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- Question: This probably doesnt have an answer but if I didn't talk to someone about it I think I might kill myself?
- Question: Fiance says i am siding with my mother instead of her, how to explain it isn't the case!?
- Question: Why are some saying I would maybe lose my mom? She's only 41, she doesn't even live life, why am I getting this for her? Please help?
- Question: My sister has fits sort of like Dr. Phil guest Danielle Bregoli. Should I contact the Dr. Phil Show?
- Question: My aunt and her daughter are estranged. Are their mother-child estrangements in the majority of families?
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- Question: Did I do anything wrong?
- Question: Why do you think my mom hasn't yelled at me?
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- Question: My aunt and her daughter are estranged. They haven't had a relationship in three years. Is this normal and families?
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Posted: 10 Feb 2017 02:21 PM PST Um so. Basically, I have an exam in a few hours. A very very important exam. That I really haven't studied for at all. I mean this entire week was very busy for me, finding out my mum has cancer and my sister getting married. Anyways, the school I used to go to took everything in Arabic and that's what I'm used to. And I switched to a normal school, but I have to take an entrance exam because they put you in your year depending on your knowledge, not your age. And it's hard to get into too. And so I have no idea what to do. I don't know anything in English whatsoever. Algebra looks like a different language to me... I mean, it's easy enough to guess but still. I don't even wanna think about physics and chemistry, and I might just not fail biology because I've always been good at it. Very slim chance tho'... I probs won't fail English completely. And so, any tips or anything I can do to not completely get butchered when my dad finds out about my results. Seriously, what do I do... I'm very lost here and I'm tempted to just go F it. I'm also an heiress, and where I'm from arranged marriages are the norm for business and stuff. But I made a deal with my father, that if I scored high enough that he'd drop the whole get married thing and he'd have faith in my ability to be independent and look after myself. I'm fourteen, I'm not quite ready for that. I just don't know what to do. I can't concentrate at all, and I only have s few hours left, I'm tempted to just go to sleep, help! |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:55 PM PST Long story short I have failed my parents. I am studying electrical engineering and I am a sophomore. I got a 3.5 last semester (third semester) and lost the scholarship (which you get if you get 3.5). I love my parents to death but at this moment I am not sure of this because they have showed that they don't trust me and don't believe a word I say. Because when I said I worked hard they denied it and assumed I have been playing around all the time saying that since I am in dorms and they aren't around to stop me then that means I was just having fun. My dad told me I am not worth education that I should drop and start cleaning houses. He gave this semester as my last chance to get a 4.0 🔫. He said too much and put this huge weight on my shoulders. I am miserable. I cry too easily and I just want to be alone. Sometimes I literally feel physical pain in my heart when I think too much about it. I am avoiding my friends and I dont want to tell them what's happening because I love my parents and I dont want them to have this bad thought about them. I simply can't look in my dad's eyes. I am trying to work harder this semester but everytime I as much as hold a book I brust into tears because I am not sure I can do it. I love my major and I do think it is the right thing for me but after all this drama I am lost. |
Question: Fiance says i am siding with my mother instead of her, how to explain it isn't the case!? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:38 PM PST My Fiance and i are getting married in a couple of months, we pretty much have everything planned and ready to go. the situation at hand is my Mother had asked me if she could invite a couple(i haven't met this couple before) that she ad forgotten about on the initial list she gave me. i really didn't mind because i had a couple i was on the fence about so i would just replace them with this new couple. In my mind not a big deal. I followed up with my fiance to see if she could get a save the date to send to this couple and she was upset after i told her i hadn't met the people. I didn't see it as a big deal as i could please all parties, yet again not a big deal in my mind. She then continues on this rant that this isn't my mothers wedding and that i always choose my mother over her and just once would she like me to side with her. I however didn't see this as a fiance vs mother situation. Am i wrong in this because she really beleives i side with my mother and i rather argue with her than tell my mother NO. I don't believe this is true at