When translated to the original Romeo and Juliet text: Oh, if that one there is married, then I'm going to die a widow!' what would that be?

its seem that something is missing. I don t know where my life heading.?

Tell me if you've had a worse break up than mine We were in a relationship since Dec 2012. We maintained long distance until Oct 2014 when we came into the same city. Her parents never approved of me at all. Things were smooth until around Feb 2015 when she started showing signs of partying with her own friends and also that I was against such stuff right from the beginning. Not that she was wrong nor me, but just that the interests didnt match and we started having temporary break up fights since. We had this one massive fight when she revealed plans of going outside the country to study. It would take her at least 3 years and here we were with prepared made marriage plans and future planning. We got into massive fights and had a temporary break up. All because she wanted more freedom in the relationship. We somehow coped up and were happy for six months or so and that is when I got a job and things finally looked smoother. But with jan 2016, things started getting worse. Her brother kept pressurizing her for going abroad to study and only then he would support us for our marriage. She revealed that she always had plans, something that I was oblivious of right from the beginning. She could have told me about them and I could have stepped back. Then her demands were that she wanted to drink and smoke and have fun with her friends without me and all, something which I was against and she knew. Eventually she abused me and stopped calling me or contacting me completely. We had one last fight where we literally abused the hell out of each other. I'm not saying I was wrong or she. But the point is, she could have made herself clear right from the beginning. You cant just drop in plans right in the middle of a relationship. I was always the exclusive, loyal, simple kind of guy, something she always wanted me to be. But she started transforming in to this wild, out going girl. What could I have done? Whenever we had a fight, I would just walk away, in order to avoid a big fight. But she would just keep hurting herself, hurt me physically, abuse me. She just couldn't take the fact that I could walk out on her, something which she herself did on me.

My close cousin and her husband never experienced other relationships before they got married. They just dated each other and that was about it. They are both good, decent people who haven't attracted that many people of the opposite gender. Is it wrong to have other relationships before getting married?

We have a child on the way. We live in a 2 BR apartment. I want to move into a 3 BR townhouse about a mile away, but my wife wants to move to the suburbs. I work 5 subway stations away (20-25 min. commute), and same with townhome. If we move to the suburb my wife is looking at, it'll take over an hour each way driving, and if traffic is especially bad, it can be 90 min. My wife will be taking at least a year off. If after that she chooses to go back to work, she will go back at 20 hrs/week, and at the location closest to us. Point is, where we live doesn't affect her commute. It has a HUGE effect on mine. Think of it: 60-90 min. each way. That's 2-3 hours wasted each DAY! It's insanity! If we get a bigger house with a yard, we'll need to invest time and money taking care of it! What a waste! At least if I'm waiting for the train, I can check emails on my blackberry and get a head start on my day. Can't do that while driving. A short commute also means I have time to exercise often, which is essential. We're also closer to restaurants and other entertainment. When the child gets to 7th-8th grade, they will appreciate being in the city. They won't need us to chauffer them all over the place. They can walk to school, extracurriculars, etc. Schools in that part of the city are just as good, and it's just as safe as the suburbs. What other rationale can I use?

I am five months pregnant and just found out that the father of my baby has been cheating on me throughout our whole relationship with prostitutes. He also has NPD (narcissistic personality disorder) he showed zero remorse and blamed me for his infidelities. I want to leave but he is saying that since he has more money than me and has custody of his other child (who lives with his aunt and uncle and he hasn't even seen in months) that he will get custody of my baby. He keeps making threats and I'm scared to leave. I'm scared to lose my baby. I had to go to the Health Department today to be tested for HIV and other STDs because one of the prostitutes ad's said she was HIV positive. I am terrified. All the things I've read online said to cut off contact but I'm scared he will get mad, and hire a lawyer and tell the judge that I'm trying to keep him away from his baby or something

I share custody of my 3 children with my ex. About 30 minutes before I arrive at school for kid #1 class party, my ex tells me that kid #3 was picked up early for a cough. I thought it was weird that child was sent home for cough. I saw school nurse in school (whom I am friends with on Facebook) and asked if he had a fever. She replied, "No, I knew they would pick him up," referring to my ex and wife. I hate that community professionals think so highly of the man who treatly me so horribly. They both talk horribly about me to the children. It's difficult enough to go a few days without seeing my children, but then to hear community professionals defend his and his wife's behavior is just too much. How should I respond to the nurse? Should I notify the principal? The nurse got extremely defensive and said he was coughing so horribly that it just would have been cruel to put a thermometer in his mouth. When I picked him up a few hours later, the cough was fine, not enough to disrupt his work or the class. The nurse said he didn't want him spreading germs everywhere. Why does the school allow kids to stay in the class with pink eye and lice, but send them home with a cough, and the way they defend their behavior is to talk about how great my ex husband and wife are?

