I just got home from picking up my younger sister at school. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for about 20 minutes I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

For example he says he was an Olympic Athlete and when I looked him up he is no where on-line for Olympic Records but he has a record in state athletes here in Minnesota. He said he saved dozens of lives when working as a paramedic and tells elaborate stories of saving people from places like burning houses. Yet all he is known to have done is work as a dispatcher. Lastly, he recently had a limp and he said he couldn't wait for police and had to stop a man who was assaulting someone. He says he was shot at and wounded but tackled the man and held him until police arrived. Yet, this man is 84 years old and I doubt very much there was any truth to that story. So how do I know what's true? My Dad is 68 and wasn't close to this fellow until recent years as he is alot older however he'd see him once every other year as would I at a reunion. In recent years we have seen him a lot more as the man has moved close to where we live. The man is helping me with genealogy but I don't know how true his stories will be. It is my Mom's cousin (I wrote my Dad by accident) but she has died so it is my Dad and I that see him at my uncle's. For example he told me my great-great grandmother was on her death bed and saw a vision from an angel that she would be better in the morning and woke up healed of cancer. I great story if true but I am skeptical. My mother has no opinion of the guy from what I recall but she died 20 years ago. LASTLY----What causes people to do this?

I just got home from picking up my kids at school. Since it was nice out and I did not go in anyplace I just drove in my bare feet and left my shoes at home.

How can I make light of this. It is my Mom's sister and her daughter. They are sworn enemies. It is like a Dr. Phil episode. How can I make light of this?

My mother is a bitter, vindictive, nasty, and vengeful person.

So I forgot my lunch money and decided to take a sandwich that costs 2.50 I got caught and the school called my mom and suspended me I Know I'm wrong and I paid back the 2.50 but I just don't want my mom to tell my father about it because he will make it such a big deal and I just don't want to deal with that any suggestion of how to convince my mom to not tell him

Growing up my mom told me that her family rejects us but as a teenager I realized that this was not true. Even though she had a conflict with them it does not involve us kids being rejected. Yet I remember that pain of being rejected by the entire extended family as a kid and I don't want to ever feel that again so I'm constantly in fear of feeling that again. At the holidays each year this is especially bad because that time of year symbolizes who's in and who's out in the family. As kids we were out because of my mom's differences with her family. Sometimes she may have thought she was protecting us from the conflict but in reality it damaged me greatly. How can I get over this fear? It's not as severe as when my grandparents eere living because I especially wanted to be close with them and as I was. They meant a lot to me and were very good to me. But it's still a significant fear of mine. How do I cope and avoid never being rejected where was it again or at least an hours? My mom would tell us "they do not want a relationship with our family "when I was a kid so I believed her as I was a kid and did not know better.

I went to a friends wedding over the weekend and took some pictures. One of my friends had their daughter Cheyenne (love that name) with them who is very pretty but also wearing a real short dress. Cheyenne is in 3rd grade but I don't know her age. Later at their house when I went to take a picture of Cheyenne sitting on Daddy lap. She acted naughty as she had earlier at the reception. Daddy then turned her over his lap (or knee) with her dress flipped up past her satin white underpants. He then said ""take a picture now of a naughty girl getting a spanking on her panty. I left the room and Cheyenne then got a good long spankng. I am unsure if I should just delete the photo but Cheyenne oddly asked if I saved it cause she wants it?? What would you do with it?

I am a 53 year old man. I never wanted kids. I did at first but as soon as my children aged to be 2 and 3 years old I started hitting them and yelling and breaking their things. It was their fault for causing my bipolar. They are now 17 and 18 I have hated them since they were 2 and 3. My wife is always on my side. Why do my coworkers say I'm in the wrong when I'm not? My children refuse to leave they won't walk 15 miles to the city to get a job and 15 miles back home. I refuse to teach them how to drive I refuse to drive them I refuse to let them get a learners permit and license I refuse to buy them a bike.

