So my boyfriend said the neighborhood he stays in is bad and that's why he can't hang out at night. We hang out all day but then Once the sun goes down he rushes to get home. He usually goes home around 4 or 5 pm. He picks me up super early like at 8 am and then we stay together until bout 4:30. This is crazy to me especially with him being an overly grown man. He is 32 years old. Something ain't adding up to me. He said once he moves to a different city he will be able to go at night but I wonder if that is really the truth. Right now he lives with his grandma because he lost his job and is trying to save up the money back out again. There's shootings and killings EVERY where. Even when I talked to my mom about the situation she was like " why can't he see you at night. Something ain't adding up" .. He went somewhere at night only like two times but he says he's not making it a habit. My mom was like " he act like a 5 year old. What is he going to do when he starts working and they give him the night shift". She was like " that's a bunch of bull crap he be telling you". I tell him that he's gonna have to get over that not going out at night stuff and he got angry at me and called me selfish and said I don't care about his safety. I was like " I care about you but people shoot everywhere". I don't think he's cheating because I'm still talking to him at night whether it's on the phone or via text

I would like to get married to my boyfriend in the future but I'd want it to be a small wedding (cause I have social anxiety and don't even know a lot of people). Is it possible to have a small wedding that doesn't cost too much? thanks in advance.

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Im getting married in 4 weeks one of my bridesmaids just cancelled on me. She said she cant afford it. She knew it 8 months before. I cannot believe she just did this. Im so hurt! When I asked her to be my bridesmaid I knew I was asking a lot, cause of her financial situatio. We even paid for her ticket. She also agreed and said yes to everything I asked her. I planned her in everything! She could ve saved money. I told her how I felt about it and that the rooms and everything we paid for cannot be cancelled anymore. And that she still needs to pay it cause we aint paying that too! She said I should've got a insurance because these things can happen. I was so mad, pissed and frustrated. I told her that I have enough things to worry about and this is the least thing I should be worrying about. I told her that its her problem and responsibility not mine. The convo was very emotional, confronting and hard. After saying all that I thought about it very well. I txted her and explained that she might have done her best but maybe her best wasn't enough for me and maybe I just expect too much from her. That it's dumb to end our friendship over one day.. she didnt reply anymore.

I grew up with no parents so I can't say much but my fiance is 25 and Im 24 and his mother thinks im not good enough for him and along with his ex girlfriend. They think im not ready for him and he should be single and it hurts me but i dont say nothing. Reason she thinks that is because he has a son and his mom wants him with his ex. But he doesnt want to be with his baby mother because all she does is smoke weed.

The vision I have in my head is where you two plan the wedding on a beach, call a friend who knows a pastor and make your own dress/or buy a dress at goodwill, same with him, don't worry about shoes buy flip flops because you'll be on the sand and then get married. The End. Or find a really good priest/pastor with a kind heart who will marry you two fore free and with no problem, maybe a $2 donation but that's it. Does it help that I'm a female asking this question?

I would like to have wedding one day in my life but I would like to get inspired by reading other women experiences, don't worry I'm not planning on coping you guys, I just want to know how beautiful your wedding dresses were and did you like the shoes you picked too? And the cake? @BoringBasicBiitchburgoo, wow ur boring you ugly azz boring basic tasteless dull worthless boring b*tch/whore. It's not my fault your husband doesn't like your boring nasty saggy beat up ugly dry stink rotten fish pusssy you boring azz biitch, wow ur boring in every way, whore, again that's not my fault you ugly stink boring biitch. Stfu u boring hoe It's not my fault your husband doesn't like your boring nasty saggy beat up ugly dry stink rotten fish pusssy you boring azz biitch, wow ur boring in every way, whore, again that's not my fault you ugly stink boring biitch. That's why a boring hoe like you stays on YA 24/7 every second of ur boring miserable unhappy crappy life, ur a boring sack of shiit sh*t always hoe ~ ANYWAY =^^= Yes Beatrice, your dress sounds beautiful to me, I would like a youthful dress too whenever that time comes for me, I'm nervous the dress won't like nice but I'm sure that's every girl's worry when she thinks of her future or upcoming wedding. And about your shoes, I'm starting to believe that you should have shoes you love and can walk in throughout the whole thing. So your details on that were nice to read. Everything you posted was great. :)

My dad is getting married and although his fiancé and I have had our problems I am trying to be supportive for the sake of my dad. She has asked me to be one of her brides maids and I m very grateful and happy for it! I m always looking for cool ideas for the wedding since she wants to have a country style boho wedding at a lake house. But she keep setting up these brides maids meetings and telling me about it last minute. And the wedding is not even until September! I m a full time collage student and I plan EVERY THING out ahead of time. And I m ALWAYS exhausted because I even have a side job. My point is I m just busy and I think she and her other brides maids talk about me in a negative way because I can never make it to the meetings. But don t you think these meetings are a little excessive since the we d is so long from now ?

My fiance and I want to run off and get married with least hassle possible.(November wedding) I am looking for somewhere that makes it easy to get a marriage license ( waiting periods, witnesses, etc) but isn't as 'cliche' as Las Vegas. Preferably somewhere we can just show up, get hitched, and then do some sight-seeing. Any ideas?

So I booked my own vegas vacation with a cousin in march back around thanksgiving. Airfare non refundable. Around Christmas my close friend got engaged. I haven't been asked yet but I'm pretty sure I'll be a groomsman maybe even best man. Now they booked an engagement party in another state in march and initially I said no without much thought. His fiancée started asking a bunch of questions and gave me a tone when I gave my reasons. I think this is making her cross. My friend hasn't said anything about the matter. Do I need to cancel my vegas plans? What do I need to say or do to make it up to the fiancée and my friend if I don't go?

She was EXTREMELY close with her grandma, who passed about 2 weeks ago. I haven't discussed anything about the wedding with her since about a week before her g-ma died. I just don't feel that it is appropriate yet, as she is still grieving. On that note, the wedding is coming up fairly soon and we had previously made plans to go find her dress this month (in a about a week or so from now.) So my question is, should I just forget about dress shopping for now and risk not having enough time to order one? Or should I bring it up to her? I just really don't want to seem insensitive or anything right now.

I manage a 4 member team. One if them is getting married and I was invited. I don t know her except at work as my associate. Is it ok to decline the invitation? How?