all because of these arguments i have with my mother. in the heat of the moment i said something i regret like " like if you feel i am not making you my #1 priority i may be the wrong person. i immediately apologized, because at this point it was very hurtful to me that she thinks that i don't do this for her. In my opinion i think she has a problem with my mother that she won't admit, is a problem. Any help would be great. |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:13 PM PST Someone please tell me what is going on, and if this premonition means that I am going to lose my mom and I should be worrid? Please help? When you get a premonitions does it happen within a couple of days or so? And not later on? Because I got a premonitions a month ago of not having my mother I believe after or believe having a nap, then now again a few nights ago it like woke me out of my sleep you could say, I fell asleep on the couch and remember waking up to move and getting it. Something in my head is like push it away but I'm scared, I non stop worried and get negativity for my mom, it claim down but now this is the worst one, my mom take cares of my sick granddad sister and everyone and she doesn't do anything, I also see funeral when closing my eyes or it just come in my head, but then again I had a dream of my funeral that I was out of my body looking at my dead body and didn't want to be dead, I also get lots of negativity for my sister because she has cystic fibrosis but it's a rare one that won't affect her but still I get these, I had a dream of being at someone's funeral with my mom there and her with my sisters but more younger. Is this negative for my mom that I been getting for years, then claim down, now I getting it strong twice mean something is going to happen?but then at the same time something makes me have peace that she's going to be fine My mom is only 41 years old, she puts everyone before her, why am I getting this? |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:12 PM PST She is not as bad as Danielle Bregoli but she is like her. It is her way or else and my mother enables it while accusing my Dad of enabling her younger brother (my brother also) who has problems. Since I am the oldest and aged 24 should I contact Dr. Phil? My brother is not nearly as bad as my sister. My brother's issues he can't necessarily help all of (He is ADHD and Bipolar) but my sister on the other hand is just bad. My twin brother and I were not perfect but we are normal. |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:06 PM PST Rumor is my aunt doesn't even have her daughter in her will though not sure if that is true or just assumed. However they haven't spoken in 3 years other then a cold hello at a funeral. Mother is 65 and daughter is 30. The issues are over the daughters refusal to apologize for behavior she had as a teen and mother's favoritism for her other daughter. |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 01:01 PM PST My grandfather died the day before yesterday. He was 97 years old, and he wanted to live at least until he reached 100 years. Shortly before his death he said something, to the family(I was not present at the moment). He said that he wants to live, but that they wouldn't let him. What do you think who are they? Angels? I know that he could have said that because of lack of oxygen, but today when I heard that I was totally creeped out... What do you think? Will he find his peace :-/ |
Question: Can I or should I adopt her? Is there a better solution? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 12:56 PM PST I am a 25 year old single guy with a 15 year old niece Jill, my sister's daughter. Jill often comes to my house for help with her homework. If we finish her homework late she spends the night a my house and I take her to school the next morning. She told me she was a nervous wreck from her mom and dad fighting all the time and they were getting a divorce. She wanted to stay with me until the divorce was final. I told her that was OK with me but she needed her parents OK which I thought would NEVER happen. However her parents must have thought it was best for her not to see them fighting all the time and agreed she could stay with me until there divorce was final. I was very surprised by their decision but I think they were thinking of what their fighting was doing to Jill. Jill moved in with me and has been living with me for 3 months. She is a very nice person and is no longer depressed. We have had a lot of fun time together going to school events and sporting events. Jill ask me if I would adopt her so she could stay with me permanently. I told her that I doubt if her parents would let that happen. I don't know if you can adopt someone that has living parents. Does anyone know if that can be done? Is there a better solution than adopting her? Could she just live with me if her parents are OK with it? |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 12:33 PM PST |
