Me and my father aren't very close. We seem to exchange the most minimal amount of words possible. I remember as a little girl, I was his favorite. He would kiss me on the cheek, laugh and act like a child himself. My mom worked nights so I spent a great amount of time with him. Everything changed when I became a teenager, and I was what felt like locked up in a prison because I couldn't go anywhere or hang out with friends which made me very miserable through my high school years. Now in college I am still living with my parents, but I can't seem to say anything without getting in an argument with him. He's always trying to lecture me, calls me dumb when I do genuine human errors that, to me, is a part of life. I really think he thinks I'm legitimately stupid and he yells at me an awful lot. I have no siblings and our relationship is, to a degree, very awkward. I don't even say hi to him when I come home from work, nor does he and we just live together. He can very much be considered a roommate. I can see that he wants best for me, but sometimes I think he hates my guts and is coping with my existence because I am a part of him. Does anyone have any enlightenment on this topic?

last night i was arguing with my brother and told my dad what he was doing and my dad said i dont give a ****. Then i asked him why he was yelling at me and he sad who the hell are you talking to and threatened me. i said if he did i would call the cops thats when he grabed me by my neck and later he let go but i said i would call the cops and he put me in a chokehold and threw me down. The cops came and took him away and called the cps. MY mom says that this was not abuse> this was abuse right?

When I was born, somehow my mom and dad failed to notify my biological father and his family. There was some kind of miscommunication, and they heard that I had died at birth. Even though it was my brother that died and he was born a year later. So I don't know how that timeline works out. Anyway I want to exploit this somehow and any help would be appreciated. I could have had my education funded by his aboriginal status or metis status whatever he has. And gotten cheaper gasoline. So I've wasted my twenties drinking and playing videogames with barely any seasonal work and could have been going to school. Does that count as lost wages? What about emotional problems could I sue for that? I don't give a flying **** about any of the people involved I just want their money...

I am a single mom to a 16 year old daughter. My job I have I have to work nights 10pm to 7am. I found out my daughter was bringing boys over from her high school and having sex with them. I took her to our family doctor and luckily she is not pregnant. I now have my brother come over and stay all night he sleeps over at my house to keep an eye on her. Well my daughter is very mad at me saying she is 16 and old enough to be alone at night and not need a babysitter. I told her she can not be trusted she was sleeping around and she is way to young to have a baby. She said she wants to go pregnant. I really don't know what to do. I am glad my brother is over when I am at work to keep and eye on her. I also found out when she was having sex she was not using condoms because she wants a baby and she told me she did not care who the father is. Should I also get her counseling?

I have to leave soon to ride with my mom to go pick up my dad at work. I am at home now in my bare feet. I took off my shoes and socks when I got home from school. Since I am not getting out of the backseat I am going to walk out and get in the car in my bare feet and not going to bring my shoes. I want to be barefoot for the 30 minute car ride to be more comfortable and I don't need shoes just to go for a ride.

I wa sin my 14 year old daughters room and I saw she bought g strings for herself without telling me should I tell her that she should of told me if your a mom that caught your daughter like I did or your a daughter that hid thongs from there mom email me please I wanna understand why she's doing this eva.19751@outlook.com.

My sister wants to lay in bed every afternoon and cuddle. Why ?

It may not be the case in other families but it seems to be the case in mine.

I came out to my parents. They are christians who believe that Gays will not go to heaven and go to hell. My parents don't accept my relationship or me but I understand that. I'm having issues where I tend to go out maybe like 3 times a week. I go out with my girlfriend mainly. I love being with her and I'm so in love with her. Everytime I go out with her I expect to receive really long text from my parents saying "you are so disobedient to us and you never listen we only want best for you. Get away from the bad get away from that bad relationship" and we always get into arguments and it's kind of wearing me down now. I feel like I cry so much because everytime I hear this I get sad that I can't even go out anymore without hearing something bad. And I thought I was strong but my heart can't seem to take it anymore. I'm tired. I just want to be happy and I am with her. But they can't seem to be happy for me. They don't even want me to move out for college they want me here and will do anything in their power to keep me here so I'd still live with them and they just say "I'm in the wrong path and need to get away" they just always seem to get mad ..I ask them for permission to go out and they get mad. I don't tell them I'm going out they get mad "you didn't even tell us you were going out" I don't ever win with them. I'm almost 20 I'm working 2 jobs and full time student school. Just bought my first car with my name. But they don't see any of the good. It's frustrating.

