I have been friends with a girl since 6th grade and all she has ever done is put me down and make everyday horrible for me. I have been wanting to ditch her for about 2 years now but I can;t because she thinks I like her and i'm one of her best friends as well as she is always around me in school. I haven't said anything wrong to her ever or anything rude about her and at this point i'm trying to keep in all the anger she causes for me. She has said my dad doesn't deserve a job, always shows off her grades in my face then asks me what I got knowing I did lower then her, always threatens to hit me, laughs at me when I make a mistake, always picks me as a partner and makes me do all the work/makes me do ALL the talking in the presentation because she doesn't like to when I don't either, and much more and its pissing me off to where I just want to scream at her! I cant ditch her because she is in 5/6 of my classes and sits with me at lunch now. Lunch has always been the time of the day where I could get away from her and relax for a while and she just goes up to me one time and says she is going to sit with me all the time now. I just want to know how to ditch her, she is doing online school next year and I planned on ditching her this summer just by ignoring her and getting a new number. I don't want to be rude and go up to her all, "I don't want to be your friend anymore." I just want to break it off. Am I being the rude one here, is she being rude, or am I just overreacting?

I asked her out after school last week. She turned me down. She is kind of a friend, we hung out and also hung out with friends. I wouldn't call us the closest friends but we did things the two of us together. After turning me down, she said that we should stay friends and we can meet when we meet other friends. I am okay getting a "no", that's not the end of the world but this "other friends" thing bothers me. I am even okay with seeing her only if other friends are around, I just don't understand why it needed to be emphasised... Am I right to be pissed by this (well, kind of pissed haha). What should I do? We won't be going to many events where other friends are around as I moved to a different part of the city. Most likely, we would only meet if we would pre arrange it between us.

My friend came from a ****** up family. She cuts herself and she said that shes willing to get help from adults which she does but I feel like she does that for attention? Whenever something happens, she always play the victim card. Sometimes she lied about stuffs, then I get mad at her but in the end, I feel like **** for getting mad. She is going out with a guy but I found in her message talking about pervert stuffs with another girl (she's bi). She would tell me that some creepy dude is texting her and how annoying it is but in the end she's the one who didn't block him...(that dude texted me but i straight up ignore him). She told me that some old guy tried to take advantage of her when they're alone but I don't get how she can't run away. She even told me herself that she couldn't push that guy away cuz she doesn't like pushing ppl. I don't understand it like he's trying to rape you and you cant push him? She's involved with weed too...she promised me she wouldn't do it again but she broke it.The first promised she broke was to not cut anymore and now this. I asked her are you willing to get help? she said yea but I feel like she can't control her mind. I don't know what to do anymore, I tried to talk to her and being there for her but a month later, all that is gone. Lately, I don't wanna deal with this anymore, She's a really good friend to me and I love her to death but I just can't understand her. Our mind is so different. I can't comprehend. She does have counseling for a few years now. She stopped meeting them then start after a few months for some times now.

So me an this girl became friends at work. Everything was cool for about a month. Last week an ex who left when my brother got shot an paralyzed came back after close to 10 years. Only person I ever really opened up to about my brother was my new friend. With my ex back an my brother back in the hospital emotions I buried came back all at once. An I lashed out at me new friend. Saying she should understand. Then I spent the next 3 days via text trying to explain an apologize. Probably sent 40 texts to her 5. Anyway she cancelled our plans outside of work said we are ok but only should talk at work. Haven't said a word to one another in three days. I fully get I got clingy an honestly weird. Just lost my mind for a week. Any advice? Any coming back from this

I have a clique at school, the smallest and weakest one of us is the most fragile and has no backbone at all. He twitches a lot and we torment him daily.

Recently me and one of my best friends got into a fight. We have always been by eachother side and never fight. Just a few days ago we got into a fight but we pretty much figured it out of where we went wrong and stuff. I am meeting up with her tomorrow and I don't know what to do or what to talk about or what to say? please help!

