Friends: Question: Why can I take advice from some but not others? |
- Question: Why can I take advice from some but not others?
- Question: Why do my friends copy everything I do, my success is not mine anymore?
- Question: Should I move out ? What should I do? Rumors are ruining my life. So embarrassing?
- Question: If you had a best friend 10 years ago and you got hurt about each other. What is the probability she contacts you 10 years later?
- Question: How do I become friends with her?
- Question: Why are my friends so childish?
- Question: Camp Allen? Don't really want to swim and other stuff?
- Question: How to get this black people smell out of our house?
- Question: Having a sleepover with a friend but don't want it to be awkward because we don't each other really really well like best friends?
- Question: I have a friend that keeps following me and my other friend around, any advice?
- Question: I need some advice, and support...?
- Question: How do i Get this RUDE esol teacher/lunch lady fired read TO understand?
- Question: Should I go to a sleepover where there might b drinking?
- Question: When is it time to cut ties with a friend?
- Question: Can you smell alchol in someone's breath?
- Question: Teen's best friend acting strange, please help!?!?
- Question: I hate my life and im 14?
- Question: How can I delete text messages off my iPhone from my laptop?
- Question: Was this mean or is he overreacting?
- Question: Summer vacation dilemma!?
- Question: What should I do for my 21st Birthday?
- Question: Why does she start to talk to me again?
- Question: I need help on making friends and being less shy!?
- Question: If you had an international pen-friend that you used to think about everyday and you got hurt 'cause she was rude to you...?
- Question: I feel alone, disgusting and devastated.?
- Question: IS THIS A GOOD WAY TO HELP A FRIEND?
- Question: What's a good way to make friends?
- Question: Everyone has someone but me?
- Question: I don't have a best friend?
- Question: Should I date him or is he a little weird?
- Question: I need help (self issues )?
- Question: Can you have friends and be good in school?
- Question: Please help me. I have a problem at work.?
- Question: I don't work and when people ask me what I do I say nothing and they look at each horrified, is there anything better I can say?
- Question: My friend gets mad when I don't go to school?
- Question: Why ido meiry keeps bullying me how do i avoid him??? hes keeping me awake at nights i cant stop the nightmares?
- Question: Old friend from 10 years ago just contacted me, is this rude?
- Question: Am I doing something wrong here? Your opinion please.?
- Question: Could my friend be avoiding me?
- Question: How old are u? What age would u like to be?
- Question: Am I wrong for distancing myself from my roommate?
- Question: Explain yourself in one word.?
- Question: She did not answers me?
- Question: Was I wrong? My friend is a shopaholic and i asked her to help buy a dress and she started screaming no.?
- Question: Why do some white people get offended by everything?
- Question: How can I feel better about all of this?
- Question: Was this mean or was he overeacteing?
- Question: My guy friend is to wussy and won't go on a mud run with his roomate?
- Question: Is this my fault ?
- Question: Why did he call?
- Question: To whom it concerns, happy birthday for yesterday Briboy.?
- Question: I have been feeling depressed lately because bullying, any advice to confront him?
- Question: My guy friend/cousin call me everyday is that weird?
- Question: Don't lean on my project?
- Question: Can still consider my friend?
- Question: Need advice I'm thinking about Braking up with my best friend of 11 years?
- Question: How to be popular and make a lots of friends?
- Question: How to let a best friend go?
- Question: Friend who can't control alcohol?
- Question: Don t know what his problem is? Is he mad or acting like a d***?
