My sister has to do a paper for school about aliens. Every time she types in aliens on google that stupid sims game comes up. She doesn't even know what that is. She needs real aliens not from some video game she's never heard of. She's been watching Rocky Horror she hasn't learned much from that. She said the internet doesn't help. She's trying to watch more movies about aliens. How can I help her ? What is sims ?

Le opuse a mi madre irme a vivir con ella luego de rendir mis materias por que alla tendria una mejor vida, efectivamente ella es mas estricta que mi padre asi que mis notas subirian tendria mas posibilidades de comprarme ropa(que con mi padre no tengo por falta de dinero y por que es un alcholico y fumador) y vendria cada tanto, pero aca tengo todo evidentemente mis amigos del colegio de la cuadra aunque no tenga nada tengo todo pero realmente quiero que mi vida mejore y tengo la duda de si o no por favor diganme que opinan🙏🙏

I don't know if this helps answer the question but I'm a 14 year old guy.

I have a diary that I wrote stuff in it. Yesterday that I wrote that I wanted to kill myself, WHICH I WASNT SERIOUS ABOUT AT ALL. IM TOO AFRAID TO EVEN CUT MY NAILS. I hid my diary under my bed and FOR SOME REASON THEY FOUND IT. My sister told her guidance counselor who told my guidance counselor who told me. Now I'm just SO ANGRY AT MY SISTER AND MOM. I VOW TO NEVER SPEAK TO THEM EVER AGAIN. What should I do????

So my dad looked through my social media and said I show too much I'm 15 and I don't think it's that bad.what do you guys think if you need to judge the pictures because you can't really tell email me landamolly@yahoo.com

He is doing it in front of our house and laughed when I waved hi. He has three kids my age and I know they don't like it. He is also what they call divorced so he is not cheating.

Well, im 15 ; my parents work alot and as far as i know my dad only cares about money. Im scared to ask them anything at all because they flip it around so many times that the subject becomes irrational. Im barely allowed to go out , however i cant go further than my street. I have to babysit my brother through the holidays that i have as my parents work and i can t go out because of that. Nevertheless, im not allowed to see anybody - have any relationships because my parents will balme every small mistake that i do on the fact that im in a relationship. Im not interested in sex , nor any personal stuff in this instance . Im afraid to speak to my mom about anything brcause she tells me how hard her life is because my brother takes drugs and her relationship with my dad fluctuates . Im afraid that ill be another one of her problems. I feel irrational , they daid before that my problems font count or matter because im only 15. I have panic attacks often and i dont knoe what to do. There are arguments at home and im not allowed to stand up for my own say because its as if im ultimately answering back; they favouritised my younger brother and its super apparent .i clean the house , cook dinners when needed and do everything that they ask of me , but im never good enough for them. I want to tell them that i have feelings for someone but im scared to talk to them about anything . I don t know what to do.

She holds grudges against my extended family and it puts me in the middle.

This might sound unreal but I can't trust my mothet. She tried her and my father to kill me back in 2014 and make it look like suicide. I ended up in the hospital I was diagnosed with delusional disorder and a mild form of schizophrenia because they both claimed I was crazy. She was always very mean to me. She used to tell me I have ugly features and make fun of my hair. She would also tell me I will never get married and she would rub other girls my age marriages in my face. Telling me they were younger than me and they got married. She has completely destructed my sister. After all this I decided to give her a chance but my brother told me she would my fun of me and tell him someone like me would never get a job. I know you think I should move out but I live ub a muslim third world country and by law I can't live alone. Please help me how should I treat her??

My mother and brother? They always make me feel terrible. I am successful and they are not. They always make comments about how I should do more for them (even though I do as much as I can without putting my finances at risk) they want me to cosign loans and cover phone/cable bills and give them Money if they're short. When I refuse they make me feel like a terrible person during the visit and down on my self for weeks after (I still say no though. That won't change) Would it beasy wrong of me to just stop seeing them and move on with my own life,

we don't fight anymore -- will this last? ihope so. we both swore to each other never to tell a sole.its amazing feelings we do on each other. he is such a handful some mornings, once we almost got caught. I never want it to end.

