Friends: Question: What are friends like? |
- Question: What are friends like?
- Question: Advice on frends ?..?
- Question: How do i get my perky boobs back? I'm 19 and they sag so bad everyone makes fun of me?
- Question: I have a friend who I worry about a lot, what should I do?
- Question: Am I an asshole for saying this to a girl?
- Question: Should I say something?
- Question: Unable to make friends and I think it's due to having a thing with my ex bestfriends boyfriend?
- Question: Does he like me? I'll answer your question?
- Question: So I'm guessing she doesn't like me if she does this stuff?
- Question: How do both guys look?
- Question: Should I be as mad as I am?
- Question: Am I wrong for cursing people out on Instagram who follow then unfollow?
- Question: I don't know what to do with my life. Help?
- Question: Is this reasonable or extreme?
- Question: I'm really concerned about my friend?
- Question: Is it common for people to insult each other now and again even friends? why?
- Question: I feel like my friends dont take me seriously. Can someone help? (please read)?
- Question: Why isn't he talking to me anymore?
- Question: Trouble with a Friend of mine.?
- Question: Which lunch table should I sit at??
- Question: Help I miss Tara she's 23 and I'm 24 she'll be 24 in June she hasn't messaged me back on Instagram in 5 hours and I miss her so much.?
- Question: How to get over hating school?
- Question: Why hasn't my friend Tara messaged me on Instagram in 4 hours?
- Question: My friend can never hang out?
- Question: What do you do when you're in love in with your best friend?
- Question: How much trouble would I get in for entering a school that I don t go to... Acting as another person... Just to hang out with my friend?
- Question: Need advice for a friend?
- Question: Why do people hate shy people?
- Question: Should I transfer?
- Question: How to make new friends at a new school?
- Question: What does this mean??
- Question: My ex boyfriend is acting like a jerk to my friends and I.. How do I handle this?
- Question: Should I go to the prom? Or a bluegrass festival instead?
- Question: My friend always lies?
- Question: I think I'm in love with my best friend. Help!?
- Question: Can you find someone just by their real name on snapchat?
- Question: Worst 16th Birthday?
- Question: What should I do about a girl at work who likes to intimidate people by cussing?
- Question: Hi ! I'm 17 male who needs your help ! I think i'm quite shy I wasn't like that when I was in middle school I'm bad at making friends please?
- Question: Why does he act intrested face to face only? Or is he even interested at all?
- Question: Planning a surprise party but there are conflicts?
- Question: My guy friend is over protective? My other friend was joking & called me a b*tch & he was heated. My money got stole & he went off, Normal?
- Question: Disrespectful friend?
- Question: My friend hates me for no reason?
- Question: Why is my friend such a ******?
- Question: I've been getting followed at school and the school counselors aren't really helping either?
- Question: Which town should I say is my hometown?
- Question: Not a good friend?
- Question: As much as I want to help, I don't know how?
- Question: Trying to have sex with best friend again?
- Question: How to deal with flakey friends?
- Question: I might move soon and i'm scared of losing a really good friend. She's a great friend and i'd hate to lose her. Please help.?
- Question: What do you do when your best friend attempts to commit suicide?
- Question: Is it wrong for a 20 year old lesbian to be friends with a 31 year old guy?
- Question: Will I ever see my friend Tara again?
- Question: Please rewrite this making it sound a little better?
- Question: Please help!!!?
- Question: How to survive school when your best friend isnt there?
- Question: Can someone please rewrite this?!?!?
- Question: Do kids like you?
