If someone says dont push boundaries too far in a relationship to make sure trust stays in the relationship?

Husband left me for another woman 10 years older a month before xmas, endingwith me by text. Were 28 years old & have 1 year old son. I was crushed seeing him turn up happy as anything 3 times a week to pick up our son, when I m all alone hours away from family but stay here for job. He cheated previously, put me down & lied about going on hol. now hes doing all the things I ever wanted him to do with us, she has 3 year old daughter. They had falling out and he asked to come round for tea telling me she drank lots, cheated on her ex with married man who had children, shes very rich & wears lots of designer clothes.He told me she didn t want him & I to get along & said he should take me to court as I can t be trusted when I ve never caused issues with him seeing his son & told me that he thought that if they stayed together she would cause problems. Then they got back together, he no longer wanted to be friendly with me. I stated all he had said to me about her as I was concerned and he said he made it all up, making her "sound crazy" to make me feel better. I feel humiliated and he has just come out fine whilst I am left to look after our son, struggling to keep things afloat. I feel ruined and never felt so low. I feel like he s laughing at me when I gave him all I had. She is more in shape and more successful in her job, how do I move on and also accept that she will be in sons life ? So scared of never finding somebody new to build a family unit with for my son.

My friend, who I consider family, lives in another state and she hasn't been doing very well lately. Her mom is extremely abusive towards her and she's been feeling very suicidal lately. She's under 16 years old. She's too afraid to call CPS again or try to run away again because of the fear that she'll get in trouble and that they'd have her move in with her dad (who is separated from her mom but is extremely abusive to her as well; he was so bad he was actually flagged). I've been offering to call the Abuse Hotline that's in her area but she keeps telling me "It's okay," or "It's fine," and I understand why she wouldn't want me to call, but at this point it's far from fine and I feel like I need to help because everyone else in her life just either doesn't listen to her or refuses to help. (Her mom lied every time CPS came and they never came back and the adults she's talked to always sided with her mom and told her she was overreacting. She has brain damage because of the abuse she suffered.) I seriously need to know how I can help and it's killing me not knowing what I can do or who to call. I need help.

I am mixed Black(Dad) & White(Mom) and my wife is Chinese.

I emailed "Ted" the CPA a question about our taxes. I specifically said "Please email me back or call me at this number..." Ted then turns around and calls my husband "Jay" with the answer. Why would he do this? Could it be because Ted is friends with Jay and is scared that I might start asking the wrong questions?

I've never been in a relationship, my choice. I've never made out or sex just haven't felt like I've met someone that I click with. Well about a year a ago met this girl that kept hinting to me that she wanted me to ask he out, but I didn't because I just didn't feel like it was time. We hungout alot, like smoke weed and talk. And we'll I stopped going over because I was dealing with other personal things. But about a month a go start to come by again. She seemed happy. And would hint that she's gonna be of age in July she's 17 I'm 19 but sex isn't what looking for. Like I feel like I wanna hangout with her all the time haha, but I haven't said anything..... What should I do ?

I just got to my daughters house for a 2 week visit. I had a 8 hour drive so I drove the whole trip in my bare feet and kept my sandals behind my seat out of the way. It was very comfortable being in my bare feet on my long drive.

You are by a group of people, they call each other 'bro' 'brotha' 'sista' or something like that. they seem cool with you at first, and want to be your buddies. some people in that group will randomly try to start stuff with you or try to bully you. you will report it, the next day all of that group would accuse you of 'running your mouth', or they say 'talkin' smack!' they will all start to gang onto you, harrass you and try to come after you. property will get destroyed and everything. you will end up being a victim of gang-stalking.

I never let my son and daughter(17 and 18) finish high school I took them out in 8th grade. I refuse to teach them how to drive or get them a car as that is not my responsibility. I refuse to let them eat 3 meals a day as that is not my responsibility. I encourage suicide but they never follow through with it. They refuse to walk on the highway to get a job the jobs are 15 miles away. Am I a good parent? I have been cussing at them both for 13 years and yelling at them daily.

I have been friends with this girl since middle school and we now go to the same highschool, possibly same college too. She has always been a really funny person, and always acted really dumb. We always just assumed she was stupid but in reality she was the opposite. One day she accidentally dropped a paper and I read it. It was signed as "The Prophet Zacharaiah (censored last name)". I guess I was curious (becuse part of me was surprised she could even spell Zacharaiah) and I found an entire blog. There were a few pictures of her paintings on there, so I knew it was her, but I was surprised she never told me about it. I felt kinda bad for looking at it, but what I saw blew my mind. Her account had almost one hundred blog posts, and they documented almost every part of life and the human condition with insanely good vocabulary and perfect grammar. I didn't even know about Ockham's razor and shrodingers cat whatever it was called until i read what she was writing. She is actually the most insightful and intelligent people I have ever met and I'm not sure why she acts dumb. Is it a personality issue?

I had a great relationship with my mom! but I ****** up, I got into a fight with my mom I told her she's too controlling but she's not. Shes always helpful and there for me! But my dumbass told her "I've lost respect for you" now I'm into deep trouble! She told me that was a slap in the face to her and i feel sick now, my aunt and her 2 cousins aren't close and she told my mom this "Your son will never tell you anything, boys do that" My mom told her she was wrong and She is! How do i make things right again??

