Hi, so my boyfriends and I are in high school and we have talked about going to the next step which would be feeling each other over pants (we've already gotten to second for those asking). I'm not sure how to feel his p****, like do i just grab it and squeeze or grab it and move up and down or just rub with my palm? I want to know what feels best for him (he'll probably be wearing either basketball shorts or sweatpants, no jeans) Also, any little tricks or things that feel really good that I should do? Thanks!!

Like I don't want to be a slave or anything, don't get me wrong. It isn't even a sexual thing. Honestly, I just want to be less of a leader and more supportive of her goals and ambitions. Plus, I wouldn't mind "putting her on a pedestal" if you will and doing more to pamper her. How should I let her know this without coming off as a BDSM crazed weirdo? (something I am definitely not)

my friend is very narcissist, he only care about hiself. Weve been smoking weed for almost a year. and he is very mean, but like in a subliminal way. he does things that make me look bad/less than him. they are little things that really get to you. you have to be very smart to actually notice these. For example, he hides alot of sarcasm behind some of his compliments. Or like ignores me, and he knows that i know that he does these things. I try to retaliate and do things like that too...like for example if we are smoking a blunt, i would do as if i was gonna pass it to him, then when his hands move to grb it, i would take a long hit, simotainiously leaving him hanging. this is not noticeable but its still sort of like a subliminal mean thing to do. I dont know if you understand me.

A couple of years ago,we dated but I broke up with him bc he wasn't interested in me,like at all. We just became friends and we don't flirt,but he wants to sit next to me in class a lot and he stares at me a lot and I don't know why. Last wednesday he even said to me,"your hair is pretty." We snapchat and Kik each other almost everyday. He just told me that I play hard to get and I don't understand what it means? What does it mean?

On the first day of the school year, my calculus teacher made it very clear that once our seats were assigned by her they would never be changing. I sit between my best friend and a boy who I had never spoken to until this class. We started talking and got to know each other a bit. He was so sweet, funny, and charming and I really liked to be around him. We would talk in class and whenever he saw me out of class he'd make sure to ask how I was doing. I thought our friendship (or possible romance) was building up and it made me happy. But then he just started cutting me out for no reason. He's cold and snappy to me. When I asked what was wrong he refused to say and kept being bitter to me. This behavior has been going on for over a month and definitely increasing. Now it's resorted to name calling and I'm even being body shamed by him. It's making me very sad and anxious as I have no clue what could have happened. But at this point I'm less interested in that. I just want to be as far away from him as I can be. However, my calc. teacher isn't understanding at all. She tends to be unfriendly, unfair, and irrational. If I were to bring up this issue to her she would not find a single care and just tell me to suck it up. But I know I can't be around him. Buttering her up won't work, she catches on. So what is there that I could say to get her to budge? All I need is a good excuse but I'm struggling to come up with one.

Last year a guy from my grad school chased me relentlessly and looked my email up on the school roster to ask me out. We enjoyed each other's company for a few weeks, but when school ended he became cold and completely stopped calling me. 8 months later he came back and apologized relentlessly, saying he wanted to make sure he passed the bar before he came back. He also said he did not sleep with any woman during that time and that he is not "the type" to sleep around. He is 35 years old, and he genuinely does not want to get married. I forgave him. For the last 2months he has been very consistent and we've seen each other numerous times. He agreed to wait for sex with me, even though when we are together he is all over my body. I was thinking I will soon have sex with him because he has been patient. Now I've barely heard from in 2 weeks. I asked how he was and he responded " good..sry..I've been really busy, things have been a bit hectic lately." I responded with a joke and he answered "haha, we gotta get together soon". I responded and said to keep me posted. It has been a few days since then and I still have not heard from him. I am concerned he will disappear again. Clearly, he can't handle stress, and how can I be sure he isn't sleeping with others? At this point I am upset because I really began to like him and am mad he isn't trying to stay in my good graces after the last disappearance. What should I think, what should I do? Am I overreacting?

