We got married in ny and separated shortly after and I moved to nj with my boyfriend I want to get my divorce it's been 8 years since we separated. Is it possible to get a divorce when living in 2 different states and how would I go about this.

but you were of the age of consent anywhere normal, a years past it in Sweden, you came across as much more mature than average teen, maybe 22-25, and you are my eternal Love, who the fuc'k do these morons think they're fooling with their phoney outrage? I had sexual feelings for you when you were 14, I couldn't help it you were already sexually active and like a little boss. but it be unfair to sleep with a 14 year old, science is clear on that, but a 16 year old is perfectly capable of sexual consent... What a bunch of hypocrites that hate everything female... And your maturity was not an act, when a little boy grows up with type one and epilepsy he will mature faster than a kid who ( while you have already learend how to keep yourslef alive by chaningg your pump) is sucking on his thumb at seven

Two years ago I was going through my mom s phone and then I went to her messages (I know I was invading her privacy but whatever) and she had a text with a man saying to her that they wanted to meet up and **** like that. I copied the guy s number and send it to my phone. Then I texted him. Then he told my mom. My mom was mad at me but she didn t talk about the subject (ps, she was acting like everything was my fault) and later she told me not to tell my dad. That got me really suspicious. Today I was downloading some pics of our fam vaction trip and I found out that my mom had a screenshot of a guy telling her that she was super hot and she was straight out of a magazine. Then she answer him with a "YESS!!!" instead of a thank you or idk something else. I went through her phone and i found a chat but i couldn t finish it because she needed her phone. Is my mom cheating? The last chat I'm talking about a guy texted her if she was alredy leaving for our family vacation. The funny thing my mom talks crap about this guy (he is her coworker) and also she has all her coworkers contacts saved in her phone except for this one guy. This guy has a family and his daughter is my classmate. I feel really sad about this situation. What should i do?

Married for over 20 years. Divorced two years ago. Just received Position Form from Catholic Church which my ex submitted to request annulment of the marriage.

My husband and I have been together for 14 years. We have 4 children. I decided I wanted a divorce and it will be done monday. I have a place to live and a job lined out but even after the divorce he thinks I should stay. He thinks it will help the children but I think it will just confuse them and hurt them more. I'm just so confused on what to do.

My husband and I are having rather spirited discussion about this. He pays child support for his daughter who lives in Germany and, for whatever, reason bright this up. Apparently they German gov t will do this.

My 7 year old son accidentally pushed a ladder downstairs and it nearly hit my husband. He is a great step dad and amazing parent to my son (from my previous marriage). My husband didn't react however when I asked him to come read my son stories before bed he refused and said he was tired of my son getting away with things and there being no consequences. As a result I yelled at my husband and he left. He's been staying at a hotel ever since. Did I handle this eh wrong way? It was an accident. Why is he so mean to my son who meant nothing by that?

I'm being married for 16 years, my wife is extremely bossy, she screams at me all the time, she insults me, I can't take it anymore. But I have three children that I love with all my heart, I feel awful breaking the family apart. We did counseling, she call herself a "christian" and she goes to church every Sunday. She can't change, and I'm tired of her. What would you do?

Hi question! If the guy you're dating his two year old sons mother lives in a different state and she still wanted him like to be with him even send him pictures of her in a bikini occasionally And the little baby's birthday was coming up in the summer and he was going to fly there for the birthday would that bother you or not? And what would you say to him if it did bother you?

Salam (: I got a question about marriage. Do my parents choose a Muslim man for me and I have the right to say yes or no? Or Could I find a Muslim man I think my type and then show him to my parents, and my parents say yes or no if we could marry?

Because ''I'm working too much''. Get that. Back in the day. When we were dating, she said she will leave because I didn't have a job and was not providing for our daughter. So I took her advise. I worked hard. Now, our children have everything they need. What else does she want??

I caught my wife texting another man she slept with May years ago. Actually she had an affair with him in her previous marriage. It was over 2 months of non stop texting. She advised me she was trying to help him out with his custody battle. At 1am in the morning? Ya ok. When I confronted her she called me a physco and tried to blame me for cheating. As well she erased every text. After confronting her she called this guy on someone else's phone to end it. Any one else ever go through this?

We are expecting a baby in August. My wife wants to buy a detached house in the suburbs, and I want to buy a townhouse in the city. I work in the city, and if we lived in the suburbs, SO much time would get wasted. It would take an hour EACH WAY to get to work. Now it takes 15 minutes. That's 7.5 hours PER WEEK. We would also have to take care of the house and yard, which would take a few extra hours each week. Not to mention that we'd need a car for every trip. It's safe to assume that we would waste 10-12 hours each week. That's A LOT. Not to mention the money we'd be spending on gas and higher car insurance (I don't drive to work right now), and higher costs to maintain a larger house. My wife also wants me to give up my gym membership, which is stupid, because I want to stay in shape. She says it'll take up too much time, but she wasn't concerned about time when she was suggesting living in suburbia. Now, the suburbs aren't necessarily any safer than the good parts of the city, nor are the schools any better. The townhouse I like would have enough space, and even a small yard. It's also near a park, and when our baby gets older, he/she would be able to walk to school and wouldn't rely on us to be driven everywhere.

Is sex rougher and making love is more passionate and gentle?

I am dating a Muslim man and he has started to bring up marriage. I like the idea but we do have our differences due to our religious beliefs. He hates nail polish and doesn't like when I wear it, I've told him it's no big deal and will continue to do so. Do you think there is too much of a difference for it to work?

