Friends: Question: What do I do? I can’t emotinally take it, so should I leave? They also made me quit my job? |
- Question: What do I do? I can’t emotinally take it, so should I leave? They also made me quit my job?
- Question: And... how is our friend?
- Question: Where should I sit during lunch/ advice please! ):?
- Question: My friend is mad at me, what do I do?
- Question: Should I cut her from my life ?
- Question: Real Stories of growing up to be stronger and taller than bullies or abusive guardians.?
- Question: Me and my friend had a fight and she isn't contacting me... what do I do? Plz help?
- Question: I didn't do anything fun for my 18th birthday? Should I feel bad about it?
- Question: I think I might be depressed?
- Question: How can I make two people hate each other?
- Question: Accidentally sent a pantie picture in snapchat groupchat?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: Please Help! I'm depressed about what happened at school today?
- Question: My rude friend?
- Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you do this?
- Question: What should I do about my rude friend?
- Question: Friend insists we split bill, her half is more?
- Question: I'm getting picked on!?
- Question: How do I tell my parents I have an opposite gender Internet friend?
- Question: Is this an example of gaslighting?
- Question: How can i make my friend feel better because they are sad and worried?
- Question: My, "considered" best friend keeps ignoring me?
- Question: Does she really care about me?
- Question: How do you tell a close friend that their hygiene is a little off...?
- Question: How to increase my confidence, I'm at the end of my rope! (Story below)?
- Question: Can we have fun at work?
- Question: Is it okay to be frustrated with my friend(s) for this?
- Question: Did I do the right thing to not mention this to my friend?
- Question: How do I defend myself(verbally)?
- Question: Friend won't stop calling me when I have asked her to stop, why?
- Question: Someone please help me before I commit something stupid. I feel worthless and useless. I'm at work and crying to my self. Help me please.?
- Question: No mean answers please. The girls at my office are so petty and rude to me. How can I deal with it?
- Question: How do I help someone who experienced the death of a loved one?
- Question: Why wont the attorney generals office give me my DNA test results over the phone?
- Question: Best friend or foe?
- Question: My guy friend seems sad how do i cheer him up?
- Question: Best friend or foe?
- Question: How do i get out of this situtation :( ?
- Question: Why does nobody like me, even in my 30's?!?
- Question: Can't seem to find a true friend?
- Question: I want a love letter to my best friend?
- Question: If a friend wants you out of her life, what will she do when she lands in same group, will she run away?
- Question: Demy finally you get what you worth and i am very happy for this?
- Question: How do I get you people to like me?
- Question: Poll: My friend is trying to brag/bring up that I never had a boyfriend...?
- Question: My roommate is spoiled , has money to buyself nice things but doesn t help out to pay for utilities. (She says shes "broke")?
- Question: How or what is the best way to teach a girl, whose my friend only not my girlfriend haha, to skateboard?
- Question: Hello, I m planning a birthday scavenger hunt for my best friend and I need a clue that heads to breakfast or hot chocolate. Thanks?
- Question: My friend is constantly complaining and it's so annoying?
- Question: How to get back into a friend s family after being kicked out?
- Question: I have problems making friends with guys. I am also a guy, but i have problems being outgoing with them even when we have common interest.?
- Question: Does this make me a b*tch/bad person?
- Question: Friend insists we split bill, orders more?
- Question: If you are being pressured by a friend to do something a sign of manipulation?
- Question: Why are people jealous?
- Question: I need help. Life isn't that great for me right now...?
- Question: I'm being harassed by my 'best friends'?!?
- Question: Do I let him live in blissful ignorance or do I let him know what's happening?
- Question: Umm My water friend in school is throwing up and there is no teacher?
- Question: Caught friend having sex with dog?