My aunt has been bullying and emotionally abusing both me, my siblings and my mom for many years. She made so many awful comments about my sisters weight we believe it caused her to starve herself and developed into an eating disorder. She relentlessly made fun of me for being sexually assulted, and torments and steals from my mom. My mom doesn't want to cut her off, but I've had enough. I've tried having a relationship with her and she would rather just make me miserable. The problem is she is basically always at my mom's house, and at every holiday dinner and birthday party we have in the family, and because my mom is so unwilling to cut her out of the picture I don't know how I can maintain a relationship with my mom and not her. I still want and need my mom in my life but I just can't deal with the constant bullying and emotional abuse from my aunt anymore. Any advice? P.s I'm 21 and not living with my mom or the aunt in question.

Before I get into it this is what everyone in my family that I have talked to is telling me to do, but I don't know what the right choice is so I'm on here hoping you get other mature adults opinions. I'm 15 and I live with my dad, my mother wants nothing to do with me so I'm stuck with him. Him and I don't talk much unless he's yelling at me or talking about his relationship problems, never once has he asked about me, the only time he listened was when I reached out to my therapist and then he cried and that was it. I can never seem to say the right things to him, he will constantly tell me I'm stupid and I'm wrong and sometimes he "play fights" but it actually hurts and leaves bruises or his handprint and he will laugh about it. The worst part is is that we have bed bugs, he brought them in over a year ago and I have told him many times to call and exterminator and he always says he doesn't want to waste his money on it so I've been getting bit up every single night ( I wash my sheets every other day, doesn't help since the house is so badly infested) I have talked to him and cried about it and he yells at me. I might sound dramatic but I don't know what I should do. Should I try to talk to someone else in my family and see if I could stay with them for awhile until he does something about the bed bugs? My body is covered in bites and all scarred up due to them and I've been sleeping in my dads car for awhile now but it's winter so I've been waking up sick

I'm in 8th grade. I'm homeschooled. I'm good in every subject but pre algebra... Ill usually miss 5 out of the 30 problems each day and my mom gets so mad at me, she yells and takes away my iPhone ( I'm using my older brothers iPad for this ) It's pretty much like this every day now. I mean I should study more but I usually get an A in every test but math/algebra, even if I don't study much. I think she's too hard on me because my brother is a commuter at college to be a a psychology major, and my sister is in medical school to be a psychiatrist. When I'm older I want to take over my dads window business, and I'll make good $. Like seriously I do suck in math, but how can I stop my mom from being so rude when I make a mistake

I am a female, almost 16, and two months ago I got with a guy about a year and a half older than I am. We have known each other for a year now. I do tell him everything and I even think I may be in love with him. However, my step father is emotionally abusive and he molested me up until I was 10 or 11. I am scared of a lot of men and this guy that I am with has helped me overcome a lot of fears but, it is also hard to feel good enough for anyone when my step father is always blaming me for everything, yelling and screaming at me, telling me i'm not good enough, ect. I really like this guy and I want it to work. However, my step father is still in my life because my mother did not believe me when I finally told her (I told her multiple times) that he was molesting me. She just said that I had just heard something at school and I was really young so she pushed it to the side. He molesting me stopped but, the emotional abuse has been continuous. If I want things to work out with the guy, what can I do. I can't go see someone and talk to them about it because I still live in the house and if he or my mother found out, all hell would break loose. Please help. Edit: My biological father doesn't want anything to do with me and my mother has never been abusive, ect. She is a great woman. They will not let me move out of the house until I'm 18. If I try to stand up to him it only gets worse. I can't fight him, he will take absolutely everything from me and I wont be able to be in contact with anyone. I am homeschooled.

My parents have always hit me, yelled at me, and called me names. They claim it all in the name of discipline but I don't think so anymore. I have always resented my parents and now even more since entering high school. Yesterday I was trying to go to sleep early because lack of sleep was causing me to bad in classes now and I'm always tired. I barely have time for myself. When I did, my parents forced me to come down and sweep. When I tried to explain to them I wanted to go to bed earlier that night they started beating me. My mom, while beating me, was screaming out how I was abusing them for leaving them to do all the work in the house. Then I said that they were abusing me. That was when my dad came in and starting punching me in the face. Then they kicked me out of the house. What do I do? Please help.

