Friends: Question: I m an only child and my mom doesn t like friend over or on the phone with me what do I do? |
- Question: I m an only child and my mom doesn t like friend over or on the phone with me what do I do?
- Question: Is invading a person's personal space (hanging around them all the time) the same thing as harassing?
- Question: This guy in work makes this girl laugh then he turns around and starts looking at me and she looks as well. why, im female as well?
- Question: How do I get through this?
- Question: I am worried about my friend who has been acting strange lately?
- Question: Is it possible to forgive someone who betrayed you and used you?
- Question: Fake friend?
- Question: My ex-best friend told my that she had more people who cared about her than I do. Is that a sh*tty thing to say to someone or is it just me?
- Question: Help, i feel controlled by my best friend?
- Question: How do I reassure my little sister that everything is ok?
- Question: Professional dude working in new city no friends, no life, bored out of my mind what can I do?
- Question: My friends are now sjws?
- Question: How to be more social??
- Question: I feel lonely?
- Question: I want my friends back but I don't know how?
- Question: Girls have you ever driven barefoot and not brought your shoes?
- Question: Should I go back?
- Question: One of my best friends is going behind my back and telling my baby momma everything I told her in confidence. How do I get back at them?
- Question: Should I walk away or keep trying?
- Question: Moving on after ending a close friendship?
- Question: Should I tell my best friend that I lost my virginity?
- Question: Parents have become strict for some reason??!!?
- Question: Stole from a friend, how do I amend the situation?
- Question: Why am I so emotional? Is there somthing wrong with me? How can I fix this?
- Question: What to say to a co worker who had to bury her mom on her bday 11 years ago!?
- Question: Would you be embarrassed to be with a guy who likes to wear Victoria's Secret sweatpants?
- Question: Can I Invite Myself to My Friend's House?
- Question: Can I get in any trouble for this?
- Question: My little cousin follows me everywhere?
- Question: Do you think girls are meaner to attractive girls?
- Question: My 53 year old very obese friend is having serious trouble finding a job. Any suggestions?
- Question: Friend seem to forget about me?
- Question: Did I lose her forever?
- Question: My friend and i keep fighting and breaking up all the time. But she wants me back and i'm not sure...?
- Question: When a friendship has run it's course. How do you know when a friendship is over?
- Question: How Does the Firefly vaperizor work?
- Question: What's a good comeback when someone insults your religion?
- Question: How attractive is this guy be honest?
- Question: Do you think we should try stay in contact?
- Question: I m getting bashed and hated from so many people?
- Question: How do I Convince Myself That I'm Fine?
- Question: How to make friends in new university and state?
- Question: So there's this person...?
- Question: Had you ever had a friend that cared about you?
- Question: Help me with this...?
- Question: So ever since i got in a fight with my co-workers i hate my job I can't stand these guys and it's been making me pissed that my friends?
- Question: I believe my old best friend as of last year posted this about me, then deleted me, what do I do.?
- Question: TOXIC FRIEND. PLEASE READ !! I NEED ADVICE.?
- Question: Toxic friend?
- Question: Toxic friendfcc?
- Question: How to move on after ending a friendship?
- Question: Do you approve of slang?
- Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this?
- Question: Am I wrong?
- Question: How can i convince my parents to let me go out with my friends tonight?
- Question: Is my friend being shallow and fake?
- Question: I dont wanna lose my besfriend?
- Question: I need advice. I'm having a hard time..?
