I am completely baffled and heartbroken. My and my husband have been together 15 years. We lived in a beautiful home for ten years. He started working for a restoration company a year ago and also teamed up with a public adjuster. He started acting a little odd he was working a lot. The day after New Year's I came home from work my home was completely destroyed by a flood but apparently started from the toilet upstairs. He came home with his public adjuster friend immediately hired him and we stayed in a hotel for two weeks. He wasn't there much and he was being very mean to me. When I would ask questions he would pretty much dismissed me. The insurance company now put us up in an apartment or house is finished. The check came in went to the mortgage company and the public adjuster will be involved as well. But my husband hasn't done a thing to fix it. We had an argument he stormed out he's been living with his father for two weeks will not contact me or communicate with me. When I try he yells and hangs up. House is still destroyed I found out he was trying to hire a contractor behind my back. The public adjuster in the contactor were in my house and I didn't know. I thought something was up so I called the public adjuster's office and they told me they had paperwork they're ready for us to sign for the contractor. I had no idea. Any insight appreciated.

I dated a guy for a month and we clicked and got along so well then he finally confessed to me that he had kids all hte way in another state with his ex-wife. All this time, I thought he was a young, single, never married man. I'm so angry and I just feel so duped.

My wife was killed in a car accident, she was 23. We were newlyweds and just enjoying life, now I am helping plan her funeral... I have way to many beautiful pictures of her and it's hard for me to choose just 3. I am also making a Remembrance booklet for her as well, I can add as many pictures as I please. Could I have so opinions on which 3 pictures are your favorite? Thanks in advance. http://imgur.com/LEpJ7Hp http://imgur.com/xvZQkCR http://imgur.com/8t4ZhJO http://imgur.com/h36nzyA http://imgur.com/yf1zZZu http://imgur.com/5kbnkW7 http://imgur.com/GkVtv7l

The other day my husband came home with a plate . I simply asked where it came from. He shut me down and said what's the deal with me asking. A girl made him breakfast and they do that a lot at work so drop it. A couple of months ago he came home and there were women's shoes in his car. Same response. Then he lied and said they were his moms. Next day they were in the trash and he said they were from an ex before we dated. Then he asked why I didn't just trust him. I mean am I not allowed to ask why there are women's shoes in his truck? Every time something like this happens he acts like I'm a terrible person for even asking. I'm starting to feel insane.

My wife is pregnant she loves to lay in bed and cuddle. Why ?

Ok so I m 26. My wife is 35 with 4 kids from a previous marriage. We have been married for 2 1/2 years. I love my wife very much but I question if I love her enough to love her kids. Especially since quite frankly I don t like kids at all. I figured my dislike for kids is selfish and unrealistic in a world where almost everyone has kids. But the longer I m married the more I realized I don t want kids or a marriage. I think I should add that I m a Christian. I don t believe in divorce or kids being as evil as I may feel. We initially got married because we were shacking up living in sin. Now that I m maturing in my faith I m starting to understand it s ok to be alone and I think that may be what I need to further my growth not only as a Christian but as a man. I ll also add that 2 of the kids live with their father (15 and 14 boys). I raise the younger girls (13 and 10). We alternate weekends and when the weekend comes for all four of them to come I feel this overwhelming anxiety of taking care of these kids, paying exorbitant amounts of money for teen boys to eat, spending time with them when I see it in their eyes they don t respect me because we are so close in age. Plus their father isn t over my wife and uses the kids as leverage to continuously communicate with my wife and it s stressful. I want to live right before God but I m at the point where I feel I m living a lie and drawing out the inevitable which is worse.

I am a good guy and a good husband married 7 years now, loving caring attentive to my wife. 'Never marry a beautiful woman' I read somewhere, but I did a real stunner and I love her so much. The male attention she gets is non stop even when I am with her, god knows what it's like when I am not. She has started flirting back with all her admirers. She stays out late and is losing interest in sex with me she dresses in new clothes and sexy underwear is different in bed too I think she is seeing someone else, maybe several guys How do I tackle this?

have you make them the same thing you are having, they say "No" I am not hungry, you ask them "Are you sure?" "Yes"...not hungry....you sit down, they ask for a bite...then they want another one...I want to bite HIS head off....do you go through this?

