Well..how to start? I knw this guy frm last 9 years now. For him it was a love at first sight and for me it took over years to love him back. I never had feelings for him untill 3 yrs ago.To be honest i had the best days of my life .We have had a lot of fun together.from driving all night to exploring diff places for the dine out etc.The twist is that I am married for 7 yrs nw with a 5 yr old daughter.I and my husband stayed with our in laws and i feel that he has always tried to balance things between me and his parents.At many instance i wanted to be with him but he ignored(may be he didnt want to hurt his parents).honestly speaking we never get one o one time together that left me showering all his love on my daughter.He went abroad to work for 3 yrs and we both stayed with in laws.The time was really frustrated and stressfull for me.It was too tough to balance the work life for me and since i knw this guy i started sharing my issues with him.He never left me alone and always supported me .I dont knw when I fell from him .I got the love.affection and attention that I always wanted from my husband. 3 mos ago I moved with my husband to another country where he is wrking right nw.why? Because i wasnt clear whom to choose(i think i realises tat i want to be woth this guy).My husband is nice but i dont have feelings for him anymre .this guy is still waiting for mw but I fear of my parents reaction.What do I do?

No pre-nuptial agreement. But if I purchase a house and if I was to divorce my wife, is there something she could sign that is legally binding that says if we divorce, she cannot get the house? She doesn't want her name on the mortgage. And she actually might be willing to sign such papers. But does a document exist? Can one be drawn up legally?

I have tried everything. I have lived here for 4 years and it has escalated. This is an old house (1920) that has been separated into 2 apartments. When you sneeze, you can hear the other person below say bless you. It has been a month of partying with them. A husband and wife. The husband works part time. The wife speaks no English. The wife has other Pakistani over and they party until after 2am. They sleep till after noon. I get up for work early and work a day job. I asked the husband to please keep the parties down and he was offended. He said they do not party or drink. However, there are 4-5 cars piled up into the YARD and blocking my car in until 2am with loud giggling, pounding around, and carrying on until way after 2am. This is every single night. I told the landlord this has been going on. At 3am last Friday, they had over 10 people below slamming the door and yelling in another language all night. I didn't know if they were fighting or what. I had to work the next day, so I called police who told them to stop. As soon as police left, they started again. Since they do not drink, they see nothing wrong. Is this their culture? They are so loud I do not sleep for work and I thought it would stop after the police came but it is worse. I am trying to move but need something in the middle of winter asap and to break my lease with a little girl. Thoughts?

I cant tell who it was ! If I bring it to my husbands attention then I could be in trouble.

It is not that I don't love him, I literally just don't feel like having sex often. I think it begins to lose its spark when you have sex often. I don't know what the "average" amount/week is for an engaged, living together.. couple. I would be okay with a couple times a month, maybe even only once a month, but I think he wants it almost daily. What is everyone's opinions? I would like to go celibate until we get officially married, but we have a daughter together, so I don't think he sees a point in that. I think it would be special.. I just need opinions/feedback I guess. Thanks.

I left a lot behind when I moved to where my husband was stationed. My family, friends and my job. Everything fell apart and after leaving to visit my parents my husband decided he didn t need me living with him anymore. I was sick, completely heart broken. I had just gotten a job there where we were living and everything. After this I felt like he only married me for the BAH to get out the barracks because he s only an e-3. I requested that he help me financially until I can get back on my feet. After he refused I got in touch with his COC and we all agreed on an amount which was just a bah differential. Not a whole lot but enough to get started with. This was back in January... I m just now receiving it march (which I understand since allotments are tricky) but the problem is that it s not the amount that me, my husband, command and if had agreed on!!! It was a lot less. The sergeant in the ID office told me to call them if I had any issues so I did and he told me that he couldn t discuss it with me!!!! What should I do now? I feel so lost like no one will help me. I ve had my vehicle respossessed and while my husband is living his life driving a brand new car around and on top of this I m pregnant! I can t deal with this anymore. I m desperately asking for some advice please.

About 5 months ago my wife moved into the guest bedroom and we have not been intimate since then. One of us are planning to move out soon for the official separation but are we technically separated now?