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| Question: How do I get through this? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 04:00 PM PST So I was wrongfully kicked out of school in fourth grade, lost my best friend because she moved, did virtual academy till seventh grade, didn't last a week in middle school, went back into homeschooling, and went through the toughest years without friends for support. Now I'm sixteen, still no friends, seeing everyone I have ever known having so much fun with their best friend/boyfriend/girlfriend, recently found out that my ex best friend has someone else, someone who is I quote, "the greatest friend I have ever had", no one wants to date me, my crush just rejected me in the cruelest way, my siblings are moving out, I'll have no one to talk to, and I'm all alone. I've always been kind, always been loyal, always stuck up for my "friends", always gone out of my way to make people happy, and NOBODY wants me. I've never been suicidal, never self harmed, never let my problems effect other people, and I'm ALONE! What am I supposed to do now? Please help! |
| Question: I am worried about my friend who has been acting strange lately? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 03:55 PM PST I think there is something she is not telling me she just looks kind of sad lately and like there is something wrong...maybe something to do with her family? I know she has a small and close family and old parents? But she is young just like me, 17 No, this is a tough and serious girl I am talking about- one of my best friends. We know each other from birth almost. I never saw her crying even from a lot of pain. She feels the pain but she handles it well. She will not get upset over something stupid, this is serious I am just afraid to ask her! yes, she can be scary |
| Question: Is it possible to forgive someone who betrayed you and used you? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 03:28 PM PST Believe it or not I am the one who wants to be forgiven for those things. I recently got out of prison after a 3 year sentence. The first person I called was my brother. I didn't have anywhere to go and he said I could stay with him and his wife for just until I had enough money to move out and managed to help me get a job at the tattoo shop he and her work at. I was talking to him the other day and he said he still didn't forgive me for what I did and he definitely didn't trust me. Before I got arrested, I was using drugs and stole a lot from him and basically used his kindness against him to get what I wanted. I knew he wouldn't throw me out because he loved me, so I did everything I wanted and took money, sold jewelry, came back drunk and high and threw up all over after fighting with him. He spent a good 2 years getting ripped off and betrayed by me while he was helping keep me alive basically. I feel horrible about this. I want so much to make things up to him and I especially want to at least be forgiven if I can't get his trust back. Does anyone think this is possible? I truly with all my heart want to make things right. |
| Posted: 18 Feb 2017 03:07 PM PST So, i think my "supposed" best friend is a fake a**. I've known her for a really long time, but we got close about a year ago. (Our parents are good friends) We text and snapchat often, but she never is the one to do any of those things first. We've only hung out once, and that was when i invited her. Whenever i say we should hang out again, she always says she'll ask her parents, but she never follows up. And then a few days later i'll see her hanging out with someone else. We have lots of personal conversations, but all she ever does when i facetime her is rant about her problems. So me and this girl, we have another friend who's super nice and i love her. I hung out with this other friend, and this fakeas* got pissed. it just makes me mad bc you wont ever have me over, but now ur getting mad bc im hanging out with a true friend. idek know anymore its getting on my nerves. So, is this b*tch fake, or not? thanks yall :) |
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| Question: Help, i feel controlled by my best friend? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 02:31 PM PST She is the kindest person you will ever meet, but also the bossiest and powerful? She always wants to do things her way, and when sh does she doesn't care about my opinion or what I want to do as well, and if I make a little mistake maybe she will go mad and make everyone hate me, but when she does something then it's not her fault or I'm over exaggerating. I'm getting tired of this and I want to tell her but I know she will get mad and I still want to be friends with her. Help! :( Should I tell her about how I feel? I know that deep down all our other friends feel the same way as I do but we're too scared to admit it. |
| Question: How do I reassure my little sister that everything is ok? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:40 PM PST My little sister who is 11, went to a pool party with some of her friends. Keep in mind that she cannot swim. So apparently, my sister and her friend were playing by the pool's edge, and one of the guys she likes told her, "If you were to fall in accidentally, I would've gotten you out, but if you would've fallen in by your stupidity, I wouldn't have gotten you out". He's 15 by the way. So my little sister is hurt by his words, but I keep telling her not to overthink what happened; everything is ok, and this whole things is not worth crying over. However, she is not taking my advice, so what do I tell her? |
| Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:19 PM PST I graduated college without many friends. I never had the "college" experience. Everyone I work with is 10 years older than me and married with kids. Don't get me wrong I have friends at work but that is it just work friends. I work really hard all week then when the week end comes I can't do anything. I could go to a bar but that is so not me. I am doing online dating because its literally my only option. That is actually going okay but then I think I am becoming too addicted to it and spamming too much because its my only option. |
| Question: My friends are now sjws? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:14 PM PST I've known these two people since middle school and they were normal but now since we're in high school they've changed. They became tumblr worshipping sjws. It's really annoying because I'm pretty liberal myself but I can't take it anymore. Anyone with different opinions than theirs is bigoted and they think bashing christians is trendy. On top of that they're suddenly pan and I wouldn't care but it's obviously something they're doing to be "cool". They think that's there's like 500 genders and it's all bs. Should I just throw away 6 years of friendship because these are not the people I used to know? @artemisia Standing up for what you believe in is different from getting offended over nothing, bashing others views, and feeling entitled over bs. Remember my dear sjw, feminism is equality not putting women above men, and people with different opinions than yours are not bigoted now crawl back to your safe space and enjoy a pc sheltered life. From a black female democrat. |
| Question: How to be more social?? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:10 PM PST So I'm 13 and I always stay in the house. I never go anywhere unless I'm with my mom. Lately my mom has been trying to get me to go out with friends. She's not the only one who's been telling me to get out. Most of my family members have too. At school I always go to the library at lunch while everyone else is outside. It's crazy because people love to be around me and I'm fun but I get super nervous in big crowds. Some of my friends actually get surprised that I always go to the library. I've never been to a restaurant with friends and people always tell me to come but I come up with a fake excuse. My girlfriend is a lot more social than me and I think she gets tired of me going to the library instead of spending time with her. My girl got mad at me because I didn't want to go to the school dance with her. I've never been to a party either. I SUCK at texting people. Whenever I text somebody, 5 minutes later it gets awkward and I decide not to text back. When I get older, I want to be able to have memories as a teenager and I don't want my memories to be about staying in the house all the time. I really want to be more social. Can someone please help me?? Thanks |
| Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:03 PM PST all my friends are busy today and my siblings aren't home and idk i just feel out of it today idk what to do and i'm only 15 so i can't just drive somewhere and i don't really have anything to do |
| Question: I want my friends back but I don't know how? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:00 PM PST So yesterday my friend invited me over to hang out with my other friends and at first I thought " why not" but a little after I get there my ex-boyfriend shows up and then he starts answering me questions. He accused me of multiple things and wouldn't stop baggering me. Then my friends started to play along and I eventually left the room. My ex left the house and my friends didn't speak to me the rest of the night. I couldn't bare being there so I left and decided to walk home. I admitted that I had lied about some things but I never lied about the things they accused me of and they think I did everything for attention but i didn't and I apologized over and over for what I did but they're not talking to me. I betrayed there trust and I feel like they will never talk to me again. I can't lose my friends. What should I do? |
| Question: Girls have you ever driven barefoot and not brought your shoes? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 12:53 PM PST I just did that. I had to pick up my sister at her friends house so since I did not go in anyplace I drove barefoot and left my shoes at home. I did not need shoes for a 30 minute drive since I did not go in anyplace. |
| Posted: 18 Feb 2017 12:28 PM PST Honestly I am from a different country and I moved to America bc my homecountry isnt really safe. I used to have a really best friend there and a bunch of other ppl I considered special. I have been pretty depressed bc I miss the lifestyle and I have been here for a few years now and I miss the ppl, lifestyle, and not to offend anyone I feel like Americans are a little cold compared to the ppl from my homecountry, and all I wanna do is go back. My family is saying that I will be bullied and I will suffer if I go back, my old friends are saying I would be fine. My family says that my homecountry isnt really wat I think it is and that I should stay, but my heart says otherwise. Honestly I have no idea wat to do, pls help |