I live in the Caribbean and go to an all girls school. I'm in the 8th grade and very antisocial. So anyways, my two only friends are moving to Canada and England. I have no idea how I'm going to survive the rest of high school. I'll be alone in everything and just to emphasize, yes they are my ONLY friends. I'm not really good at making friends so plz don't tell to just make new ones. I won't even be able to visit them. I can still contact them but school will be a nightmare. I'm actually crying right now :(.HELP PLZ WHAT SHOULD I DO???!!!

So in January 2015, me and my friend got in a little argument and then her mom got all mad at me and accused me of threatening to kill my friend. So this year me and my friend were secretly texting and then just today her mom found out that me and her had been texting back and fourth and this is what she sent to me "This is ........ mom. I was clear that you were not to contact either of my daughters EVER again. I did not press charges for your threats to harm or kill. Leave them alone if you don t want that to happen. Do not reply." And see the thing is I never threatened her. And her mom STILL won t forgive me. How do I tell her I ve changed without her pressing charges against me for nothing?

Please help and give advice? Please help. I am in seventh grade. My friends and I have been bullied by this boy in our grade for about three years now. He asks really inappropriate things and runs into us, and has punched a few of us. He also has told us to kill ourselves and that we are fat. He also can be really nice though and I can t tell if it s been getting better or worse. We finally told our teacher and we all feel REALLY bad and like we are snitches and we feel really guilty. Should we have told? Please also give other advice

I am 8th grade, I love baseball, computers, Limp Bizkit, Korn, and I have this prick of a bully who annoys the living S*** out of me. He is the reason my grades are awful, he is the reason a majority of the school hates me, and every time I think of the hell he puts me through it makes want to put his head through a brick wall. Problem is that I am motherf***ing slob of a human being and sorta weak. So heres my final question: Can someone here give me tips on how to get stronger and whip this kids ***? I have no self control, I constantly set reminders on my phone for me to do at least 35 push ups a day, put I frequently am caught up in other stuff and get sidetracked. I have ADHD, I personally think I MAY have a mild form of aspurgers. I don't want to here stuff like: "Oh never beat up a bully, that will fuel the fire" or something like that. I want to know how I can become stronger than this asshole. Thanks

I am 13 a boy and I have only one friend.Recently I have remembered a former friend that lives in my neighborhood and have been thinking of trying to try to become friends again.I met him on the bus when he had to sit next to me for the whole year at first I think he hated sitting next to me but then enjoyed it.We became quite close to each other but all the sudden he began to ignore me and stop visiting me for no reason.I have no clue why.He seems to not have strong feelings towards me and greets me nicely if he sees me.Recently another boy has moved other and they seem inseparable. It really annoys me and I think in my mind why not me how am I worse.Does anyone know how I can try to beck friends again.I see him outside with the others and think sometimes maybe I should go outside and pretend I am on a walk and maybe start a conversation with him but don't know from there any advice? We don't go to the same anymore as of a few months ago but when I switched schools we weren't friends anymore He's not angry at me And can someone explain why he stopped talking to me

I live in an area where pot has been legalized. I've never done it so I don't know much about it, but I approve the legalization as I don't see it as very harmful and it's worked wonders medically on some of my relatives. But OMG some of my friends. They think pot is the answer to everything. They think it makes them a better driver, better able to handle work, better at socializing, better at everything. One friend says pot is so good for you that you should smoke it like a chimney while pregnant. They smoke it at every possible opportunity. I even have friends who are on food stamps and can't afford an apartment but somehow have tons of weed every single day. They start to have "Stoner friends" and "non stoner friends" and end up slowly alienated from the latter because they just need to be high all the time. It's freaking amazing. I mean, there's such a thing as too much, right? If I suggest that they say that I just don't understand and if I would try it I would realize that there's nothing pot doesn't make better. I honestly think some of these people are self medicating and taking unnecessary risks.

I'm actually the daughter but I told her and she told me to stay away from my friend I did the shrooms with he's super cool I've known him since middle school I smoke weed with my mom I don't see the big deal she's so annoying

My friend is cutting herself and she says some of our other friends are helping, but she won t let me tell an adult because she says t would make her more. She says she s depressed and stressed, and she s always saying that I hate and I m not a good friend. But I m really trying to help. What am I supposed to do? Do I tell an adult even though she doesn t want me to or do I just try to fix it on my own?