He is taller than me so it would be hard to choke him

Old hs flame lets me know he's getting a divorce and wants to go out. I tell him that I'm interested, but I want him to heal. During next five months, I meet up with him in public settings (friends accompany me). He asks me out after divorce is final. Then, I notice he loses interests. I don't know when divorce is final. A few months later, I figure out he has reconnected with old flame. They get married four months later.

When the spouse gets out of 17-year marriage and remarries 4 months later?

My friend is in mid-40s. He has been is miserable marriage for almost two decades. The latter years of marriage, he lost house to foreclosure, filed bankruptcy, lost really good job, wife was long-term unemployed, uprooted family to live in apts in more expensive town, says he attempted suicide, and finally decides to file divorce. As divorce finalizes, he hooks up with college flame. Within a few short months, he moves several states away with one of his kids and marries flame. Leaving ex-wife and son behind. New wife has a few kids, too. He is now living in very nice house. I just want to go WTF?!?!

Our son came down with pneumonia over the weekend and was out of school all week, which meant I took the week off. That just about killed my sick time for the year. My husband just said at least you got a vacation this week . My vacation has been dealing with a child with pneumonia, doctors appointments, an allergic reaction to antibiotics, etc. how well would you respond to that comment? Hmmm....congrats? I rather enjoy my choice to work outside of the home.

Am an athiest whose in love with a musilm (religious) He loves me 2 Am afraid it wont work but he wants us to try Am afraid that he will try to convert me ot change me somehow

My husband and I got married in November and we are having major problems! We dated when we were younger for about 2 years.He was 15 and I was 16 when we first started dating. By that time we had a child (which he had when he was 11), and had at least 10 sex partners. He was jealous then, bc I had sex one time with one guy before him.We broke up for a couple years, went our separate ways and moved on with our lives.Since we've back together he is insanely jealous of my past, even though he has had more sex partners than me.He has made me delete my instagram, snapchat, and twitter.On twitter, he can still search my name a find things people have retweeted of mine or things I've been mentioned in.He stalks my facebook (I didn't delete that) and will look at things posted of my wall or things I was tagged in years ago. After he has found anything having to do with a guy, he sends me screenshots of it and will call and cuss at me and call me mean names. He says things like "I don't want to be married to someone like you" "you're such a nasty whore", etc. I've never cheated or even talked to another guy since we have been together. I don't understand how someone can say they love you so much and then turn around and treat you this way every 3 to 4 days. I want to leave him for it but we haven't been married long and I'm four months pregnant and I do love him. I just don't know what to do or how to make him change. He says he wants to but its hard.Does anyone have any advice?

Do I protect my wife by helping her persona/facade fake out people she sees as a threat (basically everyone) so they can't figure out the real her? Or do I treat her by her real identity and her real strengths/weaknesses and treat her with integrity (despite this not being what she wants and she wants to hide the real her)? I've spent our entire life together trying to play her "hide your identity" game and it is exhausting. "Do I treat you like a strong woman so you can't be perceived as meek or do I treat you like the real you and comfort you for not having the strength to face your anxiety?" is a regular question I have to ask.... I can't stand fake people. I didn't realize I married one until after she seduced me and charmed me with the fake person I thought I was marrying when I was 22.... We are in our mid 30's now... I can't get this question to show up in the list... In any lists... I don't know if this is a server side issue because of them doing work on the server or if it is a troll issue because they found a way to manipulate the boards through a script kiddie app...