Question: What is it like to be raised by a single mom or a single dad? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 12:30 PM PST It would be great if you could also say what gender you are. |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 12:17 PM PST She says she's waiting until the next holiday sale, than the sale comes and goes, because she then says the sale wasn't good enough. I put my foot down, as my utility bills went much higher, so now she is doing it at her friends house. I'm sure when her friend get sick of this, she find another! She didn't even want to get a fridge for the new house, but I said no way are u coming and going using my fridge. They have over 30K in savings, so money is not the issue! What's her deal? |
Question: Did I do anything wrong? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 10:20 AM PST Last night a friend of mine and I went to the movies, both females, both of us 19 and out of school. My mom knew we were going to the movies, but she never ask what we were seeing or anything, however my friends mom thinks she went to see a movie about a dog or something..... we actually seen 50 shades darker. Did I do anything wrong?? |
Question: Why do you think my mom hasn't yelled at me? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 10:17 AM PST 18. Growing up, it's been mind of weird for me. I've always been a shy person and kept to myself. Have a controlling mother and always been kinda repressed from having posters of girls on wall in my room. My mom said she didn't want the paper to rip the wall. In a way, I kinda been hidden from what girls look like. However, Victoria's Secret magazines get sent to us in the mail. Even still, at first, I was nervous about noticing the girls in their underwear looking pretty. I flipped through a magazine on the kitchen table as I was eating some chicken and my mom saw me looking at the girls. I was nervous though knew nothing was wrong. So therefore, I began leaving pictures of Victoria's Secret girls on the computer screen. The catch is, it's my moms computer but I use it most of the time. First I started putting VS girls up... http://ilarge.lisimg.com/image/6503503/760full-doutzen-kroes.jpg http://iv1.lisimg.com/image/566264/424full-adriana-lima.jpg http://ilarge.lisimg.com/image/7058754/1118full-adriana-lima.jpg http://www.km02.com/gbundchen/lingerie/original/li83.jpg Now heres the thing, i never got yelled at for those, I put this pic up. What do you think? Think it will be OK? http://ilarge.lisimg.com/image/13913855/940full-aj-alexander.jpg |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:46 AM PST I mean he did give me Bill when I was arrested for DUI and leaving the scene of a crash when I was 19. |
Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:44 AM PST Diverse families have one child the breaks away and has no relationship. In this case both hurt the other. It was the favorite child situation but the daughter also had some attitude problems. |
Question: Dcf investigating domestic violence? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:39 AM PST A dcf investigator came to my house eto see if I had anymore domestic violence going on with me because someone reported it which isn't true... She called her supervisor and asked if I needed an emergency action plan and she said no it wasn't nesecary and that I didn't have any bruises or marks... She said if I need anything just call and that was it... Does this mean that they didn't find supportive evidence and that I'm ok? |
Question: I hate being so powerless. It's my body shouldnt the choices should be mine? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:22 AM PST So I been in bed the last couple days because I had my appendix. So my brother took my niece to a friend's house for a few days so my sister in law could look after me. Now my sister in law and I are very close. I know she loves me very much. Anyway while I was relaxing in bed my sister in law called her friend who is a nurse to ask her to come check my stitches. So I heard them talking that if they were infected I'd have to go back to the hospital. So panicking I immediately grabbed my blanket with the strength I have. When they walked in they told me she was just going to check and I immediately said no. So I fought for like a few seconds and then my sister in law gave me a look and said "Andrea this is going to happen with or without your consent." |
Question: Letting our 5 year old look ridiculous? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:14 AM PST My child's mother let's our 5 year old pick her own clothes to year to school. Most of the time she looks absolutely ridiculous. I am actually embarrassed by it. I'm talking about a pink polka dot tutu, Santa Claus pants, and a Halloween shirt with a feather vest, and sparkle shoes Her mom says she wants her know Its okay to be her own person. I am not okay with my child looking crazy at school. I actually went the store to buy a change of clothes because how ridiculous she looks What should do so the mom knows its not okay to let our daughter dress like that to school? |
Question: Since my sister is an adult bully should I be a bully back to her? Posted: 10 Feb 2017 09:02 AM PST She is a narcissist |
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