Hey this is gonna be really long sorry. So I was hanging out with my friend and all of a sudden she got a better offer and left me to go hang out with another friend even though we were already hanging out. She asked me if I wanted to come but I had a feeling that she was just saying that to be nice and was hoping I wouldn't want to come so I said no. And this happened twice in a row so I was really pissed at her.We got into a huge fight Then my other friend calls me up and on FaceTime and asks me about the whole situation and I just said that that friend ditched me and I was angry at her. So that friend asked me for her number to prank text her and I didn't think that it would go that far. My other friend is texting the friend that I've been mad at and pranking her until that bad friend who I was in a fight with found out who it was. When that happened the bad friend was telling my good friend all these embarassing details of my personal life and even sending her screenshots of when I was badmouthing my good friend at the time. My good friend said she didn't believe my bad friend yet she seems mad and hasn't responded to my text even though she looked at my snapchats and it says she read it. Now I lost 2 friends What am I supposed to do?

So, I've been wondering lately how the best friend feature on snapchat works. So basically, for like 2 weeks, I've been snapchatting back and forth with a person, and then she ended as my 1# best friend, and I ended up on hers. Then the 3rd week, we didn't snapchat at all, and at the end of the week, she wasn't on my best friend list anymore. Here is the questions: Will a person on your best friend list get removed after 1 week precisely, if you havent snapchatted on that week at all? Then on sunday on the third week, she hasn't been on my best friend list for some days, and I apparently hasnt been on hers. But then we snapchatted on that sunday back and forth, maybe in total; 8 snaps. After the 8 snaps, we didnt snap more, and after like 1-2 hours, she was my number 1, and I was hers(We had that yellow heart)? It doesnt really makes sense, how could she end up on my nr 1, and I could end up on hers nr 1? She had been snapchatting with others, (I dont know who) But after we ended the 8 snaps, I could see her score go up, with like 15 points, which mean she had snapped with another person. But how could I end up on hers nr 1, and not the person she had been snapchatting more snaps with, when she wasnt even on my BF list before we had sent those 8 snaps? Kind of an experiment, so if some of you experienced snapchat users out there know why, please leave os an answer :)

So I have no problem with babysitting for my friends who have kids. Kids are fun and then I get to give them back. One friend has a baby who's 6 months give or take. And he acts up alot. He spits food at her, screams until he gets his way, screams not cries, he won't nap or sleep unless she lays him on her bed and lays by him until he falls asleep. I don't want to deal with it and most of the problems she has with him are her fault. Since she doesn't have him and any kind of schedule and just gives him whatever he wants when he wants. She keeps asking me to watch him and I'm just like nope sorry busy. But she keeps asking and now I feel like the bad guy? Since I know if I'm honest the friendship will be over.

I kept in touch with one of my friends back home since I moved away. Could he possibly have a disability or is mentally ill? When I used to hang out with him, I noticed his hands were shaking and he had a problem with his speech. He was staying at a shelter because his father couldn't handle him anymore. The police then took my friend away. My friend's mom said her son can't live with her because the state declares he's a danger to himself and to others. My friend now lives with a roommate and social security benefits pay for his rent and utilities. What kind of disability or illness could he have?

Everyone of my friends has left me. With more the a grand of my money. After I took criminal charges and spent almost all of my money trying to help them. After I got them away from there abusive parents. I took them in. I gave them a place to stay. We promised each other that we'd be brothers to the end. And now I have no money no car, soon no place to live and no idea what to do. I lost my job because of them. I don't know were to go. Ever since I was a kid all my family ever told me was that I would never be **** and that the world would be a better place without me. If this is what people are like. If this is the way the world is... Then what is the point?