We've been friends since November, and started hanging out a lot, and hooked up for the first time in February.. We talked a while ago about what we were and he said he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone right now, for different reasons such as he's really busy, and this semester is fast and we aren't from the same home towns. (were in college) I told him from the beginning of when we first hooked up that I take things slow. I have only had sex with one guy at 19 and have only had 3 other hookups. He has had sex with 4 people, and his numbers aren't excessive and he has been in a relationship and is definitely not a player. We have taken things slow, only bjs in the past month and a half. I am nervous about guys doing things to me down there and I think he's respecting that, He doesn't pressure me into anything but will joke about having sex like "okay you ready to have sex now" laughing. He's joking though but he brings up sex sometimes. Does he expect me to have sex? I always worry that guys lose interest in me because I don't put out a lot. We still hangout and text, but don't text as often as we used to.

im too shy to tell her in person because i know that i will get nervous and have no clue what to say and then i feel like she will think im weird since i choked and didn't say anything. Then if i tell her myself over social media, i just dont know what to say, how to keep the convo going and then tell her i like her. Plus it will be awkward in class the next day. There is also a part of me who doesn't want to tell her at all because we talk to totally different people and i feel like if i was to start talking to her she would talk to me to be nice and then forget about me and then everyone will know that i tried to talk to her and then her friends would think im weird. keep in mind that i have never talked to her, i have liked her since the 8th grade, and this year she is in one of my classes. give me some tips please. Please dont say to walk up to her and start talking to her because i cannot do that for my life and i would just be a nervous wreck. lol. btw , we are in 10th grade.

SOMEONE EMAILED ME TODAY AND SAID THEY WANTED TO EMAIL ME PORN VIDEOS OF THEMSELVES BECAUSE THEY SAID I LIKED THAT STUFF WHAT SHOULD I DO HOW DO THEY KNOW I HAVE BEEN TO PORN SITES BEFORE

so I was thinking about asking this girl out in the form of a "business card" that had all these qualities of a good boyfriend on them, but would I sound conceded or something if I did? what I would put on it would be the following with a disclaimer on the back stating I'm serious about the topic great texter consistent good morning messages w/ complimentary good night text (emojis included) exceptional listener happy medium between adventurous and romantic understanding the silver lining between caring and clingy how's that?

I'm a 14 yo girl and I'll be starting to volunteer at a daycare starting Wednesday and I'm so excited!! I need help knowing what certain things I should say or do while helping and playing with them to make them like me more and how I should act. Pls help

I'm a 14 yo girl and I'll be starting to volunteer at a daycare starting Wednesday and I'm so excited!! I need help knowing what certain things I should say or do while helping and playing with them to make them like me more and how I should act. Pls help

He has been caught looking at me everytime were are in the cafeteria. Stealing glances at me, looking me up and down, sometimes staring. But of course he doesn t want to get caught. So he tries to make it discrete. One time we were walking and I happened to be a little behind him and he got shaky and gittery and he was acting weird. ( I thought it was cute lol). He s smiled at me before but I m just so confused. Also he switched up the way he walks to class. Now he walks the way I walk. He knows I like him so does he like me back and is just shy or what? I m so confused.

This guy is one my guy friends and his friends one day asked me if I thought he was cute and I said yes and then they say I should go out with him. what does that mean?

Not on foot. In a vehicle.

So I went down to see this live band that's not really famous or popular, but did play good music and the people at the event seemed to be really into it. The lead singer asked some girls that were up front dancing to come up on stage. One of the girls had a really revealing bottom on slightly bigger than a thong, but not by much along with a swim suit top. She started grinding her butt onto the front of the lead singer. She then bent over shaking her butt and the lead singer bent over and put his face by her butt as he continued to sing into the microphone. When all was said and done he said give it up for the lady's and gave her a hug saying thank you so much. Then she got down. My question is, what do you think his objective was by doing what he did? Was he trying to get a whiff of her a** or pu**y? Or do you think he was just trying to do something else or have another objective? My thoughts, I was far enough back that it was hard to tell how close his face really was. It appeared that his face was positioned towards the top of her butt. Plus when you are singing or talking it seems as though it is impossible or nearly impossible to smell anything or take in breath. So my question is what was the objective in your opinion?

She sits next to me in math, class were both sophomores. She can drive I can't but I have a job so yeah. At lunch she sits with her friends I don't because I don't know them wnd she's always talking. She doesn't have a boyfriend her leg constantly touches mine but she won't look at me and when she does it's only for a second. She's always texting but when I asked for her number she said she doesn't text, when I asked for her instagram she said she doesn't use it. She uses Twitter but I didn't wanna ask for it. She's always in a rush to leave school and once she cut me off to leave. Also I'm a cancer she's a libra. So what do you think?

He really likes me and I really like him, but I think he hesitates around me because he's shy. How do I let him know that he can go ahead and make the first moves like holding my hand and putting his arm around me?