and not look back? Everyone told me, including my own daughter, so I had become convinced she would be living with us for several more years to come. Then my husband had a health scare, and she ran as hard and as fast as she could, searching for a husband. She found one, and now I'm going through more feelings than I know how to express. Please don't suggest counseling; I can't afford $25/visit. I need to figure this out on my own, and honestly, a counselor can't help right now. But I just look back and can't remember, while raising her, when I thought to myself, "One day, she's going to be REALLY EXCITED about leaving our home and won't look back." In fact, as soon as she graduates in a couple months, my life with her will be over. She has a guy in her life she can't wait to start a life with. He's a lovely guy, and I have no doubt she'll navigate a relationship with him. But I feel like I'm losing a HUGE part of me, and I don't know how to deal with it. Please, if you have been through this or even given thought to it, please tell me how to cope.

She is married of 9 years, pregnant, and has a child. I am friends with her parents, her husband, her kid, and we are coworkers. We're also roommates. We are both woman, and we have a 10 year age gap (she is older). Now, I know she is bi and curious about relationships with women... so that part isn't my stress. And we're extremely close, we're eachother's confidents and we share all the same interests (while her husband really only cares about what he's interested in). We cuddle all the time, we talk, we have late night giggling sessions, we get lunch together constantly due to working together. I know she loves me, but platonically. Despite her husband's general lack of attention in her, she does love him. Do I have a chance? What should I do? Should I ever confess, or should I keep this quiet? Is there any way to sabatoge their relationship? I want to be with her and have for a long time :(

Do you think Nick Cokas can move on after his divorce Scorpion star Katherine McPhee. I don't know, cons are he is old, his wife cheated on him so they doesn't exactly land women any time soon, because he was the one who got burned and it is tough market to start dating in his age 42. Marrying a younger woman, might be the reason why they split in the first place. Right now, women are cheating on men and being dumped by them too. If it was me, I stay away and learn and analyze. Women his age, don't want to date him. Pro he can eat what he wants, he come and go anytime he wants and he doesn't have to answer to anyone. Being a divorce guy isn't bad sometimes. What do you think, do you thinkg Nick Cokas can move on after his divorce with Katherine McPhee?

I have been divorced for 1.5 years now and all this time what i went through made me into a much better person. I realized my own mistakes and so his. He used drugs and we had a lot if issue over that. Anyways recently in the past 3 days i just am crying and thinking of him. I guess its just an illusion that I imagine things being different and wondering if he would come back and we work things out. Maybe it is because he said he needs 5 years to build himself and then we will be together maybe. We have no contact. Does it usually take a while to get over divorce? What lesson have tou learned from divorce if u have been through it. I definitely have learned to forgive more. Thank you

So, I'm talking a group of 5 (including me) work friends here. We all work on the same floor of our company. We often go to lunch or to happy hour and things like that. Me and one of the guys seem to have a bit of a playful/flirtatious friendship, although this has never been discussed. Lately I have been noticing that the other 3 friends in the group have a tendency to leave him and I alone together say if we're all walking downtown to grab a drink after work, or if we go to order lunch they'll send the 2 of us to go pick it up. At our happy hour last Friday night the other 3 had walked over to the bar together, leaving my guy friend and I to walk over alone, and the 2 seats left for us were side by side on the end. Then at the end of the night, the 3 of them all said they were going to get going and share an uber and to have a good night. What am I to make of this? Does everyone know something I don't?

I tried online dating and I just don't get any responses, I go out to see shows with friends and talk to who's there but I just can't seem to get on the same page with women. I feel like something has changed between 25 and 33 on the dating scene. Clue me in, anyone please

The judge gave me grief but he does not know what I have been through and I have a duty to be honest to my kids about what a no good man he is. They will know when they grow up I am the victim in the divorce and not the scumbag ex. So why do I have no rights as the parent who has custody to block him from entering their lives and block his entire family?