| Question: Why can I take advice from some but not others? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 05:21 PM PST When people give me advice they always claim it's because they care. Yet somehow when some ppl do it they sound just bitchy. Yet others can say the SAME things and give the SAME advice but it makes me stop and epriciate them pointing things out to me. They say it in the same ways so I wonder why were able to be open to hear some people but not others? It's not a matter of how close they are to me either it's something about their demeanor? Idk |
| Question: Why do my friends copy everything I do, my success is not mine anymore? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:52 PM PST My friends literally copy my professional life style. If I study a major, they study the same major. If I get a job at a hospital, they apply to that same hospital and get a job there. My success is mine anymore. Because they are doing the same professional goals I am doing. I wanted to be different from them but they like to copying my style and professional career. Why can't they have their own career goals? why they like to follow my footsteps and keep asking me on what I want to do with my future and copy me? |
| Question: Should I move out ? What should I do? Rumors are ruining my life. So embarrassing? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:48 PM PST I live in apartment with my parents. I am 28 years old. We moved about two years ago. It's in private house with just the landlords daughter living downstairs. The landlord daughter found out personal information about me due to my former neighbors stalking me where ever I move. These former neighbors hate me.They came to my new place to gossip about me and my family.The former neighbors got this information thru my cousin who told them I am racist and that I was scared of my previous neighbors. They also know I went to a psychic and they told me I wasn't going to get married and that I needed a cleansing. I feel like everywhere I move people will always know my business because of these neighbors stalking me just to spread rumors and gossip. I know have the landlords daughter who hates me and I haven't done anything to her. She has been spreading these rumors to the whole neighborhood that I am crazy, stupid and a hoe. I have all the neighborhood against me and are calling me stupid and start giggling when they see me.A girl that lives across the street that say she is going to beat me up. I don't even know her. What should I do? I am planning to move on my own and not tell my cousin where I moved to so that they won't follow me but this might take about 7 to 8 months because I need to save money to move out. |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:47 PM PST Do you think if this friend really loved you he/ she will try to contact you to know how you are someday. Or the probability is rare? Probably you will never hear abour this friend again? We were like sisters. It was a teenager stuff. Of course we are adults now it will not be like before but sometimes I wonder if a person who loved you so deeply forgot you completely. She is an ENFP and I am an INFJ. |
| Question: How do I become friends with her? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:40 PM PST So last year my bff became good friends with a girl, and so did I. I became closer to her over the summer than my bff did. then school started and she drifted away from us. But now my bff and her are really close but she won't talk to me. What should I do? |
| Question: Why are my friends so childish? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:38 PM PST I'm in middle school and I have two friends: a guy and a girl. The 3 of us hang out all the time. But the problem is...they are SO childish! Here are some stuff they do: -They bring stuffed animals to school and play with them -They talk like babies -They believe in stuff that doesn't exist like fairies and dragons -They're too scared to talk about sex (Ok this one I can understand because it's really awkward but they faint whenever they hear the word) -They only watch shows for little kids (ok look I watch some little kid shows like Ready Jet Go but I watch stuff that is just right for my age group and even adult shows) Why are they like that? |
| Question: Camp Allen? Don't really want to swim and other stuff? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:20 PM PST My friend and my mom want me to go to camp Allen. It's my first stay away camp and I'm not worried about that but I want to stay with my friend. I don't want them to separate us,I know I won't have a good time without my friend cause it's my first time there! Has anyone been to camp Allen? I checked the website but it didn't give me much info. Also,I suck at swimming in deep water. When we swim in the lake,do we HAVE to go in deep water for activities? Because I can only swim in shallow water unless I just swim across deep water. Deep water is 6ft and up for me. And also,there are no phones! There are envelopes and notes but I'm not good at making friends at all. My last tennis camp was okay I guess but that was different because I was pretty good at tennis. That's it I have to say,if anyone can please help me before summer starts??? |
| Question: How to get this black people smell out of our house? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:15 PM PST My sisters black friend moved into our house 2 weeks ago and I honestly can't stand it anymore The whole house smells like lower class black person (in my county they all wear the same lotion and smell the exact same) Everywhere I go in the house I get a headache I just can't stand that smell And cause her room is right next to mine when I go to bed it's all I smell the whole night and by the time I wake up I have a huge headache and my nose is blocked Not to mention that this hoe is actually like a stereotypical ****** She can't chew with her mouth closed she sleeps the whole ******* day Eats all the food in the house Rolls her eyes at me whenever I'm watching TV (***** i live here go **** yourself) My question is how do I get her out Or at the very least the smell of her cause it's nasty |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 04:10 PM PST Ok so I'm having a sleepover with a friend later this week. I've had a couple of sleepovers with her but they were all with other best friends of mine. I get along with her but we don't really talk much and stuff on a regular school day basis. Sometimes I hang out with her a few times and I'm partners with her for a couple of things in class and stuff. But I don't have the BFF relationship with her yet. Any help for how to not make the sleepover awkward and boring? |
