Marriage & Divorce: Question: I cheated on my wife. We have a 3 month old daughter. The girl I cheated with has informed me she is going to tell her. What do I do? |
- Question: I cheated on my wife. We have a 3 month old daughter. The girl I cheated with has informed me she is going to tell her. What do I do?
- Question: Birthing plan disagreement with husband?
- Question: Why does my husband say such horrible mean things when we fight? How do i get him to stop?
- Question: Should I stay or move to different state?
- Question: Is it wrong to check my hubbys cell if i'm suspicious of his behavior?
- Question: Men would you be angry if your ex wife came out as a lesbian after your divorce?
- Question: I was married in another country and not yet divorced in U.S. can I keep my second marriage, while I process the divorce of the first?
- Question: Can you use the date you filed for divorce as the officlal divorce?
- Question: I tried to kill myself because my life is falling apart but it didn t work, I can t go back to the hospital.. what should I do?
- Question: Am collecting SS and want to change my w-2--got married. can I do it on-line?
- Question: Should I give up my dreams for love?
- Question: Was i wrong for doing this?
- Question: If you could marry one person on looks, who would it be?
- Question: Is having more than 1 boyfriend a good idea?
- Question: Custody agreement?
- Question: My wife s 50th Bday she is very sick and actually I m very lucky to still have her. I need ideas to make it special for her.?
- Question: At what point in the marriage/relationship did you/do other people become comfortable with their partner in the bathroom?
- Question: Should I divorce my husband?
- Question: Why does my ex's new wife hate me now?
- Question: My wife tells me she hates me and next day tells me she Loves me .?
- Question: What do you call a woman who kills her husband?
- Question: Is it reasonable that I ask my husband to quit his job?
- Question: How to get a cheap and quick devorce in texas?
- Question: Is this a sign of controlling or can it lead to mental abuse ?
- Question: Is three decades too long to share woman's delusions with her while we are married and raising chldren?
- Question: Why would a wife not add her husband back to fb after he got rid of it and then got it back and not accept his marriage request ?
- Question: Is there a reason why my husband is acting like this ? Is this controlling or can lead to abuse mentally ?
- Question: Would it be fair to ask your spouse to end a friendship you do not like?
- Question: Is it a foolish decision for a man to marry for the first time in his 50's?
- Question: My husband went to the beach. He came back home with a diamond sapphire bracelet which he said was laying on his flip flops is that possible?
- Question: Belittling Questions?
- Question: I want to write a letter of promissory note to my husband s mistress?
- Question: How can I get my husband to forgive me.?
- Question: My friend is married to a Military Vet. And Is needing a divorce!! Help!?
- Question: How can I convince my husband to be more thoughtful?
- Question: Sex question for a married women?
- Question: What are the Signs to look for to make SURE Im not a Victim of MarriageFraud to an immigrant??
- Question: My Wife refers to her "FUN" past?
- Question: I married by court but the judges hasn't married me am l married yet?
- Question: Am l married already or not until the judge grant the marriages?
- Question: My wife has self-esteem issues and it's taking a toll on our marriage?
- Question: If a husband allows his wife to help move family back, four hours away, then four hours back, is there problems in the relationship?
- Question: Wedding rings... to get one or to not... ???
- Question: Sold wedding ring during separation...?
- Question: How do I get my husband to help me clean our home?
- Question: Why was she okay?
- Question: My question is for women. If a man wants to get fixed (testicles removed) after he has kids, should he be able to do so?
- Question: Do house wives get horny?
- Question: Would you chase after your husband/spouse if they got deported to their native land or stay in the US waiting for them?
- Question: I found a pair of women s red reading glasses in my husband s work van. He doesn t work with any women, and they aren t his glasses?