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| Question: Should I walk away or keep trying? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 12:27 PM PST On Wednesday I had a big argument with my best friends and things got heated. i held her to calm her down and i did not want her to leave my house like that. and she took it as ( Abuse because she was so angry ) she has blocked me from all her social medias and has told me over and over she will call the cops if I don't stop texting her for random phones..........she told me 1 month ago im one of the greatest guys she ever met because ive helped her alot these last couple months. we been friends 4 years and now she hates my guts, . do you think she just needs space??? or is she gone forever??! I was thinking of sending her a long apology letter?? because she is my best friend |
| Question: Moving on after ending a close friendship? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 12:27 PM PST We had been friends for six months and we considered each other our best friend. I had feelings for her so I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but was not ready for a relationship because she had been cheated on previously. We decided to stay friends so she could take time to figure things out. She asked me to sleep with her and i turned it down since she had been hurt through fwb arrangements before. Told her we should just stay friends and she asked me for more time making it seem like she wanted more out of it. I ended up falling in love with her and she decided we should just remain friends because she was afraid of jeopardizing our friendship. Told her I loved her and because of that I cant stay friends with her. She insisted we remain friends but I had no other option. I have always put way more effort into our friendship and at times when i needed her she wasnt there for me even as a friend. She has been through a lot due to her anxiety issues but I couldnt stamd by and let myself get hurt. I feel relieved its over but how do i move on. I have cut her out as much as i can |
| Question: Should I tell my best friend that I lost my virginity? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 11:45 AM PST So I'm 16 and I lost my virginity recently and I was wondering if I should tell my best friend. We've been friends for years since we grew up in the nursery together. Neither of us have gotten drunk or high, he's never had sex and so this is the most crazy thing I've done. I just don't want him to think any differently of me. |
| Question: Parents have become strict for some reason??!!? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 11:33 AM PST Recently I told my parents that there was going to be alcohol at a party I was going too and that most of my friends drink occasionally. I wanted to put it out there so that they knew but it seems to have made them trust me less. I understand I'm too young to drink yet but now they won't let me go to my friends!! They also are going to start monitoring my internet activity and block songs that I'm listening too!! |
| Question: Stole from a friend, how do I amend the situation? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 10:50 AM PST Last night I was feeling nauseous so I went over to my friends room to see if she had anything to soothe my stomach. She wasn't there and neither was her roommate, so I opened her fridge and I saw there was a soda so I took it assuming that my friend wouldn't mind. It turns out that it was her roommate's who I received a text from later that night asking if I had seen anyone go into their room. I told her that I was the one who took the soda and I apologized and said I would buy her another one. In the morning I saw her and I apologized again and explained why I took it but I think I lost her trust a lot and my friend's trust too since I didn't text her before taking it. I feel terrible but I understand that I shouldn't have gone into their room at all since they weren't there. Have I just messed up our friendship entirely? Or do you think they will forgive me? |
| Question: Why am I so emotional? Is there somthing wrong with me? How can I fix this? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 10:26 AM PST |
| Question: What to say to a co worker who had to bury her mom on her bday 11 years ago!? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 09:23 AM PST One of my co worker I just found out that she put on FB that her bday is October 31 but that's not her real bday cause she had to bury her mom on her bday |
| Question: Would you be embarrassed to be with a guy who likes to wear Victoria's Secret sweatpants? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 09:06 AM PST |
