I am mostly attracted to latin men/guys. When I get married I want it to be to an amazing latin man! since my toddlerhood, my parents have taken me across the world including mexico etc. And the people there for some reason were fascinated my me and were literally playing with me and buying me presents..And I loved them back, i have latinos in my family and I wish I were one of them.is this normal, I cant help it I adore latin people. And they are my type, does anyone feel the same way?

I was proposed to multiple times by one man and then I proposed to an 80 year old man (in front of his wife) as a joke (no beans :-P)

My husband and I had a little spat earlier, and before work, I heard him downstairs cussing at what I thought was me. I tried to talk to him before he left, but he stormed off. I messaged him, "Were you just cussing me out? Nice." SO he gets home angry, informs me that his belt broke while he was putting it on - which is why he as swearing - and thanked me for the vote on confidence. I said, "You're welcome," and now he's not talking to me for some reason... Vote OF confidence Damn it. I think you might be right, HNipplez. HNizzles... sorry about that. I'm all typos tonight.

I was trying to meet my hubby for lunch today he sent me a message that he was ready to take lunch. So I made my way to hubby's office which usually takes 30 mins. Coworker made an excuse to stay at office longer,other than leave on lunch himself. when I drove up coworker was still there and I thought how strange. So when I saw my husband I asked why guy was still there, husband claimed it was odd also and his workstation was shutdown long before I got there. Hubby was untuned with it also and gets the feeling something is weird. This coworker has called my husbands phone during non work hours to be nosey to see what we're up to and has given me the creeps in his prescense so I avoid him at all costs. Husband is finally seeing what I have been for years what does everyone perceive from this situation?

My husband s grandmother is ill. (We are still married but in the process of divorce) Doctors say she has about 3 to 5 days to live. So, my ex will be going to see her. During that time I m working an event out of town. My ex asks if I can get days off so I can go see her. The week that I m working ill be making quite a bit of money. Should I go? I feel because we aren t together anymore that it ll be weird if i go and I have my 2 daughters to support. I wasn t too close to her but she is the sweetest lady and his family has always been good to me.

So Not sure what to do... I am divorced and have an 8 yr old daughter from that marriage. Got remarried and now also have a 4 yr old. My daughter is gone every other weekend to be with her dad, so not sure who needs to get the bigger bedroom. The 4 yr old who is here everyday or my daughter because she is older. Just don't want it being said one day, WHY does she get the BIGGER room when she isn't here everyday... My husband thinks she is the oldest so she deserves it. But I disagree.

My wife is talking about becoming a surrogates mother for her sister. My wife sister cannot have any more children and my wife volunteers to have her boyfriend sperm in her so she can have her sisters kid. Should I let it happen

It was a weekend party with old friends who I studied college with them. Most of them were single while I just married for less than year. my husband wasnt with me in party. we danced drunk and every things so what happened that on guy I used to have a crush on him, so he grabbed my hand and let me sat on his lap thats not all, by the end I found some picture that took while I was sitting on his lap! so I was not full ware by what happened Should I discuss that with my husband and let him now? or keep it secret and try to remove those friends from my social media? please help me

My son is six years old and lately he's been refusing to go to bed. Last night he said he had a belly ache but I don't think he did because he seemed ok after I gave in and allowed him to watch tv downstairs with my husband and I. My husband was upset because I allowed my son to stay up and interrupt what my husband was watching on tv so my son could watch his tv show for a bit and it was past his bedtime however when I tried to get my son to go to bed he started screaming and I was afraid he's wake my daughter so I gave in. My husband said I handled this wrong.....did I?

Let s say there s a married man his 40s who s around a single woman in her 20s. They ve never kissed or been sexually involved. However, he sometimes says sexual things to her and always tells her he s attracted to her. Now there started being some level of [fully clothed] physical contact--him purposely brushing against her when walking by, one time holding both her hands in his to "warm her" when she was cold, him running his hand down her side once, and rubbing against her. Also, he changed into short sleeves in front of her, and when he was shirtless he took her hand and placed it on his chest. Another time he walked up behind her, put his hands on her hips, pulled her back against him, and just held her there. Is this cheating?

