Family: Question: My brother is reclusive and never comes over when I invite him. He's also an alcoholic. Is it common for alcoholics to be reclusive?

Question: My brother is reclusive and never comes over when I invite him. He's also an alcoholic. Is it common for alcoholics to be reclusive?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 02:05 PM PST

I miss seeing him but he's become more and more reclusive since his divorce and he drinks more and more. His son comes but seldom does he come.

Question: How do I get my mom to stop telling me about her brother sex life and my dad sex life?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 02:04 PM PST

I told her stop and then she does it again. She doesn't like my dad is there to four so she tells me about his sex life with my stepmother. I have no idea how she knows about their sex life and she hasn't seen them except one since the divorce. I think she just makes up things like claims he cheats on her when he does not. She also does not like her brother at all and so she tells me about his sex life. I am 16 and thankfully was able to move in with my dad much to her dismay. However I'm seeing her this weekend so I'm gonna have to be with her for two days. I'd like to have fun with her for once as I have not seen her since Thanksgiving but all she's gonna want to do is gossip.

Question: What can I do? Is this abuse? SOMEONE HELP PLEASE?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:40 PM PST

My mom on the outside seems like a really nice person and comforts me when I'm feeling sad. She buys me nice things and always tells me she loves me. On the inside though she's really manipulative and abusive in my opinion. She always gets mad at me for small things like clothes on the floor or cups on the table. She has a horrible temper and always hits me. Just now while it is fresh in my mind, she got mad for unfolding some clothes by accident looking for something to wear. She came out of my room and started shrieking. I told her that I would do it later and that I am doing my homework right now (I am only 14). She started going ballistic and wagging her finger in my face and she took my phone away. I called her crazy and told her to get her finger away from my face and she hit me hard in the arm and poked me in the eye. This is just the most recent example. About a year ago she bit me so hard on the arm it left a bruise. I can't take this anymore. My dad doesn't really do anything to help but I love him. I don't want to go to CPS because I frankly am embarrassed of my home situation and I don't want to ruin my life. I love my mother I just wish she would stop being so crazy. Also i'm afraid of no one believing me as she always blames things on me and can be extremely manipulative. I honestly just wish I was born with a normal mother. Does anyone have any suggestions of what to do. also i don't want to go in foster care or anything

Question: Mom went through my texts?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:31 PM PST

I am almost 22 years old and my mom was reading through my texts that I sent to my boyfriend. (My siblings somehow snooped through my phone as I was asleep and showed it to my mom.) She said she is disgusted with me because she saw photos I sent to my boyfriend. I sent him cleavage photos. My mom is always in my business. This is ridiculous to go through an adult's phone. What can I do? Isn't it odd that she is disgusted because I am sending photos to my boyfriend?

Question: Would you let your child play at their friends house if you knew the father was a sex offender?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:14 PM PST

Question: Is this physical abuse? Should I just tolerate it?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:05 PM PST

About a year ago, I looked at and sent some inappropriate material on my phone. Me and my dad got in a huge fight, but we eventually got through it. We had a pretty good relationship through the summer and at the beginning of this school year. But, a few months ago, I downloaded snapchat without him knowing. I managed to hide it, but he found it the other day, and of course he thinks I was doing inappropriate things on it. I do admit, I sent a couple bad pics, but for the most part it was appropriate. I lied about when I installed it and about how long I had it. And now, because of this combination of things, he has been slapping me, punching me, kicking me, and even left a bruise. I don t want him to get in trouble, but what do I do to end this? Is this physical abuse? Is this tolerable?