| Question: Can I Invite Myself to My Friend's House? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 08:57 AM PST Hi I'm a 24 year old single guy, but my friend is 30 and married with a toddler. They've invited me to their house about 10 times already since I've known them. They came over to my house about 3 weeks ago. But I live with my family so they don't come as often as I go to their house since I'm just one person when I go to their house. Anyway, I always buy their kid a toy. Last time I was at their house, I came straight after work with my friend since we work together, and the kid started crying because I didn't have a toy. Then, next time when they came to my house, I made up for it by buying one. Since this is a three day weekend and I have nothing to do, I was thinking about calling up my friend and seeing if I could stop by for like half an hour just to see the kid and hang out a little. I don't want a meal or anything, I just want to hang out with them for like an hour. My friend and I work together and he just said "See you Tuesday at work" to me when we left work today. Do you think it would be rude to hit them up one of these three days and just ask if I could stop by for a little? When we were talking about weekend plans with people at work, he didn't have plans. Also, I don't want to buy another toy for the kid, I've done that so many times already... I was thinking of just taking some desert to not go empty handed. Also, would it be better to go in the morning or evening if I do suggest to come over? |
| Question: Can I get in any trouble for this? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 08:52 AM PST My friend on Facebook was friended by this kid with autism who's 16, and the kid randomly told my friend how much he loves him. My friend invited me in to kinda screw with the kid a little bit. The kid went into a rage, and started saying he'll call the police on me. He's accusing me of threatening hi, but the worst I said is that I'd post all of his photos on iFunny. He thinks I hacked my friend's accounts, which my friend and I share together. |
| Question: My little cousin follows me everywhere? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 08:23 AM PST It's really annoying. She's 4 and she follows me everywhere. I'm sick and tired of her, I feel like crying gin frustration. she never lets me complete my college work and I can't say anything because her parents spoil her too much so if anyone says anything against her they get mad. How do I keep her away? I've tried threatening her like "if you come in my room the police will take you" but she doesn't budge. |
| Question: Do you think girls are meaner to attractive girls? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 07:05 AM PST |
| Question: My 53 year old very obese friend is having serious trouble finding a job. Any suggestions? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 07:01 AM PST My friend has one functioning kidney, she craps on herself, accidentally and often. She is in a homeless shelter and doesn't have a car. She is very obese. She went to vocational rehab, through the department of labour and Goodwill and still can't find a job. She has tried to lose weight and she can't. She has also been turned down for disability. Are there any smart people who can give good advice? |
| Question: Friend seem to forget about me? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 06:34 AM PST My friend and I used to hang out a lot before. But now that he has a girlfriend he does less and less. To the point he barely text or hang out with me. I am so mad If he talks to me by text I wont reply. Why do friends change? When I asked him nefore to hang out at least once a year he said no? The reason for his rejection he openly said his girlfriend don't let him or she will tag along. |
| Question: Did I lose her forever? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 05:56 AM PST On Wednesday I had a big argument with my best friends and things got heated. i held her to calm her down and she took it as ( Abuse because she was so angry ) she has blocked me from all her social medias and has told me over and over she will call the cops if I don't stop texting her for random phones. she told me one month ago im one of the greatest guys she ever met because ive helped her and her daughter as well.... we been friends 4 years and now she hates my guts, I sent her a long apology letter. do you think she just needs space??? or is she gone forever??! |
| Posted: 18 Feb 2017 04:26 AM PST My friend and i have always fought and it has always been big when we do. Last time we fought it really pushed the boundaries on a personal level. I don't want to take her back.. but is that the wrong decision. |
| Question: When a friendship has run it's course. How do you know when a friendship is over? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 04:23 AM PST |
| Question: How Does the Firefly vaperizor work? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 03:12 AM PST Recently I bought the Firefly (the original one not the new one) and I have to say I'm very disappointed. I loaded it with weed and it barely works. I started smoking with it and I only got trace amounts of vapor and the stupid things battery died before I could even get high. Am I doing something wrong? Everywhere I look on the internet people seem to like it a lot but I don't understand the appeal... Please help! I paid 130 for it brand new and I opened it myself so I know that there isn't anything physically wrong with it. Someone help me out? |