En diciembre del año pasado un amigo me dijo que se presentaría en un teatro y me invitó ..asi que fui! ..al salir me presento a un amigo quien tambien se presentó y recien lo habia conocido, en ese momento los tres salimos del lugar y empezamos a caminar hablando, al final mi amigo se tuvo q ir y nos dejó solos, empecé a habar más ocn él y me pidio mi fb al final, empezamos a hablar más por ahi durante unas semanas..me parecio genial! ..dsemanas despues me dijo q estaba interesado en mi, pero yo le respondi q dejara de decir eso, sinceramente yo no queria estar en una relacion porq recien habia salido de una asi q quiero estar sola durante un buen tiempo..al dia siguiente me pinvito al un café..lo rechacé ..al dia siguiente hablamos pero muy poco y despues de eso no volvio a hablarme..todo eso sucedio en diciembre, en febrero me hablo para pedirme el fb de mi amigo, se lo pasé y sol me dijo: gracias! Emoticón smile .. no me volvio a hablar.. es un chico genial! y me cae muy bien, pero no quiero una relacion, quiero hablarle ahora, pero no se q decirle o no se si este bien hacerlo ..por favor ayudenme..

So I m friends with this girl and she used to be super popular but isn t as much anymore because people realized she was full of **** She still starts so much goddamn drama but then says she ll "change". She s never gonna ******* change. Well she still has some control, like she can say something and then get one of my other friends to ditch me for her just like that. She some how weasels her way into anything that I m a part of and tries to one up me. She ALWAYS has to be better than me. Like I could say "I got the cutest stuff online last night" and she d say "I got more stuff from more designer brands". Like it s always a competition for EVERYTHING even stupid things like hair and eyebrows. She brags about her face and body and never shuts the **** up about it. She makes little comments on my insecurities. She talks **** and has no right. I have a better body than her but she has a slightly better face than me. I m always told I m pretty but I m super self conscious and insecure, but her on the other hand is super confident yet extremely annoying. But because she s more confident than me, competition is easier for her. She s also very immature and plays dumb because she thinks it s cute. She flirts with every guy she sees and will be like "omg they love me see how fabulous I am and how the boys are drooling". I think I ve grown to hate her. We live in a very small community where everyone knows everyone so I can t just drop her.

I've recently become friends with a girl in my grade but I feel i can't trust her. She is obsessed with her looks & taking selfies. She is loud & likes to gossip & draw attention to herself. She sends naked pics to almost any guy who asks & has gone past kissing with many. She flirts with every guy she meets. She is a really nice, funny person though & I feel like I'm being harsh on her

I often catch him staring at me and he will quickly look away. He tells me personal information that he claims he doesn't usually tell anyone. Even if he is talking to someone else I will see him glance over at me. Also he is great at maintaining eye contact with me. Thing is he does not text me unless I text him first. Is that a sign saying just stop hoping or can there be something going on here?

I am asking because I would like to know what to expect before potentially downloading the application. I have a pen pal who asked about whether I have the app. For now I am only comfortable exchanging emails. Because I have never met him in person, just something that involves messaging would be okay. However, if my phone number is involved, then the app will not be considered. My priority is to stay safe while still maintaining a friendship with this boy. Thank you!

just wondering.

I'm the only one at work who was born in a summer month and since I work at a school, nobody ever cares about my birthday. It's not like I care but a co-worker of mine has just had her birthday and she told me at work "it's not like I expect anything but it's my birthday today" so I said happy birthday and that was it. The next day, other co-workers brought in gifts for her and I didn't. I kind of felt bad and I know it's not their fault that my birthday is ignored but why should I buy birthday presents for several people who never buy any for me? There has never been a single case of anyone ever texting me just to say happy birthday. I thought saying happy bday is good enough. I buy gifts for Christmas, Easter and whenever I see something that I think someone would like to have so it's not like I'm a cheapskate and I have also done this co-worker a lot of favors so what do you think is appropriate for this situation? Somehow I don't feel guilty about not getting her a bday gift. Say you have 6 co-workers. You end up buying 6 birthday presents per year but you don't get any. All the others get it back when it's their turn except you. This is really not about the money, it's the lack of thoughtfulness is what bothers me.

My friend and I really want to go to a Magcon show in Dallas. The thing is, we both live in Ohio, and the drive would be long. Tickets are still available, but we just need help convincing them. If we could go we would miss a few days of school. The VIP tickets aren't too expensive, but the drive is about 15 hours long. We need help convincing them.