| Question: I have a friend that keeps following me and my other friend around, any advice? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 03:30 PM PST |
| Question: I need some advice, and support...? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 03:27 PM PST So basically, I made a mistake. My friend and I got carried away, and bought our favorite teacher a bunch of stuff. It was only around $100, but my dad is very angry about the situation. Only 4 of the 6 items have arrived to my house, and I agreed to return them. However, the other 2 items are coming tomorrow and I'm reallly nervous how to get past the last 2. Please I need some advice and help. Thanks |
| Question: How do i Get this RUDE esol teacher/lunch lady fired read TO understand? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 03:22 PM PST Ok so here we go im in 5th grade DONT worry im 12 turning 13 tmrw my birthday came late. So shes a ESOL teacher. And a lady that just sits at lunch watching us. So for like 10 weeks shes been telling me TO sit by myself,when ITS my friend lets Call my friend lilly and the RUDE lady, charol, so she would send me TO sit BY myself when everyone was super loud and i was whispering, so ima GET TO the point, today me and lilly "my friend". Were walking out of the lunch line and she said i marked u because the two of YOU shouldent be together, and she told us TO sit at desks at the corner, when we got out the teacher Asked her why she got marked my BFF said she gave me a map or no leaving wish she did because we want to buy each other I dropped my food and the lady that gave us food told me to go to the back So then charol comes and tells her why are you talking about me. The teacher looks at and stops looking, then charol says if you talk about me I'm gonna talk about you and tells her not to be my friend im not bad I get straight A Im in the honor society and go to gifted. she also one time I asked her if I could bring a book to a room she got in my face and screamed No!!!!!!. How do I get her fired don't tell me I shouldn't plz, Srry I ment for no reason she gave us a mark for no reason |
| Question: Should I go to a sleepover where there might b drinking? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:56 PM PST I'm 15 and I got invited to a sleepover but my friend says there might be drinking. Should I go or not? If I end up drinking and my mom finds out she will MURDER me. |
| Question: When is it time to cut ties with a friend? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:52 PM PST |
| Question: Can you smell alchol in someone's breath? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:50 PM PST The reason I'm asking is cause I got invited to a sleepover and my friend says there might be drinking. I'm not saying I will drink but if I do my mom's will MURDER ME. |
| Question: Teen's best friend acting strange, please help!?!? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:43 PM PST We're 13 year old girls (bffs). I'm Katie, and I'm Ally, and our other best friend is Maddie. Maddie, has been acting really strange lately. When Katie and I try to talk to her, she'll give one word responses, blow us off, or not even acknowledge us and start talking to other people. Maddie will get mad at someone for like, no reason, and won't talk to them for weeks. We have no idea what's going on with her, but she acts like she doesn't know us or like us anymore. We feel terrible, but don't know what to do. Is this normal? Will she ever come back to us? What do you think is going on with her? What can we do to get our bff back? Thanks for answering us! |
| Question: I hate my life and im 14? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:21 PM PST Hi, im a girl and im 14 and i honestly hated my life since i was 8. And its not because i dont get what i want or bratty stuff like that,its because ive grown to hate myself. Im oerweight,even doe i dont look like it,and no one likes me. When boys look for girls or talk about a girl they like or pretty girlse etc, i know im nt in that category. No one respects me, they show the pretty girls respect. No one understands how i feel,when i try to tell them they just tell me "you should not feel that way" like i dont know how.....i just came o\n here to vent because i just feel ugly inside and out, and i hate my parents and my parents show favoritism so i feel like cinderella before the magic spell...except their wont be a magic spell..and ill be stuck like this forever, Im sorry if my typing is lacking grammar or whatever but im typing this at my school right now and honestly compared to everyone else i feel so ugly, and im so much taller than everyone else, and i feel like everyone sees me as ugly,even know i am very funny. I be funny so people forget that i am ugly. I am a 14 year old black girl btw, and i am in 8th grade. i hate my hair, im not lightskin so i dontr have "good hair". my hair is right above my shoulders and everyone elses is down their back. i have a bad smile an d i need braces buit my mom doesnt want to get me any . I am the only person with a android an OLD android, and when i do the right thinng it goes unnoticed.im runing out of space to type sorry 4ventin |