| Question: What's a good comeback when someone insults your religion? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 03:00 AM PST Happened with me once or twice when I've been in roast session where they ran out of comebacks and replied "yes cuz I ain't Hindu" but I didn't want to insult their religion so I answered "yes cuz animals do not have religions". Can you gimme some better comebacks? |
| Question: How attractive is this guy be honest? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 02:23 AM PST https://scontent-lax3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/16682035_2201980576694136_6762287853903538656_n.jpg?oh=c34303cee2cfce87f04b8c2d7cda2b43&oe=58FE60DB https://scontent-lax3-1.xx.fbcdn.net/v/t1.0-9/16682035_2201980576694136_6762287853903538656_n.jpg?oh=c34303cee2cfce87f04b8c2d7cda2b43&oe=58FE60DB |
| Question: Do you think we should try stay in contact? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 02:16 AM PST 5 GirlsAskGuys !Talia246 Feed Post Topics # What do you think will happen or am I being ridiculous? AnonymousAnonymous (18-24) 5d Relationships Okay quick summary... im 18 now and graduating school in 3 months for good. When I was 15 I done a 16 week sports course with a few friends and a sports instructor (40) that works in my school. We got on really well and just had a good laugh. On the last day he told me he wouldn't forget about me:,) Anyway 5 months later we meet again in school for a new year and he notices somethings up. I confide in him and tell him all about my depression and anxiety. He also works as a councillor so he was there for me right away. I also told him other personal information about myself too since I trust him. He also told me personal stuff about him such as his depression and family feuds. For the past two years he has given me a great amount of help with my mental health. He has given me advice about councelling and we see eachother twice a week in school so he always chats to me to see how i am. He commented yesterday about how well we have always got along and even sent me a dvd to my house about anxiety to help me (i gave him my address). So im leaving school in 3 months and the thoughts of saying goodbye to him scares me! We do have a nice connection and since he has been so involved in the situation and gave me so much help in the past 2 years it would be sad to just say goodbye and that be it? Would it be weird to stay in contact? |
| Question: I m getting bashed and hated from so many people? Posted: 18 Feb 2017 01:16 AM PST They make me feel so suicidal. Im having depression back then. I try to change myself to not have depression and stay positive. Nobody understands what im going through. 1 day I was just arguing with this guy in fb, we basically wasted 30 min s of our time arguing at each others. He blocked me in the end. I didn t expect him to be such a douchebag and a jerk ; (. My good friend told me that He posted the whole conversation on fb and all the people commented "this is why he have no friends", " he s so stupid and dumb, he should end his life", "He s so god damn lonely" This is so hurtful and I m literally crying now. I need help ; (. P.S: I seriously don t have any good friends now and all of them are so offensive ; ( except for 1. |
| Question: How do I Convince Myself That I'm Fine? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 11:50 PM PST Everyone's been telling me the same thing for the 5 years I've been diagnosed with depression: Your life isn't that bad. I'm jealous of you. How do I convince myself that I'm okay, so I can help my friend without hindering them and making them mad? I've never liked being a bad person and lately I've been the absolute worst person ever. It's sickening to me and I don't want to be like this. How do I convince myself that I'm fine? |
| Question: How to make friends in new university and state? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 11:13 PM PST I've been in this new university for a year now, and I hung out with people, but cannot/do not want to keep the old people as friends. I want to make new friends. While many people like me and know my name because of my outgoing personality, when it comes to hanging out, this semester has been a challenge for me. Honestly, I am also pretty judgmental and will refuse to befriend people for "superficial or ridiculous" reasons. Still, I am well-liked and just want to make friends who have potential to become close to me. I am sick of superficial friendships that are just hanging out and lead to nowhere after I graduate. Please help! |
| Question: So there's this person...? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 11:10 PM PST I am a 15 year old girl and I need help with this friend problem. There is this girl (the same age)at my school that thinks we are automatically friends because we are not good at PE. She kisses me on the cheek, hugs me, and is very clingy which I find very annoying, but saying "no" or "stop" is very difficult for me, especially when there is a group of other people there. I know if I tell her to stop other classmates will get mad at me saying I'm the bad guy. I'm very shy and not much of a talker, but when I do have something to say, she completely ignores me or interrupts with a story about how she has a crush on some guy. She is very childlike and is never serious around me, but when she's with others, she acts like a completely different person. I don't like this one sided friendship/relationship. How do I get rid of her without being mean? (keeping in mind that I see her everyday, I don't want to make things awkward since we hang around the same people) |