I am a high school guy with a 26 year old step mom. Dad married a much younger woman. She is the best mom EVER. I just adore her. Whenever I need help with ANYTHING she is always there to help me. She also has a great sense of humor and can find humor in almost any situation. One day I was just getting out of the shower and she walked in the bathroom. Was I ever embarrassed. However her good humor saved the day for me. She said, "I can sure tell you are your dad's son". I said how is that. She said, you are both hung like a horse. I could not stop laughing. Can you be embarrassed and proud a the same time. Do I have the coolest mom EVER?

I'm fourteen years old. I live on the east coast, while my brother lives on the south coast. My family drives me crazy. My parents do nothing but yell and lie, and my siblings are spoiled brats. My grades are terrible, and all in all, I hate where I live. My half brother however lives with his mom. I really wanna move down there in the hopes of getting my grades up. How do I convince my parents to let me do so?

Would you say evildoer repent in the name of Jesus or be banished into the wild???

Recently my bf's mother moved in with us. She babysits her grandson some days out of the week. Some days he sleeps over too. I don't mind it. Well this kid is always getting into things he's not suppose to touch. I understand that toddlers always wanna touch everything lol but he already broke two dishes. He throws around movies and Playstation remotes we have in our living room that we would like to not get broken. The grandma knows he's a handful but still takes a long time to tell the kid to stop. And she doesn't stop him she just keeps telling the kid "stop don't do that" while the kid continues, instead of her going over and moving the kid away from the area she just waits for him to stop on his own. The kid sometimes hits my daughter (her grandkid too). And well the grandma gets mad at my daughter for not moving away when the kid is the one hitting her. I feel like the grandma shouldn't be getting mad at my daughter. She should be stopping the kid from hitting her. I don't feel right for telling the kid anything but a couple times when the grandma was busy and wasn't seeing what the kid was doing I've had to tell him "no don't do that" but it kinda seems like the grandma doesn't like when I tell the kid something. Which I understand she's just protective of her grandson. I shouldnt have to say anything anyway she should. We also have to keep all doors closed which can get annoying having to open and close them. Idk am I overreacting by being annoyed by all this?

Her name is Cynthia and if you need more info I ll be glad to give it. I m just so hurt and what really hurts is she had a birthday yesterday and I just feel like I m gonna breakdown. I love and miss her so much

Growing up my mom told me that her family rejects us but as a teenager I realized that this was not true. Even though she had a conflict with them it does not involve us kids being rejected. Yet I remember that pain of being rejected by the entire extended family as a kid and I don't want to ever feel that again so I'm constantly in fear of feeling that again. At the holidays each year this is especially bad because that time of year symbolizes who's in and who's out in the family. As kids we were out because of my mom's differences with her family. Sometimes she may have thought she was protecting us from the conflict but in reality it damaged me greatly. How can I get over this fear? It's not as severe as when my grandparents eere living because I especially wanted to be close with them and as I was. They meant a lot to me and were very good to me. But it's still a significant fear of mine. How do I cope and avoid never being rejected where was it again or at least an hours? My mom would tell us "they do not want a relationship with our family "when I was a kid so I believed her as I was a kid and did not know better.

I'm a woman who lives in mom's home... She's divorced. I think she thinks I should give her all the affection emotionally speaking that a husband should give. Its weird. She overly compliments me about little things and I feel in general like she thinks we should be closer than I am comfortable with. She kisses me on the lips like before she goes to bed and it just feels weird I mean I'm a grown college attending woman and I don't want to be so close with my mom that she can just kiss me on the lips whenever she feels like it. Something just feels cringey and wrong to me when she does it without even asking if I'm ok with it. I don't want to have to say outright stop kissing me but I don't want such close physical contact with her. It seriously creeps me out. If you have any ideas to get her to stop (that do not involve lying) I'd appreciate it. Thanks and God bless!