| Question: How can I delete text messages off my iPhone from my laptop? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:14 PM PST My mom took my phone and she said she will give it back once I give her the password. I'm on independent study and I need my phone for school but I have text messages with my friends saying things about themselves and I that if she read them I wouldn't be able to see them anymore which sucks because I only have a few friends ( I'm not a bad kid and neither are my friends, my mom is just really strict and overreacts about everything.) I have Microsoft so I can't have apple apps on this. I tried contacting apple support but it says I have to call them, which I can't. Does anyone know if there is a way that I can delete them from my phone but on my laptop? Thank you!!! |
| Question: Was this mean or is he overreacting? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:07 PM PST Ok so i really like to kid around and playfully tease my guy friend. He came up to visit me at school and since the snow melted it was very muddy. I like to be funny so I scooped up some really thick soggy mud and shoved it in his face and hair. He just stood there spit out mud and said what the f is your problem? He then attempted to lunge at me (he has anger issues) I thought it was funny so I ran but it was also icy so he slipped and faceplanted into a mud patch. He got up and said he's leaving and that I just lost a really good friend. I know he probably didn't mean I I play pranks on him all the time. The last one was when i shoved his face into his roommates birthday cake he was mad but got over it. Is he really gone can he not take a joke? |
| Question: Summer vacation dilemma!? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:06 PM PST want to go to Italy to visit a friend but my mom won t let me just stay there for like a month so I was thinking of doing a camp with her in Europe. I want the camp to be fun, and not super educatizonal but my mom keeps saying no to all the camps I show her. Anyone know anything fun I could do? Or camps that are kind of educational but more fun with lots of independence (I am 16 btw) |
| Question: What should I do for my 21st Birthday? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:02 PM PST Hey guys, I only get to spend 2.5 hours with my two best friends on my 21st. One friend is underaged (doesn't have a fake either) so going to the bar is out of the question. I need some ideas on what the three of us can do aside from just going out to eat. Thanks! |
| Question: Why does she start to talk to me again? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:53 PM PST Im a guy and me and my friend Elissa are always texting all day. But sometimes at 4pm she says she will talk to me tomorrow, but Then she will start talking to me again 2hrs later about something else. why does she do this?? does she start missing me?? |
| Question: I need help on making friends and being less shy!? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:36 PM PST I'm in middle school and I hate it. Most of the people are fake and phony. I don't have a best friend. I used to but we got into a fight. Ever since then I never really became closer with any of my other friends enough to call them best friends you know? And I am shy. And I hate it! My shyness takes over me and it's so annoying. My shyness makes it hard for me to make friends. So I need tips on how to make friends and being less shy and more social!! Like I'm in this one class where I know a few people but I'm not really close with them. So when we get in groups they all become partners with their friends leaving me with the weird kid lol. I know, I must sound like a loser. It's so embarrassing. Please help me! |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:25 PM PST Well, she got really dramatic for she tought you forgot her. Then you got hurt and you stopped talking to her. 5 years later would search her online to check how she is now? She is a foreigner, would it be curious to know how her life is now? Do you think someone that used to think about you everyday would search for you long time later? We had a so strong friendship thinking about each other everyday that I wonder if she thinks about me sometimes. I met her in person, but she moved back to her country. |
| Question: I feel alone, disgusting and devastated.? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:22 PM PST I am in University and everyone told me it would be this amazing experience but so far I have just felt like an outcast. I have two friends, but they are constantly busy with their friends, and won't invite me out with them even though they mention what is going on, and I just feel so alone. I have friends at home plenty, but here, I just do not seem to fit in. I tried to go to a dance class the other day in attempts to branch out and make friends, but I felt so disgusting next to other people in front of a mirror I just had to leave. My body image has got increasingly worse, I feel like an elephant walking around. I am 5ft 5, 10st 10 and a size 12. I know I am not massive, but if I catch my reflection I want to be sick. Next to everyone I just feel ginormous. I feel ugly and disgusting. I look towards guys to make myself feel better, but they only use me, and I know it is because I have no respect for myself, but I feel like it is more, nobody wants to be seen in public with me, I don't even want to be seen in public. I cry every night, and I don't know what to do anymore. Help :(. I don't want to continue feeling this. |
| Question: IS THIS A GOOD WAY TO HELP A FRIEND? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:16 PM PST My friend was hit in the face with a rock. She is embarrassed to go to our church. So I said I will wear my diy unicorn headband if she goes. She agreed it was a good idea. What do ya'll think? |
| Question: What's a good way to make friends? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:05 PM PST I'm going into high school and I'm going to a new school where I know no one. What's a good way to make friends in high school? And don't say something cheesy like going up to someone and saying "hi my name is Kylie what's yours?" Lol. Cause sure it's a conversation starter but from my experience with middle school that's not really how people become friends. You know? So what's a way I can make friends?! I'm also kind of shy. I hate being shy. I try not to me but it just takes over me. Once you get to know me though, I am not the opposite of shy lol. So if you have any tips I would really appreciate it! Thank you!! |