Question: Help, I have so much homework and parents won't let me stay home from practice to do it! What should I do?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 12:19 PM PST

Today, I learned that a test that was supposed to be scheduled for next monday is tomorrow, along with the other test I have. On top of this I have 2 term papers, and on Monday 25 notecards or research are due for one of them. I also have another paper and project for the same teacher and a few chapters of a book to read due tomorrow. I feel backed up into a corner as my mom randomly signed me up for an hour and a half volunteer thing today and after that I have to go to taekwondo which is an hour long. I don't have enough time to do my homework and study. On top of that I am forced to go to bed at 9PM ( I am 15 ) no exceptions. I simply don't have enough time! If I don't do well on this test/assignments I will be grounded, but she never lets me stay home from sports practice. I will also feel horrible if I fail. She doesn't understand this and refuses to listen to me when I ask to stay home and tells me I should have managed my time better, but I have no time! HELP!!! What should I do???? Edit: This weekend I also have to go to my friend's swim meet which is 3 hour drive each way and I can't work in the car cause I get sick. We are staying overnight in a hotel and I won't be getting back until Saturday night.

Question: I made my sister cry ?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 12:01 PM PST

I made my little sister cry I feel really bad. I made her watch a movie about Manson now she's upset and she's more afraid of the dark now. She loves scary movies but she doesn't like seeing actual killing which is what they had. I didn't know they would actually show it. I feel bad for scaring her. I can't tell her it's just a movie because it did happen. She's pregnant she's even more scared to be alone. She wants me to start sleeping with her. But she's also mad at me. She said she's gonna have nightmares now. How can I help her feel better ?

Question: Can a baby legally live in the house w someone who has molested me?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:58 AM PST

so when i was 16 my stepdad touched me n felt me up while he was drunk n i never told my mom about it until about 3 yrs later n i also never reported it to the cops becuz my brother had just passed away and my mom was going thru severe depression. since then my stepdad doesnt come near me and we do not speak. when i did told my mom she didnt believe me because he denied it and her and i stopped talking for a bit and things were just a mess. ive forgiven her for not believeing me and not doing anything about it, she was in denial for a long time. regardless ive moved on and we have a much better relationship and my stepdad and i dont even speak, my moms house is pretty big so i stay on my side and he stays on his. anyways so now my question is ifi am having a baby and my boyfriend and i are just NOT getting along, is it legal for me to have my baby with me at my moms house? my bf has an apartment but he is not cut out to be there for me emotionally or financially like he promised he would be so i really have no other choice as of now. he is threatening to call child services for me having my baby at my moms because my stepdad lives here. will she be taken away from me because of this? i need help/answers. i dont want to be manipualted to move back in with him.

Question: Is it wrong to want my grandpa to die?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:53 AM PST

I'm his caregiver and since then I've grown to hate him. He's been smoking for 60 years and had a stroke 2 years ago. He was lucky because he was barely affected. The doctor told him to stop smoking but he didn't listen. Since then he's had 3 more mini strokes and can barely do anything. He shits all over the toilet and floor, he can't wash his *** and he always asks for something stupid. Like today in the blizzard he wants the news paper. Needles to say I didn't go. I'm fed up with his nonsense. I want him to die because when he does I get 10k. Dressing, bathing and feeding is driving me insane. My life revolves around him and I wanna kill him.

Question: Am I not as good as my cousin since I don't join in family activities as often?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:49 AM PST

I don't join in family activities as often as my cousins so I feel like I'm not as good. But I can't go cause my mom doesn't get along with her brother so she doesn't let us go out when he's there. Am I not as good as my cousins? We see them throughout the year but on family holidays like Easter or Thanksgiving or not allowed to go. The one exception is Christmas Eve we do go.

Question: My mom yells a lot ever since having a baby she wasn't like this before. What in the baby made her change like this?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:47 AM PST

She used to be nice and I used to like her but now she's not nice. The baby was born last June.