| Question: What are friends like? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 05:08 PM PDT So I'm a senior in high school, and I've never really had any friends. People just find me weird, annoying or crazy. So most I know if from Skyrim |
| Question: Advice on frends ?..? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:54 PM PDT Hi i recently moved in jan... Before i left my frends promised they wld call, text, n try to hangout... They hav not done any of that.. Its march now n im tired becuz i find myself initiating the convo all the time. Does anyone hav any advice? I assumed since were such gud frends that all of them wld reach out first sumtymes but they act like theyre forgot about me |
| Question: How do i get my perky boobs back? I'm 19 and they sag so bad everyone makes fun of me? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:43 PM PDT I've been a DD cup ever since I was 13 and all of my friends are small breasted. In high school my boobs were so perky and every girl was jealous and everyone loved them. My boyfriend was litteraly onssesed with them but now he never wants to see them :( It's been 2 years since i graduated high school and they look TERRIBLE. I would be ok if they just sagged some but, they sag so bad i wear a bra all the time now and it doesnt help . I didnt wear a bra at all through out high school so could that be why? I couldn't bear to wear any as they never had any my size and they were all ugly looking. I started going on jogs every morning after i graduated to stay fit but i never have worn a bra while running. MY mom says its because i started smoking a year ago but i don't see how that affects breasts? (I smoke at least 1 pack a day and 2 packs a day at most) I use to make fun of my friends for having small boobs but EVERYONE brings it up around me now.. It really is making me depressed As I said I bought a bra my size and have been wearing it for 3 months and it hasnt helped them at all How can i get them perky again? They made me confident but now I'm so embarrased of them |
| Question: I have a friend who I worry about a lot, what should I do? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:38 PM PDT I have a friend who goes to a building collage during school every Thursday, I'm a bit worried about him and our friendship, the way he describes the people at college sounds messed up and he's telling a few others about what's going on but not me or his main school friends, which only worries me more, also I sometimes hear him talking about collage to a few others, and those others have a bit of a dodgy side to them, he mentioned a few messed up things but couldn't hear the full story. I'm worried that he is going to move away from my friendship with him and he will stay with these people and change. He's still a nice lad but I've noticed lots of little changes in him. Although he hasn't told me everything he has told me that he has had a cigarette and that he no longer does it, but that just worries me more. Thanks |
| Question: Am I an asshole for saying this to a girl? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:24 PM PDT So I'm 17 years old and a guy. There's this girl that I'm friends with who I usually text and talk to regularly. She is kind of over weight and is really insecure about it. She always complains about it to me and I always try to make her feel better about it, but today I was just fed up with it. She was complaining to me about it over text and I replied "Look, I'm not trying to be an asshole, but you are the reason why you look the way you look. You complain to me all the time about how you are insecure about your body, but you don't do anything about it. I think you look good the way you are, but clearly you disagree. So if you don't like it, stop sitting around on your *** and go to the gym. I'll even buy you a membership 💯". She didnt reply after that, and I kind of feel bad about it. Did I do the right thing or no? |
| Question: Should I say something? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:12 PM PDT Earlier today, a group of people in my class were talking about me negatively while I was with them in the elevator(they acted as if I wasn't even there), but I pretended not to hear them and ignore them. I'm very shy and reserved, and I don't speak up for myself. Should I confront them next time we have class or continue to ignore them? |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 04:03 PM PDT Me and her havent been good friends in about 5 years. Somehow I havent been able to get close to females since then. before judging, this is what happened. I have never been one to go after friends boyfriends. Like ever. But me and her were so close, anyway we met in high school and became friends. we were super close and did everything together. When we met, her dad committed suicide a year before we met. We had a lot of fun together. A couple years later, my first boyfriend committed suicide. She had her first baby 8 days after he died. I was there. For some reason after these events, she started treating me like crap. She ignored me around her other friends, and tried to tell me what to do I remember this one time. She called me all the time and we still hung out a lot, but soon after my bf died I got in a mentally and physically relationship. She also got with this guy who she knew in her childhood. She really was treating me like crap, yelling all the time and freaking out being demanding. I was really nice actually and used to be very funny and fun. So, me and him were at the same school. We ended up hanging out a lot, and he told me he had a thing for me. I said that wasnt right...sometime around that time, I was intoxicated and he called me and picked me up with his friends. I had a lot of fun back when I was a teen, and madeout with himm and 3 other people that were in the van. I told her and she didn't care for some reason To add..... we also had sex in front of eachother a lot in our teens, had sex with the same guy at one time.Anyway, they ended up having 4 kids together and we drifted apart and she turned it all against me saying I was a sloot and everything all of a sudden. She said I always wanted her men. There was this other time, when me and her werent really friends... that her first kid's dad, and me kissed. I knew him before her, and me and him were really really good friends and super close. |