| Question: Everyone has someone but me? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:58 PM PST I feel so lonely and sad. I have one friend and have never been in a relationship. Im in college and everyone seems to ignore me and so does my family. I always ask myself where is God in all this?? He knows how sad and desperate i am for acceptance and friendships. I just don t understand why me:( |
| Question: I don't have a best friend? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:56 PM PST It wasn't really relevant until yesterday when we did this team bonding thing in school (i know, it sounds prety lame) and we were talking about best friends. we were going around in a circle naming our best friend, and when they got to me i realized i didnt have a best friend, so I just sat there feeling really awkward for a few seconds until the woman there asked me if i had a best friend, so i weakly said no. Then i heard a bunch of people start giggling. I mean, i do hang out with a group of people who i guess might be my "friends", but im not as close to them as they are to each other. They all have one person who would be their best friend and when they all hang out somewhere outside of school, they never tell me. So i was wondering, I don't have anyone I could call my best friend. Is this normal? |
| Question: Should I date him or is he a little weird? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:36 PM PST I'm 26 and I tried to get into a club but I got refused at first because the bouncer thought I was just a child but when I showed my ID he let me in. Then later that night he come in and started hitting on me but I kinda blew him off. Do you think I should have dated him or is he weird wanting to date me even though he thinks I look like a kid. |
| Question: I need help (self issues )? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:31 PM PST I can't really start anywhere, so this going to be a long story. I moved back in April, to a new house, with my now step dad and my mom. Of course, new kid struggles, you don't fit in and are just a weird noob around town. So on the first day no one talks to you. I managed to get through the first day, yipee!!!! But still, no one talks to the noob. Riding the. Bus alone was a daily routine of mine, and having the bus driver tell me where my bus stop is also my routine. Having your mom walk you home is a ongoing routine also. Days pass by of me hating school. I finally make a friend. Same bus. So I was happy. Months flu by of me being happy. I got Invited to birthday. When I get there no one knows me. I managed to make AQUATANCES (I spelled that wrong, sorry) months pass. And I notice a girl on the bus across from me and my friend, Macy. So we started becoming friends, notice, I was the one who introduced her to Macy. So ongoing school says, we are on the bus and we always are doing something. I meet some boys on my bus, and we became friends. NOTICE, I WAS THE ONE WHO STARTED THE FRIENDSHIP!!! So this boy asks me for my Snapchat. I give it to him, and we start talking and becoming good friends. Ps. This is just the beginning. So much later Macy starts getting bossy, almost like I'm her assistant. Long story short, @ zero period I start to hang out with this girl named Allie. So Ps. I'm over the limit so I'm gonna start typing part2. Look on my account for part 2. Ty!!!! |
| Question: Can you have friends and be good in school? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:28 PM PST I have come to notice those people who have alot of close friends and deep connections and hang out with many people are usually those who are not the best in school but also those with the best grades hang out with few people and the people they call friends are mostly just study buddies. Is it ever possible to really be good in both- honor student that has reliable friends that they really know personally and hangout with alot? |
| Question: Please help me. I have a problem at work.? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:28 PM PST I've been working with this woman for almost 2 years. She is fine but there are times she behaves really bossy and sarcastic to me. the problem is she's not even my boss we work on the same position the only difference is that she's older than me and works in the company longer than I do. There was a time we used to get along well but the she started behaving the same way recently. when I tried to explain her my point of view she got all mad and she didnt like it. She wanted me to work the exact way she does which to me sounds wrong as everyone has its own way to work, right? I released that I wanted to change position and go and work somewhere else because I can't deal with it anymore. I tried to talk to her but I really couldn't because she misunderstands it all the time. So without her knowing I trusted my boss and talked about it. All good my boss totally understood me and all but today someone told her that I went to"complain to my boss" and she got so mad at me. she started to shout at me and we ended up fighting. .what should i do now? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:10 PM PST I'm one of those people that has serious difficulty finding employment. I'm not qualified in anything and can't afford to go to college to train as anything, I'm not experienced so I can't even get a low skilled job, I'm also female of childbearing age which makes it even harder. I never pass an interview because I get so flustered that people think I'll be useless. I don't really wanna say I'm looking for a job because the truth is I've been looking for years and getting nowhere. |
| Question: My friend gets mad when I don't go to school? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 11:37 AM PST every time I'm sick and miss school my friend will not talk to me and gets mad at me? I ask her what the homework was and she doesn't reply to my texts and doesn't ask how I'm doing or if I feel better or anything. I'm just confused. it doesn't make sense? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 11:24 AM PST i dont know what to do he keeps telling me im stupid |
