My fiance and I have been together for five and a half years, and lived together for over a year now. We have only ever been with each other sexually, and are very active in that particular part of our lives. We are having a very small wedding, less than 20 of our very closest friends and family, in two months. My question is, what can I do to spice things up and make our wedding night as intimate and romantic as possible? I understand most couples just pass out on their wedding night, which might be what we end up doing anyway. I just wanted suggestions from the community. That said, he's not exactly a very considerate lover. He does try, I think it's just more of a self-confidence issue. We are anxious to be married, he is the love of my life. Soooo..... Suggestions?

1. It's too big now and has fallen off. Luckily I found it quickly. 2. I work with my hands often and never liked how dirty it would get. 3. I'm almost never "out in public" without my spouse and it's very well known we're happily married. 4. We also dance a lot and wearing rings can hurt my hand. 5. My ring was "white gold" but it has sort of discolored and frankly, I don't like it much. Is it wrong that I don't wear my wedding ring?

We just got engaged and he's in the military so we won't be getting married until 2015, so we'll have a long engagement. When is a good time to ask my friends to be my bridesmaids?

My boyfriend and I have been together over 6 years. I asked him to marry me. He laughed and then said "when the time is right". I'm 25 he's 26. We both have good jobs. He is an officer for the state with full benefits. My grandfather has decided to hand down the family farm to me (my bf included). We both are finished with college, both have careers, and have a paid off 2 story beautiful farm house on 30 acres. I don't understand why we need to wait any longer. My mom and dad were engaged and married within the 1st year of knowing each other and they've been married 32 years. My grandpa married my grandma after only 6 months and they were together a year shy of 50 years before she passed away. Just out of curiosity, how long did you and your significant date before you got engaged?

It is a wedding ring but I'm not wearing because I'm getting married. It's my Moms wedding ring and she gave it to me.

My son is marrying a mail order bride. He is a lawyer like his father so he could afford the cost of communicating with her a $10 a email and the cost of getting her over here. The girl also doesn't speak English but that's ok because he taught himself Russian. His father also convinced him to have her sign a prenup before she married him. I am still worried about him is it possible for a mail order bride to workout?

I was wondering if there are and Canadian Brides out there who have ordered from weddingtonway.com? I'm curious if there pricing is American and what kind of experiences you've had.

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i am throwing an affordable party for my friend bridal shower and i am planning to have a photo booth but the problem is that i do not have a good lighting what is an affordable way to have a really good lighting?

My parents divorced when I was 10 after my dad had an affair with the woman he is now married to. It was tough because our mom struggled to be around him at first. We knew even though she did her best to keep it from us. Over the years, we always knew our stepmother loved bringing up the fact she'd "stolen" our dad from our mom. If she was dropping us back home, she would make sure she confronted our mom and didn't care if we could hear or not. If it hadn't been for that I would say she was a pretty good stepmother compared to some. But I don't think she should have been so disrespectful, especially in front of us. I'm the second in the family to get married. My brothers wedding was a pretty big disaster from start to finish. Our stepmother chased our mom down and started gloating about how we would look like a perfect family in the photo with all of us plus her and my dad. When my brother overheard, he had her excluded from all the photos, which didn't go down very well with our dad, as you can imagine. My dad and mom get along better now, because he apologized and admitted he was wrong. But he never tells his wife to leave our mom alone and to stop acting like a child. I'm now left wondering what to do about my wedding? I really wish I didn't have to invite her, but since she will be there, I would like to know what else I could do? Mom has been so good and understanding about it all, but it upsets me to see her have to deal with this.

I m getting married and my fiance has 3 sisters. I m really close to the older 2, but the youngest is 12 and we barely speak (moody young preteen). I want his 2 older sisters to be bridesmaids and his mom has suggested his youngest sister being a junior bridesmaid. But I think junior bridesmaids are tacky (just an opinion.) Is there any other role she could play in our wedding? To clarify it s going to be a nondenominational/Christian wedding. No Catholic readings or whatever. Suggestions?

My dad and stepmom were invited to her youngest sisters wedding this June. It fell on a week I'll be with them and so my stepmom pulled some strings so I could be included. I normally get along okay with my dad and stepmom, but there can be some tension there. But that's not the point. My stepmoms family are not very welcoming people. She's been in my life since I was 9 and they got married when I was 13, but I'm pretty sure I've never had an actual conversation with anyone in her family. They don't like me and they hate that my stepmom will never have the perfect nuclear family like they all have. So here's my problem. I got here yesterday and I was told that they weren't going to buy an outfit for me for the wedding, that I have to buy it myself. And I'm not allowed to wear something I already own. Plus I have to get them a gift myself. I asked my dad about it after my stepmom left yesterday and he said the idea they might accept me if I force them to accept me. My stepmom came up with the idea and my dad is going along with it. I asked if I had to go and was told yes, without a doubt I will be going and I will buy a new outfit for it. I'm 16 and I do have a job. But I don't want to spend everything I earn on this wedding that I don't want to go to and aren't wanted at. So what do I do? I have several outfits I could wear and I might even get something between now and then that would work. But that want me to buy something specially for this wedding.