I have friends and coworkers but im not close enough to have them as my best man. I drifted apart from my close high school friends over the years and now I don't know what to do. Any advice?

Hi, so I've asked a question about this person before, we'll call her Mary, and I did end the friendship. She seemed happy about it. Anyway, I have this really good friend, we'll call HER Cary, who just so happens to be Mary's cousin. Cary has been saying Mary talks bad about me repeatedly to everyone she knows. Mary would always let Cary cut her in line so Cary wouldn't be around me. She even went so far as to slamming the door in my face. I haven't told anyone about this... I did tell my parents my nose was hurting that night, though. HELP!?!? I don't know what's happening. Some friends don't like me as much because of this... Cary likes me. We're friends. We talk. We're nice. It's Mary that's being rude... Also Mary gets mad at Cary whenever we hang out. Mary won't talk to Cary for the rest of the day if she even says, 'hi,' to me. Cary likes me. We're friends. We talk. We're nice. It's Mary that's being rude... Also Mary gets mad at Cary whenever we hang out. Mary won't talk to Cary for the rest of the day if she even says, 'hi,' to me.

So I've always been the super shy kid in class that almost never talks unless I need to and I never really thought it was a problem up until this school year. Most of my teachers this year have been singling me out and treating me as if I'm severely mentally retarded which sucks a lot. I feel like crap in school now and I want to change but I don't know how. Why can't my teachers just let me be? I'm at the very top of nearly all my classes and if not on the top, I'm one of the top students. I pay attention, I participate in partner/group discussions (usually not class discussions though) but nonetheless, most of my teachers just won't give me a break and I want to change now. So my question is, how do I become more extroverted so my teachers appeal to me more?

We were friends in 11th grade and he teased me that I liked a mutual friend even though he knew that I didn't. Then I think my friend told him that I like him, and he just looking at me everyday in the hallways and I think his friend was looking at me too. He is shy but when I look at him, he doesnt look away. Is he physically attracted to me or are there feelings?

Hello, i currently have depression, anxiety and no friends but i would like an internet friend to talk to about my problems while they can do the same. I dont judge, only people 12/14 and people i can skype of ovoo with. Someone who can keep the conversation going also. Most importantly someone who knows what im going through. We can also be able to have facechat sleepovers. Have deep convos,facechat on holidays and etc. But let me not rush into anything. lol my insta is: saclbear

But everyday she seemed happy to me. I would have never known that she has been doing that. What should I do?

I have never started a physical confrontation over a verbal depute, argument, or being offended in my life. The only times I ever hit anyone was when someone hit me first. I honestly hate violent situations and try my best to keep things calm plus assault is bad. Why is it though that a girl can just swing at a guy over a disagreement and if the dude hits her back he's considered a scumbag. Don't give me that bullshit either on how on average guys are stronger because even if that's true why would a girl assault someone that can beat them up. Why is it like this?

I just don't understand, I'm talkative at home but when I'm at school I am shy and quiet. I want to be talkative at school too. But where do I start? When I talk to my friends I'm hyper, talkative, and a lot of people find me funny. In general I'm a very likable person. I'm also considered "nice." The thing is, since I haven't been talking to people much I have kinda developed a stutter or lisp. I think that is due to a lack of confidence. How to do I gain my confidence back and TALK, SOCIALIZE?! I appreciate the help. Thanks!

I m really quiet and shy in school. I m in the smaller classes and there s only 10 people in each class and I only have 4 friends and 2 Bestfriend s and we are always together and I m getting sick of being with them all the time. I want more friends because I feel like it s un healthy to be so shy.. but it s so difficult to talk to someone because I either get talked over or ignored.

Dont judge me i know what ive done and shouldnt off Basically, me and my friend recorded a video off her phone talking about teachers.and students saying how annoying they are and talking about one student in particular called amy saying she gets away with being nasty because shes autistic, which is true. I didnt think my friend would upload it but she did shes put it on youtube and facebook now im scared.the students.are.gonna hate me and say "why u slagging other students off" or and they all hate me or bully me. How do i the.video taken down? Should i own up to the teacher?