- Question: How do I divorce my spouse?
| Posted: 19 Mar 2016 09:28 PM PDT Im 24 and my wife is 23. We have a 3 month old daughter. Anyway, I have been cheating on her for some time with this 19 year old college girl. I felt really guilty about cheating so I told the girl I had a wife and daughter and that we need to end things. She immediately started telling me how much of a piece of **** I am and that my wife deserves better than me. And then she threw me out but not before telling me that she will be informing my wife of the affair. I have begged her not to but she will not listen to me. Before we got married I had cheated on my wife and she told me that if it happens again she is completely done with me. She's going to divorce me if she finds out. I know for a fact she will. I don't want this to happen because I want to keep our family together and support my wife and child. I have a terrific job with an engineering firm and it's not like I'm a bum. I love my beautiful wife and daughter. I love them to death. Please can someone help me figure out how to prevent my wife from finding out? |
| Question: Birthing plan disagreement with husband? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 09:17 PM PDT I am 38 weeks pregnant and am about to be graced with my first lovely little child. I couldn t be more excited to meet him. My husband and I agree on just about everything except for the birthing plan. I do not want anyone but him back there while I am giving birth. To me, it is a very personal and intimate experience and i think it s best for it to just be me and my husband. My husband however, thinks I am being selfish by not letting the soon to be grandparents back there. He says I m not considering their feelings and I should treat others the way I want to be treated. He has created a scenario that when our soon to be son one day decides to have a baby I will want to be there for it. But honestly, I d respect their decision regardless if they wanted me there or not. My husband says I ll get scared and ask for my mom eventually and it will leave his mom Very resentful and our relationship will be forever damaged. So now I am worried that I will get scared and want my mom but that will mean I will have to invite his mom back too. I had no idea I had to be the one making sure everyone was happy while I was giving birth. Is my husband right? Am I being selfish? I need an outsiders opinion. I hate that we aren t seeing eye to eye on this. |
| Question: Why does my husband say such horrible mean things when we fight? How do i get him to stop? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 09:08 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I stay or move to different state? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 08:46 PM PDT I am asking for advice because i am freaking out. I am 25 yrs old, i have been married for 7 yrs now but still live in crappy apt, no kids, work for my families company. I want to move to south beach where my sister and her family lives but I'm lost because my husband wants to stay here. he told me to move first and get situated then he will come down later. i just need change because i have zero social life and feel that if i stay then I'm going to be in the same place i am now when I'm 30. |
| Question: Is it wrong to check my hubbys cell if i'm suspicious of his behavior? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 08:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Men would you be angry if your ex wife came out as a lesbian after your divorce? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 08:22 PM PDT Guys would you be mad if your ex wife of over a decade whom is also the mother of your children came out as a lesbian and got a gf quickly after your divorce? |
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| Question: Can you use the date you filed for divorce as the officlal divorce? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 07:48 PM PDT My parents got divorced or so they thought way back in 1996. My mom did not have a copy of the papers they were apparently lost and she recently got a new copy and found out all those years ago the judge did not sign the papers. Now a different judge has signed them except they were now signed in 2016. So can they still use the original 1996 divorce date? They never did get back together. |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2016 07:46 PM PDT So the other day my husband told me he wants a divorce. He said I m lazy but I have ptsd depression and paralyzing anxiety that keep me from holding a job. I cant live with this anymore. He seemed to love me again when I did this, but I don t know what he really wants. I have nothing left to live for, I don t want to fight this same battle anymore. Where should I go from here? |
| Question: Am collecting SS and want to change my w-2--got married. can I do it on-line? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 07:36 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I give up my dreams for love? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 07:33 PM PDT I recently got engaged to the love of my life. We ve been together for a couple of years. I ve been married and divorced already, so I thought I knew what I wanted... He s sexy AF, incredibly thoughtful and sweet, helpful, great with my kids (who are also in love with him), FUN but responsible... He s the real deal. I look at him every day and wonder what I did to deserve him. I m head over heels. What s the issue? Well, I ve spent my ENTIRE life performing. I m a dancer/singer/model/actress and the spotlight makes my world go around... But... my fiance hates all of those things. It s the ONE thing we don t have in common and it s so frustrating and sad to me. It started with giving up anything risqué like modeling lingerie, etc... which I understood and agreed to. Then it was no-more lead acting, because good roles always come with romantic interest (kissing, etc.) I fought that one but eventually agreed to it too. Now we are at the point where I can t dance because of "sexual physical contact" and can t sing in a band because it "would involve hanging out with a bunch of guys in a basement practicing somewhere by myself"....... Is it just me or did we cross a line somewhere, probably a ways back? I don t know what to do. We live together. I love him. And it s not just me - there are children involved. But I know that resentment down the road could just eat this whole thing too... What would you do? |