| Posted: 15 Feb 2017 04:44 PM PST 3 weeks ago I said I was @ a friends for the night but went to this ghetto party. My parents found out even after this friend & I made up lies to keep our parents from finding out. My phone was taken, but I had a 2nd phone & the night I got grounded I told a friend about what happened. The nxt morning, my mom tore my room to pieces until she found my 2nd phone. She got the full story from the txts what really happened the night b4. They had me sign a contract that is way too harsh, I get that I should have consequences but I cant hang w/ any of my blackfriends,or my best friends ever again, I don't have a phone, & I get yelled at & get emotionally twisted every moment Im home. Years ago, my bro couldn't deal w/ the instability of my parents bc they try to get divorced all the time. my home is toxic & has been emotinally abusive for us,he got emancipated at 16. I cant to do the same, I mentioned taking a few weeks to live at a friends so that we could all figure out what got us to this point, my dad threatened to accuse that boy I hooked up with ofrape. |
| Question: And... how is our friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 03:18 PM PST |
| Question: Where should I sit during lunch/ advice please! ):? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 03:17 PM PST So in my lunch i had this group of friends, but i recently started not talking to this one girl in my friend group and now whenever i sit there it's incredibly awkward and i just stay on my phone on my music while they're all laughing/ she's being shady towards me. I was thinking "why do i do this to myself everyday, why do i sit there." but i'm also friends with some people in that group still so i can't just fit with another group; plus i don't really talk to anyone else in my lunch block. anyways i was planning to sit in the bathroom stall (lame i know) but i was thinking people go in and out of that during lunch and i don't want people to think i'm using the restroom for 20 minutes. Anyways we have a library right basically in the same space as lunch so it's no big deal to go in there, but i'm so nervous to do that.The library sounds way better to sit than the bathroom stall and i plan to chill in there with headphones and studying or something " I know i'm making no sense right now i'm sorry but it's miserable sitting with her there. It feels like she stole my friends and it makes me so angry to just hear her voice that's how much i dislike her, shes also in my class.. what should I do? advice needed please. Also how can i not be bothered by her, i just ignore her and i really really don't wanna talk to her at all, she has no motive to talk to me either: and it just makes me feel so depressed sitting by herPlease help |
| Question: My friend is mad at me, what do I do? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 03:13 PM PST My friend and I both play flute in band and in our new music there was a solo and my friend normally always gets the solos. But this time my band directer gave the solo to me and now she blocked me on instagram and snapchat and she keeps hating on me. |
| Question: Should I cut her from my life ? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 03:06 PM PST A friend and I have been talking for about 2 years now. [We will call this friend G] At first it was just a small friendship, but now we re pretty close and talk everyday for a long time. G has told me that she s developed a crush on me, but I do not like her like that. One night, a different friend texted me about G. This friend told me things including: "If I were you, I wouldn t talk to G anymore." "I know she s probably a good friend to you but don t get yourself hurt." "Unfriend G, block her, get away from her." "Trust me, she s not the innocent, nice friend you think she is." "I know you re confused, but you have no idea some of the stuff she s said she d do." "I m telling you this because she s told me some crazy things she s been planning." "She s crazy and said some crazy things about you." "Crazy things like what she wants from you. What she wants to do to you." "I can t say what it is because it is disgusting and sick." "Promise me you ll stay away from her." "And don t tell her about this conversation, don t tell her about me warning you." [This is only a summary of our conversation, but still covers the important parts.] This conversation, of course, creeped me out a lot. However, I was very hesitant to block G, as she suffers from depression. She has told me that she cuts. [And she has cut very recently.] Eventually, though, I was persuaded into blocking G. I was very, very worried about G the whole time she was blocked, as she has come close to suicide. |
| Question: Real Stories of growing up to be stronger and taller than bullies or abusive guardians.? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 02:58 PM PST I have ran way from an abusive home and I do not miss my lousy family at all I do worry about money issues only and I do feel lonely knowing I cannot see my friends ever again. I do not feel lonely because I am away from my parents. Do not get me wrong. Anyway, was anyone bullied by a school bully or even a family bully that when you are ready to defend yourself such as fighting back; the bully guardian or school bully is either disabled, dead and you cannot hit them back. I just hate when I see movies of victims being abused by someone stronger whether taller or not but when it is their turn these whiny people say "violence is not an answer" I do not care of that. But I recently saw a movie where the evil bully died peaceful in the end and the victim has to live on a sad life. I hate that. It does not happen in real life does it? I need a true story to cheer me. But if there is none to cheer then it is ok I do not want pretty lies over a painful truth. |
| Question: Me and my friend had a fight and she isn't contacting me... what do I do? Plz help? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 02:37 PM PST She's my best friend, and yesterday me and her had a fight. She was currently staying at a hotel for vacation, and she sent me some picture of her food, and it looked like she got it from the internet and when I told her she got mad and starting going on about how I never believe her and how we even became friends in the first place and I'm not going to lie, I have trust issues, I don't trust a lot of people and I feel horrible, I feel useless right now, everything that happened is my fault. She hasn't texted me since around 7:50pm it's currently the next day (2:40pm) and she hasn't texted me back since. I don't know what to do I feel really bad and I really want to talk to her again what do I do? Do you think she blocked me? Plz help this is serious! |