I'm accepting gifts from my boyfriend's friend, he's buying me Jordans that r coming in on saturday… they were expensive. And he says he's just doing it because i'm a great friend to him because he confides in me about all his personal issues. He walks 1.5 miles to my house in the morning so he can walk to school with me, and he'll travel to get me food. He has no car. I'm 15 he's 16…it's weird how generous he is to me. What do i do? He's also so quick to give me money if im broke..that i never accepted.

When im in a position that im good at like brainstorming or in a subject that i'm confident in like science i like to take the postion of leader. im not bossy, i just start taking charge when people do nothing or they do the wrong thing. like in chemistry we got to do a fire lab and one guy kept on wanting to do the fire reaction part i made sure to give everybody in the group a turn. in another class my 2 assigned partners just wouldn't talk so i did all the brainstorming and gave people parts to talk (one guy kept on wanting to point and not talk, which wouldve failed our group) and insisted that we practice before we present, but another girl said we should "wing it" and so we didn't practice. is this good traits for a leader; what could i do better and how do i make sure people listen to me. in chemistry my usual lab partners know that i know what im talking about but they always start taking charge but they make annoying mistakes (they take off their goggles during a lab or start doing the lab even though they don't pay that much attention in class) how do i be nice(ish as long as they dont get mad at me im fine) but still get their attention.

i am 13 years old and can't handle being this young. Everywhere I go, people l look at me as a baby and I'm not even in high school yet. I'm in the 8th grade. won't even be 14 for another 7 months! I hate being 13 and feel like I should be older. Everyone in my school is so immature and they talk about the stupidest things. Most of them look like 9 year olds. I am a kid and aware of it. There are many things I can't do and my parents still talk to me in that baby tone (u know what I mean) I feel like time is going too slow for me. I still buy clothes from the kid's section (my mom makes me) and not even looked at as a teenager yet even though technically I am. I hate hate HATE seeing the way people talk about 13 year olds and use us as examples to describe immaturity. I want to open new doors already but if you ask anyone, they'll say 13 isn't even close to responsible enough to do this. I just feel like a baby. Does anyone have some advice? I can't go anywhere by myself obviously because I'm way too young. I was in the same store with my mom and all of the workers were asking "Where are ur parents?!" just because I was looking at something and she was two aisles away from me. People automatically assume I don't know how to do anything on my own and always need help. When I go to the doctor's or something they talk to me in the same baby tone my parents use. 13 years of this can get tiring sry i am writing a lot but i have a lot to say when it comes to this topic. one last thing. For people who are older, please answer. What is it like being your age? Did things change?

Well its been a few weeks since we last talked but i had this female best friend and well she was having issues with her boyfriend n id give her advice about it time after time. The boyfriend was an emotional tourist n FROM MY point of view she was nothing but a sex toy to him plus he had trust issues. Plus he get mad at her over superficial **** like sex n stuff n what the sad part is , is that she went right back to him so 1 night i jus decided im sick of seeing her sad all the time so i talked to her mom about n BEGGED her not to be mad at her but push her in the right direction but her mom thought she wansnt a virgin anymore.... A small part of me misses her but all i tried to do was help her cuz honestly she was n a unhappy abusive relationship but till this day i still feel somewhat sad about it.

I'm a sophomore in high school, and slowly over the course of a couple years I've been getting worse and worse. I don't care about eating healthy or excersising, I don't care if I get all Fs anymore (straight A student 3 years ago) I don't enjoy doing things that I did for fun a while ago, and I've generally become less talkative and way more negative about everything I don't want to tell my parents or my doctor because I don't want to make a big deal out of this. Any ideas?