Question: Can brother and sister marry ?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:37 AM PST

My sister is madly in love with me she said she wants to get married. She's pregnant but the baby isn't mine. She had a sperm donor. She's 10 weeks. Our parents died when we were kids it's just been me and her. She thinks since she's having a baby she should be married. Can we get married ? She's 17 I'm 19

Question: Really need help with strict parents?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:37 AM PST

I'm 14 and I do have a quite a bit of freedoms but at the same time I don't which is a little extreme but ill explain. My phone is restricted to where i don't even have the app store or internet access at all. There is nothing to do on my phone and apparently i can't have my phone with the door closed even though there's nothing to do on it. Also a while ago at my best friends house in November we tried hookah and i recorded a video of my other friend doing it and now i'm not allowed to go to his house even though we all had never done it and that was the first time and i am now not allowed to go to his house ever until im 18. I think its a little unreasonable because hookah is only AFFECTING ME? If you don't know what that is its tobacco. But its only affecting me so why does it even matter to my parents if i did it. Also i'm always forced to take my hat off when i eat any meal which is so dumb because its not even disrespectful and I'm not allowed to have xbox or laptop in my room. They also put restrictions on my computer and wont let me have access to an email account on my phone. Please give me advice on what to do I am very frustrated and upset.

Question: Why do I always feel a strong cringe/dislike when it comes to my aunt no matter what?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:26 AM PST

My aunt and I have always had our ups and downs. But for the most I remember is how low she would make me feel when I was younger of how angry & petty she'd be towards me to the point where she'd say so many hurtful things and make me feel as if I were a lame & couldn't be anything more in life. She is 7-8 yrs older than me and does admit to being real mean to me when I was even much younger, but she jokingly says she really is sorry about that and it was because when I was born I stole her spotlight from her. A part of her would more than likely still act a lot how she was before when it comes to taking anger out on me, trying to belittle me, and take advantage of me but I have learned for a long time now not to give her much attention at all, avoid talking to her until necessary, and have comebacks to whatever she may say. We recently a couple of months ago got on bad terms because of her taking things too far..and even though this hasn't been our first big argument & psychical altercation/fight ..Being pregnant and keeping a lot inside of how I felt inside when it came to her had soon hit the final boiling point when she said something about my own born baby. And for the first time I was the one ready to beat & hit her first but as I started charging after her my grandmother and hubby held me back by not letting me.. I am very much cringing on the thought of her even holding my newborn baby. I feel like an animal wanting to roar or hiss in the inside.

Question: My mother did not discipline her only daughter who turned out rotten. Is this normal for the same sex child?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:19 AM PST

Normal meaning not to be disciplined when the same sex as the parent. My brothers and I were disciplined and learned right and wrong.

Question: My mother takes low shots (insults) at my Dad. How do we get her to stop and grow up?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 11:15 AM PST

Question: Does this mean something is going to happen to my mom? Please answer, I don't understand what's going on?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 10:51 AM PST

I had a little fight with my sister and mom a month ago, I went to lay down and got such a feeling that I can almost taste and see it of me crying lost not having my mom like something is going to happend. I took a nap then woke up with such heavy negativity that I actually got a thought that came into my head I was no where near thinking to ever do anything like that. To harm my sister like get a knife and stab her, it scared me so bad I told my mom, after telling her the negativity stop for my sister and then started for my mom to stab her. For days crying, scared, feeling like I was going crazy because I was perfectly fine and then I took that nap and that was it. In all my life I never got this. I have a family member that I believe was doing stuff on my family, a bad from church did something to ask god who's doing whatever and my aunt pop up on the phone she hasn't call that time in 3 years, this happend years ago, I think someone even told my uncle my aunts son was doing stuff on my uncle, now my aunts living near here and I feel that she's doing stuff again on me. I don't dream anymore, have such heavy negativity, and I'm now worried for my mom after getting a burden. What's going on? My mom have heavy negativity like me but what I'm getting right now it's scary

Question: My brother is a bad person all around. How do I find a good side of him?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 10:39 AM PST

He has no values in terms of right and wrong. Yet he was taught right from wrong. This is basic values I am referring to and not any religious belief only.

