I don't really know for sure if I need to be worrying about this now but, it still comes to my mind. My parents don't have a connection. They don't hug or kiss anymore and they sleep in different rooms. And they are getting a divorce. My grandparents on my mom's side got a divorce too. Will I turn up like that? I'm only 14 right now but it scares me! I want to have an amazing spouse and a long lasting marriage where we both feel loved and compassionate. How do I make that possible? What do I look out for? I know that I'm way to young but I'm worried that I will follow in my parents and grandparents foot steps.

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She finally admitted that she did hand and oral for some random guys and friends on the nude beach. She said as long as not vaginal sex it would not be considered cheating. I disagreed and she called me deplorable conservative. (She is liberal and i am gop by the way). She then started this non sense by stating all her guy friends are liberal and agree with her on this and i should not consider hand and oral as cheating or real sex at all. She just did that as a joke nothing serious or for an inside joke. I then asked her if she had real sex then and now she said as long as she did not carry another man's baby then it was not cheating. I was so mad because she now changed from vaginal sex as cheating to being impregnated. Besides she has been taking pills so won't be pregnant anyway. So does that mean she think she can have sex with other guys and not consider cheating cos she is not pregnant? She called me a dumbfvck and said it was time for me to be a reasonable liberal and grow up. My head is spinning now. Gosh And now she said no hand or oral. She said she was playing prank with me. I don't know what is truth anymore

We were best friends and we never fought. Up until a few years ago when he had a pill addiction which graduated to heroin, stealing from me and two overdoses. Leaving me devistated and not sure what to do. He then went away to rehab for a month and seemed ok for the past year when he came home. I was so happy, he was finally able to home a job, we started having fun again and I was slowly trusting him again. Two months ago, I came home from work and my home was destroyed. Apparently, a toilet upstairs overflowed and it ruined my entire home. He happens to be in the restoration business so he quick got people there and hired a public adjuster. We had to live in a hotel and now an apartment. But here is the kicker, since the flood he has been downright mean. Short with me on the phone, hardly here always working. When I ask questions about the house, he gets irrated. No work has started there yet. Last week, he was a no call/no show for his very important doctor visit for his vivitrol shot which has been helping him stay clean. When I found out that he didn t go or even bother to cancel because he said he was tied up with work, we argued in a text. He said I m on my own and I can get his name off the house. Then after work, he storms in the apartment, takes clothes and goes to live in his dads basement for a week now. I tired to go there and talk to him, he yells and dismisses me. Then he will text saying he will come here to talk and never does. I flipped out again and now he threatened about bill money and hasn t come to drop that off either. He isn t communicating with me at all and our home is in ruins. I have constant knots in my stomach and I don t know what to think. I just need to vent somewhere, thanks for listening .

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I am so embarrassed by that idiots behavior Why did he do this? We have a great sex life He's disgusting

My husband and I agreed to an open marriage recently, as long as whoever we sleep with, it will be in the presence of each other no matter what. We love the idea of him watching another man take advantage of me, or another woman with him, or even 3somes. Well, I've always been sexually attracted to his cousin and would love a one time thing with him. They're best friends. I don't know if I should keeo it to myself and not act on it, or if I should just be open and honest. Please, no negative comments. Thank you

I feel like I want to be a grandparent, even though I'm 15. Should I get married, have a child, and have grandchildren to understand the meaning of life? Or should I ask God if I should get married?

He lies and with holds info. Such as, his mom had colon cancer and e never told me, he can text and lied and said he was no longer able to. He got a card in the mail by an ex gf (she sent it to his mom's house) and the card said "i hope your mom is healthy & happy" the ex is from 11 years ago and we have been married 10 years...she was a "friend" after she became an ex. He dated her in high school. He lied about another family member who got divorced and said "he didnt know" I found out a year later they were divorced & my husband knew the whole time. I feel like he is pathological liar! I sent the ex a message and asked her is she was speaking to my husband but she never responded!

I asked her what she meant and she said she was disgusted at what I am putting my wife through WTF ? It's none of her business Why would my wife tell her?