| Question: Does he like me? I'll answer your question? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:52 PM PDT There's this guy I sit next to in class and we're friends. We study for exams together and walk out of class together. I think he may like me, but I also have some doubts. Signs he likes me: 1. He'll sometimes compliment (ex: on my shoes or if I get new glasses) 2. He teases me playfully and makes fun of me in a nice way 3. He holds the door for me 4. When we're together he always tells me not to feel obligated to keep hanging out with him 5. The other night we ate dinner together after class and then went on a walk and talked for a few hours. (I asked invited him to) After, he asked if he could walk me back to my dorm 6. Sometimes when I'm looking away, he'll be looking at me 7. He asks me questions about myself to get to know me better in person 8. When we're together, he smiles and laughs a lot 9. He remembers little, random details about me Signs he doesn't like me: 1. When I flirt with him over text, sometimes he doesn't flirt back and just tries to be funny 2. He never responded to my last text (which was just like a statement) So he like ended the convo AND he hasn't texted me today 3. I feel like I annoy him over text because sometimes he takes about an hour to respond 4. When someone asked him what he was doing he said he was studying with a friend |
| Question: So I'm guessing she doesn't like me if she does this stuff? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:51 PM PDT Today at school I was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her friend I was looking at her but then I stopped. But later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early? |
| Question: How do both guys look? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:46 PM PDT https://scontent-dfw1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xap1/v/t1.0-9/10455028_1982414891984040_4229022654237751370_n.jpg?oh=39514e6b361f60ac8e09cae3e6f6d124&oe=574BE485 https://scontent-dfw1-1.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-xft1/v/l/t1.0-9/10956938_1051310018216040_3448262309956377745_n.jpg?oh=d6ac5f5869d606fe11e8f4d41a854af4&oe=5740B213 |
| Question: Should I be as mad as I am? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:42 PM PDT I'm 29 male, I have a 24 year old younger sister, a long time male friend of mine since jr high "confessed his love" for her last time he was in town. I know he doesn't love my sister but was just wanting to bang her as she is kinda dumb. I found out that she turned him down, but feel like he crossed a line as our friendship goes. Not the only male friend of mine who tried to pick up my sister. As an adult should this still be making me so mad? If a friend of mine crosses this line of trying to get with my sister I tend to let them out of my life, now I'm running out of quality friends.... Advice needed. |
| Question: Am I wrong for cursing people out on Instagram who follow then unfollow? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:29 PM PDT I sent 3 DM's to people who followed me then unfollowed my a day later. It's annoying as hell when people do that crap. Was I wrong? |
| Question: I don't know what to do with my life. Help? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:25 PM PDT I've recently been falling in and out of long periods of wondering why I'm alive and wondering why I even try to stay alive. I go to school, and I get picked on and I'm avoided by kids who are scared of me for some reason, I come home and my mom yells at me for somehing I did wrong. My sister is who I told everything to and she told my mom and she hates anyone I try to be friends with if they don't know who she is and is ruining everything for me. Both my parents attack me about my friends and grades. And I don't even like my friends, or friend to be more exact. She ignores me and I'm not clingy, I'm serious. My friend will sit with me in class, she says we're best friends, we do school projects together and she eats lunch with me, but once someone else comes around, which is five times a day, I'm ignored. My friend expects me to just wait around while she talks to someone else for an hour and not wander off and gets pissed off when I go do something else and she'd be too hurt if I stop being friends with her because her parents recently split up. My mom and my sister invaded my privacy multiple times my reading my diary and my basic lifeline is a girl I met last summer on the Internet. |
| Question: Is this reasonable or extreme? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:20 PM PDT I had a friend who had a few roomates steal half his stuff and car and his parents are INSISTING on having caregivers check in on him CONSTANTLY and sometimes 2 times a week and he HATES it. They go through his house and fuss over coffee stains and look through his money. He works a lot during the week and wants to have a break and they insist on putting him to work cleaning his house and keep forcing him to do ALL his laundry and dishes RIGHT AWAY and he feels that this is completely arbitrary. He is 33 and has high functioning asperger and his parents think that he needs someone to work on him Is this extreme? |
| Question: I'm really concerned about my friend? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:19 PM PDT So today at school I was talking to my friend. She was acting really weird. Like she was hiding something! I kept asking her questions; what's wrong, are you okay, etc... She said she was fine but she started mumbling things. So then I asked one more time... It got up and started dancing. He licked his own balls (eyeballs) and everything. I was all like "woah dude." And he was all like "Yeah I know." I don't know how he did it but he reverted to Christianism! He was tweeking on my lap, I got so carried away... As I was saying I am really concerned about my friend! She's normally a open book. |