Me and my really good friend want to convince our parents to go to Magcon 2016 in Dallas, Texas. The only thing is we live in Ohio, and we would have to miss a couple days of school. We already have money for tickets but the drive is a 15 hour drive. To fly (which is extremely expensive) would be 2 and a half hours. Please help! How can we convince them on something huge like this?

Okay so there's this girl in my grade, I'll call her B for the rest of this story. Okay so on Friday, I was waiting to go into my Home Ec class and B came and stood in front of me. She does this all the time and it really annoys me. She talks a lot and always tries to walk with me to class. When B was doing this, my friends walked by but I couldn't stand with them because B wouldn't let me walk away. She always says "Hi" every time I see her in the hall, she bugs me constantly, touches my stuff ALL THE TIME, and keeps invading my time with my best friends. She's really annoying me and I usually reply with basic answers like "yea" "sure" or just nod slightly when she tries to talk to me, I don't wanna be rude, but do I tell her to leave me alone?

I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago. He and I live in different states. I wanted to see him again while I was in his state last week. I sent him a text letting him know I was in town and he asked me for the address. I told him I would contact him once I got to the hotel. When I got to the hotel I asked him to come see me. He told me he was out of town but that he would be back the next day. (Sometimes he has to travel for his job) Yet earlier that day he and I saw each other at the park. It wasn't planned we walked right past each other and didn't say anything. Then when he got far away he stopped and turned around he knew it was me. I was upset because he said he wouldn't meet me and he started calling me nonstop but I ignored his calls. Then I got drunk and wen off on him in text messages he called me again but I didn't answer. I think he would have met me had I not flipped out on him and would have answered the phone. I mean if he didn't want to see me why did he ask for the address?

I started therapy recently and I often talk about how me and a friend of mine were scared of driving and my friend sorta out of nowhere messaged me they were going to start. My therapist recommended asking my friend why they started, and what made them changed their mind, since they could tell I really wanted to know. Some things concern me. I worry that I might look like a stalker if I reveal that I think about them this much, or I'll look paranoid if I tell them how much it worries me, or I might look like someone who holds on to things by talking about something we haven't talked about in so long.

My parents are a problem. Every since the 6th grade-ish, i loved to skateboard. (I know this may sound a bit cliche but, whatever). I kept at it until the 10th grade. i was sponsered by a local skateshop and hoping i would make a name for myself. I loved doing what i did.My parents decided i should stop and take life more "seriously" and stop with this non-sense. We fought for a while (verbally...I didnt attack them lol) but, i agreed. i was like whatever...they know best. I wasnt the biggest person...5'8'' at the time so i decided to get with the gym and box. I enjoyed it al lot. I was a stress relief plug for me.Now my parents are now saying "This isnt getting you anywhere in life, stop doing this..blah blah.So, they pulled me out. They keep saying that this is effecting my grades and stuff but, I'm an A-B student.I'm not the brightest guy but,I think im doing pretty well and ive always been at that level. Its not like i was some genius and then lost some IQ points..I dont know what they're on about. Another thing is that my friends always do stuff without me. We've hung out like a couple of times(theres 5 of us) but, for the past month they've been going places and doing stuff behind my back...and get this...the next day, they'll talk about it in front of me..like really, thats a dick move. I never insult anyone or anything. It just hurts me looking at posts showing them having fun while im here looking at these got forsaken posts thinking to myself, "what did I do wrong?"

Im a 19 year old boy my best friend is a 19 year old girl she has been a pornstar for a year she makes $6500 a week and won 6 awards 5 from pornhub and 1 from brazzers i feel awkward being with her in public she gets stoped once or twice a day by people asking for photos. How do i tell her i feel awkward around her ? (She is really hot)