I'm looking for other female submissives with Loving Doms who would be willing to offer unique and creative suggestions on pleasing Him? What kinds of rules and punishments has your Dom set for you?

We would make such a good couple in marriage and the great thing is no conflict of sharing the holidays with one side of the family or the other, it would be just us. I was adopted at birth because my mother (adopted) was infertile so having children won't be an issue so I don't see what the problem is. She is my Mom though and no one else. The birthmother was a hero to give birth but is a friend, not Mommy (I met her at age 20). Her parents have died so their is not family objecting though her drunken brother might say something but he is a ****. Why can't I marry her now that I am 22. We are soulmates.

I love her and she is the sparkle in my eye. She lights up the room everytime she walks in. She is the joy in my heart and the love of my life. Her current husband she said does not appreciate her. He is busy doing work related things and often socializing his brother or her brothers. They have 3 kids and she has to be in charge almost everyday. Her husband is not a bad guy but I can give her so much more then he does. We are soulmates and we have both told each other that. We had sex last summer and again over the holidays. She said it means so much more with me then her husband. I could be so much more attentive to her kids also especially the one with autism. I cheated on my last wife but that was because she was not the one, this woman is the one and I promised her my fidelity forever if she wants to be with me. She is having confusion. Her family found out about our affair and some are good people who support us but many others are berating her especially her brother who is one of those arrogant people who thinks he is a moral judge. She even has a nephew sending her harsh emails though she said he is brainwashed by his parents (this brother and his wife). Am I right to continue to purse her since she and I have been joined by heart even if not in court of law in marriage? Am I in the wrong like her arrogant relatives think? Right now I plan to continue to pursue her but told her it is up to her if we join and I'd have her as mine either way in my heart.

he used to wear a wedding ring but stopped. I looked up his name, and it says marriage license not returned. but I've seen him with a ring on.

He is the lead singer of a band. He's very egotistical but can be nice. He's leaving the country for a while in April and doesn't know whether he will be back. He just want's to "have fun" and "keep things open." Basically, he doesn't want a relationship, but wants to "see where things go with me" because no one is into monogamy anymore. I'm more old fashioned . I would like to someday have a long term boyfriend (is that too much to ask for in this day and age? We had sex last night and I told him to put on a condum, but he didn't listen and came in my a**hole (sorry for the graphicness). He convinced me that he didn't have any STDs, but this pretty much pushed me over the edge. This morning I told him I didn't like him and pretty much ended it Did I make the right choice? Should I have just gone with the flow and "had fun" experiences with him?

I had a huge detailed story written out but it got lost when the web page jumped around, damn touch screen... Any ways there's this girl o used to know that I had a huge connection with who I did end up having sex with after over six years of knowing her but I just get reminded of her week after week not only because of Facebook but also random life events or arguments me and my wife get into... In short I need input anyone out there please help me

Going thru divorce and just found out my my ex hurt our 6 year old by grabbing him under arms and pinning him up in the air against the wall~ he said he was so scared an was crying so hard and my oldest son saw it all and said he was so scared and told daddy that mommy would never hurt us this way and that was wrong. My ex cont. to tell him he didn't nothing wrong, he asked if he. Oils call me and he said no😞 This is not first time he has hurt kids, we go to trial next week and I have already emailed lawyer about it. I know it is Sunday and probably won't hear anything back till tomorrow but should I do anything else? I'm just scared for me and kids😞

a girl was married at the age of 15 married to someone who is 31 had a daughter at the age of 17 she was forced and she dropped of school because of that and her husband isn t even rich and she didn't want to marry him and she didn't know him . . . . . . That girl is my grandma

I have. He had proposed to me after 5 years of dating and I was torn between getting married and going to graduate school in another country. My family was pressuring me to choose graduate school over him since we were only 24 at the time. I declined the marriage proposal. I ended up going to graduate school and dropping out after 1 year due to depression and stress and 4 years later I'm still working a minimum wage job at a restaurant and haven't met anyone to date since. He completed medical school and is now a doctor and engaged.