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I remember it started off with a husband and wife laying in bed. The wife was really unhappy with their relationship and the husband gets transported to a purgatory like place where he faces his "inner demons" or something. It was kind of creepy. The whole game was the husband walking around talking to the "demons" basically.

I'm currently military but will be out in less than a year, so im unlikely to be deployed anytime soon, I get off by 5 pm every day as my unit allows me to leave on time to pick my daughter up even if everyone else is staying. She's currently 4, so in day care which her dad and i split costs of 50/50. He is trying to take full custody and move cross country with her. I know OK is technically a mom state, but idk how that will work out being military even if it is only for 10 more months. Her dad does work full time but minimum wage and hours and unregular and also lives with his girlfriend and her 2 kids so my daughter has to share a room with the other girl. With me she has her own room and full master bath. idk what all they consider when it comes to this stuff...

I am exhausted looking after a new puppy and my partner is not any help. He made plans with his relatives without consulting me and I refused to participate because it involved a road trip with 3 pets (the new puppy, and 2 senior pets over 60 lbs that have to be lifted in and out of a vehicle and up and down stairs). So to punish me for saying no - he left me alone with 3 pets all weekend while he slept in the basement or left the house. We were supposed to go out for dinner and he just stayed in the basement and never came upstairs to go out as another punishment. I did not confront him because when I do he flies off the handle and screams obscenities at me. He says something is wrong with me when I say I'm tired of looking after everything and I'm not sleeping well. I have back and knee pain from standing to check on the puppy every day – the older pets have not quite adjusted to the new one. He tells his family he looks after the new puppy after work but that consists of a 5-minute playtime, eating dinner and falling asleep in an easy chair. In order to avoid getting up with the puppy – he left the bedroom and slept in the basement this weekend – so I had to get up with the puppy at 3 am. I don't know how to approach him where he doesn't put all the blame back on me. He can be nice but I'm tired of walking on eggshells.

I have placement of my son. My son's dad and I both work Wed so his dad's GF was going to watch him. My son told me that she was going to take him to a theme park...which is out of state an hour away. The court order states that if either parent wants to take him out of NY state, that we have to get written, notarized consent from the other parent. She never asked me first if she could take him, she just asked him if he would like to go with her and her two boys...so now.. my son is upset that I won't let him go. My ex has threatened that he would do whatever it takes to get custody of my son, and now that he has his GF he doesn't need me and he can take care of my son without me. What do you think of this? What can i do? someone asked me if I thought she might be trying to kidnap him..i dont think so...cause I would think she wouldn't even tell him where she was gonna take him really....my court papers state "physical placement" , "joint custody"

My husband and I moved to a new state back in August. 2 weeks after we moved in, we lost our townhome to a fire and lost everything. We were devastated. He had work, I did not at the time. In November I had a ruptured apendix and had to have emergency surgery. In December I found a temporary job but it ended this past February. I also found out a week ago that my fiancé was having an affair with our 18 year old college neighbor. I'm done. I've been struggling with depression for sometime now and since August 2016 I've been unable to find a regular doctor, psychologist, Psychatrist, or OBGYN. They are booked out over a year it's insane. I'm planning to move back home. I just feel like I'm a failure. 28, no job, getting divorced, moving home with mom and dad. I know that being home can help me as far as doctors are concerned and divorce lawyers. I'm just concerned about the stigma of it all. What's everyone's thoughts?

Married for 5 years (together for 10). Horrible marriage that resulted in verbal abuse. Been divorced 2 years. Separated for nearly 4. My current partner is talking marriage now. I'm not ready. I was burned very badly in my marriage. Partner says it may be time leave and move on so I can "heal" (says I'm clearly not in a place to be in a relationship). Thoughts? Am I being unreasonable not being ready for marriage?

He said it was because we didn't have sex as often as he wanted to . A couples of months is when we do. life is busy. What do I do?

My girlfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Last year, she mentioned that she wants to marry me at some point. I kind of laughed and said, "oh yeah?" Well since then, I moved into her apartment, we bought a car together, and she and I share a cell phone account. The past couple of months, she's brought up marriage A LOT. I admit, I change the subject or tell her I need to mull over my finances first. Recently, I took out a loan to have some dental work done. It wasn't necessary, but I've wanted it for awhile. So I told her I just don't have the money right now while I've got these bills. Last night, she asked me to move out and move in with my brother. She said it would help me "save some extra money." I don't believe her. I think she's trying to get rid of me and using this as an excuse. Now she makes herself unavailable on the weekends and claims she's tied up with school work. Little things she used to ask me to do are now replaced with, "it's ok. I can do it. Thanks." Should I heed her advice and move out?

She said i was chubby and embarrassed her if i went to nude beach with her. She ended up going with few guys. I saw the pictures they took. Guys were squeezing her boobs while she touched their erecting peni on beach. I was mad but she said it was just for fun and nothing happened. I then asked her if she had sex with them. She said feel free to check her vagina. I asked her if she did hand or ******** for them. She stayed mute for 10 seconds and said only guys come inside vagina is real sex and she didn't think she cheat and was mad at me now. I was taught to trust your spouse but can i trust her on this one?

I know a relative that was in a dead marriage because of what the husband has done before. The husband has cheated, lied a lot about many things, both would argue and fight a lot, and cause other problems that resulted a lot of emotional pain and suffering to my relative. They have 2 kids and were separated. During the separation, the husband and wife would still argue because the father would not provide money to support their children and lied about not having money. When the husband begged for forgiveness and a chance to recover the family, my relative agreed because their children didn't want their father to leave. Is it possible for the father to change his ways permanently or do men like these end up going back to their old ways and if its possible that they can survive their marriage for the sake of their children?

I noticed my fiance wide angles when he wants to take a photograph if we are out walking together and we find a nice spot for a picture. He will tell me, to stand here or there or over there. What I have noticed in the photographs is that they include other women or a woman. Maybe a woman bending over in the back of her car, arranging it. Basically, a booty shot or several booty shots. I am in the foreground and the women are in the background, maybe faraway, maybe closer, but he manages to get them in the photos if the opportunity presents itself. I am numb and don't know how to react. Although I find it rather insulting to myself and these other women. I can only imagine if we were on a beach together what he may do or maybe he has done this already in his past on a beach, but I just don't know about it yet. He always tells me he loves me and that I am beautiful, brings me flowers and presents, does whatever I ask around the house, repairs things so he can be very nice. But he does have a wandering eye when we go out in public, which I don't know is possibly out of habit and he doesn't realize it. Could the photos taking be a fetish or something. Although, yes, I do question myself, that maybe I am not all that and that I need to get plastic surgery if he has this need to take photos. That sounds messed up I know, wanting the plastic surgery, but it makes me take a hard look at myself and that maybe I need to improve my looks more. Melania is in it for the money. I saw Bill Clinton drooling over Melania at the Inauguration too. Men can be pigs. Never felt inadequate until this started happening. Who's to say he won't progress to up skirting as fetish's seem to do. The thrill for a paraphilia is in the women not knowing. Taking a picture of an innocent victim, being unaware. I don't need his problem to become my problem if he gets caught by some jealous husband or boyfriend and he takes one on the chin or in the stomach. Well, yeah, I went back and looked at past beach photos from his vacations (prior me) and they all are booty shots up close, him trolling, walking the beaches and several shots of them (the same woman or women) in beach wear. All booty shots. It's not random. If you think you are the only woman in a photo, think again, and take a better look at the guy you are with cause guys have that testosterone. It comes down to a matter of "respecting" your significant other. Yes, he is that stupid to do that. He was doing this while he had girlfriends, now ex-girlfriends. My friends say their man/husband would "never" look at other women in front of them, that they truly love them. Well, they are just better at hiding it. People need a wake up call. It comes down to respect. He does take pictures of only me, but if there is an opportunity to take a picture of another woman without her being aware he will work it in somehow. I am surprised that no one has said it's creepy and indicative of a serious lack of boundaries, judgement and respect for other people.