My mom has been in prison since i was 12, im currently 15. Ive benn iving with differant people since shes been gone. Well right now im living with my uncle. Shes getting out in a week. She said that im gonna live with her, but i dont really want to. Due to things shes done to me. So shes saying that i have to live with her. Can she force me to live with her?

I have a aunt that's always been jealous of me and my mother, she's my father sister. So in 2012 she started to call only looking for money, then when I added her on Facebook she would only call to see if the pic I posted of a dog was my new dog etc., very nosey. After that things were getting werid like if she comment a question or message me & I didn't answer, something out of no where were fall on my head or foot. Things became dark/werid that one night after I lost my dog & my grandfather was almost having a heart attack in the hospital she call like 10 times, for some reason my dad didn't want to pick it up & it was already late at night, long story short is she call me screaming how I'm Puerto Rican and I don't show it, what's with all the Italian ****, so much more she said but she just became like a witch. Remember this is all happening while my mom is on the phone with the doctor that my grandfather might not make it. Now my father is only half Puerto Rican but from my Puerto Rican side the whole family came from Spain and France, no one really grew up on the culture, my aunt is the only one that makes a big deal about it to the point she said to me "it's in your blood darling" Now 2 years later personal family issues were going on, my mom call a man from my grandmother church, when the man pray and ask who is doing whatever on the family, my aunts name pops up on the phone, she hadn't call in 2years. Now she's living near me and I think she's doing black magic on me

i can only think my cousin is my brother/sister.

well long story short after being sick with what I thought was bronchitis actually turned into pneumonia on me. my doc put me on antibiotic and pred and no better so saw urgent care this week and they confirmed my pneumonia and gave me another antibiotic. but I am still getting worse, but back to the point. well I been coughing so bad that I either cough up yellow or throw up and my mom has no idea that I am sick. she never knows when I am sick, she never takes notice. I can be in the same room with her coughing bad and she will claim that she did not hear me cough. well anyhow, she has not sensed at all that I been sick this whole time. and what is even worse is last night I was so hoarse that I could hardly and while talking to my mom she could not even tell I was hoarse. she just kept talking to me like I was just fine. another thing that gets me is when I am sick I like to lay around and cuddle and when I told her that once she was like oh really? you like to cuddle when you are sick, I said yes she said well I never knew that. she did not know it because she does not care about me when I am sick. and also if she knows I am sick she will think ok she was sick 2 days ago she must be better now and can be my slave again but it does not work like that for me since I have asthma. don't tell me to just tell her I am sick as I did that before and like I said she thinks after 2 days of being sick that I am somehow all better like that and I am not I will say this, if my sister is sick mom will notice that she is sick and make a comment about it and all but if I am sick she will not notice at all, and if she does know that I am sick she usually forgets the next day anyway. how can I get my mom to sense that I am sick and that I am want to cuddle and feel better. if my mom knows I am sick she will tell me to stay away from her so I do not get her sick, what kind of mother says that to her child? please help I am a loss as what to do here.

My eldest sibling has automatically assumed that I was a manly man/macho man ever since I missed out on attending a metro program when parents took my teen siblings and this bully to such programs and that he just had get other people to perceive me as the exact opposite of everyone where I would then be seen as a very boring person and given strong disapproval by women and metrosexuals if I dress in a certain way, appear at certain places, get a styled haircut, unintentionally move my arms as if I'm dancing, or by just giving them the slightest idea I'm metrosexual. What people don't realise is that my identity and preferences were naturally aligned to metrosexuality well before my teen sibs and eldest sib even went to this program for those ideas.