Question: I have an obsessive need for siblings and parents how do I get over this?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 10:14 AM PST

Like I get depressed if more than a week goes by and I don't see them

Question: When my sister goes into a rage is it her hormones? She's 20 mean?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 10:11 AM PST

Question: Everyday I go to my friends house with my boobs covered my friend gets them out and I am at school should I put them away or not?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 09:37 AM PST

Question: How to tell if someone is lying?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 09:33 AM PST

So my husband borrowed my EarPods and left them on our bed. I did our laundry and I remembered I saw them still on our bed they nevered moved. So my little sister in law and mother in law live with us and that day my little sister in law went into our bedroom and than I noticed they were gone all of sudden from our bed. I immediately suspected her so I text her and asked her about them and she said no. So than I saw her using headphones that looked new. And I'm pretty confident those are mine I didn't mark them as i usually would because they were new. How can I go about getting them back without causing a big fight between my mother in law and sister law and husband? Because this will cause a blow up.

Question: HELP! my mom lays on the floor, doesnt move and i dont know what to do?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 09:30 AM PST

I heard of this john cena thing meme on youtube and tried it on my mom, and now she wont move, she just lays still on the floor. I have tried everything but she is not moving. What should i do?

Question: How can I help my 21 yr old daughter find a husband?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 09:10 AM PST

A lot of people from her class are getting engaged or pregnant. Young marriage is beautiful and I pray to God every night that he would send her the right man asap. She hasn't had her first kiss either and I eant her to get that too. She needs to find a good husband like I did and get married about age 23 like I did. The only problem is that she has a 34ddd size chest and I wonder if she will with that because those are too big to attract a loyal man. She works as a Pharamcy Tech.

Question: How to cope with my husband big secret.?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 09:05 AM PST

My husband had a tearful confession and told me he and his sister sexually experimented when he was 7 and she was 3. Should I believe him when he said it only happened once? I felt like they had a weird relationship now for years. He said he feels guilty and regrets it. He feels relieved to have told me. Why do I feel so horrible? I feel like he took advantage of her. But he was olny a kid himself. I really don't know how to feel.

Question: Does time matter if the mother wants her child back when the father had the child when they seperated? Please read description.?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 08:44 AM PST

The father has the child since the mother and father seperated (over 6 months). The mother is having a hard time seeing the child due the father not being on the birth certificate and is not allowing her to have her when the mother wants. I know he has no legal rights to the child since he is not on the birth certificate. My question is if the time (over six months the father had her) matters in that situation would effect if the mother can take the child when she can? The mother was scared of the father and let him have the child because she had no place of her own. Now she does and wants her child but the father won't let her til she puts him on the birth certificate.

Question: Mother son question?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 08:41 AM PST

I'm a single mom with a baby boy and I love to watch him sleep. Sometimes when I'm watching him I just want to unhinge my jaws and swallow him whole so he will always be apart of me. Any other moms out there that ever feel that way and would that be so bad he did come from my body after all?

Question: I am 15 and my mom has not seen me since i was 11 and my dad and my stepmom don,t realy want me to see her.?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 08:29 AM PST

Also i dont think my moms cares about me either is any of this right? Like is it morally right

Question: How do I get over my bitterness towards my mom for pouring her hatred of the family on to me?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 08:25 AM PST

It is eating me alive and it's like she's passed her hatred to me and now I have hatred

Question: Why did she project so much onto her?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 08:03 AM PST

My mom is a cruel, self-centered narssistic bully. As we grew up she was physically and emotionally abusive but MOSTLY w my oldest sister. My oldest sister is a warm, loving, kind person! Polar opposite. But my mother picked on her the MOST. She'd play mind games w her like give her the smallest portion of a meal then point out to everyone how much she already ate when she had less to begin with for example. Or she'd overdraft her bank account buying frivolous things then play on my sisters kindness to bail her out. But worst of all she'd do things like sleep around cheating on my dad then if my sister got a bf she'd say all the neighbors were calling her a slut! Just to make her insecure. Or she'd be doing drugs and then accuse my sister of the same things! Again it's like my sister was there just to meet her every emotional need and if my sister ever needed help she was called selfish or crazy. It's so hard ad now we're all grown and away from her but my sister to this day is FULL of shame and self doubt while continuing to be loved by EVERYONE but she can't see its not HER FAULT! Why would a mother pick out the kindest child to do this to?!