What will people do, if their husband is having an argument with them and decide to get his parents involved to solve the arguments ? (For example, complain about his wife in front of his parent )

I work for a rather exclusive firm in Maine and today I had a meeting with a woman who was recently widowed due to a horrific car accident. In addition to this woman, her husband was also survived by a three-year old son. The woman brought the child into the office today for our meeting. To say the child was out of control wouldn't even begin to cover it, and the mother ignored the child for the duration of the meeting. And I mean literally IGNORED (as I will get into further shortly). The woman began by holding the boy on her lap, but soon he was screaming and stiffening himself to be let down. At which time he began running around the office and yelling, opening filing cabinet drawers and pulling out papers, opening and closing my office door and finally knocking my coffee mug off the desk. The mother's response? "Ignore him. If he thinks you're giving him attention for misbehaving, he gets worse." I looked at the woman in complete disbelief and wanted to say "he gets WORSE!?" Finally he opened the office door and ran out into the corridor. After four or five minutes, the woman got up and went out looking for him. He was hiding behind the door of the adjacent office defecating in his pants. She brought him back to my office (stench and all) and proceeded with the meeting as if nothing had happened. My office smelled of this boy's bowel movement for the rest of the afternoon. So many things I wanted to say to the woman, i.e. "can you come back when you have.. a babysitter?" or "ma'am, would you please control your son?" or "if that were my boy, I would beat his behind until he couldn't sit down for a week." But that's not going to fly in today's world, so how can I address something like this without coming off looking rude or hateful? There's a fine line to walk these days.

Me and my husband have been together for 8 years. We have 3 kids. We used to be so happy together and had dates nights every week. My husband seems so irritated anymore and doesnt listen to me when i talk. Pretends he does but he doesnt. He doesnt tell hold me or cuddle or flirt or even ask me to spend time with him. I feel like im literally begging for his attention. He works from home and he doesnt leave for long when hes out. But last night i hit rock bottom because he has time to play sport games online 24\7 he is very aware of how i feel and he still sits there playing games online. I told him im done trying and everything and he said all i do is repeat myself. I cant believe how cold he is to me anymore and he never tries to say hes sorry or make things up. He says he loves me and would never cheat or hurt me but how can he say these when he hurts me over and over again. He doesnt seem to care at all!!! Why does he keep doing this? If he doesn5 love me then why wont he tell me?

In this amazing marriage how can 2 people love each other when there s no trust... Anyways I ve been married a year ago.. So my thoughts are when she comes from work the first day of work. and of course my question was (so honey how much they will pay you at work? How did it go at work? She gets mad that I asked a simple question as normal marriage I guess. To make sure we can pay the rent monthly:: It s for me a way that she will help for both like I will also for both of us right?? Than I ask how was your day? I missed you a lot my love. This is how I m! She s way different than I in way that she never asked how much I get payed. Come on people you need to know how much you both are getting payed for you guys know the minimum bills you guys pay off every month. Give me an advice. Cause love is not by seen so action means a lot with sharing (love, money, and of course trust) also now we haven t spoked for 4 days, and I had to call her today so we can fix it and continue this relationship. Does only shows interest (my wife) I care so much about her that we went to the hospital for her arm, and quest what she said! ARE YOU GONA HELP me pay the bill? WTF is that question!>>> this another problems we had, over the year of marriage we been fighting and arguing for some stuff s***. Anyways this arguments includes my parents cause I mostly tell them everything that happened a in between us two. CAN I HAVE A GOOD ADVICE.. My parents know everything and do not want to see her.

Well, my husband has anger management issues and he was going off on me about something then he punched me. I fell and he just kept yelling at me. I started bleeding and he just froze but then went and got some bandages and apologized almost tearfully afterwards and kept begging me not to leave him. He even bought me gifts and brings me flowers almost every day just to say sorry. Is this a red flag? Should I be concerned? What do I do? Yes, this is a troll. I copied/pasted it. Answer at your own discretion.

Ladies what's something your husband got you for your first year of marriage? Our anniversary is coming up soon and my husband is very frustrated because I can't think of anything I want him to get me.