How often do they cheat on their husbands with younger men? As horrible as it sounds, it's always been a fantasy of mine to sleep with a hot older (i.e. up to mid forties) married woman. (I'm 21) I know it's terrible of me to ask, but hypothetically, what's attractive to older women the most that they would even consider cheating? My dad's startup took off last year and so we "have money", if that makes a difference (I'm assuming it doesn't?) Thanks.

im a 24 year old christian conservative with libertarian leanings. i dont smoke or do dope i drink a little (like 1-2 drinks a week or less) some people say im funny but is mostly one liners, a bit of improv and sarcasm. i dont think im that ugly, id put myself as below average. i do wear glasses, i cant wear contacts as i cant put them in. i dress normally (shirt, jeans, shorts) i enjoy playing video games. i kinda have a hobby and thats flying my drone i guess you can add working on cars or electronics too. im pretty sure im not gay, as im only attracted to biological females. if it helps im ISTP personality type. i do swear a bit, mostly the tamer words. i do use the more severe ones mostly when im angry or caught off guard or to refer to bad drivers. i hate online dating as i think its way too expensive and too full of freaks, i really hate the hookup culture and apps like tinder. im not fat im very skinny. (5' 9"/ 120-125lbs) i do have a slight disability, one of my arms is messed up (i dont want to go into detail) im not adding a picture because of privacy concerns. i cant think of anything else to add, if you need more info just ask. im not changing my political views nor religion those are a must stay.

So I'm 19, and obvi a guy. Here's why Im asking this: I've used drugs for almost 3 years now (started with pot, but lead to meth & heroin). I've been to rehab and helped get other addicts get high there. I've been to jail 3 times for Theft, Battery, Possession, & probation violations. My first real relationship 2 yrs ago, I abused my gf and got her into harder drugs. I've stolen from family/friends many times. I've beaten a guy in the head (not killed, just knocked out) and stole his car/ditched it. And at 17, I got a girl (1 nite stand) pregnant, and she has my kid, but I have no part in his life whatsoever or give her $ (she doesn't want me to unless I want to be W her/marry her)(we're still friends, but we agree I'm not a good father figure rn & it's no good for the kid) and I contracted herpes from a girl, and had sex with a different girl 1 month later & didn't tell her(she didn't get it) And I've done other bad stuff. Is there hope for me? I'm getting my GED, trying to stay sober (might us once a month), and have stopped doing alot of bad stuff I used 2 do. But will anything I do make up for the EVIL I've done? (Btw not religious so don't bring God into the mix please :/)

I've known him for over a year. We used to work together and we have crushes on each other. He left but I can't seem to get over it. I keep feeling things from him and he is always on my mind. When we worked together we could communicate without talking. I also feel like something is going to happen with him. I have always been known to see things. Problem is he is married. So what's it mean

Cada vez que cosino mi esposo siempre se esta quejando de lo que hago a todo le busca un pero,esto me tiene arta y me desanima Mucho y por si fuera poco despues me dice que no es para que me enoje o me sienta mal no entiendo? Si es 1 o 2 veses toda via te lo paso pero la mayoria de las veses es horrible.. esto causa un cebero conflico!.....

Why are they so dirty handed? They will lie, cheat steal and do something very horrable, and break rules, They view this all as mediocre?

And in my school if you get locked out in this one section your trapped. So another teacher held the door open for my 2friends (both girls). So we ran to her to catch the door but one of my friends stopped running and said nope nope nope nope nope not today today is not the day. So me as curious as I am asked what happened(keep in mind my is almost always straight forward with me) so she said we'll when you don't wear a bra and then just mumbled something inaudible. I didn't want to ask further questions so I decided to come to you people . So my question is does anyone know what she might of said ?(what she was wearing: she was wearing a hoodie with no under shirt I assume and pants I didn't pay attention to.) Sub question: why?

I'm getting private lessons from this one guy he's really friendly can teach well we were talking about cooking and he said he learned how to cook when his wife divorced him later he asked me if I had a boyfriend he also earlier said something along the lines of he felt we were really hitting it off. my mom told me he did divorce but now he has a wife but he didn't mention her just that he divorced.

For me I would say 5 or more Children is a big family.

My brother Josh and his husband Ty are both big into Disney movies, but there are some Disney movies like the little mermaid, Snow White, Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Beauty and the Beast and The Lion King that they don't want their 3 year old daughter to watch which is understandable I mean it's their child their rules. Mine and Josh's mom however repeatedly disregards their rules and puts them in for her to watch before leaving the room. I usually distract her away from the TV long enough for me to shut it off and put in a Disney movie that she's actually allowed to watch which makes my mom pissed off, but her dads don't want her watching those movies and I'm trying to respect those rules. I finally told Josh about what our mom does and he rightfully confronted her about it unfortunately that led to him saying until she can follow his and Ty's rules on the movie issue they wouldn't be letting her come back over for awhile 😞