Is he too old to be doing this?

I am a divorced mother of 3 and I have since remarried a man who is a great father to my my kids. My ex husband (and child's father) still sees his kids occasionally but does minimal to support them financial and emotionally and the needs, finances, and raising of my kids has been put mainly on me and my husband(not their father). However when my ex sees his kids he is good with them and they love him even though he doesn't see them often and gives me little money to help with their expenses. I tell me husband that my ex husband is a good father and I am thankful and grateful he gave me our children and that the kids love him. My husband didn't seem tho want to hear this and we had a fight over it saying I shouldn't be grateful to a sperm donor. Also my husband cannot have children for medical reasons. Was I being insensitive by saying this?

I think Jesus loves married 22 yr olds more than virgins who can't find the right one. Christian's say that God loves everyone but it seems that those my age who are engaged are so happy.

my bf and I have been together for 3 years. He tells me I am not allowed to call his cellphone (only he can call me), he hides his phone when I am around, he refuses to let me be friends or even post any pics of us on social media, for the past month in a half he has been busy every single weekend and I have been asking for ONE date night, I have to beg him to basically give me attention (I never tell him to buy me anything or do anything fancy and expensive just for love and honesty) he then gets mad that I want him to make more of an effort in the relationship. He has broken up with me around 40 times the past 3 years (he has sometimes used as a tool for punishment) and the last 2 months alone he has already broken up with me 9 times. HE ALWAYS COMES BACK and every time he blames the entire break up on me. We just broke up last wednesday again because I refused to give him a threesome (something I am not comfortable with but was considering to make him happy but I told him he has to meet me in person so we can talk and refused so I ended things but I do not feel like he took me seriously but I feel like deep down he will be back. I just know he will. He told me he is going on a date but I know he will be back. Why does he leave if all he does is come back? I treat him amazing,I have caught him lying he has hit me and cursed me out, gives no attention I always love hard and forgive him but when I make one mistake he can not seem to let go and then makes me cry and breaks up he is the one that comes back, I never chase him. It is him who comes back not me. I know when we break up he probably hooks up with women but it is him who comes back why? he has enough balls to break up with me he just always comes back

okay so i'm not sure but my family have never been super close knit and my parents seem to have more of a convenient relation ship than a loving one. Thats how its always been so I didn't really think much of it and next year will be their 20th. So yesterday i used my dads phone to call mine because I had lost mine. Then I checked his messages because he's pretty protective of his phone so I never got the chance. When I checked his messages there is one to a woman, lets call her lilly. So they've been messaging for a while it seems and it also seems that they knew each other from way back when and have reconnected or something. Anyway there is a lot of shallow texting that seems more like flirting because its not the usual, what are you up to? do you have a family now? anyway it seems that they agreed to meet up today and so i was thinking that maybe my parents were going to be going out together or that he would tell her becuase my mom is pretty lax. But its like 2pm and hes not home so when I asked my mom where he was she told me that he went to the mall to do some shopping (because my dad really likes to shop). So i know for a fact that hes seeing that girl now and I dont understand why he would lie to my mom about where he was going. Then I realized that he goes to the mall a lot to "shop" like twice a week but never comes home with anything that he bought even though hes out for like 2 hours. Im not sure if hes cheating but what should I do to find out for sure?

Talking in a group of 3-4 people, she stood next to me and her arm/shoulder was up against mine. We were not crowded in. I stepped away to the left after a few seconds of holding it and seeing that she wasn't moving away. The thing is, we're both female. I'm bi. She's said some pretty flirty/sexual things to me in the past but does have a boyfriend.

A few months ago he started chatting with a woman during nights and we used to have sex from time to time. When I found out he swore nothing happened but since then he stopped having sex with me

do I wait or just enjoy what we have now?

Are you the spanker or the Spankee and do you enjoy it or are you doing it solely because your partner likes it?

Let say you get married with someone and after too many conflict. You went for a divorce and remarry with the same person again.. Would this be a problem?