I told him we need to start cooking more because we are slowly going in debt somehow. I think it's because of all the fast food he buys. He makes a lot of money about 90,000 a year yet he is constantly talking about he's broke because we live in a large house, have luxury cars, the kids are in private school etc. I think not eating out at ALL will help us tremendously. He goes to chikfila and Burger King everyday for the kids, or either he buys them a large box of pizza from Papa Johns. He probably spends $20 a day on food that's only going to last a couple of minutes. However, buying 25$ in groceries that will last a while is a problem for him. I would buy the groceries myself but I make much less than him, even though I work more hours. I just give him a list and then he throws a fit when he sees how much the base cost is. For example, I was trying to cook chicken, spaghetti and vegetables the other day and he told me " he's not getting the ingredients if it cost more than $20"

First off, if I knew she was married, I would've never responded to her flirting. She told me she was single, and wanted to spend more time with me. She acted shy and a little nervous, and would often smile around me and steal glances. She also would occasionally act more bold and give off attention getting body language and intense eye contact, and would get jealous of other women. Turns out she's married and she lied. A lot of people were sure she was interested and attracted, so it's not like I was just being a dumb guy and pulling this stuff out of thin air. I asked for her number and she rejected me, which left me really confused. Her friend told me "she's not really single, she's married". Why would she act like that and lie about being single, just to reject me? Because I'd assume a girl who wasn't truthful about being married is trying to cheat (and no, I'm not one to go for taken women, I'm just wondering why she acted like that).

Last night somebody got into her vehicle cause for some reason she always keeps the damn thing unlocked, stole a handful of pocket change she keeps in there. Now, she wants to leave an old bank envelope with a message calling the thief desperate with five bucks inside it and sees no issue with this.

I have very strong morals, beliefs, ethics, feelings, and ideas about how the world should work. The problem is, my husband believes I do not have these things grounded in reality, just because they're based on my analysis of a situation through the lens of my upbringing, how I was taught people should behave by my mother, father, grandparents, church, and peers. I no longer feel the need to include others in the decision making process; I can decide now for myself what is best. Admittedly, I did grow up unprivileged compared to my classmates and had domineering parents who told me to do as I was told "or else," but now I do know how to act and decide things because of that. My husband is nothing like me. He has NO preconceived morals, beliefs, ethics, feelings, or ideas. He completely flies by the seat of his pants and treats every situation like it existed in a vacuum. After he gets a resolution in mind, he starts probing by asking questions about it to all parties involved like he really cares about our opinions even though he doesn't. He was a privileged child compared to his classmates but he was bullied (probably what drew him to me - trying to earn the love he never had as a child from his peers). He had mostly loving parents who treated him with "respect". Although he got fired, he thinks he used to be a renowned manager and he THINKS he's a team player even though he's not. How can these two people compromise if they can't agree? John S (below) writes exactly like my husband believes I think of him. I can't believe my husband thinks so poorly of me just because I am a strong woman. He thinks that me being strong means I want him to be a weak man, which is completely untrue. It makes me want to cry that he feels that way, but I can't, because I know my tears make him feel guilty.

My issue is with my wife being an adult. When it comes to adult life, if I don't do it, it doesn't get done. Or I have to tell her to do it, because it seems like she can't make decisions on her own. I have to pay the bills online or they won't get paid. I have to do the grocery shopping because... Idk she doesn't know how? And if I don't cook dinner myself, she won't do it. She will literally wait till like 8pm and make our daughter a sandwich and call it done. She asked me the other day to pick food up on the way home, I was over an hour away and in rush hour traffic. I told her I was a ways away and that she should just go get something since she was at home already. She responded saying she didn't know what to get. Let me say that for the most part our love life is great, we do love each other, and she does well with taking care of our daughter. But being a self sufficient adult seems to disconnect somewhere. Any thoughts?

I dont feel like my husband has any self control or filter. He will blow up at me and the kids or just be all around crabby if hes tired and hasn't got 9 hours of beauty rest, if hes sick its 10 times worse. He'll just lay around and sleep all day and feel sorry for himself. Why is he such a weak person? How do I deal with his childish behavior?