| Question: Was i wrong for doing this? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 07:15 PM PDT My ex husband and I had our dog together for almost 8 years. Recently I had to put our dog to sleep. I asked my ex husband to accompany me to the vet to have or dog out down since it was his dog too. We hugged a lot and cried together and leaned on one another for support. Was I wrong for doing this since I'm currently in a serious relationship with another man? |
| Question: If you could marry one person on looks, who would it be? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 06:46 PM PDT Don't get mad, it's just that me and my friends are polling for a project-thanks (and I do not recommend marrying for looks lol:) |
| Question: Is having more than 1 boyfriend a good idea? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 06:33 PM PDT I have been dating my boyfriend for 1.5 years... we have a great chemistry and get along, I know his family, he knows mine... everything is ok in the surface... The problem is that I am 30yo now, and I don't want to waste my time. I am all in for long relationships before getting married, but my boyfriend says he needs to date for 3 years before thinking about proposing. We never really joke about the future "when we get married" or "our babies", etc... He is a very secret person, he doesn't even let me touch his phone, I know he's not cheating on me, but I don't know he will marry me, even though he says I'm not wasting my time and people get closer with time. But I'm very afraid to end up with no one and unloved! So, I am thinking that I should probably date multiple boyfriends while I'm still young and attractive until one of them gives me an engagement ring. In fact I think is great because I will be less available for each guy and they will feel like hunters trying to lock me down ASAP. I'm not a whore, I've never cheated on anyone, but I have no other choice! I'm afraid I stay with my current boyfriend and next thing I know is that I will be dumped and single in my mid-30s! exactly when it will be mission impossible to find a good catch because noone will be interested in an old maid! :( |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2016 05:18 PM PDT If someone has a custody agreement with the father and the child is 15 and chooses he doesnt want to see the father as often as the agreement states can the child orm other get in trouble for not making him see the father as often he made plans with friends and his step mom and dad made him feel bad for not coming over |
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| Question: Should I divorce my husband? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 04:09 PM PDT We've been married for 7 years and have one child. He's so controlling and verbally abusive. He even hit me once and I had to move overseas to be with family. I admit I have also hit him but its been because I was defending myself. recently I took him overseas to see where I come from and he was doing nothing but complain and would dictate when I can and can't go out. He starts fights and then records me on his phone saying I hit him and today I disciplined our son because he was not listening to me and he started recording me saying I'm mistreating my child. I was feeding my child while he was accusing me of all sorts of lies. He used to complain about me not working and now that I am working he keeps starting arguments and accusing me of having boyfriends. I don't have family here and I'm afraid to leave because he's the only one who picks up our child from school. if he stops I wouldn't be able to work. What should I do? |
| Question: Why does my ex's new wife hate me now? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 04:04 PM PDT My ex and I have a 5 year old daughter together. However, a couple years ago, we divorced and moved on to other people. (We have however remained friendly for the sake of our daughter.) Recently, his new wife gave birth to his son, and she blames me for ruining it for her. While they were both in the hospital, my daughter broke her leg in a playground accident and had to be rushed to the emergency room. I called my ex to let him know, and he left his wife at the hospital to come tend to our daughter. (We were in a different hospital on the other side of town). Because he came to see my daughter, he missed the birth of his son. When I drove my daughter to the hospital to meet her brother, his wife was livid with both my ex and me. She told me what we did was selfish. She said my daughter could have waited since she had her stepdad and me to comfort her until her dad could arrive. I argued that our daughter really needed her father during that time and that their son won't remember whether his father was there or not. Plus, she still had her mother, sister, and best friend to support her through the birth. I then added that my daughter was here first, so get over it. Then, my ex actually stood up and told me to go away. He said that was a selfish thing to say and accused him of trying to ruin his marriage. What is their problem? My daughter broke her leg. She should always come first. |