I mean without good,trustworthy friends,not co-worker type of friends

I recently was on facetime with my friends and he was cutting himself. I tried talking to him about it but Ithe didn't help. The next day I asked one of our mutual friends about what to do becuase she knew about it too. We decided to tell the guidance counselor about it. It was very hard for me to do this. As I told her I was crying and very upset. I told the guy that we didn't tell but had just been called down and asked about it. I then felthe upset the rest of the day about him and that I also lied.I knew he would be super mad when he found out what I did. Later that night I ended up texting him and telling him I told the office bc I was concerned. Today I stayed home from school not wanting to face him bc I know it would hurt. How do i go back to school tomorrrow? Did I do the right think? Why do I feel so awful and upset about this? Please help.

so yesterday I hungout with my best friend and long story short I she got upset with me. she tried leaving but I was holding her back ( lightly) While I was trying to explain my side of the story. I kept texting her today and she eventually told me to leave her alone because what I did was abuse, and also told me she's beem through something similar before. I don't want to lose my best friend and I also don't want to go get in trouble for talking to her again. did I really lose her friendship forever??? I dont know what to doo?? I understand I was wrong! !!!!!

So I have been friends with this girl for over 3 years. And we ve been more than friends over 4 different times. Off and on because she thought of me more as a friend, and because she wanted to "explore". Through all of this we have remained friends. But the last few months she has changed, I have no idea why but now she just won t stop talking about herself, and anytime I try to bring up a conversation about me she just nods her head or says something like "that sucks". And anytime I want to make plans to go somewhere she gives me some lame excuse why she can t go. Or if I try to make plans in person I never get an answer because she changes the subject everytime I ask her. I want to cut her out of my life but it s hard I m too nice. And it doesn t help that her dad depends on me to give her a ride every morning to school. Because he gets home at like 3 in the morning. Her dad is really cool and has given me a lot of great advice about a lot of things. And has almost always taken my side when me and my friend have a dispute between each other.

I need some help, I been friends with a girl for over 4 years and everything has been great. but we got into an argument in my house and she was leaving while crying. so I was holding her back soo she could listen to my side of the story. today she has been ignoring all my messages but she said " you put your hands on me yesterday and you didn't let me leave, So leave me alone before I get someone involved.." She later explained something similar happened to her in the past and blocked me. is there a way of getting her back????

Hi! Ok so I'm close with my guy friend and I really want to get down and dirty with him in the mud. Please don't suggest something like tough mudder we are both fit but don't have that kind of strength and endurance. My ideas were mudding (rent a truck or quad he could buy even better if it's a quad, mud soccer, mud football those were my ideas! Also what should we wear I was thinking of wearing a bikini top with loose shirt shirts and my hair in a ponytail what should he wait though? Goal is to get as muddy as possible and how do I suggest thus to him

We are both females, I am single and she is in an unhappy mariage. She says she wouldn't want people to know she is a lesbian when I tell her how I feel. She says she sees no future with me , but everytime we make out she loves it, and she always lets me be close to her body and face and lets me touch her and she stays quiet and stares into my eyes. she always lets me touch her. I am much much younger than she is. We are both females, I am single and she is in an unhappy mariage. She says she wouldn't want people to know she is a lesbian when I tell her how I feel. She says she sees no future with me , but everytime we make out she loves it, and she always lets me be close to her body and face and lets me touch her and she stays quiet and stares into my eyes. she always lets me touch her. I am much much younger than she is. she says I dont know her and I should be careful what I wish for.... She says she denies to herself that she is a lesbian. She says she cant have a relationship with a woman, she is not a lesbian... but yet she makes out with me everytime I touch her.... I know she has grown up kids and been in unhappy mariages. She confuses me a lot because she is confused about her feelings. she always talked against her husband... give me all the signs she was interested in me, than says she fancys me at night time and all the things she wants to do to me.... than we make out, she says it feels good, but she feels bad about it after, she says she isn't looking for a relationship wright now... I am so confused about what she wants, because her words sometimes gives me hints she loves me, she says she sees me as just a friend,.. but I think we are more as we go out to movies together and make out and we feel the sexual tension when we are very close to each other. She rubbed me down there everytime I told her how I felt about her. She says I should come and thinks I should orgasm she even pulled her bottom shirt up so I can see her belly. What am I going to , when I think of wanting sex with as much as she does she even pulled her bottom shirt up so I can see her belly. What am I going to , when I think of wanting sex with as much as she does if she just likes me as just a friend why does she make out with me... that would be considered more than friends in my opinion She told ( You should be careful what you wish for) after Ive told her that I want her and a relationship with her she also told me ( you cant always go with your feelings)