Isn't the point of marriage two independent people meant for each other join together for the rest of life. If I've been with more than my partner I don't really feel like they are the only one I've ever loved or cared about. I don't really feel like my marriage will be holy if it's meant to be about pure and love while obviously neither of us are what is the point?

My wife has very strong morals, beliefs, ethics, feelings, and ideas about how the world "SHOULD" work. By my observation, she does NOT have these things grounded in reality but instead based on her careful analysis of a situation through the lens of her upbringing and how she was taught people "SHOULD" behave by her mother, her father, her grandparents, her church, and her peers. No one is included in the decision making process; she decides "what is best". My wife grew up unprivileged compared to her classmates and had domineering parents who told her to "do as she was told" because "or else". She has no experience being a team player and prefers to work alone. I am nothing like my wife. I don't have preconceived morals, beliefs, ethics, feelings, or ideas. I take every situation without bias and I think about how that situation should be resolved as if it existed in a vacuum. After I have a resolution in mind I start probing for interferences by asking questions about it to all parties involved. Once we have a solution in mind, it is open for discussion still and I try to get all parties involved to be a part of this decision making process. I was a privileged child compared to my classmates but I was bullied (probably what drew me to my wife. Trying to earn the love I never had as a child from my peers). I had mostly loving parents who treated me with "respect". I used to be a renown manager; I *am* a team player. How can these two people compromise if they can't agree?

My husband and I have been married for almost a year. Within the last 6 months, we have been having issues in our marriage. When we first got together, I told him porn was okay when we were apart. I know that masturbating is normal, and when I'm not around I don't care if he satisfies himself. That's not the problem. Starting about 6 months ago when we moved in our first house together, along with less sex, I noticed he was going to the bathroom for extended periods of time, 3-4 times a day. He always said he had to poop. I didn't think much of it, until I walked in on him one day, jerking it to porn on his phone. I was really offended, because I was there, waiting and ready. I would put a movie on TV or something, and he always had to "go poop" beforehand. I'd be left waiting 25 minutes, and then when we did cuddle, he had little/no interest in sex after. This happened a couple times throughout the day. Once I found out what he was doing, I was very hurt. I felt like he preferred masturbation over sex with me. I told him that it hurt me and made me feel unwanted, and I asked him to take a break from the porn completely for a while so we could work on our sex life. I asked him if it was something that I am doing wrong, or something that he wants me to do that I'm not doing. He said no. Don't get me wrong, I have a high sex drive. I rarely turn down sex. I want it every day, sometimes 2-3 times. I thought we were doing a little better for a couple months, until I saw porn he'd left on his phone. Turned out he still did it, he just got sneakier about it. He would wait until the second I left, or wait until I fell asleep (without bothering to touch me, I should mention). I didn't handle it as well the second time, especially since he had been lying to me about it. I got upset and yelled at him out of hurt and betrayal. I was wrong for it and apologized. I then told him that I can't handle the porn anymore because it is interfering with our sex life. I told him to please come to me if he is horny, I will be receptive. I want sex. It got better for a while. Or so I thought. We are having sex more. But our sex feels mechanical and passionless. When it comes down to it, he usually just wants to rush or skip foreplay altogether and get down to it with little/no kissing or other touching. I can't help but to wonder if he's thinking about the women he's watched while we're having sex. Recently he has asked for more things that he's seen in porn. I tried anal with him, which was my first time, because he really wanted to. I continue to do it even though it's far from my favorite. Then he's asking me to do more increasingly uncomfortable things. From things like DP with butt plugs and dressing really young and putting my hair in pigtails. (Mind you we are 20.) I don't mind experimenting with things, like bondage, roleplay, ect. But I feel like him watching all this porn is giving him unrealistic expectations, and I can't compete with it. I'm afraid it's gotten to the point where he finds me boring. He's busted out porn on his phone pre sex before, because he "needed a kickstart." Even when we do have what I think is good sex, sometimes he will go masturbate to porn an hour or two later, when he knows good and well I would be up for another round. I don't know what to do anymore. Am I crazy for feeling this way? I am building up resentment because of this. My self esteem has taken a big hit, even though I am fit. I have tried talking to him several times but it seems like he keeps promising to stop, and still sneaking and doing it anyway. I never had a problem with occasional porn use to begin with, but I really feel like it's gotten out of hand. Where do I go from here? Do I give him an ultimatum? Is there something I can do to fix this? He isn't aware that I know he's watching porn after he thinks I've fallen asleep, or in the mornings before work (I love morning sex!). I am always up for more sex, and I hate that he uses porn pretty much any opportunity he can instead of being with me. Our marriage is good in just about every other way. Please help me, I am at my wits end. I feel like I can't trust him anymore because of this. I know porn can be a legitimate addiction, and we mutually agreed it would be good for him to seek some help for it. But it's been months and he hasn't even made an effort. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this.

