Well to get straight to the point everytime I do it I seem to think of other people besides my partner by mistake names just randomly pop up in my mind I don't think of anything sexual about them I just think of names and I some how get turned on by it but yet I can't get turned on by my partner and I feel terrible about it I talk to my partner about it and tell her/him to leave me because I cheating but to them I haven't I cried so meny times and even cutted sorry in my wrist so they know how sorry I am but I still feel bad long story short Is it cheating?

Me and my wife have been married for 2 months. She's afraid I might leave her. I keep telling her I will never leave but she doesn't believe me. It makes her feel sad. How can I help her feel better ?

Me and my wife have been married 4 months. She's afraid to have sex. She's worried it will hurt. How can I make her feel comfortable about it ?

I was in africa on a safari trip a week ago. The night before leaving i wanted to see the beautiful african sunset so i found a little mound/hill not far from our site. I was laying there feeling so surreal when i heard a noise from the bushel. I thought it was birds but then a wart hog came out and i thought he bit my leg. he dragged me by my pants into the bushel. I took off my pants and tried to escape but i tripped. This time i thought he bit me in the butt and then he dragged me by my pantie into the bushel. I took off my pantie and tried to escape. I tripped again and then the wart hog jumped on me and then all the hair on my body went up and i suddenly took a deep inhale. The wart hog has penetrated me. I struggled for about 10 seconds and gave up. This thing easily overpowered me. I didnt want to scream because he might get scared and attack me so i just laid there. It was done before i knew it. Surprisingly thought i had an orgasm and after he was done he took off. I just laid there feeling so dirty and betrayed. My body had betrayed me when my mind was so against it. I dont know how to tell my husband. How do you tell the man you love that you were raped and had an orgasm by a wart hog? Im seriously in tears as i type this up. I haven't even told my best friend about this. What am i going to do?

I heard about I m just not sure if people actually do. So I'm wondering did anyone hear do it and if so what was the other person like that was sleeping with your husband/wife.

I'm thinking ahead but extremely curious. I've been dating this guy for several months I am 38 he's 43. We have both been divorced for over 6 years or so. We live one hour away from each other but my question is let's say things progress and we want to live together one or two years down the road. His kids whom live with the ex-wife live near where he lives and his office is near his house also. My daughter is in college but I have a son who starting high school next year so he will be in that particular high school for four years. The county I live in has wonderful schools all his friends are there. I would never want to move him an hour away to a new school so how exactly would this work? As my job is also about 10 minutes from my home and my sons high school. I'm just curious if this is even worth continuing relationship wise?

Hey, So I m in need of legal advance. My husband works for a car company and they usually get paid on the 10th and 25th of each month. Today is the 10th and my husband did not get paid . What should i do? I feel so bad because all the hard work he has done and they haven t paid him for it. Can they do that?

I'm an American of legal age, and a female in Oregon. I read and know about arranged marriages, I'm just not sure how to get into one. Also, is there a such thing as lesbian or gay arranged marriages and how would one get into that as well?

And in my school if you get locked out in this one section your trapped. So another teacher held the door open for my 2friends (both girls). So we ran to her to catch the door but one of my friends stopped running and said nope nope nope nope nope not today today is not the day. So me as curious as I am asked what happened(keep in mind my is almost always straight forward with me) so she said we'll when you don't wear a bra and then just mumbled something inaudible. I didn't want to ask further questions so I decided to come to you people . So my question is does anyone know what she might of said ?(what she was wearing: she was wearing a hoodie with no under shirt I assume and pants I didn't pay attention to.) Sub question: why?

Some say 40 and im starting to believe so. First cause he is starting to look old. Second there are NO single women at that age; either divorced or single moms. And nobody wants damaged goods or luggage or be an emotional nurse etc etc. Damaged goods refers mostly to the mental aspect at first and then the physical and emotional aspect of losing everything they invested after divorce. Im sick of picking up other peoples mess / broken pieces. should i give up and stick to being lonely - therefore im expired marriage material ? No i never married and no kids; single guy at 40. Back then i had it all and never stopped for anyone. Therefore im expired marriage material..but to whom ? Since young ladies dont like me and no single ones at my age. Solutions ?? Options ?? No i never married and no kids; single guy at 40. Back then i had it all and never stopped for anyone. Therefore im expired marriage material..but to whom ? Since young ladies dont like me and no single ones at my age. Solutions ?? Options ??

Even after having 3 or 4 kids ? Why is that ?