My fiance and me were planning a vacation together. I am willing to pay half for the vacation cause I have a physical disability in my leg where I need another bed to prop up my leg on a pillow at night in order to sleep well. We were looking for rooms at a hotel and they didn't have an extra bed. I said I could l sleep on floor. I hadn't explained further because my mind was racing to think how I could do that, like with an air mattress to bring along with us for the floor and then I could prop up my leg on a pillow. But, "before" I could explain this, my fiance blurted out "Well, f*ck it" "We might as well stay home then." I was startled by that reaction, etc and backed away. I shut down and just agreed. In my past I was in a verbally abusive relationship and that was the way I handled it, by shutting down and just agreeing to get along. Later he apologized and told me he hates that he has to talk to me that way, that me, his girl should not have to sleep on the floor and all that and that he loves me. Granted he has been working hard to get this vacation organized, but when I make suggestions about where we want to stay along the way, he wants 1/2 on one side at a hotel and and 1/2 on the other side at another hotel for easier access when we leave. Personally, I'd rather stay at the first hotel, but I just agreed for the other second 1/2 stay at the other hotel because he is doing the driving, just to avoid another argument. He seems to get so easily irritated with me. He wants me to be myself around him and speak up around him, but when I do, he gets irritated. So now I try to read his face and body mannerisms to avoid any further confrontations. I was doing this with my last relationship. I hate confrontations and arguments of any sort. I am tired of those sorts of things. It almost makes me want to take this vacation alone.

I've never been married and wonder if this is normal: I have a neighbor (2 blocks away) who I've known for 20 years. He's been married for 10 years, and had a very rough spot (his wife left him but came back). Before the rough spot and now, he can't get together--even for 15 minutes in his front yard--without checking with his wife and getting her approval in advance. Is that normal? I assume that that's the deal that they've worked out in order to remain together, but do couples usually control each other's schedules that much? Thanks.

Ever few months my husband will get on a cleaning kick. He'll want to throw stuff away to declutter the house. Next to our microwave we've got probably 10 cups and bottles from when I was on a juice cleanse or certain ones that I use for tea or cups that people have given us. I think it's rude to throw something away that was given to you. Cups from when his daughter went on college tours several years ago that were given to her. He says that some of the cups are broken but I still use them. The lids are cracked, the bottoms are falling off but I still use them. He wants to throw them away. I have an old Polaroid camera that he's been threatening to throw away that I loved when I was little. He said they don't even make film for it anymore and who still uses those types of camera so why keep it around to collect dust. Our kitchen table is full is stuff. His desk is full of clothes (mostly mine) and he says we need to clean up. He complains that I just throw things in the linen closet and I have never taken a Sat to straighten it out. How often do you simplify you life and throw things away? My son's girlfriend gave us a couple of plastic cups that you shake mixed drinks in and he says that it would not hurt us to throw them away. We've never used them nor do we do mixed drinks at home. Again, do you declutter your life and throw things away or do you just put them in a box and save them? He feels that if you haven't used it or worn in it a 12 month period then you can part with it.

My wife's sister and i was just friends for a few years. Before being introduced to my wife and the honest truth is we never slept together. But someone started a stupid rumor that i was the father of her sisters young daughter. The strange part is her sister has never denied the rumor. I'm more then willing to take a d.n.a test to prove it, I'm just tired of all the innuendos. Especially from my wife when she's angry at me and throws that up in my face, The kid is not mine and if it was I'd take responsibility for the child, I'm just tired of all the innuendos. Especially from my wife when she's angry at me and throws that up in my face, The kid is not mine and if it was I'd take responsibility for the child,

I'm 28 years old and I've decided to change careers. I went back to school to do a dual program where I get my masters for 2 years and one extra year doing my PhD program. I won't be done until I'm 31. I'm embarrassed because I see all of my friends getting married, buying homes, etc. I kinda feel like I'm a failure. I know once I have a PhD I will be in pretty good shape but I still can't help but feel like I'm slow or behind. Is this normal?

does he know I had sex with a co worker a few weeks ago? I washed down there very good.

My wife and I haven't ****** in weeks and I asked if she's cheating and she said no and that I'm not being romantic enough with her for her to want sex. Why do I have to be romantic just to get sex? Shouldn't a normal woman want sex often with her husband without having to be romantic?

