I'm a 24 year old female and everyone around me is getting married. I'm attractive, have a kind personality, and I'm smart. I'm starting to feel bad! Is there something wrong with me? There has to be something wrong because I'm the only one that's not getting married.

My wife loves to lay in bed and cuddle. Why ?

I have to leave in a few minutes to go pick up my husband at work. I am at home now in my bare feet and since I am not getting out of the car and we are coming right back home I am just going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes.

He doesn't like me more than a friend, but doesn't mention a spouse or partner. I think he actually avoids.

How do you deal with a wife who is always trying to make you jealous by posting selfies on Facebook and getting comments from other men and is always being overly friendly with other men then complains when they hit in her but never fails to tell you about it?

I always take care of the girl when I take her out. I open doors for her, I pay for her, I ask her questions about herself. I like the girl, I really do. I care about. She's cute, she's sexy. The sex is amazing. I told her from day 1 I wasn't trying to be her boyfriend and she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and at the time it was true. But now I know she's starting to have feelings for me. But I asked her if she was in love with me and she said no and I believe her. The problem is though that she's a girl. She's mature for her age but she's 19 and I'm 26. We're different. I can go out with her or chill with her and have a good time but then sometimes we can talk and it's like...she's 19. She's sweet. She always answers me right away when I call/text her. When I come over, she's always asking me if I want something to eat or drink. Like she'll literally cook for me. I know she's the type that wants a boyfriend and I'm moving in May. I don't really feel bad because she could stop seeing me if she wanted to, she could raise her standards and find a guy that wants to be her boyfriend and she doesn't. But I don't want hurt her to get her feelings hurt. Should I break it off? I know I will in May, for sure, but I guess I don't want to do it now.

My mom took me to her gym to play racquetball. I'm 14 and my mom is 44. Right of the bat, I notice men older and younger saying hello to her. One guy even gave her a hug and grabbed her hand. I asked my mom who they are and she said acquaintances. I questioned why that guy gave her a hug. She said he's just being friendly. Anyways, I'm kind of freaking out. My mom is beautiful and I know that she loves my dad. But how should I tell her that I don't feel comfortanle with her hugging some icky guy who is dripping with sweat or any guy anywhere! What to do?

I'm told I can use fact I pay for her insurance still and she doesn't live here as alimony payments on my taxes. Just want to cover myself as a friend looked at my papers and says I can do this. I take the family rate I'm paying and subtract it from the single plan I could have. Then multiple that total by 52 weeks I paid for her. Then that is my alimony pay. We haven't gone to court or anything either so just a bit leery of this being legit?

what is the psychology in a relationship, behind the person who typically does the holding and the person being held, during intimatcy such as cuddling.... I am a female and I seem to be the one doing the majority of the holding, I am never held, and he is the one who wants to be held... also he is the one who always rests his head on my shoulder... I feel like I am playing the mans role? what does this mean, with body language and psychology I am sure there is meaning behind it....

Florida divorce

When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I was 18 and he was 22. I had very low self-esteem at the time and was talking to three other guys I was in a relationship with! Because of my low self-esteem, I was afraid of hurting people! So, to spare the other guys' feelings, I stayed in a relationship with them while I was in a relationship with my boyfriend! My heart has always belonged to him! But I was so scared of ending it with the other guys because I didnt want to hurt their feelings! Like I said.. I was 18! He found out I was sleeping with them and felt very very betrayed! We got married in October of the year I was 19! He found out and in April of that year.. I told him everything and confessed! The guys would tell him that everything we talked about, I would talk about with them! My husband and I also had a miscarriage and it broke him because it was everything he has ever wanted! His father passed away as well when he was 16! So... he just broke! We got an annulment but decided to stay together and just date! He ended up cheating on me four or five times on online dating sites because he said he has lost himself, has been angry, and needed to know he was good enough! I forgave him because I knew his spirit was broken and I did worse! I found God and changed my whole life around! I have been very faithful to him and have done everything that i can do to show him the person I am! I am now 21 and he is 24! He says he trusts me.. but his pain is so much that he never wants to get close to another person ever again! We ended up breaking up because he couldnt look at me every day knowing what I have done! It sickened and as hurt him to his core! I tried everything I could to heal and put him back together! I was there for him when he hurt me, pushed me away, when he was sick, and have been trying to be the best girlfriend I can be! I told him he is my only one and truly the person I want to be with forever! I love him so much! Even though we are broken up, we talk every single day and nothing has changed! The only thing that has changed is we dont see each other anymore! but he's not like himself and he told me he doesnt even want to get close to his family because of loss and disappointment! I asked if he still wanted to marry and be with me in the future and he said he doesnt know and isnt thinking about it! He said he never wants a girlfriend or to be in a relationship... but he still talks to me constantly and we remain best friends Do you think he will ever heal? and what do you think I can do as a supportive person who loves him very much? Thank you so much!