Question: Please help idk what to do or who to talk to?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 07:57 AM PST

I feel like I keep posting this question but everyone is telling me different things and I have to make a final decision on what to do today. To start off I'm 15 and I'm homeschooled. It's just me and my dad living together in a small town in the Midwest. We have had bed bugs for almost a year now and I have adapted to it thinking it's pretty much normal getting my blood sucked by little bugs while I'm sleeping. I have talked to every single person in my family (hoping maybe one of them would let me stay with them for a few days or something but no) they all tell me to report it since it's considered neglect, my aunt told me to go to church and talk to Jesus lmao. I just don't know if I should call cps and be put in even a worse situation. My dad has told me many times he would call and exterminator but he doesn't I have cried to him and told him many times I can't take it and he lies saying he will do something and tells me to shut up there just a few bug bites. I've tried sleeping in my dads car at night but it's so uncomfortable/scary and since it's winter I wake up sick. We've tried spray, bug bombs, washing everything in hot water, vacuuming it, nothing works I've talked to all exterminators in my town and they said it would be about $4000 upfront so there's really nothing I could do. I was just hoping one of my family members would help me out and let me stay with them ugh. Should I report it to cps and take the chance of getting put into foster care ):

Question: Someone please help? I'm so conflicted?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 07:38 AM PST

Essentially, for the past 90 days I've been telling my boyfriend I was gonna move out of my parents house to live with him at 17 because that's the legal age to leave in my state. But yesterday and the day before I kept switching back and forth between staying and leaving and he got angry. Today is the day and last night he gave me the ultimatum "live with me or we break up" because he said he can't stand to be with me but without my physical presence if that makes sense. He said I gave him something to look forward to everyday and that I ripped it away from him. Now, I wouldn't mind moving out if it were okay with my parents, but my parents absolutely HATE my boyfriend. He's mixed and my dad is racist and my mom has threatened to file restraining orders against him and accused him of having bad things and just anything she could think of. I also have a relatively close relationship with my mom so I know this will hurt her deeply due to all the other stress she's going through. But we've been together a year and I love him a lot and I don't wanna break up and I don't wanna move in what should I do?

Question: Be honest?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 07:24 AM PST

have any of you ever had sex with someone related to you, mastrubated with someone related to you, watched someone related to you mastrubate, or fantasie about having sex with someone related to you?

Question: I need to sue my children for emotionally pain of them refusing to leave my house?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 06:43 AM PST

I am a 53 year old man. I never wanted kids. I did at first but as soon as my children aged to be 2 and 3 years old I started hitting them and yelling and breaking their things. It was their fault for causing my bipolar. They are now 17 and 18 I have hated them since they were 2 and 3. My wife is always on my side. Why do my coworkers say I'm in the wrong when I'm not? My children refuse to leave they won't walk 15 miles to the city to get a job and 15 miles back home. I refuse to teach them how to drive I refuse to drive them I refuse to let them get a learners permit and license I refuse to buy them a bike. I have never started a college savings for them when they were born, I did not want them going to college at all I took them out of school in middle school, I was going to homeschool them but I never did it was too expensive. They have never completeted any high school grades. Why are they so ungrateful?

Question: Do FATHERS love women or their children more?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 06:38 AM PST

I heard numerous instances where a married man leaves his wife and kids for a more beautiful woman. He never asks about them again. Or how maybe the father uses all the money on women than to spend time with his kids.