| Question: I didn't do anything fun for my 18th birthday? Should I feel bad about it? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 02:34 PM PST Hey guys, so I've been thinking about this lately. I turned 18 recently and even though it's supposed to be such a huge deal, I had a very small celebration. Every year before, I celebrated with my childhood friends (since I was 11) and I'd have pretty big parties. The thing is, these people made my childhood miserable and weren't REAL friends. They treated me horribly but I was too shy to speak up for myself and let them know I don't appreciate the way they're treating me. They were also embarrassed to be seen with me. They took advantage of my kindness. I was a very loyal friend to them. They stuck around until I was 17 - two months before my 18th birthday - and stopped contacting me out of the blue, probably because they realized our "friendship" was not a real friendship. I'm still quite shy and have some difficulty making new friends, so without them I couldn't really have a big party. I was happy to finally get rid of them and all, but ironically I had the smallest celebration for my 18th and thinking back, should I regret it? So many people are out enjoying themselves with their friends and I feel like mine was just eh. |
| Question: I think I might be depressed? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 02:07 PM PST Hello Everyone, and thank you for reading this. I really don't even know if anyone is reading but thank you if you do. Ever since I graduated high school I just feel like I lost everything in life. I am now in my second semester of college and i feel alone. I feel like I lost all of my friends in school because they don't want to hangout with me. I tried making plans with a couple of them but they would reject it which made me not be friends with them. I feel really lonely because I am no longer happy with life. I mainly hangout with my family but it get's a little boring sometimes. I always feel sick and nerved out when going to work. I just get so excited when it's time to leave because I race home and watch netflix. I just feel like a waste of space. |
| Question: How can I make two people hate each other? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:32 PM PST I m a 16 year old guy and my best friend (male) and my other not best friend but up there on the list (female) are always talking to each other and tbh my best friend kind of ignores me. They either yell at each other and won t talk or they get along just fine and flirt and hang out. How can I make these one of these individuals want to rip the guts out of the other? Yes, I know its petty, and I should not let jealousy control my actions. I have morals and enough intellect to know what I m doing but neither the willpower nor the compassion to really care. |
| Question: Accidentally sent a pantie picture in snapchat groupchat? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:30 PM PST Okay so im 13 and I was taking pictures pretending to be this girl in my school who always takes nudes so I took a picture wrote a caption then deleted it. Then this time I accidentally sent one to a groupchat and didn't know about it and no one said anything they just replayed it. Then I sent another and noticed and I was like "omg oops!!". I just told them I was pretending to be a girl and they flipped out on me calling me a slag and saying wtf and all that. I didn't mean it at all but BC I ACCIDENTALLY sent two I feel so bad and like they'll tell people and I'll get slagged. I'm crying and I have school tomorrow and I need to talk to them. What do I do. Please help I'm so upset. 😭😭😭 |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:28 PM PST http://imgur.com/a/eot40 |
| Question: Please Help! I'm depressed about what happened at school today? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:24 PM PST So basically, I was in Civics class. And I was at my desk working on a worksheet. And then, out of no where. the TA (Teacher's assistant) named Sam SCREAMS SO LOUD my name so i say "what?" and he screams "GIVE ME YOUR PHONE!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" So I do and say "jeez" to myself and then the main teacher named Mr. F**** SCREAMS my name and i say "What" and he said DONT TALK BACK TO THE TA! and i say " i didnt.." and he said "YOU DID, YOU SAID JEEZ" so i say "ugh" and then later i finish my classwork and then this girl behind me named Nina's phone went off and then the TA Sam and Main teacher Mr. F start screaming that my phone was on so they both grab my desk and pull it back and search for my phone and then they get it and TA Sam throws my phone as hard as he could out the window and then Mr. F**** dumps everything out of my desk and takes all my work and throws it out the window too and then throws my desk at me LITERALLY! Im freaked out and then the bell rings so we leave! wth do i do |
| Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:17 PM PST I have a friend and we had a messy past, we fought a lot verbally, were rude to eachtoher, etc and I won't deny that I was a terrible person to her but it's been years and I have said sorry to her about it, I just grew up and realised I was being a terrible friend but she still acts the same. She is always rude to me, expects me to give her money or my time, never lets me speak and anytime I point this out she calls me sensitive because I have started to question and disagree with how she treats me. I have no problem cutting her out of my life, but the issue is I have a childhood group that she is a part of and because she comes out with us extremely frequently it would be hard to avoid her and still interact with them so how should I go about handling things? Should I demand respect in every opportunity? Should I just come out rarely to them to avoid her? Should I go out anyways and ignore her? any advice would be appreciated :-) thanks for reading Tl:dr I have a rude friend, what should I do? |
| Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you do this? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:08 PM PST I have to leave soon to take my friend home. She came over after school to help me with my homework. I am not barefoot I took off my shoes and socks as soon as I got home from school. Since I am not going in anyplace and coming right back home I am going to drive in my bare feet and not going to bring my shoes. |