| Question: Had you ever had a friend that cared about you? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 10:35 PM PST i never had a friend in my life. do you feel bad for me? |
| Question: Help me with this...? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 09:54 PM PST Oh well the 'title" isn't clear... I don't know where else to go other than Yahoo, I want to stay anonymous but I also want random people to help me. Or do I Want people just to finally listen and give me advice I guess. So I've always had extreme anxiety and was always super nervous and shy, meaning I have basically no friends. I have one friend, but she has a lot of other friends and usually talks to them other than me. I guess when I get comfortable enough around you I'm a likable person.. Her friends look at me weirdly, because I'm that one quiet kid who always wears a jacket and am a loner, It used to make me anxious, to the point of of going of coming home from school and throwing up because I cared so much of what people think about me.. Although one may say "just talk to people it will be easy," it's not for me. I have such severe social anxiety issues I'd rather do anything rather than to talk to a person I don't know. lately I've stopped caring. Not in a good way, I no longer get anxious, rather sad and I guess you can say depressed. I feel as f I'm in a hole and when someone says something I fall deeper into that pit of darkness.. People always say stuff about me like, I'm ugly, quiet, gross, they'd rather do anything than to sit net to me and talk to me. I am just so sad. I feel like I"m going to have a mental breakdown.. It's just so much, I'mm just so sad and I keep getting sadder everyday, Help me or give advice I guess.... |
| Posted: 17 Feb 2017 09:37 PM PST Say I look pissed should I quit? I aint got bills to pay |
| Posted: 17 Feb 2017 09:18 PM PST We haven't talked since she cussed me out. She came back days later trying to talk but I didn't reply. It's been about a month since speaking. Now tonight this post. I'm not the one in the comment. |
| Question: TOXIC FRIEND. PLEASE READ !! I NEED ADVICE.? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 09:06 PM PST Please tell me what to do. So i used to have a friend who i have been very close with , considered her my sister. But lately its all gone haywire. my friend , used to be the "pretty friend" and i knew it but it never botheredme. When we went out it was always her getting attention , and yeah it bothered me but she was my friend for her personality . I never really did my makeup correct, i gained weight. i was still a cute girl but standing next to her it was obvious who looked better. I said one or two shadey things to her in the past but i think it was just my insecurities talking . But she didnt seem to care too much or even adress them. She prides herself on her looks so who cares if a decent person gave you shade? You still looked better.. So we were super close.. UNTIL..... i started trying to change myself for the better. I went to the gym more, i cut my hair, i learned better makeup, my skin cleared. I became CONFIDENT. we went out and it was guys trying to talk to me, or both of us. it was mutually shared attention and i loved it. Yes, i did start talking about myself more, like wow i look nice today or wow i love my haircut. But that was because i really loved myself now, i felt like i was becoming someone more condfident. Thats when she stopped giving me compliments EVER. She would say things like " i always need to do more " because i have a haircut. or if someone said i looked good she would never comment. So one day, she approached me with the shadey stuff i |
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| Question: How to move on after ending a friendship? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 08:32 PM PST We had been friends for six months and we considered each other our best friend. I had feelings for her so I told her how I felt and she said she felt the same way but was not ready for a relationship because she had been cheated on previously. We decided to stay friends so she could take time to figure things out. She asked me to sleep with her and i turned it down since she had been hurt through fwb arrangements before. Told her we should just stay friends and she asked me for more time making it seem like she wanted more out of it. I ended up falling in love with her and she decided we should just remain friends because she was afraid of jeopardizing our friendship. Told her I loved her and because of that I cant stay friends with her. She insisted we remain friends but I had no other option. I have always put way more effort into our friendship and at times when i needed her she wasnt there for me even as a friend. She has been through a lot due to her anxiety issues but I couldnt stamd by and let myself get hurt. I feel relieved its over but how do i move on. I have cut her out as much as i can |