I'm 25 and we both work . Also hubby never consummated marriage with me .( we never had sex as husband and wife yet ). I been waiting for so long to have sex with my hubby . I'm very attracted to hubby and I'm a beautiful thin girl . I been crying for a few days now about hubby not being able to even make out with me or have sex. I been feeling like roommates for a long times . We been together for 2 years 5 months . We been married 1 years 6 months . Hubby finally made out with me for 5 mins before going to work . That's was good and it felt good but deep down I need an hour or two with hubby just making out , foreplay and sex . But hubby don't have time for it . It hurts me emotional to see my hubby go after making me feel good for even 2 mins . I'm sad I got no sexually fun activity to remember with him . We got no sex life . I'm hurt 6 out of 10 emotionally. Am I supposed to feel this hurt inside ?

My husband s father passed away 7 months ago from a 3 yr battle with cancer. We will be married for 4 years in 3 months. So for the majority of our marriage we were dealing with the stress of the situation. Then we lost him. The family was with him when he died. My husband cried harder then he ever thought he would when it happened after that he wanted space which I understood. But has not talked about his feelings until about 3 weeks ago. He has started distancing himself from friends, not hanging out with the best person. Goes out 2 to 3 times a week and stays the night at his friends once a week. He is pushing me away, never wants to do anything with me, we ve been intimate about 3 times in the last 7 months, he eats dinner in his office and plays video games in his office while he is home. I asked him why he is pushing me away when I m trying to be closer, his response was I don t know. So I have no idea what to do, my heart is breaking... What do I do?

My husband is 32 and addicted to opiate pain pills that started after a bad accident he had 10 years ago and has been using that as excuse to pop them. He was a good father to our daughter but when detoxing become very mean and violent, not hitting us, but literally throwing a chair out of the window. We are from NYC...Im Russian jewish with a CPA and make good money, hes from a catholic blue collar background with mostly Sicilian and German ancestry. Hes very handsome and good in bed, but the drugs are taking a toll on al of that. He was once muscular, now hes getting gaunt which doesn't fit his broad shouldered body type. He was a ironworker and once very good, Idk how he could walk unharnessed 100 stories above NYC on narrow beams, but he did. Now hes fired. He was arrested with 3 fellow workers,all are addicted to pills and sell Heroin(they only consider junkies ppl who shoot up, not pills).The union has zero tolerance and its alpha male place, a lot of tough guys, crazy guys who don't fear heights, combat vets, bikers,etc...Hes also informed me that before me he had unprotected s*x with at least 30 women and has "HPV" but is otherwise clean. I love him but wat should I do? he obviously has a impulsive addictive personality. He was arrested with a Jamaican guy and two other ironworkers and the cops said all were high at the time and selling heroin and popping pills...I speak 3 languages fluently... He grew up in the Bronx and has a thuggish personality and a lot of his friends are dead or in jail. His childhood friend is doing life for murdering a guy over money. I don't know if he has that in him, but being his firneds died violently, ODed or killed others tells me has something tht he hung out with the "Bad boys", and I mean really bad boys... Should I just leave him? Hes detoxing in jail and says he loves me... I fell for his natural tan skin, green eyes and wavy hair...His deep voice...Strong jawline...But I think that it was all a façade..

I'm an arrogant man. That is why SOME of you dislike me. You were likely raised to believe that all people should be humble/modest and not believe they have importance until they've achieved wealth/prestige/power/status/honor to EARN that importance/respect. Not me. I was raised to believe I'm important because of WHO I AM. I still don't exactly know who that IS, but I know the worth is in there somewhere because I feel it. Now, even though I can't see my worth, people can show me my good qualities, like a kind user on here who said I am: a problem solver, want tomorrow to be happier than today, want to make my loved ones happy, am true to myself, have a questioning mind & always looking for answers, fun and playful, have a great imagination, and a sensitive person. But the main point I want to illustrate is I know I have traits seen as negative. I'm arrogant, I'm amoral to the point that I cross boundaries (but not to the point of breaking laws or killing/hurting people), naive/innocent, I'm permissive, compassionate instead of uphold justice, and I'm just flat out unmotivatable. My wife though, she's very dishonest with herself. Any time a "negative trait" is the center of attention she lashes out defensively. She ACTS strong 9 out of 10 times but then expects ME to remember she's REALLY an insecure/sensitive person. In other words, she expects me to see through the lies and treat her by the REAL her, not the facade (mask). Realistically, what am I supposed to do? To clear things up: a troll (/ˈtroʊl/, /ˈtrɒl/) is a person who sows discord on the Internet by starting arguments or upsetting people, by posting inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community (such as a newsgroup, forum, chat room, YAHOO ANSWERS, or blog) with the deliberate intent of provoking readers into an emotional response or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussions, often for their own amusement. Now, tell me who's the troll? I stay on topic, do you? I repeat - my wife is dishonest and in denial about herself and puts up a facade to keep everyone at arms distance (including me). She doesn't see this as a personality disorder, she sees this as something necessary since the world (her perspective of the world) is unsafe. As a matter of fact, the woman I married WAS a facade. She isn't really that woman, she just made herself look that way and slowly unraveled the lies to me... And I'm naive enough to believe it's reverse... What do I do? I think I need to re-ask the question using different words. She isn't attacking me for who I am, she's attacking me because she expects me to know the real her even though she doesn't act like that person, and attacks me when I'm not sensitive to the things that she's trying to hide. In other words, my wife is nothing more than a fraud/fake and she covers up her tracks when someone sees the real her by attacking them and making them apologize for not being sensitive or politically correct. I don't understand why people want to instigate and antagonize me to the point of torturing me for being who I am. rd68, luke (anonymous), Chris, and Dave are all prime examples of the kinds of people that I attract. They are people who get jollies by hurting others and poking fun in hopes to get someone upset so they can gang upon them. If this didn't happen to me all my life I wouldn't know how to handle this; but I have 20 years experience. I'm immune to your stone throwing games.