| Question: My wife tells me she hates me and next day tells me she Loves me .? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 03:37 PM PDT Me and my wife recently are having problems in our relationship, she blames everything on me and never assume responsibility for her actions, She never tries to initiate with me a conversation or show interest in me, today while talking on the phone things got worked up and then she spew the words hate 4 times but when i put her to her words and told her to remember her sayings she started backing up and saying she doesn t hate me, is this somekind of emotional manipulation in other words am i facing an Emotional Abuser or what we may technically call "Projective Identification" ? |
| Question: What do you call a woman who kills her husband? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 02:36 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it reasonable that I ask my husband to quit his job? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 01:44 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for 4 years, and have been together for 10 years. We have a really good relationship, but his job really stresses him out. This particular job... he's wanted his whole life, and isn't particularly skilled in anything else. He has a liberal arts degree, but this job is very specific, the skills aren't exactly transferable to many positions. Anyway, it stresses him out a lot. Today I was looking through our texts, and so much of them are about how he's stressed, or hopes to talk because he's stressed, or bitching about an employer. Basically, it's just really clicked how stressful his job is on our relationship. I thought it would get better with time, but this feels like our life now instead of just a phase he needs to cope with. I make enough to support the two of us and pay our mortgage, but we would definitely have to cut back on our expenses if he were to quit. What's the best way to approach this? He defines himself by his job, but I don't want to live my life supporting someone's emotional struggles every single day. I get it if it's once in a while, I get it, that's what having a spouse is for. But I don't want to live my life with him being perpetually stressed with no sign of getting better. He and I were much happier before he had this job. |
| Question: How to get a cheap and quick devorce in texas? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 01:22 PM PDT |
| Question: Is this a sign of controlling or can it lead to mental abuse ? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 01:08 PM PDT I recently became a military wife last year. My husband just went overseas (Korea) last month, This isn't the 1st time he's been overseas. The last time I saw him was last year in June when we got married. We don't have kids and we're the same age. We've been friends since we were kids.Our mom's have been best friends since we were kids and of course our families know each other. Yesterday he said some hurtful things to me such as I don't ever go anywhere, He's mention to me a few weeks ago that I or we should change up our clothing appearance. He's told me numerous times that he's jealous of me because of the certain things I do like (Fun-stuff). I told him I recently quit smoking cigarettes, I stopped eating certain things and he's made small comments about it. He smokes cigarettes and eat what he wants. He's told me before that he gets depressed sometimes or he might suffer from ptsd. I don't know but he does put me down sometimes. I told him that I will still send him care packages and write him like he asked me to. He told me that he loves me just the way I am. Please help, Thanks. |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2016 12:44 PM PDT If, say, I'm a conservative but I happen to fall in love with delusional liberal woman because she's otherwise the most perfect woman I've ever met, then we marry, have children, raise them into adulthood, then we divorce because I can't stand her political views, how is that so bad? (We never discussed politics while married, and she, like me, was conservative in how she raised the kids, despite being liberal in many other ways.) Reason for divorce: She's a "quack", although a great mother, good in "other ways," the children turned out healthy, intelligent and productive. Just can't stand the "cracked" political comments anymore - such as "Hillary Clinton could follow up where Barrack Obama left off and do such great things for this country, if only your fellow countrymen didn't despise women so much!" No!!! It's not the "thirty-year mark!" Thirty-two-and-a-half, or thereabouts. Wha'd'ya think I marked the calendar or something??! I forgot to add the word "CRINGE!!!" (referring to myself) after the sample comment above. |
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| Posted: 19 Mar 2016 12:05 PM PDT I recently became a military wife last year. My husband just went overseas (Korea) last month, This isn't the 1st time he's been overseas. The last time I saw him was last year in June when we got married. We don't have kids and we're the same age. We've been friends since we were kids.Our mom's have been best friends since we were kids and of course our families know each other. Yesterday he said some hurtful things to me such as I don't ever go anywhere, He's mention to me a few weeks ago that I or we should change up our clothing appearance. He's told me numerous times that he's jealous of me because of the certain things I do like (Fun-stuff). I told him I recently quit smoking cigarettes, I stopped eating certain things and he's made small comments about it. He smokes cigarettes and eat what he wants. He's told me before that he gets depressed sometimes or he might suffer from ptsd. I don't know but he does put me down sometimes. I told him that I will still send him care packages and write him like he asked me to. He told me that he loves me just the way I am. Please help, Thanks. |