Question: Should adult children scold their parents?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 05:59 AM PST

Question: My mums a drug addict and i need help.?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 05:29 AM PST

Im a 15 old male and my mum has been addicted to drugs for about 16 years (the cause is my dad). My mother has now reached a severe point of her addiction and has completely neglected all her duties as a mother. I have 3 younger siblings which i have to take care of due to my mother being locked away in her bedroom all day doing drugs. I would prepare their lunch before school, i would take them to school, i take public transport down to the store to buy groceries for the house, i prep their clothes and wash their clothes (doing all the laundry), i now have learnt how to clean around the house, that includes vaccuming, wiping, doing the dishes, organising household items and so on. I have learnt how to cook due to my mother never preping meals for us, i cook meals for i and my siblings everyday. My father isnt around and never will be anymore as he is now locked away in prison, and i have no one besides my aunty supporting me and my siblings. I need some help and advice.

Question: Is it wrong to be selfish for once?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 04:04 AM PST

I'm a selfless person.. I've been taught to always give in to my siblings since I was a kid (I'm the youngest) I have a liver disorder and it makes me smell bad, I found out when I was in senior high school (a doctor made a quick visit to our school and he noticed me by my smell and told me about my disease.) I told my parents about that, I told them the doctor told me to have a surgery soon. But they.. Well.. As always. Didn't listen to me. I didn't know I smell back then, I used to be a cheery and a full of confidence girl but I started to notice how everyone made face when they're around me. How they covered their noses. And sometimes everyone I met outside made fun of me and mocked me. It hurt. And I realized that's probably why my parents and everyone hate me too.. I just graduated from university months ago, and my parents are urging me to get a job quickly to feed them. They don't know I've been sending application letters and got rejected again and again (you know why.....), even if I tell them they won't understand anyway.. I really want to work too and earn my own money but... I'm done getting humiliated, I'm done getting hurt.. But they keep on forcing me to get a job.. I don't want to work, I don't even want to step outside from my house. I have so many older brothers and sisters why do they want to depend on me.. Why can't I depend on them instead? Is it wrong to be so selfish just once... And why am I not dying yet? It'd be better.. Does God hate me too?

Question: How do I get my sister to stop being a sibling abuser?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 03:58 AM PST

Question: After eight years of marriage I realize mother in laws are not bad, need advice sister-in-laws are trouble.?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 03:50 AM PST

My husband is a jerk in every way and its not his mother s fault he even treats her like crap. Two (2) of my brother in laws wives (6 brothers 1 sister) blame her for snow storms (everything possible). They keep trouble stirred up in the family and no one seems to see it nor care but two wives (me and another sis in law and 1 possible future in law.) I ve seen them lie on her and they start a session of mother in law bashing. She knows this and stays to herself and for this they complain that she doesn t visit or care about the grandkids. I thought I was the only one that realized this until a fourth sis in law said to me "Mom never bothers me, does she bother you? They hate her for nothing." To which I agreed. I told my husband that his brothers are wrong to allow this, their mother raised them as a single mom, worked two jobs all her life never dated after their dad left with younger woman when she was expecting youngest (now 20) he never paid child support served 8 yr in prison, dead now. My mother in law is a beaten down woman abused by her husband now abused by her sons and a few daughter in laws. Should my husband speak up or since its the sister-in-laws starting things should I say something. It wont be pretty, ive had it..

Question: My mum wants a divorce because she doesn t want to see me?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 03:49 AM PST

My mum recently told me that she s filing for a divorce simply because she does not want to see me anymore, she s tired of me and she doesn t want her attitude to influence mine. I m almost 18 so I m old enough to accept that she will do what she wants to do but young enough that I would still like a motherly figure to rely on as I enter adulthood. Honestly, I m stumped as to what to do? Help!

Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 03:48 AM PST

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Question: Am i a bad teenage daughter?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 03:04 AM PST

So basically my grades where so-so, and not too bad, but my dad says now i can't use my ipad and ipod on mondays,tuesdays,wednesdays, and thursdays!! I can only use it on fridays and the weekends until mid-quarter quarter or whatever. I got so mad at them and I was screaming and yelling. I am still not happy even though it was yesterday and so I am still shouting and yelling mean things to them or talking back to them. Is this bad?