| Question: Is it common for people to insult each other now and again even friends? why? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:18 PM PDT |
| Question: I feel like my friends dont take me seriously. Can someone help? (please read)? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:12 PM PDT Basically, I hang out with my friends and I feel like they dont take me seriously when they ask for my opinion on something. Same goes if Im alone with them individually and It frustrates me. I want to be reliable and be counted on because that is how friendships become even stronger. But it seems like they cant trust me. They would have relationship issues and would never ask me but rather ask someone else when Im right in front of them and then they would go to me as to not make me feel left out. We would have serious conversations or talk about something that should be kept secret and they never bother to give me the details further. Not implying im being nosy but rather just the fact that others in my group of friends who Ive known just as long as everyone else in my group, dont tell me anything. I want to see what you guys think and what yall get from this.I know I can keep secrets and not mouth off with others about it. Also, when they would entrust a secret to me, they feel hesistant about it. I can sense it, Its my instinct. But how should I approach this? How can I give off the message that Im trustworthy? I dont know if its my personality or how i act around them, but if so what is the catalyst that would make my friends feel hesitant when telling me things? What personality type would yall label me as from what you guys read that would keep them away? Please help! THANK YOU. I appreciate any help. I really need it. Cheers. |
| Question: Why isn't he talking to me anymore? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 03:06 PM PDT So my only friend stopped talking to me. He would always roast me and joke with me and then I would do the same back. I don't know why he isn't talking to me anymore cause I didn't do anything. He asked for my sc before he stopped talking to me and I wanted to say yes but before i even said it, his best friend was like "don't add him on sc, he posts gross stuff" so I didn't get to answer him. Before that he was texting me about how he wants to have sex with me and he was sad cause he couldn't do it. I don't know what I did wrong and I don't know if it's me or him. Now since we're not talking anymore, he gives me a glance or he just stares at me. I really want him to talk to me again and we can be friends again and I wanna go talk to him but I don't want it to be awkward. |
| Question: Trouble with a Friend of mine.? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:42 PM PDT I have this very close friend of mine, who liked this girl in school. Lucky enough, this girl he liked is his classmate and my classmate too. Words spreaded about him liking her and when she knew that, she texted my friend. " I will never like you in a million years because you're more girly than me like what the ****!!! YUCK!!! " As you can see, she said that he's more "girly" than her just because my friend has a lot of girl friends and less guy friends. What can I do to help my friend? I want his sadness to lessen down but at the moment, he's never gonna get better. I want to help my friend but not to tell him to change himself. |
| Question: Which lunch table should I sit at?? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:38 PM PDT I'm a freshie and the tables at lunch are still separated by gender :( I have the boy section and the girl section in my friend group which is fine but what's NOT fine is were still separated by sex!!! My friend and I wanted to combine the tables but no one else did. :( then when my friend got mad at our table, she switched to theirs and begged me to join them. Since I want to join the tables I'm like YES I'LL SIT WITH YOU but our other friends are like why do you sit with them and now ignore them like the plague. What should I do??? |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:30 PM PDT She lives too far away in another state and we don't have enough money to visit each other I miss her so much. She lives in Missouri and I live in upstate New York. Will I ever see her again it's been 4 years. |
| Question: How to get over hating school? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:24 PM PDT I'm im in 8th grade. And I'm absolutely hate it. Tired of all the drama and bullshit I'm not in drama just tired of hearing people talk about it. I have lots of friends. But everyone's so plain. I'm tired of doing the same thing every ******* day. I'm tired of useless info we'll never use. I'm tired of spending most of my childhood and teen years in a stupid class room. I hate getting up early. I hate the food. I HATE IT. And then I have highschool then college. Fml. I'm literally counting days till summer vacation. Spring break is next week. But I'm just so tired of it. And stressing about school all the time. I have add so it's extra hard for me to pay attention. There so many girls that think they're better then everyone. I'm the type of girl to not deal with that bs. I can't wait to leave school. How do I make it go faster. Thank you peace and love~grace ✌🏻️💓 |
| Question: Why hasn't my friend Tara messaged me on Instagram in 4 hours? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:11 PM PDT |
