I want her to marry someone white, I don t trust black people to stick around and be good parents.

My fiancé and I are getting married in June. We are paying for well over half of the wedding with my mom and step dad kicking in some and my father and his wife paying for our venue. I asked all parents for guest list and no one went over board except for my stepmother! She invited 75 people of which I only know 14 of them. She has been married to my dad since I was 12-13 I am 26 now but I have never met her family outside of her children and their significant others and children, she hasn't had a role in raising me so we aren't that close. We planned on having no more than 120 attend the wedding. I don't want to be rude but she has way exceeded her limit especially considering I don't know these people! How do I ask her to trim down her list?

I live in the Massachusetts area. At first I was going to do Foxwoods( Casin) but one of the grooms men is 20. Do what are some good places to go? He said he wants to go away not stay in Massachusetts. Any ideas??

My ex-husband and I have been divorced for over 20 years. We married pretty young, and we divorced when our daughter was a year old. We went on to marry other people, and we are both in very happy marriages now. Our daughter is 24, and she's marrying her high school sweetheart in May of this year. My ex-husband, and I are very pleased with the young man that she's marrying. My husband and I are helping our daughter pay for her wedding. My ex-husband can't help financially, because he has really young children. But my ex-husband is helping to put things together like the dance floor, the arch, and a few other projects. This is fine with us. The problem is my ex-husband's wife. My daughter doesn't get along with her stepmother for a myriad of reasons. My daughter has chosen to exclude her from any wedding related activities, because she doesn't want to deal with her. Now the ex's wife is blaming me for her not being included in trying on dresses, or any bridal related activities. It was my daughter's choice, not mine. I'm tired of dealing with her jealousy. My daughter has made her decisions, and I wish the ex's wife would stop with her temper tantrums and tirades. It's not the end of the world. How would you deal with her?

I was thinking about reacting with comedy, but I don't know the guy she's engaged to so is this going too far.... befriend the guy she's engaged to. find his announcement on fb and comment with, "Bump."

My brother's stepdaughter is getting married. I was not invited to the announcement party (hmm...), but I am invited to the bridal shower and my husband and I will go to the wedding. We feel this is very family-obligated, because we do not really care for the bride or know her fiancée. She never says hello to me or my husband and has only talked to me once. I don't believe her fiancée has ever said hello us since they even started dating several years ago. We see the "happy couple: several times a year for family functions and we only hear the stepdaughter talk about one thing -the "dream wedding" her fiancee is giving her at every family event! We would prefer not go even go, but it is family and would not want to insult my brother and his wife. So..since I don't really know her (or care for her), I am going with a $25 gift from their registry. For the wedding, I guess a cash gift is appropriate, but I am having a really hard time deciding on an amount. Any suggestions?

Its at 5pm an hour outside of LA, and I just can't make that in rush hour traffic or take time off work. I'm not the only one too, several people already declared this. The silly thing is everything they plan is always at 5 lol. Thats impossible to make in LA during the week. I don't understand why they don't get this...

Ok so I m trying to sell the engagement ring I bought for my fiance (engagement didn t work) in ebay but idk when a person ask me if the diamond is gia/Egl certified? And do I need to make a report number so ppl can know the details about my ring? Thanks.

i want to be a wedding planner. I want t o be able to accommodate over the top brides, and simple is key brides. I love the way i created my dream wedding and i really hope to hear your feedback on what you think was good about it. I am 17 years old and I really enjoy creating and putting together events. I especially like planning dream weddings because its my hobby and it makes me feel good inside to come up with such good ideas. Give me your feedback please. and oh THE LINKS ONLY WORK ON GOOGLE CHROME!! this is my wedding ideas for my dream wedding: http://prezi.com/j_plwwh1p25m/?utm_campaign=share&utm_medium=copy&rc=ex0share this one is my friends simple wedding. city scene wedding theme:( iforgot to add in the flower girl outfit) after looking over the presentation i realized something. Theres too much red butt thats what my friend wanted. http://prezi.com/4xvy5z_tgdje/?utm_campaign=share&utm_medium=copy please help me with good comments and ideas to help make it better.

I ve had this friend for years and although we ve had our ups and downs, when my fiancé asked me to marry him I asked her to be bridesmaid straight away in excitement. Since then when I ve tried to speak to her about my planning she makes its obvious she s bored and is actually really rude and abrasive towards me. I haven t reacted as I don t want to argue with her but the way she s been talking to me being sarcastic and belittling is really upsetting me. There s no point in trying to talk to her about it as she won t try to see it from my point of view. How am I supposed to tell her I no longer want her to be part of our wedding without upsetting her or causing arguements? Or do I just get over it and let her be bridesmaid??

So here's the deal. I'm the second youngest of 4. I have two older sisters and a younger brother. Our parents divorced when we were kids, both remarried when I was in my early teens. Stepmom has 3 sons and a stepdaughter she considers her own, but who never came to hers and my dads home when we were still living there. Both her parents are alive. And she has two siblings with whom she's very close and always insists on them being included in things. Stepdad has 2 daughters and 2 sons. He didn't really see his daughters when they were kids and only saw his sons once a month. He has a mom who is still alive and very much around him and my mom quite a bit. When my fiance and I first got engaged, my (bio) parents started dropping hints about inviting all family members, both bio and step. Then my dad told me it would only be fair since I'm close to my extended bio family and it would look rude not to invite the steps of the same relationship. My mom always stops by unnanounced now with her MIL and tries to get me to host a family dinner with my stepsiblings and stepgrandmother included. My finace and I have agreed that we'll each be in charge of who to invite from our individual families. I think that is why my mom and dad are being like this. But I'm just not comfortable or happy with inviting them all. I don't have a relationship with these people, even when I was a kid there was no relationship. I also don't want a huge thing made out of it when it comes to pictures. I can see it now. My mom and stepmom demanding that the photographer take more family photos with their side (step and bio) and then pushing for more and more. I can tell them not to do it, I can try to take both sides aside and beg them not to make it a competition, but nothing I or my siblings say has ever helped. The last disaster was my brothers graduation and he's told me more than once that he wished it had been just been our bio relatives, especially when it came to the siblings. There are no steps I actually want to invite. But my parents seem to believe my siblings and stepsiblings are the same and that my grandparents and stepgrandparents are the same. My parents are not paying for anything. Sorry, I should have pointed that out earlier.

He refuses to do beyond the legal minimum. He bought me a gold wedding - only because I insisted. ring with no diamond, because he thinks that diamonds are worthless. He refuses to wear a ring himself and he doesn't say why There'll be no ceremony, we'll just invite our close family over for dinner I'm pissed off? (We're gay) What should I do?