So, our roommate we believe is lying about her friends death. Her friend died before winter break supposedly, and I did not add it all up until a few weeks after. She didn t post anything about her best friend who died, she never told us her name, posted pictures on social media. She just didn t go to her workouts or classes.. She told us she had to read her obituary and write something for funeral and it was going to be on facetime because she couldnt fly out.... We were all gone that weekend so I asked her how it went, and she never responded so I got suspicious. -I looked through one of her planners and it showed that her and this one girl had a thing like maybe she liked her more than a friend -She fell asleep with the girls picture in her hand so I asked her if that was the girl who died and she said yes -I stalked her facebook for the girls name and I found it. -I went to the "dead girls profile" and she wasn t dead, she was posting pictures on facebook and instagram. -She hasnt been brought up in a while -She got mad at me when i did not ask her about it because I didnt know -She was using it kind of as an excuse not to go to weights How do we confront her about it? Because maybe it isnt the girl in the picture she showed me and I found online...but we are all suspicious.

So today I was hospitalized because in getting surgery on my back. But I really want my bestfriend here with me, She was really mad after an argument we had last night. I sent her a long text this morning but she told me to get better and blocked me! its soo depressing being at this hospital and her not being here with me. I wish I could escape to see her. Should I text her again From another person's phone and ask her if she can come?? ive been crying all morning

Of you and fed up cause of how you are is it even possible.

im a dude and my name is carlos, I have a close friend Ashley and we been friends a long time now. But about 2 days ago she felt as if I lied to her when I did not. soo she told me to leave her alone, soo today I had surgery on my foot and I sent her a long text saying " I wish she was her right now and that I miss her to death." She took a screenshot of the message and blocked me. why did she take a screenshot???

Fear or in back of your mind you don't really want to or you have instinct that they don't and you and trying to push something that isn't there in the friendship what do you think.

I applied for a competitive government position, and recently got word that I received it. My friend s brother also applied and did not get very far into the process. She told me yesterday that he said "what does she have that I don t have"? The truth is, I HAVE done a lot more then him and I don t appreciate that being undermined. Does he really think that, or was he just jealous? Why was she even bringing that up to me?

My friend and her husband have been married for 4 months. He's really obsessed with her. He's starting to treat her like his slave. In a way she doesn't seem to mind it. She hasn't been out of the house all week. Not because of the cold weather but he doesn't let her go outside much. When they have sex he beats her and tortures her he makes me or my other friend watch. He even uses the whip on her. He makes her do everything for him. They even have sex in the shower. He makes her watch disgusting tv shows. Last night he made her watch the episode of South Park where they went to the water park they told Kyle to drink pee he made her watch it she didn't want to she literally almost got sick from watching it she doesn't like seeing stuff like that. He even makes her watch the disgusting Episodes of Spongebob. She doesn't like them. He only gives her two water bottles a day. Unless if she really needs it. She only gets two meals a day. He tells her when it's time for bed or time to get up. She even has to ask him to go to the bathroom. He even changed her name. I know him he use to be a nice guy I don't know what got into him. He said if she thinks of leaving him he will find her and kill her. How can I help her ? What's gotten into him ?