Hey so I'm 24 and still live with my parents. I have a job and curretnly working towards moving out of the house. My mom told me yesterday as long as I live in their house that I have to tell them everything that goes on in my life. I disagreed and she said that's the rules. I feel like I'm entitled to privacy in my life and just because I live with them doesn't mean I have to tell them everything that goes on in my life. What do you guys think???

My dad relies on me to be his mother, my mother acts stupid, I feel like I'm the one having to take care of my parents Shen I want to go out and enjoy my life so bad free from them. My dad is very controlling he was abused when he was younger there's so much oppression in the atmosphere at Home since he's controlling of me more than anyone in the family. I have a serious urge to get out of the house and go do stuff. Is this normal? I feel it would be unhealthy to not to, also I look like I haven't gotten out in years. I'm a complete failure and am trying to get out of my situation, how can I get away please

Like when I was 10 my parents seperated for 6 months (they are together now). Or how my mother expected too much of my Dad. Or how my Dad fibs to escape my mother's wrath (the reason they had problems at one time).

I heard my little brother on the phone talking to his buddy. He said he was going to spank the monkey. Should I tell him he shouldn't do that as it is being cruel to animals. Won't that hurt the monkey? Any guys reading this ever spanked the monkey? If you did, what did the monkey do when you spanked it.

I know this is really selfish but I can't help but feel this way. So I am currently sick as hell. Where is my mother ? Her boyfriends house. But let my brother sniffle, and she'll be in her car to drive four hours away to take care of him. He's 24 and I'm 17.

Alright. I'm 21, in college to become a medical examiner, of course. Stereotypical goth, all black everything, solitary creature of the night, have a black cat named Snark, all that bullshit. My roomate. Is a 26 year old, baker, cook, whatever the ****, I kid you not she is like a cartoon character from Hell. Sun and rainbows and everything ******* loud in the morning. She'll come into my room at like 6 in the morning EVERY morning, and greet me like a Disney princess or something. Which is creepy as all hell, honestly, sod off if someone is sleeping! She disturbs my room, comes in, opens the curtains and blinds me because guess what, I am a freak, I cannot handle bursts of light, has put clothes on my cat, she plays her ridiculous Jesus music at all hours of the morning, has put a rosary on my door. She constantly bickers at me about being gloomy or too quiet and doesn't shut up, just talks and talks and talks more. We are polar opposites especially in that she doesn't realize I don't like her. Okay, I don't like her, at all. She's insane and annoying. It's like living in a sitcom, I feel like I should wake up to a chipper catchy theme song every morning with this ****. What do I do about this ****? How can you make an idiot realize the obvious? Too broke to move out. She won't take a hint. I swear this is entirely real, and if you don't believe me, PLEASE come take my place and see, she is a living nightmare of happiness and privacy invasion.

I'm 10 years old (My birthday is coming up real soon), and I live with my three siblings and parents. My little sister is a nightmare! First, she's always ALWAYS taking my stuff without asking and losing it. Every morning it's the same thing, she wakes up and starts singing, dancing at being a big bother for no reason and I ask her to stop nicely she keeps doing it and just says, ''NO.'' There was this one time when I was saving up money to buy my first phone. It cost $30 and I had $5, it was a start. She goes in my drawer, takes the money and spends all of it on candy. She didn't even get it taken away! She's always breaking, losing my stuff and lying to my parents. She constantly hits me, smacks me and even spits on me and whenever I lay a finger on her, my parents go crazy and I'm the bad guy. Whenever me and my older brother and sister go to talk, she follows us and keeps banging on the door. I don't want bible references, I don't want people saying, ''That's just what little kids do!'' She's not little, and she knows better than to do stuff. I now it's wrong to hate your siblings, but she's a living nightmare!

