Hello this is Donovan and I am having a serious dilemma. I am dating someone, a magnificent woman, and she wants to break up with me. Terrible! We have been together for 3 months, 4 months if you include the time we dated long distance before meeting face to face. We have something very very special going. We have great chemistry. Our relationship is brilliant. There is only one problem, or so she says, and it that is my tendency to hang up on her abruptly without saying "bye" and without saying "I love you too". But I do not enjoy long phone conversations for I am a busy busy man and prefer real contact. She is also upset that I do not say "I love you" very often. I say it when I mean it, isn't that enough? Unless we are having a tender moment after an outstanding romp, I do not feel the need to say it. She says she wants a man to be affectionate with her all the time. This is not the man I am. I am an exceptional man in all other facets of my life so I do not know what more she wants from me. She expects perfection but I think she is acting overly entitled. I buy her flowers. I take her to nice restaurants. I tell her she's beautiful even on days when she looks ugly. I don't mind when she leaves the house wearing flip flops and sweatpants and looking like a frumpy feminist. I put up with her hysterical tantrums due to her histrionic personality disorder. Etc etc etc. How can I make her appreciate me more and realize that I'm the best she's ever going to get?

My ex-husband was very abusive and treated me horrible. A nurse put his name on the birth certificate. She is nine years old now and has been told who her biological father is. My ex-husband has spent very little time with her and knows very little about her. Is there anyway to get him removed from the birth certificate?

How do you like them apples ? Judge tells your daddy to shove it....lol

with gas recently. This has been a huge improvement in his attitude towards me and my family, seeing as when he first met them he was very disapproving and rude (my husband is black and my daughter is biracial). How should I express my relief and happiness towards his improvement in views over the past 17 years?

My husband in his 20s is very forgetful he constantly looses and forgets things then blames me for half the stuff that goes missing. I am a OCD and I know where I put all my stuff and our stuff that we share but to be keeping track of his property is to much for me. He forgets his phone, wallet keys cigarettes lighters everything all day long. I made signs on the door to help him but he just cant remember. He doesnt seem to be retarded just dumb. I didnt know he was this way untill we got married bc we lived Long distance for most of our relationship but being with him leaves me with crushing responsibility if im not there to lock the doors he will leave them open which means anyone can rob our house when he leaves bc he looses the keys. When he forgets his phone once a week at work i have to bring him back bc he doesnt have a car and again that is up to me. Today I lost it and flipped out how do you get a forgetful man to stop forgetting everything? im sick of him loosing everything this is not normal and not my responsibility.

Me and my wife have been married for 2 months people tell us how horrible it was for us to be married and we shouldn't even be together. I try to ignore them. Also they think it's weird that two girls being married and are expecting twins. I don't get why anyone would think that's weird. Also they think it's wrong because of our age I'm 18 shes 24 shes 6 years older than me they say shes married to a minor. I thought age didn't matter but I guess for most people it does. Is it wrong to be gay ? Why do people judge us ?

There is a married coworker that I like, there is definitely chemistry between us, and no I don't feel wrong for doing this, I dont believe in religion and I don't think humans are suppose to be monogamous.

with your wives? Yes, It s important to spice things up, but do you get bored with her or are you ok with 20 plus year same woman? What s your experience? I always hear that men get bored fast if they have sex a lot. So how often should one have sex? Right now my bf and I 3 times a week. Does it make you seek sex outside of marriage for something different?

Salam My 16 year old niece and me are getting married I am 68 years old. She said that she wants to marry me and said I'm a good man, good Muslim, and very handsome. She a good Muslim too so is her family and my family. Please bless our marriage and pray that she does not feel pain when she loose her virginity to me.

My wife and I do not have a lot of people in the area to watch the kids. We go out by ourselves a handful of times through the year. However we can still go out with friends if 1 of us stays behind. Is that healthy? She probably goes out a little more than me, but I don't mind. I think I may need to make more of an effort to see my friends. However my kids are 2 and 4 and I feel bad not spending time with them. Thoughts?