| Question: What should I do about my rude friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 12:52 PM PST I've had a friendship with this person that was very aggressive, we nevertheless hurt each other physically but have always had a "frenemy" last year where I stopped reacting as much, and if I did it's usually in a positive way I won't deny I have gotten mad but I can't let someone walk all over me, but the thing is even if I ask for respect, for her to stop calling me names, etc she continues with the verbal abuse and she expects me to take it too! Anytime I talk it's "Shut up" "your weird for caring about x y z", etc and it's not the words she is saying but the disrespect that's bothering me, so I was wondering what should I do about this friend? The thing is I wouldn't mind cutting her off but because she is apart of the same friend group as I am and we are all childhood friends i don't want to get rid of 3 good relationships for 1 bad one, is it a "1 apple will ruin the bunch" thing? Should I leave them all? Should I try be sympathetic and convince her t become nicer? Should I demand respect over everything? I'd appreciate the response! thanks for reading! Tl:dr I have a disrespectful friend and I'd like a solutation as to how to deal with her |
| Question: Friend insists we split bill, her half is more? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 12:48 PM PST So I recently lost a friend. We were at a dinner place and she said "can we just put it on your card and i'll send you money?" because they couldn't split the bill. The bill came to $50. She wanted ice cream later so she said she'd pay for my half since I got dinner. I assumed she meant she would then pay the difference for dinner and just subtract the amount of my ice cream ($5) but when I brought it up, she seemed annoyed that I had asked. She said "I still owe you money?" She said "I'll send the difference" but I had to remind her two more times before she finally sent the $20. Now she no longer talks to me. Was I wrong to ask her for the money? This was on my birthday* |
| Question: I'm getting picked on!? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 12:01 PM PST Ok so everyday it's the same thing. My "guy best friend" supposedly, he is always picking on me, taking my stuff away, saying stuff that I'm the type to be a prostitue when I get older or a porn star. I always tell him to stop and he doesn't. Then my other "friend" he starts laughing and joining in with my friend. And I get so mad sometimes I feel like crying, but I just hold it in. It happens everyday and I'm getting tired of it and I can never talk to nobody about it because I have no friends. And I don't know how to tell my mom. I'm crying right now literally while typig this. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How do I tell my parents I have an opposite gender Internet friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 11:21 AM PST I have Internet friends that are girls and my parents are fine with me meeting up with them and chatting and everything but now I have an internet friend that is a guy. I've never had any guy friends or even dated so I'm not sure how my parents will take it. I'm 19, but I'm scared how they'll react bec they're protective. He lives a few hours away and I wanna meet up with him or invite him over to hang out and play video games. How do I tell them? I'm not sure how they'd react. |
| Question: Is this an example of gaslighting? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 11:10 AM PST The situation is; I have a friend that I talked to a lot over the summer, and we got to be pretty good friends. Once school started up again, he hardly talked to me or approached me, and when I tried to talk to him he always seemed eager to get away from the conversation or talk to someone else. I told him that this is what it seemed like he was doing, and he denied it and said "No. That's not true at all, I never do that. You're making this up, it's all in your head. It's not real." I didn't think this was gaslighting, but I told my friend and he said it sounded like it was. I think I'm just being over sensitive. |
| Question: How can i make my friend feel better because they are sad and worried? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 10:58 AM PST |
| Question: My, "considered" best friend keeps ignoring me? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 10:52 AM PST So, basically, I have this friend. A considered best friend. I don't want to offend her using her name, so we will call her, 'friend number one.' Now, friend one has been with me in a school for two years now, we are CURRENTLY in Middle School. { Currently she is in 7th grade, and I am in 6th grade. } And I'm a bit afraid that she is now ignoring me. In the first year, I didn't really use to hang out with her. But now, in the second year, she had a breakdown, so, as a friend of her's, I helped her. We gained a trust in each other and deemed ourselves, best friends. But now, she ignores me. Every time I say her name, she ignores that. I have a small tidbit of proof. Cause she was looking at me, fully listening. And when I asked her a question, she just walks away. I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong. She used to be so happy to see me. I will list my relationships with a few others who are a straight bother. Friend number two, she isn't a bother really, but she does sometimes sneak on our conversations, and she is a slight, "know it all." Friend number three, she is the friend of number two. And these both, are just know it all's. And they are a straight bother to when I'm trying to hang out with, "friend number one." they just, take her away. And then, friend number four. Oh my god, she is the biggest bother, she has a best friend, that is CURRENTLY in Africa. And I literally want her to not exist! Should I give up on my best friend? Ignore them? I'm so upset.. |
| Question: Does she really care about me? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 10:47 AM PST my name is Karl and I have a close friend Adrianna, we been friends for the past 3 years. lately ive been really sick and been at the hospital. so 2 nights ago i had surgery for 6hrs and she was here the whole night, and she has been calling and calling asking if I need anything. does this girl really care about me?? we had a big fight 2 weeks ago |
| Question: How do you tell a close friend that their hygiene is a little off...? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 10:01 AM PST My friend stinks around her period and idk how to tell her to close her ******* legs cuz nobody wants to smell the ocean!!!!! |