I am not in America, I'm from Ireland, so it's a different system. I'm considering dropping out, I failed 2 exams first semester, my attendance is shockingly bad, I like 2 sections of my Business degree, both are IT related. (BIS BIM) I don't enjoy Maths and Accounting but I tolerate the rest. My parents aren't happy that I've already failed 2 exams and I feel extremely shitty wasting their money. The only reason I am still here is because I've made some friends, met some girls and generally enjoyed the social life. I'd hate to just leave it all because I know it will go on without me and I know I won't see some if not all of these people again. My parents won't pay for me to go to college next year. My goal is to be an entrepreneur, at the end of the day I want to be my own boss. My only real option if I drop out is to move to England and partake in a higher apprenticeship in the area of IT/BIS. That means leaving my family and moving to a different country, luckily I have cousins there.. I really don't know what to do..

Please!

I have a aunt that's always been jealous of me and my mother, she's my father sister. So in 2012 she started to call only looking for money, then when I added her on Facebook she would only call to see if the pic I posted of a dog was my new dog etc., very nosey. After that things were getting werid like if she comment a question or message me & I didn't answer, something out of no where were fall on my head or foot. Things became dark/werid that one night after I lost my dog & my grandfather was almost having a heart attack in the hospital she call like 10 times, for some reason my dad didn't want to pick it up & it was already late at night, long story short is she call me screaming how I'm Puerto Rican and I don't show it, what's with all the Italian ****, so much more she said but she just became like a witch. Remember this is all happening while my mom is on the phone with the doctor that my grandfather might not make it. Now my father is only half Puerto Rican but from my Puerto Rican side the whole family came from Spain and France, no one really grew up on the culture, my aunt is the only one that makes a big deal about it to the point she said to me "it's in your blood darling" Now 2 years later personal family issues were going on, my mom call a man from my grandmother church, when the man pray and ask who is doing whatever on the family, my aunts name pops up on the phone, she hadn't call in 2years. Now she's living near me and I think she's doing black magic on me

I have a mother and sister who have largely mistreated me since I was young. I have accepted the fact that they see me as the black sheep, even though the world does not. I am financially set, and I once sent information, to my mother,(that she was NOT aware of), which netted her over $5,000.00. She told other relatives that she knew it was me, but still never thanked me for it. All through my life I have given to them,( I paid for my step fathers funeral, as my mother had no money to pay, but he was good to me). Years later, I hear that they are having financial problems, had to move to a different city, which offers cheaper houses for rentals. Also, that just about each penny that they have is designated to some type of living expense. Currently, I have money and I live very well, I have the beautiful home, luxury car, designers clothes, etc., and not to mention a fantastic loving husband, who dotes on me. I know they are the user types, so the question is?? Now, would I be a door mat if I helped them in their time of financial need, or do I turn my back on them, as they are my family. I really always try to do the right thing as I do believe in karma, and I do try to practice things that the bible says. With this in mind, can you tell me your thoughts, as I am having a hard time, deciding which way to go, to give or NOT to give. Oh in case you are NOT aware, my mother is a Narcissist and my sister is the golden child, and of course I am the scapegoat.

My granny is in her mid 90s and is a retired banker. She and my GF ran their own accounting firm, so handling $ shouldn't be an issue. She sent me to the grocery store w/$20. My mom was getting discharged from the hospital & I was in a hurry, and my 9 yr old began harassing me via text to "hurry up". Instead of grabbing her $20 for her order to separate, I grabbed my card (habit) and paid for her groceries. My mom then told me she also needed some stuff from the store, since she had been hospitalized for a long time and was short on groceries. Since I paid for my GM's stuff out of my own pocket, I thought, I can use the cash and it will be even since the cost of both orders was about the same (She did have a few dollars left, which I brought back). When I got back to her house with her groceries (and mom in tow) she began demanding where her $20 was. My mom and I tried to explain the above situation to her (how I paid for her stuff out of my own $) and she owed ME $. She kept insisting "she should have $20 left, even after buying groceries". My mom and I tried to explain that you cant but stuff and come back with the same amount of $ in hand, that is asinine. She just kept saying I over spent, despite me paying for her groceries. My mom threw a $20 at her and said for her to shut up. I ended up having to pay my mom back for that $20, plus cover my mom's groceries because my mom said "this was my fault for grocery shopping for her". What is her problem? My 9 year old defended my mom since I was yelling at her what happened, then my grandma yelled, then my 9 year old got in my face, it became a 4 way screaming festival. My 9 year old defended my mom since I was yelling at her what happened, then my grandma yelled, then my 9 year old got in my face, it became a 4 way screaming festival. My grandma even said she felt the groceries should have been "free" My grandma even said she felt the groceries should have been "free" My mom understood the same thing, with bandages on her arm and kidney failure hospitalization 10 mins before and tried to help her mother understand, but then it turned into a war of words. *refuses to go into a home also, despite falling all the time. Her caretakers hardly show up.