My wife's mother Jean, a woman I admire and adore, told me she wants to start dating again and hopefully remarry. However she is afraid that her daughter, my wife, will not approve of her replacing her dad. I told her if male companionship is what will make her happy she should go for it. Her daughter will get over it if she has a problem and Jean WILL NOT be replacing my wife's dad. Jean wants me to discuss this idea with my wife and see if she is OK with Jean remarrying. I told her I would do it but can someone PLEASE give me some idea on how I should approach this subject with my wife. I really don't want to screw this up and cause a problem for Jean or my wife. Should I just straight out ask her what she would think if her mom remarries? Is that too blunt of an approach? Women and daughters Please give me your advice.

It's not like I abused her or hurt her or cheat on her or anything like that there are worse husbands out there all I did was lie about my age women lie to men all the time too don't they like about their number of sexual partners I just wanted her to like me I just wanted her to give me a chance and not think I was old and I looked young so I fudged my age down a bit I just worked so hard in life to get to where I am today it's not fair why should be the one to finish last and come in last place with women my own age who's had many guys before me I just wanted to come in 1st place and be the 1st and one and only so I lied to get what I want I was 30 pretending to be 22 my wife believed me at the time she was 17 we dated for a year got married after her high school graduation and I was her first and only now I'm 32 she's 19 we've been married for a year and she's upset and mad at me she found out I was lieing about my age she found out I used a fake passport for our marriage certificate that had my birth year as 1992 instead of 1984. She thought it was a 5 year age gap but It's just a 14 year age gap there are bigger age gaps out there but honestly how many high school senior girls would date you knowing your 30 none so I lied I deserve happiness too didn't I deserved love too I don't deserve to finish last and be in last place with women in my own age bracket I didn't deserve to be the guy women settle for so I lied

Who are they saving themselves for?

I am asking legally and morally. She still expects him to pay child support obviously has to work.

I've been dating a guy for a month who has been divorced for two years and it irritates me and makes me feel not so secure in our relationship when he keeps referring to his ex-wife as "my wife." He says him and his wife were married for 14 years. And I totally understand that there will still be some lingering feelings there and it only been two years but I think it's starting to become a bit too much. Ever since we've started dating he always finds a way to bring her up in conversation. For example, we were watching this porno together and he made a statement saying, "Oh me and my wife use to do it in that position." And still till this day he talks about what they went through and all their memories together. Yesterday he showed me this jacket and said "My wife" got me this when we were together. I talked to him about two times already and he said okay I understand and he even started calling me his wife too. But he still refers to her as "my wife." I feel like I'm his second best/second wife. What should I do?

I found out I was pregnant after me and my x broke up. Now the reason we broke up was because he felt like I haven t been myself. I haven t been wanting to go anywhere, Havent been helping around the house and I ve been depressed.the is truth I am dealing with some grieving over a loss. He knows but feels like I should bounce back quickly, I need some time to come around. now ive been calling him to tell to him about the baby. Last night he called twice but I was asleep. I tried to return his call and he never answered. I sent him text pictures of the test so if he didn't believe me he could see with his own eyes. this morring he text that he loves me. but no call or answers to my calls. I admit he was working tell 11pm last night in another town so I don't know if he just cant answer due to the job, or if he ignoring me, I love him and im willing to work through or issues but I fell like at some point he can call me to put me at ease. Im not sure if he has even gotten my text. Just confused at this time, some one please give me advise?

Men like sexy hottie sadly i am not. Women like men with more resource, luckily i am new one to rich japanese, chinese oldie in honolulu..and my husband is just a poor mainland whitie. My hubby said his mind is always with me. Strippers are just a adult amusement.. So i just use rich but lonely old man to make buy gucci bags for me while my mind is still toward my husband.. Is it wrong???

Me and my ex have a Son. He is 14 years old (almost 15). he was born in London. I am British. She is Swedish. We were never Married. We have been separated for many years and are friends and even holiday and travel together (in separate rooms). We have a Joint Parental Responsibility Court Order (from the UK Family Court). We all live in Bangkok, Thailand (for over 10 years) where family law heavily favours the mother until the child is 20. Until recently we shared our son perfectly, But since her recent boyfriend, my son prefers to stay with me more often. If this was the UK he can do this as he is able to make up his own mind (and is almost 15 years old). So, is my court responsibility document still worth anything abroad ? Are my sons wishes worth anything ?

I got married back in 2014. But before my wife I was in a relationship for 3 years and it was terrible. It tore me apart as a person. After that ended, only 2 months went by before I started dating my wife. Eight months after that I married her. Since we have been together, we have fought a lot. A lot about major stuff and even more about the tiniest things. This has been going on throughout our entire relationship. At first I tolerated it. But now its becoming unbearable. June of 2016 we decided to move to China. My wife had been in America for 7 years already. She missed home very much and I completely understood. So we made the move. I wanted my wife to happier, I thought it would help out our marriage and we're going to start up a business. Its been 8 months and we are still fighting. Im always to be blamed. I have my fair share of causing some arguments. I'm not perfect. But no matter what I do or say, she will get pissed off and freak out. Also since we have lived here, I have gotten to see how she was before I knew her. She constantly fights with her dad, she is lazy, doesnt help out with the house chores at all. The exact same stuff when we were back in America. Idk what to do. I feel not like myself anymore. I dont want to hurt her but I am so unhappy. She wants to start a family and I keep telling her that right now isnt the right time. But honestly I just dont want to start one with her. I feel so guilty. This isnt the life i want. I want to enjoy single life.