Hey Y!A, On Monday, this girl,C, is coming back to my school. At the beginning of last year, C moved here. We rarely get new students, so when she came, everyone swarmed around her, even though she was pretty emo. She and I became fast friends. (At the time I was a girly, wannabe popular.) We were both outcasts, but C was never rejected. Popular kids tried to be friends with her, but they never won her over. At least, not right away. In January, she expressed her interest to me in becoming popular and hanging out with the cool kids. I told her that I, too, wanted to be popular. It was true at the time. We both started wearing nicer clothes and ditched our old friends. She stopped listening to rock music, and I continued obsessing over 1 Direction. We both got accepted in with the cool girls, but that's when she got nasty. Long story short. she was a total *****. She revealed secrets about me, made everyone talk sh*t about me, typical "two girls in a nasty fight" drama. By the end of the school year, my old friends (who I had turned against) finally accepted me back. I started being myself again. Life was good, as long as I forgot her. We were strangers. Then, C moved away. I never apoligized (should I have?) I found out that she went to a self-harm place over the summer. No one knows this but me. I'm now emo-ish. And now she's coming back. How should I react? Should I be b*tchy? Nice? Ignore her? Stay neutral? Please help!

Ever since I moved from the city to the country, I have been so bored. I keep seeing all these parties my old friends are at or going to and it makes me so sad that I can't be there. I always fear I'm missing out.. SO SAD I MOVED! What can I do about this? (I have no choice to move back to the city)

Hey guys, this is a bit of a repost, sorry, but I need to ask another question. I'm in an all boys school, in grade 11, and there is a guy in grade 9 that I really really really wanna be friends with, it's almost an obsession. But how do I become his friend? I have like 1 or two close friends but I don't hangout with them after school, so I'm very lonely over the weekends and I stand like no chance of getting a girlfriend like this. I wanna make a friend that will hangout with me over the weekends and holidays and someone to have fun with, and this guy is perfect, I am Facebook friends with him and we follow each other on Instagram, but that doesn't mean we're friends, you know, and I also play softball with him, but that's only in like 4 months, so how do I become good friends with him? I also wanna know, is it strange to want to befriend someone so badly? Or is it normal? Thanks guys

In our choir, my friend's voice always sticks out. She has an overly bright, airy voice. It is harder for her voice to blend in, so when you sing beside her you cannot hear her own voice. It's very annoying but it's been this way since middle school. it's not really that part that makes me mad, it's just that she always acts as if she is a great singer, when (in my opinion) she is not. One day I don't know how it got started, but it led to a remark about how she said that she was the strongest singer in the group. How do I put her in her place without being rude or mean?

i went to my boyfriend s house on friday, on saturday went to his house then did karaoke with all our friends then back to his house, and now today, the day after, he said i should come over and my other friend who i ve been feeling like hanging out with will be there but we re just watching wrestling. im bad at saying no. i don t like wrestling that much. my social level is through the roof as an introvert. but friends? should i go?

I'm 29 and I had sex with a 42 year old almost year ago. He and I live in different states. I wanted to see him again while I was in his state last week. I sent him a text letting him know I was in town and he asked me for the address. I told him I would contact him once I got to the hotel. When I got to the hotel I asked him to come see me. He told me he was out of town but that he would be back the next day. (Sometimes he has to travel for his job) Yet earlier that day he and I saw each other at the park. It wasn't planned we walked right past each other and didn't say anything. Then when he got far away he stopped and turned around he knew it was me. I was upset because he said he wouldn't meet me and he started calling me nonstop but I ignored his calls. Then I got drunk and wen off on him in text messages he called me again but I didn't answer. I think he would have met me had I not flipped out on him and would have answered the phone.

I m 14, I was grounded for a month, and now it s spring break and I m not, and I was really excited to hangout with everyone again but now I realize I don t have anyone there. No one asks to hangout with me, no one even texts me a simple hello or answers my texts. My two best friends hangout only with eachother and are also ignoring me and said really rude and hurtful things to me. It s like they re happy now and I m still not and they just left me behind. I know it s my fault because I isolated myself and I m different now because Im not happy and going through eating problems but still no one wants to hangout or talk to me and I m just so lonely. What should I do? How do I even socialize anymore when no one wants to hangout with me?

I'm 16, 2 of them are 18, 2 are 19, 1 is 20, and the other is 21. I'm always treated like the child, and it gets annoying.

I'm 14 years old and have had bad luck in school, with my girlfriend, friends, parents and just got suspended from school. I have also had blood tests done for diabetes. I used to be one of the popular kids but literally all of a sudden everyone hates me. what is it? how do I get rid of it?????? PLEASE HELP ME...