I'm trying to stop and haven't watched in a few days, but I have thoughts of wanting to watch every day. Will these go away eventually or will I have to fight my addiction for all of eternities

To preface this: I'm gay so all the below is related to my marriage to another man. I've been married for about one year. At first everything was going really really well. I love my husband deeply but here are the issues that make me want to consider getting a divorce: -My husband cannot keep a job, doesn't try to find full time work and relies on me solely for support. He refuses to contribute around the house with funds and can't even keep up with minimal contributions. We're talking getting a few hundred out of him for our almost $5K living expenses (Cars, rent, insurances, etc.) is like pulling teeth. -He has insinuated that I should get 2nd and 3rd jobs if I think the money is too tight in the house. -He talks to other men behind my back because he is perpetually afraid that I will leave him for somebody else despite no evidence to even suggest that would occur and wants to use them in case he needs a back up plan (he claims he is not doing anything sexually). -I found keys to a bath house and several adult oriented toys in our home (he claims he's had them for years but I've never seen them before even when we moved to our new home). -His family has a ton of personal baggage and his mother exerts an extreme amount of control over him. Case in point he skipped paying me rent so he could send his mom a large amount of money. His mom also has a new boyfriend every other week. -He is very controlling over who can and cannot be my friend and where I can and cannot go.

I'm 25, married for 3 years, and married to a soldier deployed for the second time in the middle east. For context, before my wedding night I was a virgin. In fact no man had ever seen me nude. I've also been very hard on people who cheat on spouses while deployed in danger zones, going so far as to write a blog post the first time my husband was deployed, claiming that doing so was tantamount to treason, and that if I had my way the cheating party would be tried as such. My husband is currently on his second deployment. I had no intention to do what I did. I've always been a very sexual person, but also very faithful, both to my husband and my morals. This morning a neighbor was over helping me fix my leaky toilet, and we started talking about a variety of things. I was lonely and missing sex, and before I knew it. Well, you can connect the dots. I feel horrible. I feel like a total whore. I also, honestly, I feel like I committed treason, and I wrote the public blogpost to argue that what I did constitutes treason! What do I do now? Tell him? Not tell? I feel incredibly guilty and think he deserves to know. But I also am quite certain it'll be the end of our marriage, not to mention it'll hurt him beyond words. I don't know what to do.

i've a secret affair with a married woman. she says she wants to divorce and be together but does nothing for that to happen. im sick of wasting my time waiting for her and staying in the dark. my time with her is only after she's done with work, husband, kids and home. i did lose my patience the other day with her and yelled at her for an hour and a half; she didnt say a word - except stop it every now and then - now she says she's scared of me and that we should take a break. i hate being used but moving on is not easy after investing so much time and energy in her; but that seems the only logical thing to do. whenever i say its over she starts crying and begs me to be by her side etc. she's driving me nuts. what should i do ?

when he got home i was so angry i just started yelling and told him i had proof. I told him I heard about him sleeping with this 19 year old guy. We've been married 4 years and together for 10 years. We're 27 They had an affair 6 months ago. It lasted a month. He admitted it and started crying, begging me on his knees that he's not gay. he told me that he loves me and wants to be with me forever, and have children with me. he said his life was not worth living without me. he told me that he is just confused, and is going through a phase. he says he can't see himself ever living with a man. and sees me and him having children in the future. then why did he do this to me? why didn't he tell me before? i don't know if i can ever forgive him for this. i can't sleep. it's hurting me so much. i love him so much, but what if he is gay? what if it's not just a phase? how could he ruin my life this way. he was my everything! i am up and thinking hard about what i should do? should i get a divorce?

Her ex hubby cheated and has a new family. His parents expect to still come stay at their ex daughter in laws house to visit the kids, the daughter wants them to as well. I think it's wrong. I'm dating the ex daughter in law and I don't want to spend the holidays with her ex's family, am I crazy? She doesn't want them there either but the kids do and do do the ex in laws. Thoughts? My last question was deleted for some reason.

Ex in-laws. I m in a new relationship and my gf s 18 y/o daughter and grandmother (fathers mother) both feel the ex-inlaws should come stay with us during holidays and any other time they want. My gf s ex husband had another family behind their backs and even had a child. Now I m expected by the ex in laws and daughter to be one big happy family and allow them to stay with us. In my opinion, they are not my gf s family, and after a divorce are no longer a part of her family, sure they are related to her kids, but why should they stay with us? What kind of grandmother would even put this garbage in the daughters head? My gf doesn t want them to either. What are your thoughts on this?