| Question: My friend can never hang out? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 02:06 PM PDT One of my really good friends can never hang out with me. Last year in middle school we were best friends, but now we are in high school and she's moving on and making more friends which is great for her! However, I can't help but feel as if she's leaving me in the dust. I have asked her to hang out almost every weekend for the past few months and I realize this makes me sound desperate but I really love hanging out with her. She always says she has basketball practice or that she has to go shopping with her mom, etc. I totally believed her but now I'm not sure if I should be taking hints. One time she asked her new friends to hang out right in front of me. I talk to her before school but we don't have any classes so it makes it hard to talk all the time even if we text and snapchat. I've been trying not to ask her to hang out so much to make it seem like I'm not so desperate but sometimes things come up. I asked her to hang out next week but she said she already has plans. I feel like if she knew she was free before hand wouldn't she have asked me to hang out? I'm not sure if I'm reading into it too much or if I'm not reading into it enough. Advice? |
| Question: What do you do when you're in love in with your best friend? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:42 PM PDT I need ways to get over this and not like her anymore. I don't want anything to jeopardize our friendship |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:41 PM PDT I m 14... Almost 15. And I do not have school for the next two weeks because we have spring break. So I wanted to see my friend at his school. His school has security inside. And I m not sure what would happen if I get caught by them. I m in NY btw. |
| Question: Need advice for a friend? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:41 PM PDT A friend of mine is in the grasp of what I believe is a narcissist. I ended my friendship with him because he disrespected me and I've had enough of his abuse towards her. He's trying to tear me and my friend apart. What should I do? |
| Question: Why do people hate shy people? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:40 PM PDT Im shy and I really feel like killing myself. People always ignore or make fun of me because I'm shy. Yes, I've tried ignoring them and being myself but this has gone on since elementary school. People always say it gets better but it's difficult to continue when you have no friends and -your first grade teacher told you she was disappointed in you for "being shy" -a random girl in the hallway rants about how she "hates shy people because she doesnt understand them" -no one listens to you on anything even after they hear what you say -teacher says to "lighten up", "smile", and always reminds you on how shy you are -parents/classmates make fun of you for having no friends or social life I'm sorry I'm complaining. I have tried to make new friends and it has worked until they find out Im a loser with no friends- then they never talk to me again. If I had just a single friend, I'd do so much for them even if it was at the cost of my life. If you've experienced something like this, Id love to hear it. Yeah, whats your kik? |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:40 PM PDT Hi. I currently a freshmen and I go to a private institution in Cincinnati and i'm not happy here at all. I choose to attend this school because it was my dream school. This school is very academically challenging, but that's not the problem. It's too small for my liking, everyone literally knows each other. It's like I'm in high school again. The social aspects of this school sucks,and I don't really have many friends. In the beginning of the semester I was really social, had a lot of friends, and I had a lot of friends. As the semester went on I began to lose my original friends because biology was kicking my *** and I was so focused on passing. Second semester came around and I started to distance myself from a lot of people and I'm not as social as I was last semester. I really don't have many friends besides my 4 guy friends. Basically, I'm really not happy at this school and I've really been thinking about leaving. I'm a whole lot happier at home and I think it would be better if I transferred to a state school. I will say I love the class sizes and the people I've met here. It makes me really sad thinking about leaving them, but I'm not sure if that's a good enough reason to stay at a school I don't love. |
| Question: How to make new friends at a new school? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:21 PM PDT |
| Question: What does this mean?? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:18 PM PDT somebody told me I have "really funny tricks" what do you suppose she means by this? |
| Question: My ex boyfriend is acting like a jerk to my friends and I.. How do I handle this? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 01:11 PM PDT There are about eight people in my friend group and this kid Jonas and I started to like each other and he asked me out so of course I said yes but a few weeks later I realized we were a terrible match. He's really passive aggressive and acts like he's mad in a "funny-joking" kind of way but he really is mad and treating everyone badly. I want to ultimate punch him all the way to Norway but our group is super chill and has never had a dramatic incident so I don't want to start anything. I'm pretty sure he's making everybody hate him, not just me. So what do I do to get him the hoo ha away from us? |
| Question: Should I go to the prom? Or a bluegrass festival instead? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:57 PM PDT I just found out that there will be a bluegrass music festival on the same weekend as my senior prom, and my favorite band (Flatt Lonesome) will be playing there. If any guy asks me to prom, should I just tell him that I'm not going, and I'll be at the bluegrass festival instead? Would he want to go to that with me instead? |
| Question: My friend always lies? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:38 PM PDT We are all about 21 years old. My buddy constantly lies about stories when we were teenagers in front of his girlfriend. I know it's just to impress her to put off this "bad boy" image but the thing is they have been dating since we were all 16. It gets really annoying sometimes. The stories are stuff like how we apparently when we were 14 we used to run in the beer store and run out without paying, We once got chased by the cops for beating up a drug dealer, We got drunk , stole the principles car and ditched in the river, He once got jumped and ended up beating all 7 dudes up, and even fake fights with people who don't even exist. Why does he do this? I forgot to add he claims when He was 13 he was put in rehab for doing coke but escaped by stealing a security guards car. I knew him when he was 13 and I am 100 percent positive that never happened |