Hi all! I need some advice. My mother and my husband often argue a lot (my mother mostly does the shouting, my husband does the ignoring). This stresses me out so much because I am between both of them. If anyone cares about Zodiacs, my mother is an Aries and my husband is a Sagittarius. They bump heads all the time and literally do not understand each other. Today was the biggest argument they've ever had and it left in me in tears. The argument then turned between my mother and myself and I became so overwhelmed and frustrated that she was not listening to me that I just screamed at her several times. Literally shouted in her face. I feel like Satan's sister. I feel so awful for it and I apologized immediately. I cried because she wanted nothing to do with my husband anymore, and it hurts because they were close friends before I even knew him! It was through her I met him, but now it feels like my family is divided. My mother does so much for him and he does much for her, but the difference is she can't tell what he does because it isn't as blatant as hers. For example, he'll spontaneously take her car out for a wash or to fix a problem, while she will buy him a great gift. My mother seems to only recognize care when it is obvious and not subtle, so she believes he dislikes her. They don't speak the same language of love. What do I do? I'm so afraid of their relationship really becoming irreparable, and it's so stressful being caught between it all.

sssooo..me and my fiance(who is in prison, out of state) wants to get married. my mother doesnt approve and it kills me inside but i still want to marry my fiance. im taking a trip to him soon and plan to do it down there without her knowing. i still live at home with her in another state then he is,but plan to get out of the house with a soon career change and move out of state down to him..my question, is how do i keep this marriage quiet and unknown from her and legal docs until my fiance comes home(he'll be out by the end of 2017/beginning out 2018)?

I hate my wife! She's a jerk the only reason i married her was so that she can finally get her green card for marriage she used to be my best friend but ever since i married her she became a huge jerk and uses me for things i met her in Canada when i was visiting my aunt we swapped numbers and we been friends for 4 years now. I want to divorce her but i feel bad for leaving her alone in america without having any friends here besides me what do i do? also if i do divorce her will she loose citizenship? Sorry punctuations errors i was writing this quick Sorry punctuations errors i was writing this quick

So, I confess that screwed. Royally screwed. I'm married, 2 kids. I'm also cheating on my wife with 2 women. One is a married woman from work, the other one I met off the Internet a few months ago. 2 weeks ago the woman from work told me she's pregnant. Yesterday, the Internet girl tole me the same. I'm so screwed. I'm freaking out. I'm just going to bail. Next week, middle of the night, I get in my car, and I just leave without saying a word. I have friends on the east coast, can get a job under the table, start a new life and never look back. I'm leaving Wednesday, I've never been more terrified or more excited. My new life awaits me.... what's a good under the table job? I've heard bartending, that could be fun.

So, I confess that screwed. Royally screwed. I'm married, 2 kids. I'm also cheating on my wife with 2 women. One is a married woman from work, the other one I met off the Internet a few months ago. 2 weeks ago the woman from work told me she's pregnant. Yesterday, the Internet girl tole me the same. I'm so screwed. I'm freaking out. I'm just going to bail. Next week, middle of the night, I get in my car, and I just leave without saying a word. I have friends on the east coast, can get a job under the table, start a new life and never look back. I'm leaving Wednesday, I've never been more terrified or more excited. My new life awaits me.... what's a good under the table job? I've heard bartending, that could be fun.

So me and my wife have a child and now we are having twins soon in march.we been on the topic of divorce a few times (not because our relationship is bad) and she said she would take the stuff like out children and her our bus that i brought in my name she also said she would take our money and house. her grandma also hates me and said that she can take all this stuff she knows this because her husband is a police man is this true and if it is can i at least keep my bus? we do go to counseling but the therapist always takes her side and if she doesn't go on her side she gets mad at the therapist also no my wife doesn't hate me only her grandma we do go to counseling but the therapist always takes her side and if she doesn't go on her side she gets mad at the therapist also no my wife doesn't hate me only her grandma also we talk about divorce sometimes cause her grandma makes u too

hey guys i have a question, iv been on welfare for about 2 years and im looking for a job like crazy but still no luck, i just recently got engaged and i wanted to know if i get married, does my welfare stop because they automaticly assume that my husband will support me? and he cant support me or my son yet cuz he only has a part time job and going to school for a nurse. so will they stop my income? thank you :D

My now exhusband accused me of cheating on him because i didnt answer the phone when he called. months later come to find out he was cheating. why do they accuse the innocent? and turn blame?

my wife is fine with it and if she changes her mind i beat her LOL dang it, i only said this to trigger feminists