It's a gang of 8 people, I let them live in my shed until they build they're own little living space. Every night for dinner I invite them in and they eat with my family. Should I be worried about them living in my shed??

A couple of weeks ago she had these bumps on her neck and went to the doctor but never said what it was. I don't stay with my grandparents because they carry rats and roaches inside the house. I remember how much I hated going to school cause I was known for the girl who stayed with rats and roaches but those days are over. I stay with some what like a roomie. I clean up when I get the chance I try my best to not be messy like my grandmother. She is so lazy and nasty and expects me to come up every weekend to clean up her **** so I told her I was done. I got these 2 big *** bumps on my forehead and I know I got them from up at their house. Like she's mad because I choose not to go to her house because she wants to be lazy and nasty. Like remember I came home from highschool one day (I'm 26 now) and I smelt some rotten mess. I went into the kitchen and saw magnets inside the fish she had cook. I was so hurt cause I had friends come over and they saw it and stop being my friend. Why can't she admit she isn't a clean person like she always claim she not nasty but never cleans up. After she uses the bathroom she drops tissue on the floor and never puts it in the trash. I'm so done with her I can't deal anymore. Why can't she just try to help herself? Why? 😔

My mom lost her job and got behind on her mortgage payments and was in danger of losing her home of 30 years. Of all the people she could of asked for help, she asked my ex husband Bill. She really liked Bill when we were married and he really liked her. I guess that friendship did not stop with our friendly divorce like I thought it would. Bill immediately paid the back mortgage payments and also he paid 1 years mortgage payments in advance. He also used his business contacts to get her a new job. That is totally in character with Bill. As long as I have known him, if he finds out someone needs help, he helps them. Mom went from VERY DEPRESSED to VERY HAPPY in one day. I am not sure how I should feel about this. I and my siblings agree that mom should of asked us first for help but we all admit we could not have helped her like Bill did. We just do not have that kind of money. I told Bill we would somehow repay him. He told me he would not accept any repayment. He said mom was great to us when we were married and this was his repayment to her. Am I off base to think mom should of asked us first before going outside the family for help. Is it possible that it would be too embarrassing for mom to ask her family for help?

I have 3 siblings, and I legit always find myself wanting to be an only child. I honestly dont like these people deep down & all they do is get in the way. My family is not rich, so share 2 cars, theyre constantly getting in the way of my work & school schedule. & my oldest brother is lazy, jobless, & doesn't go to school, just a waste of space overall, yet he always wants to buy crap, & and use the car to go party or hang out, so annoying. My little slutty sister as well, she always wants to use the car to hang out with some new boy or to party, and she's only 17. I'm 20 BTW. I know you will most likely say it's normal to not like siblings, but you don't get it, I legitimately would rather have them out my life for good. There is NO cheesy cliché Disney crap of that I secretly like and care about them deep down. I don't like anyone who annoys me, blood-related or not. I think it's so stupid and close-minded that people think you have to like people just cuz they are blood-related. I always envy only children, & dont give me that "grass is greener" cliché BS. The grass is in fact truly greener on the other side. & I met only children who say they love it, only the lame ones say they dont like it just for sympathy, boo hoo. I know I can move out & get away, but Im still in college, so must wait. So until then, Im forced to deal with them. My girlfriend & I will only have 1 child in the future, cuz I don' like it when its crowded, especially when its with annoying people. @Anon- I am young, but not everything I think now will change in the future, ugh! Another cliché cop-out excuse. I hate murder & rape, and I seriously doubt my opinion on that will change, like ever, even when I'm a very old man. But yes, opinions can change over time, but not all of them. My opinions on siblings will not change. Once again, this isn't any that that cheesy cliche family Disney crap, that you have been conditioned & brainwashed to believe that is always the case with everyone.