We are a young newly married couple. I am 25 years old and my wife is 23 years old. A few days ago she confided to me in tears that she was frequently molested and sexually exploited by one of her uncles when she was 16 years old. This has scarred her deeply. She could not tell this to anyone because he threatened her so she endured the suffering silently. She was too scared to protest. She said that she could share this horrible incident from her past because she trusts me completely and that I am the only man who has treated her with respect and tenderness. She wept so much that it took a long time for me to console her. I felt sorry for her and insisted on filing a complaint with the police against her uncle considering the pain and insult that she had to endure. But she does too keen on that because she fears that it will open old wounds from her past. She still suffers from the negative effects of sexual abuse, like sometimes she gets bad dreams about it and wakes by in the middle of the night crying inconsolably. I try my best to soothe her fears, support her and listen to her patiently if she wants to talk about her trauma. How can I express my feelings for her in a sensitive way without hurting her? How can I ensure that she gets proper rest and a peaceful sleep at night without those bad nightmares? How make her feel safe and protected? To be honest it is very painful for me to see her suffer like this alone. Please give your suggestions.

For standing up for yourself and wanting boundaries in your home? Spouse takes their side.

My husband had an affair with someone who was supposed to be like my best friend, for over a year. When I found out we almost got a divorce but decided to try and work things out because we had 2 kids, and I was 3 months pregnant. The agreement was they stop talking, seeing, and even texting each other. For about 5 months they did, but then her birthday came around and my husband wanted to wish her a happy birthday; not seeing anything wrong with a public post on Facebook I said OK. Now they are texting again. My husband says there is nothing wrong with it as long as he isn t hiding it from me, and says that I can read the texts whenever I want.He also told me if I hadn t agreed in the first place he would have started texting her behind my back eventually anyways. My feelings on it is that this just shows that he doesn t respect me, not as a person, and certainly not as his wife. Am i wrong to feel this way?

So the other day, I posted a question about my wife not really being agreeable to me performing oral sex on her, but for some reason, didn't mind me going down "near" there Monday, as well as Wednesday. Maybe she was ok now?Most of the comments suggested I talk to her. Well, after talking to her, she came across very stern and said that while it felt good, she was NOT comfortable with me doing it. She views it as dirty. I tried to reassure her that I only did it because I wanted to please her. However, I went on to say some things to indicate that I thought our sex life was in a rut, was perfunctory, routine and predictable. I just wanted to spice things up, to do something different. I suggested she maybe talk to someone else, a close friend for an objective view. After that, she seemed to think I was placing some high expectation on her. She thought our sex life was fine. Did I go too far in what I said? Would a break from sex be a good idea? Any suggestions on what I can do to put her at ease? BTW, We have been married 17 years and she has never had an orgasm.