| Question: Old friend from 10 years ago just contacted me, is this rude? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 10:47 AM PST this is a guy friend i was really close with, im a woman. I thought we were close friends who would be friends forever..He dropped out of my life without telling me. I looked on the internet to find he got married and had kids.. now 10 yrs later hes found me on social media.. sent me a hello..told me hes married with kids. I was nice but didnt tell him much.. He said what have you been doing, details? what other social media are you on? I replied back brief saying Im happy glad you are happy. living in same state, no personal details because i feel he doesnt deserve to know, also did not tell him what my other social media im on... not sure if i want him looking at my personal stuff.. Is this really rude of him? |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong here? Your opinion please.? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:42 AM PST My 15 year old daughter likes to have her friends from school sleep over at our house from time to time. The last time she had a sleep over, the girls asked me to answer their questions about boys and sex. I told them they should talk to their parents about that. They told me they COULD NOT talk to their parents about that because it would be too embarrassing. They begged me to tell them about boys and sex. I thought it was better that they know the facts than believe all the stuff they hear at school. I answered all of their questions truthfully but I again told them in the STRONGEST POSSIBLE TERMS to TALK TO THEIR PARENTS. They wanted to know if they could call me if they had more questions. I told them it would be MUCH BETTER if they talked to their parents but I would VERY RELUCTANTLY answer their questions. Please tell me if I am doing the right thing here. I feel VERY UNCOMFORTABLE doing this as I think it is the parents responsibility but I don't want any pregnant teens either. Is it better they know the facts about their body? Should I talk to their parents and tell them what their children are asking me? I do not want to be known as the neighbor sex educator. I am afraid that it I talk to their parents, they will be afraid to ask me about factual information about their bodies. Teens girls, is it normal not to want to talk to your parents about sex? |
| Question: Could my friend be avoiding me? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:40 AM PST I was talking to my friend since the morning, and she said she would message me later because she's gonna nap. but on her Facebook it keeps saying she was "active 1 min ago" or 15 mins ago. Why does it show that?? I sent her a text to her phone and she did not reply? im confused |
| Question: How old are u? What age would u like to be? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:33 AM PST |
| Question: Am I wrong for distancing myself from my roommate? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:28 AM PST He slights me and talks down to me a lot. In ways that seem to be specifically to establish dominance over me. My mom says he might just be trying to build me up in his own way or that that's just his style of friendship, but I highly doubt that that's the case here. Examples: -He's jokingly called me the "inferior roommate." (there are 4 of us.) -I'm his go to guy whenever he needs someone to rip on during banter. -He belittles me during small talk (example, he started dating someone recently. It's his first relationship and they've only been together for a few months. I once said I didn't really want a relationship and his response was "Don't worry Amazing spiderman, you'll find a nice girl someday!" He's made several comments of this sort and tries to turn general small talk into mini therapy sessions. It reached the point where I just stopped bringing up dating in general because it's just annoying. -He has a textbook smirk he gets on his face whenever I'll say almost anything, followed by "sure you do Amazing Spider-man, you do" -He's noticed that I've been withrdawn/distant as of lately and is going out of his way to be overly nice to me/butter me up, but whenever our 3rd roommate is around, he goes back to his usual self. It seems to me like our friendship is no longer built on equal ground. I don't really trust him anymore nor do I enjoy his company Could there be any good reason he acts the way he does? Am I in the wrong for withdrawing from him? @ Kraken Jack thanks man. Spider-man is my username on here lol. I was using it to replace my name in real life. |
| Question: Explain yourself in one word.? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:27 AM PST |
| Question: She did not answers me? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:02 AM PST so I was texting this girl today on her phone, but later she did not reply. but she was on Facebook 2 mins ago, Does Her phone have anythong to do with het being logged on to Facebook? ? we were having a good conversation * anything* |
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| Question: Why do some white people get offended by everything? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 08:05 AM PST I can't make a joke or a post without white people getting offended and picking on me I'm also white |
| Question: How can I feel better about all of this? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 07:57 AM PST I'm having a bad week. okay, so I know every one has them but this feels especially terrible. My nana has been quite ill recently and I really worry about her all the time; I'm scared something will happen if I don't go and see her everyday. My sister wants to go to America for university- I know she can do what ever she wants but i'm really close to her and I couldn't bare being in different countries. my so called "friends" have been talking behind my back for a while now but they made a group chat where they just say horrible things about me (my best friend showed me today at lunch) Lastly, my weight. I hate how I look, especially now as a few people have called me fat and being a 15 year old girl, its hard. please tell me how I can stop worrying/fix these i'm so stressed and I just want to go back to being fun and sociable |