Growing up my mom told me that her family rejects us but as a teenager I realized that this was not true. Even though she had a conflict with them it does not involve us kids being rejected. Yet I remember that pain of being rejected by the entire extended family as a kid and I don't want to ever feel that again so I'm constantly in fear of feeling that again. At the holidays each year this is especially bad because that time of year symbolizes who's in and who's out in the family. As kids we were out because of my mom's differences with her family. Sometimes she may have thought she was protecting us from the conflict but in reality it damaged me greatly. How can I get over this fear? It's not as severe as when my grandparents eere living because I especially wanted to be close with them and as I was. They meant a lot to me and were very good to me. But it's still a significant fear of mine. How do I cope and avoid never being rejected where was it again or at least an hours? My mom would tell us "they do not want a relationship with our family "when I was a kid so I believed her as I was a kid and did not know better.

I am a 53 year old man. I never wanted kids I did at first but as soon as my children aged to be 2 and 3 years old. I started hitting them and yelling and breaking their things. It was their fault for causing my bipolar. They are now 17 and 18 I have hated them since they were 2 and 3. My wife is always on my side. Why do my coworkers say I'' in the wrong when I'm not? Thanks -Peter

I get very bad negativity for years & it's only becoming worst, I worried for my health since I was sick when i was little, the worst negativity that I was going to become sick again & how I have to touch something or do something to make it not happen, how my mother is going to get sick & that after that what about my sister? so many different negatives I feel I'm crazy sometimes, then me & my mom were moving a barbie house one day & we both at the same time got the negativity to move the house to the left & I had to be in front or something was going to happen, me & my mom got the same thing. Now I'm getting negativity to harm my mom then my brother, I never got that before in all my years, I believe it isn't schizophrenia because I don't see or hear people voices that are not there, I don't get negativity & then the next day I'm fine, I have all the time it's just some days it's very light & other days it's heavy, i think someone is doing black magic on me, I had people do it to me when I was younger & I believe a family member did it on my family & now again on me. If it was schizophrenia it would be only me getting this negativity & not my mom, my mom is far from being a schizophrenia & she deals with negativity like me, is just my is getting worst, once me & my mom went to sleep, we got the same voices of like toys/robots then the same image of people in our house dress in all black from like the mid evil times. We jump up & got so scared. I'm depressed, feel anxiety

I have a really hard time in school and at home and my older cousin told me imma become a stoner like my family and a lot of my family is in jail or poor, I wanna have a good future and I don't Been a stoner or an alcoholic or work at McDonald's or be like my mom I'm just scared I won't go to college cause my mom uses my college money my parents put together when I was a baby, I'm always scared I won't have an house cause I won't get a good job so I try to do my best in school but I fail cause I get anxiety and Don't go but I try my hardest to do my work and my teacher gets on my *** about it and he annoys me Cause he tells me You need to be here everyday but sometimes my mom won't bring me and he doesn't see the whole story but he still gets mad

And I feel so worthless and she yells to my family about me and takes my phone and says I've been sending nudes and I have not and she tells people I'm a slut and tells her friends I yell at her and call her names when I done

I suppose it could be worse..they could be having children. right...should i say something?