| Question: Would it be fair to ask your spouse to end a friendship you do not like? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 11:12 AM PDT Would it matter if the friend was a single member of the opposite sex who seemed to be needy of your spouse? |
| Question: Is it a foolish decision for a man to marry for the first time in his 50's? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 10:26 AM PDT Note that he has never married before nor does know how well most women can easily coy him with his money. Do you think it would have been more safer for him to marry a woman around his age than someone who's in their 30's? |
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| Question: Belittling Questions? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 09:07 AM PDT I met my new partner about two years ago.. We have a 3 month old son.. I have two daughters, 13 & 8 from a previous 11 year marriage.. I had a house, job and was a self efficient single Mum when I met my new partner.. I lived in a different town from him and it interfered with his work.. We were offered to move in with his Father so we could find a home near his work which in turn is my hometown where my family live.. After about a month I m pulling my hair out.. They ask me seriously belittling questions such as, are you still bathing the baby? Or are you taking the baby out every day? Or why are your blinds shut etc etc.. I can t even describe the extent of these questions as its too much to type but I m being treated as a new 12 year old Mum.. Does anyone have any idea why I m being treated like this? Are they diliberately being nasty? I ve remained polite because I was brought up that way but I m getting really angry now.. I do ALL the housework, washing and all other household duties, I manage my money and three children without asking for so much as ten minutes break.. Why do they speak to me like I m incapable? |
| Question: I want to write a letter of promissory note to my husband s mistress? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 08:58 AM PDT My husband cheated on me. He promised me that he won t contact her in any tool and also told me that she is seeking for another job (she works with him). I want to trust him but wanted to have this letter of promises for her to sign ready for the next time I have to make a move. I m Japanese and asking for help to write in proper English. Please help me. *What is this letter s title should be? "Promissory note"? *I want to list below 1. I never contact (my husband s name) in any tool (I mean phone call, email, chat, messenger,... Everything) 2. I never see him even the case that it was inducement from (my husband s name) 3. I agreed to pay $20000.00 to (my name) in cash immediately when I do an act against above *Are there anything else I should list? *letter like this should include.... Date, her print name, and her signature, is that it? I d appreciate it if you could write as it should be written on the letter. (so I can copy and paste then print it out). |
| Question: How can I get my husband to forgive me.? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 06:23 AM PDT Me and my my husband have been dating for 4 years and we ve been married for 7 months. Before me and him were married we got into a big argument and decided to take a break from one another. While he was trying to fix things and get me back I was being selfish and looking at another man. I started texting this guy and we went out twice (we NEVER did anything sexual). Me and my husband patched things up and soon we got married. My husband didn t want me to continue to text the guy but I did. All of our conversations were just friendly conversations (how are you, what are you doing). I honestly didn t want the guy anymore but I did enjoy the conversation because it wasn t any arguing like there would be when me and my husband talked. My husband found out and it broke his heart. He feels that I cheated on him and now he wants a divorce. He doesn t talk to me anymore, he doesn t sleep in the same bed as me and some nights he even sleeps at his mothers house. I know most marriages have bigger problems like people actually having sex with another person, but this is hurting my husband and I really need advice on how to fix it. He says there s nothing I can do to fix it but I still have hope. |
| Question: My friend is married to a Military Vet. And Is needing a divorce!! Help!? Posted: 19 Mar 2016 12:36 AM PDT Her husband has cheated numerous times (has proof and him admitting so). And keeps lying about everything Big and Small. And constantly treats her like crap. They have been together for 14 years. Married for a few months shy of 10 years. He served 4 active years and 3 in the reserves. They have 2 kids 8 and 1 1/2. He is working with lawyers and getting a settlement for getting his hand stuck in a convayor belt at work (not in active duty) He keeps telling her that he is going to divorce her and leave her with nothing. My question is.. Is there any compensations or benefits she and the kids are entitled to?? I dont know if it differents from state to state but they live and were married in Montana. |