| Question: How to increase my confidence, I'm at the end of my rope! (Story below)? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:47 AM PST Hi everyone, I'm a 16 yo guy with some problems. I'm really self-conscious for alot of reasons. First, I'm always afraid that if I do something, I'll fail, and thus fail the people whom I'm doing it for. So usually I just avoid and quit tasks which doesn't really have a great influence. Also if I do something and people say i've done well, i always get the feeling they just say that because they feel sorry for me. Second, I've got some awesome friends who care about me for who I am, and whatever I do. But again I sometimes got a feeling they just hang with me because they feel sorry for me. Deep down i know it's not true but I keep speculating that kind of sh*t. A lot of answers will be, talk to someone, there's just one problem. I. hate. talking. I have a lot of trouble talking to people because of trust issues (form the past). I also feel like people think I'm an exagerator and just dismiss it. The friends I have are all going or went trough the same so I'm affraid I'll trigger them to do things that have already left a permanent mark on them. I hope you have some ideas for me. Thanks in advance! |
| Question: Can we have fun at work? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:35 AM PST Where I work, an office, I am one of 9 women in our department. We have a 27 year old guy Jim as a boss. We think he is the best boss in the world. Some of us have turned down higher paying jobs in the company to stay with Jim. We are well paid for our work and enjoy coming to work each day. Besides being our boss, Jim is our good friend. He is fun be around and he makes the hours at work seem to fly by. Most other people in the company would love to have our jobs. We love to kid around with Jim and he loves for us to do it. For example, at a staff meeting one of us said "Jim, are you religious?" He said "no, not very". We said "Does that mean you would not be interested in trying a missionary position"? We all had a good laugh and no one laughed harder than Jim. Most of our co workers would love to be in our group but a few tell us this is a business and we should not be having fun at work. What do you think? Should we be able to have fun at work as long as we get the jobs done? |
| Question: Is it okay to be frustrated with my friend(s) for this? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:33 AM PST I have known a girl for 5 years now and through out that time we have been pretty close compared to others. Well lately I have made these two really cool friends online and talk to them constantly, but yesterday my friend took my phone and started talking to them through the group chat I had with them. It was fine and all until she started following their social media and then went on to talk the one I'm closest to in a separate conversation and only would talk to me about how much she would date him and ignoring any other subject I brought up. It just makes me feel like she's trying to take them from me, because she has admitted to trying to do the same thing to her other friend. I am so pissed off and/or frustrated with her and just want to tell her to back off but I don't want to be mean. Is it okay to react like this? Or is it childish and I should stop being intimidated? I know my general anxiety also plays a part in my feelings here as well. |
| Question: Did I do the right thing to not mention this to my friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:32 AM PST I am a guy intern at a company. My good friend Ann is also an intern at the company. One day Ann's mom came buy to pick her up from work and Ann introduced me to her mom. We had a brief conversation before they left. Ann's mom seemed to me to be a very nice person. The next day a work Ann asked me if I saw anything unusual about her mom. I did. Her mom had the biggest boobs I had ever seen. However there was no way I was going to say that to Ann. I just said "your mom is unusually beautiful". I though I had dodged a bullet by not saying anything about her mom's boobs. Giving this more thought I think Ann wanted me to say something about her mom's unusual boob size. But what could I say? Did I do the right thing to not comment about boob size? |
| Question: How do I defend myself(verbally)? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 09:11 AM PST I cant physically or verally defend myself. 1)One friend lied to some people about me, I tried to tell them the truth but I didnt let me say properly and kept intrupting me to lie, gave strong comebacks, and I couldnt defend myself. Later everybody thought I did that even tho I didnt. 2) One friend told some nasty stuffs to me and I told him to stop doing it but he didnt. Later people found out but he painted me wrong and I couldnt do anything. this keeps happening again and again, I cant do anything. |
| Question: Friend won't stop calling me when I have asked her to stop, why? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 08:43 AM PST I work full time, am married, with kids, and cannot be on my cell phone. My friend is y age (we met in high school) is unmarried, and still lives at home (with her parents). I have had to disabled Facetime on my phone because she will literally bug me all day long trying to FT. I have told her NUMEROUS times that I WORK (she only works part time) and cannot be answering her calls or texts all day, as its against company policy. She still won't stop and accused me of "being mean" when she started bugging me with an idea she had recently and I told her I am busy at work and cant be answering her at the moment. What can I do? |
| Posted: 15 Feb 2017 08:42 AM PST Well ever since I was a child I've been alone and depressed. I was always bullied and treated bad by my brother who use to hit me. I'm 24 but I feel alone as ever. The bullying never stopped. I feel like my friends just ignore me. I do everything for this one friend of mine and always pay for his meals and now hes ignoring me and does not want to speak to me I don't know why.My other friend is writing a book about an old stalker we had in high school and I told him about a few facts that I though he should know about since is based on a true story. I was only trying to be helpful but he proceeded to betch me out and saying that I don't need to tell him anything unless he asked ad that I need to keep quiet about what about say about his book. and it hurt my feelings I only did it with nice intentions. But it's not just him or that it's everyday I have to live feeling alone and having no friends ever since I was 6 years.I was bullied awful pushed and hit by other having to hide in the bathroom stalls and I know I should forget but it always come back to haunt me even though I'd forget for a while. I thing I may need professional help. I never told anyone the horrors I went through. And I'm think about cutting again I know it's not healthy. But I feel so alone and depressed. What can I do. The story goes beyond just this And my mom never cared I was beat by my brother nor bullied. She claimed I never told her but I did plenty of time and it hurts me knowing I'm absolutely alone I'm a girl by the way. what can I do to get help? I'm on a budget I have many bills but I know that I should get help. |