| Question: I think I'm in love with my best friend. Help!? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:34 PM PDT I'm a 14 year old boy and my best friend is this girl named Alice. I think I'm in love with her but I don't want to be! I need tips on how to not like her anymore, or if not how to break it to her slowly and not have this thing ruin our friendship |
| Question: Can you find someone just by their real name on snapchat? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:33 PM PDT This would be so much easier to add friends |
| Question: Worst 16th Birthday? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:32 PM PDT Okay so basically My Birthday is on the 23rd of March and my dad is travelling to China for a week, he's travelling on the 22nd (tomorrow) and my friends don't care, (as if I have friends) Even the one I called my best friend didn't even care or say Happy birthday, I feel sorry for my mum I don't know why... Since today was the Mother's day I bought her lots of things she was so happy and she actually cried I felt so bad for her. I love her so much, still my Birthday is ruined what can I do I have severe depression because of lots of problems including this problem... any ideas? |
| Question: What should I do about a girl at work who likes to intimidate people by cussing? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 12:27 PM PDT If you confront her and let her know that she is doing wrong, she will bully you and she will try to intimidate you, but when shes comes to confront me that i am doing wrong she thinks she is doing a good thing? But when she confronts me when i am doing wrong, she is like a bully. |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:45 AM PDT I don't have even guys friends and I need that really I don't know why I'm like that ! |
| Question: Why does he act intrested face to face only? Or is he even interested at all? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:39 AM PDT There is this guy who I will often catch looking at me and quickly looking away. In person we share personal things about ourselves and he claims he does not tell anyone else his life stuff. When we talk in person we maintain eye contact and he is full of smiles. The downside to this all is that he does not text me unless I text him first. Or at times he simply does not reply to my text. What is really going on here, am I over thinking his intrest in me? |
| Question: Planning a surprise party but there are conflicts? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:39 AM PDT I m planning a surprise party for my best friend who s birthday is in May and I wanted to have it at my house since it was my idea and I already confirmed everything with my family so how do I politely tellmy friend that I would rather have it at my house than his house? |
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| Question: Disrespectful friend? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:32 AM PDT I've known my "best" friend for around 7 years and it that time he has stolen from me on numerous cases in the past, none of which he admitted, the most recent incident being around a year ago when I was 20. I've forgiven him each time. In general, although I can laugh and have phone with him at times, our conversations generally hold mostly superficial value because we don't have a ton in common and he has a tendency of being sort of close-minded and ignorant to a point where it gets annoying. Most recently, we were both hanging out with another friend, and as I'm playing a video game with that friend my "best" friend randomly leaves without a simple word of goodbye or good night to either of us. Nothing happened for him to have been mad at us so I found this very disrespectful. The list goes on. I keep trying to maintain this "friendship" but it doesn't seem worth it and my friend seems to think less of it than I do. It also feels like we've grown apart and as I'm getting more mature he still has a lot of immature tendencies. Do you think it's time I call it quits? Should I just delete my friend off everything a move on with life, do it more discreetly, or try to work things out? I appreciate any advice, thanks. |
| Question: My friend hates me for no reason? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:24 AM PDT Okay. So we've been friends for two years... Best friends, we've been so close. But lately, she's been acting off to me. I asked her what's up, and this is what she said to me. 'I hate how you're so happy. I hate how you sleep in class, you think you're badass but honey you're not, it just makes you seem stupid. You don't give a **** about your grades, you don't want a future? It's funny how you're not over your ex, get the **** over him. You laugh at everything even when it's not funny. You don't look at the real side of me. I don't want to be your friend anymore, it doesn't come from the heart. I don't like being around negative people. It broke my heart and we made up the next day. My ex texted me all of this **** and I put on my bio on instagram, 'i don't people like you in my life' and I shouldn't have because my best friend thought it was directed at her, and said 'we don't need people like you either ***** ***.' and i explained to her that it was never intended at anyone in our group, but now all of my friends hate me because of her... She's trying to ruin me and I don't know what to do. I want to switch schools but I don't want to show her that I'm giving up. I blocked her on all social media. What should I do if she's influencing all of my friends? :/ |