During a time of grief after the death of a loved one I allowed a single male friend of mine to come into town and be my support system while my husband was here. It caused a rift between my husband and I because he felt he didn't have a place anymore and he moved out a month later. This male friend of mine was my support system because my husband works a lot however my husband felt I shut him out completely. Was this disrespectful to my marriage?

I'm a woman and newlywed at that. I extremely attracted to my coworker. I wouldn't cheat with just anyone... I'm not looking to cheat and I have and would turn down others. But this one man...is literally the hottest guy I've ever seen. I have no idea why I'm so magnetically attracted to him. He sits right next to me at work. I have an old fashioned crush on him, the likes of which I haven't had in years. I see him and my heart jumps. I wouldn't leave my husband for him, but I really want to have some NSA adult fun. I dream and fantasize about him constantly. The good news is he doesn't seem interested in me (he's younger and better looking haha), thank goodness. I am humbled by this experience because I know if it were up to me, I'd be an adulteress and it's made me less judgmental of others. Still, any way to make the horniness and love sick flutter go away?

I am married to a wonderful woman and I really long for a baby girl. My parents and even my wife says why not a boy? But I really like to have a daghter than a son. It is not that I will love my son less but I prefer to have a daughter Is that weird. My family thinks so

My partner thought I was out cheating on him for years when I never even dreamt of cheating on my husband but he for some god awful reason he thought I was sleeping with a guy friend from work. This make co-worker and I are strictly just co-workers, we have never gone out together or had lunch together we have never done anything for anyone in there right mind would even think we were a couple. One day we all got together for pictures well this male co-worker stood behind me and everyone had their hands on someone and When he placed his hand on my shoulder it kinda of creeped me out. When my husband saw th picture he question it as assumed I was doing something with him when I was not as he brings up him touching m on my shoulder as he grew more and more jealous I wanted to tell him that I did feel uncomfortable and grossed out but he never gave me the chance to do so, so I never corrected him. So from that one picture he thought I was cheating so he went out and started to multiplable affairs all because he assumed I was cheating first. Now let me fill you in, when I meet him he was on his 3 wife and he had cheated on all 3 of them and he cheated on his 3 wife with me. Long story to that one. I did not know he was married as he was breaking up with his girl friend when I meet him and after we for together is when I discovered he was Married and yet it's my fault on why he cheated on me: is he right and it js my fault?

My husband and me just married about 5 months ago. I know his house is in his name. He does not want to get life insurance, so I want him to get a Will prepared to say the house will be left to me when he passes. He agrees in the end but joking says we getting a divorce. I am not wrong for making him prepare a Will am I? I am not planning for a divorce, I just need to take care of things since he won't in CASE he dies, then I will be left out in the old I meant out in the cold

They were never officially girlfriend and boyfriend. This is someone he took around with people he knows for months but she never even invited him out with her friends. She basically wasted his time. I'm not sure if they ever had sex but I suspect so. When we got together she made a comment on his social media saying something endearing about him on a pic of us. It was just out of line and I didn't know who the heck she was at the time. I finally asked and got the story. He didn't know why she said that. Over the course of 2 years she will like his things still. I found a pic of her on our camera (it's his but I use it now) and he lied saying it was a family member. I confronted him. He's been engaged and even lived with a woman. He never is so uptight if I'd asked in the past about them (when I was getting to know him) but this girl sparks a totally different reaction. He is like defensive a bit. And the fact he hid who she was about the old photo on the camer is weird. (It's definitely from before us) He reluctantly unfollowed her on social media after her comment but whenever she crops up he's been difficult to talk to about it. She cropped up again last night and I mentioned it and he was fine, acted a little miffed when I said "she loves attention from the boys". Is he still hung up on her? I just have this gut feeling. I Know he'd never do anything but I hate the thought of him thinking she's anything at all :-/ I hate this feeling :-(