My best friends told me straight up that I need to stop letting him abuse me and push me around and I better not let him back to my life! My best friend said, "Dana you said to him to stay away from you and who knows you might go back with him. Why do you keep doing this?! You obviously don't know what you want!!! Just because he is a strong guy doesn't mean you need to put up with his bullshit. If you dont kick him out of your life now and let him pushes you around, you could end up in the hospital or killed!!!!! I'm not going to let that happen to you. I'M NOT!!!!! AND you need to stop defending for him! He will not change!!!! Why?! Why do you keep going back to him?!! You are a woman that deserves goddamn respect! He doesnt love you! IM NOT GOING TO HAVE MY BEST FRIEND ABUSED ANY MORE AND YOU BITCHING ABOUT HOW ROUGH HE IS!!!" She doesn't know what he has been thought! I'm still in love with him. Why is my best friend getting angry and stern with me?

First of all i'm a really short guy for a 15 year old. I also just started going through puberty which means I still look like a 10 year old. The worst part of my school life is everyone around me. Starting from my close friends to my acquaintances, everyone will have something rude to say about my height and my looks. I don't have anything to defend myself because I'm basically being ganged up by these guys. Of course its just for laughs but it does hurt me alot. There were few times when i cried because of this. No one is there to defend me. Please dont give answers like ignore them because i will be basically ignoring humanity in my school.. At the moment i need motivation and all. And i need advice how to comeback when someone judges my looks. Thanks for your help I feel real depressed and stuff. So depressed when i type it sounds wierd

Me and my friends - we have been the perfect crew for years. But I'm slowly getting sick of this. Our bass player has been a really obnoxious and insolent douchebag ever since he met his new girl that hates me. Me and her were once quite tense, and he supported her and slandered me. It practically ruined our whole friendship we formed for years. Now he starts to behave genuinely cheeky and ruthlessly to me. Few months ago we formed the new band settled in town, he's a part of it. We haven't amounted to anything so far, because we can't agree on certain things and the organization is barely a word for us. I consider this a waste of time. All the other members have already noticed his behaviour and they aren't happy of it as well. Should I leave this band and seek the success elsewhere? I don't think he'll ever change. I'm a leader of a band by the way. We've got also supportive guitarist who's been recently missing rehearsals due to personal business. And I also wasn't attending last rehearsals because I didn't want to be alone with the cheeky and being forced to stand his unacceptable behaviour. He tends to do a fuss about everything. And it significantly destroys the band from within. Should I leave? (again)

Some one on their phone so if you didn't say anything you didn't wanna intrude is that ignoring or been disrespectful.

I moved to a new school and I find myself in a weird social position. I am not "shy", and Im actually super good at the "beginning" part of a friendship (like saying hi and asking some questions), but after that I just keep going down hill. I feel like my "friends" here always want me to say something but I dont know what they want me to say. I know I should be myself but I just cant without being a weirdo. At my old school, I was really great friends with a bunch of weird kids, as in we greeted each other and talked to each other weirdly, but I feel like my friends here are usually always feeling awkward and wanna go away if I dont say the "correct" thing. Any ideas

there is a new boy at my school that loves photography(high school). I used to be in photography class the first semester and now my friend is in his class for the second semester. all three of us also have another class together. we want to ask him to go take pictures with us over the weekend but don't know how, he is shy and we are awkward

Time flies quickly and i'm already in high school.. I have friends in school, but i'm starting if i am a bad friend to hang out with... Why do i say that? I admit i am a selfish person.. I have no idea why but one day when a friend of mine asked me for a paper, literally a paper, but i hesitated, and i have no idea why.. But in the end, i gave them the paper, but i would tell them to return me a new one if they happen to have one soon, and one time, one of my best friends did ask me for a paper (for homework), i admit that i did hesitate, and i feel like not giving him the paper, so i said are you gonna return me one? And he was like: " you're so selfish", so i kinda regret my decision and i tried to give him the paper, but then he said you're really selfish, it's just a paper, it's just like the time when you went for travelling and bought souvenirs for your good friends and not your best friends (I couldn't buy that many souvenirs because it was really expensive to convert to that country's currency)... His words made me feel terrible about myself.. I know this is a small thing but it made me feel like i am a selfish person..