Question: Is this morally wrong?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 02:05 AM PST

If someome gets you a gift is it wring to sell it and if someone gives u a gift is it wrong fir them to tell you you cannot sell it since they gave it as a gift

Question: How can I calm my sister down ?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:34 AM PST

My little sister is really upset she said she had a bad dream. She cant get back to sleep. She cant stop crying. How can I calm her down ?

Question: Fat poor girl with great mathematic skills gets bullied in highschool.No friends.A narcicicstic mother who beats her.Father non existent?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 01:26 AM PST

How will she evolve till her midtwenties or later?

Question: How do i persuade my parents to let me move schools?

Posted: 09 Feb 2017 12:48 AM PST

Question: How can I get my mom to understand that my little brother is never going to learn anything if she keeps doing everything for him.?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 11:56 PM PST

I'm 17 years old and My 14 year old little brother is a spoiled, lazy, self centered brat who thinks everything is about him. He never listens to me because my mom makes it seem like nothing I say is important. Anyway he sits around procrastinating and never taking responsibility for his actions especially when it comes to school work.my mom Yells at him for procrastinating and bullshiting around and ends up doing his work for him or she makes me do it knowing that I have a **** ton of homework to do myself. Like today she waits until the last minute to let me know his project is do tomorrow. Not only that but she tells me around 10:30 so now I'm up past The bed time I've organized for myself helping my lazy little **** brother. I finished about 20 minutes ago and now I'm going to sleep.

Question: Since I don't respect my parents and do not live with them anymore, I'm not obligated to have anything to do with them, correct?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 11:54 PM PST

Since I don't want to respect them, why should I live under the same roof as them? I live by myself, single, unmarried, no man, nothing. It's just me, where I make my own rules where I'm my own authority. I have nothing to do with them and one of them has a form of arthritis....

Question: How do you explain this to a kid ?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 11:52 PM PST

My wife had her first daughter when she was only 12 her ex was 17 at the time. He left right after their daughter was born. He never even seen her. She's 15 almost 16 she's having another baby. She wants to tell her daughter about her but she's not sure when would be a good time to tell her or even if she should tell her. She doesn't want her to make the same mistake she did. She wants to know how can she tell this to her ? Should she even tell her ?

Question: Can I pee on my brother's car and molest his dog as revenge for insulting me and beating me up?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 10:57 PM PST

Question: Should I give up my son and walk out? details inside?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:59 PM PST

I had my son when I was 19 years old. The mom been out of his life since he was 2 and now my son is 6. I'm a single dad living with my dad and working for him as a insurance adjuster. The only reason why I been with my son is because my family said if I leave they will disown me. Well I'm tired of not living the life I want and being stuck and tied down because I made a stupid mistake when I was 18. I have so much anxiety, depression and feel like I'm wasting my youth away. I feel like he's better off with my family anyway. I'm getting 5 k back on my taxes and 15k from a insurance claim. I will have 20 k for a fresh start if I just leave and start over. I know I sound like a bad selfish person but I'm not. but I feel like I need to do this. What do you think about my situation?

Question: I dislike my stepfather, what should I do?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:53 PM PST