I've been married 5 years. At the beginning, things were fine, but now I really believe it when he says he hates me. My husband is rude & rarely says anything nice about me or to me. When I ask him questions he acts like it's a bother for him to answer...sometimes he will act like he doesn't hear me until I call his name several times&when he does answer, he will give a smart or sarcastic response. We can be in the same room for hours & he won't say a word to me...he is always more focused on his phone. When it comes to kind words or words of affection he doesn't have any. Also, when I ask if he wants to go places, he declines, and if I do go out and let him know, he won't even acknowledge that i'm leaving. He does not sleep with me anymore and sleeps on the couch. He gets mad and blows up at me over the smallest things. Yesterday, I had enough of his rudeness and I said so and we ended up arguing and he told me that he hates me…it's not the first time. NOTHING I do is good enough. He doesn't even like being in the same room with me, and if I want to stay in the living room and watch a movie or tv it's a bother and he will ask me to do it in the bedroom, but I stand my ground on that one and tell him that the living room is for living. I don't know what to do…we've been together a total of 8 years & I'm now 35 & feel too old to start over. We have had our share of problems and I am not perfect but neither is he. He cheated on me in the past but we ended up working it out & staying together but now I'm wondering if he resents me for not leaving. I don't know how to start over, &wouldn't know where to begin but I've been looking for apartments. I feel so unloved. He doesn't even want to touch me and if we are walking past one another in the apartment he will move aside so that he doesn't even have to brush against me. What can I do? Is there any way to work on our relationship? Advice needed please! And I wish I had more information to explain how or why this all started and escalated, but I truly do not. He just started sleeping on the couch about 7 or 8 months ago, and since then, this is what i've dealt with. He was rude before but is much much worse now. The only thing I can think of is that he's cheating again, which of course he denies.

a few nights ago she was involved in a car wreck, she was drinking and really demolished the car and she died. Can I collect the insurance policy even if its her fault? this is why I wanted a divorce, she was a terrible driver and worse wife.

now my best friend is telling everyone that her mom is the prettiest. men talk about sex, we heard them saying who they would want for sex and all men picked my friends mom.my mom isn't ugly but no man wants her. I want to tell my mom but she would be hurt,

My wife cries when we make love. Why does she do this ? How can I help her feel better ?

The thing is my wife questions the love I have for our daughter, I've been in her life since she was born she's eight years old I've did everything with her I really believe that she rather be around me instead if she had the choice, however her real dad didn't get involved in her life until she was four years old. I believe our relationship changed since then she use to call me daddy and other stuff we had a bond with each other but her dad and his mom programed her not to say things to me I honestly love her like she's mine on another note when she goes to her dad's house every other weekend she doesn't misbehave as much also she's around the step mom more then her dad, however when she's with us she has behavior problems simply cause my wife let's her get away with anything and I'm the only one whoever tells her anything my wife and herself say I'm really mean to her, but the thing about that is her mom let's her get her way and her grandma and grandpa do as well. Now me and my wife just had a baby together he's 8 months they see me all loving on my son and my wife tells me why don't I treat our daughter with the same love I could let her get her way like everyone else but I just can't! I really love her though it's just very hard to show it under the circumstances any advice?

So we are both 19 and almost done with the first year of college. We have been together for over 2 years. Recently I asked him how he feels about marriage. The response I got: "I dont know if I want to get married, I'm only 19, I dont really think about it." He said he doest want to plan out his life And he doesnt like "when" stuff because it creates an expectation and if he says now for example, that he wants to get married once he has a long term job and that day comes and he isnt ready then he'd just disappoint me. Like if I'm expecting to get married and it doesnt happen then he would just disappoint me. He said he probably wouldn't get married until he's graduated and has a job/lives independently if he ever wanted to get married. He did say he's thought about living with me and going on trips and stuff but it seems odd to me he doest like....think about marrying me..? and how he doesnt want to plan for the future..how should I take this? I want to marry him... not at 19... but in like 2 years..I get we are super young but it seems weird he doesnt even fantasize about it....Advice? And how would you take this?