I have seven sons (or, had), and one daughter (again, most likely had). My youngest son is bloodthirsty and he's going through this phase where he's killing his brothers, and possibly his sister (I'm convinced he killed her too). I'm down to three sons including him, he just killed my second oldest earlier today. While I may admit I am promoting this behavior (I'm rewarding the last son standing), I think he's just overdoing it. What am I supposed to do? Edit: My son doesn't need therapy, he's doing well besides the sibling murder.

She is in her 40s, but she put more emphasis on my beauty than my education. Not beauty AND education, but beauty alone is her priority. Many women value on their intelligence and beauty. Why doesnt my mom push me to be smart AND beautiful? She seems not to value education or intelligence.

last night my brother and i where arguing and i told my dad what he was doing my dad yelled i dont give a ****. I came down and asked him why he was yelling and he said who the hell are you talking to and threatened me. I said i would call the cops if he laid his hands on me so he grabbed both hands around my neck and yelled then he stopped i said i was calling the cops and he put me in a chokehold and slammed me against the carpet i have scatches on my arms hands feet and shoulder. I called the police and they investigated and called the cps. My mom says this was not attacking or abuse,. this was abuse right . My dad says he wont come home until im gone. i used to have some mental health problems so they say they are going to send me to residential care for calling the cops which i think is ridiculous. What should i do they are kicking me out of the house. and when my dad comes back he might do the same thing

I'm a 18-year-old guy and I have a 10-year-old little brother. Last night, we were both sitting in the same room. In the room we have a really large mirror. I was on my phone when I saw my brother watching porn on his phone (he has his own iPhone). I didn't mean to mind his business but he was sitting in front of the mirror and his phone screen was reflected on it. I didn't show any sign that I saw it. Later that night when he was asleep, I went on his history and saw about 7 different sites (including PornHub, xvideos, etc) within the past week. The videos were straight-up hardcore and language such as r-mjob, c-mshot, etc were used which is extremely inappropriate. I talked to him this morning and said that "I got an email from the government that someone under the age of 18 is watching porn in this house". He quickly admitted it was him so I asked him why he was on it. He said that his friend mentioned it to him and he was very curious. After seeing it, he couldn't stop watching it. I told him that it was natural to be curious but it was illegal and he should never go on it. He begged me not to tell our parents so I didn't (yet). Is this normal for boys just 10? Should I bring it up to my parents? What actions do I take from now? I really don't want to break his trust because our parents are very conservative and I know they will freak out. Ideas? In the clips, you could see the girl and guy's parts and there was penetration and oral involved. (in case that made a difference)

Okay, I have been dating a girl about a year, she's very nice, pretty all of those things. But she despises my mother. My mom has always been kind and friendly to her. But she just despises her for no reason, and has been even sometiems rude. No matter what I say to her she keeps that rudeness up. I spend as much time as I can with my mom. Why wouldn't I? She's my best friend, and has been for my 21 years of life. Before you get any ideas I don't live at home, and haven't since I was 17. I just actually appreciate her and care for her which is rare these days. My girlfriend, however finds this disturbing and awful and just wrong. She will get into arguments with me over going over to see my mom or going out to lunch or whatever with her, which honestly doesn't even happen that much! She just hates it. She despises me being around my sister as well, though not as much. Is this some kind of weird jealousy, is it like just a genuine hatred for a kind person, or what? I can't figure out what her issue is or what to do! I apologizefor any mmistakes, English isn't my first language!