| Posted: 15 Feb 2017 07:05 AM PST I've been at my office for almost two years. I just barely got back because my maternity leave is over. The girls at my office and I were pretty close before I left. Close as in we work good together. But now, they seem to have formed a group without me because I was gone. There's no longer trust and it bothers me because one knows when someone is not being true to them. Yesterday, I had a couple of incidents where they ask stupid questions like what I am doing for my birthday and my response of I'm staying at home like a good mom to my kid because she's a baby triggered sarcastic remarks. They thought I meant to imply that they aren't good moms because they go out partying on their birthday. Just really petty things like that all damn day long. How can I cope? I don't want to quit that job but I don't want to blow up one day and say something that I will regret. I don't know how I am still sane after two years haha. |
| Question: How do I help someone who experienced the death of a loved one? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:58 AM PST One of my closest friends (if not my closest) had lost her mother yesterday morning - or the night of the day before. The thing is, the death was absolutely unexpected - her mother was a healthy woman - no prior medical history, stress or even and symptoms. She passed away in her sleep, heart stroke. It was absolutely unexpected, I'd even gone to her house that night. We'd talked, her mother had joked around - everything was normal. The next morning, we got the news. This has been incredibly devastating for all of us - even most of our class shed tears. I'd called her (she's at her mother's hometown) and I had no idea how to comfort her or her eight year old brother. I dont know what to even say. She's told our friend that she cant sleep at night, that she keeps listening to the breathing of her loved ones - to make sure they're ALIVE. I just really want to help her somehow, I was hoping that someone who's been through the same could tell me how to do so. |
| Question: Why wont the attorney generals office give me my DNA test results over the phone? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:51 AM PST |
| Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:42 AM PST We had reconnected after 10 years, we arranged a meeting and it went through perfectly, we were both the same crazy two we were back then and everything was amazing, from then on he would visit ALL the time and we would even take vacations together and we really bonded, A week ago one of the old girl friends from school created this friends group and he insisted them to add me,In the group I was ignored despite my best efforts, he was quite popular which he always is, he started coming off as weird to me when he said to me that I shouldn't mention to the others that he visits me and about our trips and so on, he said that's just for us to know and it doesn't concern them, I didn't quite understand this but I agreed with him to keep it quiet, He came to visit and this time met my husband and things were great and they became friends, In the group things got more weird when he would chat to me so formally almost to say that we aren't close and that we didn't have this bond, he didn't want the others to know anything at all and this really makes me feel uncomfortable, I exited the group without a word and brought this to his attention and all he said was that I don't own him and that I should change my clingy ways, I removed him from my phone and never spoke to him since then,Why is he acting this wat? Why doesn't he want anyone to know that we are close friends? Why doesn't he want them to know when he visits me? I'm really hurt, Is he ashamed of me? Is he a friend or foe? |
| Question: My guy friend seems sad how do i cheer him up? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 06:34 AM PST Hi! Ok so I facetimed my guy friend yesterday and he was super sweet and said he was so happy i was doing well in college. He said he got fined 100 dollars for having alcohol in his room. Also he has 8 roommates who all made the basketball team back in october and he didn t. He said he probably will go home soon cause he has cabin fever. when i said i feel weird that i don t drink he said i wish i didn t. He also is working a lot for the basketball team by selling flyers for the game but he is not playing. He isn t doing anything for spring break except working. He was hungover too when I was talking to him. Idk he seems sad to me. Is there a way I can cheer him up? I was thinking of making him a chocolate cream pie and bring him a beer |
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| Question: How do i get out of this situtation :( ? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 05:16 AM PST my very best friend asked me if she could borrow smth from me for this class party we're having soon.i sent her a couple of pics,,now my 4 other close friends are dicussing which item they'll chose.i didnt even tell them that im lending clothes?!! and ofc i didnt say anything cuz im tooo nice -.- now idk how to tell them.most of those clothes still have tags in them,i havent worn them myself.ugh how do i tell em? i spend loads of moeny on them.plus how am i going to tell my mom that im lending more than 5 items ??? she would go crazy also,my mom is really nice to them but in home she/s a different person so if i tell them my mom wont let me lend clothes they probably wont believe it |
| Question: Why does nobody like me, even in my 30's?!? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 05:03 AM PST I feel like nobody likes me or wants to be my friend. My husband and I both are the homebody type but we do socialize and know people. Those that know us both tend to gravitate towards him and he is the quieter of the both of us. Aside from with him, I ALWAYS smile at people and when I talk to them, show interest and excitement when they tell me things. Nobody is interested in me though. Even online in a business sense no other crafts people are interested in me or getting to know me or connecting with me even though I've spend (more like wasted) so many hours upon hours of networking online. I just feel like I've developed the assumption that no one will ever like me. I've had women be totally jealous of me in the past, but I'm older now (32) and stuff is just different. I don't think this is the case at all currently. Please help, I'm really depressed about it. I think more so because my business depends on it as well :-( and so, on top of feeling down I also feel like I'm failing. |