Married for 3 years, together for 10. I am a 5'4, DD, age 27, size 8 brunette. He is very healthy 6'2, age 32, 34 waist, 215 lbs, muscular, former Marine. I get that our sex life has diminished some because it's been 10 years, but overall it's still very hot. Throughout our entire relationship he dislikes when I initiate sex. We've talked about it, he doesn't like it. He is 1 yr from a master's in engineering as well as a ft job as an engineer, plus we have a 7 year old thay hes very involved with and I understand he's tired, but I can be naked right next to him and almost always get no response from him. It's on his time only. I'm not a lazy lover by any means. I've never turned him down. Ever. Are some men just ok with sex every now and then?

I just can't grasp the concept. You grow together, spend so much time together, some couples have kids. Then when it all falls apart, they are able to move on to different partners and not even look back. How are people able to do this? If it were me, I just could not imagine being able to move on. Some couples get divorced and go their separate ways after 20 years; some, 30 years and so on. That's so much of your life spent with them. How?

I've been married to my amazing husband for close to 8 years. He's never really been that affectionate but he does show his love in other ways. I, on the other hand, am SUPER affectionate. I'm usually the one who has to initiate affection whether it's a kiss or making love. I thought I had gotten used to his personality until two weeks ago when I reached in for a kiss after he got off of work and he refused to kiss me. It hurt my feelings. It still does. I don't think he's cheating on me. When we first started dating, he explained to me that he wasn't an affectionate person. His dad was the same way and it drove his mom nuts. Well, with everything that has been going on with me lately, I have become more sensitive so I vowed to myself that I would never seek affection from him again. Well, it's been two weeks and we haven't kissed, hugged, or made love and he doesn't seem to mind. It hurts me so much that I feel like I'm having mini panic attacks whenever I think about the possibility of a cold marriage that lacks intimacy. Is anyone in a similar situation? Can my marriage still last?

So my husband is 23 and I am 22 he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his dad. He is a really sweet guy who would do anything for anyone but he started to drink very very very heavily. He has nightmares and tremors and says the alcohol and pot help him cope with the stresses of life and the past. I really care about him but when he comes home he brings whatever vodka or whiskey is cheap and just goes to town on it. His work and grades have suffered but its heart breaking to see him drink himself till he passes out. It is heart breaking to see a the man I love harm himself like this. The worst episode we had was after he fell and injured himself and broke his ankle and had a minor injury he was drinking and took some pain pills and had to be rushed to the emergency room. I love him but I need to know how to deal with this he has virtually no family support except mine...I talked to our Bishop and he said that rehab is what he needs. How do I go about this to get him into rehab?

his new wife messages me telling me to leave him alone I made it clear to her that I don t talk to him I have him blocked on all social media and he doesn t know my number but she keeps harassing me telling me people tell her I talk to him when it s not true I blocked her so many times that now she keeps making fake profiles just to harass me and I literally want to cry cuz she won t leave me alone and I m tired of always having to deal with her is there any legal way I can make her stop I am happily married and have to kids and because of her harassment I m having marriage trouble

My husband keeps arguing to me about having a 3 sum with one of his buddies. I really think he just wants to watch me have sex and judge it. How can I get him off this subject. I have starting going down on him all of the time in addition to sex to get him to quit thinking about it. Or, should I suggest to him getting another female.

a few days ago was the woma´s day. That day i returned home early. before to open the door y listen loud music and some screems too inmediatly a chippendale scene came to my mind it was obviously because the village people was sound. i hesitate a few minutes but my heart was pounding. openning the door i could see two male dancers with their cowboy hats and dark glasses dancing a choreography. one stripper looked at me and he stopped danced. i didn't say nothing so they continued. marching and pulling up the sides of their thongs while showed off their huge arms so i culdnt stand and i left my home. i know just is a dance i trust my wife but i´m very very jelaous especially because she didn´t tell me nothing!!! i cant deal with my jealousy

I'll be 20 soon and I'm pretty sure I haven't met the one. But I would like to be married by my mid to late 20s if possible. I certainly won't rush anything to be married by that point but that's when I will start considering marriage seriously. The reason being is that I love family, and I really want to have one of my own someday. I mean a family not just kids, a happy family unit. I see that so many marriages fail these days I just don't know what to do to make sure mine lasts. I guess I'm just old fashioned, but I really like old time family values. I guess I'm kind of just dreaming of the future here, but any advice? Thanks.

he would provide for all her needs and allow her to stay home with the babies.