I'm a socially awkward loner attending high school with very little friends. I have a social event coming up, where my parents where my parents are to meet my teachers and my classmates. I'm terrified of my parents seeing how socially autistic and asocial I am. It's coming up in two weeks and I have to go. I hate having my parents see my in a bad light. It's the worst thing that can happen. I'm literally losing sleep over this.

I have a friend thats been m.i.a for three years after moving out her moms house she runs off with a older men they get a house together as of today they both have 3 evictions my friend isnt the same her wardrobe isnt up to par as it used to be and her weight goes up and down she never leaves the house until she has to work im concerned and want her to get a grip of her life i want her back around family and friends and not used and abused what advice can i give out to motivate and help her btw shes 22 and hes 40??

This week has arguably been the longest and toughest days of my life. Yesterday I was at the school swimming competitions and my one and only race I nearly drowned. I've never been the best swimmer and now most of my "friends" have been making fun of me for it. On the same day I found out that this girl (who I actually thought liked me) was just playing around and never intended for something to happen. I went to boxing training and got absolutely smashed with countless punches to the head and because my week has been so busy I have 2 pages of maths homework to complete in a matter of hours. After I nearly got knocked out in boxing I sat in my room and I cried. Being 16 I haven't cried like this in years; I didn't cry because my eyes were swollen or because that girl doesn't like me. I cried because when something bad happens I have a support network around me cheering me on. The people I call my friends bully me because I'm not a great swimmer. But what hurts the most is I'm lost and God has not been guiding my footsteps to the right direction. I have always loved God and I always will but in my darkest hours why is he not there? Why did he let me jump in the water? Why did he let me get in that ring? Why has he let my friends turn into my bullies? Sometimes I feel like I should not belive in him anymore and I should guide my own fate. But I still love him and my faith is still strong even though I feel like he is not here.

I don't think this method always helps much because some of us kids don't have the proper environments to study all the time. There's approximately over 1,500 students at my grades 8-12 high school and not all of a thousand and a half teenagers grow up in healthy homes. It can be hard for someone to have so much homework in one night if they have a mom who never comes home or cares about their well being, an alcoholic father who is loud and drinking all the time, and siblings who are always screaming at each other. Our school policy is that if someone isn't at school, isn't behaving appropriately towards other people, or their grades are dropping then the teacher should contact their parents to inform them of their child's current performance.

I received a really nice card from my cousin thanking me for my letter of caring and it was a lovely surprise and they mentioned how maybe I can come out to have lunch with them it was a nice Valentine's Day card. Is it okay if I send a card to them thanking them for the nice card, it made me happy I surprised them, and I can try to come out to have lunch with them? I don't have their phone number.

i don lik him.

My friends are great but since I can't look at flashing lights my friends say "Maddie don't look at the flashing lights your gonna get sick and die" and of course I don't believe them but it just makes me sad cause I hate special treatment. Everytimr there is a light show I can't look at them and b I start crying because they talk about how cool it is. One day a show for class there was flashing lights in it and I said I was fine cause I'm responsible for my actions and when I said I'm fine one of my friends said "Obviously she doesn't care about her health" And on top of that I'm getting bullied, they call me Maddie Fatty and it just makes me wanna cry What should I do, plz help

So I have a friend, we just had a rough ending and haven t talked in over a month. I found out some things and she doesn t know yet about her boyfriend. But I was told to keep it a secret. So my question is what should I do, be the better person to my old friend or keep my mouth shut and continue to be trusted by everyone else?

