My parents broke up when I was a baby and my mom got married when I was 4. So he has been in my life for a very long time. I've always understood and appreciated that, but my relationship with my dad is much stronger. The whole walking me down the aisle thing came up when I was at my mom and stepdads at Christmas. It started when my mom started talking about how I was lucky to have my stepdad to show me what a good dad could be like. She has a lot of issues with my dad, mostly due to the fact he left her when we were very young. But I choose not to get into it. My (full) brother then told her that our real dad showed us both what a good dad was. Things escalated until my mom turned to me and said it would be hurtful to not ask my stepdad to walk me down the aisle, too. As I was leaving, she actually said it should be just my stepdad. But she knows that even if I were to ask him, he would never be doing it alone and my dad will be walking me down the aisle. Now this is where I remain conflicted. I was trying to think about what I really wanted. And I'll be honest and say, I would be happier with just my dad. He's my dad and I love him and I don't want to hurt him, not that he would ever say anything, but I know it would hurt him. However, I don't want to start a fight with my mom, stepdad or half siblings, because I have a feeling it would. I also want to point out, because I don't want people thinking badly of my dad, that my dad took the blame for the breakdown of the marriage for years. But my mom told us after the birth of our second half sibling that she had cheated several times, which is why he left. Sorry, I should have mentioned that we're paying for the wedding ourselves.

His dad my "Grandpa" passed away in 04, he and my grandma were married since 83 and my Uncle wants to do this in honor of his Dad and in thanks to my grandma who has been a big mother figure in his life, does anyone know of a good country song for them to dance to????

I received an bridal shower invitation from my fiance s second cousin s fiance whom I have never met before. My MIL thinks I need to add her to my bridal shower guest list now because I was invited to hers. Space at my shower location is limited. What should I do?

Just wondering.