Okay, so before I get into this, I want to say that I know I deserve this punishment. I just want to know how bad I should expect it to hurt, how long it ll linger, that sort of thing. So, I m 18, and my surrogate father caught me drinking beer. He let me off with a warning, but said if I drank again, I d get a spanking. Stupidly, last night, I got dunk off of vodka, and he found out. He started lecturing me, telling me about my upcoming punishment. During all of this, I developed an attitude, resulting in me not only getting a hand spanking over my pants, but now also his belt on my bare bottom. He s doing this Friday. I ve apologized and tried to get out of it, but he s not budging. So, how bad can I expect this to hurt, how long will it linger, any advice?

My grandmother says that you are determined to have the father you have, because the baby comes from sperm, but if your father had another wife she would be the mother.

I know this might come off as sounding spoiled but it just feels like my parents give more to my sister and I m getting sick of it. The excuse my parents always use for me is that there isn t any money but when she needs something there suddenly is. My sister got her braces when she was 13 and got them off when she was 16, I got my braces when I was 15 and only got them off now when I m 18. My sister got her learner s license the month she turned 17, I got mine 9 months after. My sister got driving lessons ever since she s been 17 and got her license the month she turned 18, I ve only had 3 driving lessons and still need 3 more and I ve been 18 for 3 months. But the worst part just comes with birthday parties, she always has amazing birthday parties, for her 13th she got to rent this big venue at a game reserve for her 18th my parents rented out the VIP section of a nightclub without adult supervision and for her 21st she got two parties, one with familes and one with friends. The most I got was bowling with friends and recently when I turned 18 I had to have my party at my aunt s house with adult supervision because there was no money. But 2 weeks later it was grandma s birthday and my dad rented out a whole venue and even bought a whole sheep to cook, I just don t feel like they do the same for me.

My dad divorced my mom.. i never saw him... My mom doesn't want to keep me , no guy likes me. I cry secretly at nights.. I live with my relatives though my mom is well and earning good .. i have never lived with her more than one month! Since childhood I'm with my relatives... I feel that nobody loves me ... No guy likes me MY LIFE IS SHITTY! I feel i deserved this..

my grandma called my aunt and she didn't pick up but once my aunt got to her phone she listened to my grandmas voice mail and it was in strait Russian and she doesn't even know how to speak any language so can someone explain how my grandmas voice mail went from English to russian

My kids father abandoned them. I somehow got in contact with his wife who knew nothing about my kids! She seemed like she wanted to get to the bottom of it then she too stop contacting me. Our oldest daughter is in the hospital and I was wondering would it be wrong if I contacted her family to get to her so that he could at least know the status of his daughter?

Hello I am 15 years old and I have a 4 month old baby. My father is very emotionally abusive and use to get physical with me before I had the baby. I am no longer wanting to live with him because I feel it is unsafe for my baby . I have a 21 year old sister who is willing to take me and the baby in. Do I have the right or choice to choose to go live with her without being reported as a run away and getting in trouble with the law? If you could answer this for me I would be very happy! Thank you in advance.

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Idk if this matters but I'm 15 and my great grandpa has been in the hospital for 3 weeks with infections cancer etc. just a whole mixture of terrible things. They say he has at most three days to live. My mom asked if we wanted to see him on the second day because that's all she can do on her schedule and I don't want to. I saw a picture of him like that and it made me sick. That's not what I want to remember him like. Idk what to do because it makes me feel bad that I don't want to go but it also brings me comfort knowing I won't have to remember him that way. Should I go?

Me and my sister are madly in love. We do everything together. We hold hands , cuddle , kiss , make love , sleep together almost everything you can think of. I don't have to worry about her getting pregnant she has an iud in. I hear that it is bad for brothers and sisters to date but I don't see what's so bad about it. Is it ok for brother and sister to be in love ? I'm 19 she's 17

I will be leaving shortly to go visit my parents for 2 weeks. I have a long 8 hour drive so to be more comfortable I am going go drive in my bare feet and keep my shoes behind my seat out of the way.