So i went to a party with my friend and I got really drunk at a party like everyone else but I had sex with a guy who was drinking but not drunk. I was okay with having sex with him but then later I started to cry because I was raped as a child so I was having flashbacks. So when I was having this mental break down my other firend who was not there at the party was with me and she didnt know what to do so she called the police. So the police came and asked me questions and concluded that I was raped because I could consent to having sex. I did say somethings to them that didnt happen not because I was lying but because I was trying to process my past. So I told my friend this and she went and told other people that I was accusing him of raping me which I didnt say. I wasnt pressing charges and I explained to her why I was crying. She persisted to tell me that I was doing it for attention. Therefore she told me that She wasnt going to be my friend because I was an alcoholic (this was an isolated incident. I have been drunk at a party and so has she) and I am a liar. So other people think based off of what she said that I am a liar and all these other things. Also because I had people viewed her in a certain way because I lied which I explained to her I wasnt trying to and that I started this drama but I mean it was her who told people I was accusing someone of raping me when she did not have all the details. It really upset me but should I be because I was drinking.

Is this weird or normal or what?

My cousin has cancer I wrote a letter to my cousin and his wife saying I want to get to know them better, I cried when I found out my cousin has cancer I was upset because I always wanted to try to develop a friendship with them but now I won't get a chance to because the stage of my cousin cancer. His wife sent me a card thanking me for the letter of caring and it was a lovely surprise at the end of the card she said maybe me and my mom could come out for lunch. If my cousin and his wife wasn't actually interested in seeing me would they send me a card?

I'm about to end my friendship with her. I texted her about how angry I am about my ex boyfriend (I dated him three years ago) taking me off his facebook. I'm so angry and I needed someone to talk to. I tried to called her last Monday but she never called me back. I called her at 11:50pm. I didn't care how late it was. I'm not going to bother calling her anymore because she never calls me back. I haven't heard from my other friend either.

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My friend is in the hospital getting ready to have a baby she really wants me to be there but I can't. I told her I'd visit her tomorrow. She's really upset I'm on the phone with her right now she's starting to cry. I asked her if she needs me to stay on there with her she said she's doesn't know. What should I say to her ?

Hey..I dont know how to explain this but I feel like I'm loosing my mind. Whenever I talk to people nobody understands what I say or they just stare at me. Sometimes they just reply because they feel bad... anyway, before I used to be the life of the party. I was sorrounded by friends, I was quirky and funny. I took care of my appearance and everyone loved who I was. It all changed though. It changed when I started dating my boyfriend. Me and him fought all the time we said the worst things to each other. He had a heroin addiction and I was over protective. He constantly lied to me and even cheated on me with my bestfriend. However, he showed me so much love. I can't even explain it. It hurts me to know how much we hurt each other. Anyway, he passed away last year. He was my only friend. Basically my life changed when I dated him because i was 14 when we got together and now I'm 19 years old. When he died, I saw myself alone in the world. I noticed I wasn't funny anymore, I was a joke to everyone. I don't make any sense to anyone I talk to. I feel suicidal. I have a false sense of reality. I'm in college and all I do is drive home after class. I didn't make any friends in college. Basically now I'm my family's caregiver. All I do is drive my family around and take care of my siblings. My dad works all day and night and comes home to drink alcohol. I fight with my sister constantly. I'm loosing my mind. Help. Should I get therapy? I'm so lost. I want to be who I was before.

I just recently tore a ligament in my knee and have been completely unable to walk for days. I couldn t go to school for this entire week and hoped that my best friends would have visited me. 2 of my friends did visit but not my very best friends. I didn t think anything if it at first because I thought they must have been busy but they have been just hanging out with their boyfriends... is it over dramatic to feel neglected? Should I say something?

Me and my best friend are very close almost sisters and when we need to talk about things we can just look into each others eyes and we know exactly what it is the other wants to say. Also whenever I pass a certain house or object that resembles the other (example:a skull on the side of a house that has given me night mares and then she comes in whering a skull with the same color as the house was) and it gives me a cold chill and I have dajavo a lot more than the average person except when I have it I also know what s coming next (example: my brother will fall and I will know exactly where he s hurt and how much or how badly) and dajavo happens almost daily. WARNING weirdest part when I wish for the light of the sun to get brighter or the wind to blow or it to rain or snow it does.please explain this I m 16 and very confused