My wife and I have been married for 9 years and have no children. She likes to study and take classes a lot and is really into that. We haven't been intimate for a very long time. She says she won't until I lose weight, but I don't think I'm very fat. She goes out to study every night at some library and often stays overnight at a girlfriend's place. I really don't think she's cheating. It's just that she's not into spending time with me and this isn't how I envisioned married life. I'm tired of feeling emotionally and sexually deprived. I love her, but this situation is really dragging me down. I don't think she wants to change and I just feel like I'm nothing more than a paycheck sometimes.

so this hot girl has just obtained a job in my husbands workplace... i saw her when i was visiting my husband in his office and i don't know,i am just feeling alittle bit insecure of her going to the same workplace as my husband,...she has some good manners,talks properly and she looks preety my husband is not her coworker,hes like her boss right now i am just really afraid that my husband is going to be paying and giving some attention to her or vice versa,...i have even tried to talk with my husband about these feelings i am having right now but he just tells me that i am so silly and cute and then he just hugs me and tells me that he is mine forever... he never comes home late or do something suspicious,but you know,men are getting worst nowadays and you know what i am talking about...i am really afraid that he is going to be much more interested in her than with me then he is going to compare me to her and starts to think about her,...we have been married for 6 years and has 2 children,...he loves his children so thats a good sign but i have the rights to be worry so, i am confused right now i am good looking but this girl looks like that model "rosie huntington-whiteley" if i could say

My wife and I have been together for 5 years (married 3 1/2 of them). Anyways, we have had alot of problems. We have separated numerous times, but somehow we always get back together. Anyways, things never seem to change. Although, promises are made things always seem to go somewhat back to the way they were. But, the thing that always stays constant is the fact that my wife always accuses me of cheating. If I listen to her, then I will have been sexually active with half of the State of Texas by now. Here's the deal; I haven't cheated nor am I cheating now! I realize that the way we met has something to do with it, because she was married and I had a girlfriend when we hooked up. I left my girlfriend for her and she divorced her husband for me. So, I know she may have some reason to be distrusting, but I have been with her for 5 years married for 3 1/2 and I have been faithful to her. So, why does she keep insisting that I am cheating? I even give her proof that I'm not cheating with so and so, then she says I am cheating with this person or that person. Each time I dispel or deny cheating she comes with another name of some person I must be cheating with. I am so sick of it! It's to the point that when she accuses me of it that I get angry at her for accusing me of something that I'm not doing. Which only fuels her, because she says that I wouldn't get mad if I truly weren't cheating. How can I convince her and I'm not cheating and why does she always accuse me of cheating?

My husband started a new job managing a new company in the area. This job has completely consumed him. I have been very patient with his lack of attention to everything! I want him to succeed. The company has grown and he hired a secretary. I had only one request- she had to be completely unattractive. He hired one and I asked if if her size was larger than me and he said "OH YES!". Ok. Come to find out she is very ATTRACTIVE, thin and a few years younger. HE LIED! Of course I was mad not about the secretary but about the fact he lied. I think this makes the situation look really bad. A little background... I am a stay at home mother to our 5 children. (Yes, he is the father of all 5). We have been married almost 12 years. Our marriage has always been reasonably good. I keep my weight in the healthy range and try to stay groomed so that he will think I am pretty. I am also not a *itchy wife. I don't nag or yell at him. I want him to be happy. I love him. He thinks he was just avoiding a fight by lying to me about her. He has reassured me he hired her because she was capable of doing the job. And that he would never cheat on me and risk losing me and our children. I can see in his eyes he truly means it. This is the problem , I have this sick feeling in my stomach about all of it. My heart is so broken. I can't figure out why. I am not an insecure woman but the thought of that woman coming along and destroying all I have worked to create makes me want to throw up! I wonder if all men are idiots and will give in to anything in a skirt. Even though he is not cheating now, will he in the future? I can't stand the thought of this. She is married with two kids. I have never met her but I googled her name and found her on myspace. I just have a really bad feeling. Am I acting ridiculous?