Let's say you have a 17 year old daughter who's in 11th grade. Her math level is of a 3rd grader and she is doing horribly in math. She also fell asleep in class, eats in class almost daily. She also spends time writing stories about s*x, abuse and basically just disturbing things. What do you do?

We are In a serious relationship talking about marriage. Please explain your answers

No I don't live in her basement but she does still have a relationship with me. She tries to protect me by doing things like warning me who are safe people in the family and who I need to only see if a parent is with me. She made sure I didn't go anywhere when I had laryngitis because people might be offended I am in public with it. I was no longer contagious and supposed to be at my grandmothers birthday. That is just an example of how she is too protective. She has anxiety and I think it is based on that but it causes me to have great anxiety. Also I am 30 not five. How do I get her to get past this without moving 100 miles away and never seeing her again? I had learning disabilities as a kid but nothing severe. I am guessing that's why she's especially protective of me. Also she has enemies in the family and I think sometimes for protecting me Is her way of trying to make them look bad.

. I am 14 turning 15.My family lives in a 2 story-7 bedroom-2 bathroom home with a cabin in the backyard somewhere in the Bay Area.My family had a Nissan, Matrix, Honda Pilot and now we have a Toyota SiennaMy family mostly eats at a restaurant every week.And we go to a theme park every year.This year for my bday my family is going on a Disney Cruise to the Bahamas and Castaway Cay. We're also gonna bf to Florida. So for my bday, I either travel or have a party. Last year for my bday I went to Disneyland. I mostly get two cakes for my bday.I used to go to private school now public school.I had multiple hobbies when i was younger like ukulele, piano, martial art, swimming, tap, ballet, lyrical and hip hop.I used to had maids.My parents put $300 in my bank acc every week. It's also for my college tuition. Because my parents doesn't want me to work during school they want me to work when I finish college so I can focus on school. And my parents gives me money whenever I ask to hang out and etc...I had 7 phones and now a iPhone 6s.I have clothes from VS pink, Hollister, forever 21, and etc. designer bags Wii U, Xbox 360 mac book air, MacBook Pro, and Sony laptop iPad mini and iPad Air 4 piano and ukulele pollairoid camera Solo 2 wireless beats Shoes from adidas, 2 Nikes, huaraches, 2 uggs, Michael Kors shoes, and converse. An art set Leather sketchbook that was like $20

I'm a teen and don't start by telling me it's just ******* hormones or whatever **** you say. I am very mature for my age and I know right from wrong. I hate to even say his name. His a stupid dumb ******* **** and I don't mind if he does. I want him to. He's always supposedly right. I wish he was never my father. All he does is talk talk talk and so ******* controllive . I hate him so much. I hate it I wish he was dead. And it's not just me. It's my whole family thy also doesn't like him but I think I'm the worse. I don't know what to do anymore. Talking to him doesn't work so don't suggest that. The only option is to turn 18 and get an apartment. U think he's gonna let me move out at 18? The ******* piece of **** won't. I hope he dies soon. And I'm proud of saying it thank you very much. I'm done. He needs to check his ******* dumb *** self out. Piece of mother ******* ****. I need help

So I'm fourteen and today I slept in by accident and missed the bus. My mom can't drive and my dads at work. I called my dad saying I'm sorry I did this and this was the first time I had every did this and he sounded infuriated. He told me "Just wait till I come home, little girl. Better pray" and then ended. I'm scared because my dad has never said this to me. What should I do? I've already told him so if i went to school it wouldn't be different. Also he's very strict about grades and has beat me for getting a B so. My parents are overprotective. I can't go to alternate transportation

So My Father Ask me to run, and im lazy, so i edit the result of the running, like i only run for 7km but i edit it to 14km to make my father happy, and that was last year. And today, my father ask me to run, and this time i dont wanna lie to my father again and i got really bad result, and my father told me that if tomorrow i dont reach 10km i would get punished. Im Scared of the punishment, so i want to confess, i know im a coward, but i want to confess. My Father Characteristic: -Hate Lies -Stressed -serious about everything -grumpy -always want to be right