| Question: How can I convince my husband to be more thoughtful? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 11:02 PM PDT And I don't mean thoughtful as in doings the dishes before asked, taking me out, surprises, etc. I mean thoughtfulness in scenarios where he has already been given the information needed over the past twelve years we have been together to know how not to upset me. For example, today he made the corned beef and cabbage (food I love) while I was at work, despite the fact he knew well beforehand I started Aunt Flow this morning. After this long, he already knows I'm in too much pain to eat for the first three days. Yet when I express being upset about it he says he doesn't understand why I'm mad, and says "well there's still a you sized bit left in the fridge", meaning not even enough for a whole plate and still "forgetting" the fact that eating would just make me throw up right now. Situations like this happen countless times a day, every single day. And I tell him what made me upset, explained why I'm upset, and what he could do in the future to prevent it in every single unthoughtful scenario. So communication isn't the issue. It almost seems to me like he just doesn't give a crap about my feelings, since God knows how many times I've had to repeat the same things over and over again yet he still does it. I would have better luck telling a wall to move. Any ideas? |
| Question: Sex question for a married women? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 10:52 PM PDT My husband and I have been married for six years and I m currently pregnant with our third child. We have discussed prior to becoming pregnant again that we may indulge in a threesome. We of course agreed NOT to do the threesome while pregnant. With this pregnancy I can t seem to go "full throttle" without something hurting and so our sex life is suffering big time. I don t find it fair for him to go through this and I just want him to be happy and satisfied. I realize that I m having some self esteem issues so that isn t helping. My question is how should I go about finding him a woman to be with for the time being?? I have no clue where to start. Yes, I realize the path I m trying to walk down but I hate seeing and feeling the disappointment when things can t happen. I ve already brought up to him going solo but he said he wanted to wait for me but the end of July or the first of August is a ways off plus the couple of months after the baby is here. I d rather surprise him when he gets home and there is a less likely chance he would say no. |
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| Question: My Wife refers to her "FUN" past? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 05:09 PM PDT I am 60 and my Wife is 48 and we have two children together who are 22years old and 19 years old. My wife had a very promiscuous past and used to party a lot, got to night clubs and go out with her Chinese Friend who was similarly inclined. We have been together 24 years and married 21 years. When we met she told me she had finished with this life and wanted to settle down and have a family which we did. I never found out how many sexual partners she had but I would expect quite a few. I didn't want to find out either, then really or probably now. But she will have had many times those I would have had. Her and her Chinese friend would have competitions on how many they could bed in their flat. This disgusts me and I hate the thought of her carelessly sharing her body around in this way. Now and then the subject comes up not because I have started it but someone else may mention something casually and she will well at least I had lots of fun in my party days or as happened the other night (hence this message) I wished I had done that of a sexual experience of someone elses. This hurts me a lot, I haven't spoken to her about it but it is just incessantly on my mind going over scenarios of her earlier behavior. I don't know how to put it out of my mind, or how to deal with it, it is bugging me continuously. Anyone have some strategies and ideas of what I can do to sort my thinking out?? |
| Question: I married by court but the judges hasn't married me am l married yet? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 04:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Am l married already or not until the judge grant the marriages? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 04:37 PM PDT |
| Question: My wife has self-esteem issues and it's taking a toll on our marriage? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 01:44 PM PDT My wife and I met in high school. We dated exclusively for 8 years, then we made it official. My wife is an attractive, fit woman, but she thinks the opposite of herself. She as always been this way, and I have always been there to support her, and try and encourage as much as possible. Since we got married, things seem to have gotten worse. We decided to wait for marriage to have sex, so now that is a big issue for us, because even though we're married, we don't have it! She is very self conscious when we do engage in foreplay. She obsesses about what she looks like during that time and covers herself up as much as possible so that i can't see her figure. The most difficult thing though if that's not bad enough, she can't have sex because she has a very low tolerance to pain, and happens to be quite small down there, because she has a small frame. And I happen to be well, not so small down there, so it has been rough. I need some advice as to what to do. Sex is so important in a marriage. It allows couples to get close to the other, and we can't experience that. She has never been to an obgyn, and refuses to go. I don't know what to do, the whole thing is very frustrating. She tells me the other day that I need to go and find a "pretty girl" that can have sex. |