My bf and i had our son a year ago. I know he loves my son. But I do everything for my son. he never gave me any money even when I was pregnant or bought food .He has gaven me 100$ but he took it back to buy ******* weed. When I got pregnant he would work 40 plus hours and it been like around 2-3 years of him working and he still doesn't have a car. He has saved up nothing. He bought him diapers and clothes but that about it. He jobless rn. He lies and say I start school next week and will have a car but never ends up going and this has been going on for 2 years now. He lives with his mom and I live with my mom bc I go to college and it was our only option. He lie and say he doesn't smoke anymore. His aunts are the ones who buy him things and he the one who claimed he buy it. He got mad just because I went out once to the movies with my little cousin for a short break. He told me I should be they only one who eat her him. But he can go out all night with his bum as cousin. He always accusing me of cheating. He recently told me I can't wear make up or wear a certain outfit. I don't listen and he gets mad. I don't want a future with him anymore. He changed so much. I also don't trust him with my son he has anger issues. He can't even stand one min of crying without him yelling at our baby. I seen him when he angry and he control himself. I feel bad if I break up. And people say you don't suposrt him in his growing phases but he doesn't step up and be a man and grow.

Today is my dad's birthday, but we don't really talk anymore. He's kind of a gaslighting jerk, and if I talk to him, he'll probably ask to see me again. I sort of want that but my mom doesn't want that and I certainly don't want to be gaslighted again. Thoughts? :)

My sister got into her second DWI crash within the past 2 years in the state of North Carolina, this one causing her to get surgery. According to her, they offered her a plea of 10 years, but she turned it down saying she has gone through rehab and is willing to do community service. Her charges/penalties are: FAIL TO WEAR SEAT BELT-DRIVER DRIVING WHILE IMPAIRED CIVIL REVOCATION DR LIC (30) FAIL MAINTAIN LANE CONTROL RECKLESS DRVG-WANTON DISREGARD Does anyone know what may happen?

I don t know what to do I completely run the house I cook clean do the washing drying I do EVERYTHING in the house but the minute I even speak about moving she blackmails me with her health and says the minute I move out she ll have nothing I already have a job a place I could go straight away I really don t know what to do anymore everybody says I should move out but I m scared what she d do

A little over two years ago my parents who are now divorced sold a house we lived in while my brothers and I were in high school. They split the money they got from selling the house 50-50. My father out of the kindness of his heart decided to give his half of the money three ways to my brothers and I in the form of monthly installments. I became partially dependent on this monthly allowance that supplemented my salary. Recently my father has been delaying the due date for my allowance and giving smaller installments. He tells me he is out of money and needs to wait for his own salary to come in so he can give my brothers and I our monthly allowance. I pointed out to him that the deal was to give the money from the house to us until it was out. But instead of admitting that the money is gone, he blames my mother for blocking access to the money. I admit that my mother is not as generous as my father financially, but my father fails to see that he already made a deal with my mother over splitting the money. If I cannot get a monthly allowance any more I'll adapt. But how do I tell my father to stop putting pressure on himself by lying to himself that he still has the money?

My Dad spanked me, and banged me into walls, and pulled my hair. He used his hand, which bothers me. I hate him so much. Sometimes when people bring up spanking I feel sick, and want to pass out. I have let my Dad know I hate him.

Ok so i made her a facebook acc sometimes around last year because our life was kind of really bored, the neighborhood don't even want to talk to my parents, and my sister went to school all the time so i think it's ok o find her something to do instead of staying around, which is my biggest mistake, she started to get lots of friends, lots of 'love letters of her and the guys there' spend more them on her phone, talked more crap about my dad, me and my sister kind of figured it out so we talked directly to her about it, it's not serious. And now my dad knows about it, but not very much of it. She kinda dating one seriously now, she tells him she and my dad are living in the same home but separated. They are living together for me and my sister and all that crap, love and stuff. So i just went batshit and yelled at her about it and now I feel super guilty. I really don't want to mess this up