Every since I had my 5 month old baby her father's family has wanted her to spend nights alone with them. His mom buys her lots of things but I always spend the night with her. I let her spend the weekend alone recently and everything was fine. I miss her so much when she is away so it's hard to do already. I let her go this weekend and no one was returning my calls on the come home day, finally his mom called and said "now you know how I feel" but I'm the mother.. Is it normal to let my baby spend weekends away or is his mom messing with me? He has 6 other kids by the way and they have an extremely large family but for some reason they ALWAYS want my baby at their house. He has stopped talking to me because I went to get my baby! PLEASE give me some advice!!!!!

i absolutely despise my dad. and it's not like he left us, or beat us, or emotionally abused us, or drank... he's a good dad, i just can't stand him. he's constantly doing things that annoy me, and when me or my mom asks him politely to stop, he gets mad, or says "he can't help it." because of the way he was raised he thinks he's so amazing and when someone gets mad at him he takes it so personally. he can be quite rude too, he's always pointing out if people are "too fat or "too skinny" and he'll call people who are really skinny "anorexic" he's been really rude to waiters before, and one time he made a "joke" about muslims, that was incredibly rude and horrible and i just couldn't believe my own father said that. and this isn't "typical teenage rebelllion" because i'm best friends with my mom, i love her so much and she means the world to. but i cannot stand my dad and being around him makes me super uncomfortable, like in the car he's constantly adjusting "himself" if you know what i mean, and just so many things he does annoy me, and being around him makes me so uncomfortable. i don't really have any sort of relationship with him. and it's like you hear of girls hating their dads because they walked out or abused them, but i hate my dad even though he's not like that. i just hate when he's here and i wish he didn't live with us i don't want this to affect me later in life.. help???

need to be happier... will this make me happier? Video games are fun. But I feel like when I grow they're a bit of a waste of time. I have a game collection. I'm thinking of selling it. I won't get more than a few hundred for it. Is it worth it for the sakey of my happiness? They are fun but just a bit violent, even Mario. I feel like I'm achieving nothing out of them. Have any of you ever sold or got rid of your entire video game collection? How did it make you feel? Happy? Angry? Please help. I'm 19 I have $1500 in the bank, I live with my parents and I'm going to the local community college. I'm also really tempted to become a photographer with the money from the collection and I want to teach myself to take great photos. Will I regret thi

I been watching a little boy since January and he's been fine since his Dad brings him upstairs one day out of nowhere his Dad brings him and a week straught he just cries waking up my girls he's 19 months so I thought if I went downstairs and got him he wouldn't cry and he don't I get him from his Dad he doesn't cry when I come upstairs but wierd is he is fine during the day when he's here so why would he cry if his Dad ot Mom brought him up? U don't get it he lives it here

I'm 16 years old. I live with 3 people: my mom, her boyfriend and my sister. I currently only speak to my mother, the rest I've shut out of my life. I only talk to my mom because for my own benefits of eating and getting to school. I dislike her because she puts me down and tells me all I do is waste her money when I don't ask her for anything, she offers. Her boyfriend emotionally and verbally abuses us, but she doesn't care. She never checks up on me or asks about my problems, she always says "talk to a professional". Do I have a right to judge her for not being prepared to adopt a child knowing she wasn't financially stable or has no idea how to communicate with her child or even care about how they feel?

So I would like for you put aside your typical "she's your mom, you have to love her", "she's doing her best shut up", and not assume just actually listen. So my mother adopted me at 6 months old, she cheated on my father because he got laid off when I was 8, stripped me away from my home, moved me all the way across town right as soon as I started to make friends at school. Whenever I had problems she would just feed me to get me to shut up, now I'm extremely obese, she offers me food, money, etc but complains that I'm just a drain on her resources. We're also living with her asshole boyfriend who does nothing but emotionally, verbally and physically abuse me, but she doesn't care as long as she can take his money. She has never been one to talk to me about my problems just "it's all in your head" or "go to counseling". It seems she just doesn't care about my feelings. I'm 16 now btw.