Five years ago I sent my older estranged sister some really hateful text messages and I made a fake account of her on facebook and posted hateful things on there about her and her son and when she was staying with us I was really rude to her and she's still not over it. She still brings it up sometimes. She's still mad at me about it. When she's around me she'll give me a mean look or if I look at her she'll say something mean to me. Before I did that, our relationship wasn't the best. But she was always nice to me. Now she goes out of her way to be mean to me. I mean, I can understand why after what I did. I really wish I wouldn't have done that, but there's nothing I can do about it now. And the only reason I did that to her is because I know she doesn't really like me. She was being fake nice to me the whole time and now that I did that to her and made it obvious I don't like her, she shows her true colors. But it's over with. And I think that she should get over it. It was five freaking years ago. Gosh. My family just can't let stuff go and it's annoying.

So I m new here. I ve never posted a question but have looked at different threads etc. Anyway...I d love some feedback on this: Something that was given to me recently has left me confused and I m at a loss as I try to think through questions and answers. My grandfather died about 20 years ago. He and I were very close. He left me a piece of jewelry that was dear to him. And before he died he told me that he wanted me to have it. It was written in his will. But I was a preteen at the time he passed and it was never mentioned in our family again. Then, just last month, my aunt suddenly gave me the piece that my dear grandpa wanted me to have. She said "here, this is yours." No explanation for why she had kept it for the past 20+ years. My question is...why did she keep it all that time? Why not pass it on when I got married many years ago? Or after I had my children? I guess reasons probably don t have anything to do with me but more about the person who held onto it for so long. Just why...??? And, I don t know why I m troubled by it, but I am. Thoughts?

Hi I am a junior in high school and have no freedom whatsoever from my ***** of a father. He's the kind of person who let's his anger control him, example being once I woke him up and he decided the best way to deal with it was to throw a metal bin at me. His attitude never changes and doesn't even provide for the family, and has this ******* habit where he wants everything neat, if he sees a pencil on the floor he'll proceed to tell my siblings and I that he'll cram the pencil up our ears till it bleeds and he won't give a **** if he goes to jail. So any tips on dealing with these situations before I snap and bash his brains in?

I share a house with my divorced brother, we have our own apartments, his divorce was nasty, I helped him through it financially, emotionally, and processed lots of paperwork which took over a year to complete. Now 12 years later he wants to move some of his ex-wife's family into the house even though we agreed at the time of his divorce that they weren't allowed in the House. In other words, be reconciled with them, but I didn't, so now I am the bad guy who doesn't want them here and they are all best friends now! I am so disgusted I want to sell the house and move far away.

i'm 14 and today she just me to kil myself. she said that she wanted to push me in the shower and kill me.

My MIL and I never got along to begin with. Time and time we had a few disagreements and everytime she said we could let it go, she continuously brought it back up again. So I recently had a wedding shower and invited her to be nice and she went around hogging all the attention like a parasite showing people how she got her mother a dog as if she saved the world by doing this. So I laughed when she said that and said "she's gonna slap you" but she took it as ME wanting to slap her and it turned into this huge big mess. I just cut her off from my life including blocking her on Facebook, not answering her texts, etc. A few years ago when I first started to date her son, she got in a car accident and is now receiving a settlement for it. I am married to her son, which she agreed to give him a good amount of the settlement money should she get it. The only catch was that I apologize for disrespecting her. Honestly the only thing I ever did was give my honest opinion to her and that was when she asked for it. She has taken many things that I've said and manipulated it into something worse which leads to attacks from the rest of the family. My husband gets involved but it doesn't make a difference. We really need the money and she is leaving soon since her husband is army. She's a terrible person and I have done nothing wrong what so ever. Should i apologize? Take the money and run?