| Question: Can't seem to find a true friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 03:28 AM PST So I'm a super friendly girl and I like to think I've always been there for friends but it never seems to workout. Sometimes I wonder if there's something wrong with me. I had a friend that I considered my bff and we talked about everything. When she was going through depression I was there for her and helped her out and after she started taking her anti-depressants she suddenly changed and started to hangout with some other friends and they would go out and leave me behind. I always tried to get closer with them but they never opened up with me. I was friends with them for about 4 years. My friends from high school and I have grown apart. We have just changed. And I'm not trying to sound like I think highly of myself but people often tell me how pretty I am but sometimes I think this may be the issue. I wonder if girls don't see me as approachable? and almost all the guys I've tried to make friends with, only want something else from me. I have plenty of people to hangout with, but they are all just superficial relationships that I just don't care to have anymore. Oh and a lot of the girls I meet only seem to want to talk about boys, it's exahustive cause I'd like to talk about other things as well:/ |
| Question: I want a love letter to my best friend? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 02:38 AM PST |
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| Question: Demy finally you get what you worth and i am very happy for this? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 01:10 AM PST |
| Question: How do I get you people to like me? Posted: 15 Feb 2017 12:27 AM PST |
| Question: Poll: My friend is trying to brag/bring up that I never had a boyfriend...? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 11:59 PM PST My friend has always been the outgoing one and I've always been the keep to yourself shy one.. My friend in her whole life time has probably dated more than 20 guys (most of them were short term and NOTHING serious) but she did have a few boyfriends that lasted a few months and he moved in her house and lived with her and her family.. I never really had a boyfriend in my whole life. The first guy that would be the closest to dating was a black guy that I met online that I lost my virginity to.. He was the closest to even having any kind of romantic relations with even though it's not even close and it was just a one night stand. My friend falls head over heels for guys and meets guys online a lot and "dates" them but some of the time they just end up having sex and that's it. Other times my friend actually dates them and she tries showing off in front of me and act like she's all wonderful and better than me.. My friend is starting to bring up about how I don't have a boyfriend such as today since it was Valentines Day, my friend bragged about how she spent V-Day with her boyfriend and later asked who my Valentine was, and I just responded with that I was working today (yesterday) Also, we had an inside joke about a movie reference and I was joking around with her asking her to ask me a question and she was saying like "Who's your boyfriend?" it's like she's trying to brag or bring up that I've been single all my life.. It also has to do with me being depressed and... And diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder.. We are both 20 years old.. It kind of makes me sad that she keeps bringing it up.. |
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| Posted: 14 Feb 2017 10:17 PM PST How or what is the best way to teach a girl, whose my friend only not my girlfriend haha, to skateboard? |
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| Question: My friend is constantly complaining and it's so annoying? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 09:02 PM PST Okay. So my friend and I have been best friends for over a year now, and I've ALWAYS been there for her. She went through some **** and yeah it really sucks but I was there for her and I was so supportive and I was a really great friend. I still try to be, to this day, but she complains SO MUCH. and when it comes to my problems, she's been there for me too, but it seems like she always finds a way to make it about her again. Ive given her advice time and time again but she's constantly complaining; it's a daily thing now and it's really getting on my nerves. Sometimes it just emotionally EXHAUSTES me. Like I don't know what else I can say or do for her. And she makes me feel like a bad friend or IM the one being different. Like yesterday she was in a bad mood I guess? But I tried to make conversation and be normal because you could just FEEL the awkwardness in the moment which doesn't really happen to us. Well she was like "why are you acting like that?" And I said acting like what? She said nevermind and I was like alright. But later on she found out I was on my period and she was like "yeah I could tell" half-jokingly. Idk it's things like that and they happen a lot and she makes me feel like I'm being a ***** when I'm not even doing anything. And today was Valentine's Day right? So I brought her a Hershey's kiss but I forgot her card at home and when I gave her the chocolate and told her I forgot the card she literally said "I don't care" and she half opened the chocolate |
| Question: How to get back into a friend s family after being kicked out? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 08:41 PM PST So I got kicked out of one of my best friends familys at his birthday after showing pornographic material. They kicked me out and now we only hang out at school. It has been a year or two now since I ve seen his family and I doubt they would be happy welcoming me back in with open arms. So my question is whether or not I could be accepted into the family again or not. And if you guys have any answers for a good way to be reunited with them I would love to know. Thank You. |