My sister is a free loader. She disrespects mv parents and cusses them out. She has destroyed things at home and literally beat my parents. She's an ADULT and older than me. She scratched my dad's arm and fractured my mom's hand. My parents are stupid, they ALLOW this to happen. They won't call the police on her because they're afraid of her getting into trouble. She has made death threats at home and pulled a knife on me and my dad. My dad wanted to call the police but my mom stopped us and even lied to the police. What can I do and how do I win in this situation? My parents seem to not know how to deal with this situation. I told my parents to call the police but my MOM is the one stopping us. I told them to call her dr b/c my sister has a mental problem, and is denying treatment. My parents won't even call her doctor's office. I left a message to her dr office because it was urgent. Btu they didn't do anything about it. I'm also an adult so what can I do? We live together and i thought of filing a restraining order. I don't understand how my mom will still want to keep my sister around even after my sister broke her hand and literally threatened her and cusses her out all the time. All of this really happened and I want some serious advice that can help me. What do I do about my sister when she is a threat, and no one's taking it seriously. My mom is literally endangering everyone by not allowing us to call the police during an urgent situation. I told my uncle about it, and he doesn't want to get involved. My sister is 28. If a file a restraining order, what would happen, we live together as a family? They seem AFRAID of my sister. We all know she's either mentally ill or faking it to get whatever she wants. She s spoiled.

I deal with anxiety and twice I got hit with a strong dizzy spell and my vision went almost blank. Today I went in the shower and felt very dizzy and I was left like with this dizziness till now, I do have a lot of worries, one being that I get a premonition I am going to lose my mom and it scared me very bad, it happen a month ago when I watching tv and it just hit me this strong feeling like I days out abc image me crying and really felt lost, I always worried for my mom and get feelings and thoughts that something will happen and I won't have her, for years and I get it strong but this time was different, I actually like got a vision or something, it wasn't just a horrible thought that came out of no where My mom is only in her 40s, she cares for my sick granddad, my two younger sisters, and she doesn't even enjoy life or live it, she has a belly button herina do from her last pregnancy, she deals with anxiety that 5 years ago she got one so bad when driving she almost pass out and now since then she hasn't drive really I remember years ago asking my mom if she gets the same negativity of not having any of her love ones here anymore and I believe she said yes, I remember when asking her that time I was getting it so bad that I won't have her. Now I'm here scared that I won't have my mom, and I feel dizzy and scared that I'm sick and have cancer. I'm 17 I just want my mom to live until she's old about and sees her grandkids and she lived life before anything

my 8 yr old sons dad has threatened to take my son from me...i mean to live with him. (we live 10 min apart) he wants to get custody of him and has said he will do whatever it takes ( have it on text) to get my son. He also threatened to come in between me and my BF if he has to. He is now telling my son that he can come over whenever he wants..I dont know where to go first. He is very manipulative and contorling he also said that He doesn't need me to take care of my son. He can do it and it's best for my son that way. What do I do? Who do i contact first/

Ever since I was around 11 years old, I would go over to my dad's house to have my step mother hate on me. She blamed their failing relationship on me behind my back, told me that I was trying to break her and my dad apart by trying to get attention, and even blamed his LEGAL problems on me. She thinks she closer to my family than I am, even though she only has known them for 6 years. A few months ago she claimed that I played on my phone during my grandfather's funeral and I cried when she accused me of that because I loved my granddad. My mom still forces me to go over to my dad's house, but I can't stand it over there. My step mother claims that I'm sensitive, but it's probably because they're dumping all of the problems on me and I'm only a high schooler.