| Question: Was this mean or was he overeacteing? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 07:28 AM PST I visited my best guy friend at his school in the city. Anyways I had a suprise for him. I planned on throwing a banana cream pie in his face like they do on comedy shows. Anyways I got off the train gave him a hug and walked to shake shack with him. While we were in line I told him I had a suprise for him. I told him to close his eyes. He did an then I forcefully shoved the pie all over his face. He was PISSED he said wtf is wrong with you and grabbed someone's shake poured it on my head and walked out. It was a joke he acted absurd. I wa wearing one of my favorite jackets too I'm mad that he can't take a joke and want to do something even worse to him like push him into the mud. Ugh I'm so mad why was he so angry |
| Question: My guy friend is to wussy and won't go on a mud run with his roomate? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 06:34 AM PST Idk what his problem is. I would totally do a mud run with them and I'm kind of girly girl too. His roomate does them and invited him and he said he doesn't want to go because he doesnt like to get muddy. Well get over he's an athletic guy he should love to play around in the mud. He's being a baby and it's pissing me off cause I want him to go. I have freaking long blonde hair and care about my image but mud runs are fun and hot idk why he's being a baby. I feel like I shouldn't just push him face first into a pile of mud so he can get over it. I even said he doesn't even need to wear a shirt. What is his problem? How can I get him to go? |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 06:32 AM PST I joined a group task with 6 weeks of duration . We all agreed to met up at 12 noon on week 3 . The leader say she might reach late at 12.30pm and I also because at the moment I do not have transport to the venue . When it is 1pm , the transport is on the way so I call them to wait for me half an hour . About 1.45pm , the transport still did not arrive so I just call them to start the short film . The leader told me that they had wait for me for almost 2 hour but I remain quiet . I asked her either she can change to another day since there still left 3 week for us . She called me to quit the group because she DO NOT want to change to another day since all of them want to finish it on today . I told her maybe she can wait for me until 2.30pm since the transport had arrived and she say NO . After that , I discuss with the teacher and he say never mind , just help them in the paperwork and editing . I message the leader and explained to her everything . I also explained reason I did not show up. She answer me : I don't think it's possible . We had done everything already . It is not fair for my group . This hurts me because from the beginning she did not see me as her group member and often telling me that it's unfair because of me . I had try my best to participate in the film but I really can't on that day . She do not care about me when I could not find a new group and going to FAIL this subject . I want to know is this ALL MY FAULT ? ( I am not an English native speaker ) |
| Posted: 08 Feb 2017 06:27 AM PST This guy I used to crush on and work with randomly called me a few weeks ago after not speaking for several years. I missed his call, so texted asking if he meant to call. He said "sorry, must have been a mistake. Hope all is well!" There's no way I was on his recent calls, favorite call list, or first in his phonebook, so I don't see how he could have butt-dialed me. Why do you suspect he called and then lied about mistakenly calling me? |
| Question: To whom it concerns, happy birthday for yesterday Briboy.? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 05:01 AM PST I ******* up and forgot and yes, in a way I'm somewhat annoyed with me or should that be MYSELF? Happy birthday for yesterday bro. |
| Question: I have been feeling depressed lately because bullying, any advice to confront him? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 03:27 AM PST |
| Question: My guy friend/cousin call me everyday is that weird? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 03:24 AM PST This guy who is my co worker, and I are best friends. He's great looking, and has a lot of female attention at work and outside of work, but doesn't want to pursue anything serious besides a bootycall. We're not blood cousins but call each other that. People always ask us questions and never mind their business. We hang out a lot, and he calls me everyday. He'll ask me which picture to use to upload on social media, and knows I'm his best girl confidant. His best friend hates that we're close, and I feel like people are resenting me because he likes spending time with me. What to do here? |
| Question: Don't lean on my project? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 02:33 AM PST For example If I did a project and my friend was busy or something and didn't have any time to do his own so he asked me to participate him in mine but my project isn't that good and It may fail would I say don't lean on my project? as Lean means rely on someone or something? and when someone put his hand on my shoulder and I can't handle his weight do I say get your hands off my shoulder I can't handle the both of our weights? for example If walking up the stair and It's too long and I'm tired and I can barely walk up haha then comes my friend and put his hand on me |
| Question: Can still consider my friend? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:43 AM PST I had a friend I know since we are kids, we went the same school together too. We introduce each other my each company too. Now that we are working in the same company and now that she is promoted to a much higher level. She no longer greet each other but only when there are colleague beside me. Sometimes she walk past my desk, she will just quietly walk past or just hit my chair and walk off with out me acknowledge. What is she trying to bring across? |