We were trying for over a yr and nothing in Nov he told me he wanted to stop trying bc he completely gave up, and I kept getting depressed about it. I told him then I'd go in birthcontrol he told he I shouldn't bc it's bad for me and he said if I get preggo in the long run he'll be happy. He's a great husband. I just don't know what to think it hurt me so much he wanted to stop trying ( you know all the methods calendar tracking, scheduled sex, all that stressful sh! T) I want to see the positive in this but my longing is so much greater

Well the truth is I'm actually 33 My wife this year is 19 we've been married for one year When we met two years ago she was 17 I told her I was 22 i looked young for my age so she believed me she actually thought I was younger then that On the day that we had to get marriage liscence for our wedding I used a fake passport that said I was born 1992 instead of 1984 She found out and is now mad I just didn't want her to think I was old and not date me at that time She thought it was just a 5 year age gap actually it's a 15 year age gap

I am at my wits end. My husband constantly chooses work over family. Not to mention, always going out of his way to help others before us. I understand wanting to help, but there has to be a line somewhere. I tried to sit him down for a talk for what feels like the umpteenth time. He again avoided the questions, and flat out refused my proposal for a compromise. Lately, he's working until 8 PM every night, and on weekends. I told him that I wouldn't mind weekends, but he has to be home by a decent hour (i.e. no later than 6:30 PM) during the week. Our kids are young, and we have a very strict routine/schedule for the evenings. His response, "No, they need me to be to be there to finish. I can't leave early." To me, that implies that his colleagues are important to him than his family, and he believe he is the only one capable of doing the job. I gave two choices: either we order in weeknights while this job is in progress, or we get a slow cooker, so dinner will be ready when I get home with the kids. When I told that I'm feeling like a single parent, he told me that's ridiculous and asked me who gets up with the kids at night. Well, yes, he does—MOST of the time. The last straw was the discussion about dinner tonight. He said he won't be hungry when he gets home. Apparently, they're knocking off early from work because his boss is taking everyone for an early dinner. IMO, he should skip the dinner this time and go spend time our kids. Again his response, "No, no I can't." I don't want to get a divorce. He's a kind, loving, mature, responsible man. But lately, it seems like doesn't care anymore. Our sitter has been noticing the changes, and told that marriage is full of ups and downs. That I shouldn't be so quick to leave. But I'm not sure how much more I can take. To clear up some questions: 1. He is working long hours because he chooses to. It's not going to affect his job status or potential for advancement if he declines an OT opportunity. 2. He is working both on weekends and extra hours during the week. The compromise would be working on weekends and coming home normal time during the week. 3. I work, too, at a very demanding job. During the season, I also have to work late sometimes but I try to balance by going in early on some days rather than stay late. We had an agreement that whoever was available first, would do what needs to be done. And I have a longer commute than he does. I used to be a workaholic myself, but changed when I had our son. At the time, before hubby and before the kids, work was all I had. Oh, and BTW, if we won the lottery, we would both still work whether that was in our current jobs/careers or opening our own business.

Isn't that battery?

I am 33 and my husband is 32. My husbands sister is 4 years younger than he is. The first time i met my my dh sister they were holding hands. At the time he was 23 and his sister was 19. I thought they were a couple. We were not together at the time. He also mentioned to me that other people we knew that saw Them that day thought they were a couple too. After we started dating his sister came to visit. We were all sitting on the couch watching a movie. I was on one side of my husband and his sister was on the other side of him. Next thing i know she throws her feet and legs across his lap and just lays back continuing to watch tv. My husband just lays his hands on her legs/ ankles like its nothing. On top of that she came to visit one night with her boyfriend and a girlfriend. They ended up having a very loud threesome in our living room of A 500 sqft. Apt. I thought it was rude and i was very uncomfortable. My husband never said anything to her about it. Am I overreacting? On top of that my husband admitted to me two days ago that when he was 8yo he tried to have intercourse with his then 4 yo sister. How do I know that relationship did not continue into adulthood while we were together? On top of that my husband admitted to me two days ago that when he was 8yo he tried to have intercourse with his then 4 yo sister. How do I know that relationship did not continue into adulthood while we were together?

Is she really serious or just asking for attention?

he was there for me through the hard times.And i love him but if he wants to go back i want to go to visit but i dont want to stay there but he was the only one who was there for me when i needed him.what to do?

She doesn't look feminine as she aged and doesn't take time to fix herself up. I'm not feeling it. What to do?

We've been together for 2 1/2 years (known eachother for 3 1/2). We just got married October of last year and expecting a little girl in July. Latley he's been standoffish like he doesn't try for sex or cuddle. And just recently I caught comenting on a bunch of girls chive pictures callig them the most beautiful women he's ever seen. Or saying I'd undress you. When I confronted him on it he said it didn't mean anything that he only comented for points. I also got on his phone and his history says that he's been watching a lot of porn. I'm worried that he's losing interest in me. Any advice?