I deal with anxiety and twice I got hit with a strong dizzy spell and my vision went almost blank. Today I went in the shower and felt very dizzy and I was left like with this dizziness till now, I do have a lot of worries, one being that I get a premonition I am going to lose my mom and it scared me very bad, it happen a month ago when I watching tv and it just hit me this strong feeling like I days out abc image me crying and really felt lost, I always worried for my mom and get feelings and thoughts that something will happen and I won't have her, for years and I get it strong but this time was different, I actually like got a vision or something, it wasn't just a horrible thought that came out of no where My mom is only in her 40s, she cares for my sick granddad, my two younger sisters, and she doesn't even enjoy life or live it, she has a belly button herina do from her last pregnancy, she deals with anxiety that 5 years ago she got one so bad when driving she almost pass out and now since then she hasn't drive really I remember years ago asking my mom if she gets the same negativity of not having any of her love ones here anymore and I believe she said yes, I remember when asking her that time I was getting it so bad that I won't have her. Now I'm here scared that I won't have my mom, and I feel dizzy and scared that I'm sick and have cancer. I'm 17 I just want my mom to live until she's old about and sees her grandkids and she lived life before anything

I have a cousin who I am really close with and it kills me that she goes out of her way to remain close to my dads ex wife who treated me terrible. I feel like family should stick together, and stick up for each other. How do I confront my cousin with out sounding like a crazy controlling person? I am to the point to where my cousin is going to have to chose between me or the ex. Is that taking it too far? I just cant stand my dads ex and she really treated me bad.

My mom is smoking crack and wasting all her money on it me and my siblings have been trying to get her to stop for years now & she just won't. She only has enough to pay her bills and has ZERO dollars saved up mind you she's 60 years old and has a job her whole life I'm 20 and have more money saved then her My older brother and sister both moved out their older now im the youngest I work a job as a cook but barely make $200 a week and have a car payment phone bill etc I just feel so lost I don't even want to live anymore I don't make enough money to do anything I feel trapped in a never ending cycle please help

So hello guys, im a guy and im friend with this guy. I used to like this girl but not anymore. My friend talk to her now but he keep trying to get me to talk to her. Why though? I mean i respect my friend boundaries and wouldnt get in anyone relationship. I think they are dating but why is she trying to hook me up with her?

I've grown up with an autistic brother and a father who doesn't even know what school I go to or when my birthday is, so I'm used to their behavior and Im not trying to complain, but the dysfunctional style of my family is driving me crazy to the point of where I've had long periods of depression and anxiety and I just want some help. I'm 16 and my brother is 14. I could tell a whole novel of my life right now, from all the times my dad has screamed at my mom and brother to all the instances my brother hasn't even felt like sibling to me, but I'll try to keep it short. Basically, I don't know whats wrong with my dad but he doesn't talk to me or the rest of my family, unless its through screaming or criticism. He's kind of just there, living on the 1st floor of our house, but not talking to any of us. (I say like one word to him a month) I'm serious in saying he probably doesn't even know when my birthday is, as he's never acknowledged it and never given me presents for it (not that it matters) and he doesn't even know what school I go to or what grade I'm in. But in general, he's just never given or bought me anything. He doesn't spend money on ANYTHING, forces my mom to pay all the bills, and eats all the food she buys. It doesn't help that my mom works a minimum wage job, making only $15,000 a year to support us all, yet my dad earns like $50,000 a year and he doesn't spend ANY of it (who knows where all the money goes honestly). But anyway.. My brother's autistic and he fails to acknowledge that, blaming the "illness" on my mother and calling them both "stupid" and "idiots." He used to even hit them, though he's kind of stopped now. Just an example at his distant nature and my brother's condition: My brother recently made a mess in our living room, pooping all over the place and knocking down the curtains (as he frequently does), and then hid in the basement, sitting in the dark for 2 hours straight. ^My dad was on the same floor as him when this happened, but didn't even watch what he was doing (as usual). I come downstairs asking where my brother is, and he doesn't even know, bother, or care. I spent 30minutes looking for him just to find him sitting in the dark in the basement. And you can't even ask him why he was down there or what he was doing, because he responds in one word answers and can't hold a conversation. My mom's never home so I cant talk to her, and Im a very shy person and have no friends to confine in either. I just feel so alone and frustrated that this is the way my life is. I don't know why I'm writing here on yahoo answers, but I hope someone will actually read this and just offer me some advice cause right now I just feel so unmotivated to continue living this way, and what I've wrote above isn't even the half of it. Every second spent in this household just depresses me even more.