This is a heart vs head problem. My husband has no head and he feels I have no heart.

My ex husband and I remained friends. my closest friend has been with me through all the good and bad. this past weekend they said they wanted to talk to me. They came over and chatted. Then my ex husband said he feels love for her. She said she didn't feel the same but would give it time. Then my ex said he really didn't think it was any of my business. I argued at that point and said they were my closest friends and she was my best friend. Then we calmed down and shortly after, they left. I'm feeling betrayed by my friend because I would never even entertain the idea of dating her ex husband or boyfriends. But part of me says he's not my husband and if they are good for each other than so be it. How would you feel? Thanks

This is a heart vs head problem. My wife has no heart and she feels I have no head.

Does it help "bond" a marriage to wait? My gf and I are both in our sophmore year of college and have talked about waiting til after were married....and it gets really hard sometimes. Were both Catholic and shes very devoute to say the least, and I'm t the point were I know shes the pearson I want to marry and start a family and share my life with, but sometimes 2-3 years seems like an eternity. This comes and goes but in your expierence, is waiting worth it?

Every now and then my sister wears a low cut shirt when she is around us which is fine but sometimes I glance my husband taking a quick look. This makes me so uncomfortable and makes me feel bad about myself. Do you think he finds her attractive? Or do u think I don't have anything to. Worry about?

My wife wants to quit her $45k job to be home. Her excuse is to control our 13 year old son who's almost getting straight E's. My son, who is diagnosed with PDD-NOS at 9 and ADHD-C at 10, refuses to do his homework because he doesn't see the point of being indoctrinated this information. We've tried many things like bribes, intimidation, nagging, positive reinforcement, reason, and even helping him with it; nothing motivates him. When my wife insisted that she quit her $45k job (more on that in updates) I told her that if she did I was going to separate, move all my money to a different account, have my checks direct deposit into this new account, and move out to my parents' house thus absolving myself from HER family since she wants to take charge like this. She almost called my bluff but didn't. Love or not, this is not time to make an irrational decision just so you can be a SAHM and not face your anxiety problems at the excuse of helping your son. She'd ruin the family's financials and hurt our chances of ever retiring! She still insists on quitting her job because "it's a parent's job to raise successful children" so I'm ready for more fighting on the way home today... My solution to the problem is to create a new lifestyle in the home. One where "having fun" all the time (hedonism) isn't the basis of life. Considering my wife is a hedonist, she's going to fight this to the core of her existence. Did I put my foot down properly or did I over do it? The main reason my wife wants to quit has nothing to do with my son. She's been talking about quitting for over a week now. She's really just "butthurt" that she was turned down for a raise, then she turned "ethical justice warrior" because her boss lied to her and she caught her in a lie; now she wants to quit because "I can't work for a woman with no integrity". She also is starting school again in 3 weeks and she's looking for ANY excuse to not have to work AND do school... So that's why this is a marriage problem and not a parenting problem. The child is just an excuse. Albeit a decent excuse, but an excuse nonetheless.... The worst part is she called ME "selfish" for making her work and remain dual income. This, coming from a woman who has ulterior motives for quitting, and really doing it because she bit off more than she can chew (both at work and at home)... So rather than rise to the challenge, she's going to quit and make sure she has time for "fun".... Meanwhile, my wife has dyslexia (real bad apparently) and she has a "social phobia" (she thinks other people judge her in their mind just as bad as she judges them - so since she acts poorly she expects other people to as well). She has worked at this job for 6 years and knows she's at the glass ceiling. She refuses to work any where that there isn't growth. Another reason she wants to quit is that she only respects people who know more than her and she BELIEVES no one here meets that criteria. Counseling is regularly suggested to me for my marriage, family, and personal woes but let me tell you why I will never do this - (1) The problem isn't needing someone to talk to, the problem is my wife is a know-it-all and sabotages anything she doesn't agree with since she believes "Her way" is the "right way", (2) Counseling only works when the counselor can be an authority figure, my son and my wife (so have I) had a counselor before and both of them fought them and said "I'm not listening." "P" is right - my wife feels bad because in her mind a woman is supposed to be home with her kids until they graduate high school. That's 18 years she could be making an income that she wanted to be home to dominate and control our son (and 5 years younger daughter so a total of 23 years home - which would have been 4 years older than she was when I met her). So since she feels she can't do ANYTHING after work, she feels like she's a victim to me not making 6 figures and her being a SAHM. And like that, this argument is over without a resolution.... This is how this goes with her.... She will fight fiercely and strongly when she has her passionate moment, then after a few hours she "cools down" and forgets anything even happened... I'm sure if I don't mention the argument this morning, it won't come up... Meanwhile, our son still needs help so I will be taking charge and doing what I feel is right (since she couldn't produce anything of worth by saying "I'll quit").