During my junior year, he asked me out, and I said yes. We dated for the rest of our high school years and broke up during graduation because I was going to MIT and he was going to UC Berkeley. We thought that long term just won't work and it was peaceful and we stayed as close friends. After I graduated, I found a job in Rockefeller Center and am still working there. Later I found out that he became a lawyer and his office was also in Manhatten it's on 6th avenue and its super close to my office. And so I made a visit to his 2 bedrooms apartment which was next to Central Park, and we STARTED DATING AGAIN. After about a few months, I moved into his house. After another year on Christmas, he PROPOSED AT THE ICE RINK IN FRONT OF ROCKFELLER. It was so romantic and of course I said yes. We justhad our wedding in Bora Bora and had our honeymoon there too. He really wants a kid right now but I'm afraid that it's too early and that we should wait a bit longer into our marriage and decide. Note: WE HAD SEX BEFORE BUT THEY WERE ALL SITH CONDOMS. THE FIRST TIME WE DID IT WAS AFTER I MOVED INTO HIS HOUSE IN CENTRAL PARK.

Ok so I just moved to a new apartment and I think I've developped a big crush on the guy who lives next door: Tall, like 6'5, dark, handsome, always well dressed.. (he's just a bit chubby but WOW! The thing is I'm almost certain I'm not his type; such a guy will only date blondes or women who are 5'9+ I'm really ashamed to even say hello to such a guy. Yesterday I saw him in the elevator but wouldn't speak because I'm too shy I know I'm non-existent to him

So me and my husband have been married for a while and we have been swinging in the sense of a threesome. And we have been doing this a while too and we LOVE it don't get me wrong, but in the back of BOTH our minds, we are wondering a few more things and hoping someone with more expertise could give some help. All of these questions are can we or should we questions. Can/should we venture off to other couples on our own? Can/should only ONE of us go off on our own (this one is mainly for me, I have talked with him about it and he was a little sketched at first but he is open to it if we can get some outside input on it) Can/should we talk about our outside partners if we do go off on our own? Those are my questions and please, negative comments about the swinging practice itself.

After almost 18 years of marriage I think I have come to realize the hell I ve lived through is due to the fact my husband has Aspergers. No he hasn t been to the doctor to be diagnosed but all the sign and symptoms are pointing that way. Though if this is true, even though it has brought some relief, I m still facing a life of challenges with him. Are there anyone else out there facing the challenges of dealing with an Aspergers spouse?

Please someone explain to me if I am a useless man. Have been with my woman for 5 years now. Unfortunately, I was unable to secure a good job in the first year of our marriage as I had just finished my masters degree and as a result, she was paying the bills while I supported with the little I was making from unstable £650/hr job . But after some months, I did get a well paying job in a bank and I took over paying all the bills house rent, TV licence, water, sewage and gas bills, council tax and even the food we eat. Mind I was also paying for my credit cards too and send money abroad for my siblings. She refused to contribute any money to our finances as she is a woman and she need money for her up keep. She earns close to £2000 per month and spend her money on her phone bills, credit card and car insurance. Even as my contract has ended and I am looking for a new role, I am still paying all the bills while she keeps her own money not even bothered to ask if we can pay the bills or not. Not only this, I do the dishes in the house while she curls up on the sofa watching her recorded programmes. Clean the house sometimes and take away the bins. I do the things a man is supposed to do in a relationship But unfortunately, few days ago, she called me a useless hubby and I felt bullied! It is really hard to take for me. I have gone online to check what makes a useless husband but could not find any. Am really worried It is £6.50 per hour

I have that lady friend that is divorced and remarried. She is very beautiful. Now how could her first husband even think about divorcing her. If I were in his shoes I would try everything to save the marriage. I would have sex with her every night. She does have a couple kids from her first marriage and I thought to myself "That must of felt heavenly to him."

I want to move but to a big state. I have 3 small children a 5 year old and a set of twin 3 year olds. My choices are Washington,California and New York! Is this too much with small children? Thanks in advance!

My ex-wife reports me for 'marriage fraud' to immigration. The truth is yes, I didn't love her and I primarily just wanted the green card and money. But she had issues so I couldn't fall in love with her she was not my type either. I was not attracted to her. She claimed to immigration I had a gf in my country and provided evidence but that's after I left which is not a crime. I did have an affair too but that's not a crime since I didn't love her. If I don't get my green card I'm gonna be pissed off. What's the best way to get revenge on her? Should I air her dirty laundry to everyone she knows, share her secrets or should I also say that she got paid for the marriage, which she didn't, but just to make her life miserable as she did mine? I hate her!! For saying things against me to immigration so I may not get my green card!