My wife is pregnant with our son she's been really upset the last few days. I ask her what's wrong she says nothing I ask her if she's ok she says yes. She cries to sleep almost every night. What can I do to help her feel better ?

I'm 28 and my wife is 24. She first loved me because she loved my personality especially that I'm helpful, I try to be cheerful and im outgoing. However she becomes extremely jealous when I express these traits to other women. I love my wife very much and I'm never tired of telling her that but she still can't help how she feels. I don't know what to do to stop her feeling that way. I cannot just change myself because that is the way I am. But I'd like your suggestions especially if you are a girl/woman who experiences this. Thank you

I think my husband is cheating on me, but I have no real proof. He denys it, but my heart says there is something going on. I have been asking and accusing him for months. Will he eventually cheat

A guy I know from my fiance's job just left his fiance of three years, after a one night stand at the Company Xmas Party with one of the Company Freak(s). She and her sister have been with several of the employees already! Her sister is already pregnant w/twins from one of the groundsman. She is attractive, and everybody, including my man, think it's exciting and okay that he'd just up and leave her for someone he doesn't even know!! Number 1, I can't believe either one still have their job. You'd think the company would take more pride in their values and frown upon fratinization among employees, exspecially the "married or almost married" ones!! What gets me, is that he could believe the grass is greener, just becasue she's hot, doesn't mean the same as the three years he has shared w/his fiance. The ups the downs... the struggles, the rewards! I know he will regret it, and truthfully, I can't wait until he does!! What do you think?

Hi I just had a premature baby and my husband seems to be somewhat supportive but the past few days he has been saying stuff that don't make any sense. He is accusing me of having a premature labor because for some reason he has always accused me of using drugs for no logical reason, also few days after baby being born was telling me he would want a DNA done because he was not sure baby was his because he has always blamed me on cheating on him without reason or proof. My baby is in a hospital at this time and I am not sure how to react to all of this regarding my husband?

I'm 28 and my wife is 24. She first loved me because she loved my personality especially that I'm helpful, I try to be cheerful and im outgoing. However she becomes extremely jealous when I express these traits to other women. I love my wife very much and I'm never tired of telling her that but she still can't help how she feels. I don't know what to do to stop her feeling that way. I cannot just change myself because that is the way I am. But I'd like your suggestions especially if you are a girl/woman who experiences this. Thank you

we've been married 4 years and I've been asking my wife to do hardcore sex like anal, deep throat and rimming but she won't do it. Sex now has become so boring. It took me 3 years to convinced my wife to do facial and swallowing but even if she does it, she always make me feel bad, like she gets towel and wipe her face directly, or run to the washroom and vomit and rinse her mouth, I mean on my part it's not fun. Do not misconstrue me but our married life is great, we're financially stable got a wonderful 2 year old daughter and we get along well and seldom fight except before, during and after sex. Before we got married she knows that I've done that with ex, although I did not tell her to do that before we got hitched coz I assumed that she'll do that once we get married but years has passed and still none. I'm asking women out there if you guys would do that to your husband to make your marriage stronger? and for guys, would you file divorce if you are not enjoying you're sex life with your wife? Personally I would rather file for divorce than Cheat! pls help

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How should the husband deal with this humiliation in public? He confronted about it and after long pressing she confesses it to be true. Now He (husband)who thought his wife was never physical with others(as she said b4 marraige n during dating) now have to hear about her past promiscousity from her exes in a public party, n they smile at him saying she is amazing in bed n that he is lucky to get her in front of others then how should he deal with it? Should he let it go as if he has no emotions? Or what then? NOTE: Yes husband also was never been physical with othr girl exept his wife.

My husband started a new job for roadside and you'd think it would be mainly men. But.. My husband made sure I knew there was a female working there.. He described her as a butch.. But then, continues to bring her up in every Convo about his new job. I clean houses for a living and he out of the blue asked me how much I'd charge for a big house blah blah.. I said my price and he said.. Well, the girl I told you about.. Needs a house cleaner.. Its like he finds a way to being her up.. The reg.. .mind would think ahh. He wouldn't bring it up if he was ... But. It is like he wants to always talk about her..