the pictures." Thing is I caught her opening other stuff several times, when I confront her i get lectured and its all my fault. So I guess my question is, how do I counter the "If you've got nothing to hide then I should be able to check your phone normally without you worrying" argument? I don't have anything to hide but I find strong discomfort in having my privacy violated. I just can't find a valid argument as to why I need privacy, I just do. |
Question: Aren't my parent being unreasonable? Posted: 24 Feb 2017 12:38 AM PST I'm a grown 13 year old woman and I made MY own decision to start having sex with a guy who happens to be 36 and my parents caught me and grounded me so last night I snuck out and went to have sex with him but I accidentally fell asleep afterwards and I woke up to like 3 voice-mail of my parents yelling at me! Ugh. I hate them so MUCH! There IDIOTS AND TOO STRICT! My dad is just jealous because he's been having sex with me for years but I decided to "betray" him and now there mad. I'm not going home and I don't feel bad about it, don't you agree? |
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