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| Question: Does this make me a b*tch/bad person? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 08:17 PM PST Today we were taking pictures of clubs for the yearbook. I'm the secretary of World Culture Club and so when they called down that club, I went over to grab one of my good friends to take her with me, and she said she didn't want to. I went without her. While I was down there, we were lining up and my advisor/club teacher asked me why so many people were gone. I'm not much of a social person so when I'm asked a sudden question or anything like that my mind rushes to find an answer so I said that some didn't want to come. My teacher asked who, I said the friends name but I knew I shouldn't have said that, much less say who. I told her my friends name, and I quickly added a cover story saying she had to make up science work. After the picture was done, I went back to class and I saw my good friend come in from the door and she walked up and called me a ***** for ratting her out. Since my mind trips over itself to respond, I told her that I said she couldn't come because of class work. She was super pissed. Later, I started thinking that maybe if she came, that it wouldn't have happened. I mean, she has no one to be mad at but herself, right? It kind of makes me pissed thinking of it because I've been tiptoeing around her, careful of what I say because of what happened. She is my good friend and I don't know where I'd go if she 'disowned' me because she's the leader of our "group". Anyways, let me know your thoughts if I'm a bad person or if she was in the wrong. |
| Question: Friend insists we split bill, orders more? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 08:03 PM PST I have a friend that when we go out, she insists on splitting the bill, but always orders more, expensive items and alcohol. I don't drink alcohol anymore, so my bill is cheaper. She insisted we split the bill, but my end ended up being $10 more than if I had just paid for mine. I do not make a lot of money at the moment and I know she doesn't either, so should I just suck it up and pay the $10 more? This has happened before. |
| Question: If you are being pressured by a friend to do something a sign of manipulation? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:59 PM PST |
| Question: Why are people jealous? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:39 PM PST Why are people so disgusting, thrashy and jealous? For example: There is a man who is 20 now. He is healthy, good looking, rich, has a perfect girlfriend, travels the world and does the coolest activities. Surfing, skydiving, snorkling, swimming with wild animals. Just amazing things. He posts videos about his travels and in the comments all I see is: "This is life is not real. Appreciate who you are." "They will break up soon. Their relationship is fake." "This is so fake lmao. You think this is possible without having rich parents?" "They only look good because of their genetics." "If only I had this money." "How did this kid get so much money." "He didn't finish high school. He must be idiot." And tons of jealous horrible things to say. What is wrong with people? That guy has been poor most of his life. Has poor parents. Left high school. Works hard in grooming, sleeping, working out, eating right to look good. He has worked for all his ****. Why do people do this? Is it because they are already 25+ and have nothing compared to the people in the video? They went to school, college and have a useless degree and **** load of debt. They are not good looking because they did not take care of themselves. Why are people such pieces of ****. Such *******? I want to snap their necks. |
| Question: I need help. Life isn't that great for me right now...? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:30 PM PST My parents who expect me to get straight A's, but I can't seem to understand my work and I'm constantly distracted. I've got to focus on my college level school work while just trying to understand high school as a freshman. Just recently my best friend dumped me by giving me the silent treatment. I thought she was mad at me but through other classmates, I've come yo realize she's not mad, angry, or disappointed but indifferent. I don't matter to her anymore and she just doesn't want to be my friend. From one day to the other we've become strangers. I've struggled with depression before and I've started to lapse again and her friend-dumping helped. I don't know how to deal with everything while I just want to die. Thank you for reading the whole thing |
| Question: I'm being harassed by my 'best friends'?!? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:26 PM PST about a month ago, i transferred to a new school because all 6 of my best friends went there and wanted to me to come so i did. anyway, my absolute best friend will glare at me in the hall and she hates me for no reason and i know it couldn't be something i did because the day before school started, we hung out for five hours. she changed overnight!! they kicked me off the lunch table the other day i just ate all alone :( i don't know what i did or why they're doing this. plus three of them are in my math class and they always steal my homework, rip out my answers, copy off of me & and then they just turn in all my work that i did and they just copied it down. i told one of them something right before lunch and then at lunch they wouldn't let me eat with them and the one ended up telling everyone what i told her but she told it wrong..... please help! please don't tell me to just make new friends because i'm new and i don't fit in with anyone. i'm a loner & im hated by the people i ACTUALLY like. i'm only 13 & in 8th grade |
| Question: Do I let him live in blissful ignorance or do I let him know what's happening? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:11 PM PST One of my best friends is having trouble with friends right now, and I overheard them talking today. They were laughing about how they like someone else way more than him. Earlier this week, they went out to lunch as a group and didn't invite him. I worry about him being so invested in a friendship that might not be sincere, but I also don't want to be the one to tell him such horrible news. I really care about him, what do I do? |
| Question: Umm My water friend in school is throwing up and there is no teacher? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:07 PM PST My friend is throwing up and there is no teacher! |
| Question: Caught friend having sex with dog? Posted: 14 Feb 2017 07:05 PM PST So my friend is currently staying with me at thw moment because her mother had kicked her out and i get out of school after her so while I'm no there she would take care of my dog. So today i come home to find her bent over with my dog humping her vag! He was stuck to her for a while but i eventually got him off. My friend said she was was "sleeping" and didnt know the dog was even in the room. Idk what to do cause i can't throw her back in the street and the fact thatbshe cheated on her boyfriend is so messed up. What should i do? |
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