I'm 30, 6 feet tall and 170 pounds and my 26 year old 5'1 wife (don't know her weight) is stronger than me. Not only is she short but she has a small frame and unless you saw her naked or in her gym clothes/bikini you would not think that she is strong (she is muscular and has low bodyfat). She does pull ups and deadlifts, bench press and squats. She has been at it for four years (since she graduated college) and has built up strength with time. We got married straight out of college and back then she was skinny and not strong at all. Examples: She can carry me but I can't carry her, she can beat me at an arm wrestle, when we travel she can handle heavy luggage for long distances that I can barely lift. What's really embarrassing is that she told me last week that she doesn't feel protected by me and that she was reminded of it when we were recently in a rough neighborhood to see a baseball game. She told me that she could beat up me in a street fight (which is true). For a while it was funny for her and I that she was stronger than me but it is getting old. I want protect her but being a fitness instructor is her job and realistically I cannot invest the time in it that she can (she is always at the gym because she works there)

Me and my husband have been together for about a year. He was so affectionate. He'd french kiss me all the time, hug me from behind, stare into my eyes, cuddle with me all the time, want to watch movies together, and other stuff. In the past couple of months, I've noticed that he rarely kisses me on his own now. He rarely hugs me, He only wants to have sex with me once a week give or take vs. before was almost everyday. It's not stress, cuz he seems very happy. He doesn't let me touch him much anymore whether it's his face or his hands or his penis. Almost every time, he will make an excuse like he's hot or he's tired or he wants to watch TV or something. If he does let me touch him or if he touches me, it's only for a quick kiss or something. I can't hold his hands longer than 20 seconds without him letting go. There is so much more to say than Yahoo will allow on here, but overall he has been way less affectionate than he was a few months ago. He is only 30 and I'm 23 so it can't be age either. He now masturbates everyday from porn (which I understand Humans have needs and is natural), but doesn't want to have sex with me anymore. I use to turn him all almost everyday but now if I have sex with him, he can't *** and needs to porn to ***. Now even more recently he hasn't been able to *** with me. His excuse is, is that his sex drive is low. I already asked him about the reason for his record-breaking low affection for me is that he is "comfortable" with me now. Please help.

I had a sexual affair with a married woman for awhile and i suspected something was wrong cause she literaly dropped to her knees for me. And the sex was so good cause she wanted so bad ( at her place it was 5 min once a month from husband ). Then the idea was to divorce and be together. Recently we had a huge argument cause i was tired of waiting and she wouldnt make a move to divorce etc. And now she left me and dont wanna hear about me. My idea now is to send her husband sex vids i have of her, some she sent to me when we first met online and some i took while at my place cause the whole house is covered with cctv cameras. Should i do it ? I lost her for good so might as well leave her out on the street. I got his email and phone number etc. Of course i wont tell him in person, i said i'll send her porn vids via email plus a short note so he knows i know every little detail about their life etc. And i dont care about their kids either..let everyone know she is a slut. I sick and tired of living alone, at my age there are no options - finished - human garbage or leftovers or women that everyone prefered not to touch for sum reason. I was young and handsome and had it all; used to date 4 to 5 times a week and get laid. I do have a weakness for moms caused i never had one. Thats all. Ok thanks to all the guys..90% i wont do it..i cant stand destroying a family.

My male friend is 37. He s married. He knew her 15yrs before they were married. They been married 3yrs. He said it was convenient when her met her. They graduated around the same time.They have children together. He s claim he doesn t know the word no and lost his parents as a child. He also has another daughter with someone else before his married. Daughters 15yrs. He cheats on his wife so much it s sad. He has numerous affairs. She travels,makes great money and his money decent as well. He confessed he has a baby on the way with one of the women he has cheated on his wife with. The woman who has the baby on the way has many lovers as well too. He s in love with his lover. He loves his wife and would die for her but not his lover. He hasn t told his wife about the baby yet. He said while on vacation in Florida with the children. The lover text his wife phone but he happened to have her phone and pretended to be her. The reason the lover has his wife number is because they would have 3sums. He knew the lover5yrs before he brought her to their home. The wife kept catching him with her and decided to have 3sums. Meanwhile he s talking to other woman and has feelings for another woman he just met. He said he doesn t want to hurt her his wife but he s not happy. This situation is so cruel and heartbreaking. What should I tell him?