so my mom and dad did crystal meth, they didnt take care of me I was under weight and had barley clothes i didnt go to school, we lived in a small trailer with strangers coming in and out doing drugs (because my parents let them) i got sexually assulted 6 times when I was 12-16 almost raped once my parents didnt care, I started selling drugs at 14 to buy food and clothes, when I was 16 I got caught by the cops selling pills to a homeless guy, I broke down and told the cops everything I got fostered for little while then became empacipatedt at 17, my parents got 3 years in prison for child neglect and drug abuse, last week I found out my dad died, I didnt feel anything, I kinda feel weird and guilty that I dont care, I mean my dad sometimes got physical when he was outa dope then he'd sometimes let his anger out on me (mostly punching) he gave me a black eye once, if I died he probably wouldnt feel any emotions either, is it bad I didnt care? does he deserve my greif?

I know this isn't a question but I feel like my mom doesn't love me. She never told me that she loved me either.. she has done a lot of things for me but she hasn't even gave me anything for Valentine's Day . I was so jealous because i saw all of my friend's snapchat of their gifts that they got from their mothers and I started crying because my mother never gave me anything.

I am currently married to my toddler s father. Our relationship has been dead for a very long time. No physical contact in years, separate bedrooms, absolutely separate lives... the whole shabang. I am the sole caretaker for my son. I wake up and take him to daycare, go to work and pick him up every single day. Dad is home 3 out of the 5 days son is in daycare. Refuses to interact with him. I stay home when my child is sick as well. Anyway, I have found someone else. He loves my son and I so much. He s mentally stable, safe, caring and financially stable. Him and my child get along well. He is relocating to California for a new job to be with us. I want to leave the state I currently reside in (8 hours away) with my son to start this family. My child s dad will of course put up a fight despite the fact that he has little to no interaction with his child. In any given week, son might be lucky to get one hour with his father. Dad does not mind saying in front of son that he doesn t want to watch him etc. What are my rights? Both my son and I deserve to have a family. Somebody who gives a damn about us. Can we leave?

so my 13yo daughter shares a room with her almost 15yo and 12yo brother and she sleeps completely topless. pants arent a problem, but tops are. her brothers usually sleep topless as well. i'm just wondering if it;s okay for her teen brothers to be seeing her blossoming chest, which is uncovered. so far there hasnt been an issue. is it still ok?

So hello guys, im a guy and im friend with this guy. I used to like this girl but not anymore. My friend talk to her now but he keep trying to get me to talk to her. Why though? I mean i respect my friend boundaries and wouldnt get in anyone relationship

I just got home from picking up my younger sister at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car and was only gone for about 10 minutes I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

I will give you one example of his outbursts: We were standing around the kitchen watching TV and I was stirring macaroni and cheese in a pot but I kept stirring it a little fast, so some poured out. He pointed it out and got increasingly angry, I said sorry and said i d clean up my mess but when getting it into a bowl more spilled, I got to the point of being bored stirring the macaroni and tried balancing the spoon on the edge..it fell and i tried catching it flinging little droplets of cheese in one little part of the kitchen, He then goes into a screaming campaign calling me an asshole, idiot, piece of **** and when my mom comes to my defense he yells at her for "babying me" and defending me and once they re arguing he cuts off and screams at the top of his lungs in my face "See what you start you little asshole?" "See what you do?" and then starts exaggerating my ADD that I was diagnosed with and take adderal for, calling me mentally retarded and screaming at me saying I am retarded and he says he needs to take me to a psychologist to find out what is wrong with me......So I need to know is he just trying to toughen me up or is it mental abuse?

I just got home from picking up my daughter at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes. I don't like to wear shoes unless I have to and I did not need shoes for a 20 minute drive since I did not go in anyplace.

Most guys don't wife a 30 yr old virgin. I had her at 19.

a long time now I have argued with myself about how to look and how to act. I hate the way i dress and look. I dress the way i do to please my parents and the rest of my family. I like a lot of things that they call "odd" or "disgusting" I like piercings and such im currently 17, I've been into the same things for years now. like anime and I adore video games. I've been like this sense I was about 10. Do I need to forget about those things? This has honestly such a burden on me. I have zero confidence and im just not happy. Am I acting to young or childish?