Over the years my family have said and done things to me that have really hurt my feelings and when I talked to my sister about how it makes me feel unloved and hurt all she says is that s my problem and I m retarded, sensitive, and need to grow a backbone. I just don t know what to do, they just make me not want to be here anymore.

We were goong to get a pizza and then my brother came and ruined it and he said he wanted hamburgers so we got that instead then he said that pizza is fpr babies and we eat it too much. Then he found my diary an hour later and he told dad that I wrote Donald Trump is hot then dad Said Donald Trump is not hot. Im' really upset and I'm not really a Trump supporter i just think Trump is hot but I dont really like politics

When I met him he had originally moved from Italy. All the years he has been here he has never even talked about moving back, if anything it seemed the opposite, that he saw his future and his life here. Only a few months ago him and his mother sold their apartment in Italy and he said they were buying a house here. He went for a holiday for two weeks without me, apparently to go with his mother to sign documents. He ended up getting laser eye surgery, teeth work. I said why don't you get it done here, he says because everything is better in Italy. Which I found ignorant. He went on a rant complaining about my home country saying the food is terrible, the weather is depressing, the people are cold. He then went on to say that he is moving back to Italy in a few months with or without me. I told him I don't have the language, I have family here, pets, college etc... All throughout his college years I supported him, I started college only last year due to illness and working instead and he is leaving me to go to another country in my first year? He never even talked about this with me, nothing. He told me he got me a book to learn Italian and its up to me if I want to leave college and go with him. He is coming back from a 2 week holiday tomorrow, and I don't even want to see him anymore. Should I just move on with my life here, I feel like I am not left with much choice? What do you think? I don't know what to make of all of this?

I feel that i am toxic for my family because i am constantly lying to them and making fake promises that they will get really disappointed when they find out the truth. I also failed twice college. I was thinking writing everyone in my family a personal letter showing them that i love them and that i dont want to hurt them.

So I'm 13, I just got a phone, and I was super excited. A few weeks ago my mom ran in the room pissed with me because there was were girls (I'm a boy) that I didn't know, but were my best friends good friend. They sent pictures while they were in the shower (not of themselves but like a picture of the curtain. She doesn't like me talking to randos, but little does she know I've done it since I was 10. I think its fine and I know how to handle myself. More recently I have been texting this girl, and she asked me out. I asked my *DAD* about this and he said it would be fine with him if her and I went on a date. But, since my mom was spying on my phone in some way idk how, she knew about this before my dad did! She also rifles through my phone, and has so many restrictions on it. For example, I can't even go on colgate.com! I'm so done, how do I stop my mom from getting my stuff? Any software or other advice? Thanks!

My sister is 35 and I am 24. Our mom and dad got divorced just before I was born. My mom has many issues, like she only has a 5th grade education, and is schizophrenic. My mom and sister do not get along and do not talk, my mom verbally abuses her, but claims that my sister is hateful towards her. My sister is a very successful and intelligent person. She has done a lot for me, like give me advice and take me on trips, and is a role model to me as my family otherwise is a mess. She can be judgemental of me and thinks that I am unappreciative and that our parents are better to me than her. Basically she got married and pregnant this year, and told my dad and me and stepfamily that she was pregnant, but not to tell anybody. Our mom ended up guessing she was prego and I said yes. My sister was very mad about that. She also thought I was talking about her behind her back and doesn't trust me anymore. I didn't reply to her very angry all caps text for way too long until today, 3 months, and now she thinks I just don't care. I was mad at the time and did t want to reply, and people told me I should let her cool down, then I got anxiety over what to say to her. It makes me very sad and I don't know how to repair things or if their is a chance things will be better someday.