| Question: Why is my friend such a ******? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 11:22 AM PDT |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:55 AM PDT I just started high school this year and a lot of my friends have left me. Even someone I called my best friend (for 10 years) that I took to concerts and got her to meet her idol twice. My other best friend that has known me for my whole life (I'm 15) sits with me at lunch almost everyday (she's 17). Every school morning I hangout with her best friend and she doesn't mind me doing that at all. So her friend and I have gotten to know each other pretty well this year. Every morning (for the past month or two) a girl I have science with has been following me around. She has a hard time socially (I'm guessing) but she's been following me around non-stop. I honestly don't want to be friends with her because she's not really a nice person. I lost control on Thursday morning (I had an overwhelming day on Wednesday as well as first thing in the morning) and told her (somewhat loudly) I was sorry and I wanted to be alone. Well that started a bit of a scene. She then ran off. My friend I hangout with in the morning made sure I was okay. I went to the social worker and she said that I need to lighten up. She's worried I'm not making new friends (I've made a lot of new friends). The past few times I've seen the social worker she reminds me my best friend is graduating this year. I told my friend that. My best friend wasn't mpress that the social worker said that. Another guidance counselor reminded me that my friend won't be at this school next year as well when I met with him. |
| Question: Which town should I say is my hometown? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:54 AM PDT Town #1: Both parents lived here when I was born, my Dad still does and so do his parents. I went to public elementary and middle school here. Had a few friends and was somewhat active in the community. Town #2: My Mom lived here from when I was age 1 to 12. Never went to school here, didn't have any friends here, wasn't really active in the community. However I personally identify with this town the most. Town #3: Mom moved here when I was 13 and still does. I went to high school here. I had quite a few friends and was very involved with the community. |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:52 AM PDT My so called "best friend " is getting rude. I dont like to use the term 'best friend ' because it holds a lot of weight, but im not sure what else to call it. Anyway, we've been close for a bit. However, she gets attitudes. Shes not as sweet as she was. We went to a concert back in Nov. And it was fun. Someone left their ticket and the clerk gave it to me for free. I didnt have to pay for that or for our transportation (because she had metro passes). Recently, we were talking about the concert and she got an attitude and said "you paid for nothing "..... there wasn't any room for me to pay!! Then, i remember we went to the thrift store (i had money) and her mother volunteered to pay for my clothes and wouldn't take no for an answer. So today, she looked at my jacket (one of the clothes from the store) and said "thats mine. I bought it basically. Well my mom did, but you know what i mean". One day i bought a jacket for myself that she liked and she got mad because i didnt let her borrow it first. She gives me A LOT of attitude out of the blue. She always thinks shes right. She can bever agree to disagree. She feels entitled to a lot. She is spoiled. I give her rides, walk her home, paid for her food at MY birthday dinner with MY money. But i dont complain. Should i end it? Im scared to communicate with her cause she may be a jerk about it. |
| Question: As much as I want to help, I don't know how? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:50 AM PDT My boyfriend and I only know each other online. He's also biologically female but identifies mainly as male. I really love him but I don't know what to do at this point. Someone on Instagram who we thought to be our friend started drama with him, calling him nasty names, this person sent people to talk to him, one of which gave him death threats. We've tried to resolve the issue but it keeps getting worse and worse. Keep in mind we're 13 and the person who started this mess is a senior in high school. The one who started it keeps telling other people that my boyfriend was the one who started it, and when my boyfriend tells them his side of the story he gets called a liar. It's possible the one who started the drama has photoshopped screenshots. I don't really know. But my question is, how do I fix it without losing more online friends? |
| Question: Trying to have sex with best friend again? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:35 AM PDT going to a naked spa with my friend that I've had sex with before but months ago. and we don't talk about it. would us going to a naked spa be a good sign that she would be down to again? and how do I just bring something like that up when we're naked lol. |
| Question: How to deal with flakey friends? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:34 AM PDT i have a really really close friend who 9/10 times flakes. sometimes its actually permissible, she forgot she had other plans (she ALWAYS forgets she has other plans so that gets irritating too), she sometimes forgets to ask her parents to go out but tells me they say yes until the day she says she forgot to ask and her parents want to go out, and sometimes she straight out turns me down for someone else even though its something like school work that IS GRADED. I'm really sensitive about being stood up as Im really close to her and I thought we would both do the same as I would for her (always ask my parents before-hand, remember plans before saying yes or no, not standing me up WHEN ITS FOR SCHOOL WORK) as well as just apologising in general? she doesn't apologise at all for her flakiness she just says she forgot (her go -to phrase). I'm really annoyed, any advice? |