My best friend of three years and I's friendship is going down the drain, and has been for months now. She's ditched me after making plans without telling me ahead of time she "couldn't" make it. She places her abusive ex-boyfriend - who, ironically enough, hasn't wanted anything to do with her since July - over me, even when it's just US hanging out (without telling me, she made plans to ditch me at the mall to have a friend drive her to another "friend's" house to give him birthday presents). She's also twice ruined her friendship with another ex because she can't get over him, one of these times while I was trying to help her write an essay for her college English class. I practically wrote it for her. I want to end this friendship before it gets any worse. The problem is, I'm not a social person. At the moment, she the closest friend I have. When she's not being ignorant, she is a good person. I know she's not trying to be malicious towards me, she just has VERY skewed priorities, and I know that mindset comes from her dysfunctional upbringing. I'm living with my parents to save on tuition for college, so they'll know if I cut contact with her and will worry. They also adore her. I really don't know if I should ditch her or not. Talking to her about these issues won't resolve anything, that's a fact at this point.

That's stupid since I can't afford either marrying, dating, or pets, but also I have no need of them since I'm studying hard in order to at least have a faint chance of making my life remotely better so I won't be a loser and failure who gets laughed at by successful rich and middle class people. And besides I'm happy being by myself, I'm just not happy socioeconomically that's all. I've never dated or had sex since I'm focused more on either trying to study hard and get great grades, work to pay off debt, and I rarely drink and never go to drinking parties. What should I say to them in response if they bring that up?

Im a girl in high school and i want to be friends with the "popular" mean girls. They just seem like theyre having so much more fun than everyone else and i just want to not be bored with my life. However, like i said, they ARE mean and kind of exclusive. I dont know how to make friends with them especially when i dont have any of my own which doesnt make me like look someone you would want to be friends with. Truth is, the people at my school suck. So if im gunna be "friends" with bad people, might as well be friends with the worst.

It's come to my attention that I'm not what I appear to be. To be fair, most people are smart enough to know that about me. But once in a while I'll meet a total genius who pegs me COMPLETELY wrong: I have no interest in fashion, so my clothes are simple and dull. So it's easy to assume I'm well, not adventurous etc... But honestly: I'm a total freak, and amongst my friends I'm the most open-minded and daring, often. The truth is there. I'm just curious if anyone else is like me: You just don't "look" like what you are on the inside?? I'd feel less alone if I knew. thanks.

am i welcome here ? thanks!

Okay so she's still going on about the whole weed situation and it was like what 3 weeks ago. My mom even got over with it &' her mom is telling everybody about what happen at her work like this is only between her daughter and me and my parent not anybody else. And now she's still making a huge deal saying everything to her work and even my family side. Swear her mom and her are scandalous as'f . and now she's talking **** about me and saying "that I have no morals, you don't have people that care for you,I don't consider you as a " friend" and that you're making look like I'm the bad guy" and I'm like "why did you even said yes when you wanted to blaze, I even told you that you don't have to do this" and she said " why are you bringing up my friend that's messed up" and I'm like "well how come she doesn't snitch about the time she let you vape that one time, so now your acting all innocent and s*** huh?" I swear both of them are scandoulous, like get over with it,on the real. And shes now telling my mom how to take care of me and stuff like nobody tells my mom how to take care of me, like she's not in her position just take care of YOUR daughter not me.

I m 20 I don t really have a lot of friends as it is, but recently I made plans with someone I haven t seen in awhile, we went there and it was great, and the next day I realize this person removed me on Facebook. I m not gonna ask her why cuz it would be awkward. Also if I try to make plans with people in general they always have an excuse to not go. Idk what s wrong with me....I m not mean to people or anything. I can be a little socially awkward but I can t see why people don t like being with me.

I am an extrovert who is very social. I have a lot of friends. Admittedly, non close. One thing I noticed is that when i hang out one on one with someone...I get nervous. I feel like theres a lot of pressure on me to keep things rolling. I also have to admit that I do not have this problem with males....but very strongly with females. I am a female too. Can someone explain if this is normal or...why I might be having this and how to deal with this?