| Question: Do you approve of slang? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 08:31 PM PST I can never mantain a conversation with someone who types like "wud" or "I cnt c u 2day m gng skwl" it absolutely annoys me to the point where I want to punch then them in the face, grammar is very important to me and I just feel like we've wasted our entire entire educational phase if we type like that, Anyone else feel the same? |
| Question: Teenage girls who can drive would you have done this? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 07:12 PM PST I just got home from taking my best friend home. Since I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for 20 minutes I drove in my bare feet and did not bring my shoes. |
| Posted: 17 Feb 2017 07:04 PM PST I m in middle school, it was a typical lunch sitting with my friend group. One of my friends mentioned "guys remember when Ella punched kicked me in the leg" Ella who s in our group was also their and she was kinda upset for some reason. So i said "omg she s so good at wresting she even wrestled me at our play date" when i said that Ella had a full on meltdown screaming at me saying STOP SAYING STUFF ABOUT ME, WHATEVER HAPPENED IN TEH PAST STAYED IN THE PAST then she starts crying for like 20 min! Now she hates me! I dont know what i did wrong, shes a martial artist so i compliemented her! Now all my other friends turned on me thinking it's my fault she started having a screaming crying meltdown |
| Question: How can i convince my parents to let me go out with my friends tonight? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 06:43 PM PST I m a 15 year old girl. My friend (17year old boy) invited me to go to a campfire with him and some other people. I really want to go but my parents are hesitant to let me go because they think i m too young to stay out late, especially with some older people they don t know. My parents do know the friend who asked me to come and they trust him, he s like a son to them and they know we re best friends. But they are still hesitant to let me go out!! I really want to go because i ve already met a lot of the people who are going, they are all really nice. So what can i do to convince my parents to let me go out tonight? |
| Question: Is my friend being shallow and fake? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 06:42 PM PST It appears to me that my friend is jealous of me for having an older boyfriend. I'm a 15 year old girl with a boyfriend who's about to turn 18 pretty soon - since we're Canadians it's legal for us to date as long as we're both minors up until one of us are 19 but the other is not. My 20 year old friend acts like a jealous 5 year old child and she doesn't seem too thrilled that I'm dating him. She got annoyed with me when I told her I had my first kiss when we were cuddling each other. All my friends are happy for me except for her. He's making me more popular at school than ever and it makes my social life easier too. My boyfriend told me to dump her because she's shallow and she probably can't even get any guys herself so she has to be jealous of a high school girl. She's always been way more into fashion than me and she has college guys flirting with her, so I don't get why shes jealous. She treats me like I'm a little girl who's playing this "boyfriend girlfriend" thing on the playground with other 1st graders and this whole relationship is temporary and is not even real and genuine either. |
| Question: I dont wanna lose my besfriend? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 06:12 PM PST sooo 3 days ago I had a big argument with my best friends and things got heated. she has blocked me from all her social medias and told me to never ever talk to her again, or she will call the police for harassment. I dont know what to doo!!!! She has been my best friend for 4 years. I feeel soo depressed and alone, She never judged me, she was always there to lay a hand. I can't get over this. whats should I doo??? please help |
| Question: I need advice. I'm having a hard time..? Posted: 17 Feb 2017 05:59 PM PST Hello. I'm young, have many friends, attractive, get invited to parties, guys love me, livin' the life. I admit, I like to put photos of my body on social body(age appropriate), and afterwards complain to my friends when they state I'm "perfect". I'm nice, but I may have my attitude and rude remarks from time to time. My personality has caused some people to dislike me. One girl thinks I'm a bad influence, another doesnt like me because I'm friends with one of her close friends, and another dislikes me because I dated her ex. Just recently I lost a friend. A GOOD friend. I knew her for 3 years. I lost her because of an online fight. She stated "you've become the fakest person ive ever met". Another stated "I just think you seek attention, that's all", when I asked for her opinion. This honestly hurt me...a lot. And I'm willing to change. Please help and give me advice. Showing up to school may be misery. I cant force people to like me, but I want to show people I'm a good person inside.. |
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