Been with my now husband for a couple of years, we are 20. im always the one to initiate sex now if I don t initiate it , it doesn t happen. He s always watched porn I m sure every man on earth does but I feel like now it s a severe addiction he has started to choose porn over sex. There will be times when I want to have sex and he rejects me and says he already watched porn so he can t get it up anymore , or if we do engage in sex he won t finish he ll just stop and say he already watched porn before hand. Now that he s addicted to it he kind of sucks in bed too he basically just wants to stick his penis in me finish and call it a day it s all about his needs and his orgasm, I always have to ask him to do things in bed to please me he makes it seem like a chore. I have never rejected him when He wants to do it, even if I m not in the mood I act like I am because I think maybe if I never reject him he won t feel the need to watch it as much anymore. It s causing me a lot of emotional distress I feel very insecure now. I would understand if it was occasional but for it to be causing this much trouble in our marriage sucks. I have already tried talking to him about it several times and I never say no to anything in bed because I want to always please him but I feel like it s just something that will never be fixed, I don t want it to ruin our marriage.

Cos you have epilepsy and it's easier for me to blame you for it, make huge drama how it's worse for me than it is for you, and insist that your bad fall would be cushioned by a helmet. I would not be wrong John to say that a helmet would protect your had from you cracking it if you had a bad fall, but I'd be completely disregarding, your humanity, dignity, quality of life and the fact that chances of you falling that badly are so slim it's not worth me insisting you live like a paranoid freak over it. You had no idea how to handle something as nasty and wrong as me being brutally raped and then blamed for it by everyone around us, cos nobody is suppose to know how to handle that being done to their gf when he is 16. You have learned from it and now you know. None of that has happened to me was your fault and everything that happened to me I choose over the alternatives such as choosing Kyle, or Adrian. Yes, I did want to leave you at one point, can you blame me, but I couldn't. I love you and I don't blame you for the things that happened to me, I'm sorry for the moments when I have. I love you and I need you back and you are worth all this s'hit, but do not prolong our suffering cos there's no need for us to live like this anymore... Even when I said stupid things I never blamed you for the things that happened to me, not even the wrong things you've done to me. You were simply 16, and you did your best, and you were more mature than anyone of us at 16. I love you What's done is done, take this moment now and be the best husband you can be, and help me be the best wife i can be, and start by coming back, Today. Most of all I should not punish you for having epilepsy, you didn't get it to worry me, I should have faith in us both doing our best to prevent you ever falling very badly and should always remember that you are more than the sum of your conditions. You are my amazing husband with epilepsy, not walking epilepsy for me to contain. That's all, that's how we help anyone who is dealing with stuff most people are not evolved enough to understand. And when you feel sorry for yourself and fell like damaged goods my job is to remind you that you are perfect, epilepsy and all.

So, I confess that screwed. Royally screwed. I'm married, 2 kids. I'm also cheating on my wife with 2 women. One is a married woman from work, the other one I met off the Internet a few months ago. 2 weeks ago the woman from work told me she's pregnant. Yesterday, the Internet girl tole me the same. I'm so screwed. I'm freaking out. I'm just going to bail. Next week, middle of the night, I get in my car, and I just leave without saying a word. I have friends on the east coast, can get a job under the table, start a new life and never look back. I'm leaving Wednesday, I've never been more terrified or more excited. My new life awaits me.... what's a good under the table job? I've heard bartending, that could be fun.

Or will he always want something more and have anterior motives?

i am Indian and currently working abroad. My spouse has filed for divorce from me under sections of Section 13 (1)(ia) - domestic violence I cannot travel everytime to India from my current location. Can I download vakalatnama from below site, sign it and send it to my lawyer by post , so that he can argue in court on behalf of me. or is my physical presence in court is mandatory for family case proceedings. my lawyer asks me to come from abroad to India, meet him and sign the vakalatnama. I do not understand he insists me to personally come and sign the vakalatnama as courtesy showing respect to him or thats the actual legal procedure. Precisely , does Indian law allow to sign and send the vakalatnama by post or I should sign in person in front of court. Reason I ask is, I live abroad and the legal suit on me is in India http://ecourts.gov.in/sites/default/files/DOWNLOAD%20FORMS_1.pdf