I am the only woman in an office of 12 people. My boss who is also a good friend is the greatest boss in the world. He gave me a job when no one else would and I just adore him. He is always available to help me when I need help. He is giving me training so I can improve my skills and get a higher wage. He is very generous with raises. All the guys I work with are my friends and I enjoy working with them. They are just great people and I enjoy coming to work each day. I found out my boss called a meeting soon after I was hired of all the guys and told them "We now have a beautiful woman working here and I do not want any problems with sexual harassment". "Anyone that is going to hit on her will be fired immediately". "I know having a beautiful woman working here is new for you guys, but she is a very valuable member of our team and I don't want to loose her". "It is my moral and legal obligation to see that she does not feel the slightest pressure of sexual harassment". I think my boss paying me a compliment. My friends that I told about this told me he was just trying to protect the company from sexual harassment claims. What do you think?

Well me and my good friend (with a small history) get into a huge fight last week and she wasn't talking to me. She told my friends it's not me it's her and she's going through somethings that I don't know about and is kinda pushing people away.So I've been giving her space. Yet in school she still comes to the area's I hang out in when she could go somewhere else, asks me to stay with her but doesn't care if I do or not, and to top it off she kisses me on the cheek and tells me "don't think to deep about it". Is me giving her space working? Is she trying to tell me something by being around and kissing me? Are things getting better slowly? I'm just really confused.

And what should I do? We've been good friends for about 2 years and 6 months ago we started a band, and just now got a new guitarist. He always brags about how good he is and how the new guy is, but never compliments me, I'm a lot better but won't say it to him. Outside the band we've been doing a landscaping job and I did it twice, today is the 3rd job but I don't want to go because every time I go he complains and says how betters he's doing everything and how harder his job is, and that's just the beginning of how he takes advantage of me and I feel like i'm done now. I told him i'm out of the band and I want my set back which I am doing tomorrow and says fine I know other drummers, and another thing he does is says he has lots of friends to hang out with, I do too that are a lot nicer but I choose to hang out with this specific friend which I don't know why. I honestly don't know what I'm doing wrong.

This is getting me really emotional right now. I really wish this wasn't true. At first I thought she's probably maybe just busy, no big deal, I can wait. But get realistic, who's that busy nowadays when everyone's on their phones all the time? And then I realized it, when I saw her talking to other people on social media, and she is clearly on her phone talking to those others. But why not me? And this has been happening for some weeks now, and before too. I've sent her messages today, hours ago. No reply. She hasn't even read my messages. What's wrong with her..? I haven't even done anything wrong. And yet, YET she complains that how some people ignored her when she is just doing the same, at least to me. Obviously she did ignore me, I've felt it in my gut. Isn't it obvious? Simply I've just tried to be a good friend. She is kinda depressed, and sometimes says things like "no one wants to be my friend". It's like she never tells me anything even though I've shown that she can always talk to me and I'm always here for her. Yet she just acts like that. Whenever she needed help, I'd be there for her at night, even though I should have slept. But whenever I needed help, she just goes to sleep. What have I done wrong? I didn't even do anything.. so I wonder why? I even told her that she's the only one that I talk to and yet now she's doing this? It's starting to make me feel really bad. Why is she being so childish like this? It's getting to me. I really don't want it to, but it's starting to hurt me so much... I miss her. just when I told her that she's the only one I have. She does this. Now am I alone again? I'm so tired of all this kind of drama. I'm no putting up with it, I'm not that childish. So what I want to ask.. is her acting unfair, or is it just me? And what can I do..? Thanks.. no YOU, Bobby. thanks for no answer, reported well I guess that's what this was about, but really I never said anything even least bit offensive to her and now when I just realised all this and got afraid that what if it's jealousy or something, since she used to like me.. it does seem like she could be somewhat 'selfish' too maybe.. but yeah I still do feel too afraid to confront her though cause I really dislike unnecessary drama like this, and honestly idk if I'll be able to stand it since I really have no idea what would happen if I do. but yeah, I guess I'll just see what happens and maybe try to talk about it with her, though really idek.. but thank you for your answers