| Posted: 18 Mar 2016 12:57 PM PDT She is driving for family and she found out he has cheated on her with the same woman. |
| Question: Wedding rings... to get one or to not... ??? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 12:31 PM PDT I sold my wedding ring when separated from my husband. I filed a divorce and had no intentions of ever being with him again.. well 2 weeks before the divorce court date I decided to try counseling and not live with regrets about a marriage I didnt try.. he has bought 2 rings in the passed and I've sold both during separations.. should I come home with a temporary one I buy myself or would it remind him of me selling the others and I should just wait til we have money for a new one? NO judgments please, he had a long going drug addiction and was verbally and emotionally abusive while using.. since he has gone to therapy and been sober with proof for 4 months now I have decided to give him another chance with counseling. fresh start at a marriage.. I think it's better than giving up on something that could have been great without the problems he was facing and putting us through |
| Question: Sold wedding ring during separation...? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 12:24 PM PDT I sold my wedding ring when separated from my husband. I filed a divorce and had no intentions of ever being with him again.. well 2 weeks before the divorce court date I decided to try counseling and not live with regrets about a marriage I didnt try.. he has bought 2 rings in the passed and I've sold both during separations.. should I come home with a temporary one I buy myself or would it remind him of me selling the others and I should just wait til we have money for a new one? |
| Question: How do I get my husband to help me clean our home? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 10:18 AM PDT He says that he cooks so I have to clean because it's "my job". He things that's equal, but it's not. I feel like he should do at least some of the work to help me out... Or at least clean after his own messes that he leaves behind. He leaves his crap on the coffee table all the time and I never know where to put it when I do clean. He doesn't even cook that much. Maybe once a week. And leaves a mess for me to clean up. The rest of the time we use my money to go out to eat (I am the breadwinner). We both work full time, but he gets home at 2:30 and I get home at 6:30. I actually freelance so I work when I am home too. He doesn't help me clean anything, and gets really mad if I nicely ask him to help, or he'll just avoid the question. He just says things like "I just sat down!" Or "let me relax, please! I never have time to relax!" And he'll sit scrolling through his phone for 2 hours while I clean the entire house by myself. He is very stubborn and he needs to pull his weight. He is a slob. He will call me over while he is cooking to wash a dish for him, I don't understand why he can't do it himself. He says its "gross" to wash dishes... He gets me fresh red roses every two weeks, but I wish he would just clean the house instead... I'm starting to not care about roses... How do I convince him that he needs to help me? All he does is wash his own laundry when he's out of clothes. I'm scared it will never change and I need some advice. |
| Posted: 18 Mar 2016 03:58 AM PDT My soon to be ex-wife always worried/complained about money. I went without work for some time & made a few bad financial moves but nothing irreparable. Stress was high and I was unhappy and never felt like she believed in me. Intimacy was low. I couldn't touch certain parts of her or look at her naked. Sex was always the same. Talking changed nothing. I ended up messing around with a coworker and now I'm total scum. How could I have been so unhappy while she was okay? |
| Posted: 18 Mar 2016 03:04 AM PDT I am thinking about doing this after i have kids. I dont see a reason not to aside from lowed testosterone which can be corrected easily. I also like the fact it would make me feel like a beta male to my wife. |
| Question: Do house wives get horny? Posted: 18 Mar 2016 02:44 AM PDT I'm interested in a female that would like to be a house wife. I don't mind that, but my question is do house wivies get horny? I know they do but to the point that they will possibly attack their spouse when they come home? If some don't how do they feel when the husband comes home wanting some and they don't and it happens often? |
| Posted: 18 Mar 2016 02:09 AM PDT I am a US born citizen. Never have lived in another country. My husband s born land is dangerous a third world country. He came illegally several years ago. We have everything we need here but if he were to get deported, I would fear for my life and our daughter s if we would have to leave to be with him. My daughter s education and safety is what matters most to me. I m diabetic and I need medical treatments here. I do not know what I would do. |
| Posted: 17 Mar 2016 11:50 PM PDT So I asked him, and he said a customer gave them to him to give to a fellow mechanic who left them there. I know Rick and I assure you he isn't wearing these glasses. That would be like The Rock sporting Sally Jesse Raphael's glasses. Nope. |
| Question: How do I divorce my spouse? Posted: 17 Mar 2016 11:35 PM PDT Okay, so my boyfriend's wife, who has been separated from for almost a year and a half, has moves up to Washington from Texas. I was wandering, does she have to be in Washington for 6 months before he can file for a divorce? This is what she told him. |
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