| Question: Need advice I'm thinking about Braking up with my best friend of 11 years? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:30 AM PST So Ive known my best friend Since 7th grade I am now 24....she has always done weird not okay things to me like example... this one year in highschool we got into a big fight and we didn't speak for a year. I didn't really see her much but my other friends would tell me that she's been hanging out with my ex boyfriend ... shady right ? So after that year idk why i just started to miss her so I contacted her and we reconnect... so years later meaning now! She doesn't really listen when I'm trying to have a conversation with her all she cares about is smoking weed and being a loser with her boyfriend . But anyway what triggerd me of thinking about ending this friendship is that a month ago it was my birthday.. so she came down to see me.. while on her way to my house she sends me a text message that wasn't for me but it was about me. Saying "**** I'm with her right now and I know you don't want her to come too " then 3 seconds later she texts me "wrong person " then another text saying " wanna go to that persons house?" ...... like wow really? No apology or explanation... what a great best friend... honestly kinda ruined my birthday so. I didn't want to make my birthday worse so I didn't say anything . ... so ever since that happened I've been ignoring her . Till she asks me what's wrong ? Then I'll blow up and let her know but it's been a little over a month and she still hasn't said anything ... thoughts ? |
| Question: How to be popular and make a lots of friends? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 01:20 AM PST |
| Question: How to let a best friend go? Posted: 08 Feb 2017 12:37 AM PST Hi so I have this best friend whom I have known for over three years now. Over these three years we have become very close but now I feel like our friendship is falling apart. Our once schedule to call eachother everyday and visit eachother often has gone now. I'm in eighth grade, and I get that best friends have fights but its gotten to the point where she will ignore me for days on end. I have severe depression, anxiety, and I have panic attacks quite offten. Shes been there for me but now she hangs out with her stuck up plastic friends who bully me and used to bully her. My once caring best friend now hangs out with the people who have made my life terrible. When I told her I was gay, she accepted me (We go to a Christian school) but now she constantly lectures me on it. I changed schools becsuse the bullying got to much and five months ago sent her a messsge saying why I left and why I think we shouldnt be friends. She didnt really care, but got her older sister to come to my house and yell at me. My best friend and I are falling apart and I think we both know. The only reason I still try to talk to her is that I dont have any other friends, please help |
| Question: Friend who can't control alcohol? Posted: 07 Feb 2017 11:33 PM PST My friend who is 21 can't control his alcohol. We used to invite him to the bar with us every weekend until we got sick of babysitting. He has a low tolerance and is a very sloppy drunk. He's the type of dude that will drink 4 or 5 beers and already start slurring but will continue to slam beers anyway until he's falling all over the place. So we stopped hitting him up but will show up anyway. We even ended up recording him one night when he was falling all over the place to show him and all he said was "oh I did that on purpose to be funny" or something like that. Sometimes he will show up when its crowded and we'll hide and he'll just leave. That actually works sometimes but usually it's not crowded so he shows up gets bombed ends up getting kicked out and need to carry him out and our DD ends up driving him home so he doesn't get arrested . Last weekend it was the same ordeal. We tried taking him home and he was locked out so I let him come to our after party at my house to sleep it off. After 5 minutes of being there he just left, stumbled to his house, pounded on his parents door swearing. He then stumbled back an hour later demanding for us to give him his "6 pack" that never existed. He left again and then came back an hour later not remembering he was just there asking again and left again only to be found passed out in my back yard the next morning. I mean this guy doesn't drink everyday but when he does he doesn't know when to stop. I know he has really bad social anxiety so maybe he uses alcohol to get confidence or something. But every time we try to talk to him about it he tries to convince us or convince himself he isn't really like that and it's "a joke but its all bullshit. Then he gets offended when we don't invite him to parties or anything |
| Question: Don t know what his problem is? Is he mad or acting like a d***? Posted: 07 Feb 2017 11:30 PM PST So earlier today me & my fwb partner were texting. Sorry to get into detail but he had told me through text that when my period ends we could go back to having sex. I was on my period from Saturday to Monday. I had went to the doctors on Monday afternoon to be put back on Depo Provera. Anyways, I had replied back to his text today telling him that my period had ended.. I was spotting but not that bad but that s normal after getting injected by depo. He replied back all sarcastically saying "yeah ok sure it is lol". I replied back saying "see u always doubt me & assume I m lying & it s annoying. Why would I make that up". After I sent that he never said anything else. So I sent him something a couple hours later & nothing. Is he mad about what I had said? Because I feel like he s ignoring the texts tonight lol. I mean it s the truth he s always doubting me all the time & I m f*cking tired of it. So I had to say something about it. What I don t get is he could say something to me that I don t like & not expect me to get mad but I say something harmless to him & he gets mad. WTF? Kids a drama queen!! Makes no sense. I m like over this🖕🖕What do u think? |
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