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| Question: What do you do when your best friend attempts to commit suicide? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:29 AM PDT I used to live in Georgia where I made my best friend who shall go unnamed. I had to move away from Georgia about five months ago, therefore leaving him and my girlfriend behind. Today I found out that he is in the hospital because he attempted to commit suicide. I am only 14 and so is he and I am living 684 miles away so I have no means to go visit him. I don't know what to say because he isn't responding to anyone and I don't know why he would attempt to kill himself. I am honestly terrified for my best friend. I just don't know what to do. My girlfriend is very emotional and we both treated him like family so now she is very scared and almost ready to kill herself as well. I don't know what to do. I am desperately trying to get a hold of my friend and I'm trying to encourage my girlfriend and keep her feeling positive for him and I'm praying and praying but I don't know what to do further. Please help me and my friend. |
| Question: Is it wrong for a 20 year old lesbian to be friends with a 31 year old guy? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 10:17 AM PDT Okay so I'm a 20 year old lesbian who has a girlfriend that is 19. So I recently started becoming really good friends with this guy name Matt. I met him through my work. We immediately clicked. And he's just always been such a good friend to me since I've known him. He's the most selfless person I have ever met. He's one of those friends who will just sit back and listen to all your problems and will help you in any way. And he knew I had a girlfriend, which was totally cool with him he said my friendship is all he needs. And offered my girlfriend to hang out with us. He also said he wouldn't be a true friend if he tried wrecking my relationship. I guess my girlfriend eventually got jealous of our friendship and started accusing Me of cheating on her with him and him liking me. Which was completely false. She then one day snapped on me and said its him or me.she even got her parents involved and they told me it was wrong of me to be hanging out with him. So I haven't got to talk to him anymore which really sucks cause he was like the only friend I have. All my other friends are so fake. I just want to know anyone else's outlook on this. Is it wrong for me and Matt to be friends or is my girl just being jealous and insecure. Please people tell me what yall think and what I should do. |
| Question: Will I ever see my friend Tara again? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:57 AM PDT |
| Question: Please rewrite this making it sound a little better? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:33 AM PDT I know you don't want anything to do with me, I'm not asking for a friendship and don't expect you to even speak to me anymore but I just need to know that you forgive me so that I can move on and be ok with myself |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:31 AM PDT So in my country,part of the army and schools go on parade. My best friend and i went there for something like 'auditions' and i got a part there but my best friend didn't. She was really upset because she was really excited when she found out that she could take part. She was about to cry...i was really sad seeing her like that... I asked her if she wants to talk to the teacher who is responsible of the parade and ask him if she can try again... She said no because she thinks that the other girls will make fun of her... I told her that she should try and don't give attention to them but she doesn't want to... She said that she changed her mind and doesn't want to take part of the parade anymore,but i know that she lowkey wants it. I thought that it would be better if i quit so we could go together and just watch the parade... I asked my mom and she told me that i shouldn't quit and said 'what would your friend do if she got the part and not you?' but my father said that i should quit if it doesn't mean a lot to me... Well i was really excited too but i feel awful that she didn't got the part...i would feel like a terrible friend. Please help me make a decision...:/ |
| Question: How to survive school when your best friend isnt there? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:29 AM PDT My best friend is on vacation and is missing school for an entire week and i really dont know what to do without her in my classes and lunch. Yes I have others friends but it just so happens one of my other really good two friends is very sick this week and the other is mad at me and now wont sit with me or talk to me even though ive tried several times to say sorry. I have several acquaintances but very few of them are in my classes and they all sit with their friends that I dont know very well and it would just be kind of awkward. Im most nervous for my first class of the day because my best friend always saves me a seat (usually all the seats are taken ten minutes before class starts and we have to go into a completely different classroom to get a chair and its kinda embarrassing) but since she wont be there im worried there won t be any room for me at my usual table since there s a five person limit at each table and i might not have a place to sit. I really dont want to sit alone at lunch either but since im fighting with one friend and the other is sick and my best friend isnt there i have no idea where to go! I could just sit at some of my acquaintances tables but most of them are cheerleaders and the cheerleader table is usually completely packed and i dont want to make anyone move. I just dont know how im going to survive this week without looking like a friendless loser. Any tips?? |
| Question: Can someone please rewrite this?!?!? Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:22 AM PDT I know you probably hate me and want nothing to do with me. I'm not asking you to speak or even to consider me as a friend but I do need to know that you forgive me so that I can move on and be ok with myself ( feel free to add additional things) |
| Posted: 21 Mar 2016 09:15 AM PDT they like me : D the secret is to listen to them....dont worry its fun cuz they tell a lot of lies hahaha |
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