I told EVERY ONE at school that I was getting a PS4 an a Xbox One for my birthday so when I opened my present I was upset cause their was only one present an I figured it had to be one of them! OMG I opened it an it is a Game Fillip 88 in 1, it is just a stupid Japanese thing that is for retards or something! It costed $30! It has two controllers an a gun an a console, it doesn't even play discs all the games is like built it! There games form the 1980s so there like 50 years old! Stephen came over tonight an I had to tell him to leave an not let him in my room, I told him I was downloading updates on my Xbox One, but he is gonna want to come ovar an play games or talk on his headphones an stuff an I can't do any of that with this thing! Its a stupid piece of garbage! I thought it was a joke an that they would come out with my REAL consoles but this is really it! I wish I was dead! OMG everyone at skool is asking about my consoles an I have to keep making up lies about them, I can't tell anyone I got a Game Filip instead! I'll be the laughing stalk of skool! Hear is a link about it, I am at skool so I don't have the picts https://www.amazon.com/Game-Fillip-88-Plug-Play/dp/B002X9B5AA OMG it looks like soemthing for fagits! Yeah, I got both consoles I wanted form my birthday an I just don't know what to do with my PS3 cause I will prolly throw it in the garbage can can I have a PS4 an a Xbox One now there both at home updating an stuff so I haven't been able to get online an set them up yet an stuff I had to post that cause Mark Kerner was looking ovar my shoulder to see what I wrote. OMG this lie is gonna put me int he cemetery!

My sister is in the hospital having her baby. She said it really hurts she keeps crying and squeezing my hand. We've been here all evening. She's also really tired. How can I help her ?

I had eaten a lot at lunch at school today, so I was feeling a bit sick in the stomach. I came home, and my mom asked me if I wanted anything to eat. I told her no, I wasn't hungry. After maybe 5 minutes, she asked again, and I again replied VERY CLEARLY no, I was not hungry at all. I go upstairs to my room to start on homework, and 10 minutes later, she comes up with a plate of food. When I respectfully decline it, she got mad and ranted about how I don't appreciate her work and am ungrateful, etc. I don't know who's fault this was. Was it really expected of me to go into detail about my stomach before she cooked? I had already said no...

my mom ans sister fully supports him he hardly have any body hair now and home he is totally dressed in woman clothes in coming days they plan to go out dressed , they are talking like getting ears pierced , shopping . going to salon to get waxed and other beauty treatments i just dont know how to deal with it

i'm 12 i make bad choices sometimes my mom yells at me so bad and it hurt's. It really does, I'm still a kid i can't be the adult she wants me to be yet, And cause my brother is older and he knows better he gets treated so nice and i get treated like garbage i'm so depressed and close to even trying suicide, How can i cope with this or drop hints about what shes doing to me

My mother started working this job in 2012 with elderly patients and she started accusing us of calling her pateints and she thinks she's being watched 24/7. She thinks we've talked to her boss and cut her hours down she has blamed everyone from my brother to my dad to me. She thinks cameras are set in home but we're not doing anything please help you guys!!!!!!

i m 18 , and at 18 you considered legal so therefore my parents aren t fully responsible for me anymore as if they were when i was 17. i want to know is it wrong to stay the night at my boyfriends house because my mother is strongly negative about the situation and i can totally understand why but i feel like she doesn t trust me at all . my brother says it s because she doesn t want me to grow up and by me staying at my moms home she won t allow my boyfriend to stay the night over but his mom allows it. and i want to respect my moms wishes i just wish she trusted me , she doesn t trust me to even drive myself anywhere and going over my boyfriends house and staying the night seems so wrong to her , i m very mindful of pregnancy , stds and much more that comes with things that could go wrong if we were to have sex & i don t want to sneak behind her back but when she doesn t trust me to do anything that leads me into sneaking behind her back which is something that i don t care to do since i m a young adult and not a preteen . i just need advice on how to talk to her about this. please no negative comments, and do NOT say i want my way when i simply asked a question .

Okay so today was my birthday and i got a phone from my mom. the thing is it is a pretty crappy one (small old looking, bad quality) i was hoping for a nicer one.. but... should i tell her i dont want it? when i opened it she told me i could return it if i wanted to but i think she would rather me keep it.. and i am about to cry writing this because it makes me feel so bad.... please helpppppppp!!!!

I went through her history on her phone to see that she was reading killing stalking