My husband took a new job less than a year ago that leads him to travel to various festivals across the country about 6 times per year. His job is fun, he likes it, and I encouraged him to pursue it. He used to travel for work in his old job, but not as much, and I dealt with it fine, even with a tinge of jealousy now and then when he stayed at nice hotels like on the ocean in Florida. In his new job, it seems the locations are more exciting, the events more exciting, and I find I am wracked with very angry jealousy. He went to the country music award show in Nashville a couple days ago, and for free to the country music award concert last night. I was supposed to visit in Nashville, but the tickets were too expensive. I am in school right now, so had to study, and was home on the couch doing homework while he posted facebook photos of the event. I am so sad I couldn't go, I actually told him I can't bear to hear about it and wished he wouldn't post photos on facebook for me to find while I was home alone. I am clearly not dealing well with my jealousy. Part of it is also that I will be a nurse - which is a career I love - but will not have the same built in opportunities for exciting travel and dinners out the way he will with his job. We are talking about having kids soon (I'm in my early thirty's, so if we want two kids, we can't put it off for too long), but after this week, I am now second guessing if I want them. I feel like I am going to feel so trapped with kids because it will be my responsibility to take care of them when he travels. We also will not have a budget for me to travel on my own if we have kids - or to go with him on his trips - given how expensive childcare is. I fear that I am going to end up feeling unbalanced in the relationship given his job will provide him with built in opportunities for travel and fun, while I am home with diapers. What do I do?

I have to sometimes, hubby won't come till I do and sometimes it ain't happening so I fake it moan a lot and squeeze his c ok inside I don't think he knows Then he shoots his load and everyone is happy!

I just got home from dropping my husband off at work. Since I did not go in anyplace and was gone for 30 minutes I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

I am on the verge of destroying my relationship. I really want to prevent this because I really love him and would hate to see the relationship go. The problem is, I cannot stop accusing my husband of cheating. I am always imagining scenarios of where and how he could be acting unfaithfully, even when he spends most of his time with me. Yet, I am obsessed with the idea that he could be seeing someone else or making a fool of me behind my back. I have tried to sit quietly with myself to figure out what this fear is and where it comes from. But the fear is so big and so irrational that I can't even get outside of myself to examine what it could be or where it could come from. My family was filled with peole cheating on one another, and all of my friends have been cheated on too, so I guess I just found it hard to beieve that its possible to have someone that won't cheat on me. I am painfully aware of all the trauma I've inherited from my family, and I've been able to deal with all of it except this issue of trust. I should also mention that I do not trust women either, but that manifests itself differently. Usually with women, I don't even bother getting close, but if I happen to, I usually push them away by imagining that they are out to hurt me somehow, either by talking about me behind my back or stealing my husband. Being my husband makes friends with girls better then guys is also harder on me, becasue they get really close and talk about personal stuff like sex, which makes me upset because that should only be shared between me and him...and the way he's super friendly to his friends, boy or girl has an affect on me too because I see the way he waves to these girls and the way his face lights up when he sees them and he's always with them during his breaks at work and going to luch, or in their car listening to music, it just puts these bad thoughts in my head, that I know shuldn't be in there...and I feel so bad thinking he;s doing something he shouldn't be, and even if I know he's not the thoughts are always there...and I hate it. Yeah, he does joke around about cheating on me, and I use to be really worried about it, and I talked to his dad about it a while ago and he said that usually guys joke about it, its just part of who they are, plus I know my husband thinks its kinda funny when I get mad about something so he does things like that. But I have noticed some changes in him that made me think he was cheating, like he doesnt makeout with me anymore, but when we were in school he would do it everytime he saw me. i randomly kiss him, but ussually he doesnt do that to me, Im always saying I love you to him, but he doesnt really say it unless I say it to him, and sometimes even then he wont sa it, which really gets my mind wondering. I just feel like he doesnt love me as much as he use to, becasue hes not really showing it as much. And I feel kinda left out when we go placeses, and sometimes even at home because he will be playing a game or talking to a friend, and im doing nothing but taking care of our daughter, I know he deserves un and free time too because he works and I dont, but I would like to be acknowledged sometimes, and maybe during a break in the game get a kiss or at least an I love you. I want to end this once and for all. Not only is it annoying, but it's also really painful to deal with. I hate causing my husband pain by insulting his character, and I don't want to cause myself pain anymore with my fantasies of him cheating. How can I resolve this? Is there anything I can do to overcome this fear and live happily and in peace in my relationship with others?

He always wants a hug from me

I thought we had a chemistry, I mean she liked me, but she's already with another man besides her husband. So cheating is not a problem to her, how do I fit in this equation ?

I thought we had a chemistry, I mean she liked me, but she's already with another man besides her husband. So cheating is not a problem to her, how do I fit in this equation ?

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He s saying that he won t be able to give them to me because he s in cls class... I don t know what that is. How can I get a copy without him?