I recently married a wonderful woman who is dealing with a lot of family issues. The primary one is an overcontrolling father. When we were discussing getting married with him, he brought forward the fact that my wife (who was adopted at the age of 14) was given a fund by her adoptive grandmother, knowing her odds of receiving higher education were slim, as a way to help her get her life started upon getting married. The total of this sum is about $14,000. The father said upon marriage, he would write a check with the amount in it so that it could be used to help us start out. Upon getting married, my wife was upset about her adoptive parents lack of wedding gift (not even a card) and lack of payment for anything at the wedding, and asked what her dad was doing with her fund. He then said he refused to give it to her as it was his money, and that we could not be trusted with it. My question is; is he abusing his power of being placed in charge of this fund, and as a husband, is there anything I can do to intervene? This family has played favorites with the biological children over the adopted, and I am on the verge of throwing up my hands and walking away from him and the money, which my wife is fine with. He is also hesitant to hand over items such as her birth certificate, revised birth certificate after adoption, passports (dual citizenship due to immigration), and social security card. Any advice would be wonderful!

"Honey ! I'm home !" I'm going out with Suzy tonight ,we have to go and do a few things at the Hilton...I 'll be home late so don't wait up and there's a T.V. Dinner in the freezer. See you later tomorrow .

I am the citizen,but kid s father is a Chinese and he s also in China never been here,we separated because he cheated,and he didn t cooperate anything even for the kid,we didn t marry,but the kid s birth certificate has his name,and I haven t sue the custody case yet,I just wanna know,my son right now just 2 year old,from the child care ,kindergartens to he grows up to the university,any paperwork or authorization I have to offer from his father for his any school registration?its very difficult to contact with him and find the person,if the kid go to school I can decide and proceed all by myself,I don t wanna back to so far away country to open the custody case.Btw,any other issue for the kid in here I may need his father s authoritied except the school?Many thanks!

As many of you know my wife's 19, soon to be 20 year old son, lives with us because he flunked out of college his freshman year. He's taking a graphic design class at a local college with the hopes of getting an associates degree. Well, I've been telling him he needs a job because he just sponges off us, his girlfriend, his girlfriend's parents, and even his own grandparents. He wants to wait till his classes are over with the hopes of landing a sales position with a graphic design firm. Yeah, with only an associates degree. Anyway, he refuses to go put in applications at the numerous fast food places all within a mile of our house. There are also several grocery stores and a number of other stores, again, all within a mile walk of our house. Mommy doesn't want him to walk that far. Well, last night when I got home he asked me if I was going to use my old PS3 games. I asked him why and he said he wanted to go sell them. I grew up with video games and have a number of gaming systems in our house that I enjoy playing from time to time. So instead of him going out and looking for a job of his own he'd rather just sell my old stuff for pocket money. How do I convey to my wife that I've had enough of his antics? He's lazy and a mooch. What can I do? I don't want to divorce her over this little issue but it's gotten to the point where I've had enough. I told him he needed to start paying rent ($200 a month) and my wife had a hissy fit. So he slid on that. HELP!!!!