Is this such a bad role model that it would be dangerous if I knew him? Also I am 26 now and my mother still says there would be deep consequences if I ever seek him out. I want to seek him out even if I don't get close. She says he does not love us or he would have been faithful to our mother. She returned gifts he sent at birthdays and stuff and I guess he gave up. I didn't know this until recently when I met his sister (much to my mother's dismay). We had seldom spoken of him except a prayer my mother would say from time to time at grace that he face the punishment of his evil. She is very bitter but my Dad did cheat on her so I don't blame her to some degree. She said when he cheated on her he cheated on us but someone recently told me this wasn't necessarily the case. My Mom did remarry and I like my step-Dad but I have a interest in knowing my real father even if not close to him. My mother will issue her wrath I no if I do though. Like her brother we are forbidden to talk to since he misused our grandparent's estate according to my mother. There to I would get in touch if I could. So what do I do? I am 26, a boy, and always wanted a father. I got a step-father at age 20 but was older then. Also he is a lot older so will likely die in the next ten years. I have never even seen a photo of my Dad since the divorce as my mother removed them and told us we couldn't look for them (no idea if she tossed them or put them somewhere).

He's 20 It happened in front of my mom and my dad knows

My brother is 21 and is doing nothing with his life. Our father passed away when I was still in high school (Im 27) and he was the one who did most of the discipline growing up. My mom on the other hand is too much of a sweetheart.. My brother has always been a bit odd/ awkward growing up but it got worse after my father passed because my mom spoils/shelters him up to this day and he turned into an entitled little snob. Like I stated he's 21 years old, and has nothing going for him. When he graduated high school me, my mother, and my aunt put money together to pay for community college due to my mother making minimum wage and my my brother would rarely show up and ended up failing out. Since then my brother gets a job usually twice a year that only lasts about a week because he will get fired for being a moron. I even tried getting him a job where I work for a position that usually requires a degree but I put a good word in. He showed up for 2 days and the 3rd day he didn't come in due to being tired so they fired him because he didn't even attempt to call, he just din't show up. He is convinced that the company is in the wrong for him. He even refused to at least try to lie because he quote "puts himself first because of his pride" and tried to justify it. It just pisses me off that my mother doesn't make much money at all and he always is mooching off of her. Me and my uncles are usually hard on him about it but according to him we are just jerks picking on him.update!! Last week though we went down and tried talking to him like an adult. We were polite and tried to have an adult talk with him. He ended up snapping out and spit in my face. One of my uncles blocked me from getting at him and another one shoved him against the wall and that was it. My brother ended up calling the cops trying to press charges for assault. Luckily nothing happened. The thing is, even though he is my blood I feel like really kicking the living dogshit out of him. I really feel like he might have some sort of mental disorder, When he was in school he would get his *** kicked a bunch of times. Id be ready to kick someones *** only to find out he said or did something completely DISRESPECTFUL like SPITTING ON SOMEONE, or calling someone's gf a slut but would play the victim after. The thing is he will act like a stuck up snot and then feel sorry for himself for having no friends or why nobody likes him. The thing is he is taking advantage of my moms over kindness. My mother turns the cheek when something is going on. Shes too nice and deals with bullshit by pretending it doesn't happen. When I was a teen after my dad passed my mom found tick tacks and thought it was pills. She didn't even try to confront me about it. She just took them out of my room when I wasn't home and didn't say a word about it until about 2 years ago when I goot into it with my brother for being a bum to say about it.

Well, said family was very active in helping my Parents out when I was on life support in the hospital. However, it has been 4 years since and even though they live a mile and a half down the road, not once has either of them come over voluntarily to take me somewhere as I cannot currently drive. On the other hand they have plenty of time(and money) to take vacations every couple of weeks it seems. My Parents are pretty fed up with it all, especially since they pretty much never get a carefree vacation.