I do not like my stepfather: It seems that if we ever do have a long conversation, it always ends with arguing. I do acknowledge that he has been rather vulnerable not having a job, however, he keeps placing all his insecurities on me. My mother and stepfather fight often, sometimes lasting till' 6am, but the next day, after they fight, they're back to pretending to being a "happy couple. The reason why I dislike him is because he is a racist **** ( He is not from the country I live in so he always talks trash about the locals, as well as his own race. He thinks that he's some special snowflake). My mother never listens to anything we say, therefore, she never hears him bullshitting everyone. I try to avoid talking to him. Currently, I eat dinner by myself and lock myself in my room, a stereotypical thing for teenagers. My mother comes back late and my stepfather stays in the house. He is also very childish. My stepfather said that we should all have therapy as we all have "problems". I used to have panic attacks and visit a therapist, but it feels I have been feeling better. I get anxious quickly. I haven't been sleeping a lot, not because I am not able to, but I choose not to because the idea of sleeping makes me anxious. I have tried to harm myself once, but I have not ever felt to do so again. To summarise: my stepfather is just a pain in the ***, and I do not know what to do. Also, should I get a therapist or is it not needed?

Question: How do I leave home without involving CPS?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:52 PM PST

First of all, I'm not looking for judgement or advice on how to deal with home problems. Secondly, I don't want to go into much detail. My mother isn't a bad person (or parent, really) but I'm tired of living with my family. Everyday is the same thing - wake up, take care of my spoiled little brother and take him to the bus stop, clean the apartment because it was inevitably trashed last night, do school work online (I have to do online school, otherwise I couldn't take care of my little brother in the mornings), pick up my brother from his bus stop, make dinner, and deal with whatever drama happens that night. Deviations from this routine are rare. At this point I can't bring myself to care about anything anymore, but I don't want to screw over my mother if only because I owe her for taking care of me when I was younger. Involving other family members is also out of the question, for this reason. To answer Melissa's question, I don't know. That's the whole reason I came here. If you're not actually trying to help then don't comment.

Question: So my dad left he's an alcoholic and when he gets drunk he gets angry so I was reading that it can make a son have academic problems and?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 09:10 PM PST

Behavioral problems is this true I dont want to have that???

Question: So my dad left the house and people are asking me well my mom and sister that i look affected by it but I don't know if I am or not I didn't?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 08:53 PM PST

Get sad or anything but what happens to a teenager like me when stuff like this happens?

Question: Does this make an evil person? Do I deserve to die?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 08:45 PM PST

Hey guys I'm name is Darren and I am 18 years old 4 years ago when I was 15 years old I went to Houston over the summer to stay with my auntie and then I went to my older cousins house (she's 19 and I'm 18) and when I was in her room my little cousin took my ear buds and she starts running around the room with it and then I pushed her (I pushed with one hand) and she fell and bumped her head against the wall (she's fine she's not badly injured she's not injured at all she's perfectly fine nothing is wrong with her) she's not holding any grudges towards me and she hasn't brought it up to me because it's not effecting/bothering her (I was 15 at the time and she was 9 years old ) she was being very annoying to me and I just wanted her to leave me alone and her mom warned to leave me alone and stop playing with me but she didn't listen. Does this make me an evil person do I deserve to die?? She's not badly injured she's not injured at all she's perfectly fine nothing is wrong with her.

Question: WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 08:32 PM PST

I was over my sister house and their mom put on some sex music and my sister said " ma ain't nobody trying to have sex" . And it was only me and my sisters and their mom in the house. I could understand if there was men or other people in the house but it wasn't.

Question: My Brother Keeps Making Passes At My Fiance?

Posted: 08 Feb 2017 08:23 PM PST

My younger brother has had this annoying crush on my fiance ever since I introduced her to my family years ago. He's always telling her how beautiful she is, and having long conversations with her, and he even says things like "I wish I found her first" and "If she met us at the same time, I bet she would've chose me". I guess my insecurity lies in the fact that he's probably right. My little brother is is by far the better looking, more successful, and more charismatic one of the two of us. He's practically prince charming. It urkes me that he one-ups me at every family activity. Plus he's always telling my fiance about when I was bullied as a kid for being a little chubby and how he'd come defend me, making himself look better and all that bull crap. My fiance pretty much brushes him off, but she's too nice to tell him straight that he doesn't have a chance and he needs to back off. I tell him that all the time of course, but he basically laughs it off. What should I do?