I think I'm going freaking crazy. I am 21 and I live with my mom and her husband (I don't claim him as my stepdad). He just retired. And my mom quit her job I guess to be with him. I hate him with a passion. He makes me feel so uncomfortable. We don't even talk to each other and I've known/lived with him for like 5 years. He hates me. I anyway. I feel like I am no time to myself. He is constantly in the living room 24/7 sitting down. I feel is though now I have to stay trapped in my room everyday. I'm too uncomfortable to even go eat a meal in the kitchen that's how uncomfortable he makes me feel. Before when he worked .. 4am-5pm. To do my thing . But now this is become 24/7 on him in there . It's been almost a month. I'm going crazy. I'm getting depressed & I feel there's nothing I can do. I can't move out bc I can't afford anything by myself & the obvious I have no credit to even try. I was planning on living with my boyfriend in 6mo. To save up and to buy a car. But this is the hardest thing I have to do. Is there any advice to get me through? I'm literally, not exaggerating, crying myself to sleep of how depressed I am living here. Just imagine staying in your room all day when you're not working.. it sucks so much.

My Mom and her sister are so similar so they fight. I am scared they might hurt me, my Mom especially. What do I do? I am 22 but I have to see them sometimes. My Mom already hurt me when I was a kid to get retribution on her sister and hurt her sister's daughter to get retribution on her sister. Meanwhile my Mom's sister does the same thing to her kids.

I am 16 female. My mom and 11 year old sister me sometimes because we're all girls. If I'm coming out of the shower and they're nearby I don't bother covering up. My 14 year old brother has seen me twice when he's deliberately spied on me showering. Grrr. My dad saw me when he accidentally walked in on me getting dressed yesterday.

I m 18 and will be 19 next June. My best friend said I could move in with her and my family is against it. They re very religious and don t let me watch anything that has magic or anything that would be offensive in the Bible (rated r, LGBTQ) and I m not allowed to date (I have a LDR boyfriend but my mom refuses to allow it, saying that s not dating anyway and my bf could die at anytime because of cancer related concerns) and I can t drive and they want me to work in a place they don t like themselves. As soon as I bring up the subject she either screams at me or gives me the silent treatment for a few days. My friend isn t reckless and is responsible (my mom not liking her because she says I just want to do whatever I want over with her because her parents aren t as strict) My siblings gang up on me and guilt trip me too, saying my mom could have died when I was born. I tell my mom calmly that I want to move and I just end up being screamed at. I even ended up crying in the counselor s office. My counselor suggested talking to her calmly and she ended up saying I shouldn t move because she tried when she was my age and wanted to and she didn t like it. I want to have approval to do it but I don t want to keep being screamed at. What can I do? (and please don t just say prove you re responsible because I ve tried and she just says I think I m so smart and think the world is perfect etc) Thank you!

Im 16 now and I was 8 when my father passed away. Its always been hard, but as of recently i've been thinking more about him and about how much I wish he was here right now. My mom is all I got left, but its difficult because a mother can teach you a lot of things, but only a father can teach you how to be a man. I miss him so much and its taking a toll on me and I don't know what I can do. How can I deal with this?

So whenever my family visitors my cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents, I always see my 14 year old cousin. She makes me feel insecure and ugly and I don't know how to act. She is really nice, but I just feel horrible around. She is really pretty and I feel fine around public but around her I feel ugly. Any help?

So, I've always grown up with the an african american father and an african american family. But when i was younger, my mother always used to tell me that my dad, wasn't my dad. But he was infact a dominican man that died before I could meet him. Now, I can tell you that I DO NOT by any means look like my father that I grew up with at all. I'm very light skinned, my father is dark skinned. None of my facial features resemble his at all. I have very straight hair, very silky. Some would call it "caucasian hair". But, I was born with the same birthmark my father has on his foot. As of recently, my mother's side of the family has told me the same thing about the dominican man and I'm not sure what to believe. Is it just a coincidence about the birthmark?