I HAVE BEEN INTERESTED IN A THREESOME FOR SOME TIME NOW. MY WIFE ISNT AS INTO IT AS I AM BUT DOES FANTASIZE ABOUT IT. HOW MANY OF YOU HAVE ACTUALLY FOLLOWED THROUGH WITH THIS LIFE AND EITHER RECOMMEND OR DO NOT RECOMMEND?

I donot wish to disclose my race. I am however a good looking guy and have seen good looking women feom all races. Do you think a good looking guy of one race shouldn't marry a good looking woman from another race

husband got really drunk and stayed over his friends house--his friend drove me home, we did kiss and I did feel his package, I didn't know what to think because it was very large, but my husbands friend said we need to stop..Now all I can think of is his package and what it looks like.how could it be so much larger than my husbands? I get excited even writing about it. I know it sounds bad but I'm human.

He mentioned that he had worn other's jersey and shorts while playing football, and once he worn shorts with no undies. He also often brusises in gym n in pitch which makes his skin open to bacteria. Doctor told that it might be from clothes as he sweats a lot as well. But I am 50-50 on this. Could it be this way or is he lying big time?

Hello I am a woman with a good economic pass and married 11 years ago without children to date. The issue is that I found out my husband cheating on me 2 years ago with another woman and that they had a department where he was going to look for her and sometimes he lied to me and he actually stayed to sleep with her and he made out a thousand lies but after we separated he looked for me and he repaired the situation and we returned to live together because we hadn't divorced. The problem is that it is difficult for me to become pregnant, and as if that were not enough he also obsessed with wanting to practice oral sex and have anal sex. I have a rather classic and conservative thiought about sex, and I never had more than coitus as God commands the natural ways. And my husband sometimes gets mad at me and I notice him distant because I do not let him penetrate me back, I hate the idea of ​​having anal sex or practicing oral sex. And lately this is very distant I do not know what to do as I can prevent us from distancing ourselves so much; I can't I don't like anal sex a few nights ago we tried and he penetrated me a little anally but I felt that I saw lights and I did not let him continue doing that to me, and I left him alone in the bed and he asked if he was angry and he did not answer me. I feel a little guilty. Please give advice because I do not want to lose him. sorry about my broken English is not my mother tongue but I posted this aswer here coz I know he doesn't know English so he couldn't know it was me who posted this question

I come from a conservative society where marriage is arranged by the parents. They're not forced but people seldom marry an outsider. The girl who loves me is French and is very cute and affectionate. I told everything about me and she told me that too is interested in a life long commitment. I like her a lot but it would be embarrassing for me to face my parents and relatives if she happens to leave me. If we have a baby, then a separation will be heartbreaking. I've never dated or touched a girl before in my life and am scared if I should say yes to her. I've asked her if she would give me some time to think about it and she readily agreed. Is there any way to figure out if a person will stay committed to you until you die.

Baby dad took me to court to establish paternity, joint custody, parent time/ visation, and put him self on child support. Before court stared he called me told me he wanted to drop the case because he didn t want to pay child support. Which I was happy about I didn t want the courts involded at all because he s never met my daughter, or paid child support to me any way shape or form, and I really just don t want to be bothered with him. Anyway when the judge called our names. I told the judge he told me he wanted to drop the case. Then my baby father said no Id like to have some conclusion today. So the judge told us to go in a room and fill out a consent form. Our consent order is very vague. ( I did that purposly) it says we will split my daughters expenses equally. He will pay daycare expenses, and I will take care of medical expenses and we will decide parenting time amongst ourselves and that s all it says. The judge signed and we left. The next day baby dad says he s not giving me any money because the consent order says day care expenses and not baby sitter. ( my aunt baby sits my child, she doesn t goto day care) I told him I could care less if he paid or not he s the one that wanted to goto court and I was fine raising her on my own, without his presence or fincial help.