The wife and I have grown apart in the nearly 20 years of marriage. I consider myself a kind of middle of the road guy politically. I believe in capitalism, running my own successful business but Mary - lets call her Mary - has gotten so far to the Left that it's intolerable. The straw that is breaking the camel's back is the maid. Mary hired this woman. She does not speak English and I have no idea where she comes from. I can't identify the language. I asked Mary if she is an illegal alien. All she can say to that is: "There are NO illegal people!" Yesterday I came home and the maid was in the kitchen. Mary was out. Rusty, our Golden Retriever usually greets me at the door. He didn't. I couldn't find him anywhere. I asked the maid. "Dog? Woof woof? "Where - Is - Dog?" She seemed to get the message and with a proud smile, opened the oven door. SHE COOKED THE DOG! I can not tell you how horrified I was. Apparently, wherever she comes from they eat dogs. She assumed that the only reason that we had him was to fatten up, butcher and eat. Head, legs, tail and internal organs were all neatly wrapped up in garbage bags in the trash cans outside. I called Mary on her cell. She seemed a bit surprised but her lack of - how do I put it? - lack of shock, failure to be stunned, shocked ME. She stated that in the maid's culture they do things like that and we needed to try to understand and be tolerant. Furthermore, She probably thought that we wanted to eat rusty and misinterpreted something that she (Mary) told her due to the language barrier. We were all immigrants once and needed a period to adjust. Unquote. I can't take this. There is a difference between being tolerant of immigrants and their culture and letting people into your home who butcher up your pets. What am I going to tell my daughters when the come home on spring break? They loved Rusty, the grew up with him. I guess I shouldn't be surprised that nearly no one believes me. It was probably stupid of me to ask here. The best advice and probably the only advice is to talk to lawyers and that's what I'll do

I am getting married for the second time and I have mixed feelings about what last name to use since my future husband s Ex had the same first name as me. The only reason I would keep my first husband s last name is because that s really from a business sense how people know me. I also respect my future husband, and feel for his children s sake that I shouldn t take on his last name. Any advice would be appreciated. Submit Cancel I am getting married for the second time and I have mixed feelings about what last name to use since my future husband s Ex has the same first name as me. The only reason I would keep my first husband s last name is because that s really from a business sense how people know me. I also respect my future husband, and feel for his children s sake that I shouldn't t take on his last name. Any advice would be appreciated

So ive been with the father of my child 5 years. At first he had a job car he was always nice. Then i got prego. Later in our relationship i saw he had anger issues. Whenever hes mad hell call me ***** n get so angry. Hes horrible to his mom n if she does something he doesnt like he goes crazy on her. Anyways he hasnt worked for four years and always wants me to give him money for pot even though i dont work. Recently i accidentally scratched the screen of his free government phone that i gave him n he tried to take my samsung s6. He smashed my last phone n this one was new so i couldnt let him get it. He grabbed me by my hair and was choking me and trying to scratch me and was strangling me til his brother stopped him. He called me a ***** n said next time maybe youll give me your phone.. i was struggling to breathe my throat hurt i was having a panic attack. I feel like im trapped i sometimes wish he would die. I cant break up with him because he said he will never let his daughter go and said i can see her on the weeknds if we ever break up. He said he will kill anyone who tries to take her if not for my daughter i would have left him. I justwanna be happy. Iv been loyal for five years but u have no love left im broken. I made a fb and really like this guy i dont want to cheat but im so tired i have depression and want to be happy any advice

So my wife had a year long affair with my bestfriend that i've had since childhood. And i just don't know what to do. Help please